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         Wellness Committee
           “Superhero Powers”

            Thursday, January 20

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2022 SC BAR CONVENTION - Wellness Committee "Superhero Powers"
2022 SC BAR CONVENTION

          Wellness Committee

            Thursday, January 20

Power of Sleep: Sleep Physiology and Healthy
                   Habits

         Fitzgerald Drummond, MD
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2022 SC BAR CONVENTION

        Wellness Committee

          Thursday, January 20

Power of Nutrition: Feed the Hero Within

     Ken McCormick, MPH, RD, LD
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Ken’s Top 10
                      Healthy Habits for Life
                                   Ken McCormick, RD,LD, MPH

1. Breathe – like your life depends on it. Every day, take opportunities to breathe
   deeply. Avoid behaviors (like smoking) that inhibit airflow (See the
   Deep/breathing Relaxation exercise on back side of this sheet)

2. Drink -- less sugar & more water. One 12 oz serving of a sugary beverage
   every day over one year adds up to over 50,000 empty calories... That’s 5-10 lbs.
   (See the Infused water handout)

3. Be Generous -- with fiber. Eat more colorful, non-starchy vegetables -
   especially the green varieties. Try eating a large salad or vegetable soup for one
   of your meals. Aim for 5 servings or more of fruits and veggies every day.

4. Be Moderate -- with proteins. 3-5 oz of protein/meal, or the size of the palm of
   your hand, is generally enough. Limit or avoid processed (cured) meats.

5. Be Picky -- with carbs. Pick your favorite sweet, or your favorite starch (like
   bread, pasta, rice, potatoes) and limit to one serving or less per meal. Then,
   savor every bite.

6. Eat -- healthy fats. Fats found in nuts, seeds, olives/olive oil, avocados and cold
   water fish are heart-healthy, and help keep us fuller, longer. Avoid hydrogenated
   oils found in margarine and most processed foods.

7. Move -- your body. Anytime, anyway, anywhere… Any questions?

8. Manage -- your stressors. Don’t fill up every moment of your day. Take 10 min
   each day to plan and prioritize the events of the day. Learn to say the word “NO”

9. Guard -- your sleep Cut off screen time one hour before bed. If you snore
   loudly, sleep restlessly, wake up gasping or choking, wake up with a sore/dry
   throat or headache, or feel tired all day, or when driving... you may have sleep
   apnea. Tell your Doctor

10. Attitude -- of gratitude. You only get one chance to live this day. Be grateful
   and give thanks throughout the day for the gift of life.

   Please note: These are general recommendations. Always seek the guidance of your doctor or other qualified health
   professional with any questions you may have regarding your specific health or medical condition
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Relaxation Techniques – Deep Breathing Exercise
“When angry, count to ten before you speak; if very angry, count to a hundred”
If Thomas Jefferson, were alive today, he might substitute the word “stressed” in place
of “anger” -- we’re all over-stressed.
The Mayo Clinic reports relaxation exercises (like deep breathing) can promote good
health in a number of ways:

•   Slowing heart rate
•   Lowering blood pressure
•   Slowing your breathing rate
•   Improving digestion
•   Maintaining normal blood sugar levels
•   Reducing activity of stress hormones
•   Increasing blood flow to major muscles
•   Reducing muscle tension and chronic pain
•   Improving concentration and mood
•   Improving sleep quality
•   Lowering fatigue
•   Reducing anger and frustration
•   Boosting confidence to handle problems

4-7-8 Breathing – A natural tranquilizer for the nervous system
Andrew Weil, MD, a pioneer in integrative health, suggests this. Place the tip of your
tongue against the ridge of tissue just behind your upper front teeth, and keep it there
through the entire exercise. You will be exhaling through your mouth around your
tongue; try pursing your lips slightly if this seems awkward.

