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Edition 21                      M A G A Z I N E      February - April ‘18

                    BUILD           COMMUNITY       MOTTO TEXT 2018

     Claire’s Crazy             Parent & Toddler   Faith Hope &
      Marathon                    Group 2018           Love

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CREDITS
    MINISTERS    Mark Madavan
                 mark@lhfc.org.uk
                 Tim Hancock
                 tim@lhfc.org.uk
                 Jim Privett
                 jim@lhfc.org.uk

   LHFC OFFICE   admin@lhfc.org.uk

EDITORIAL TEAM   Tina Grobler
                 tina@pegasusgraphics.co.uk
                 Peter Jeffs
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                 Pauline Griffiths
                 admin@lhfc.org.uk

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CONTENTS
             JOIN IN THE STORY   PASTORS LETTER                   4
          FAITH HOPE AND LOVE    MOTTO TEXT                       6
                  BUILD UPDATE   BUILD PROJECT                    7
     CLAIRE’S CRAZY MARATHON     BUILD PROJECT                    8
A TALE OF TWO WORKING PARTIES    CHURCH                          10
 PARENT & TODDLER GROUP 2018     COMMUNITY                       11
                 MONEY ADVICE    COMMUNITY                       12
                THE GATHERING    SMALL GROUPS                    14
      GRAND 5 AND OPEN DOORS     MISSION                         15
  60 SECONDS WITH GRANT SHAW     CONNECT                         18

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               ...join in the story...
    I don’t often go to the Cinema,                 in the small balcony – were a challenge,
                                                    but the Gaumont in Bournemouth was a
    but when I do I am reminded how                 treat. With an auditorium that seated almost
                                                    1,000 people, going to see Jaws, Towering
    brilliant it is.
                                                    Inferno, Earthquake and many other 70’s
                                                    blockbusters was an experience I’m glad I
    Armed with some free tickets I went along
                                                    didn’t miss.
    to watch several films last year (which did
    include the amazing Wonder Woman!) and
                                                    When the first Star Wars film was released
    so far this year, Paddington 2 – when you’re
                                                    in February 1978, police had to help marshal
    a Grandparent you have to keep up with
                                                    the queues that stretched down Westover
    what you’re Grandchild is watching!
                                                    Road and up to Gervis Road. Everyone
                                                    wanted to go to the cinema.
    In the 70’s it was all so different. The
    cinemas were huge, the screens were even
                                                    Why? To escape, to laugh, to cry, to be
    bigger, the seats more uncomfortable, and
                                                    frightened or to simply enjoy a story that
    you had to endure the smoke and the sticky
                                                    resonates with our lives, to see something
    floors. The Tivoli in Wimborne and the
                                                    that makes you think more deeply, that
    Continental in Winton – with its lovers seats
                                                    makes us feel alive. The best films have

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something bigger going on than we might            But this wasn’t simply about my personal
at first glance think, they have something         salvation - my sins forgiven, the price
important to say that often we don’t want to       paid for what I owed, Jesus taking the
feel.                                              punishment that was rightfully mine to take
                                                   (for which I am eternally thankful) – this was
Take the Star Wars franchise. The latest film      cosmic Good News!
– The Last Jedi – continues to wrestle with
some big issues. It heightens our thinking         The cosmic victory on the cross continues
about, ‘Is there more going on than our            to send ripples throughout the universe as
senses can understand? What is the nature          people like you and me accept the freedom
of good and evil? Can we fight and overcome        and forgiveness offered by Jesus and join
the propensity to move to the dark side?’          him in the ongoing challenge to help others
I don’t want to take away from the incredible      discover this truth. After all, this is the Truth
cinematography, the great fight scenes and         that sets us all free!
the cuddly, lovable characters, but the films
do compel us to dig a bit deeper than just the     God says to me, ‘Tim, I am your Father!’ And
flickering images on a screen.                     he says the same to you and every other
                                                   person on the planet. That’s why ‘he gave his
It is the same in life. We can ignore the          one and only Son, so that whoever believes
bigger questions, but not for ever. We can         (and trusts) in him shall not perish but have
make life just about ourselves, but we’ll          eternal life. (He) did not send his Son into the
always know that isn’t all there is. We can        world to condemn the world, but to save the
try and find our own solutions, but we’ll          world through him.’ (John 3:16-17)
soon realise that we cannot, and were never
meant to, live life without the need for help.     And armed with the Holy Spirit, we join in the
                                                   story and help push back the darkness one
In the ultimate story of good and evil, Jesus      decision, one choice, one life at a time. It’s
chose to fight it on our behalf. In the greatest   the biggest of big screen stories.
story of all, Jesus stepped up and faced all
that the enemy could do to him; he accepted        May the Lord be with you.
his cup of suffering and chose to take the
way of the cross.                                  Grace and Peace
                                                                                    ~ Tim Hancock
There was something much bigger going
on that we need to see, something that
we desperately need to know, to feel and
personally embrace.

