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! Project updates & viewpoints
                                                                                                 12
Support for eating and drinking at end of life                                           10
A new booklet tells family carers what they need to know to help a person living with
dementia who has eating and drinking difficulties towards the end of life.
Yolanda Barrado-Martín and colleagues say why it is needed

Have I told you about my blackbird?                                                      12
Intensive Interaction is a communication approach attending primarily to an individual’s
social and emotional needs. Jules McKim illustrates it from a very personal perspective by
describing conversations with Helen and Frank, his own mum and dad

Bus stops in care homes: all aboard?                                                     14      14
Fake bus stops in care homes may be reassuring to some residents but are they ethical?
Toby Williamson used to be a critic, but explains why he had a change of heart

Social prescribing: a vital means of access to the arts                                  16
Social prescribing can help to combat feelings of fear and loneliness in the often prolonged
periods leading to a diagnosis of dementia. Veronica Franklin Gould discusses arts
prescribing and how it can best be timed to nurture resilience in the community

A new picture book explores the landscape of dementia 18
Positive examples of how to live well with dementia can be hard to find, but John Killick        16
and Claire Craig have found a creative solution in the form of a picture book which they
believe will counter the negative images

! Features
Friendly Faces: volunteer companions in hospital                                         20
Volunteers can provide companionship and mental stimulation for people with dementia in
hospital, but how effective are they? Menaka Jayasekera and colleagues describe their
evaluation of the “Friendly Faces” project in Bath to cast light on the benefits that
volunteers can bring

GREAT CR – a potential new service in dementia care 24                                           Regulars
A personalised cognitive rehabilitation approach for people with dementia has had
promising results in helping them to regain and maintain everyday skills. Jackie Pool and
Aleksandra Kudlicka assessed the feasibility of extending the GREAT CR programme to              ! Comment by Mark Ivory    5
care homes
                                                                                                 ! News                     6
Better Living with Rare Dementia: digital support                                        27
Given that people with rare forms of dementia are widely dispersed, digital interventions as
                                                                                                 ! JDC Asks                 8
a means of providing them with support could be a way forward. In the fourth article of our
rare dementia series, Joshua Stott and Aida Suarez-Gonzalez report on their digital              ! Dementia Diaries         9
support platform Better Living with Rare Dementia
                                                                                                 ! Perspectives
The role of doulas in dementia care                                                      30
                                                                                                 by Jonathan Papworth      11
End of life doulas work with people who have had a terminal diagnosis, including those
with dementia in their final months. Aly Dickinson and three end of life doulas talk about the
role and present a selection of dementia-related case studies
                                                                                                 ! Research reports        32
                                                                                                 ! Resources               34
                                                                                                 ! Events                  35

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Managing Editor Sue Benson                                      n this issue of JDC, we cover our usual wide range of topics,
                                                                from digital support for people with a rare dementia, cognitive
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                                                                rehabilitation and social prescribing to volunteering in
Designer Rob Wheele
                                                             hospitals and end of life care. We even talk about the rights and
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Caroline Baker, Barchester Healthcare                        implemented in care homes and quite likely domicilary care too. Better still, there is
Paola Barbarino, Alzheimer’s Disease International           a practitioner training programme run by Exeter University. In another article
Kate Lee, Alzheimer’s Society
                                                             Veronica Franklin Gould explains how “social prescribing” – primary care referrals
Professor Dawn Brooker, University of Worcester
Theresa Ellmers, University of Southampton                   to arts and wellbeing activities – can help to combat feelings of fear and loneliness.
Dr Nori Graham, Alzheimer’s Society                          Note that she says social prescribing can bridge the provision gap between
and Alzheimer’s Disease International                        symptom onset and diagnosis, a gap that can only have widened. Arts 4 Dementia
Tessa Gutteridge,Young Onset Dementia, Dementia UK
Jo James, Imperial College Heathcare NHS Trust
                                                             will be running a conference for those who want to find out more on 20-21 May.
Rachel Niblock Dementia Engagement and Empowerment             These may look like green shoots in a barren landscape when there is so much
Project – people living with dementia                        policymakers must do to make the care system fit for purpose. But such initiatives
Sahdia Parveen, University of Bradford
Maria Pasiecznik Parsons, Creative Dementia Arts Network
                                                             can certainly contribute to our national recovery.
Lynne Phair, independent consultant nurse & expert witness
Jackie Pool, Dementia Pal Ltd                                 The Journal of Dementia Care is a                Writing for JDC:
Professor Graham Stokes, HC-One                               multidisciplinary journal for all professional   Do you have a project or survey to report,
Professor Claire Surr, Leeds Beckett University
                                                              staff working with people with dementia, in      or a change in practice organisation or
Dr Amanda Thompsell, South London and the Maudsley NHS
                                                              hospitals, nursing and residential care          structure which has worked well (or not),
Foundation Trust
                                                              homes, day units and the community. The          and would you like to share this
Toby Williamson, independent consultant
Lucy Whitman, former carer, writer, editor and trainer        journal is committed to improving the quality    experience with others? Do you have a
                                                              of care provided for people with dementia, by    strong opinion you would like to express?
Consultant editors                                                                                             We welcome letters and contributions
                                                              keeping readers abreast of news and views,
Professor Jill Manthorpe, Professor of Social Work,
                                                              research, developments, practice and             that promote discussion and debate
King’s College London.
                                                              training issues. The Journal of Dementia Care    about dementia care.
Dr Hazel Heath, independent nurse consultant: older people
                                                              is grounded firmly in practice and provides a    Contact the editor, Mark Ivory:
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                                                              lively forum for ideas and opinions.

