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       Kapiti Observer
Thursday, June 13, 2019
Nervous wait                                                                                              What’s On:
                                                               on erosion                                                                                                Arts and
                                                               solution P3                                                                                               events P8-9

                         Kapiti Observer
        Thursday, June 13, 2019

               Tramper ‘didn’t suffer’
               PIERS FULLER                           hasn’t been waiting for
                                                      days and days out
                                                                                                             heard from.
                                                                                                                    A team was flown
                                                                                                                                           ‘‘We’re incredibly                       There were only two days of
                                                                                                                                                                                weather clear enough for an
               The family of a missing tramper        there to be found.                                         in by helicopter          grateful to all the                  effective search, he said. A team
               found dead in the Tararua Range
               says it appears he did not suffer.
                                                      We’re incredibly
                                                      grateful to all the
                                                                                                                  around midday
                                                                                                                  yesterday and then
                                                                                                                                           teams that have                      had to be pulled from the ridges
                                                                                                                                                                                on Tuesday due to the conditions.
                    The body of Darren Myers was      teams that have                                             lowered one-by-one       been out there                           ‘‘The searchers were very
               found at the bottom of a waterfall
               in ‘‘hazardous’’ terrain yesterday,
                                                      been out there
                                                      looking for him.’’
                                                                                                                 to the site to retrieve
                                                                                                                the body.
                                                                                                                                           looking for him.’’                   relieved to get a result, all the
                                                                                                                                                                                searchers are quite emotional.’’
                                                                                                                                           Duncan Styles
               after an eleven-day search                 Police search and                                       Though the body                                                   Myers started his tramp on
               hampered by bad weather.               rescue incident                                             had not yet been                                              Tuesday, May 28, with the
                    Myers’ family was at search       controller Tony                    Darren Myers             formally identified      the one we were looking for’’.       intention of hiking across the
               headquarters at Masterton’s Hood       Matheson said the                                           searchers were               Search and rescue manager        Northern Crossing to Mt
               Aerodrome when police                  body was seen from a helicopter            confident it was Myers, Matheson          David Eaton said it appeared         Holdsworth base in the Carterton
               announced he had been found.           at the headwaters of the Arete             said. He said finding Myers would         Myers had died on the day he was     district.
                    Brother-in-law Duncan Styles      Stream.                                    provide closure. It had been a            last heard from — Thursday, May          His last communication was a
               said the family was ‘‘so gutted’’ to       ‘‘It’s in a particularly hazardous     lengthy search, and it was difficult      30.                                  text to his wife on the morning of
               hear Myers had not survived but        bit of country,’’ Matheson said.             for all involved.                           Eaton said it had been one of    May 30, from Arete Bivvy in the
               was grateful to have found him.            The stream begins near                             ‘‘This is one of the two      the largest searches of the range,   centre of the ranges.
                    ‘‘We are so grateful that it      the Arete Bivvy where                                     outcomes of this           with 75 instances of a team or           When he failed to emerge on
               appears he hasn’t suffered, that he    Myers was last                                                   search, it’s not    helicopter taking a trip into the    the following Saturday a search
                                                                                                                                           mountains.                           began on Sunday, June 2.

                                                                                                                                                                            Searchers comb ridges in the Tararua
                                                                                                                                                                            Ranges on Sunday, in the hunt for
                                                                                                                                                                            missing tramper Darren Myers.
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Nervous wait on erosion solution
JONO GALUSZKA

Horowhenua mayor Michael
Feyen and a regional councillor
want action sooner rather than
later on erosion problems eating
away at a coastal community.
   But any real action at
Waikawa Beach is unlikely to                                                                                                                                       Pianist Nikolai Saratovsky.
take place until 2021 and some
property owners may end up
paying more than others.
   The settlement, north of
Ōtaki, is grappling with how to
                                                                                                                                                                   Pianist’s
combat erosion problems caused
by a variety of issues at the
mouth of Waikawa Stream.                                                                                                                      Waikawa and
                                                                                                                                                                   return
   Erosion caused by an ex-                                                                                                                   Manakau residents    Acclaimed Russian pianist Nikolai
tropical cyclone cut off vehicle                                                                                                              turn out for the     Saratovsky is making a second visit
access to the beach and                                                                                                                       meeting. Above,      to the Kāpiti Coast.