•   Exhale completely through your mouth, making a whoosh sound.
•   Close your mouth and inhale quietly through your nose to a mental count
    of four.
•   Hold your breath for a count of seven.
•   Exhale completely through your mouth, making a whoosh sound to a count
    of eight.
•   This is one breath. Now inhale again and repeat the cycle three more times for
    a total of four breaths.
 Weil, explains, “this exercise is subtle when you first try it, but gains in power with
repetition and practice. Do it at least twice a day. You cannot do it too frequently. Do not
do more than four breaths at one time for the first month of practice. Later, if you wish,
you can extend it to eight breaths. If you feel a little lightheaded when you first breathe
this way, do not be concerned; it will pass.
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Healthy, Low-Sugar Beverage Options:

Infused Water

Thinly slice your favorite fruits, add to ice water or unsweetened tea, and drink throughout the
day. A stainless steel tumbler ($8- $10 in most stores) will keep it colder, longer. Tangerines,
oranges, lemons, and/or limes work well. Sliced cucumber is also a very popular option. Adding
ginger or mint leaves to infused water can help give you the “zing” you are missing from
caffeinated beverages.

Green Smoothie
2 cups green tea (or water)
1 small green apple
1 celery stalk
1 piece ginger root (1”)
1 cup kale
1 cup spinach
Juice of 1 lemon
Stevia (if needed) to taste
4 ice cubes
Blend all ingredients and serve immediately. Substitute veggies however you like.

Blueberry Protein Shake
2 cups unsweetened almond or unsweetened cashew milk
1 cup blueberries
1 scoop whey (or veggie) protein powder
1 piece ginger root (1”) - optional
2 tbsp. ground flax seed
2 tbsp. chia seeds
4 or more ice cubes
Blend all ingredients and serve immediately
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Mindful Eating
                        It’s YOUR Decision
                             Ken McCormick, RD,LD, MPH

Let’s face it, for most of us, there are times when our eating habits just go bonkers. We
reach for one Oreo and eat the entire sleeve, we open the bag of chips, and are soon
looking at the bottom of the bag. Then, there is my favorite -- a “medium” size popcorn
from the theater – all 17 cups worth – and I am left wondering, how did I eat it all?

Most commonly, we are just focused on other media. Snacking while we reading at our
desks, at the restaurant with friends conversing over the chips and salsa, or just at
home relaxing in front of the TV – one hand on the remote, the other in a large bowl of
cheese doodles.

We may also be seeking comfort by feeding our emotions, and while we may unaware
of what is happening, the food manufacturers are fully aware and engaged in keeping
us all hooked on sweets and empty calorie snacks… and lots of them.

So, if this describes you, what can you do?

   1. Decide to Decide. Take charge of the decision making process. Ask yourself,
      “Will this decision (food, treat, or whatever) bring me closer to or further from the
      person I want to be?” Don’t be fooled thinking it won’t hurt just this once, or I’ll
      just work extra hard at the gym. Instead, exercise your resolve to say NO, not
      today, not on my watch.

   2. Don’t let Sugar “shack up” with you. When you consume sugary foods and
      beverages, your brain’s reward system, secretes dopamine, one of the “feel
      good” hormones. In this way, sugar mimics other addictive drugs. If this
      describes you, it’s ok to admit you are powerless over sugar. By keeping it out of
      your shopping cart, you will keep it out of your home. Eat before going grocery
      shopping to curb the temptation

   3. Create a Safe Space. At work, surround yourself with healthy options. If
      possible, keep water right next to you, and sip frequently. Motivational calenders
      and hourly reminders or alarms to engage in deep breathing. Pack an insulated
      bag with apples, hard boiled eggs, celery sticks, carrot sticks and snackin’
      peppers. Hummus, peanut butter or ranch dressing can be used as
      dips/spreads. Nuts are also a great snack, but limit to1 oz portions. Most
      important, ask your coworkers for their support. Chances are, they are
      experiencing the same temptations as you, especially during holidays or office
      celebrations. Set boundaries on what is allowed in your office.
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4. Try to avoid Eating in front of Media. I know… easy to say, hard to do. The
   fact is your eyes need a break too, preferably 5-10 min. every hour. If possible go
   outside, or to a window, and view a panorama for a few minutes. Eating while
   driving is equally bad, if it means swinging through the drive thru after a long
   day’s work. If you are a busy professional, you may consider the time-saving
   benefits of intermittent fasting throughout the day (visit Jason Fung, MD on
   YouTube for more)

