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                                                            2020

                                  to a happier,
                                  healthier you
                                      A DAILY JOURNAL
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INSIDE:   Decluttering your home can increase contentment
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                                            ORGANIZATION
             CONTENTS:

      6     Skin care:
            Moisture matters
                                            Living
      8
                                            with less
            Getting fit:
            Ballroom dancing

                                                                 W
    10      How to deal
            with angry people
            2019: Giving
    12      it a rest
                                               Reducing                     When the idea of decluttering sends you spi-
                                                                            raling in a storm of anxiety, fear not. Area
                                                                            experts say the key to successfully ridding

        DAILY JOURNAL
                                                  clutter                   one’s living space of excess stuff is taking it one
                                                                            breath and one item at a time.
                                                                               Claudia Appel, owner of Pink Elephant Home,
          30 S. Water St., Suite A
            Franklin, IN 46131
                                               increases                    says everyone has an elephant in the room —
                                                                            the big piles of stuff we walk around and ignore;
    For editorial content, contact Amy
     May in the Daily Journal special
                                            contentment                     it is the clutter.
                                                                               “When we have those elephants in the room,
                                                                            we are paralyzed and we don’t do any organiza-
     publications department at 317-                                        tion,” Appel says. “When you take the first bite
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                                                                            nizer, then make the call, Appel says. Early on,
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                                                                            make sure to set aside at least a couple of hours
        of stories, photographs and
                                                                            of uninterrupted time so you can get your head
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                                                                            around things and start the process, she says.
         is prohibited. Stock images
                                                                               “If you don’t have a plan, your follow-through
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                                                                            gets bogged down,” says Laura Ecker, co-owner
                                                                            of Victoria’s Organizers in Greenwood. “But if
                                                                            you have a plan, you can divide it into small,
                                                                            doable parts.”
                                                                               When Marie Kondo made her debut in 2012

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“On the practical side, I would say it is important
                                             to declutter, because you will learn how to live
                                             with less and appreciate it more. Don’t be afraid of
                                             letting go of things. The result is so rewarding.”
                                             Claudia Appel

                                        with her book “Spark Joy,” the idea      for keep, one for donate and another
                                        of decluttering really hit the main-     for discard.
                                        stream. And though not everyone            If you are clearing a closet that
                                        is on board or emotionally ready to      has items you might want to keep,
                                        embrace a minimalistic lifestyle,        but overall there are things you
                                        her work continues to spark motiva-      may not have seen for years, this is
                                        tion when it comes to decreasing         where having another person with
                                        clutter.                                 you is valuable.
                                           So, say you have made the deci-         “You would take all those clothes
                                        sion to declutter your living space,     out of the closet and lay them on a
                                        you have help and you have a plan.       chair or the bed,” Ecker says. “The
                                        Now what?                                other person will hold the items

               RETHINK
                                           Pick the area you want to de-         up, and you don’t get to touch them
                                        clutter, but do so in a way that isn’t   because tactile will make you more
                                        overwhelming. “Take everything by        inclined to keep something.”
                                        category,” Appel recommends. “A            With the first round, the other
                                        lot of organization is about having      person would hold up three items
                                        that sense of having lost control.       and you would pick two. Then of the

              YOUR RESOLUTION
                                        A way to keep yourself calm and          two, you pick one, slowly paring to
                                        successful is to tell yourself you are   essentials. Ecker and Appel agree
                                        going to do one limited thing, such      that once items are identified to be
                                        as I am only going to do books or        donated or discarded, they should
                                        clothing today.”                         be removed from the house that
                                           Then it is time to empty and edit,    same day. This reduces the tempta-
                                        Appel says.                              tion to go back and pick through
                                           If you are tackling a good-sized      them, bringing some back into the
              Ivy Tech Community        space, such as a closet or an en-        house.
                                        tire room, it is important to have         “Once you decide what you are
              College Franklin          somewhere for the things you clear       putting back and keeping, then
                                        from the space to go while you are       that is when you get containers to
              is here to make           cleaning, Ecker says. Depending          keep the items you will have in that
              your 2020 great,          on how cluttered the space is, the
                                        destination for items being moved
                                                                                 room,” Ecker says.
                                                                                   Keeping a home free of clutter
              no matter where           may be another room or it could be
                                        outside. If the living space is clut-
                                                                                 has tremendous benefits. You know
                                                                                 what you actually have and are able
              you are in your           tered to the point of safety being an
                                        issue, it may be best to pick a nice
                                                                                 to find things when you need them.
                                                                                 And there is a sense of calm and
              educational               day and move things out onto the
                                        porch or driveway.
                                                                                 peace that settles in a clean living
                                                                                 space, she says.
              journey or career.           “You never want to do an organi-
                                        zation project without completely
                                                                                   One also gains a greater apprecia-
                                                                                 tion and gratitude for their home
                                        emptying out the space, whether          environment and belongings, Appel
                                        it is a drawer or an entire closet,”     says.

