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BETH SHOLOM SYNAGOGUE
Kol SHOLOM
Issue III - Spring • March 2021 - May 2021 • Purim & Pesach 5781/2021
PAST, PRESENT AND THE
FUTURE
INSPIRED BY THE PASSOVER STORY
MY RENDEZVOUS
WITH FATE
TIME AND CHANCE BEFALL US ALL
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In This Issue
Rabbi FEATURED ARTICLES
Aaron Flanzraich
rabbi@bethsholom.net 4 Rabbi Aaron Flanzraich
COMMUNITY
Cantor 6 Cantor Eric Moses 16 Jewish “Spring” Cleaning
Eric Moses
cantor@bethsholom.net
8 President 17 Passover Observances
Parnas Abe Glowinsky
19 Lag Ba’Omer
Jeff Green
jeff@bethsholom.net 10 Executive Director Yom Hazikaron
Stephanie Krasman
Executive Director 20 Yom Ha’atzmaut
Stephanie Krasman 12 Programs & Education
stephanie@bethsholom.net 20 My Rendezvous with Fate
Alexa Abergel
Lisa Kaufman
Director of Programs & Education
Alexa Rubin Abergel 22 Yom HaShoah
alexa@bethsholom.net
Accounting Manager SHOLOM KIDS
Tatjana Kacina
tatjana@bethsholom.net 12 Say Cheese!
SholomKids Photos
Marketing & Communications
Manager 13 Purim Carnival
Deborah Bhonkar
deborah@bethsholom.net 14 Purim at Beth Sholom
Special Events & Program Manager 15 Pesach Camp
Jenn Ferman
jenn@bethsholom.net
Accounting Analyst
Athena Kay CHESED & COMMITTEES
athena@bethsholom.net
Membership Engagement & High
5 One More Candle
Holy Day Coordinator
Victoria Mesihayev
9 Annual General Meeting
victoria@bethsholom.net
9 Nominations Committee
Programs & Education Coordinator
Fargana Sarmasova 11 Kosher Food Bank
fargana@bethsholom.net Michelle Berman & Margaret Lindzon
Ritual & Bookings Coordinator 19 Yizkor Book Order Form
Vered Yalinewitz
vered@bethsholom.net
22 Out of the Cold
Office Administrator Rafi Aaron
Marnie Packman
marnie@bethsholom.net
Facilities Manager
Jorge Hernandez
jorge@bethsholom.net
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RABBI
AARON FLANZRAICH
PAST, PRESENT AND THE FUTURE!
Inspiration is a funny thing because you where the Israelites leave Egypt and cross of Eastern European Jews were fleeing
never know where it will lead you! a miraculously parted Red sea. Franklin persecution, violence and the horror of
wanted the image of “…Moses standing the Kishinev pogrom. Ginsburg read these
Turn over the American dollar bill and on the shore, and extending his hand words from the Torah:
we find what is called “The Great Seal” over the sea, thereby causing the same
– a Bald Eagle above the Latin words “E to overwhelm Pharaoh who is sitting in
Pluribus Unim”. In 1776, after declaring an open chariot; a crown on his head and
independence from Britain, the Continental a sword in his hand.” Around the image
Congress announced the call for a seal which were these words: Rebellion To Tyrants Is
would be on official correspondences, Obedience To God. The image of Moses
currency and government buildings. The leading the Israelites over the Red Sea Then Moses sang this song – and the
history of that seal tells us not only about shows how powerful and how influential Israelites - to the L-RD. They said: I will
America, but a great deal about the Jews, the Exodus narrative is! Thomas Jefferson sing to the L-RD, for He has triumphed
and the beautiful Holy Day of Passover that loved Franklin’s submission so much that gloriously.
we will soon be celebrating. he added it onto his family’s Coat of Arms.
