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President's Message - Well In The Desert
poverty prevention • intervention • advocacy

 Volume 13 Issue 2                                             www.wellinthedesert.org • Telephone (760) 656-8905                                                November 2018

                                                                                                                                                      Photo: Marguerite Ballantine

                                                                President’s Message
           If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that                      yet “gotten there”.
                          we belong to each other.                                         The food programs we offer to our clients are amazing: hot meals five days a week,
                                Mother Teresa                                             sack lunches for later in the day or evening; food distribution every Saturday, emer-
    Compassion is not religious business, it is human business, it is not                 gency food boxes, and home delivery to those not well enough to leave their homes.
                                                                                          We have a cooling center where people can be together, socialize, or just be alone, in
    luxury, it is essential for our own peace and mental stability, it is
                                                                                          a safe environment, where they can get coffee, cold drinks, and snacks, take a shower
                        essential for human survival.
                                                                                          and fresh clothing.
                                   Dalai Lama
                                                                                           Combine that with an amazing list of social services and a caring environment,
   People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but                 we work to help alleviate those things that come with poverty and homelessness.
            people will never forget how you made them feel.                              They are also able to speak with Batiya, our very devoted and compassionate Social
                              Maya Angelou                                                Worker.
               I feel the capacity to care is the thing which gives                        We are a grassroots organization, where volunteerism is a huge part of our running
                           life its deepest significance.                                 of the Well. Close to 90% of our budget goes directly to client services, or the things
                                                                                          that support and make happen the services we offer to anyone in need who walks
                                     Pablo Casals
                                                                                          through our doors.