5. Remember your Mother’s words. “Slow down, don’t gulp your food!” Good
   advice. Chew your food well. Remember digestion starts in your mouth. Put your
   fork down between bites, even try eating with your non-dominant hand. It takes
   about 20 minutes for the hormones in your gut to tell your brain “Hey, I think I’m
   full”

6. Forget your Mother’s words. “Sit down, sit still, and be sure to clean your
   plate”. If you suffer from heartburn, standing or strolling about the room while
   eating may be beneficial. Try using a smaller plate. Portion your foods instead
   of eating straight from the box or bag. If tempted to overeat, try brushing your
   teeth or gargling right after eating. Your mouth will feel fresh and food will taste
   awful.

7. Remember to be Grateful. For whatever, whenever, and however you choose
   to eat, always be thankful that you can eat, that you have enough to eat, and for
   all who had a part in providing what you eat.

   Please note: These are general recommendations. Always seek the guidance of your doctor or other qualified health
   professional with any questions you may have regarding your specific health or medical condition
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           Wellness Committee

             Thursday, January 20

Power of Exercise: How to Fit Movement into a
             Lawyer’s Busy Day

               Steven Heller, LBSW
Presentation Outline – Movement for Health

Introduction
Exercise is POWER! Exercise is a powerful behavior that can help you gain control of
your stress and improve your health. And, the exciting part is that you can make it fun to
benefit your life.
Exercise (movement) for stress reduction and health improvement.
So, before I continue, let’s stand up and stretch. Raise your arms over your head and
reach for the stars. Then, roll both shoulders inward five times and then change
directions and roll your shoulders another five times. Next, stand on one leg and roll
your leg to the outside five times, then change and roll inward five times. Change legs
and repeat.
This is an effective, quick desk break to get the blood flowing and break up the sitting.
As we have entered into a new year many of us vowed to get moving more, maybe lose a
little weight or just feel better. Our plan is to get to the gym after work. Next week. Then
a client calls and needs assistance with an urgent matter that cannot wait until the next
work day. So, we put off the workout and tell yourself, I will workout harder next week.
Here is the cold, hard truth, tomorrow is never going to get here. Therefore, we must act
today and your health must be a number one priority because if you don’t take care of
yourself, you won’t be able to take care of others. The first action item for each of you is
to intentionally and deliberately schedule time on your calendar each week to exercise.
So, what counts as exercise?

Essential Meaning of exercise : physical activity that is done in
order to become stronger and healthier, (merriam-webster, 2021)
Exercise: when you hear the word what is the first thing that comes to your mind? If you
are like most, the word can bring back memories of gym class and the dreaded 45
minutes a day in which you had to do a sport you may not enjoy in order to pass through
school. Others may look back a remember how much fun it was have the time to get
outside with friends to play
Still others think of exercise as work….. with no time off.
Whichever category you fall into, these memories may keep you from getting the
recommended 30 minutes a day. Let’s break this recommendation down a little.