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NEWS

                                                                                   Care homes urge caution as lockdown eases
   News in brief                                                                   While the gradual easing of              absolutely tragic impact on
                                                                                   lockdown restrictions has been           both them and their families,”
                                                                                   widely welcomed, care homes              said the charity’s head of
Shortages hit palliative care
                                                                                   have urged caution in case it            policy Gavin Terry.
A comprehensive review of dying, death and bereavement during the
                                                                                   sparks a resurgence of                     But the Independent Care
pandemic shows how shortages of PPE, essential medicines and
                                                                                   infections.                              Group (ICG) said that, while it
equipment meant that palliative care teams were unable to provide
adequate care for patients and their carers. Experts warn that the last              From April residents in                was pleased to see residents
year has been a stress test for community-based palliative care, which             England have been allowed                and relatives reunited, it was
was “stretched to and beyond capacity”. A joint study by the charity Marie         indoor visits from two regular           also necessary to be “cautious
Curie and three universities argues that it is essential to learn lessons from     visitors with whom they can              and careful.”
the pandemic if palliative care is to be ready for a projected 100,000             have physical contact. In                  As Office for National
increase in annual deaths in 20 years’ time. “Palliative and end of life care      parallel, things like window             Statistics figures showed
must be an essential part of the health and social care system and not a           and outdoor visits are                   weekly care home deaths
forgotten after-thought,” said Marie Curie chief executive Matthew Reed.           continuing from a broader                from Covid-19 fell to 151 in
Go to www.mariecurie.org.uk for the Better End of Life Report 2021.
                                                                                   range of people.                         March, ICG chair Mike
Survey of care home visits during pandemic                                           Alzheimer’s Society, which             Padgham said there was a
                                                                                   has been campaigning for                 “real risk” infection rates
Disruption to care home visiting has been a major feature of the pandemic
and a new research project by Leeds Beckett University aims to identify and        family carers to be recognised           would rise again as more
share best practice on visits. Project leader Professor Claire Surr is seeking     as integral to care, said it was         people ventured out.
residents’ relatives, care staff, managers and others to take part in the          “essential” that visits were               “We saw the last time
research, which will examine barriers and facilitators to visiting during the      seen as the default position.            restrictions eased that care and
pandemic. Participants will be asked to complete a survey, helping                   “People with dementia have             nursing homes suffered,” he
researchers to determine what would help care homes to adopt approaches            been worst hit by the                    added. “We must be extremely
that are closest to usual practice for family and friends visiting a person with   pandemic and have endured                cautious to prevent that
dementia. To access the survey page, go to http://bit.ly/2OT4uvu                   months of isolation, with                happening again.”
Action on Rights in Scotland

                                                                                   Dementia diagnosis rate falls
As lockdown measures ease north of the border, an Action on Rights
team has been created by charity Alzheimer Scotland with funding from
the Scottish Government. It is helping to implement the government’s
Open with Care visiting guidance, providing emotional and practical
support to families and friends of care home residents. The charity said           A significant fall in the dementia diagnosis rate has been flagged
the Action on Rights team would provide advice on visits and help                  up by Alzheimer’s Research UK (ARUK), which said it was
families have informed discussions with care home staff responsible for            “extremely concerned”. According to figures from NHS Digital,
arranging visits. “The Scottish Government have agreed that another                diagnosis rates dropped by 40,000 between February 2020 and
level of intervention is required to support families and friends who are          January 2021, from 471,252 to 429,858.
experiencing trauma because of the loss of meaningful contact,” said                 These figures represent the total number of people in England
Alzheimer Scotland chief executive Henry Simmons.                                  with a coded diagnosis of dementia. While the government’s
Dementia Action Week 2021                                                          Covid-19 mental health and wellbeing action plan promises £17
                                                                                   million to tackle the drop in diagnosis rates, ARUK said it was
Dementia Action Week, organised by Alzheimer’s Society, runs from 17
                                                                                   worried that many people with suspected dementia were not
- 23 May. The week is seen by the charity as an opportunity to urge the
government to rebuild social care and it is calling on its supporters to take      seeking medical help during the pandemic. Susan Mitchell, head
part. Posters and flyers can be ordered from www.alzheimers.org.uk                 of policy, commented: “It is extremely concerning that the
                                                                                   dementia diagnosis rate has fallen during the past year. While we
‘Worrying picture’ over DNACPRs                                                    are disappointed by the figures, we hope they will act as catalyst
A “worrying picture” of poor involvement by people using services has              for urgent change in the way we diagnose dementia.”
been found to lie behind do not resuscitate decisions during the
pandemic. This verdict from the Care Quality Commission (CQC) comes
in its final report on DNACPR decisions, which calls for a ministerial
oversight group to take responsibility for delivering improvements. In an
interim report before Christmas, the CQC found that unprecedented
pressure on care providers and rapidly changing guidance may have
led to DNACPR decisions being “incorrectly conflated” with other critical
care assessments. The CQC heard from stakeholders that blanket
decisions had been made without consulting the individuals concerned.

Online course on communication
Vamos Theatre, which works with dementia care professionals on non-
verbal communication, has created an online course to help health
professionals communicate with their patients remotely. The course -
Communicating Through Covid Times - explores communication via
video call and phone that would previously have been done face-to-
face. “The course helps participants understand why today’s                        Poetic justice: Residents and staff at care home group Nellsar have made a
communication methods add additional pressures and offers                          moving video of a poetry reading to mark a year since the first Covid-19
supportive strategies to help,” said course leader Rachael Savage.                 lockdown. In the poem, titled Thank You, they express gratitude to all who
www.vamostheatre.co.uk/CTCT.                                                       have made the experience easier to bear. Here is a link to “A special thank you
                                                                                   from Nellsar” www.nellsar.com/videos