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Motto Text 2018
“Faith, Hope, Love” 1 Corinthians 13:13
    For the past ten or so years a regular feature   But something deeper, powerful,
    on our church’s agenda has been the need         unstoppable, eternal has also been present
    for a larger building. An eye-watering amount    throughout. Evidence of this was not difficult
    of time and resources have been invested         to find – for whenever we stopped and
    into possibilities and potential solutions.      listened, God’s voice was heard. Promises
    Forests of paper work have been ploughed         from scripture, prophetic words and pictures
    through to establish a new legal status as       - words of faith, words of hope, words of love
    a church, agreements with Councils and           were heard. Sunday and weekly gatherings
    banks, planners and consultants. Technical       saw people encountering God for the first
    legal decisions have been worked through         time and in new ways. Those far from
    and presented at Church Meetings, alongside      God discovered they were welcomed, they
    financial projections, requirements and          mattered and they were loved.
    requests for pledges.
                                                     As a church, our heart and hope has never
                                                     been in a bigger building, but in the life
                                                     transforming power of Jesus. A bigger
                                                     building will simply create more space for
                                                     more people to encounter Jesus, for us to
                                                     continue to be a community that shares
                                                     faith, hope and love.

                                                     The Elders chose these three words to be
                                                     our Motto Text this year as a clear reminder
                                                     of who God has called us to be. As our larger
                                                     building becomes a reality, as we look at a
                                                     possible new name for our church, as we
                                                     explore other changes as a church this year
                                                     – being a community of faith, hope and love,
                                                     with Jesus as our centre and source is who
                                                     we are called to be.

                                                     Together, let’s give our best to God’s BIG
                                                     Build and be a community of faith, hope and
                                                     love.

                                                                                 ~ Mark Madavan

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The BUILD project
It is mid-January as I write this blog. For    So… this is what should have/has
the past couple of months, as we have          happened…
seen our church overflowing with people,
a number of contractors have been              Tender prices were submitted on 24th
number crunching. They’ve been tasked          January and our team got to work
to price our BUILD project so that we          analysing the numbers; total costs,
can appoint one of them to actually start      possible items to down-grade, items to
building in the Spring.                        cut or items to postpone. Once agreed,
                                               a single contractor was then chosen, the
Unexpectedly, one of the constructors          church encouraged to help bridge the
decided to withdraw from the process           funding gap, mortgage signed, contracts
due to other projects they were working        signed, materials ordered and a start date
on. Another requested a little more time       agreed. Simple!
to ensure they could provide their best
price. Frustratingly, this slight delay        The truth is that a load of things will
means prices will not be returned until        happen between my writing and your
after I need to write this article – so I      reading. But one thing I do know - our
can’t even write about that!                   amazing God is faithful, has guided,
                                               provided and will continue to be with us.
As you read this, between February and
April, a load of details, decisions and        Keep praying, loving, giving, serving,
steps forward will have unfolded. In fact I    knowing, inviting, sharing, responding to
hope that if you are reading this article in   God – and we will see more of God.
April you will be able to see building work
starting on the field.
                                                                        ~ Mark Madavan
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Claire’s Crazy Marathon
                                                  What if I ran the Great South Run (10 miles)
    It all began summer 2013
                                                  and tried to raise £500 for the BUILD project?
    - the day we got planning
                                                  This was a crazy idea because 9 years earlier
    permission.                                   I naively agreed to run 10km to raise money
                                                  for Roma kids in Serbia to go to a summer
    From the safety of my sofa, whilst watching   camp. My run was not pretty – I wanted to
    the Great North Run on TV, I had a thought.   pull out after a dozen paces into the run,