Let’s stand up again and do some low impact jumping jacks and low impact
jump rope. (Explain the exercise and do 20 repetitions on each side.)
Any activity that elevates the heart rate to 50 percent above the resting heart rate
qualifies as moderate exertion. Exercise that causes the heart to go over 70 percent of
the resting heart rate is considered vigorous exertion.
Adults should do at least 150 minutes to 300 minutes a week of moderate-
intensity, or 75 minutes to 150 minutes a week of vigorous-intensity aerobic
physical activity, or an equivalent combination of moderate- and vigorous-intensity
aerobic activity. (National Institutes of Health, 2018)
This can be broken up into brief periods of ten minutes or more and should be spread
out over five days throughout the week.
Let’s stand up and march in place for a few minutes.
Some keys to getting enough exercise are:
   1. Identify activities that you find enjoyable. These may include: dancing, running,
      walking, skipping, swimming, riding a bike, hiking, basically any movement that
      engages your large muscle groups in the legs, torso, and upper body. This can
      include routine tasks such as sweeping, mopping, or vacuuming, so long as you
      move in a vigorous enough manner to raise your heart rate. Routine activities
      may not be “enjoyable” but they can add to your exercise total each week, if done
      in a vigorous manner.
   2. Engage in a variety of activities to prevent burnout and boredom. Remember our
      goal is to build 150 or more minutes of activity into the week as a routine. Think
      of it like you think of improving your nutrition. The key to eating healthy is not a
      short-term “diet” but rather to build a habit of eating a variety of healthy foods.
      Exercise should be a habit not an impulse.
   3. Fit the time into your day intentionally; plan your exercise time. Just like
      preparing a grocery list to help in buying healthy foods, pack your work-out
      clothes and shows the night before so you can easily make your planned exercise
      period and complete your work out.
   4. Plan your errands to include parking your car and walking from one errand to
      another.
THE POWER OF EXERCISE
                 OR
   HOW DO I GET 30 MINUTES A DAY?
EXERCISE IS POWER
▪ Gain control of stress
▪ Improve physical health
▪ Improve mental health
▪ Improve life-work balance
EXERCISE BREAK
   ▪ Stand up
   ▪ Stretch your hands to the sky
   ▪ Roll both shoulders forward five times
   ▪ Roll both shoulders backward five times
   ▪ Stand on one leg, lift the other leg and roll your leg to the outside five times,
     then inward five times
   ▪ Change legs, and repeat
This is an effective, quick desk break to get your blood moving, warm your muscles,
and improve your core stability and balance.
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!
Resolutions
  ▪   Get moving more
  ▪   Lose weight
  ▪   Get fit
  ▪   Reduce stress

What’s wrong with the resolutions listed above???
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!
Resolutions or goals need to be measurable and achievable. A resolution is just a
goal with more syllables……
Create S.M.A.R.T. goals
  ▪   Specific
  ▪   Measurable
  ▪   Achievable
  ▪   Realistic
  ▪   Timely

You must make a plan to achieve your resolutions.
SMART GOALS FOR THE NEW YEAR
Lose weight
Specific
   ▪ Achieve a B.M.I. of 25 (“normal” weight)
Measurable
   ▪ Lose one pound per week
Achievable
   ▪ Exercise 30 minutes per day, five times per week
Realistic
   ▪ Eat less than ten percent of calories of saturated fat