              Learn how at              she says. “The trick is to completely
                                        empty out the space even if half of
                                                                                   “On the practical side, I would
                                                                                 say it is important to declutter,
              IvyTech.edu/IvyFranklin   it looks good.”
                                           Decide if you want to get rid of
                                                                                 because you will learn how to live
                                                                                 with less and appreciate it more,”
                                        a quarter, half or 90 percent of the     she says. “Don’t be afraid of let-
              Classes start in March    items, Ecker says. Then have three       ting go of things. The result is so
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SKIN CARE

                                                                          Moisture
                                                                           matters
                                                                                                Winter weather can

                                                                          I
                                                                                                get under your skin
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                                                                                                                  DAILY JOURNAL CORRESPONDENT

              DANCE YOUR WAY TO A NEW YOU!                                If Old Man Winter wreaks
                                                                          havoc on your skin, the best
                                                                          defense is a consistent skin
                                                                          care routine that delivers mois-
                                                                                                             skin care regimen.
                                                                                                               “I always recommend using
                                                                                                             a hydrating soap, like Dove,”
                                                                                                             Lafree says. “And, of course,
                                                 Great valentines gift!   ture, say area experts.
                                                                            Although it is important
                                                                                                             minimize the use of fragrance
                                                                                                             or perfumes. I also recom-
                                                                          to keep skin hydrated and          mend over-the-counter CeraVe
                                               3 private lessons for      protected all year-round, it is    creams and cleansers, espe-
                                                                                                             cially for the face.”

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                                                                          even more so during the winter
                                                                          months when low temperatures         Lafree also recommends
                                                                          and low humidity can take          decreasing the duration of
                                                                          their toll.                        showers or baths to less than
                                                                            According to Brittany Lafree,    10 minutes, bathing in luke-
                                                                          a physician assistant with the     warm water and moisturizing
                                                 new students only        Dermatology Center of Indiana
                                                                          in Greenwood, much of peo-
                                                                                                             the skin while it is still damp.
                                                                                                             Taking a lukewarm bath
                                                 singles or couples       ple’s winter skin woes are the     lessens the risk of histamine
                                                                          result of less moisture in the     release, which tends to happen
                                                  Expires 2/29/2020       epidermis and dermis layers of     when bathing in hot water, and
                                                                          the skin.                          the subsequent itchiness that
                                                                            “The cold, dry air that          histamines can trigger, she

                                                Exercise more
                                                                          comes along with the heat          says.
                                                                          we bring indoors is basically        Laura Dalton, lead aestheti-
                                                                          what causes dry, flaky skin,”      cian with Transformations

