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WELCOME TO THE LOWDOWN DURING LOCKDOWN - THE RAMADAN EDITION. A holy month of fasting starts as the lunar calendar lands on ‘Ramadan 1, 1441 AH’ (more on dates later). Muslims around the world are gearing up to 30 days of no food or drink (no, not even water) during daylight hours. We’re about to CONTENTS witness the behaviour and consumption patterns of 1.8 billion people worldwide transform even more than they have already during the pandemic. Some 2.5 million of them will be in the What is Ramadan? 3 UK, under lockdown for the first time in history and trying hard to make the holy month more homely. ‘Mosques and Muslim When does Ramadan start this year? 4 organisations across the UK are working to ensure a remote Ramadan can still be spiritually uplifting’ according to Harun Wasn’t Ramadan later last year? 4 Khan, Secretary General of the Muslim Council of Britain. Ram-acular: the vernacular of Ramadan 5 Mosques and Muslim organisations adapting makes sense, but what about where you work? Don’t fret - we’ve made What happens at Eid-al-Fitr? 6 this handy guide to help you navigate the month. If you’re Muslim then share it with your colleagues, and if you’re not Muslim How do Muslims feel about then feast your eyes (and nothing else - it’s Ramadan this year? 7 nil-by-mouth) on how to be a good ally this month. How can I make Ramadan more Ramadan Mubarak! homely for my colleagues? 8 Is it okay to ask….? 9 Some practical resources 11
WHAT IS RAMADAN? Although Ramadan is best known for a period of fasting, there is actually a lot more to it than forgoing meals. Ramadan is observed by Muslims all over the world and is the month when the ‘Qur’an’, the Islamic holy book, was revealed to Prophet Muhammed by the angel Gabriel. This occurred on one of the holiest nights in the Islamic calendar called Laylat al-Qadr, or the "Night of Power", which is either observed on the 23rd night by Shia muslims, or the 27th night of Ramadan by Sunni Muslims. The month provides a time for Muslims to reflect on their faith, and have empathy for those who are less fortunate than themselves. Fasting provides the opportunity to feel what it’s like, and in addition to not eating or drinking from sunrise to sunset, Muslims spend the time praying and doing charitable acts called “zakat.” These all fall under the 5 pillars of Islam: SHAHADA SAWM ZAKAT SALAT HAJJ DECLARATION OF FASTING CHARITY PRAYER PILGRIMAGE FAITH 3
WHEN DOES RAMADAN START THIS YEAR? Ramadan begins with the sighting of the new moon which is declared globally by Saudi Arabia. The month may start on Thursday 23rd April, or it could be Friday 24th April - but what we do know is that it will last for 29 or 30 days. Image credit: Huda Fahmy WASN’T RAMADAN LATER LAST YEAR? Every year we hear ‘gosh Ramadan has just crept up on us this year! Wasn’t it later last year?’ Well yes, it was. Muslims follow a specific lunar calendar called the ‘Hijiri year’. It is 10-11 days shorter than the Gregorian calendar, meaning the dates of Ramadan shift forward slightly every year. People in their 30s today will remember the time when fasts were short as Ramadan was in Autumn. The year we typically know as 2020 CE, is actually 1441 AH of the Islamic calendar. It is believed that Ramadan began in the seventh century close to the beginning of the Islamic calendar in 622 CE, marking the year Prophet Muhammed migrated from Mecca to Medina - two places that are considered the birthplace of Islam. 4
RAM-ACULAR: THE VERNACULAR OF RAMADAN Now that we have covered the basics of the what and when of Ramadan, here are the terminologies you need to know to navigate the holy month. Suhoor The meal prepared and eaten in the morning by Muslims ahead of a day of fasting and the sunrise prayers (Fajr). Also known as ‘sehri’. Iftar The fast opening meal prepared and eaten in time for sunset prayers (Maghrib). Also known as ‘fatoor’. Namaz The Arabic word for prayers. Muslims are called to prayer five times a day. As well as sunrise and set, Muslims pray ‘Dhuhr’ (lunchtime prayer), ‘Asr’ (mid afternoon) and ‘Isha’ (night prayers). Tarawih These are additional prayers that are performed at night after Isha prayer at the mosque. The Qu’ran is read from start to finish (ending on Laylat-al- Qadr), however this year mosques around the world have scrapped people congregating for these prayers due to Covid-19. Wudu The first step in prayer - wudu is the washing of the hands, mouth, nostrils, arms, head and feet with water in preparation for namaz. You’re not supposed to sing happy birthday while doing it though. Dates Nothing to do with swiping right - dates (the fruit) are mentioned in the Qu’ran and tradition has it that the Prophet Mohammed (pbuh) opened his fast with three dates and water. Rooh Afza A syrupy neon red drink that has become a staple of breaking iftar for Muslims. People serve it in milkshakes, ice-creams or with a dessert. Pbuh If you noticed that above, it stands for ‘peace be upon him’ - when Muslims refer to the Prophet Mohammed (pbuh) they usually add that acronym at the end out of respect. Chand Don’t get this confused with ‘Chana Chaat,’ a spicy chickpea dish, it’s the eve of Eid-al-Fitr celebrated on the sighting of the new moon. People Raat celebrate this by buying new clothes for Eid, having a big iftar with loved ones, or preparing henna patterns. Eidi At the end of Ramadan comes Eid (more on that shortly) - Muslims give gifts to each other. Parents (or other elders) will often give children money, aka ‘Eidi’ (pronounced Ee-dee). 5