As fate would have it, Jefferson had Jewish
After the call went out, a number of grandchildren. This is the moment Benjamin Franklin
submissions were offered, each by sought to immortalize in this image for
Benjamin Franklin, John Adams and One of the threats to our message is the the Great Seal and Ginsburg wrote these
Thomas Jefferson. We will soon come to very fact that we see, hear and experience words:
know how each of these men had an it so often. After all, any miracle seen over
inspired and deep relationship with the and over again, ceases to be one. From an “’Then Moses sang’...in this hour of
story of the Jews. early age, we have been hearing the story happiness Moses’s heart overflows with
of an Exodus from Egypt; of G-d’s will to emotion and pours itself out in song. What
Thomas Jefferson was a graduate of Yale have us free; of our people not being freed he doesn’t know is that he is just at the
Divinity School (the pre-cursor to today’s but redeemed to a purpose that would beginning of his journey, he doesn’t yet
Yale University), where he learned Hebrew. span thousands of years and millions of know that his most difficult task is yet
This led him wanting Hebrew souls; and an unbreakable belief ahead of him…”
to be the official language that we “were meant” to be here.
of the United States, which We hear, read, and celebrate this This past year has been profoundly difficult,
is not surprising given the message over and over again to and at times a shocking and frightening
fact that Yale’s Coat of Arms the point that it becomes so, … one. But Pesach and Ginsburg’s words
is in Hebrew. Jefferson’s how would I put it, normal? But remind us that the work of building our
submission for the “Great this year, as we gather around our lives and the world around us is a continual
Seal” was an image of the Pesach Seders, I want to ask that one. The vaccines shall come and the world
Israelites wandering the you see it with a fresh set of eyes. will re-open. And while it may appear to us
Sinai desert, guided by the Because there is little that is normal that the most difficult part is over perhaps
“Divine Cloud”, mentioned to be found in the story of our it lays ahead of us. Like our ancestors, it will
in the Torah. His inspiration was in the people. Remind yourself that just as it be found in what we do with our renewed
idea that as the Israelites wandered before gave inspiration to Adams, Jefferson and freedom, our safety, and the gift of sharing
arriving to their Promised Land, so too did Franklin, imagine what it could do for you time with our family and friends. Passover,
the American Colonies. They would need and your family! It is for this reason, the and the countless people who have been
to be patient, trust in the righteousness of ancient Rabbis commanded, that we recall inspired by its story, tells us the answer is
their cause and know G-d would eventually the Exodus from Egypt twice a day; in hope found in living bravely. To bravely give. To
lead them to safety and peace. you could find the greatness in yourself! bravely love and accept. To bravely make
the very most of the blessings we are
Ben Franklin’s submission A hundred years ago, the Ukrainian surrounded with.
is even more connected Jew turned Zionist writer and poet
to our story. Many are the Asher Ginsburg (better known by Chag Sameach!
stories of wandering people his pen name Ahad Ha’am) also
arriving to a new home thought about Moses, and the Rabbi Aaron Flanzraich •
(the founding myths of story of the Jews. He pondered
Rome, Thebes, to name just the inspiration it has given to the
a few). But Franklin would past, and cast an eye to placing the
design a seal that captures story in the moment he was living
the penultimate moment in. It was the moment of Herzlian
of Pesach. The moment Zionism; the moment millions
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CANTOR
ERIC MOSES
It’s Groundhog Day Again!
One of my favourite movies is Groundhog Hashem. In truth, if people only davened greets everyone after a long day at work.
Day. It’s about a cynical television to praise G-d, they likely wouldn’t daven Shul life also lends itself to gathering and
weatherman (Bill Murray) covering at all. The rabbinic premise is that human greeting our regulars at Beth Sholom. On
the annual Groundhog Day event in beings are inherently self-absorbed and any given day our esteemed President
Punxsutawney, Pennsylvania, who needy. The Amidah (also known as the “Abey” (Glowinsky) or “Big G” (Goldenberg)
becomes trapped in a time loop forcing shemona esrei) is built upon 19 different are similarly welcomed upon their arrival
him to relive February 2nd repeatedly. blessings. What is noteworthy is that in at shul.
(Sound like your daily schedule yet?) the 13 middle brachot, we ask for things.
Groundhog Day is derived from the The Rabbis in the Talmudic era instituted As our 2021 reality sequel to “Groundhog
Pennsylvania Dutch superstition that if the regular prayer routine as we know it Day” seems to continue with no imminent
a groundhog emerging from its burrow today that includes shacharit, mincha and end in sight, I encourage you to connect
on this day sees its shadow due to clear maariv. However, it is considered a Torah with your synagogue community remotely
weather, it will retreat to its den and winter obligation to pray at least once per day. by Zoom and YouTube Live.
will persist for six more weeks; but if it does If you are a regular davenor,
not see its shadow because of cloudiness, In our community, prayer and attending you may find yourself
spring will arrive early. Given the alternate a minyan serve another purpose as well. juxtaposed between two
reality we are living in, a little Groundhog In addition to all of distinct areas of prayer –
Day superstition may be what is in order.