Timely
   ▪ Lose one pound per week by exercising 30 minutes five times per week and eating less than
     ten percent of calories of saturated fat.
SMART GOALS FOR THE NEW YEAR
Lose weight
OR
Lose one pound per week by exercising 30 minutes five times per week and eating less than
ten percent of calories of saturated fat.
Calendar 30 minutes exercise time five days per week
   ▪ Determine your maximum heart rate
   ▪ Exercise at a moderate intensity
      ▪ Achieve a heart rate greater than 50 % and less than 70 % of your maximum heart rate
If you are new to cardiorespiratory exercise or have health concerns, consult your
doctor before starting a new exercise program
Cold, hard truth – planning to get to the gym tomorrow to exercise is not a realistic
plan. You must act today to make and implement a plan to achieve your goals.
SMART GOALS FOR THE NEW YEAR
What counts as EXERCISE
Physical activities done to become stronger and healthier.
Not middle or high school gym class
Do not let your memories of childhood physical education class or recess prevent
you from getting 30 minutes a day of exercise
EXERCISE BREAK
   ▪   Stand up
   ▪   Demonstrate low impact jumping jacks
   ▪   Have seminar perform 20 low impact jumping jacks
   ▪   Demonstrate low impact jump rope
   ▪   Have seminar perform low impact jump rope for one minute
This is an effective, quick desk break to get your heart rate elevated and increase
your activity level throughout the day.
SMART GOALS FOR THE NEW YEAR
What counts as EXERCISE
Physical activities that increase your heart rate at least 50 percent above your
resting heart rate.
Examples:
  ▪ Brisk walking
  ▪ Running
  ▪ Cycling
  ▪ Swimming
  ▪ Hiking
  ▪ Dancing
Adults should get 150 minutes to 300 minutes per week of moderate
intensity aerobic physical activity.
SMART GOALS FOR THE NEW YEAR
Adults should get 150 minutes to 300 minutes per week
of moderate intensity aerobic physical activity.
  ▪   Identify activities you find enjoyable
  ▪   Movement that engages your large muscle groups (legs, torso, upper body)
  ▪   Enjoy a variety of activities to stay engaged
  ▪   Make your physical activity part of your routine
  ▪   Schedule the time and pack your clothes and gear
  ▪   Do not go home first (at the end of the day)
  ▪   Plan your errands to include walking from your car to the destination
Remember this is LIFE; enjoy it.
THANK YOU FOR
YOUR ATTENTION
AND
PARTICIPATION

www.triandlikeit.com
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          Wellness Committee

            Thursday, January 20

Power of Putting it Down: Tips to Remove the
        Distraction of Social Media

 Hannah Tate Smith, MMFT, CACP, LMFT-A
Power of Putting it
Down

Tips to remove the
distraction of social media -
personally and professionally.

Hannah Tate-Smith, LMFT-A
Every 12 minutes
          It’s about the constant interruption - it’s a constant state of alertness

●   Short term = the brain adapts
●   Long term = sense of addiction
     ○ Brain is in “hyper-alert state,” searching for stimuli constantly

                                                       Griffey, H. (2018, Oct 14). The Lost Art of Concentration. Retrieved from theguardian.com
Short term (1 hour)                             vs.    Long term (3 hours)

                                                      12 minutes                      12 minutes                        12 minutes

12 minutes       12 minutes        12 minutes         12 minutes                     12 minutes                          12 minutes

 Hormones - adrenaline and cortisol -
 help with “bursts” of energy                                                           12 minutes                        12 minutes
                                                      12 minutes

                                                        Griffey, H. (2018, Oct 14). The Lost Art of Concentration. Retrieved from theguardian.com
Long term (3 hours)

                                           Becomes an addiction:
                                           serotonin and dopamine
                                           (“feel-good hormones”) drop
 12 minutes    12 minutes    12 minutes     ● feel less calm and happy
                                            ● affects our sleep
                                            ● heart rate increases, making
                                                us feel jittery.
 12 minutes    12 minutes    12 minutes

  12 minutes    12 minutes    12 minutes

                                           Griffey, H. (2018, Oct 14). The Lost Art of Concentration. Retrieved from theguardian.com
How “short term” becomes “long term”

 Our brain          Brain experiences the         Brain is
  craves a        immediate joys of tapping,     thrilled, it   Habit is
  break - a        scrolling - like going on    thinks it has   formed
 “vacation”       vacation, but for the brain      rested

Short term                                                Long term
It only takes 3 weeks to form this habit

                      Griffey, H. (2018, Oct 14). The Lost Art of Concentration. Retrieved from theguardian.com
And only 3 weeks to break a habit

                  Griffey, H. (2018, Oct 14). The Lost Art of Concentration. Retrieved from theguardian.com
The “Shift”

                                           Replace a few phone breaks with
                                           mindful breaks
                                            ● Supports concentration for
  12 minutes   12 minutes    12 minutes           later
                                           ●      Anxiety and depression
                                                  decrease
                                           ●      Heart health improves
  12 minutes   12 minutes    12 minutes    ● Mood improves
                                           ● Sleep improves

