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Seniors Card
          Magazine

In this issue:
Through
the Decades
2018 Victorian
Seniors Festival
Staying active
Puzzle

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       Turning 60 is a special age for Japanese people
 and marks a new beginning or birth. Called Kanreki, it’s seen
      as a second chance to reflect on what to build on
                 and what to leave behind.
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CONTENTS

                                            Features                                        p. 40    Pilates, Yoga, Tai Chi
                                                                                                     pathway to active mind, body
                                            p. 8     Through the Decades                             and soul
                                                     Four seniors share their stories
                                                     across the decades                     p. 57    101 years of life lived to the full

                                            p. 24    2018 Victorian                         Also in this issue
                                                     Seniors Festival
                                                     Get social at this year’s Festival     p. 6 & 19 Commissioner
                                                                                                      for Senior Victorians
                                            p. 27    Proudly dancing to the
                                                     LGBTI beat                             p. 23    Receiving super care
                                                     The Coming Back out Ball                        out of hours

                                            p. 35    Hitting the right chords               p. 28    Staying active
                                                     towards 60
    Message                                          Aboriginal singer songwriter
                                                                                            p. 31    Men’s Health and Fitness

                                                     Robbie Bundle reflects                 p. 44    Victorian Senior of the
from the Minister                                                                                    Year Awards

“Ageing is not ‘lost youth’ – but a new     Privacy                                         which may arise from you relying on
stage of opportunity and strength.”         The Seniors Card program collects               any information in this publication and
    This quote, by American writer          and uses your personal information              enclosed material, and does not represent
Betty Friedan, encapsulates the             for the purpose of administering the            or warrant that any service or product
theme of the 2018 Seniors Card              Seniors Card program. This includes             specified in this publication or enclosed
Magazine – staying vital.                   mailing to you your Seniors Card, free          material is of a particular standard or
    Inside this year’s edition, you’ll      travel vouchers, publications, surveys,         is suitable to your needs, and has not
find stories about senior Victorians        government information and special              assessed whether the services or product
making remarkable contributions             offers from participating businesses.           is of a particular standard.
to their communities.                       The Seniors Card program respects                   Before purchasing any goods or
    You’ll also find information about      your privacy. If you would like to read         services or relying on any information
the Seniors Card program, which offers      our ‘Seniors Card: Your privacy’ notice         referred to in this publication or enclosed
discounts on goods and services             please call 1300 797 210 or visit us on         material, you should make your own
from more than 4,000 participating          www.seniorsonline.vic.gov.au.                   enquiries about whether the goods or
businesses across our state.                    If you would prefer not to receive          services are of good quality and are
    And you’ll find everything you          the Seniors Card publications in future         suitable for your needs, and if necessary,
need to know about the 36th                 or would like to access or update your          seek independent financial, legal or
Victorian Seniors Festival.                 personal information, please call Seniors       medical advice.
    The theme for this year’s festival      Card on 1300 797 210. The Seniors Card              Except where otherwise indicated, the
is Get Social – so this October, come       program is part of the Department of            images in this publication show models
along and experience the full range         Health and Human Services. For more             and illustrative settings only, and do
of exciting arts, music and culture.        information on the department’s privacy         not necessarily depict actual services,
    Senior Victorians lead lives full       policy please visit www.seniorsonline.vic.      facilities or recipients of services. This
of meaning and opportunity.                 gov.au/support/privacy.                         publication may contain images of
    I’m proud that Seniors Card                                                             deceased Aboriginal and Torres Strait
Magazine is telling their stories.          Disclaimer                                      Islander peoples.
    I hope you enjoy this year’s edition.   This publication and the enclosed                   Where the term ‘Aboriginal’ is used it
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          Staying connected
        using your local library
                                                                                                    Libraries
                                                                                                   After Dark:
                                                                                           from the gambling lounge
                                                                                           to the community lounge
                                                                                               From board games and film
                                                                                           screenings to decluttering workshops
                                                                                           and knitting groups, four Melbourne
                                                                                           libraries have been open until 10pm every
                                                                                           Thursday night, providing community
                                                                                           lounges that local residents are
                                                                                           embracing with gusto.
                                                                                               Including libraries in the Preston,
                                                                                           Mill Park, Glenroy, and Broadmeadows
     Commissioner for Senior Victorians                                                    areas – this new program is the brainchild
                                                                                           of Judy Spokes from Moreland City
                                                                                           Council and Councillor Sue Rennie from
     Libraries have been around for           libraries to read, learn, borrow books,      Darebin Council, offering safe, warm and
thousands of years, from the Great            movies and access the internet. We take      welcoming venues as an alternative to the
Library of Alexandria constructed around      our children and grandchildren to baby       pokies. “One gentleman told me he was
the 3rd century BC to the Harvard Library     rhyme time and story time sessions. We       going to take his friends to the casino that
in the US with some 10 million volumes,       go to try new crafts, exhibit artworks,      night, and when he heard about this, he
the vast collections of knowledge stored      celebrate culture and research family and    came here instead,” says Judy.
in libraries never ceases to astonish.        community history.                               Funded by the Responsible Gambling
     I wonder if library users in ancient         A gathering place, a quiet place, a      Foundation to reduce gambling harm in
times would have envisaged the evolution      comfortable and welcoming space –            areas of high pokies losses, there are
of libraries to the present day, keeping      libraries are great places to go if you're   hopes the program will be scaled up, so
pace with changes in education as well        feeling a bit lonely, or just want to read   more libraries will can take part and more
as society and the way we consume             the paper or a magazine and I encourage      people can benefit.
information. Providing a social space for     you to pop into your local library and see
informal learning, they’re the original hot   what's on.
desk or shared office space.                      I am also proud to announce I have
     However Public libraries are more        been chosen as an ambassador for              For more information about your local
than stacks of books. They are fantastic      the upcoming Victorian public libraries       library visit the Public Library Victoria
social and cultural activity hubs that play   campaign: Libraries Change Lives. To                      Network website
an important role in our communities.         help raise awareness of the incredible         www.publiclibrariesvictoria.net.au
Free to attend, open and welcoming to         work these institutions do in their               email execofficer@plvn.net.au
all members of the community, the 275         communities. Keep an eye out for more                or call your local Council
municipal libraries across Victoria provide   information about this campaign by
spaces for creativity to thrive.              following me on Facebook at
     Has it been decades since you were       www.facebook.com/
last in a library? These days we go to        SeniorVicCommissioner.