 Dear Readers, Friends and Supporters of the Well in the Desert:                           You can help. Volunteer, donate, hold a meeting in your home to introduce us to
                                                                                          those who may not know about us, go online to donate or send us a donation by
  Fall, and soon, winter will be upon us and it is the season of holidays, times of re-   mail. You, every one of you, are the wings beneath our feet.
membering and being grateful for all that we have. It is the time of giving, and the
time we think of others and what we might do to make their lives a little lighter, a       Christmas is soon here. We need presents for teenagers and seniors. Teens love gift
little less painful, and a time when we offer joyous happenings.                          cards to Starbucks, or any fast food restaurant, to Walmart or a place where they
                                                                                          can get an item of clothing of their choice. We start now, and all donations can be
  I chose these quotes from people I have learned from over my life span. I try to        dropped off at our Cooling Center. We see close to 2,000 people at the Convention
apply them in my life, but, alas, we are all human and sometimes we are not able to       Center on Christmas Day. The joy of the day is beyond words.
live up to what they all mean. But, for the most part, imagine how life would be if
we applied them to our lives.                                                              Please be part of our all encompassing family of the Well in the Desert. Please sup-
                                                                                          port us any way you can, and choose. We thank you on behalf of our clients, staff
 The Well in the Desert is comprised of staff who truly care about our clients, and       and Board from the bottom of our hearts.
their needs, and their suffering. Why? Because they were once clients with the same
problems, who rose above after working so hard, and now serve those who have not           					Arlene Rosenthal
                                                                                           					President
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                                                                                               Hot Meal Weekly Program
                                                                                         Please arrive no more than 15 minutes before service.
                                                                                        All lunch service is from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m.
                                                                                                               Monday
                           WHAT WE DO                                                                   First Baptist Church
                           WELL IN THE DESERT                                                588 Rosa Parks Road — Palm Springs
                           501c3 #33-0694580
                                                                                          Bus line 24 takes you right in front of the Church.
5   Daily hot nutritious meal to over 100 people a day, 6 days a week.                         Lunch is served in the building in back.
5   Sack lunches daily –over 1200 a week served.
5   Phone and mail service.                                                                                   Tuesday
5   Free id vouchers and DMV forms.                                                                     First Baptist Church
5   Morning coffee, rolls and fruit.                                                         588 Rosa Parks Road — Palm Springs
5   Showers daily.                                                                        Bus line 24 takes you right in front of the Church.
5   Furniture for people in need.                                                              Lunch is served in the building in back.
5   Clothing for job interviews and those who need them.
                                                                                                        Wednesday
5   Assistance with food stamps, MISP, id’s and more.
5   Utility assistance.                                                            Church of St. Paul in the Desert--just up El Alameda
5   Rental assistance.                                                                             from Palm Canyon
5   Free notary service.                                                                  125 W. El Alameda — Palm Springs
5   Resume writing assistance.                                                                          Bus line 111
5   One way tickets home.
                                                                                                        Thursday
5   Saturday food distribution of healthy foods to working families,
    seniors, veterans, the disabled, families with children.                         Our Lady of Solitude--corner of Alejo and Belardo
5   Emergency food boxes.                                                                 474 N. Belardo Rd. — Palm Springs, CA
5   Some transportation to medical and social service appointments.                                     Bus line 111
5   Van transportation to hot lunch sites.
                                                                                                             Friday
5   Home deliveries to seniors who are homebound or frail.
                                                                                                    Our Lady of Guadalupe
5   “Well Assist” program to downtown merchants and other business
    owners.                                                                           204 S. Calle El Segundo at Arenas – Palm springs
5   Thanksgiving and Christmas celebrations for all in need. Christmas                         Bus lines 111 & 14, Indian & Baristo
    presents for all the children.
5   Well houses available for long-term group family living, and emer-                                        Saturday
    gencies.                                                                                        Food Distribution at 6:00 a.m.
5   Mental health counseling for those homeless with a psychiatric                             Bag lunches from 9:00 a.m. —10:00 a.m.
    nurse.
5   Children’s better eating program.
                                                                                                       at 181 N. Indian Canyon
5   Weekend outreach with coffee, snacks, food, showers & clothing.
5   Cooling center with showers.
5   Outreach 7 days a week with, snacks, coffee, sweet rolls, clothing,
    toiletries, and a ride to the drop-in/cooling center..
                                                                                                 DONATE TO
5   A 7 day a week cooling and drop-in center.                                             THE WELL IN THE DESERT!
         A family-friendly environment where all can feel welcome,                                          Donations can be sent to:
                        cared about, and respected..
                                                                                                      Well in the Desert • P.O. Box 5312
        For more information: (760) 656-8905                                                             Palm Springs, CA 92263
              www:wellinthedesert.org                                                            Or you can visit our website and donate there:
Or Arlene Rosenthal, (760) 323-8353 or (760) 285-7297.                                                   www.wellinthedesert.org
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                                 What If...
                                    By Dennis Jory
What if...
 next time you take a cruise or stay in a hotel, you donate those little bathroom items
you don’t use to Well in the Desert? We could use those big-time to pamper our
homeless clients for their personal needs.
What if...
 you donated dry dog food to our DOGGONE IT! program to help feed our home-
less dogs? As one client put it, “I have to take care of my dog. It’s the only thing on
this earth that loves me.” (Eighty pounds of dog food costs only about $23 at your
local supermarket and would feed so many pooches. Your dog says, ”Woof, woof ”
on this one!)
What if...
 next time you’re in the mood to bake those fabulous cookies everyone loves, you
                                                                                                Well in the Desert Events Schedule
brought in a few dozen to The Well’s Cooling Center? Our clients would be over the                                            2018 - 2019
moon for sure. Yum! Yum!
What if...                                                                                                           Tuesday, November 27, 2018
 you cleaned out your closet and donated all those things you haven’t worn even                                         Desert Jam Session
once in the last year to Well in the Desert? There’s nothing like getting a new outfit
                                                                                                       Cascade Lounge at the Casino in Palm Springs
just before you hop in that much needed shower at The Well. This one spells pride
                                                                                               7:00 – 10:00 p.m. (doors open at 6:15 with music and appetizers)
and dignity.
                                                                                                               Buffet dinner starting at 7:00 p.m.
What if...                                                                                                    Jazz and more from great musicians.
 on your next trip to Costco to pick up those large packages of toilet paper, paper
                                                                                                         Honorees are: Joyce Bulifant and Roger Perry
towels, air freshener, and glass cleaner you pick up some for The Well? Wow, could
                                                                                                            $95.00 per person $950.00 table of ten.
we ever use more of those! (Think about it.)
                                                                                                             (760) 323-8353 for more information
What if...
 instead of giving money to that homeless person outside your favorite fast food
                                                                                                                         Monday, April 1, 2019
place, you marched back in and bought them a meal? That’s what they need most.
                                                                                                               Fools Folly, Aloha Fools Folly”
What if...
                                                                                                             Bougainvillea Room at Spencer’s
 you went through your sock and underwear drawers and got rid of some of those
you no longer wear, and instead of tossing them, you generously brought them to                                   11:30 a.m. – 1:30 p.m.
The Well? (Smaller sizes are always welcome as so many of our clients have rather                        $100.00 per person, $1,000.00 table of ten.
slight frames.)                                                                                     Honorees: The Glen and Opal Barnett Foundation and
                                                                                                                Martha’s Village and Kitchen.
What if...
 you looked through your camping gear, linen closets and garages and donated                  (760) 323-8353 for more information, or www://wellinthedesert.org
those old blankets, towels and especially sleeping bags that our homeless clients
desperately need as the nights get colder? (Hey, new ones would work too!)
What if...
 you had to go without your sunglasses for even an hour in this bright sunshine we
all love so much? Our clients face that extreme sun all day, every day and could sure
use your old sunglasses you never wear any more. We get requests for those and
                                                                                                              Survey of Well Clients
                                                                                                                              by Damir Donlagic, Director
regular glasses or readers every day. How about it? Please donate a couple of pair?
                                                                                            Hello dear friends.
What if...                                                                                  As I prepare to finish processing and unveiling the 2018 results for our annual client sur-
 everyone reading this column actually brought in just one item? You have no idea          vey, I’d like to point out some important trends and findings of surveys past. Some of this
how much of a difference that could make in the life of those who have so little1          information will surely surprise some people and will be outside of the stereotypical views of
Thanks for being compassionate and helping us make life better for others.                 who our clients are that we serve. These findings also point out exactly how important to us
                                                                                           support from our community is, now more than ever.
                                                                                            The percentage of our clients who are veterans has been steadily climbing throughout the
                                                                                           years. in 2011, 14% of our clients surveyed were veterans. Last year’s survey has revealed that
                                                                                           the percentage is now around 21%, which is alarming, and a very important statistic. The
                  Well in the Desert News                                                  reality is that over one fifth of our clients are veterans.
                                                                                            Also, since the surveys were started in 2011, we have seen a rise of about 10% in women
                                                                                           using our services to now sit at around 40%.
                                         Publisher: The Well in the Desert                  Our cooling center is now operating and becoming a service that the most vulnerable are
                                         Graphic Design: Tim Bridges                       depending on also. At the year of the launch of our cooling center, 65% of our clients stat-
                                                                                           ed that they will be using the center to stay cool during extreme weather. Our last survey
                                         Printing: Reed Printing                           brought that percentage up to 77%.