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generated much blood, sweat and tears, and         all about running the London Marathon,
a long, long time later I fell across the finish   but running to raise money to make a real
line in a spectacular last place. Then and         difference. So I decided that if London came
there I declared, “Never, ever again!”             back as a ‘no’ (which it did), then I would
                                                   definitely run the Southampton Marathon for
But this time would be different. Fitted with      the BUILD project. (gulp!)
new running gear and a positive attitude I
set out confidently on my first training run.      Interestingly, my first prompt to start running
A dozen paces in and it all flooded back -         was when we got planning permission and
what was I thinking? But I persevered and 13       the date of the Southampton Marathon is
months later, exhausted and elated I crossed       when we are expecting to begin building.
the Great South Run finish line in just            Coincidence?
under 2 hours – raising over £500. A proud
achievement, job done.                             As I entered 2018 my marathon place
                                                   was booked and my 18 week training plan
Shockingly, 8 weeks later, at a weak moment        underway and is going well so far.
I found myself agreeing to run the first
Southampton Half Marathon (April 2015).            I am writing a weekly blog on how my
Unbelievably I did that too! Definitely job        training is going, I am also highlighting our
done.                                              BUILD project along the way because this
                                                   is why I am running. My initial fundraising
Laziness then welcomed me back and my              target is £2,620 (to match the 26.2 mile
sofa lovingly soaked me into its care. A friend    marathon). Please follow my blog, spread the
however had different ideas. She nagged            word, sponsor me and pray that I survive!
and nudged, pressured and pursued me into
joining Stubbington Green Runners. This                                         ~ Claire Johnson
was such a good move. I made new friends,
was helped and coached to run better and I
actually developed a passion for running.

And then it happened. In February 2017
the Church Meeting made the courageous
decision to proceed with the BUILD project.
Despite not having all the money we decided
to step out in faith. As I sat in this meeting,
wondering how God was going to bridge
the financial gap, I felt God’s challenge to be     Blog: clairescrazymarathon.wordpress.com
part of the solution. Courageously, fearfully,
crazily I decided to enter the ballot for the       Donations: https://mydonate.bt.com/
2018 London Marathon and raise money for            fundraisers/clairejohnson2018
the BUILD project.
                                                    Marathon date to cheer me on: 22 April ‘18
The chances of getting a place were not
high. I told myself I probably wouldn’t have
to run the 26.2 miles, but as I waited for
the ballot announcement God’s call to be
courageous continued. It wasn’t actually

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A TALE OF TWO WORKING PARTIES
 On November 11th 1918 the guns fell silent      Perhaps we should honour their legacy and
 to end the First World War. On November         protect and maintain this building and as we
 11th 2017 the Working Party at Locks            add the new building, build a legacy we can
 Heath Free Church gathered to observe the       leave to the generations to come. In another
 2 minutes silence in front of the plaques       110 years’ time will there be a picture of
 commemorating those from LHFC that              another Working Party maintaining our
 served in the First World War and those who     current building and the new building or will
 gave their lives to preserve freedom.           the church have moved to an even bigger
                                                 building as we strive to grow the Kingdom?
 The old photograph shows a large Working
 Party from 1907 including Jean Newman’s         We are always grateful for more volunteers
 great-grandfather and grandfather (in the       to maintain this building. There will be no
 wheelbarrow).                                   digging of foundations but there are always
                                                 things to fix and maintain whatever your
 This got me wondering how many of the           level of skill.
 men and boys in this 1907 Working Party
 then went to serve their country in the         If you’re not sure where the plaques are, they
 trenches after digging the trenches for the     are on the wall as you go up the stairs by the
 church foundations? These men and boys          front door, take time to have a look at them.
 served their church and their country leaving
 a legacy that we enjoy to this day both as                                    ~ Paul Warner
 citizens of this country and members of                              Facilities Team Leader
 this church. They preserved our country’s                    paulwarner434@btinternet.com
 freedom and built the church that would,
 by a number of moves, end up here today.