                                                                                                                                              erosion at
destroyed the front of some                                                                                                                                            This time Kāpiti classical music
                                                                                                                                              Waikawa Beach is
properties.                                                                                                                                   causing              fans will be treated to works from
   A lack of ownership about the                                                                                                              headaches, but       Bartok, Chopin, Rachmaninoff,
problem by either Horowhenua                                                                                                                  proper fixes are     Scriabin and Mussorgsky.
District or Horizons Regional                                                                                                                 unlikely before          Saratovsky’s repertoire ranges
councils has not helped either.                                                                                                               2021.                from Bach to the latest composers,
   However, a recent report by                                                                                                                 DAVID UNWIN/STUFF   says Mary Gow, organiser of the
consultants came up with                                                                                                                                           Mulled Wine Concert Series.
solutions.                              Natural sand dune creation to       had responsibility for it in the                  ing, said he thought work would          Gow first met him at a recital in
   About 50 people packed into       the north of the stream, the shal-     past, although Horizons recently                  happen faster if residents sub-      Brussels and invited him to New
the Manakau Hall on Saturday         low depth of the stream and the        said it would manage the issue                    mitted to the next Annual Plan       Zealand. She arranged a concert
morning to hear Horizons river       coast slowly growing bigger over       and remove a groyne, Strong                       hearings in 2020.                    tour for him last year, ‘‘and he had
manager Ramon Strong explain         time did not help either, he said.     said.                                                That would put the issue front    such a good reception, he wanted
the report.                             The future impact of climate           The work would have to be                      and centre far before the Long-      to return’’.
   Waikawa Stream used to flow       change, with rising seas and           considered under Horizons’ next                   Term Plan, and maybe get plan-           Since his last visit to Kāpiti,
into the Ōhau River, but had        larger rainfall events as warm         Long-Term Plan, which is not                      ning and resource consents           Saratovsky has toured in England,
migrated south over the years,       air holds rain in the air longer,      due to take submissions until                     under way, he said.                  Korea, Japan and Africa.
he said.                             was unknown.                           early 2021, he said.                                 Feyen said Waikawa Beach              ‘‘To see a pianist of this quality
   Work was done to divert the          Erosion would eat further              Even then, there would need                    residents needed to make their       and fire is an opportunity not to be
stream directly into the Tasman      into properties as time went on if     to be discussions about how                       voices heard if they wanted the      missed,’’ Gow said.
Sea, but some work had created       nothing was done.                      much work was paid for with                       work done.
headaches as time went on.              The options for remedies cost       rates and how much private                           ‘‘Two years seems like a long     ■ Nikolai Saratovsky, 2.30pm,
   ‘‘No-one in the 1940s had a       from $150,000 to more than $1          landowners forked out to protect                  time.’’                              June 23, Raumati South
master plan,’’ Strong said.          million, but funding is not yet set    their properties.                                    Strong said he was happy to       Memorial Hall. Tickets: pre-
   ‘‘It has been very reactive and   aside.                                    Horizons councillor Lindsay                    have another public meeting          sales $25 adults, students under
responsive.’’                           That was because no council         Burnell, who attended the meet-                   before the next Annual Plan.         14 $10. Door sales $30.

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Teachers deserve better – but what, when?
OPINION: Striking teachers have said a reduction in workload is as important to them as a pay rise. So are we expecting
teachers to do too much, what has caused this workload and what can a government do to reduce it? An MP from each side
of the House gives their views.
                                               This has a huge impact on those                                                               this. Last year we announced that we
                In the                         individuals, their families, and to the
                                               economy.