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NEWS

First Covid-19 vaccine dose provides
significant protection in care homes
                                                                             News in brief
Care home residents gained         transmit the virus to others.
                                                                          Infection control funding extended
substantial protection against        “Our study suggests that both
                                                                          Care home infection control funding from the government has been
Covid-19 from a single dose of     vaccines are effective at
                                                                          extended until ther end of June with a cash boost of £341 million. The
either the AstraZeneca or Pfizer   reducing infections in frail, older
                                                                          additional emergency funding for social care is to support infection
vaccines, University College       adults,” said Dr Maddie Shrotri        prevention, control and rapid testing. Vic Rayner, National Care Forum
London (UCL) researchers have      from the UCL Institute of Health       CEO, said the new money was welcome but added it was “impossible
found. Health data from more       Informatics. “The new evidence         to not note the disparity in treatment of social care and the NHS”.
than 10,000 residents indicated    is important because there is
that a single dose had prevented   currently limited data about           Dementia risk rises after Covid-19
56% of infections after four       vaccine efficacy for this              Dementia risk is heightened in people who have had Covid-19, particularly
weeks and 62% of infections        vulnerable population.”                those who needed intensive care, a study published in Lancet Psychiatry
after five weeks.                     Alzheimer’s Society said the        suggests. Looking mainly at US health records Oxford researchers found a
   Finding that the two            results would enable more              link between a diagnosis of covid and a diagnosis of one of several
vaccines were equally effective    meaningful visits to residents         psychiatric and neurological conditions, including dementia, in the following
                                                                          six months. “Services must be prepared to deal with a large number of
in this group, whose average       from relatives and friends,
                                                                          potential dementia cases,” said Alzheimer’s Research UK head of research
age was 86, the study              adding that social isolation had       Dr Sara Imarisio.
indicated that even residents      resulted in “shocking levels” of
who did become infected after      deterioration in people with           New Office for Health Promotion
the vaccine were less likely to    dementia.                              The government has pledged to prioritise public health by establishing a
                                                                          new Office for Health Promotion (OHP) within the Department of Health
                                                                          and Social Care. The OHP will take over public health promotion from
‘Urgent need’ for dementia-friendly housing                               Public Health England. Alzheimer’s Research UK (ARUK) said dementia
                                                                          prevention should be a priority but pointed out that the government
MPs have highlighted an            including dementia, it says.           policy paper accompanying the OHP announcement had made no
“urgent need” to ensure that          The APPG inquiry heard              mention of dementia. “We are concerned that this report lacks the detail
                                                                          needed to effectively overcome the challenge of dementia prevention,”
housing is built in a way that     evidence from 14 people,
                                                                          said ARUK head of policy Susan Mitchell.
anticipates the care and           including people with
support needs of people with       dementia, carers’ organisations        Social care workers on ‘poverty wages’
dementia. An inquiry by the        and NHS workers. Inquiry               Labour Party deputy leader Angela Rayner called for social care workers
All-Party Parliamentary Group      chair Lord Best said getting           to earn at least £10 an hour and said that “poverty wages” were holding
(APPG) on Housing and Care         housing right made a “huge             back the economy. She told the Unison Women’s Conference that a pay
for Older People says in a new     difference” for people living          rise was well overdue and “the least they deserve” after the dedication
report that new homes should       with dementia and their carers.        care staff had shown during the pandemic.
be “dementia-ready” from the          “Our inquiry shows how
outset and that housing should     ‘right-sizing’ or adapting the         Top tips on visiting from My Home Life
be firmly embedded in              home can avoid or postpone a           My Home Life, which promotes quality improvement in care homes, has
dementia care pathways.            move into residential care,            posted Top Tips for supporting nominated visitors coming into see residents.
  Pulling together evidence,       saving places there for others         Put together by a group of Essex care home managers, the practical tips
                                                                          focus on helping care teams to welcome nominated visitors so that they feel
research and analysis, the         who really need them,” he
                                                                          confident and safety is assured. As for the future, they recommend building
report makes investment            added. “Our recommendations            on what has worked during the pandemic. “Keep the phone calls and Zoom
recommendations to                 challenge politicians and              meetings going,” they advise. www.myhomelife.org.uk
government, offers practical       practitioners but also ourselves
guidance to housing providers      to get ready for a future when,        Nurse recognised in awards
and “dementia-proofs”              despite increasing numbers,            A South Africa-born dementia care nurse has had a dedication throughout
national design principles.        everyone with dementia can             the pandemic recognised by the Market Third Sector Care Awards. Gladys
Many ordinary homes require        have a fulfilling life.”               Nkhola, who works at the independent hospital Monet Lodge in
significant investment to bring       Housing for people                  Manchester, was given the award for her contribution to compassion in
them up to date and adapt          with dementia - are we                 nursing. Monet Lodge provides residential care for people with complex
them to support people living      ready? available at                    dementia and is operated by the charity Making Space. Joby Raju, clinical
                                                                          lead at Monet Lodge, said: “Gladys has dedicated her life as a nurse to the
with a variety of needs            www.housinglin.org.uk.
                                                                          care of others. At 75, she continues to work tirelessly and
                                                                          compassionately, night after night, to ensure that the patients in her care
                                         Time for action:                 receive the absolute best care that they deserve.”
                                         Cambridgeshire care group
                                         Askham Village Community         New care recruitment campaign
                                         has called for more young        The government hopes to mobilise thousands of people out of work or
                                         people to consider a career in   on furlough into social care with a new “Care for Others, Make a
                                         social care. It chose Young      Difference” recruitment campaign. The campaign in England emphasises
                                         Carers Action Day to make        short-term as well as long-term opportunities, suggesting that
                                         the appeal and highlighted       “jobseekers, volunteers and people on furlough” could register their
                                         sisters Rebecca (left) and       interest in personal care, wellbeing support, collecting and delivering
                                         Chloe Browning, who both         supplies, or “helping out with the cooking and cleaning”.
                                         work at Askham with their
                                                                          More News in brief on p10
                                         mother Mandy Ladds (centre).