After all, it seems like day after day is the
the above, it brings
likeminded people “...connect with kevah and kavanah. The
first is to recite a prayer out
same. The COVID numbers are up, the
vaccinations are down, and Trump is being
together and creates
new, meaningful your synagogue of mindless obligation with
little regard for the words.
impeached…again! relationships.
by Zoom,
Even
which community...” The second is to recite a
prayer with great intent
This concept of sameness is not exclusive to admittedly is not ideal, for what you are saying. In
Bill Murray in the movie, and his repeated our minyans encourage practice, you need both – a
attempts to “get it right” so that he will an important communal feeling that we daily dose of routine combined with a
not have to relive February 2nd over and are all part of something much larger. The meaningful recitation of the words.
over again. In truth, it is an area which power of reciting ancient prayers (which
has troubled Jews engaged in prayer for may often feel long and irrelevant), along The tremendous lay leadership of our
hundreds of years. If you are a regular with others, provides a synagogue, professional staff, Rabbi
davenor, the words of the daily recitation much stronger feeling Flanzraich and I are here for you every step
of the Amidah, Aleinu, Ashrei, Shema don’t of connection. The of this long journey. As we have often said,
change from service to service. As a result, synagogue is an important Beth Sholom is a large synagogue with
davening is one of the link between our past, our a warm, family feeling where “everybody
most difficult mitzvot.
How is it possible “The synagogue present and our future.
I believe most of our
knows your name.” We are always open to
exploring new ways we can meaningfully
to get motivated to
recite prayers which is an important congregants would agree,
otherwise they would no
bring synagogue life into your home
during these dark winter months. If we
seem overly repetitive
and mundane? In the link ...” longer choose to belong to
a synagogue.
can help you in any way, please don’t
hesitate to reach out anytime. After all,
spirit of answering the our synagogue community is only as vital
question, I want to The camaraderie of shul as our members. While we are missing the
provide you with some background about often reminds me of “Cheers”, one of my critical ingredient of being together, you
prayer and why we pray at all. favourite television shows from the 1980s. can rest assured that this really longwinded
The show is set in a bar named Cheers “Cantor’s repetition of the Amidah” will
According to Jewish law (halacha), Beacon Hill in Boston, Massachusetts, one day end.
everyone is obligated to pray since our where a group of locals meet to drink, relax,
sages considered it essential to ask G-d for and socialize. The show’s main theme song
mercy, kindness and assistance. Nobody lends its refrain “Where Everybody Knows
is exempt, except for a person during Your Name” as the show’s catchphrase.
aninut (the period of time between the Anyone familiar with the show will
death of a loved one and his/her burial). recognize the warmth of the entire bar
The point of davening is to connect with calling out “Norm” as he walks in and Cantor Eric Moses •
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ABE GLOWINSKY BETH SHOLOM COMMUNITY
PRESIDENT ANNUAL GENERAL MEETING
A GROWING MINYAN COMMUNITY
As we approach spring and with it, Passover, early meetings was the Unsung Heroes meaningfully to the warmth of our daily
This year, our Annual General Meeting will take place on
I’m reminded of the ritual of reciting Yizkor,
which we do four times annually. One of
Breakfast, which was intended to honour
Minyanairres that went out of their way to
Minyan. Tuesday, June 8, 2021 at 7:30 pm.
these four recitations falls on the last day attend our Minyan regularly ensuring those Since the “reboot” of the Beth Sholom
of Passover. While we, at Beth Sholom who were saying Kaddish had (at least) the Minyan, our reputation of being the shul
never had any issues getting a Minyan for requisite ten people. This, as you know, is a that could not guarantee an evening
Yizkor, saying Kaddish at other times in mitzvah and we wanted to recognize these minyan became one that was a warm,
NOMINATIONS COMMITTEE
the year had presented problems for us exceptional members. friendly, and welcoming congregation.
in getting a Minyan. Unfortunately, many It is no surprise
congregations throughout the world, and Recently, we celebrated our 10th that over time, as
even in our very own city, are unable to annual Unsung Heroes Event, where our new found
consistently form a Minyan, which presents we honoured Nathan Rapoport reputation grew
a problem for mourners looking to say and Allan Cheskes. Nathan has by word of mouth, The Nominations Committee has begun its work for the 2021 – 2023 term, beginning this June.