                                                                                                              In the                         would work towards reducing student/
                                                                                                                                             teacher ratios in primary schools and we
                red                               In this Budget, we are taking mental                        blue                           are developing an Education Discussion
                                               health seriously with the biggest                                                             Document which will be released later
                corner                         investment in mental health, in any
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    Priyanca Radhakrishnan                     Budget, ever. We will build entirely new        Stuart Smith                                  policies around teachers’ pay and
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          ou may have seen the news about      transforming our approach to mental                      ast month we saw the largest ever    with the Government on the recent
          Education Minister Chris             health and addiction with significant and                education industrial action in       NCEA Review which we believe, if
          Hipkins’ meeting with the            sustained investment.                                    New Zealand’s history, with          implemented well, can lead to a
          primary and secondary teachers’         Ultimately, supporting and                            further large-scale action           reduction in workloads.
unions about the Government’s                  maintaining people’s mental wellbeing          announced for later this month.                   We believe there is more to be done to
commitment to address the concerns             will become part of the daily routine of our       The gridlock in collective bargaining      support children with additional
raised by teachers.                            health services – as it should be. Our         has involved the first primary school          learning needs at school. This is the right
    Discussions are currently ongoing          vision for the future is one where people      strikes in 24 years, secondary school          thing to do for not only the teachers, as
between the minister and the teachers’         in distress can access the support they        strikes, multiple failed offers, significant   additional input in this area will ensure
unions and I want to respect the               need, when, where and how they want it.        disruption for parents and caregivers,         they are better supported, but also for
agreement made between the minister            We know long-term challenges can’t be          and thousands of lost hours of teaching        these children and their families.
and the unions to give time for all parties    solved overnight, and transforming our         and learning.                                     Pay is important to teachers, too.
to reflect on recent discussions, given the    approach to mental health and addiction            Teachers have made it abundantly           While in Government, National was
constructive progress made last week.          will take some time.                           clear that the action they have                dealing with the Global Financial Crisis
    I look forward to hearing more about          During the 2017 election campaign, I        undertaken since the beginning of this         and Canterbury Earthquakes, which
that very soon. However, one thing I know      met principals, teachers and teacher aides     school year is not just about pay but that,    means we were more limited in our
that will benefit teachers, as well as all     across the Maungakiekie electorate who         at the heart of collective bargaining, are     spending options than this Government,
New Zealanders, is our commitment to           told me about the struggles they’re facing     serious workload issues as well.               but we still increased teacher pay: We
taking mental health seriously, as shown       – not only in the workplace, but in their          They are calling for a reduction in        invested $359 million in a programme
in this year’s Wellbeing Budget.               day to day lives. We’re committed to           student/teacher ratios, increasing             that provided additional salary
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people on their own coping with mental         access the support services that work for      place better support for children who          increases.
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alcohol, tackling mental health or             forward to seeing more about the               therefore additional needs, in the             delivered on its promises. It’s difficult for
addiction only when it becomes a crisis.       Minister’s constructive meeting with the       classroom.                                     teachers to hear the Government say
Current data suggests one-in-five New          teachers’ unions soon, and am glad to be           It is clear that attracting more           there is no more money, when billions
Zealanders experience mental health and        part of a government tackling the long-        teachers and ensuring they are valued is       has been spent on KiwiRail, fees-free and
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MUSIC & THEATRE                        FAMILY &                                                                                                                 GET LISTED
Amici Ensemble in Waikanae:            COMMUNITY                                                                                                                Want to see your event in this list?
Waikanae Music Society presents        Aviary Society: Interested
                                                                                                                                                                Visit nbly.nz/kap and fill out the
the Amici Ensemble - nine principal    especially in foreign finches,
                                                                                                                                                                online form with your event details.
players from the NZSO performing       canaries and hookbeaks, and
                                                                                                                                                                Make sure you do this at least one
music for wind and strings by          building/talking about aviaries,
                                                                                                                                                                week before your event. Inclusion is
Mozart, Rossini, Piazzolla and Louis   family-orientated, ring in evenings
                                                                                                                                                                at the editor’s discretion.
Spohr. 049056070 or                    06 367 2525.
www.waikanaemusic.org.nz. June         Bible study group: Join a small
16, 2:30pm, Waikanae Memorial          friendly group studying the life of                                                                                      Reserve Scout Hut, Kaitawa
Hall, Pehi Kupa St, Waikanae.          Christ every Saturday afternoon,                                                                                         Crescent, Paraparaumu.