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PARENT &
TODDLER
GROUP 2018
“What I love about this group is that I know
my children (3 children under 3) are safe
and looked after when we come here” said
one parent to me this week in the P&T
session. The heart behind the P&T group is
to show Jesus’ love and care to the children,
parents, grandparents and carers that come
through Locks Heath Free Church’s doors
every Tuesday. Also, we seek to provide a
welcoming, supportive, friendly and fun place
for parents and their under 5’s to come and
play and make new friends. The team know
that there is a fantastic opportunity to share
faith, hope and love to the families attending
the group and to make our group different        group with the help and support of the P&T
from other P&T groups in the area because        team. We look forward to seeing more of
it is run in the Church, by volunteers who       God working in and through the group.
have a living growing faith who belong to
the Church family. Sometimes families have       Another change for P&T’s is that we decided
no other connection with Church and this is      to close the afternoon group for a variety of
an introduction, a stepping stone maybe, to      reasons. The afternoon parents were offered
other opportunities to find out more about       priority places in the morning group, which
God and faith. Several Church families attend    some have taken up and are now adjusting
the group and they have a ready-made             and settling into the morning group.
opportunity to make friends with and chat to     Sometimes pruning is needed to allow for
other parents about Church, faith and God.       new growth, sometimes that can be a little
What a privilege and honour that is!             painful and even scary, sometimes we have
                                                 to be patient and wait upon God. We are
At the end of last term we celebrated and        excited to see what God has in store for us
thanked Lynda Grubb who for over 10 years        in the future as we create new space for new
has led the morning and afternoon groups         beginnings.
at LHFC along with Sharon Smith. Lynda’s
servant heart has been so appreciated by         What I love about the group is... seeing the
many, many families, the team and the            vibrancy of real family life with all its ups
Church, but she felt she needed to step down     and downs, seeing friendships begin, seeing
from this role. She received many cards,         one person being a listening ear to another
presents, beautiful cakes and a wonderful        person, seeing children and parents move
memory book filled with photographs and          one step closer to knowing more of God and
personal messages from families and team,        seeing the fingerprints of Jesus all over the
past and present. We thank God for David         place!
and Lynda and look forward to seeing what
God has in store for them in the next phase                                 ~ Sarah Sawyers
of their lives.                                                      Family Life Team Leader

We are thankful to Sharon Smith who has
taken up the reins and will be leading the                                                       11
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 “Freedom from debt, hope for the                  their new skills into practice with real clients,
                                                   real stories and very real situations.
 future.”
                                                   They have all taken on new clients, whether
 It’s been a busy year at LHFC Debt Advice
                                                   that’s for full debt advice involving the
 and now it’s time to reflect as well as look to
                                                   negotiation with creditors, or practical
 the future.
                                                   support with budgeting to prevent going into
                                                   debt arrears.
 Last year we had 6 new advisors creating a
 new team and they have worked hard to put

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It’s not easy being an advisor, clients come       9.45 million households have ZERO
to discuss their finances so money is              savings.
the subject however much of our work is            277 people are declared bankrupt,1756
pastoral.                                          County Court Judgements are applied,
                                                   and 21 properties are repossessed every
We do a lot of listening, there’s tears as         day.
well as joy as we lift them to a new place of      Citizen’s Advice Bureau saw 4563 new
freedom from anxiety, fear and worry. We           debt clients every day in November.
write letters, negotiate payment plans and
it makes a real difference, helping clients to   We have 2 new enquiries already this year. If
regain motivation to plan and budget coming      your heart and passion is in this area we are
from darkness to light.                          always looking for more people to join our
                                                 team, admin, advising or as pastoral support.
During meetings with clients at LHFC we          I would love to hear from you. We are looking
have shared testimonies, conversations           to change the way we meet our clients so
about the PYT decoration and wording,            not all of us need to be a fully accredited
talked about the band and the wonderful          debt advisor. I encourage you to give it some
music that is being sung as they practice.       prayer. If this has touched your heart please
They see life happening at LHFC and they         come and have a chat with Tim Hancock or
see a difference in us as we serve them with     Emma Boorn.
Jesus’s love.
                                                                             ~ Emma Boorn
Two of us went to the annual Community                                debtadvice@lhfc.org.uk
Money Advice conference, who we are
affiliated to, in November and who have
celebrated 20 years as a charity. It was great
to praise God together with other centres for
the great work and freedom that debt advice
brings. We heard some amazing stories
from desperation, to hope, to new life. We
came back excited with new ideas as we
were inspired by other centres. We learnt
about new tools and changes that have been
implemented nationally across the debt
advice sector. We felt part of a bigger family
that is supported by CMA with Jesus at the
heart of all our work.