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JDC asks...
In its new white paper on NHS reform, the government
holds out the prospect of “innovation and integration”,
learning the lessons from the pandemic. What should
NHS reform mean for dementia care?

From left: Jo James, Susan Mitchell, Paul Edwards, Nori Graham and Jill Manthorpe

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      he government’s NHS             of care, like the NHS, like            fewer diagnoses since March         exposed many faults in our
      white paper, Integration        education.”                            2020 compared to the previous       approach to dementia, in
      and Innovation, was                The government had an               year and a disproportionate         shocking and heart-breaking
published in February and             opportunity, at a point where          number of deaths. It has            ways for many.
appears to be quite encouraging       the dementia community have            highlighted the unique                 Issues such as hospital
on the face of it. It speaks of the   been bruised and battered by           vulnerability of people with        discharges, care home visiting,
importance of integrating             their indifference and lack of         dementia.                           lack of diagnosis, increasing
health with social care and local     support, to offer a new way               Now, more than ever, we can      complexity and reductions in
government, and it emphasises         forward which put the needs of         see that the solution needs to be   support services have exposed
the need to strengthen                people with dementia and their         a research-led approach. If         the fragility of service provision
accountability and develop a          carers at the centre of this new       Integrated Care Systems, as         and a lack of understanding at a
more user-centred model of            legislation. However, they have        proposed in the white paper, are    national and local policy level.
care.                                 failed, yet again, to prioritise the   going to deliver for dementia,      In that context you would have
   But in spite of stating that it    needs of this group.                   they will need to improve           thought that any NHS reform
remains “committed to reform”,        Jo James is lead nurse for             diagnosis of dementia, enable       (or indeed social care reform)
it does not address the               dementia at Imperial College           more people to take part in         would seek to address what
significant pressures in social       Healthcare NHS Trust.                  clinical trials, and ensure the     really matters.
care – although the paper is                                                 health system can adapt to             We know that dementia falls

                                      G
clear that it is using the learning          overnment proposals to          deliver new treatments as soon      down the gap between health
from the Covid-19 pandemic to                reform the NHS rightly          as they become available.           and social care; both systems
inform it. If this is the case, one          seek to improve                    With changes to public health    should be working in unison to
has to question why there is so       integration. However, we must          structures, we must ensure          help support a society ageing
little mention of people with         also improve outcomes for              there is better awareness about     with dementia. The reality is
dementia, who were the most           people with dementia, with             how people can protect their        fragmentation of service and
adversely affected group, had         more accurate and timely               brain health and reduce their       lack of clinical ownership and
their human rights violated as        diagnoses, reducing dementia           risk of developing dementia.        accountability.
Amnesty International said, and       risk, and making sure services         There is currently very little         Given the problems people
were not kept safe during the         are able to benefit from progress      detail around how health            with dementia and their
pandemic.                             in research.                           promotion will be delivered in      families face, navigating a
   These issues have given rise          The success of the proposed         the future.                         fractured system leads to
to reports by Amnesty                 reforms will depend on the             Susan Mitchell is head of           increasing complexity and a
International and the Care            NHS being able to recover from         policy at Alzheimer’s Research      lack of timely support from
Quality Commission, as well as        the burden of Covid-19 and             UK                                  diagnosis. These challenges
calls for an independent inquiry      implement improvements to                                                  often continue right through the

                                                                             O
and a new ministerial oversight       address the current service                  ver the last 20 years,        dementia pathway to the end of
body. A coalition of dementia         capacity and workforce                       dementia care has been        life.
organisations led by                  challenges. More will need to                subject to frequent              The NHS reforms and the
Alzheimer’s Society and               be done for people affected by         reforms, none of which has          promise of social care reforms
Dementia UK called in March           dementia, as has been                  made significant differences to     (whenever they may be) divides
for “universal social care as a       underlined by the impact of a          people with dementia and their      policy when it comes to
legacy of Covid-19, free at point     pandemic that has led to 43,000        families. The last year has         dementia care. In fact, what we

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Dementia Diaries
really need is investment in         in the quality of care for people
dementia care in its own right,      with dementia. If he breaks it,
and a revolution in thinking         there is little chance of real
and pathway development like         change.
that which we saw in cancer          Dr Nori Graham is emeritus            People living with dementia from groups in the DEEP network
care in the late 1990s.              consultant in old age                 are using a voicemail service to record their thoughts and
Paul Edwards is director of          psychiatry                            experiences… wherever and whenever they feel like doing so.
clinical services at Dementia

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                                                                           This time, we feature three of our male Dementia Diarists, each
UK                                            hatever the name of this     reflecting on an issue which is close to his heart:
                                              proposed legislation, it