Kapi Mana Community Choir:             for more details contact Lorraine                                                                                        Kakariki Nature Play at Nga
Like to sing? Join us and share the    022 327 4971, 4pm, Kowhai Room,                                                                                          Manu: July Holiday Programme,
wonderful diversity that is world,     Kapiti Community Centre, 15                                                                                              July 9, 11, 12. Matariki theme with
folk and traditional music. No         Ngahina Street, Paraparaumu.                                                                                             bush play, natural crafts, cooking
experience necessary. Thursdays, 7     Be Creative: Creative writing,                                                                                           over fire, storytelling. Ages 4-8.
till 9pm. Term dates and more info     healthy living, arts and crafts.                                                                                         Book now. Call Anna 021 0243
at                                     Tuesdays to Thursdays weekly                                                                                             0430, FB Kakariki Nature Play. Ngā
kapimanacommunitychoir.org.nz.         excluding public holidays. Koha                                                                                          Manu Nature Reserve, 74 Nga
7pm, Plimmerton Pavilion, Sunset       appreciated. Te Ara Korowai           Mid-Winter Blackboard Concert: Members showcase their music. Floorspots            Manu Reserve Rd, Waikanae
Parade, Plimmerton.                    Wellbeing centre, 1 Weka Rd,          of 1-3 songs all evening, includes supper. $5. June 14, 7:30pm, Levin Folk
NZSO Winter Daydreams:                 Raumati Beach, Paraparaumu.           Music Club, 155 Bartholomew Rd, Levin.                                     123RF   Matariki Tea & Tales: Join us for
Conducted by Fawzi Haimor with         Books and Bickies: Come along                                                                                            morning tea and share an hour of
Tchaikovsky’s Symphony No. 1 &         and tell us about what you have       Dinner and comedy night                  Waikanae Bridge Club, Elizabeth St,       stories from our collection. June 20,
virtuoso violinist Carolin Widmann’s   been reading, or just come to hear    fundraiser: 3 course dinner and          Waikanae.                                 10:30am, Waikanae Communuty
NZSO debut performing                  what titles other people have         comedy night to raise funds for          Kapiti Indoor Market, Mid-                Centre, 28 Utauta St, Waikanae.
Stravinsky’s Violin Concerto. June     enjoyed. For more information         Bron’s HSCT treatment in Mexico to       Winter 2019: Join us for mid-             Meditate with Quakers: Come
20, 7:30pm, Michael Fowler Centre,     please email                          stop MS progression. Hosted by           winter fun. 60+ local businesses &        together in silence, to experience
111 Wakefield Street, Wellington       martine.backhouse@kapiticoas-         Nick Rado.                               food trucks. Fun for the kids. Gold       stillness and that of God in
Central.                               t.govt.nz. June 14, 10:30am, Ōtaki   https://www.facebook.com/                coin entry donation to Friends of         everyone. Light refreshments
Porirua Sing Your Lungs Out            library, Main St, Otaki.              BronsHSCT/ or nicole@q1.co.nz for        Animal Charities;10am-2.30pm. See         included, no charge, second
Choir: A fun Community choir for       Community Meet and Greet:             details and tickets. June 29, 7pm,       www.kapiti-indoor-market.co.nz.           Monday of every month, 7pm,
people with chronic lung disease       Come and have a fun afternoon         Dockside Restaurant & Bar, 3             June 30, 10am, Waikanae Memorial          Natural Healing Raumati, 22
and other chronic conditions.          with folk from your community,        Queens Wharf, Wellington.                Hall, Pehi Kupa St, Waikanae.             Margaret Rd, Raumati Beach.
Meets every Friday morning, led by     lots of laughs, music, games, and     Kapiti Coast Quilters Day                Kakariki Nature Play at                   Men’s Book Group: For
a music therapist. Admission free,     occasional speakers. Transport        Meeting: Bring some craft work to        Kaitawa: July Holiday Programme,          information email
inquiries Claire 0274056458. June      provided, Phone Sala 0212384599,      do and your lunch and come and           July 16, 18, 19. Storytelling, natural    Tony.cuttriss@kapiticoast.govt.nz.