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                                                         a Learn Local in Sunshine. Through the        “The course could just
     Seniors                                             Adult, Community and Further Education
                                                                                                         as aptly be named –
                                                         Board, the Victorian Government
 connecting with IT                                      funds around 300 community-based              pass IT back – as some
                                                         Learn Locals across Victoria to deliver        seniors share their IT
 The play on words in the title of their                 education and training programs.
 technology course for seniors perfectly                     YouthNow’s CEO Colleen Bergin says        knowledge with their 27
 describes the intergenerational values                  intergenerational knowledge sharing is       year old trainer Amanda.”
 underpinning YouthNow’s “Pass IT on”                    what has made the course so popular.
 course.                                                     “At first we thought it would be a           Now, she says, her world has
    Although some days, the course                       one-way flow of passing on knowledge         opened as she searches for recipes and
 could just as aptly be named – pass IT                  from young people to older people, but       gardening tips and reads the news – all
 back – as some seniors share their IT                   we were delighted to see the knowledge       translated to Chinese – on her computer.
 knowledge with their 27-year-old trainer                flowing both ways,” Colleen says.                “My English isn’t very good and
 Amanda McDonald.                                            “The seniors just love it,” she          the teachers are so patient with me –
    “Sometimes they actually teach me,”                  says.“Many say their children or             showing me slowly. The teachers are very
 Amanda laughs. “One woman showed                        grandchildren don’t have the patience to     nice, I am so happy there,” Jane says.
 me how to use the filters in Instagram – I              show them how to use theirsmartphones.”
 didn’t even know Instagram had filters.”                    “Many tell us they appreciate the one-
    And that is what happens, says                       on-one style of the class as our young
 Amanda, when course participants start                  volunteers move around and show them            For further information please visit
 gaining confidence with technology,                     how to use their smartphones, or how to                   Seniors Online
 they start playing around on their                      Skype their grandchildren or use email.”               http:/j.mp/scm-2018
 smartphones and computers and get                           Before she started attending the Pass
 brave enough to discover new things.                    IT on program 18-months ago, Jane Ding,
    Pass IT on is an initiative of YouthNow,             68, didn’t know how to use a computer.

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                                      Through
                                    the Decades
                     The Sixties – The getting of wisdom
                  and passing it down to the next generations
When describing the importance of            young people the value system of           and wisdom so we can be closer
community elders imparting their             respect for humanity and the value of      to the values of Ubuntu, which is
wisdom and experience to younger             structures that enhance and strengthen     behaving well towards others or acting
generations, Dr Apollo S. Nsubuga-           each other for the betterment of all.      in ways that benefit the community.
Kyobe turns to the Ubuntu philosophy.            “When you have the knowledge               “My elders passed on many
     Ubuntu from the Nguni language has      of older people – the way they have        stories with lessons on how to be
several definitions, and at the heart of     seen the world – it’s important to have    resilient, flexible, compassionate
each definition is the connectedness         systems and structures that can impart     and understanding of others. These
that exists or should exist between          that knowledge in a humanistic way that    lessons became vital when I came to
people. Apollo sees the handing down         forgives and respects and improves.        Australia as a young man to study.”
of wisdom from older to younger                  “This handing down of wisdom;              Apollo says the gift of ageing has
generations as one of the Ubuntu values      the passing down of this repository        provided him with more vigour and
of connecting with each other in ways        of knowledge through storytelling,         excitement about the possibilities
that benefit and grow the community.         mentoring and role modelling can           of change, of what can be done,
     Apollo, 67, a university lecturer in    benefit and strengthen all communities     not what can’t be done to make the
Management at La Trobe University            and not just African communities.”         world a better place for everyone.
and vice-chair of the African Think              Apollo has fond memories of                The father of five and grandfather
Tank, is excited by harnessing the           hearing stories from community elders      of two, has no plans of retiring from
experience of older Africans like himself    by the fire-side as a boy. He says         anything – academia or advocacy.
– who have decades of experience             today’s challenge for seniors is to find       “I have to keep going because
of living in Australia – in helping to       ways to deliver “fire-side wisdom”         what this journey has shown me is that
create inclusive and sustainable             using modern communication styles          whatever I have done to drive change it
economic and social opportunities            that are relevant to young people.         is a drop in the ocean and that there is
for Victorians of African heritage.              “That is today’s challenge             so much more to be done,” Apollo says.
     Growing up in Bweruga, a village in     whether we are in Australia or Africa          “As long as I can keep putting
southern Uganda, Apollo was immersed         – the challenge for older people is to     one foot in front of the other, I want
in a culture where the older people in the   understand how younger people work,        to continue to work collaboratively
village were seen as sources of wisdom.      what makes them tick, so we can            with people and groups and
     “Similar to other waves of migration,   more effectively pass on our wisdoms       governments, not only for the
the African communities’ integration into    in a way they will understand and in       needs of the African community,
Victoria has presented some challenges,      a way that benefits them,” he says.        but for the needs of humanity.
particularly for our young people,”              “There are two worlds – younger            “I am not thinking of sitting back
he says. “For some communities that          and older – and it’s important for us      and doing nothing when there is still
can mean that some traditions, such          to always keep the bridge between          so much to do. My biggest problem
as the role of elders are disrupted.”        the two open. That is our challenge        is how am I going to fit it all in.”
     “That’s where I see the Ubuntu          as seniors or elders to find a way to
philosophy as a pathway for teaching         pass on knowledge and experience