T
      here are two major                      is not the promised                         First, Clive Rogers talks about the friends he’s
      problems affecting the         reform of adult social care. At                      made from Zoom groups with other Dementia
      quality of care for people     the time of writing, we hear that                    Diarists, and with groups in the DEEP Network:
living with dementia: lack of        this will be forthcoming –                           “I was in the Air Force for 26 years and we moved
integration between health and       hopefully this year – and                            around every couple or three years. So, although
social care and a seriously          readers of DC will be hugely          you make friends, you don’t make true friendships which are
depleted, underfunded work           interested in it because it may       lasting… So I’ve got friends on these groups (DEEP and
force. The recent white paper        well have a direct impact on          Dementia Diaries) that I feel more of an affinity to than I have for
tackles neither of these.            dementia care. In the                 anyone in the whole time I’ve been in the Forces almost. Even
   The document describes            meantime, the white paper’s           though I haven’t even actually physically met them. And I’m
ways in which different parts of     proposals to reorganise the           really looking forward to when this Covid [ends]…that we can
the NHS, local authorities, and      NHS are important too.                meet up and we can get together as a group…”
independent sector will be              There have been several
brought together through             reorganisations of the NHS over                      Secondly, Keith Oliver reflects on what it’s like to
Integrated Care Systems (ICS).       our lifetimes. Boundaries have                       have dementia, and how insulting some
There are, however, no               changed, responsibilities have                       misguided comments can be:
proposals to integrate NHS and       changed, activities have
                                                                                         “No two days and no two people are
local authority social care          changed, and funding
                                                                                         identical…Because there is no one true
budgets. This means that there       arrangements turned upside
                                                                           representation of dementia. It is a progressive condition, which
will continue to be unresolved       down. Under the new
                                                                           in my case is Alzheimer’s, the disease of the brain. And it can
difficulties in the care of people   proposals, the key body we will
                                                                           be tempting for people in their ignorance or naivety to think,
who need services from both          have to get used to is our local
                                                                           and indeed say, “You don’t look like you have dementia”. This
sectors, namely everybody with       Integrated Care System (ICS);
                                                                           is both distasteful and insulting. I wonder, would someone with
dementia.                            these have already begun to be
                                                                           cancer face the same question? I’m sure they would not.”
   People with dementia need         set up, in some areas in rather
the same skill mix in the people     shadowy form.                                        And thirdly, James McKillop has some sound
looking after them whether they         One of their roles is to work in                  advice for conference organisers who invite
are in hospital, in care homes or    partnership with other bodies                        people like him to give presentations:
receiving domiciliary care at        like local authorities.
                                                                                         “A lot of people diagnosed with dementia have
home. There is only one radical      Something similar exists in
                                                                                         never spoken in public in their life, so it is difficult.
way to solve this problem. It is     learning disability services,
                                                                           What has happened to me on a couple of occasions was even
for the NHS and local authority      which have been used to
                                                                           worse. I was told what I wanted to talk about, so I did my
to commission services together      Partnership Boards for many
                                                                           presentation. I can’t remember anything, so I’ve got to read it.
from a single budget.                years and have seen these as
                                                                           So I did that, and then the night before I was asked to talk
   Such an arrangement would         good ways to consult and
                                                                           about something different. So, I did that, and then next
only be possible if the              communicate. It would be
                                                                           morning when I went there, ‘oh, can you talk about this?’
geographical areas of ICSs were      timely to talk to them about
                                                                           That’s happened twice…So, people should give people with
co-terminous with one or more        how they see partnership and
                                                                           dementia who are presenting a wee bit more respect, and
local authorities. It would also     what they have learned at local
                                                                           understand they’re dealing with a problem. And if you’ve asked
allow local authority care           level.
                                                                           them to do something, let it go ahead – don’t change it at the
assistants to be redesignated as        In my experience, these can
                                                                           last minute.”
nursing/ health care assistants.     be powerful bodies to shape
This would immediately               strategies and commissioning,         The Dementia Diaries project was started by On Our Radar and
improve recruitment, retention       but they can be talking shops or      is now part of DEEP, ‘The UK Network of Dementia Voices’,
of staff and possibilities for       simple rubber stamping of             with support from Innovations in Dementia. Find out more and
training and career progression.     actions taken. So, watching out       listen to the Dementia Diaries at www.dementiadiaries.org, or
   Though a major step forward,      for ICS is the first watchword –      on Twitter @dementiatweets. For more information about DEEP,
pooling budgets, in itself, will     and making contact, looking at        visit www.dementiavoices.org.uk.
not solve the serious problem of     their websites and talking to
                                                                           Finally, are you – or do you know someone who is – living with
the underfunding of social care.     key players. And if you are in an
                                                                           dementia who may like to become a Diarist? We’re always
The Prime Minister says he will      ICS, reaching out to key
                                                                           looking to recruit more people, and it’s very simple to record
come forward with a bipartisan       dementia care groups would be
                                                                           your own reports. Or you may have ideas about using the
policy to achieve adequate           wise and very likely enjoyable.
                                                                           Diaries for research, media, education or other projects. If so,
funding by the end of 2021. If he    Jill Manthorpe is professor of
                                                                           do contact steve@myid.org.uk. Thank you for your support!
fulfils this promise, we can look    social work at King’s College
forward to real improvements         London

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The landscape of dementia - Also inside this issue: End of Life Doula UK
Support for eating and
News in brief
NAO report: Public spending
watchdog the National Audit Office
(NAO) has criticised the government

                                            drinking at end of life
for ineffective oversight arrangements
over social care and lacking a
clear strategy for developing
accommodation for adults with care
needs. In a report on the adult social
care market in England, the NAO
says short-term funding settlements
have hampered long-term planning,
                                            A new booklet tells family carers what they need to know to help a
pointing out that 57% more over-65s         person living with dementia who has eating and drinking difficulties
will require care in 2038 compared
with      now.     While      promised      towards the end of life. Bolanda ©arrado-Martín and colleagues
government proposals for social care
have been delayed by the pandemic,          say why it is needed