14, 10:30am, Mungavin Hall Supper      Val 2377317 all welcome. June 25,     join us for the day. We are a            crafts, bush play. Ages 5-10. Book        June 18, 10:45am, Paraparaumu
Room, 27 Mungavin Avenue,              1pm, St Anne’s Church lounge, 2       friendly group who enjoy chatting        now. Call Anna 021 0243 0430, FB          Library, 9 Iver Trask Place,
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What’s On
FAMILY &
COMMUNITY
Poets to the People: Guest poet
Mark Pirie. Open mic, one poem
                                                                                           Show’s themes ‘still relevant’
each, $5 cover. Drinks and snacks                                                          FELIX DESMARAIS                                                         its consequences to our
available; 4-6pm. June 30, Robert                                                                                           GIVEAWAY                               audience, rather than
Harris Cafe, Coastlands Mall,                                                              A show that explores themes                                             pretending that these issues
                                                                                                                            We have a double pass to
Paraparaumu.                                                                               of poverty and misogyny will                                            don’t exist.’’
                                                                                                                            giveaway to the opening
Porirua Citizens Advice Bureau:                                                            work hand-in-hand this month                                                Trust manager Paula Lloyd
                                                                                                                            night, June 22, performance
We need volunteers to join our                                                             with an organisation aimed at                                           said the latest figures from
                                                                                                                            of The Threepenny Opera at
team helping the community with                                                            combating those behaviours                                              Housing and Urban
                                                                                                                            the Hannah Playhouse in
advice about any issue. Full training                                                      in the real world.                                                      Development showed there
                                                                                                                            Wellington. To enter email
given. Drop in 9.30am-3.30pm                                                                   Wellington Repertory                                                were 1252 people currently on
                                                                                                                            editor@huttnews.co.nz with
Mon-Fri, phone 04-2378846 or                                                               Theatre will bring its                                                  the social housing register
                                                                                                                            ‘‘3penny opera’’ in the subject
email porirua@cab.org.nz, Level 2,                                                         production of The Threepenny                                            waitlist in Wellington.
                                                                                                                            line by 4pm on Thursday,
Pember House,16 Hagley St,                                                                 Opera to the Hannah                                                         ‘‘I can only surmise that
                                                                                                                            June 20. Please include your
Porirua.                                                                                   Playhouse from June 22 - 29,                                            these are predominantly
                                                                                                                            name, address and telephone
Porirua Family History &                                                                   and will donate a portion of                                            women as we do know that
                                                                                                                            number.
Genealogy: Meets monthly on                                                                profits to the Wellington                                               domestic and family violence
second Wednesday. Visitors $2.                                                             Homeless Women’s Trust.                                                 is a major factor in why
Porirua Library (entrance via side                                                             But repertory president      unfortunately – relevant to our        women become homeless.’’
door in lane leading to Te                                                                 Oliver Mander hopes the help     society. The Threepenny
Rauparaha Arena). June 12, 7pm,                                                            will go further than just a      Opera does portray that                ■ The Threepenny Opera,
Porirua City Library, Parumoana St.                                                        monetary contribution.           behaviour, but does not glorify        Hannah Playhouse,
Ōtaki Women’s Group market:               Heather Howes, left, and Chris Gordon in            ‘‘The themes of poverty,     it.                                    Wellington, June 22-29.
Check out our wide range of                Wellington Repertory Theatre’s production of    mistreatment of women and            ‘‘We feel its relevant to          Tickets at hannahplay-
goodies, something to tempt                The Threepenny Opera. SARAH CAMPIN-FORDHAM      violence are still –             highlight that behaviour and           house.org.nz
everyone. For market inquiries
please contact Georgie phone
0272341090. June 16, 9am-2pm,            Skills Cafe: Come and have a go at     welcome. Free. Contact: (04) 976     Totara Streets, Levin.                   SPORT
SH1, opposite New World, Ōtaki.         spinning, bring your knitting          34 91 / sharingpeacejustice@gmail.