Some Statistics for you from The Money
Charity produced in January for the UK:

  543 credit card transactions are made
  every second with a value of £1.92 billion.
  55% of credit card balances bear interest.
  The average credit card debt is £2574 and
  would take 26 years 3 months to pay off if
  only paying the minimum payment.

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WHAT IS YOUR DEFINITION OF A
       SMALL GROUP?
 Here at LHFC we have 20 small groups and         As well as regularly meeting the leaders of
 all are different; different age groups, life    small groups, one of the new initiatives is the
 experiences, stages of life, backgrounds,        ‘Gathering’. We want to invest in small groups
 Christian experience, Bible knowledge. There     and provide a place where groups can grow
 is not one group that looks like another. But    and flourish. We are not prescribing what
 we believe that what lies at the heart of each   small groups do but we want to fertilise the
 group really matters.                            roots so that every group can grow healthy
                                                  disciples (think of a tree and the roots,
 Our Motto for 2018 is ‘Faith, Hope, Love’ and    branches and leaves). We will be encouraging
 we want every small group to reflect that in     all groups to attend the ‘Gathering’ which will
 how they function, giving everyone a place to    be a twice a term opportunity for all groups to
 know God more, to build one another up and       come together.
 to serve people close to us and far away.

                                                  Everyone is free to go at 9.00pm but we
                                                  will use the next 30 minutes as a ‘next
                                                  steps’ forum for leaders and others who
                                                  are interested. This will be an opportunity to
                                                  identify topics for future ‘gatherings’ and/or
                                                  additional areas of development/investment,
                                                  e.g. leadership development, preaching/
                                                  speaking skills, mentoring, workplace
                                                  resources, small group study resources….

                                                  As you may be able to tell(!) this is a work-
                                                  in-progress, scaffolding that will help us
                                                  support and encourage everyone to grow as
                                                  disciples and make a difference to our world.
 The ‘Gathering’ will give space to worship
 together, learn together, discuss together,
                                                  We do hope that you will get involved. If you
 pray together and work out next steps
                                                  are not in a small group but want to be part
 together, to explore new things and see what
                                                  of the adventure do e-mail
 God wants to do next.
                                                  smallgroups@lhfc.org.uk and we can get
                                                  you started. But don’t forget, get along to
 We will also be inviting anyone who is not
                                                  ‘The Gathering’ on Wednesday 21st March
 part of a group at the moment so that they
                                                  at 7.30pm and meet others who have
 can meet leaders and hopefully join a group.
                                                  already started this journey.
 We will meet at LHFC at 7.30pm for drinks
                                                                             ~ Mark, Tim & Jim
 and some eats; 7.45pm onwards; worship,
 some teaching, discussion, prayer etc.

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What could you do to get involved?

              February will see the Grand Launch of our Grand 5!
              What is God nudging you to do differently this year?
                      How can you respond with action?

There will be opportunities to go out on Team trips, to hear and understand more
  about other people’s lives and situations and just as importantly for prayer.

         Maybe your Small Group could support one of the projects?

             Maybe your family could adopt one of the Grand 5?

    Maybe God has a much bigger adventure for you than you yet know!?

                               ~ Peter McNulty
                             Mission Team Leader

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MISSION

                                   mission@lhfc.org.uk

 Open Doors works in over 50 countries,        PSALM 142 (NIV)
 supplying Bibles, training church leaders,    “David cried aloud to the Lord, he poured out
 providing practical support and emergency     his complaint before Him.”
 relief and supporting Christians who suffer   The book of Psalms is a Bible in itself. In
 for their faith.                              this book we find all kinds of Psalms that
                                               express emotions, feelings that represent all
 A REFUGEE’S PSALM                             situations of life. You will find people asking
 This reflection was preached by a Syrian      God to intervene in what they are going
 pastor to a church full of displaced          through.
 Christians.