                                            P
it has committed to produce a
strategy by the end of the year.                   eople living with                                                   dementia in the early stages,
                                                   dementia often face eating                                          24 family carers, and 20
Contact sports investigated:                       and drinking difficulties                                           professionals who offered
Links between contact sports and            towards the end of life, which                                             advice and help with eating
long-term brain injuries, including         may include swallowing                                                     and drinking.
those resulting in dementia, are being      problems (Arcand 2015), but                                                  People living with dementia
examined by a new parliamentary             family and friends report a                                                were unaware of the potential
inquiry. MPs on the Digital, Culture,
                                            lack of information about end                                              eating and drinking difficulties
Media and Sport Committee are
                                            of life in general and nutrition                                           that often appear in the later
leading a “concussion in sport”
inquiry, which will consider scientific     and hydration in particular                                                stages of dementia, while
evidence for connections between            (Papachristou et al 2017). We                                              family carers often had not
head trauma and dementia, and how           have developed a booklet for                                               known either and reported
any risks could be mitigated. “We will      family carers which we believe                                             having struggled for some time
look particularly at what role national     will fill this gap.                                                        with them. Supported by the
governing bodies should be taking,”           Anxious not to duplicate                                                 patient and public involvement
said committee chair Julian Knight.         existing resources, we began                                               group, we embarked on a co-
                                            by mapping what was already                                                design process with family
Saint Cecilia’s launches home
care: North Yorkshire care home
                                            out there through Google and                                               carers and professionals.
provider Saint Cecilia’s is branching out   other websites suggested by         professionals’ experiences of
into home care as it seeks to extend its    members of our patient and          supporting eating and drinking         Developing the booklet
services across the area. The               public involvement group and        in hospitals or care homes and         We recruited 18 volunteers to
Scarborough-based company, which            other experts. Through this         often discussed tube feeding.          help our multi-disciplinary
has four care homes and a day care          search we found 13 resources        But the views of people with           team develop the resource.
centre, said that home care would           focusing to some extent on          dementia at an earlier stage in        These included former and
“complete the jigsaw” of services. “To      eating and drinking towards         the condition had not been             current family carers, speech
survive and prosper in the current          the end of life in dementia.        explored, nor the experiences          and language therapists, a GP,
economic climate, we believe that
                                              These resources varied            of families of those living at         nurse specialists in dementia,
Saint Cecilia’s needs to be a certain
size and the addition of home care
                                            widely in the amount of             home towards the end of life.          an occupational therapist,
goes towards achieving that aim,” said      information and detail                 So, our booklet was                 ageriatrician and a geriatric
managing director Mike Padgham.             provided, varying from four         designed to meet the need for          medicine registrar. Among the
                                            pages to nearly 200 pages in        a resource based on the                nine carers included in
SCA founder retires: Erica Lockhart,        length. Overall, they were          evidence but also reflecting the       co-design groups, five were
CEO of the Surrey Care Association          general documents not               views and experiences of               white British and four were
(SCA), retired at the end of March after    focussing on eating and             people with dementia and               non-white British.
48 years of service to the care industry,
                                            drinking difficulties at the end    their carers. We interviewed             We met as two mixed
the last 35 years of which were
                                            of life in dementia, not            20 people living with                  groups, twice for 90 minutes,
dedicated to improving care services
across the county. She helped found         visually attractive (containing
the SCA in 2005 as a voice for              plenty of text or only black
independent providers and said she          and white ink), and not               Main areas covered in the booklet
thought it was time for someone “new        designed for a lay audience. It
                                                                                  a) Eating and drinking difficulties in dementia
and enthusiastic” to take up the role.      was often unclear whether
“With social care in the spotlight like     family carers had been                b) When to flag up eating and drinking difficulties at the end of life,
never before, now is the time to take       consulted while developing            including strategies and “top tips”
advantage of that fact, to broaden our      these resources.
horizons and help us continue to grow                                             c) Feeding options when there are swallowing difficulties
and expand on the enhanced
recognition and appreciation for the
                                            What was needed?                      d) Things to discuss with professionals in future appointments
vital work we do,” Lockhart said. SCA       When we looked at the
                                                                                  e) Support for family carers
chair Simon Carter paid tribute to her      research evidence (Barrado-
hard work in championing the cause          Mart n et al 2020) we found           f) Further resources, including results from the mapping exercise.
of care providers.                          studies had mostly focused on

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PERSPECTIVES
and held an additional                presentation approaches,
workshop with GPs and                 including diagrams, quotes
primary care professionals in a       from professionals, carers and
GP practice. After discussions        people with dementia, top
at each meeting, the content of       tips, flow charts, prompts and          How digital care systems can
the booklet was developed
and refined. Between
                                      visual images. It aims to be
                                      both engaging and
                                                                              help provide better dementia care
meetings, we talked further           comprehensive with a                    ! Jonathan Papworth is the co-founder
with five other family carers         professional design by our                and director Person Centred Software,
who were members of the               funder Marie Curie.                       a digital care technology company.               By Jonathan
patient and public                       The booklet has been                                                                     Papworth
                                                                              According to projections, the number of
involvement group.                    designed as a free electronic
                                                                              people with dementia in the UK was set
   Despite aiming to involve          resource in the first instance but
                                                                              to soar to more than one million this year. Alzheimer’s Society has
people with dementia in the           can also be downloaded and
                                                                              said that one person develops dementia every three minutes.
co-design process, we found           printed. Although it is
that those we spoke to in the         primarily intended for family           Due to the significant rise in cases, guidelines from the National
early stages did not want to          carers, we hope that                    Institute for Health and Care Excellence say that “all health and
know more about potential             professionals supporting                social care professionals must be properly equipped to support
future eating and drinking            people living with dementia             people with dementia at every stage.” With about 70 per cent
difficulties. They would rather       towards the end of life will find       of people in care homes living with a dementia, residential care
focus on the present, where           it useful too.                          settings have had to adapt.
most had not noticed major               We welcome feedback on the
                                                                              By utilising advances in agile and innovative technology, care
difficulties, and leave these         booklet, which can be down-
                                                                              environments have been able to implement software that
conversations to happen later         loaded at: www.ucl.ac.uk/
                                                                              enables staff to provide a more responsive and personalised
in their dementia journey if the      psychiatry/nutrition !
                                                                              quality of dementia care to improve residents’ quality of life.
need arose.
                                                                              Digital systems have become more widely available to meet the
   Some said that these               Acknowledgements
                                                                              demands of offering safe, comfortable environments for people
conversations should take             This work was supported by
                                                                              with any form of dementia.
place with carers, while others       Marie Curie (grant number
accepted that their families          MCRGS-20171219-8004). We                By empowering staff with information on a person’s past life story,
would make decisions about            thank participants in the               hobbies and fears, they have the capability to draw upon it in
this matter on their behalf. For      Nutri-Dem study for their               crucial situations to help someone with dementia. For example, if
these reasons, it did not seem        time and contributions and are          a care home resident with dementia suffers with anxiety, there are
ethical to invite them to co-         also grateful to members of             digital tools that can provide information, such as that person’s
design sessions where                 Nutri-Dem’s patient and                 favourite poem, and can help calm them and aid reminiscence.
problems with eating and              public involvement group.
                                                                              It is now possible for new care staff to socially interact with a
drinking would be discussed.
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feedback after the meetings,          intake, dehydration, and pneumonia.     makes them feel better if they are anxious or upset, what is
enabling us to improve the            Canadian Family Physician 61(4)         important to them, and so forth. Interactions naturally become
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would need to be covered in           obtaining and engaging in food-         backgrounds and potential?”
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                                                                              improve someone’s quality of life is a remarkable thing, and not
                                                                              all that long ago was unachievable. Many care providers are
! Yolanda Barrado-Martín is research fellow and Pushpa Nair is clinical       digitalising their care environments because they understand
research fellow, both at UCL Research Department of Primary Care and          that care technology is built to help and support the caregiver
Population Health; Kanthee Anantapong is PhD student and Kirsten J.           and receiver at a rate never achieved before.
Moore is principal research fellow, both at UCL Division of Psychiatry;
Christina H Smith is associate professor, UCL Division of Psychology and      As cases of dementia continue to rise, so does our
Language Sciences, Greta Rait is professor, UCL Research Department of        understanding and capability to cope with the growing
Primary Care and Population Health, Elizabeth L Sampson is professor,         numbers through the utilisation of user-friendly, person-centred
UCL Division of Psychiatry, Jill Manthorpe is professor, King’s College       technology. Profile-building software allows care staff to
London NIHR Policy Research Unit in Health & Social Care Workforce            glimpse the lives of the person sitting in front of them and can
Research Unit and Nathan Davies is senior research fellow, UCL Research       tell them what they need to know to provide better care.
Department of Primary Care and Population Health