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 “Some people think they are old. Rather than looking at your
 age as a reason to hold you back, you should be asking: ‘what
  can I do that’s going to keep me going for the next 10 years
                   better than if I did nothing”.
                                                            — Maria Baade

                                      The Seventies –
                          Fine tuning a soundtrack for retirement
     Maria Baade was nervous about              isn’t a check-out ticket and she             because they think they are too old,
retiring. That’s why a whisker before           strongly advises having a strategy           or that other people might think they
her 70th birthday she went out and              or plan in place before retirement.          are. They look at people walking
bought a baby grand piano in preparing               “You need to take up a new interest,”   or running and think I couldn’t do
for her new life away from paid work.           she says. “ You can’t just retire from       that – and they are not willing to try.
     Now 71, Maria says the baby grand          something you have loved, and enjoyed        But I have found that no one judges
was part of her grand retirement                and worked hard in and then all of a         you. Regardless of age, limitations
planning – a plan that ensured she              sudden stop, and have nothing. Some          or appearance, I have found people
would be ready mentally, physically,            people do that and they fall apart.          encourage you all the way,” she says.
socially and emotionally. Having                Well that wasn’t going to be me – so             “And being active is so good for your
never played a note in her life, she            I thought I’ll take up music – because       health - it’s good for your blood pressure,
decided she would engage her brain              I love music – and then I found new          for your heart, it’s good for everything.
in learning a new skill and enrol in            friends and that led to running.”            And it’s good mentally – you come back
a piano group to meet new people,                    Running? Yes, Maria now runs            from a run and you think I’ve been out in
and build new social connections.               marathons after a few 60-year-olds in        the world, I’ve seen people, I’ve achieved
     Working full time as workplace             her piano group asked her to join their      something – and you feel great.”
safety manager for a manufacturing              social running group. Eighteen months            Between spending time with her
company was a job she “loved”,                  after starting gradually she now runs        three grandchildren, piano groups,
yet Maria realised on approaching               three times a week, and made third place     running and the many social spin-offs
retirement that the majority of her social      in the 70-years-and-above category           from those activities, Maria has shifted
connections were with work colleagues.          of the Lara Fun Run last November.           her gears into another level of life.
     “At first I hated the idea of retiring,”        “If you had told me 10 years ago            “Some people think they are old.
she recalls. “It took me ages to                I’d be running in marathons in my 70s        Rather than looking at your age as a
make the decision because I loved               I’d have laughed you out of the room,        reason to hold you back, you should
my job, and I loved being part of the           because I never really liked running,” she   be asking: ‘what can I do that’s going
company, and being part of their ideas          says. “But it doesn’t have to be running,    to keep me going for the next 10
for improvement, and I was worried              it can be a walking group, a riding group,   years better than if I did nothing’.
that things would go on without                 something active that suits you.”            You need to ask: ‘what’s good for my
me – as they should – but I wouldn’t                 “I think some older people don’t        mind? What’s good for my body?’.”
be a part of anything anymore.”                 join active groups because they feel             “I’m going to keep doing
     Maria, who is living a rich and            self-conscious and have a fear of            what I’m doing until I can’t do it
active life in Geelong, says retirement         getting out there in front of people         anymore – and then I’ll walk.”

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                “It’s a privilege to have the opportunity
          to make a difference. It keeps me active in both mind
                     and body. And I love the work.”
                                                        — Maureen Fontana

                          The Eighties –
     Too happily busy in retirement to think about getting old
    When Maureen Fontana retired at 74            “I loved my job working in the            healthy both physically and mentally –
from her job as a carer in the disability     disability sector and when I retired I just   it’s a great opportunity to help people,
sector she felt she was far too young to      knew I needed something to do,” she           to make a difference and to use your
be “sitting at home doing nothing” and        says. “I had always had such a busy life      wisdom and life experience.”
so she applied to be a community visitor      and I wanted to keep my mind occupied              Maureen says that with a large family
for the Office of the Public Advocate.        and also give something back to the           there is always something happening,
    These days the 84-year-old mother         community. I didn’t want to retire and        but she also likes to do her own thing in
of 10, grandmother of 18 and great-           so I knew I needed more from life when        maintaining her independence. She lives
grandmother of 10 spends a lot of her         I retired.”                                   in a retirement village, grows her own
time as a volunteer regional convenor             But Maureen believes she gets back        vegetables, maintains a healthy diet and
and senior community visitor for the          a lot more than she gives.                    is very close with her family and loves
Office of the Public Advocate. Her role           “It’s a privilege to have the             time with them.
includes visiting people with disabilities    opportunity to make a difference. It’s             “I am very fulfilled and it’s a really
who live in group homes, writing reports,     stimulating my mind the whole time, and       happy time of my life - I still drive my
attending meetings and training new           I love the work,” she says. “It keeps me      car, I still write reports, I still get out and
volunteer community visitors in ensuring      active in both mind and body and that in      about with friends and family - I find life
the residents are receiving quality care,     turn keeps me healthy and young. I never      is just great, actually it’s wonderful. I
their human rights are being upheld and       think about my age and when another           don’t feel anywhere near my age.”
they remain free from abuse, neglect          year comes around I think: ‘Oh I’m a               Advice to people turning 80?
and exploitation.                             year older’.”                                 “Stay active, stay involved in your
    It was in this role as a volunteer that       “At every age it’s important to be        community, join groups, volunteer if
Maureen was a finalist in the Leadership      active and involved, but it’s even more       you can, and maintain a healthy diet,”
category in the 2017 Premier’s Volunteer      important the older you get, not only         Maureen advises.
Champions Awards.                             does volunteering keep you active and