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Psalm 142 is written in a crisis situation.       Living with Jesus is living on another level.
“Is not everyone against us?” David asks. I       Uniting you with God, surrendering to Him,
see in this Psalm a cry of deep pain. David is    means that you are stronger than the
saying that no one is concerned about him.        pain you are going through. When no one
Many times you see words about pain in            understands you, go to God. Send Him your
this Psalm, a pain that is killing from inside.   deepest cries, He will come and you will feel
When the writer is crying, he says what he is     the glory of His presence.
feeling about God. He speaks about God as
someone from a distance feeling as if God is      A prayer from the persecuted church, from
far away; he speaks of ‘Him’, not of ‘You’.       Pastor Douglas in Iraq
                                                  Without Your grace we cannot survive, Lord
God wants to hear your voice, He wants to         God, even if there is enough food and there
hear what your feelings are, not just nice        are good medicines. Come with Your grace
words. When we are honest in our feelings,        into our lives. Thanks to Your grace we
God meets us, God comes to us. David is           can see that You are really here, that Your
confused: in all the pain, where is God? When     strength is still present here and that the
he becomes honest in his prayers, ‘Him’           Holy Spirit is working in our lives. We are
becomes ‘You’. God comes close.                   weak, but belong to You, to You alone. We
                                                  will follow You for all time.
You also see the suffering of a lonely man,                                                 Amen.
a complaint about the situation he is in.
Maybe he thought, ‘When I defeated Goliath        Pray for people affected by conflict and
everyone thought me to be a hero. Now I           persecution
have nowhere to run, no one asking for me,        • Healing and hope for the bereaved and
no one concerned about me. I am displaced,           traumatised
I don’t have a place to live.’                    • Relief and employment for displaced
                                                     families with no income
Then you see in verses 5 and 6 David              • Opportunities for learning, friendship and
speaking about the portion of a believer.            fun for children and young people
“You are my refuge, my portion.” When David
felt God near, he was able to see that God        Pray for pastors
was his only portion. In the presence of the      • Vision, energy, strength and peace for
Lord, you are not alone; you can come from           church leaders who have stayed to serve
complaining to praising. Just come as you         • Faithfulness to Jesus and unity in the
are.                                                 Spirit for the displaced church

“Then the righteous will gather about me          Pray for politicians
because of your goodness to me.” He               • Wisdom and integrity for presidents,
expresses that at the end God will be good           prime ministers and parliamentarians
to him. That is sure for every believer that      • Constructive relationships for world
the presence of the Lord doesn’t depend on           leaders, negotiators and peacemakers
circumstances. He doesn’t always remove
the pain. Sometimes we have to go through                                      ~ Peter McNulty
it and we have to overcome situations.                                    Mission Team Leader
60 SECONDS WITH:
                                      GRANT SHAW
                                      Grant was born in Birkenhead and brought
                                      up on the Wirral with a younger brother and
                                      sister and has fond memories of Sea Scout
                                      adventures enjoying the beautiful coast and
                                      countryside nearby and in North Wales. He
                                      was educated at the Calday Grange Grammar
                                      School in nearby West Kirby before gaining a
                                      degree in medicine in 1984 at Southampton
                                      University Medical School.