                                         Distribution: Desert Fox Distribution              At the Well, we also believe, more than ever, that our services are becoming crucial and
                                                                                           necessary to so many of our clients, old and new. In 2011, 52% of our surveyed clients stated
    The Well in the Desert News ©2011 is published twice annually by the                   that that they believe they will need to continue relying on our services. Today that percent-
   Well in the Desert, a non-profit charitable organization., IRS 501(c)(3) #33-           age stands at a whopping 79%.
                                     0694580                                                As you can see, the numbers and trends we have been recording are painting a broader
                            The Well in the Desert                                         picture every time of how important our services are to our community and we urge you to
                   P.O. Box 5312 • Palm Springs, CA 92263                                  consider lending your support to our organization as much as you can. We look forward to
                 (760) 656-8905 • www.wellinthedesert.org                                  sharing our new survey results in the next newsletter, and we thank you for your continued
                                                                                           support.
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                     Ambassador Report                                                              Dia de los Muertos/Day of the Dead
                       by Pat Dugas, Well in the Desert Ambassador                                   It was a beautiful day on Saturday, October 27th when community came together to
 As ambassador for the Well in the Desert, I am privileged to meet many people from all over      enjoy the celebrations at Desert Memorial Park. People of all ages and backgrounds
the Coachella Valley and tell them about the wonderful services we are continuing to provide      strolled the areas where activities were presented while many remembered and celebrated
for our many friends and neighbors so very much in need.                                          their lost ones at gravesites.
 It is a particulate joy to tell them about the success of our Cooling Center this past summer.     The day was made possible by the City of Cathedral, the Cathedral City Public Arts
Many were eager to provide items of clothing and things needed to give our clients a shower       Commission, Harold Matzner, Palm Springs Disposal/Jim Cunningham, Jessup Auto
and a fresh start for another day.                                                                Plaza (Andy Jessup Jr.), Wiefels and Son, (Maggie MacMillan, and Attorney at Law Steve
 Palm Springs and the rest of the valley are people with a special eagerness to help others.      Quintanilla.
They also share praise for our president Arlene Rosenthal, her exceptional Board, and her           Desert Memorial Park, the Boys and Girls Club of Cathedral City, and Well in the Des-
wonderful team. Blessings on all of them.                                                         ert hosted the event.
                                                                                                    The kids enjoyed having their faces painted and the Arts and Crafts from SCRAP Gal-
                                                                                                  lery, along with the fun carnival games provided
    Our Human Compassion Binds Us                                                                 by the Boys and Girls Club of Cathedral City.
                                                                                                    The yearly art contest was a big hit, display-
         the One to the Other                                                                     ing student art from all the Palm Springs Uni-
                                                                                                  fied High Schools and Middle Schools, thanks
  “ Our human compassion binds us the one to the other- not in pity                               to Louisa Castrodale, and those who judged this
                                                                                                  years’ art.
 or patronizingly, but as human beings who have learnt how to turn                                  The day was made really sweet with MC Rocio
           our common suffering into hope for the future”                                         Conde, who presented all the talent, with gusto,
                           Nelson Mandela                                                         in both Spanish and English. We can thank the
                                                                                                  following for making the day culturally sweet:
                                                                                                  The Cathedral City High Choir, their Theater
 Indeed! We are bound together. I am always grateful and amazed at the number of
                                                                                                  Group, their Ballet Folklorico and Aztec dancers
people who volunteer for and give to charities around the holidays. Sadly, hunger is
                                                                                                  group, who were amazing, Son de Mexico and
a year round disease. With summer temperatures reaching over 115 degrees, how do
                                                                                                  Mariachi Nuevo Amanecer.
homeless people survive? They don’t. Not without the help from organizations like                   And, let us not forget the reason we gather for
the Well in the Desert. Every summer we lose homeless people to the extreme heat.                 this very special day in Mexican and Latino tradi-
Poverty, hunger and homelessness are not partial, nor seasonal, poverty, hunger and               tion; to honor those who have passed from our
homelessness can affect any one at any time.                                                      lives. Thanks go to Trinidad Rios and her husband Carlos for the three altars they created,
  We are gearing up for our sixth annual Desert Jam Session. We need your help                    one dedicated to Cathedral City, one to Veterans, and one to our furry friends. They were
now. Please join us Tuesday November 27, at the Cascade Lounge in the Spa Casino                  all very splendid, and meaningful.
in Palm Springs. It is an amazing night of entertainment to raise funds for the Well                Committee members were heard talking already about next year, and what they wanted
in the Desert.                                                                                    to add to the event. So, watch for more information in later postings on Facebook.
 A non stop night of music and fun with the best entertainers in the valley and an
all star band. Patrick Evans and Brian Gallo will be sharing the role of Master of
Ceremonies. We offer a delicious buffet, a no-host bar and amazing auctions.
 This year we are honoring Joyce Bulifant and Roger Perry (in memoriam) with
the “Jammy Award”, in recognition of all the years they have shared their time and
talents with all who live in the valley and for the countless hours they have given to
help non-profits organizations in our desert communities.
 We are currently looking for sponsors, silent auction items and of course YOU. We
need you to help us make a difference.