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“It gives me a great sense of satisfaction to be able to do things
           to help others, especially for those patients
                  who have no family support.”
                                                               — Olive

                          The Nineties –
 A lifetime of caring as a nurse then moving into volunteering
             keeps Olive on the go into her nineties
    It’s the weekend before the Medical       in hospitals. Through her nursing                 “All her life, she’s put the care of
Mission Aide’s Autumn Festival in             career she lived in Western Australia,       others before her own by offering them
Balwyn, and Olive is at home cooking          Queensland and the Northern Territory,       her support; especially towards those
up a storm and potting plants for the         working for the medical boards in            who can be at their most vulnerable,”
fundraising stall at the annual event. Four   each state, and nursing vulnerable and       Kate says. “She inspires others every
date and walnut loaves, a dozen jars of       disadvantaged Australians in many            day with her bubbly disposition and
lemon butter, two lemon slices, a tray        remote locations. Returning to Victoria,     her caring nature. Clinical staff at St
of biscuits, a potted maiden hair, two        she undertook a number of roles              George’s, especially young nursing
potted parsleys and four Pelargoniums         including as Matron in charge of Kilmore     students are truly inspired by Olive
later, her work is done.                      Hospital for many years and as an infant     - who has spent her lifetime helping
    Olive wants to get things moving for      welfare nurse in East Kew. The mother        others. Everyone knows Olive and
Wednesday’s stall because she won’t           of one and grandmother of two, retired       looks forward to Mondays, when
have time during the week, because            from the paid workforce in 1982 and has      she spends four hours on the ward.
her weeks are always crowded. Every           been volunteering ever since.                She lifts everyone’s spirits.”
Monday she spends two to three hours              In March Olive had to stay home for           Olive says she is very fortunate
visiting sick and frail aged patients at St   a week with her feet up to help heal a       to have kept fit and well to be
George’s Health Service in Kew, and on        small ulcer on her foot. “I was sick to      able to volunteer. She believes
Wednesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays           death of sitting at home and knitting – I    it’s important to stay active, eat
she volunteers at the Medical Mission         couldn’t wait for my foot to heal because    well and look after others.
Opportunity Shop in Balwyn.                   I have so much to do,” she says.                  “It’s important to keep active – to
    One of the residents at the                   “By being a volunteer I am still         keep going,” she says. “ If you like
retirement village where Olive lives in an    involved in the caring profession which      dancing, then go dancing, if you enjoy
independent unit, asked her if she was        I enjoy,” she says. “It gives me a great     gardening or walking then keep doing
new to the village as she hadn’t seen her     sense of satisfaction to be able to do       it,” she advises. “And you don’t have
around before. “I told her I’ve been here     things to help others, especially for        to retire if you don’t want to; you can
15 years, but I’m in and out like a Yo-Yo,    those patients who have no family            work part time or work as a volunteer,
always on the go with my volunteering         support.”                                    because working is good for your brain,
commitments,” she says.                           Kate Bellamy, the coordinator of         it keeps you socialising with people and
    Olive, 92, a former nurse who             Volunteer Services at St Vincent’s           it keeps you active and healthy.”
trained at the Gippsland Base Hospital        Hospital, says Olive astounds the clinical        Olive says some people when they
in Sale in 1942, has been volunteering        staff at St George’s – a campus of St        reach a certain age think they “can’t do
at St George’s for 18 years. She says         Vincent’s Hospital – with her bright         this, or can’t so that”. But “Why can’t
her nursing background steered her            and caring nature and her unwavering         you,” is her reply. “Why not try?”
towards spending her retirement as a          commitment to enhancing the lives of
volunteer visiting sick and aged people       others around her.

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SPECIAL FEATURE

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INFORMATION FEATURE

              Are you scam savvy?
                                                                                                speak to them, ask them to leave. If they
                                                                                                refuse, they are breaking the law.

                                                                                                Investment scam
                                                                                                Scammers typically offer ‘get rich quick’
                                                                                                schemes and investments based on
                                                                                                ‘secret’ information or special software.
                                                                                                They claim to be able to predict the
                                                                                                outcomes of sports or share trading.
                                                                                                After you pay their expensive fees, you
                                                                                                will discover that their claims of past
                                                                                                performance and guarantees about
                                                                                                future results are false.
                                                                                                    Tip: Do not let anyone pressure you
                                                                                                into making investment decisions, ask
                                                                                                for written information and always get
                                                                                                independent financial advice.