  12 minutes    12 minutes    12 minutes

                                            Mindful Staff. (2020, Sept 7). The Science of Mindfulness. Retrieved from mindful.org.
The “Shift”: in action

                                           3 week shift:
                                            ● Identify when you can
                                               replace “mindfulness” with
  12 minutes   12 minutes    12 minutes        phone usage (realistically)
                                            ● Choose which mindful
                                               behavior works for you
                                            ● Let’s practice
  12 minutes   12 minutes    12 minutes

  12 minutes    12 minutes    12 minutes

                                            Mindful Staff. (2020, Sept 7). The Science of Mindfulness. Retrieved from mindful.org.
Android and Iphone
supported app
                     ● Sleep
                     ●   2 minute - 60 minute
                         mindfulness meditations
                     ●   depression/anxiety
                     ●   Stress
                     ●   Focus
                     ●   Imposter syndrome
Power of Putting it
Down

Hannah Tate-Smith, LMFT-A

hannah@giftcounselingcenter.com
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           Wellness Committee

             Thursday, January 20

Superhero Performance: Mindfulness Strategies
          for the Distracted Lawyer

               Vivien Hudson
Begin With the End in Mind
What was the future you dreamed of?

What are some choices you made that got in the way?

What clutters my life?

What takes up too much of my time?

How positive is my attitude on a day-to-day basis? (On a scale of 1 to 20 with 20 being Great!!)

Would the people around me agree?

How stressed do I feel on a day-to-day basis? (On a scale of 1 to 20 with 20 being A LOT!!)

Would the people around me agree?

Potential signs of burnout

Sense of failure and self-doubt
Feeling helpless, trapped or lacking choice
Detachment and feeling alone
Lack of motivation
Increase in a negative outlook and cynicism
Decreased satisfaction and lack of accomplishment
Headaches, insomnia and getting sick
Substance abuse
Taking frustrations out on others
Procrastination
How long are you happy to live the life you are currently living?

Regrets of the dying
I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.
I wish I had kept in touch with my friends.
I wish I had let myself be happier.
I wish I had the courage to express my feelings.
I wish I had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

Which of the above do you currently have any regrets about, if you are honest with yourself?

In 5, 10 or 20 years from now – what are you likely to regret if you don’t change?

Slowing down and savoring is about noticing and acting on the moments in your day. Your memories are
                                     all just fleeting moments!

What Tiny Noticeable Things (TNT’s) can I do to….
What Slow Down and Savor moments could I add to my day?
For example – notice the minty freshness as you brush your teeth, the smell, the feel.

What could I Slow Down and Savor with gratitude?
For example - specifically thank your assistant for a particular task they helped you with.

How could I Slow Down and Savor with kindness?
For example – pay for an extra coffee for a stranger when you next buy yours.

Self-awareness
What do I notice about myself today?
For example – I notice I am grinding my teeth more than usual and my shoulders are tight.
I notice I hold my breath ever so slightly as I open an email.
I notice my mind wandering as my kids tell me about their day and I haven’t heard anything they said.

What do I notice that is uncomfortable for me?
For example – Saying sorry is not easy for me. I always feel I have to still make it about the other person.
Asking for help isn’t easy. It makes me think I am weak if I can’t do it myself.

What do I notice about my attitude or thoughts?
For example – I feel like I need to have the final say when I have an argument.
I feel grumpy when I first wake up. People annoy me easily.

Do I ever say … if only? How do I usually end that sentence?
For example - If only my kids would clean up after themselves.
If only someone else would help me once in a while.
If only we had time to take a vacation.

Priorities
Our lives seem full of things that are constantly urgent and important. However, this often leaves the
important and not urgent things unattended to. Think TNTs.
Think – Less is more.
What could I have less of in my life?
For example – I could get rid of at least 5 books on my bookshelf and 5 t-shirts I never wear.
I could focus better on 1 project at a time rather than 3 at once.