 After initially gaining experience as a Junior   Zealand – somewhere he had always
 House Officer at Portsmouth and Salisbury        wanted to go. Grant worked as a surgeon
 Hospitals, Grant moved overseas to work          initially in neurosurgery and then general
 in a Mission Hospital in Zimbabwe for six        surgery, whilst Fliss worked as a GP.
 months as a locum for the local doctor.          On his return to the UK, Grant took his
 The hospital was on the remote border with       first permanent job in 1992 at the Queen
 Mozambique. He was effectively running           Alexandra Hospital in Portsmouth. For the
 a 120-bed hospital dealing with malaria,         last 25 years he has been working full-time
 TB, typhoid, snake bites and delivering lots     as a joint replacement surgeon and has
 of babies. His main legacy was keeping           repaired hips and knees on several church
 the baby vaccination programme going by          members. His interest in computing has
 injecting 1000 babies. There were also quite     been put to good use building departmental
 a lot of painful rotten teeth so he learnt to    information systems and the invention of
 carry out some basic dentistry from a book       a program for planning joint replacements
 as this subject was not included in the          which is now used around the world.
 normal UK medical curriculum.
                                                  Grant likes practical problem-solving
 On his return to the UK, Grant took              particularly if a slightly quirky innovative
 up surgical roles as a junior doctor in          solution can be used. He has always been
 Winchester in Accident and Emergency,            interested in structures and architecture. At
 general surgery and orthopaedics for a           home he carried out his own loft conversion
 couple of years before gaining further           and designed his kitchen extension with a
 experience at Alton’s Lord Mayor Treloar         basement.
 Orthopaedic Hospital and Salisbury
 Hospital’s Odstock Plastic Surgery Unit. At      Grant and Fliss were in the same year at
 the former he gained valuable experience in      medical school at Southampton in 1979
 hip and knee replacement surgery.                and according to Grant they “met over a
                                                  dissecting table in their first year”. They both
 In 1990 Grant with his wife Fliss had a          qualified in 1984 with Fliss initially taking
 fantastic year working in Auckland, New          jobs in Winchester and Dorchester and

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subsequently undergoing her GP training           designing, modifying and thinking through
in Portsmouth and Titchfield. They were           the plans and systems for the new building.
married in 1986 at North Walsham in Norfolk       He is looking forward to seeing the detailed
where Fliss was brought up and where her          plans turn into a real living building full of
father was the Vicar.                             church activities.

Grant had no Christian upbringing as              His wife Fliss is a GP in Wickham and an
a child and confesses to being a non-             Elder at LHFC. Vicky their daughter obtained
believer until he met Fliss at University who     a degree in Physics from Cambridge
introduced him to her circle of Christian         University and is now studying medicine at
student friends. This led him to accompany        Birmingham University. Peter their son is
them to Lordswood Evangelical Church in           married and 2 years through a 4 year PhD in
Southampton where the dynamic leadership,         Physics at Southampton University.
early teaching and home group were major
influences in his Christian journey.              Favourite holiday destination
                                                  Ullswater in the Lake District – where I
On their return from New Zealand they             enjoyed camping holidays as a child, and
settled in Titchfield, Grant and Fliss attended   now where we go to a cottage in the same
Titchfield Evangelical Church for three           week each year to walk, canoe and dam
years. Subsequently in the absence of any         streams.
children’s facilities there for their young
children Vicky (3) and Peter (1) they were        Favourite music
recommended to LHFC by Martin and Gilly           Classical – Vaughan Williams’ ‘The Lark
Wise.                                             Ascending’, Beethoven and Brahms
                                                  symphonies, Mozart’s Requiem.
Grant leads the multi-media team at LHFC
which initially involved setting up the control   Favourite sports
desk, projectors and its software and he          I cycle to work twice per week whilst
maintains the equipment and co-ordinates          listening to BBC podcasts like ‘Inside
the rota. The TVs, cameras and lighting           Science’, ‘Inside Medicine’, ‘More or Less’
have recently extended the number of ‘toys’       and ‘Costing the Earth’.
to play with. On the IT side he has built
and maintains the church office computer          When I have time I enjoy sailing my 18 foot
systems and databases.                            Unicorn Catamaran from Hill Head Sailing
                                                  Club, either racing or just enjoying the thrill of
Grant has been an active member of the            sailing fast across the Solent.
Build Project Team. At times over the
last year this has felt like a full-time job.     Favourite TV shows
Early in the project he made a significant        Grand Designs.
contribution by building a 1 to 25 scale
model of the proposed new building which          Favourite radio show
enabled church members to understand,             Radio 4 ‘I’m Sorry I Haven’t a Clue’.
enthuse and buy-in to the project, whilst
also enabling church staff to agree the           Favourite food
exact specifications for their own individual     I enjoy cooking including roast dinners, but
offices/rooms in the new building. Although       steak from our local butchers with a nice
hard work at times it has also been great fun     glass of red is my speciality.

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