                                                                                                Online selling scam
                                                                                                Scammers pose as sellers and post fake
Not long after retirement, Roger                  Common scams                                  advertisements offering non-existent
received an email from a portfolio                                                              products for low prices. These may
manager about an investment
                                               and tips to avoid them                           appear on genuine websites, online
opportunity. It couldn’t have come at a         – Consumer Affairs                              classifieds and online auction sites
better time - he’d been thinking about                Victoria                                      Tip: When buying items online, use
smart ways to invest his hard-earned                                                            secure payment options such as Paypal or
money. The manager promised Roger            Telephone/rebate scam                              credit card as you may be able to seek a
quick and high returns if he followed his    Scammers pretending to be from a                   chargeback from your bank or credit card
advice. All he had to do was pay a fee       government, bank or other well-known               provider if you lose money in a scam.
and leave the rest up to the manager.        institution will call, email or text you, saying
    Martha was forced into early             that you are owed money. However, first            Romance scam
retirement due to a back injury. Money       you must pay an administration fee or              Scammers approach you on legitimate
wasn’t tight, but the medical expenses       similar to ‘reclaim’ the money.                    dating websites and build an online
were piling up so when she got an email          Tip: Watch out for unsolicited emails,         relationship with you, often over weeks,
saying the government owed her $5,000        phone calls or letters saying you have             months or years. Once the relationship
in overpaid taxes, it was a dream come       unclaimed funds or are owed money.                 is established, they will start asking you
true. All she had to do was pay a ‘reclaim                                                      for money.
fee’ into a Western Union account and        Travelling con men scam                                Tip: Avoid sending money, personal
the money would be hers.                     Travelling con men are dodgy tradesmen             or financial details to someone you have
    While Roger and Martha are fictional,    who knock on doors of homes and small              never met in person, especially if you are
unfortunately these types of scenarios       businesses, offering to do maintenance             looking for love online.
are real, and a warning of how easy it       work. They may ask for cash before
can be to fall for a scam, according to      starting work and frequently disappear as
Consumer Affairs Victoria.                   soon as you pay them. If they do any work,
    Scammers are professional criminals,     it is often unfinished or of a poor standard.           For more information please visit
using sophisticated tricks to dupe           They move quickly and usually only give              Seniors Online http:/j.mp/scm-2018
thousands of Victorians every year.          a first name and mobile number – so                  To report a scam, contact Consumer
Scammers are also hard to find and           contacting them afterwards is difficult.            Affairs Victoria on 1300 55 81 81 or visit:
prosecute, with many based overseas               Tip: If you suspect a travelling con          www.consumer.vic.gov.au/reportascam
or working anonymously from behind           man is knocking, do not answer. If you do
a computer.

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INFORMATION FEATURE

                       Your voice —
                     Trust your choice
                           Commissioner for Senior Victorians
When choosing your enduring power           Sophia. Sophia listened and asked            rights and are equipped with good
of attorney it’s important to trust your    questions to understand Jan’s wishes         information on choosing an attorney.
instincts, says Commissioner for Senior     and preferences - as a long-time friend           Your voice- Trust your choice – is a
Victorians, Gerard Mansour.                 she understood how important privacy         plain-English guide for seniors making
    Although the cautionary tale I am       is to Jan. Sophia said she would be          enduring powers of attorney. The guide
about to tell uses a fictional character    happy to arrange services for Jan if that    – a joint project between the Office of
called Jan, the scenario is based on a      became necessary and if that is what         the Public Advocate and my office, and
series of events that can unfortunately     she wanted.                                  funded by the Victorian Government – is
happen to seniors when choosing their                                                    just one part of an awareness-raising
enduring power of attorney.                                                              campaign to ensure seniors have the
    “Jan” started thinking about               Due to cultural                           support they need when making an
appointing a power of attorney who                                                       enduring power of attorney.
could make personal and financial                and family                                   The guide covers ways to plan
decisions on her behalf, just in case one                                                ahead, how to choose someone you
day there was a situation or a series of      expectations Jan                           trust to make decisions for you, how
events where she would not be able to                                                    to decide what powers to give, how
make those decisions herself.                felt she needed to                          to decide when the powers will start,
    When she raised choosing a power                                                     helpful tips and sample wording for
of attorney with her son, Francis, they      appoint her eldest                          completing the enduring power of
discussed the types of decisions that                                                    attorney form and where to get help.
might be needed to be made, including          son as power of                                Importantly, the enduring message
engaging services to assist Jan with her                                                 is: it’s your voice and trust your choice.
daily living, if that became necessary.            attorney.                             Equipped with the right information,
However, Francis told his mother it                                                      and planning early, is a great way to
would be silly to waste her money paying         Following the conversation              ensure that your wishes are respected
a stranger to care for her when he would    with her friend, Jan appointed               when you are no longer able to
be available to support her and was         Sophia as a power of attorney for            make decisions.
more than willing to assist.                personal and financial decisions.
    Jan explained that she wanted to             This scenario shows how important
maintain her privacy by engaging a          it is that you trust the person or people
professional carer rather than her son.     you appoint, and that they have the              For more information please visit
Francis still insisted that it would be     ability to manage finances well, stay                     Seniors Online
much better for Jan if he looked after      calm in a crisis, are confident to speak              http:/j.mp/scm-2018
her, and said that he was the type of son   up on your behalf and willing to listen to          or call Victorian Legal Aid
that would always care for his mum.         and act on your wishes and preferences                 Ph: (03) 9269 0223.
    While Francis had good intentions,      rather than their own.
Jan’s instincts told her that apart from         As I talk to seniors across Victoria,
not wanting her son to be undertaking       I come across real stories similar to the
personal caring, he was also very busy      pressures faced by Jan. But they are
and maybe unreliable. A little concerned,   stories we hope to hear a lot less as
she decided to run it past her friend,      more seniors become aware of their