What do I need to give myself permission to do?
For example – when I am taking off time to be with my family, it’s ok to not be thinking about work.

Who is your support team and how do you prioritize them?
For example – my husband is my biggest supporter, but I always assume that he will be there when I
stop working. I can make him a bigger priority by taking 10 minutes to check in with him and be truly
present each day.
Finding meaning
When you started law school, maybe you wanted to change the world in some way. How have those
ideas changed and where could you find ways to bring more meaningful contribution in your life,
family or community?
For example: When I became a pharmacist, I wanted to make people’s lives better through helping them
with their health. I have since learned that the mind is a powerful tool and really provides the best
medicine. By helping others live more meaningful lives, I feel I make a positive difference in helping
make the world that little bit better.

The Big Rocks Philosophy
What is the best way to fill a jar with sand and pebbles?
If we fill the jar with the sand first – there is no room for all the pebbles. If we put the pebbles in first,
the smaller grains of sand fit in around the bigger rocks and more fits in the jar.
What are the big rocks to you in your life? How can you notice them in TNT ways?

We become what we think about all day long. Who will you be?

Whatever you do – remember to keep the end in mind.

Now ….. If I were to ‘start over’ from today, what could I change? Brainstorm!! Get crazy!!!

The information in this presentation is not intended or implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice,
diagnosis or treatment.
Begin With the End
in Mind
What was the
future you
dreamed of…..
Then life happened…..
Law of Stuff
1st law
    Stuff will expand to fit any
container you decide is big enough
         to hold your stuff
2nd law
You have too much stuff
Caveats to the Law of Stuff

Stuff is defined as:           Container is defined as
• Material Possessions (aka    • Cupboards
  stuff)                       • Time
• Tasks (aka work)             • Salary
• Debt level (aka spendings)   • Stomach
• Food (aka food)
Things That Defy the Law of Stuff

Word Documents
Stuff
        This Photo by Unknown Author is licensed under CC BY-NC-ND
Expectations Vs Reality
Choices
Busy
Burn out
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How long do you want to
  keep living this life?
Regrets of the dying
I wish I hadn't
worked so
hard
I wish I had
stayed in touch
with friends
I wish I had let
myself be
happier
I wish I had the
courage to
express my
feelings

             This Photo by Unknown Author is licensed under CC BY-NC-ND
I wish I had the
courage to live a life
true to myself, not the
life others expected of
me
Begin with the end in mind
Tiny Noticeable Things
Slow Down
    and Savor

Simple things I can enjoy:
Be grateful
Gratitude Questionnaire (examples)
Use a scale of 1 – 7   (7 strongly agree, 1 strongly disagree)

1. I feel very thankful for my degree of physical health
2. I count my blessings for what I have in this world
3. I reflect on the worst times in my life to help me realize how
   fortunate I am now
4. Although I don’t have everything I want, I am thankful for what I
   have
How I helped others
this week:

Next week I intend to
help others by:

Be kind
Self
Awareness
Predictive Index
Notice yourself
Notice the
uncomfortable
Priorities
What are your big rocks?

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What are your big
rocks?

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Give yourself Permission
Who is your support team?
What is your purpose?
Law of No Regrets
1st Law
Make time for
yourself
2nd Law
Make happiness a
priority
3rd Law
Have a good support
team
4th Law
Be brave enough to
share your feelings

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5th Law
Be true to your values and
purpose
Flourishing Scale
Use a scale of 1 – 7   (7 strongly agree, 1 strongly disagree)sagree)

I lead a purposeful and meaningful life
My social relationships are supportive and rewarding
I am engaged and interested in my daily activities
I actively contribute to the happiness and wellbeing of others
I am competent and capable in the activities that are important to me
I am a good person and live a good life
I am optimistic about my future
People respect me
We become what we
 think about all day.

 Who will you be?
As you begin again,
remember to keep the
end in mind.
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