Kaddish for a loved one whom has passed. been a long-time member of Beth new mourners
Sholom Synagogue with a deep and faces arrived
I recall many years ago, Beth Sholom had commitment to our services. His at our doors. At If you would like to put your name forward for a two-year position on the Board of Governors,
trouble attracting a Minyan to say Kaddish warmth, sense of humour, and first, they came
in the afternoons. I was penchant to to say Kaddish for please email the Chair of the Nominations committee,
drawn to the Minyan after comfort the newly loved ones due to Abe Glowinsky at abe.glowinsky@incredibleclothing.com.
my mother passed away bereaved have made him the synagogues convenient location, on
in 2008. While davening an invaluable member to their way downtown; but inevitably, many
daily was a new experience
for me, I was somewhat
our daily Minyan. Allan is
not only a regular to our
of those new faces became members of
our synagogue and found a home, which
The nominations period closes Thursday, April 29, 2021.
frustrated by the lack daily services but also they attribute to the camaraderie they
of participation and a past president of the discovered in the Minyan. We have evolved
our somewhat frequent shul. He also created an from humble beginnings into a staple in
inability to form a Minyan.
In the following months,
a few of the “regulars” decided to form a
committee and launch initiatives to ensure
amazing program, called
“The Jewish Influence on
American Music”, which began in person
and pivoted to an online forum. The
the culture of the shul. This is a badge of
honour for Beth Sholom Synagogue.
Our Minyan community continues to
YASHER KOACH
that we had a Minyan every evening. And program, which runs approximately twice grow and grow, and each new member Yasher Koach to our Executive Director, Stephanie Krasman, on being nominated to serve
thus was born the Minyan Committee. In each month, consistently has more than is welcomed with open arms and warm
those early days, we called, cajoled, offered one hundred viewers per session from all smiles. I have great pride in what we have on the NAASE (North American Association of Synagogue Executives) Board of
incentives (like free High Holy Day seats), over North America. He has also been active accomplished in only ten short years, Governors for the 2021 – 2023 term. NAASE is a Jewish membership organization serving
had a “Prayer-O-Plan” program, and even in our Out of the Cold program, especially how we have come together during the
auctioned trips to Israel. Slowly but surely, its Art Show, which was conceived by Allan extremely challenging times in 2020-2021, the professional needs of executives of Conservative synagogues across North America.
we revived Beth Sholom’s Minyan and and Bayla’s daughter, Melanie. Additionally, and the bright direction we will enjoy led
we have never looked back. Today, albeit Allan sits on several committees at by our past and future Unsung Heroes.
virtually, we attract 25-45 “Minyanairres” at the synagogue. Nathan and Allan are
every service. appreciated and inspiring additions to our Abe Glowinsky •
MEMBERSHIP POOL
list of honourees.
One of the best ideas borne out of our Each of these individuals added
Past Unsung Heroes include:
2011 2013 2015 2017 2019
Renew your membership by Friday, March 26, 2021 so that your
Jack Bouganim Sheila Kirshenblatt Gordon Krofchick Don Epstein Michael Gangel name can be entered into the Membership 2021 Contribution Pool.
Jonason Glanc Jerry Goldenberg Marshall Folk Alan Zelunka Ari Levyz”l And
Albert Hechtz”l Dr. Michael Weinstockz”l th
On Thursday, April 1, 2021, the clergy will select one Household at mem e lucky
2012 2014 2016 2018 random to receive FREE Membership for 2021. ber i
Zoltan Freemanz”l Barry Fleisherz”l Sterling Spears Bayla Cheskes s...
Avron Shorez”l Oscar Gruberz”l Dr. Jeffrey Weinberg Lisa Richman
Lorynne Schreiber *Members of the Board of Governors are not eligible to win.