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           Never underestimate the risks.
   Last year we saw a 45% increase in the drowning rate of those aged 65 and over
in Victoria. Many drowned as a result of accidental slips, trips and falls into the water.
          That is why the risks around water should never be underestimated.
      Changing fitness levels as we get older can impact our swimming abilities,
                          as too can medication and alcohol.
     Remember to never swim alone, even if you believe you are a great swimmer.
And, if you are someone who enjoys boating, wear a life jacket as it can keep you afloat
                            if needed while help arrives.
Know the risks and how to best prepare yourself to continue to enjoy Victoria’s vast and
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INFORMATION FEATURE

         Drawing on personal
        experience of gambling
          harm to help others
Elizabeth Papettas, 73, was a mother                                                         “As a recovering
of five young children when she first
experienced the consequences of                                                                 compulsive
risky gambling. Her then husband, who
controlled the finances, loved to gamble                                                      gambler, I can
and drink with friends. She quickly learnt
that if she didn’t go to the restaurant                                                      empathise with
where he worked as soon as he got paid
each week, his wage was gone.                                                                 those who still
     At 50, Elizabeth divorced her
husband, got a job as a live-in nanny and                                                      gamble and
started enjoying the freedom of earning
her own money. And, for the first time in                                                    struggle to live a
her life, she started gambling.
     “The pokies seemed a safe place for                                                      normal life free
a woman my age to go on her own in the
evening,” Elizabeth recalls.                                                                 from gambling.”
     “As I lived where I worked, I had no
household bills to pay, so most weeks                                                              — Elizabeth Papettas
I’d gamble my whole wage. Sometimes               “Sometimes a traumatic life event,
I’d lie to my children about why I had to     such as losing a loved one, can act as a
borrow money from them.”                      trigger for a person to start gambling in
     It was stealing money from her           a risky way. Older people can also feel
friend’s purse that was the catalyst for      isolated and may see going to the pokies          For more about the options
Elizabeth joining Gamblers Anonymous.         as an opportunity for company and to           available if you need support, visit:
     Two years ago, when her counsellor       socialise,” Louise says.                          www.gamblershelp.com.au
asked her if she wanted to volunteer for          “It’s important to have options, which              Ph: 1800 858 858
the Gambler’s Help Peer Connection            is why the Foundation funds a range
program, she jumped at the chance.            of alternative recreational activities for          For more information about
     “The program gives phone support to      older people, as well as support services      the Prevention Partnership Program
people going through rough times like         for people who need them.”                        which includes culturally diverse
I did,” she says.                                 If you have experienced harm from           information sessions, please email:
     “As a recovering compulsive gambler,     your own or someone else’s gambling,         contact@responsiblegambling.vic.gov.au
I can empathise with those who still          you can call Gambler’s Help on 1800 858
gamble and struggle to live a normal life     858 for free and confidential support.
free from gambling. One of my clients         You can also telephone Gambler’s Help
says our call is the highlight of her         Peer Connection on 1300 133 445 to
fortnight, and that makes me feel good.”      talk to someone who has gone through a
     Louise Glanville, CEO of the Victorian   similar experience.
Responsible Gambling Foundation,
says older people are not immune to
gambling harm.

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INFORMATION FEATURE

                                                                                          very helpful, and she also showed me
Receiving super                                                                           how to manage the wound and gave me
                                                                                          a large piece of bandage to change the
care out of hours                                                                         dressing,” Neil says.
                                                                                              “I just found the service brilliant and I
Neil Yeomans is a 69-year-young,                                                          was very happy with the nurse.
cat-loving, retiree from St Leonards.                                                         “I’ve since told many of my friends
     As an active retiree, Neil spends much                                               about this great service. A lot of my
of his time volunteering in the community                                                 friends didn’t know the service even
and enjoys his volunteer role acting as a                                                 existed. I tell them to just go if they have
liaison between older residents and the                                                   a problem and see the nurse. At least
Bellarine Community Council.                                                              she can advise whether to go to the
     Recently Neil had an accident in the                                                 hospital or not. I just think it’s a great
shed when a spanner slipped and his arm                                                   thing, it’s a great system and there
shot backwards crushing the ulnar nerve                                                   should be more of it. Just too bad I can’t
in his elbow on a piece of steel.                                                         take my cat to the nurse, too,” he jokes.
     Neil described the pain: “It was like                                                There are 20 Supercare pharmacies
when you hit your funny bone really hard,                                                 open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week
it was a very painful experience”.                                                        throughout Victoria.
     As a result, Neil had to have ulnar         “I couldn’t actually go to the doctor,
nerve transposition surgery to take the       because I had to rely on my wife to drive
pressure off the nerve and reposition it in   me and she works during the day and
the elbow.                                    the doctor is 15 kilometres away – so            A pharmacist is on staff 24/7
     A week after the surgery, the bandage    there was no way to get there during           and a registered nurse is available
was removed, but every time he put his        the day.”                                         between 6pm and 10pm for
arm down it rubbed on the wound.                 When Neil was waiting to be                   free-of-charge consultations.
     “It was just annoying and even my        served he saw the Curlewis Supercare         No booking or Medicare card required.
shirt on it would irritate me,” he says.      Pharmacy sign showing there was a                Information about Supercare
“In the evening I suggested to my wife        registered nurse on duty. Neil told the          Pharmacies can be found at:
that we go to the chemist and ask what I      nurse about his operation and she               www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/
should put on there, just something soft      provided a large tube bandage to stop               supercarepharmacies
to cover it.                                  anything touching the wound. “She was

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Bendigo Bendigo UFS Pharmacies,               Ph 9798 1936                                Warehouse, 92 Franklin St.
Corner View and Barnard Streets.              Melbourne HealthSmart Pharmacy              Ph 5174 2003
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Victorian Seniors Festival FEATURE

                         Victorian
                      Seniors Festival

           Welcome to the 2018 Victorian Seniors Festival

 This year is the 36th Victorian Seniors
  Festival and we are excited to have a
  new brand that positively reflect the
  diversity of the Victorian community,
      and a new theme: Get social.
Get social builds on last year’s theme of
You’re welcome. We want people to see
 and experience the Festival as a great
 way to get out and about in their local
         community and beyond.
   The Festival is a celebration and an
occasion for fun, pleasure and a time to
experience something new or different
in a friendly atmosphere - at little or no
  cost. This understanding of what the
Festival offers guides our programming
         and promotional activity.
   So come on – Get social and enjoy.