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I                                     Have I told you
   n the last month of my dad’s
   life I visit him in his care
   home in Wiltshire. The staff
here are great and he is

                                      about my blackbird?
enjoying himself despite the
dementia he now has causing
some mild aggression and
swearing. When I sit with him
he tells me about the chats he
has with the staff, the jokes,        Intensive Interaction is a communication approach attending primarily
the banter. That is his over-
riding experience of the care         to an individual’s social and emotional needs. Jules McKim
he receives – the social              illustrates it from a very personal perspective by describing
exchanges. On this particular
visit, however, he looks              conversations with Helen and Frank, his own mum and dad
worried.
   “I appear to be in                                                    learning disability, have           she was weeding her front
California,” he says.                                                    developed dementia and              garden, she turned and
   A pause. I hear the wind                                              moved into nursing homes.           realised that the blackbird
outside, staff down the                                                  Staff and carers have found the     must be seeing its reflection in
corridor, a call bell ringing. I                                         approach really useful in           the glass and was tapping at a
think: Gosh, he’s really lost the                                        maintaining social interactions,    mirror image of itself. This
plot now! I wait and                                                     not just for the person referred,   fascinated and tickled my
think…connect don’t correct                                              but for others in the home. It is   mum. So now I may answer
(Hughes 2009). Maybe he feels                                            this social – or “phatic” –         with:
like he is in California? I                                              communication that seems so            “No, tell me?” or
wonder why. I back away from                                             important for people’s                 “Blackbird, what about a
going too far and reinforcing                                            emotional wellbeing (Hewett         blackbird?” or perhaps with a
this delusion: Oh yes, so we                                             et al 2019). I too have found it    bit more honesty:
are, look out the window, you                                            invaluable in maintaining              “Yes, I remember something
can see giant redwood trees!                                             connections with both my            about that. Please tell me
   With an attitude of curiosity,     Jules’ father Frank                parents right until the end.        again.”
I explore:                                                                                                      And then, of most
   “California?” asked, quietly,      Interaction. This approach         Rehearsed and                       importance, really, genuinely
gently and affirmingly…               aims to connect with people        practised stories                   leaning into her story with
   “Yes, perhaps Mollie will          who have significant               “Have I told you about my           interest, both verbal and non-
visit. Her house is near here I       communication difficulties         blackbird?” My mum Helen            verbal, smiling, nodding,
think…”                               and attend to their social and     asks me this question every         holding eye-contact, clarifying
   He was thinking about his          emotional needs by joining in      time I visit her. How to            details. Another repeated story
sister, Mollie, who does indeed       or mirroring what they are         respond to this!? She too has       today: her tale of being
live in California. Perhaps he        doing or saying (Nind &            some mild dementia, or              bombed in the war. This is
was thinking back to a time           Hewett 2005).                      “memory problems” as she            more detailed, emotionally
when he had visited her and              There has been some             prefers to call it. Inside I may    complex and long-standing of
was, in his mind, literally in        research and articles on the       well be experiencing turmoil        course. What I find fascinating
California. Perhaps he was            use of Intensive Interaction       or a sort of “oh gosh not           about this story is that there
hoping that he would see her          with people with dementia          again” kind of feeling. Part of     are occasional new details that
again before he died. He              (Harris & Wolverson 2014) and      me wants to run from the            come out when she re-tells it.
didn’t, but this conversation         it forms the basis of “adaptive    room screaming “shut up             She has said to me recently
allowed us some time to think         interaction” (Astell & Ellis,      about the stupid blackbird!!        that her old memories are
about her, talk about her, for        2011). Imitation is part of the    Yes, you’ve told me – you’ve        stronger and more vivid than
him to share memories and             essence of our human               told me a hundred times or          they used to be: “It’s almost
stories of his beloved little         interactions (Astell & Ellis,      more!”                              like I’m there again!”
sister. I am so pleased I             2006); indeed, didn’t Oscar           But she is my mum, she has
responded with a one-word             Wilde say: “Imitation is the       dementia, she wants to engage       Moments of deep
interested answer and that the        sincerest form of flattery.” But   with me and this a rehearsed        connection
starting point was that one           really, it is a sort of modified   and practised story of some         A few months before the
word that he said.                    imitation, speaking the            interest – to her and me (more      pandemic, when we lived
                                      person’s “language” by             interesting the first time to be    those pre-pandemic times,
Simply sharing                        joining in with what they can      completely honest!). Every          unaware of what was coming,
This article is written from a        still do or say and taking it      morning at the same time a          unaware of the depth of
very personal perspective. It is      from there, without                blackbird comes and taps on         connections we had and
not a description of formal           expectations or goals other        her glass front door. She can
research. I work with people          than simply sharing human          tell it is the same blackbird and   ! Jules McKim is Intensive
with learning disabilities using      companionship.                     it arrives at pretty much           Interaction specialist care
a communication approach                 Several of the people on my     exactly the same time.              coordinator at Oxford Health NHS
known as Intensive                    caseload, in addition to a            After some months, when          Foundation Trust.