WHAT HAPPENS AT EID-AL-FITR? Eid-al-Fitr - quite literally ‘the Festival of Breaking the Fast’, will likely be celebrated on the 23rd or 24th of May, for a period of three days. Muslims globally wait in apprehension for Eid-al-Fitr to be declared by Saudi Arabia to begin celebrating three days of ‘Small Eid.’ (Eid-al-Adha gets the crown of ‘Big Eid’ as it lasts for four days). Just as ‘BAME ain’t the same,’ Islam isn’t the same everywhere, so Ramadan traditions differ slightly globally and between different sects of Islam. Nonetheless, the first day usually begins for most Muslims with morning prayers, followed by celebration with friends and family. Celebration lasts throughout the three days and often involves gifting traditional sweets like ‘Mithai’ or ‘Baklava,’ buying new clothes and feasting with loved ones. Most importantly, ‘Zakat- al-Fitr,’ or ‘Fitrana,’ is a donation given specifically on Eid-al-Fitr by all self- sufficient adults to those less fortunate than themselves. Muslims are waiting with baited breath to see what lockdown restrictions will still be in place by the time Eid comes around. It’s expected that Covid-19 will have a big impact on these communal, sociable gatherings this year and you should stay tuned to the Muslim Council of Britain website for the latest. 6
HOW DO MUSLIMS FEEL ABOUT RAMADAN THIS YEAR? Part of the magic of Ramadan comes from socialising through iftar meals and tarawih prayers. While this is going to be prohibited this year, feelings remain mixed for Muslims. We asked some to tell us how they’re feeling: At Amaliah as part of our WFH standup we’ve started reading 6mins of Quran, just to start getting into the flow for Ramadan where some of us try and read more Quran. “The communal, offline aspect is pretty much being stripped away this Ramadan due to lockdown. There are rituals like night prayers that are important in some people’s Ramadan routines as well as food gatherings and late night dessert trips to fulfil cravings!” - Nafisa Bakker, CEO of Amaliah - Media platform and agency In all honesty, we’ve been too busy to even give Ramadan much thought. What we do know is that it will be much quieter and less extravagant. Those after midnight meals won’t be feasts - not that they should have ever been - but mums can’t help themselves. It’s a lot more back and forth than it used to be. We have our huge bag of rice and a drum full of atta (flour). That’s all we will need but we want to make sure others get their basics too. It’s going to be an exhausting one this year for us”. - Amna Saleem, screenwriter & broadcaster whose parents run Tollhouse Xtra Local in Glasgow. Ramadan for British Muslims will look markedly different this year with the current social distancing measures in place, but mosques and Muslim organisations across the UK are working to ensure a remote Ramadan can still be spiritually uplifting. “While it is typical for families to stock up with products for meals during the month of fasting, they should remain conscious of the difficult circumstances we all face now with the pandemic and ensure that we only purchase in reasonable quantities which allows for everyone to acquire what they need. “Whilst Ramadan is usually spent with friends, families and communities, eating in the mosques or out at restaurants, Muslims this year will be looking at how to make the most of the holy month in their homes.” - Harun Khan, Secretary General of the MCB 7
HOW CAN I MAKE RAMADAN MORE HOMELY FOR MY COLLEAGUES? Many of the traditions associated with Ramadan, like family iftars, or visiting the mosque are done with a whole community behind you. That means this time under lockdown may feel extra isolating for Muslims as the UK enters another month of working from home. To be receptive to this, here are some of our ‘rama-dos’ to make the holy month especially homely for your colleagues and employees: Flexibility Ramadan completely shifts your body clock. To be mindful of this, flexible working hours will allow your Muslim employees to make time for prayers and their new meal schedule during these longer spring days. Privacy Unless video calls are a necessity, offering the option to switch off cameras is a great way to not only be accessible to everyone’s needs, but also to improve the quality of the call. Wellbeing Build Ramadan into weekly check-in meetings to ensure that Muslim colleagues’ wellbeing is being prioritised - monitoring energy levels check ins throughout the day is a first step towards this too. Mindfulness Encourage the team to be respectful of their Muslim peers; not eating lunch on camera, or avoiding having their videos on if they are in the kitchen is an easy way to adapt to colleagues needs. Openness If you are unsure about an arabic pronunciation, or have a burning question about certain practices - don’t be afraid to ask questions and acknowledge this is not your forte, instead hand the mic over to your Muslim peers. Challenging Working often makes fasting easier, since it gives you something to focus on beside, well, eating. Use this time to give your Muslim employees some brain occupying tasks to be creative and think differently. 8