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STEPHANIE KRASMAN חסדKHesed/
• CHE·SED BETH SHOLOM CHESED PROGRAMS
KOSHER FOOD BANK
noun
loving kindness the
EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR
attribute of grace,
benevolence, or
compassion
MARGARET LINDZON & MICHELLE BERMAN
MEMBER OF VALOR Chag Purim Samayach! We continue to meet the buying event and spoke with media. We clients have come to look forward to these
This month (Nisan) shall be for you the ‘member engagement’ as a key part of her I had so many one-on-one coffee dates the food insecurity needs of our are very grateful recipients. special bags filled with additional non-
chief of the months, the first it shall be for portfolio. Victoria and I will work together with students that caffeine ran through my clients on a weekly basis. It is very perishable food items every
rewarding to know that a year Additionally, Beth Tzedec year.
you of the months of the year, the month of to create strategies and initiatives that will veins! We brought small groups of students
into this pandemic we continue Congregation, UJA Genesis,
spring. On the 14th day of the spring months, hopefully make our members know how together with like-interests and micro- to operate despite the many and Apex Kosher Catering As we celebrate Purim,
being the month of your deliverance from much we care! communities were born. challenges facing us. have come together to provide Passover, and life events, we
bondage. And this day shall be for you a warm meals to our clients for hope that you will consider
day of commemoration: you shall celebrate You will recognize many of the little These strategies, tweaked somewhat for We are extremely grateful to three consecutive Wednesday donating to the Kosher Food
it as a feast throughout your generations, things we have done in the past, and will synagogue life, can be implemented in the the many congregants and mornings in February. We Bank so that we may continue
as a commandment forever, for on this very continue to do: such as mailing birthday context of our work. When members feel community members who have appreciate their efforts on to service our clients.
day your hosts left Egypt. Today you have and anniversary cards; sending flowers or passionate about their community, that donated monies and food to our behalf of our clients and their
become a nation. (Exodus, chapter 12) a plant to those in hospital or recovering they have an important fund. Over the Chanukah season outreach at this time of need. We Happy Purim!
from illness; recognizing Jewish life-cycle place in it, and peers we received donations from also received a large donation
many families to honour the season. We of adult and youth face masks from UJA, Maraget Lindzon & Michelle Berman
The exodus of the Israelites from Egypt was milestones in our quarterly bulletins; they connect with – this
were also recipients of a large donation of which we were able to to distribute during Co-Chairs, Beth Sholom Kosher Food Bank.
no doubt a rebirth, a revival or renewal of gifting baby baskets to our new parents; too deepens member food items from Freeman Real December and January.
life. The month of Nisan, in Israel, at least and giving our engagement. Estate Ltd., Brokerage. COVID-
(there was SNOW last year in Toronto emerging adults
into May!) – is spring time. Everything is gifts of Judaica “...members feel Although I fear we are not
19 gathering restrictions
prevented them from giving
We extend a warm thank you
to the teachers and students
a bloom, fresh, and new. There is wonder, on becoming yet close to a time when away their annual turkey at The Beth Sholom First
and hope – what will this new year bring? Bnei Mitzvah. passionate about we can get together for donation. In response, they
generously donated non-
Foundations
Preschool.
Community
Their annual
a coffee, I do have many
So too, for Beth Sholom, this time of
year brings renewal – although one of a
While for now,
we cannot be
their community,...” personal and meaningful
conversations on the
perishable food items to our
food bank and holiday meals
tradition of providing
Mishloach Manot for our
to other organizations. Rabbi clients in hand decorated
different kind: membership renewal! Every together in phone with members.
Flanzraich and David Krieger participated in bags is a wonderful gift to our clients. Our
household that renews by March 26th has our building, we must find creative ways Which will have to do for now. But just
the chance to win free membership for the of honouring our members. Later in this like with the melting snow and the slow
year.
This year, one of my goals is to focus on
edition of the Kol Sholom, you will notice
a new section recognizing membership
milestones – members who have been
budding of spring, I am hopeful that on our
horizon we will be able to sit over a cup of
coffee.
HOW YOU CAN HELP!
member engagement. Every member part of our community for 10 years, 20
brings such value to our years, 30 years, and so on. Additionally, this Stephanie Krasman • MONETARY DONATIONS
community, a richness and a past Chanukah, we created personalized Monetary donations allow us to continue providing the staple items
diversity of interests, thoughts, gift baskets of goodies delivered to weekly to our community. Donations can be made online at www.
bethsholom.net or by contacting the synagogue office.
and ideas. Whether someone every new member household. And at Tu
comes a few times a year, or B’Shvat our very own
participates on a very regular Jewish Education
basis – everyone has much “Every member Dream Team; KOSHER NON-PERISHABLE FOOD ITEMS
to offer. The leadership, the Alexa and Fargana, Our Food Bank is always in need of Kosher non-perishable food items.
clergy, and the office staff brings such delivered 100 boxes Most needed items are; tuna, canned veggies and fruit, tomato sauce,
dry pasta, macaroni & cheese, cereal and soup mix.
strive to create a community, of seedlings and
a place where every voice
counts and matters.
value to our creative art projects
to our young families.