                                                                                                                     WEA lecture: ‘‘Medical Keats’’;
Quiz Night - Ohau School: $10pp          project and join our friendly group.   com. June 25, 7pm, Te Newhanga                                                Plimmerton Mid Winter Dip:
(8 per team) MC Gary O’Brien. Cash       For more information please email      Kāpiti Community Centre, 15         poet John Keats was trained as           Join hundreds taking the plunge,
Bar, food for sale. Auction, Raffles &   martine.backhouse@kapiticoast.         Ngahina St, Paraparaumu              apothecary and gave up medical           or simply watch and enjoy the
Spot Prizes. Courtesy van $10 for        govt.nz. 10.30am, Ōtaki Library,      Unnatural Trail: A fun game to       career for poetry. Heidi Thomson,        food on offer. Swimmers go into
Ohau-Levin area. Contact school          Main street.                           play as a family team. Wrap up       Professor of Literature at Vic           the draw to win spot prizes. Dip is
office (06)368-7949 or email             Meditation: Invitation to a unique     warm and join with KCC to find       University, traces life and work.        at noon. www.facebook.com/
jwindley@ohau.school.nz. June 28,        group meditation, a dynamic            items hidden in the bush. Phone      Members $20, non-members $30.            PlimmertonMidWinterDip.
7pm, Ohau School, 13 Muhunoa             service to the world enhancing         Ange 3673776. June 16, 10am,         June 15, 10am, Kapiti Community          June 23, 11am, Karehana Bay,
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Parenting                                                                                         WITH AUTHOR AND MOTHER OF FOUR BOYS MARY-ANNE SCOTT

Should I still be parenting my adult child?
Q: I have a daughter who is 25                                                                                                                     Even though she’ll         modify or prevent the situations
and she is pretty independent                                                                                                                      always be your             no matter how hard they try.
now.                                                                                                                                               daughter, she’s not           But your daughter’s
   She flats with two of her                                                                                                                       your mini-me.              behaviour seems to be the
friends and things are                                                                                                                                                        normal stuff of many 25-year-
generally going well. But                                                                                                                                                     olds. She’s clubbing, probably
when I see her, I can’t help                                                                                                                                                  drinking too much, not getting
making suggestions about                                                                                                                                                      enough sleep, not dressing
how to organise herself, or                                                                                                                                                   warmly and neglecting other
how to stay healthy. She gets                                                                                                                                                 tasks like her flat gardens.
very defensive and tells me                                                                                                                                                      She’ll probably look back one
not to interfere. Is there a                                                                                                                                                  day and wonder at her own
specific age we have to stop                                                                                                                                                  behaviour, but at least she’ll
telling our kids what to do?                                                                                                                                                  come to her adulthood by
I’m afraid I can’t let go. I see a                                                                                                                                            herself. You should give
lot of things that she is not                                                                                                                                                 yourself, and your daughter, a
doing right, or I worry that                                                                                                                                                  pat on the back – and a break.
she’s out at parties and clubs
and not getting enough sleep.                                                                                                                                                 Mary-anne Scott has raised four
   Obviously I am saying                                                                                                                                                      boys and written three novels for
these things because I love her                                                                                                                                               young adults, all of which have
dearly. I tell her I think she’s                  done a great job parenting, a part    one thing that matters to you,                 can’t stop overseeing their lives.     been shortlisted for the NZ Book
doing well, but some things                       of what she is today, is not due to   just one though, and your                          The big teenagers are late         Awards for children and young
need tweaking, like keeping                       you.                                  opinion will carry more weight.                getting married and having             adults. As one of seven sisters,
her gardens tidy at the flat                         The problems you see in your          Think too of how we were at                 babies, they often have no hope        there aren’t many parenting
and dressing warmly as the                        daughter’s life are minor – you       25 and how we hated being told                 of owning their own homes and          problems she hasn’t talked over.