IS IT OKAY ? ? ? ? ? ? TO ASK...? ? ? ? ? ? ??? ??? ??? ?? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ??? ?? ??? ? ?? ???? ??? If you’re not up for asking your colleagues about Ramadan directly, we’ve done it ? ? for you. We put a call out for the burning questions people want answered in the run up to Ramadan and pooled advice from our network. Here are the best bits and top tips: What’s the best way to Is there anything I shouldn’t acknowledge the start of say / talk about? Ramadan - can I say Happy Although most Muslims would be happy to answer any questions you may have, there Ramadan? are a couple of questions and topics that, although not offensive, are ones your Muslim The best way to start off the month of peers may be tired of hearing over and over Ramadan is with “Ramadan Mubarak,” this again. would loosely translate to ‘have a blessed Ramadan.’ In response to someone saying We recommend being sensitive to questions this, the typical reply would be “Khair surrounding eating and drinking, and along Mubarak,” which means ‘to you too’ or ‘bless with that, commentary around exercise and you too.’ weight gain/loss. Questions like “so you can’t eat or drink for 30 days straight?” or “not You may have also seen the term “Ramadan even water?” can definitely get tiring. So as Kareem” used, however this directly means a reminder, Muslims stop eating or drinking ‘generous Ramadan,’ so if you want to use this from sunrise to sunset, and have a big meal, term, we would recommend that you put it in a or iftar at the end of the day and often drink sentence, like ‘Ramadan Kareem has arrived.’ their 2ls of water until that next sunrise. If all else fails, ‘have a wonderful Ramadan’ Another area to be mindful of is asking why works just as well too! certain Muslims may not be fasting, as this may put them on the spot to explain why. N Muslims who have chronic health conditions, M A D A concerns for their mental health, older or R A young people, as well as people during their K periods, do not have to fast. There are also B A R A exceptions for people who are pregnant, M U ill or travelling, so it is best to avoid these sensitive topics. 9
Ramadan from home - is it better or worse? The answer to this question will differ between Muslim households. On one hand, it is definitely easier to work from home without being packed into a crammed central line train in the heat of summer. However, as we know BAME people are disproportionately represented on the frontlines, so many key workers may be Muslim and working on the frontlines whilst fasting - which would be much harder. The circumstances even of working from home are so varied - you may have colleagues living alone in a small studio with no outdoor space, with a large multi- generational family constantly making noise or with small children who require extra attention. To be mindful of supporting your I want to acknowledge Muslim employees, having 1 on 1 sessions to check in, is a good idea rather than and celebrate Eid with my discussing their current situation openly with the whole team in group meetings. From a community perspective, Ramadan is colleague - how can I do it during lockdown? a time to be with others, especially extended family and friends. In this respect, the lockdown will be a difficult time to navigate. From visits to the mosque, 3am suhoor Starting off with a congratulatory “Eid breakfasts with cousins or late iftar trips to Mubarak” is a great first start! dessert bars with friends, this Ramadan will require some ritual breaking and cultural Showing your employees that Ramadan shifts. Whether that’s for the better or worse is important could be as small or big as is yet to be decided... you want. In general, make sure to confirm holiday requests early for Eid or offer an extended paid leave to celebrate the holiday. This year however, Eid falls on the weekend and also into the spring bank holiday, so Muslims should have three days off to celebrate over the long weekend! Ramadan is also the time of giving, so talk to your CSR team to see if there is a way to work with Muslim colleagues to embed culture nuances into upcoming charity initiatives or simply donate to a cause they care about. (See next page for resources) 10
SOME PRACTICAL RESOURCES Before we bid you farewell, here are some resources that we think are worth shouting about! Ramadan is not just for Muslims - non-Muslims are encouraged to take part in a fast or two to see what it is about. Some resources to help everyone are: For people fasting: For people who want food for thought: My Open Iftar has shared a pack to We wrote for The Drum on how give you all the tools you need to brands should prepare for Ramadan create an iftar at home. in the year of Covid-19. Ramadan Legacy has an app with a Get the results from our survey on 30 day interactive Ramadan planner, a how Muslims really feel about their content feed and live social stream to identity in the UK and how that affects guide your fasting. your organisation in our Stereotypes Study. The London Central Mosque has a list of resources and information Read the Muslim Council of Britain’s especially for people new to Islam, advice for this year over on the BBC as well as printable timetable for news website. Ramadan this year. Here’s an article from us on PR Young minds and the NHS have some Week about the Rama-do’s and guidance and tips on navigating don’ts for organisations who want to Ramadan with a mental illness or understand Muslims. health condition. And finally, you can read Reuters Authors Idli & Rahma Rodaah have report on how Muslims globally are worked together to create a Mindful affected under the new curfews and Ramadan and Productive Ramadan conditions of life under quarantine guide. You can download their free here. week iftar plan here. 11
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