                                                fun out of life
                                                                          she says. “When we have that       Salon and Spa in Indianapolis,
                                                                          dryness, it allows us to lose      says dehydration and dry-
                                                                          moisture from the skin, and        ness top the list of winter skin
                                                                          when that happens, you are         issues she sees with clients.
                                                                          more prone to dryness, flaking     “This weather kind of sucks
                                                                          and cracking of the skin.”         the life out of us in general,”
                                                                            To help stave off the ill ef-    she says. “Hair, skin and nails,
                                                                          fects of cold weather, Lafree      everything is depleted.”
                                                                          recommends maintaining a             In order for moisturizers to
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the deeper layers of the skin,       going past that top layer of the
and that means exfoliation has       skin.”
to happen. And people just don’t        Oftentimes, plant-, fruit- or
exfoliate, Dalton says.              botanical-based exfoliation
  An analogy she uses with           products can work wonders,
clients to illustrate how the pro-   but it is a matter of finding the
cess works is to imagine you are     right one for your skin type.
trying to apply lotion to your          “It is kind of like a wardrobe,
legs while wearing pantyhose.        and it changes throughout
Sure, some of the moisture will      the year,” Dalton says. “It is
seep through, but the pantyhose      common to use a different
are clearly a barrier to the lo-     cleanser and moisturizer in the
tion doing what it is intended to    fall and winter than you do in
do. Exfoliation is the process of    spring and summer.”
removing that barrier.                  Lafree and Dalton agree the
  “Once we get that barrier          best defense against winter skin
broken, we can hydrate the           woes is protection.
skin, and that moisture can get         Whether one opts for a
down to where we need it to and      moisturizing lotion or cream
be effective,” she says.             is really a matter of personal
  However, in cold weather,          preference, Lafree says. Typi-
when the skin is already dry         cally, she recommends a good
and irritated, finding the proper    moisturizing cream, especially
exfoliation can be tricky. After
all, the last thing you want
is to further irritate already
                                     when it is going to be used on
                                     the face.
                                        “I like creams better because
                                                                                         Signature
inflamed skin. It is important       they are thicker,” she says. “And
to remember there are different
types of exfoliation, Dalton says.
  “Exfoliation doesn’t always
                                     they will help to hydrate the
                                     skin more efficiently and are
                                     more beneficial for the skin.”
                                                                                         Program
have to be physical,” she says.         For some, winter skin care
“It can also be granular or a        can extend to the use of “free
scrub.” For instance, if you have    and clear” products, such as
sensitive skin or are prone to       soaps and detergents, Lafree
redness and irritation, an enzy-     says.
matic exfoliation could be the          Another element that is
way to go.                           often forgotten or dismissed is
  Enzymes essentially work like      sunscreen, which can play an
Pac Man, only gobbling up all        instrumental role in a winter
the bacteria, dry skin and gunk      skin care routine. Even though
that accumulates on the skin,        it is cold outside, the potentially
resulting in the same effect         harmful effects of sun exposure
a chemical peel would have,          remain, Dalton says.
Dalton explains.                        “Even though we are not on
  “An enzyme is a chemical ex-       the beach or at the pool, the
foliation,” she says. “A chemical    skin still needs that protec-
exfoliation is anything that is      tion,” she says. “If you are ever
causing a chemical reaction to       outside, you are still exposed to
the skin and that is typically       the sun.”
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                                                     Settling into the new year with     doesn’t create abuse on the body
                                                     a new fitness regimen? Consider     and joints.”

                     2.14.20
                                                     adding ballroom dancing.              According to Jeff Baker, ad-
                                                       Since “Dancing with the Stars”    missions director for Five Star
                                                     debuted in 2005, more people are    Dance Studio in Indianapolis, the

                     Becoming
                                                     embracing ballroom dancing as       health benefits of dancing come
                                                     a fitness activity and with good    from moving the body in a multi-
                                                     reason, say experts.                tude of different ways.
                                                       “A lot of people have ballroom      “It is very much a whole body

                     Resilient
                                                     dancing pegged as a grandma         workout,” he says. “We start with
                                                     and grandpa activity,” says         the feet and work our way up the
                                                     Lindsey Rutherford, manager         body.”

                     Women
                                                     and co-owner of Fred Astaire          Dancing activates many
                                                     Dance Studio in Greenwood. “But     muscles that aren’t used on
                                                     there is a lot more to it than      an everyday basis, so it isn’t
                                                     the waltz and foxtrot mentality,    uncommon for dancers to be a

                     Leadership
                                                     especially when it comes to our     bit sore after leaving the dance
                                                     rhythm and Latin dances, like       floor, Baker says. Moving side to
                                                     the cha-cha, swing and salsa.”      side and front to back certainly