                           For more information please contact
                                 Darci Daniels Murphy
                                     858.722.5226

          DONATE TO
     THE WELL IN THE DESERT!
                              Donations can be sent to:
                    Well in the Desert • P.O. Box 5312
                           Palm Springs, CA 92263
               Or you can visit our website and donate there:
                          www.wellinthedesert.org
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                                                       Well in the Desert Donors
                                          Thank you to all of our generous donors and supporters who have made our job possible.
                        Riba Taylor                                                Gary Gleason                                     Michael Holmes/Purple Room
                        Abby Snay                                                     Gary Lee                                              Michael Kirkland
                       Adree Rojas                                          Gavin & Patti MacLeod                                        Michelle Coneybeare
                        Alan Wilke                                                 Gayle Hodges                                              Miguel Briones
                   America’s Charities                                               Glenn Tosh                                             MortgageWorks
           Anderson Children’s Foundation                                           Gloria Grand                                        Nancy & Gerrit Vaessen
                      Terrie Andrade                                           Gregorio Cervantes                                            Nancy Glienke
                   Andrea L McMillan                                             Hal & Kate Castle                                          Nancy Steinfeldt
                    Auen Foundation                                              Harold Matzner                                 Nancy Tapick & Marilyn Benachowski
                       Barbara Platt                                                Harold Watts                                  National Christian Foundation CA
                       Barry Layfer                                                Hector Payan                                            Network for Good
                     Becky Shapoori                                            Heide Stock-Brady                             Old Las Palmas Neighborhood Organization
                   Bennion & Deville                                                 Heidi Stutz                                  Palm Springs Presbyterian Church
                       Betty Francis                                           Helen L. Hampton                                 Palm Springs Seventh-Day Adventist
         Beverly Sweigart & Edith Grossi CRAVE                                        Herb Neu                                             Pamela Satterfield
                     Bonnie Englund                                   HN & Frances C Berger Foundation                                        Pamela Wood
                    Brad W. Leathers                                     June through October 2018                                           Patricia Gribow
                     Bradley Hudson                                       Howard & Roberta Young                                              Patrick Olson
                        Brian Isroff                                          J N Lewis Group, Inc                                          Patrick V. Jordan
                       Bruce Lahey                                      James Christopher Anderson                                        Paul C. Constantine
                      Bryna M Blum                                                  James Joslin                                             Peggy Cravens
                   Cardriner Bowden                                             James R. Whitney                                               Peter HIrsch
                       Carol Cianca                                                Janet M. Reid                                              Pierre Menard
                Charlie & Claire Shaeffer                                  Janice Kaminsky, Realtor                              PS Regional Association of Realtors
                       Cheryl Miller                                               Jay Zaltsman                                    Palm Springs Disposal Services
                     Cheryl Sommer                                               Jeanne A. Burke                                               R & M Yarger
                     Christine Brown                                Jerome and Ann Angel Charitable Trust                                    Rachel Druten
                  Christine Peres-Pena                                          Jessup Auto Plaza                                            Ray J Musante
            Church of St Paul in the Desert                                        Jim Schwietz                                        RCH Processing Services
                  City of Cathedral City                                          Joan Blackman
                                                                                                                                            Rebecca Cardoza
                   City of Indian Wells                                               Joan Dry
                                                                                                                                           Rebecca Johnson
                  City of Palm Springs                                       Joan Penny Carpenter
                                                                                                                                           Rebeca Rodriguez
                    Constance Bigbie                                        Joanne & Myron Mintz
                                                                                                                                        Richard & Muriel Yarger
                 Contour Dermatology                                     Joe Giarusso/Charles Paglia
                                                                                                                                            Richard Crowley
                   Crownstar Design                                               Joe Leo Knight
                                                                                                                                     June through October 2018
                     Cynthia Monaco                                                  Joe Phelen
                                                                                                                                            Richard McCabe
                         D J Turold                                                  John D Cyr
                                                                                                                                                Rick Larson
                       Dale Schultz                                            John P Dubrawski
                                                                                                                                            Riverside County
                     Dan Thompson                                                  John R White
                                                                                                                                            Robert Cipolloni
                      Daniel Signani                                               John Ribaudo
                                                                                                                                            Roberta Hawkins
                       Darci Daniels                                            Joseph Biderman
                                                                                                                                               Robin Green
                    Darrin Schemmer                                               Judith Koubek
                      David C Torres                                                                                                            Robin Ives
                                                                                    Judith Perry
                       David Morris                                            Judith Sutherland                                              Rod Callahan
              June through October 2018                                        Judith T Rosenthal                                            Roger Bredahl
                        David Peck                                                 Julia M Harris                                          Rose Swearingen
                       Dean Foster                                                Julian diCiurcio                                         Rotary Club of PS
                      Debbie Bianco                                                Kae Schreiber                                             Roxann Carlton
                      Debi Schultze                                                Karen Stearns                                       Sandi Phillips Realtor Inc
                     Denise Hoetker                                                  Karyn Kraft                                           Sandra M Ovesen
                   Denise L. Anderson                                            Katherine Tossey                                           Sandra McEnroe
                      Dennis Carroll                                             Kelly Ann Cronin                                            Sandy Edwards
                       Dennis Jory                                            Kubas Real Estate Inc                                           Sara Holliday
                     Dennis Morrow                                                    Lee Antle                                       Saundra and Bill Benjamin
                     Dennis Sullivan                                                 Leo Milmet                                             Scott & Gina Lyle
        Desert Regional Medical Center Auxiliary                                   Linda Holmes                                            Scott Lyle Realtors
                       Diana Barton                                     Linora Ann Spencer-Manuels                                         Shirelle Alexander
                       Diane Towle                                          Longridge Financial Inc                                       Shirley McLaughlin
                   Donald J Kopczick                                                Lori Tingzon                                             Steven D Frank
                    Donna MacMillan                                                 Lyle J Brewer                                             Stuart Berger
                    Douglas Baalson                                               Lynn Zussman                                             Suzanne Wourms
              Douglas Elliman Real Estate                                Marcarl Real Properties, Inc                                     Tanner D Voskamp
                     Dwayne Carrier                                      June through October 2018                                          The Borey Group
                         Ed Dube                                                  Marcia Griffiths                             The Glen and Opal Barnett Foundation
                    Edward Marshall                                           Marion & Dale Cowle                                           Thomas J. Bogle
           Edward Marteka & Mary Bilodeau                                    Marjory & Jason Lewis                                            Timothy Metz
                    Elinor Genevrino                                                Mark Bessey                                                Todd Snider
                     Elizabeth Baker                                                 Mark E Rice                                                 Tom Root
                      Ellen Del Valle                                     Martha’s Village & Kitchen                                           Tori St Johns
                        Erin Havel                                                  Mary A Marx                                                 W S Barnes
                       F E Peabody                                               Maureen Durkan                                             Wallace A Brown
                     Fritz Frauchiger                                              Michael Bizier                                           William Tumelty
                    Gabriela Burnett                                              Michael Brewer                                              Yael Holzman
                   Garett Dangerfield                                            Michael Finland                                             Yashico Heber
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                                              Some of the Well in the Desert Staff