weather gets colder.                              yourself call them tweaks – and       what to do. I know it was a                    they need their parents more –         Please note that Mary-anne is not
                                                  what person doesn’t have              different generation. Our                      and for longer. Perhaps we feel        a trained counsellor. Her advice is
A: Your child at 25 is an adult                   weaknesses that others think          parents mostly stepped way                     this gives us permission to make       not intended to replace that of
and, even though she’ll always                    need improving? You obviously         back; they were pleased to get on              statements and ‘‘tweak’’ their         professional counsellor or
be your daughter, she’s not your                  comment too frequently for your       with their lives again so they                 lives.                                 psychologist.
mini-me. All the strands of DNA                   daughter’s liking, so perhaps         travelled and spent money on                       There are parents of adult         To send Mary-anne a question
that have gone into making her                    you should work on reducing           themselves.                                    children who witness criminal          email life.style@stuff.co.nz with
unique are what you treasure                      your remarks. If you can’t resist        Today, many 25-year-olds are                or dangerous behaviours and            Dear Mary-anne in the subject
and, although you’ve no doubt                     making a remark, then select          like big teenagers and parents                 those parents can be helpless to       line. Your anonymity is assured.

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                                                                                                                                        So you get up and search the house high and              It seems they last about 13 to 18 years, some
                                                                                                                                        low, But nothing looks out of place. It’s not            more, some less. It is impossible to tell just
                                                                                                                                        till you try and open the garage door in the             by looking at them if they are going to break.
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                                                                                                                                                                         attributes and personalities. All
Thinking of getting                                                                                                                                                      that was needed was an ability to
involved with your                                                                                                                                                       be open and learn.
                                                                                                                                                                             For sure, this wasn’t my
community? Time to                    Neighbourly is a NZ-owned                                                                                                          regular Friday night and after a
take the leap, writes                 social media site creating                                                                                                         long working week, the last
                                      easy ways for neighbours                                                                                                           thing you’d want to be doing was
Ash Ogden.                            to talk and connect. Join                                                                                                          face-painting and holding a
                                      us at neighbourly.co.nz or                                                                                                         limbo pole.
Following a day at work you’ll        download our new iPhone                                                                                                                But as I stood there and
often find me spending my             and Android apps.                                                                                                                  watched the connection going on
nights watching television while                                                                                                                                         around me I realised that,
scrolling through social media,      Neighbourly in my community, I                                                                                                      actually, this is exactly what I
only to go to bed and do it all      found something I was really                                                                                                        should be spending my free time
over again. I grew up spending       passionate to be a part of.                                                                                                         on; helping great causes and, in
my evenings watching movies             StarJam is a not-for-profit                                                                                                      turn, connecting with others and
with my parents and so watching      organisation that runs weekly                                                                                                       having new experiences.
TV, for me, is comfort and           music workshops in                                                                                                                      I really encourage anyone
familiarity.                         communities around New                                                                                                              considering getting involved
   However, recently I realised      Zealand for young people who                                                                                                        with their community to take the
how many hours of my life I’ve       live with disabilities.                                                                                                             leap. I guarantee you will feel a
actually dedicated to these TV          Their aim is for the young                                                                                                       whole lot more satisfied than you
series.                              people to make friends, grow                                                                                                        would reaching that cliff-hanger
   With the 25 years they say we     confidence and skills and, well,                                                                                                    at the end of your TV series.
spend our life asleep, I started     just have a really great time. I    Ash Ogden (blue T-shirt), a member of the Neighbourly team, helps StarJam,
thinking: I could use these free     decided to take a smaller step to   an organisation that runs weekly music workshops in communities around                          Next week’s Backyard Banter will
hours in my life for good – to       begin with and start with           New Zealand for young people with disabilities.                                                 feature a number of ways to get
make more of a difference to         volunteering at their community                                                                                                     you thinking about where you
other people’s lives and, in turn,   disco.                              exactly what to do and how to act      received high fives from people                          could focus your volunteering
my own.                                 I’ll admit I was apprehensive.   around people who have                 I’d never met and was asked to                           efforts.