Simply put, member
community,...” Member engagement
CENTERPEICE DONATIONS
Add an element of chesed to your next simcha. Consider creating a
engagement is the “ongoing is not only about centerpeice filled with items that can be donated to the Kosher Food
Bank!
interaction between a member and an showering you with gifts and recognition! KOSHER
organization in exchange for meaningful It is also about community building, and
value”. relationship building – two sides of the FOOD BANK
same coin. I draw on my previous years of GUEST GIFT DONATIONS
We want our members to feel Valued. professional work experience on campus Add an element of chesed to your next simcha. Consider creating a
centerpeice filled with items that can be donated to the Kosher Food
Important. Celebrated. with Hillel of Greater Toronto. We used
Bank!
specific strategies to build meaningful
Beth Sholom’s position of Membership relationships; active listening techniques
Coordinator, newly filled by Victoria
Mesihayev, has expanded to include
and gentle inquiry to encourage
conversation and sharing. Over the years
TOGETHER WE ARE MAKING A DIFFERENCE!
Donate at www.bethsholom.net or contact info@bethsholom.net to get details on how to make your donation.
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ALEXA ABERGEL
PROGRAMS &
EDUCATION
As the Purim and Pesach season this time. Rather than looking longingly are still physically separated, I am mentally
approaches, I reflect on a year that has towards what once was, I look back and preparing for this new time. A time of
been so life changing in so many ways. see a real lack of gratitude. In fact, we gathering and caring and simcha. An
We reflect on a year that has been full of took so many of our freedoms- to gather, exodus from our current reality.
challenges, and also many opportunities to celebrate, to pray, to work, to learn- for
for learning and growth. Personally, this granted. And despite our feelings of loss, In the meantime, I invite our families
season marks one year as a mother to I know better than to think that our best to familiarize themselves with our
my beautiful son, James, and despite our times are behind us. In fact, I know that the programming calendar at www.
current circumstances, I am counting my best days lie ahead. Not only will we once BethSholom.net. We offer a variety of
blessings. That said, many families are again gather to embrace the beauties of weekly virtual learning programs for adults,
experiencing great difficulty and sadness Jewish life, we will do so with new found memorable online holiday programs for
right now- schools are closed, many have gratitude. youth and families, even an exciting virtual
lost their jobs, there are no extracurricular camp. And of course, SholomLearning
activities, and even our SholomLearning So in a world where Jewish holidays may is also open for the business of Jewish
Hebrew School, a gathering hub for so have been a second (or third) thought learning, be it in-person, online, or
many Sholom Kids, has moved entirely in the minds of many, I believe that we outdoors (however and when it is safe).
online. I know that many are grieving the are in for a whole new time of Jewish
loss of the pre-COVID life we were living enthusiasm. Our community is craving Wishing our families a happy Purim and a
one year ago. social interaction, craving togetherness, meaningful and kosher Pesach.
and yearning for greater collective
However, as Purim and Pesach arrive, meaning. The solitude of the computer I miss you all!
I choose to take a different approach screen is losing its panache, and while our
and to adopt a new outlook. So much of Zoom programming has been consistently Alexa Abergel •
Pesach is about valuing our freedom, and great, it can never replace our face-to-face
so I choose to lean into those values at shared experiences. Know that while we
PHOTOS OF SHOLOMKIDS
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PASSOVER
פורים
PU R I M @
D
STOP E ON’ T FORGE T
SATURD ATING CH TO
AY, MA A
RCH 27 METZ ON
AT 10:3
0 AM .
This year, Pesach begins on Saturday night, March 27, 2021
and continues until Sunday, April 4, 2021.
This year Purim takes place on
What is the purpose of Passover? What is the proper
Friday, February 26, 2021. Passover is one of the most important greeting for
religious festivals in the Jewish calendar. Passover?
Join us Jews celebrate the Feast of Passover You can say “Chag
, F e b r uary 25 (Pesach in Hebrew) to commemorate the Sameach,” which
ay
Thursd
at 5:00 p
m DID YOU KNOW...