                     Bariya Lane                  Gary Plantage                        Isaiah                           Laurie MacGregor                 Lisa Trujillo
                    Social Worker                 Cooling Center             Hot Meals & Cooling Center                       Cook                         Kitchen

          Mary Matoza                Mike Chiarenva                  Pat Zufall                    Reuben Bolden                       Richie Hartsock                   Steven Driver
         Cooling Center                 Kitchen                                                   Shuttle Driver & IT                  Cooling Center                      Hot Meals

                              Carl’s Story
                   by Linda Levinson, Director, Well in the Desert
 I met Carl last summer at The Well in the Desert Cooling Center.
 There he was, a very thin man with a limp, happy to be out of the heat. And for
someone to pay any kind of attention to him. I will admit, he did look a little scary
but I could see the softness in his eyes.
 Over the summer, I got to know hi well. In the morning, I would take Koffi dona-
tions and sit and visit with him for awhile. Carl’s story is one of the many of the
homeless population. However, his story is a little different. You will understand
when you read it.
 Carl (not his real name) was a married man with a family. He had a good job, loved
his family and took good care of them. But all that tragically came to an end one
afternoon. While at work that particular afternoon, he was assaulted and robbed.
OK, that has happened to many people, but Carl was shot in the head because he
had no cash to give them. He was hospitalized with Traumatic Brain Injury. He was
hospitalized many months. His behavior was unpredictable. He would have violent
rages, had trouble walking and medications would not helping him. So his family
was unable to care for him. There was no facility available to accept him.
 Carl wound up homeless. Due to no fault of his own. He comes and goes from
the Center. I worry about him when I don’t see him for months at a time. I enjoyed
my conversations with him. He misses his family. He worries about them. Then his
mind drifts off for a bit. It is pure sadness.
 Carl’s story affects his family as well. If I knew where they were I would let them
know Carl is alive. Maybe that would be helpful for them. I don’t know. What I
can say is Carl would appreciate a smile from any of us. A simple act of kindness
for Carl who did not deserve this life he has. So when you see a homeless person,
please just smile or wave. I just might be Carl.
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Two young visitors from England who had their parents bring them to the Well. Kudos to
  the way these parents are bringing up their children; already thinking about the well-
being of others. Thank you to these two sisters who made our people smile, and brought
                                tears to the eyes of some.

                                                                                                                  Hi everyone who loves and supports the Well.
                                                                                                   Our mommy is Board member and director Joan Wolff. She has been on the
                                                                                                    Board of the Well for many years. She is well known for all her work in this
                                                                                                   Valley, especially Palm Springs, for her dedicated volunteer service. She was
                                                                                                 the head of Tiempo de los Ninos and worked with so many charitable organiza-
                                                                                                 tions, and has been a volunteer (she was a nurse) at Desert Regional for over 35
                                                                                                  years. We love her, and so does every person she meets. At 86, she is still cool,
                                                                                                               makes you laugh, and is the best mom in the world.
                                                                                                  We wanted to ask you if you would make a donation to the Well in the Desert,
                                                                                                 just because of our mom. You can send a check to: Well in the Desert, P.O. Box
                                                                                                  6312, Palm Springs, CA 92263, or go to our website and donate there: www://
                                                                                                                              wellinthedesert.org.
                                                                                                           The three of us thank you with tail wiggles and lots of licks.
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                     Well in the Desert                                                     Effect of Poverty on Children
                                                                                                                       by Charlie Paglia
          doing so much for those who have so little...                             Often, our community views the Well in the Desert’s food program as providing hot meals