   And so, following this            I met up with the StarJam co-       different needs to me in the           dance, all within 20 minutes –
resolution I decided to look into    ordinator and was talked            hopes I wouldn’t upset anyone.         my worries faded rapidly.                                Volunteering Week runs from
what volunteering options were       through what to do and what to         However, the night arrived              I learnt that I didn’t need to                       June 16-22. You can find out more
available locally. Using the         expect. But as usual, I wanted to   and upon entering the hall I saw       know everything, everyone is                             by heading to: https://
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Bridges’ great New Zild accent
                                       the UK, a fellow Brit will have                                                                                                   National leader Simon
                                       them catalogued by their accent:                                                                                                  Bridges is unfairly
                  Opinion:             the geographic region of birth                                                                                                    mocked for his accent.
                  Sue Allen            and social and educational                                                                                                              KEVIN STENT/STUFF
                                       status, just for starters.
                                          We can work out how hard
                                       someone is trying to cover up

I
      t seems that never a week        their accent to sound less posh,
      goes by without the New          or more posh or ‘‘one of the
      Zealand accent being an          boys’’.
      issue of debate.                    The attacks on Bridges have
    At the moment, it’s often at       got me thinking about
the expense of Opposition leader       differences in the New Zealand
Simon Bridges, who is frequently       accent that I’ve noticed myself.
mocked. It’s the ‘‘my’’                At the risk of being deported,
pronounced ‘‘moi’’ that winds up       here are a few observations.
many TV watchers and radio                There’s the well-entrenched
listeners.                             tendency, especially among
    Before Bridges’ take on the        females, to end all sentences with
‘‘New Zild’’ accent, former prime      a rising intonation as if it were a     in action; she’s the queen of         suburbs. It screams: ‘‘I went to a     commented on – be proud of it –
minister Sir John Key copped his       question? Uptalk, as it’s been          the fry.                              private school’’ and ‘‘my children     none of us really have a right to
fair share of flack over his           labelled, is on the rise in all             Sooner or later someone is        have goat’s cheese in their            mock and laugh as accents
chewed vowels; something he            senses of the word.                     going to have to bring RNZ voice      gluten-free sourdough                  everywhere are a constantly
accepted readily.                         I have to admit that after 20        coach Hewitt Humphrey out of          sandwiches’’.                          moving feast.
    The current Prime Minister,        years in New Zealand I am               retirement and get him to deal            Then there’s the recent pop-up        And remember, out of almost
Jacinda Ardern, has her own            fighting my own personal battle         with all the reporters who’ve         accent that combines elements of       7000 accents, New Zealand’s
accent quirk, replacing ‘‘t’’ with a   to banish uptalk myself.                started this weird thing where        almost all of the above: this is       recently rated the sexiest in the
‘‘d’’ sound – think ‘‘creadividy’’        The vocal fry is also gaining        they talk through their noses         ‘‘bored hipster-speak’’.               world and was described as
instead of creativity – which also     traction among women.                   instead of out of their mouths –          It is practised by all baristas,   ‘‘outrageously charming’’ so
seems to be catching on.                  I thought it was a myth, but         the nasal whine.                      cocktail bar staff and many New        think of that next time you listen
    For me as a born-and-bred          once you’ve tuned into it you               There are the variations on       Zealand comedians. It’s a              to Bridges or feel like mocking.
Brit, the issue of accents is no       really can’t miss it. It’s been         what a Wellington friend calls        monotone that strongly indicates
small thing. You can drive an          described as how you’d sound the        ‘‘Moore Wilson’s English’’; in        the speaker would rather be            Sue Allen has worked in
hour down the road in the United       morning after a big night out           Auckland it’s ‘‘Farro English’’ or    doing something far more               journalism, communications,
Kingdom and the regional accent        spent smoking cigarettes and            ‘‘fauxglish’’.                        exciting than talking to you. Or is    marketing and brand
will have changed significantly.       drinking whiskey.                           This is the round-vowel-heavy     it just me? So a word of comfort       management for 15 years in the
    I swear that within seconds of        Google Kim Kardashian if you         posh affectation popular among        to Bridges from someone who            United Kingdom and New
someone opening their mouth in         want to know what it sounds like        the denizens of the posher            also has an accent that gets           Zealand.

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