         Festival programs are available at
       Coles stores, Libraries, Neighbourhood
            Houses, Councils and many
               seniors organisations.

         To download a program or view the
         online calendar visit Seniors Online
                http:/j.mp/scm-2018

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Victorian Seniors Festival FEATURE

  Circus elders                                        “It’s a good time in your life to look    jumping as high in the air anymore but
                                                  back on the past, but also to look forward     some things get better with age, and
   show you’re                                    to a fun and exciting future,” she says.       I’ve become more confident expressing
                                                       After turning 50, Sue thought her         myself as a performer and a person.”
 never too old for                                circus performing days were over, and               “It’s been really great for me to
                                                  she focused on producing, directing            rediscover that I can still perform and
   daring acts                                    and teaching her unique skills. How            I still get pleasure from it. For 20 years
                                                  wrong she was. She returned to the             I had been limiting myself by imagining
Their acrobatics and hijinks circus stunts        stage with a vengeance four years ago          circus as something that belonged to
may not be as physically daring as in their       as a double-act with Debra, and has            people under 40 - but actually it belongs
youth, but Circus Oz elders Sue Broadway          been surprised at how “wonderful”              to whoever wants to do it. And that’s a
and Debra Batton present a high-energy            it feels to challenge the notion of            fantastic discovery to make.”
show with a bolder daring they believe age        being too old by getting back on the                Advice to people turning 60? “Find
and experience permits.                           road – performing circus tricks.               something you love to do and keep
    One and the Other is raw, honest and               “When we starting working together        doing it,” she says.
funny - combining classic stunts, acerbic         on our show around four years ago we
truths and audacious acts in an illuminating      had this invigorating excitement that
and messy celebration of the glories              there was so much to be done,” Sue
of “ageing disgracefully”, a show they            says. “It’s crazy to think that before we       One and the Other is showing as part
describe as a lot more daring than anything       met I thought I was past it, that I couldn’t   of the 2018 Victorian Seniors Festival at
they would have attempted in their youth.         perform anymore in circus and physical          La Mama Courthouse Wednesdays to
    Sue, in her early sixties and a founding      theatre and that my role would be solely        Sundays from 17 to 28 October, 2018.
member of Circus Oz and Ra-Ra Zoo                 as a director, producer and teacher.                 Information and bookings at:
hopes a take-home message from their                   “Now we are attempting things we              www.lamama.com.au/ticketing
show, which is part of the Victorian Seniors      didn’t have the confidence to try when                    Ph: (03) 9347 6948
Festival, is that getting old isn’t the end of    we were young – and the older we get
everything, it can be a fresh beginning too.      the funnier we get,” she says. “I’m not

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Victorian Seniors Festival FEATURE

                                             the way for Melbourne to be the centre         “We are looking
  Lord Mayor’s                               for philanthropy in Australia connecting    forward to celebrating
                                             donors, charitable organisations and
    Charitable                               those facing disadvantage.                   our 95th anniversary
                                                 Tens of millions of dollars has been      and saying hello to
   Foundation                                granted to charitable organisations
                                                                                         many of our donors at
                                             over its 95 years, including $9.8 million
 95 years of age                             in 2017. This included grants to help        the Victorian Seniors
                                             increase the supply of affordable
                                                                                           Festival in October.”
 and still looking                           housing and prevent homelessness
                                             with projects such as the Affordable
after Melbourne’s                            Housing Challenge and supporting
                                                                                               — Catherine Brown

                                             older women who are ageing in
    health and                               poverty to lead better lives through
                                             the Time of Our Lives? project.
    wellbeing                                    In the early years, the foundation      To learn more about Lord Mayor’s
                                             raised funds for Melbourne’s public            Charitable Foundation visit:
   In 1923, Melbourne’s Lord Mayor Sir       hospitals and charities who were                    www.lmcf.org.au
John Swanson had a vision to inspire         supporting the healthcare needs of                 Ph: (03) 9633 0033
community fundraising and ensure             servicemen and women returning from
Melbourne’s heart would collectively and     World War 1.
continuously beat to express the city’s          The Foundation’s chief executive
compassion and kindness.                     officer Catherine Brown said foundation
   Celebrating its 95th anniversary,         donors and grant partners helped
Lord Mayor’s Charitable Foundation has       make Melbourne a more healthy and
inspired generations of giving, and paved    resilient community.