                WINTER WISH LIST                                                  and sack lunches only to adult clients who are homeless. However, we also offer these meals
                                                                                  and additional groceries to the working poor and their families in our community. Those
                                                                                  families often include children ranging in age from infancy to the high school level.
   “Baby, It’s Cold Outside” or so the old song goes, and our clients at            Most people agree that poverty can leave lasting physical and psychological scars from pre-
    Well in the Desert will be feeling the bite of cold winter nights here        natal development through adulthood. Recently, research reported by universities and pedi-
                                                                                  atric programs around the country have shown that that the genes of disadvantaged children
                           in the desert all too soon.                            can resemble the genetic makeup of a middle-aged person!
   Can you imagine having to sleep outside on a night where the temperature         This means that disadvantaged children, during the important growing years, will be more
    can dip to well under the freezing point? And worse yet, having only the      likely to struggle in all areas of development including academic skills compared to children
     clothes on your back to keep you warm as you shiver through the long         from financially healthy environments.
              night? Sadly, these are realities for our needy clients.              The American Psychological Association reported the following information from several
                                                                                  studies:
         But, YOU can help! Won’t you please join our drive to fulfill              1. Poverty has a particularly adverse effect on the academic outcome of children, espe-
                                                                                       cially during early childhood.
  WINTER wishes for our less fortunate friends here in the valley by                2. Chronic stress associated with living in poverty has been shown to affect children’s
   contributing some of the items from the list below? Here’s your chance to           concentration and memory which may impact their ability to learn.
   be a real-life Santa and spread good will during the holiday season.             3. Dropout rate of students living in poverty is about four and one-half times greater than

                    Our much-needed items:
                                                                                       the rate of children in higher-income families.
                                                                                   Two of the most obvious elements that contribute to all aspects of childhood development
                                 Blankets                                         are food and nutrition. In 2010 the Research and Action Center (FRAC) reported that one
                                                                                  in four children faced food hardship in the United States. This percentage exists mostly in the
                              Sleeping Bags                                       southern states including California.
                                  Pillows                                          The following findings further help us to see the importance of a nutritious diet in early
                              Jackets/Coats                                       childhood:

                                 Sweaters                                           1. The first three years of life are a period of rapid brain development. Too little energy
                                                                                       from protein and nutrients during this period can lead to deficits in cognitive and
                               Warm Socks                                              physical development.
                                   Shoes                                            2. Prenatal and infancy nutritional deficiency can cause brain impairment.
                                Hats/Caps                                           3. Failure to thrive and to reach major developmental milestones because of lack of prop-
                                  Scarves                                              er nutrition affects 5-10 percent of American children under age three.
                              Gloves/Mittens                                        4. Hunger reduces a child’s motor skills, activity level, and motivation which are impor-
                              Hand Warmers                                             tant to cognitive and social development.
                                                                                    5. Studies have shown that low-income children ages six to twelve identified as “hungry”
  What about sharing this list with your friends and family or                           were significantly more likely to receive special education services.
                                                                                   There are many studies published throughout the world today showing that poverty and
  even starting a neighborhood drive to make some holiday                         malnutrition have a significant effect on the development and educational success of young
                                                                                  children. Food programs, such as the Well in the Desert, provide greatly needed community
                           wishes come true?                                      support to help the disadvantaged families and their children to meet success in all areas of
                                                                                  development.
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       Items can be dropped off at WELL IN THE DESERT located at
    441 South Calle Encilia in Palm Springs or by calling (760) 656-                                                    Silence
     8905 and we’ll be happy to send one of our vans to pick up the times.                                                 11/11/15
               Special thanks to GRATEFUL HEARTS @ DAP
              for helping spearhead this important winter drive!                                                      by Arlene Rosenthal
                                                                                      I have heard the sounds of silence,
                                                                                      crossed over the bridges of troubled water
                                                                                      and worn flowers in my hair.