                     Workshop
                                                       Dancing is a great way to         gets the hip flexors and ham-
                                                     increase flexibility, agility and   strings engaged. Dancing also
                                                     coordination. “When I practice,     helps individuals improve their
                                                     I walk off the floor feeling like   coordination and balance, he
               $99 PER PERSON FOR LJC & FC ALUMNI;   I just left the gym,” Rutherford    adds.
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From left: Dancers take a group class at Five Star Dance Studios in Greenwood. Erleen and
students who have had hip           also beneficial in that it chal-     Brad Faris of Franklin have a private lesson at Fred Astaire Dance Studio in Greenwood. Vinnie
replacements and knee replace-      lenges the individual mentally,      Neff teaches a group class at Fred Astaire.
ments. So dancing can also help     Baker says. In order to learn a
with mobility of the joints.”       dance, clearly there are elements
  Committing to dancing once        of memorization and attention
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dance, she says.                    students of all ages, from people
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ness, loneliness and depression,    that first step and find a studio,
Rutherford says.                    if only to give it a try. And it
  Baker says some students          is a sentiment that Rutherford
opt to come to the dance studio     echoes.
instead of the gym simply for the      “The majority of people who
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                                                         PERSON TO PERSON

                      How to deal with                                                    Do you have a friend, co-worker
                                                                                          or spouse who is always flying
                                                                                          off the handle?
                                                                                                                                 Here are some tips
                                                                                                                                 for helping angry people:
                                                                                                                                 — Talk about better communica-

                         angry people
                                                                                             You might be dealing with
                                                                                          someone who’s never matured,           tion, not tempers. Tell someone:
                                                                                          someone with a big ego, or             “I’d like to communicate better with
                                                                                          someone with bipolar disorder.         you. I need you to tell me how to do
                                                                                             Before you get tempted to push      that. I’m failing miserably.”
                                                                                          any wrong buttons, use your            — Present yourself as non-
                                  Use logic when confronting                              logic. Take a look at the control      judgmental. Don’t say, “You act like
                                                                                          you do have with such people.          a fool.” Do say, “I think this anger is
                                those who are temperamental                                  Taking control means you’ll         hard on you.”
                                                                                          likely have to go into “warrior        — Declare that you believe
                                                                                          mode” yourself. You’ll have to
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                                                                                          take charge and do something
                                                                  Tribune News Service                                           someone in your family is bipolar,
                                                                                          positive that requires a stretch.
                                                                                                                                 state that solutions can be found.
                                                                                             “My brother-in-law Donald,
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                                                                                          banker we’ll call Brad. “He
                                                                                          would go nuts and turn over
                                                                                          tables. I was worried for my          meaning a psychologist, than a
                                                                                          sister and her kids.”                 friend or family member.”
                                                                                             Brad ended up getting his sister      Some angry people might have
                                                                                          and his brother-in-law to visit a     physical issues as well.
                                                                                          counselor. “But,” says Brad, “I          For example, those with
                                                                                          went to the counselor first. Then I   blood sugar problems, such as
                                                                                          asked my sister to join me.”          diabetes or hypoglycemia (low
                                                                                             Together, they invited Donald      blood sugar) can experience
                                                                                          to join them for additional           anger and irritation quite often.
                                                                                          sessions.                                “I used to explode with anger
                                                                                             “It’s easier to open a door,       when I’d missed a lot of sleep,”
                                                                                          if you’re already involved in         says a sales rep who traveled
                                                                                          counseling,” says Brad. “I told       for a pharmaceutical company.
                                                                                          my brother-in-law that I was          “You need to investigate why the
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                                                                                          trated people,” says a psychologist   issues with brain chemistry,
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10             THE NEW YOU
GOODBYE 2019

Let’s cancel ‘OK Boomer’ in
2020, the humble brag, too
By the associated Press

NEW YORK — Either loudly sing your own praises or don’t in the new year, but let’s leave the
humble brag behind, along with a few other oversaturated, cloying or just plain silly cultural quirks
that deserve a big goodbye. Among them are pop-up shops, cancel culture and the ever-present
“OK Boomer” retort on social media. With much ado about something, here’s our annual Over It
list of things that should remain in 2019:

DOUBLE-WRISTING                                            POP-UPS                                                        INFLUENCER FATIGUE
Wearing two timepieces has been around since the           There’s one for ketchup. There’s one for ice cream.            Is it the end of the line for influencers? Greg Petro,
18-century dandy and his double pocket watches,            There’s one for “Friends.” There are tons with the sole        writing for Forbes.com, declared in November: “Con-
intended to culturally elevate as opposed to making        mission of selling you merch, as opposed to selling you        sumers, especially younger ones, are losing trust in
sure he was really, really on time. Later, Marlon          merch while also being mildly entertaining. The Busi-          paid influencers and looking instead to organic grass-
Brando pulled off the two-wrist tango but, you know,       ness of Fashion notes that Amazon and other digital            roots communities where their like-minded peers are
he was Brando. Young celebs have caught on, Chris          disruptors have contributed to traditional retailers closing   sharing content and commentary about brands and
Pratt, Johnny Depp and Drake included. These days          thousands of stores. The prime but empty real estate is        products they actually love.” Rock on, Greg! Side
it’s all about the digital add-on, plus a statement        up for grabs on short-term leases for ever-rotating ten-       note, exactly how many followers does one need to
piece. Can you see our side eyes?                          ants. Pop-ups are now a “strategy” on both ends, from          score an influencer gig? Asking for a friend.
                                                           commercial land barons to the sellers of goods, luxury
EMAIL RECEIPTS                                             to goofy. Some aren’t mad about it. We’re all popped out.      REVIEWS AND SURVEYS
Firstly, huge thanks for your out-of-office responses.     CANCEL THE CANCELERS                                           Everybody is looking for feedback of all kinds, all the
Those are gold, but please stop asking for receipts.                                                                      time. Don’t be so needy! Just send the toilet brush.
Learn to live with the suspense like the rest of us as     There’s nothing wrong with calling out bad behavior, a         Your survey doesn’t just take “a minute.” You have all
to when we read or do not read your missives, either       bad person or bad practices, especially the kind that          the reviews you need. If we had something to say,
                                                           are truly threatening and make people feel unsafe.
email, text or otherwise. The same goes for when we                                                                       we’d say it. We’re putting the incessant requests for
                                                           There is most definitely something wrong with the
most likely do or perchance do not delete said mis-                                                                       service and purchase reviews and surveys high on
                                                           mob mentality that swirls on social media unchecked.
sives at our convenience. Our inbox. Our rules. Keep                                                                      the annoying list alongside the onslaught of robocalls.
                                                           The cancel culture is often stoked by sheeples with no
your curiosity and aggressive email tactics to yourself.   interest in drilling down to truths. Mean for mean’s sake SPOUSAL GUSHING
HUMBLE-BRAGATHON                                           or 100 percent willing to gulp gossip is not cool. We say,
                                                                                                                      It’s your anniversary. It’s your wife’s birthday. We get
                                                           think before you cancel. We need cancel truth. Unite!
For the truly humble, we appreciate you. For the                                                                      it. You’re married or you have an otherwise significant
passive-aggressive, not so much. Merriam-Webster           BOOMER BACKLASH                                            other and you want your social media world to know
sums up the humble brag nicely: “To make a seem-           Once upon a time in Memeland there was an older            all about how you actually feel about the big day,
ingly modest, self-critical, or casual statement or        dude who trashed millennials and Gen-Zers for Peter        the big event, so you post a pic, and your words go
reference that is meant to draw attention to one’s ad-     Pan syndrome. For that, younger folks have declared        something like this: “To my angel spouse, the perfect
mirable or impressive qualities or achievement.” Just      2019 the year of “OK, Boomer,” as in baby boomer. Not love of my life. You complete me.” The reality at home
own yourself. The dictionary titans say the term has       that the yoots and their pejorative for intransigence,     might be more like this: “If you eat my leftovers, I will
been around since 2002. It was later popularized by        intolerance and tech phobia among their elders is          end you!” Or maybe true love is alive and flourishing.
the comedian, TV producer and writer Harris Wittels,       entirely wrong, mind you. It’s just time to calm down a    Love is grand, but in the words of 4-year-olds the
who died in 2015.                                          bit. The phrase “OK, Boomer” has a richer history. As      world over: “Ewwwww.” In the words of far more
                                                           the legend goes, it surfaced on Reddit in 2009 and on cynical grown-ups, “Get a room!”
                                                           4chan in 2015. According to The Boston Globe, TikTok
                                                           videos with the “OkBoomer” tag have been watched
                                                           more than 44 million times and counting.

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