             Inspiring philanthropy
                   Since 1923

                    Join our story

           Visit lmcf.org.au or call
         03 9633 0033 to learn more
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Victorian Seniors Festival FEATURE

 Proudly dancing                              and second annual The Coming Back            wake of the passing of the same-sex
                                              Out Ball, being held this year as part of    marriage bill.
to the LGBTI beat                             the Victorian Seniors Festival. The other        “The ball was amazing,” she says.
                                              reason? She loves dancing.                   “Not only did it have fabulous music,
When she was a young mum and her                  “The monthly dances and the ball are     entertainment, food and decorations, it
baby wouldn’t sleep, Elisabeth Bridson        a chance to publicly celebrate the lived     was such a strong and moving tribute to
found herself joining a group of other        experiences of elder LGBTI people who        LGBTI elders,” she says.
young mums who also had babies who            fought for LGBTI rights, to share stories        Tristan Meecham, artistic director of
were unreliable sleepers. On some early       and experiences; and have lots of fun,”      All The Queens Men, which organises
mornings with a sleepless child, being        she says.                                    the ball, hopes The Coming Back Out
part of a group with a similar experience         Elisabeth came out as a lesbian 28       Ball will become an annual event on
made it easier.                               years ago, she was a mother of five,         Melbourne’s social calendar “as a
    “I’d be up with a crying baby and         heavily judged and ostracised by many,       public celebration and declaration to
think: ‘it’s OK, such and such is probably    including some family and friends.           LBGTI elders of their worth and value,
doing the same thing’,” Elisabeth, 62,        But those experiences, as difficult as       acknowledging their experience and
recalls.                                      they were, are no comparison to the          rich lives”.
    Elisabeth says that people with           struggles many older gay men and older
similar experiences usually feel a degree     lesbians faced, she says.
of comfort being together sometimes,              Elisabeth delights that at the LGBTI
including people who are seniors and          Elders Dance Club, all people are             The Coming Back Out Ball will be held
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and       welcome regardless of sexuality, race,       on Thursday 25th October 2018 as part
Intersex (LGBTI).                             age, religion, disability and gender.            of the Victorian Seniors Festival,
    Sharing similar experiences is one            “They don’t discriminate,” she laughs.   at Melbourne Town Hall. For tickets and
of the reasons Elisabeth travels around       “Anyone is welcome.”                                  further information visit:
120 kilometres most months to attend              Elizabeth says last year’s inaugural          www.comingbackoutball.com
the monthly LGBTI Elders Dance Club in        The Coming Back Out Ball was
Fitzroy, and is excited about the pending     particularly special because it was in the

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HEALTHY LIVING

                                  Staying active
As you age, an active lifestyle becomes                                                       Tips for getting active:
more important than ever for maintaining                                                      • Choose activities you find interesting.
good health. What you do in your 50s                                                             You are more likely to keep up with
will influence your quality of life in your                                                      an exercise routine if it’s fun rather
60s, and what you do in your 60s will                                                            than a chore
influence how you live in your 70s and so                                                     • Exercise with friends. Make physical
on. Staying active and engaged in your                                                           activity an enjoyable social occasion,
community increases your odds of living                                                          and checkout Seniors Online
a happy, fulfilling and healthy life through                                                     to discover the many discounts
every decade.                                                                                    available on a range of activities
     Getting active is not just about adding
years to your life, it’s about adding life to
                                                 Physical activity                               available through your Seniors Card.
                                                                                              • Weight training can increase your
your years. You’ll not only feel better when
you exercise, you’ll feel sharper, more
                                                   for seniors                                   muscle mass – programs as short as
                                                                                                 six to eight weeks can be beneficial
energetic and experience a greater sense           – Tips from Victorian                      • Start off slowly and aim for small
of well-being.                                                                                   improvements. Keep track of your
     Fashion doyen Coco Chanel is reputed
                                                   Government’s Better                           progress in a training diary for added
to have said: “the best things in life are            Health Channel                             motivation
free”, and so staying active doesn’t have                                                     • Check your pulse frequently to make
to break the budget. Walking, gardening         Various studies show that it is never too        sure you aren’t overdoing it
and cycling are free and fun ways to stay       late to get fit. The human body responds      • Choose appropriate clothing and
physically and mentally active. Consider        to exercise, no matter what the age,             safety gear
starting or joining a social walking group      and there are many health benefits            • Don’t let yourself dehydrate – drink
with friends or participating in the many       particularly as you get older. About half        plenty of water.
low cost or free health and wellbeing           of the physical decline associated with
activities on offer at Victoria’s 400           ageing may be due to lack of physical         People with chronic illnesses:
Neighbourhood Houses or checkout the            activity. So the good news is – if you stay   Some older people have chronic
many free or low cost activities and clubs      active you may prevent or reduce many         illnesses (such as severe arthritis,
advertised on your local council’s website.     health problems as you age. Remember          osteoporosis or advanced
     The Seniors Card program is another        to check in with your GP before               cardiovascular disease) that limit their
way to stay active and involved in the          commencing an exercise program.               choice of physical activities. In these
community without breaking the budget.                                                        situations, it is best to consult closely
Use the program’s concession public             Common Myths:                                 with your doctor, physiotherapist
transport to make getting out and about         Many older people believe that exercise       or health care professional to devise
a regular thing – whether it’s catching         is no longer appropriate. Some of the         an exercise program that is healthy
a train to the Royal Botanical Gardens          common misconceptions that prompt             and safe.
for a picnic or to the wander through           older people to abandon physical activity
Melbourne Museum, where Seniors Card            include:
holders and Seniors Business Discount           • Older people are too frail and
Card holders receive free entry                     physically weak to exercise                 For more information on physical
and are eligible for concession prices          • The human body doesn’t need as                    activity for seniors, visit:
on exhibitions.                                     much physical activity as it ages         www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/physical-
     The Seniors Card program was               • Exercising is hazardous for older                     activity-seniors
created to encourage older people                   people because they may injure
to keep active and engaged in the                   themselves
community, so check the Seniors Online          • Only vigorous and sustained exercise
website regularly for updates on the                is of any use.
thousands of discounts and offers               But don’t believe these misconceptions,
available.                                      as the benefits are many.

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