         DONATE TO
                                                                                       we dreamed the dreams of peace
                                                                                      believed we could change the world
                                                                                       shouted out against a cruel war.

    THE WELL IN THE DESERT!                                                           we wept as innocents, theirs and ours, were killed.
                                                                                      we marched, we demonstrated, we lost our jobs
                                                                                      San Francisco was our spiritual home
                         Donations can be sent to:
                                                                                      we were the hub, the brain, the spiritual center,
                 Well in the Desert • P.O. Box 5312                                   we shared our joints, our beds, and ourselves
                                                                                      we emerged, we lived, we believed, we were.
                      Palm Springs, CA 92263                                          how long ago that seems now, yet the fibers of that time still live with me
                                                                                      woven so finely, so beautifully, into a pattern of how I see the world
             Or you can visit our website and donate there:                           still with hope, still hearing that beautiful silence
                      www.wellinthedesert.org                                         still crossing over troubled waters
                                                                                      hoping that love will one day heal us all
President's Message - Well In The Desert
November 2018                                                            The Well in the Desert News   Page 9

                         Schedule of Events
                        Visit www.OperaArtsPalmSprings.org
                             for a complete schedule of events

    For the Children, Sunday, December 9th, 6:00 – 9:00 p.m. Classic
    Club/Bellatrix. Presented by OperaArts and the Marquee Academy of
    Performing Arts Delicious food, divine music, classical, music theater and
    Opera. $140.00 per person or table of ten, $1400.00. Reservations: on-
    line, OperaArtspalmsprings.org, or (760) 323-8353

    When I Rise, Sunday, March 24th, 6:00 – 9:00 p.m. Bougainvillea
    Room at Spencer’s. Poolside reception, dinner, honors and music pro-
    gram upstairs. Honoree will be Willie Rhine, owner of 849, who exem-
    plifies courage and tenacity. $150.00 per person, or $1500,Table of ten.
    Reservations: OperaArtspalmsprings.org or (760) 323-8353.

    Opera Under the Stars, Sunday, April 14th, 6:30 – 9:00 p.m. Re-
    naissance Indian Wells, On the Rose Lawn. Reception, sit-down dinner
    under the stars, with an exquisite music program. Honorees are Marilyn
    Benachowski and Nancy Tapic of the Desert Symphony. $150.00 per per-
    son, or $1500, Table of ten. Reservations: OperaArtsparmsprings.org or
    (760) 323-8353.

                             OperaArts
                     P.O. Box 5722 • Palm Springs, CA 92263
                              Phone: (760) 323-8353
                          www:operaartspalmspring.org
                    501c3 Non-profit Corporation 30-0540629
President's Message - Well In The Desert
Page 10                                    The Well in the Desert News                             November 2018

                         Well in the Desert Board of Directors

      Arlene Rosenthal    Darci Daniels           Dennis Jory            Cardriner Boden   Michele Coneybaere
          President       Vice President           Secretary                Treasurer           Director

          Sandra Curry    Damir Donlagic         Tom Kuhn                Linda Levinson       Pat Dugas
            Director        Director              Director                  Director         Ambassador
November 2018                                                                                     The Well in the Desert News   Page 11

                                 Board of Directors
                                        Arlene Rosenthal
                                                President

                                   Darci Daniels Murphy
                                            Vice President
                                            Dennis Jory
                                                Secretary

                                      Cardriner Bowden
                                               Treasurer
                                    Michelle Coneybaere
                                                Director
                                           Sandra Curry
                                                Director
                                  Damir Danny Donlagic
                                                Director
                                             Tom Kuhn
                                                Director
                                         Linda Levinson
                                                Director
                                           Matt Naylor
                                                Director
                                             Joan Wolff
                                                 Director

                                             Pat Dugas
                                             Ambassador
                                          Charlie Paglia
                                       Advisory Board Chair

                                   MISSION STATEMENT
                The Well in the Desert provides daily nutritious hot meals, emergency food assis-
                tance, weekly supplemental food distribution, and access to community services
                to those affected by poverty, including the working poor, the homeless, seniors,
                the handicapped and others in need throughout the west end of the Coachella Val-
                ley. Our mission fuels programs for poverty prevention, direct services for poverty
                intervention, and organized efforts to advocate for the poor.
                                      THE WELL IN THE DESERT
                               P.O. Box 5312 • Palm Springs, CA 92263
                                           (760) 656-8905
                                      www.wellinthedesert.org
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