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enjoyed, I was over at my
mum’s on one of my regular
weekly visits. We enjoyed a
meal together, Helen not
eating much. Her appetite got
less and less, but she always
kept her hunger for puddings!
   We had a typical rather
stilted conversation, going                                                                                   to reassure, and also as it’s
over some of the same topics,                                                                                 true, especially during her
with pauses from Helen and                                                                                    current state of fluid
filling in the missing words                                                                                  awareness, presence and
from me. One of the beauties                                                                                  reality. If she is in
of repetition is that this            Helen 4 above and (right) in                                            Pembrokeshire with this
strategy of filling in the gaps       moments of connection with                                              doctor, why should I not also
was so much easier – I knew           her son Jules                                                           be there with her?
the script! I often felt that these                                      takes in her room. There seem           We listen together to the
conversations made us both               There are two Helens now.       to be at least three stages to her   sounds of the hot water
painfully aware of our                This is a little problematic as    rising up and becoming aware         system… “Listen!” she says,
different communication               they can’t be in the same place    of her surroundings. She is          “Swish! It sounds like the
competencies.                         at the same time. With her eyes    amazed each time – “I’m here!        sea!”, waves rushing up and
   We moved to the comfy              shut, my Helen goes inward,        How odd! I haven’t been here         down a pebbly beach,
chairs for pudding. Helen’s           becomes the other Helen, her       in ages!” Up from the depths,        inhalations and exhalations,
favourite were the little pots        inner Helen, and drifts away       gasping a little, and by degrees     rising and falling, coming and
from Waitrose – cappuccino            into memories and dreams. At       she comes back into her here         going. We’re sat on Renny Slip
mousse or lemon mousse as             times she has been in London,      and now body, sitting up             Beach in Pembrokeshire
we had this evening. After a          being seen by the very best        straight, remembering her            watching the waves slide
few mouthfuls, she licked her         doctors who were “appalled         aches and pains, the need to         through the kelp, parting and
lips and vocalised –                  by how unwell she had been”;       use the loo, feelings of hunger.     combing it like mermaid’s hair.
“mmmmm.” I copied, more or            at other times she has been in                                          When I was a kid, we used to
less exactly the same                 Pembrokeshire enjoying             Communication through                spend all day as a family on
“mmmmm.” She laughed and              respite and recovery by the        the barriers                         this beach, sunbathing,
said “mmmmm” again, I                 sea. When she’s away she can’t     We’re talking round corners,         swimming, Helen singing
copied but extended and               come back and refuses all          through screens, through             Amazing Grace to the seals.
added in an upward tone at            attempts by us and the carers      masks, wearing invisible             That feels like a lifetime ago.
the end like a question:              to care for the Helen we can       smiles, dazzled by reflected         Now, I repeat “Swish” back to
“mmmmmmmmm?”                          see and hear.                      light off windows and our            her, we squeeze each other’s
   She laughed out loud, looked                                          inability to understand              hands back and forth, tactile
up at me, we made eye-contact,        Watery depths of                   FaceTime, taking up the worst        turn-taking that says it all,
her eyes were sparkling. At           consciousness                      positions for effective              with not a word exchanged. !
that moment, we were equal,           Talking with her now is like       communication. I’m standing
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and craziness of human social         swim down and again it will        experiences, providing               human rights and Intensive
communication. It was                 snap. I don’t want to trick her    missing names, words and             Interaction. PMLD Link 31(1) (Issue
profound and banal all at the         and pull her out gasping into      experiences, supporting her          92) 8-10.
same time. Oh, for more               the light and dry and              with a metaphorical jigsaw           Hughes DA (2009) Attachment-
puddings with my mum!                 unbreathable air; instead, I       puzzle, offering just the right      focused parenting. London: WW
   Weeks later, covid struck,         need to swim with her a little,    piece at just the right time,        Norton & Co.
Helen went into a care home,          draw the line in, bind us          piecing her disintegrating self      Nind M, Hewett, D (2005) Access
communication became even             together with connection and       back together.                       to Communication: developing the
                                                                                                              basics of communication in people
more problematic, but                 empathy and memories, touch           “It’s lovely when you’re
                                                                                                              with severe learning difficulties
moments of connection,                and laughter and surface           here!” she says.
                                                                                                              through intensive interaction. (2nd
although brief, were still            together.                             “Even when I’m not here,          ed). London: David Fulton.
possible.                                She slowly opens her eyes,      I’m still with you” I say – both

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