Purim takes place on the 14th day of the Hebrew month Adar. Did
liberation of the Children of Israel who
were led out of Egypt by Moses.
translates to “Happy
Festival” and is the
Hebrew equivalent of
F i r s t M egillah you know Adar is also a “leap month”? Every 4 years, there are two “Happy Holidays.” To
for My months of Adar. When this happens we celebrate Purim on the What are the six items on a
make this Passover
Seder plate?
and 14th of the second Adar.
The seder plate holds at least six of
greeting specific, you can
or the
throw the word “Pesach”
3 0 p m f the ritual items that are talked about
at 6:
in the middle of that
e g i l l a h reading during the Seder: the shankbone, karpas, phrase — “Chag Pesach
al M chazeret, charoset, maror, and the egg.
Tradition
Sameach.”
How to
make a
Raashan?
1. Fill one of the cups about 1/4 full
with dried beans or anything
else you have on hand that will
make noise when shaken.
2. Attach the popsicle stick to
one cup with hot glue, and then
join two cups together with
hot glue and so on.
3. Decorate the cups with
electrical tape and stickers.
4. Enjoy making lots of noise on
Purim!
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PASSOVER 5781/2021 PASSOVER 5781/2021
TIME FOR “JEWISH” SPRING CLEANING!
This year, Passover begins on the evening of Saturday, March 27th. In preparation for the holiday, your house and any other establishments you own or rent (including cars and boats),
that will be entered into or used during the holiday, must be completely free of any forbidden Passover items, like chametz. Other properties you rent or own, if they are not going
PASSOVER OBSERVANCES
to be used during the holiday, must be locked up and included in your Sale of Chametz. You cannot own any Chametz during Passover.
A form can be submitted online to sell your chametz. This form must be submitted before 9:00 am on Thursday, March 25, 2021. PASSOVER 5781/2021
We hope that the following guide is helpful as you prepare for Passover.
SCHEDULE OF SERVICES SALE OF CHAMETZ
If you have any questions regarding Passover, not answered here, please contact the synagogue office at info@bethsholom.net or 416.783.6103.
Friday, March 26
PASSOVER 5781/2021
חמץ- Chametz קיטניות- Kitniyot Chametz must be burned before 12:20 pm
Chametz is simply defined as any food that’s made of grain (rye, wheat, barley, In addition to chametz, Ashkenazic Jews should not eat foods in this category. This form must be filled online.
oats or spelt) and water that have been allowed to ferment and “rise.” This includes rice, legumes, corn, beans, peas and peanuts. Saturday, March 27 ∙ Erev Pesach (1st Seder)
Shacharit 9:30 am There are four ways we fulfill the Biblical mitzvah of ridding
WHAT IS PERMITTED? WHAT IS FORBIDDEN? No chametz may be eaten after morning Seudah
No Mincha services
10:30 am ourselves of chametz before Passover. We clean our homes.
We burn any remaining crumbs. We verbally declare that
No Chametz whatsoever is allowed during Passover, starting from 10:30 am on
Although it may seem like all the delicious foods are forbidden, foodies Candlelighting 8:30 pm
can still enjoy many treats. For example, any unopened packages of: pure
March 27 and ending on the evening of April 4. Chametz is simply defined as any chametz in our possession is worthless and no longer
any food that’s made of grain (rye, wheat, barley, oats or spelt) and water that owned by us. To ensure that there is no question about our
natural coffee, pure granulated sugar, pure tea (not including herbal
teas), non-iodized salt, black pepper, fresh vegetables (except peas
have been allowed to ferment and “rise.” One may not eat any anything Sunday, March 28 ∙ Pesach - 1st Day (2nd Seder) intent to remove chametz from our possession, we sell our
or beans) can still be eaten on Passover. Frozen fruits are acceptable
that is or may have come into contact with Chametz during the holiday Shacharit 9:00 am
of Passover, not even a crumb! Bread, cereal, cake, cookies, even beer are No Mincha services chametz to non-Jews who may own leavened products on
as long as other ingredients were not added.
all examples of Chametz, but you should pay close attention for any food Candlelighting after 8:30 pm Passover. Canned goods and liquor and other foods too
You can enjoy the following items, as long as it has been certified
that contains grain or grain derivatives as some food may have come into valuable to throw out, may be sold in this way.
contact with Chametz.
“Kosher for Passover” by a competent Rabbinical authority.: matzah, Monday, March 29 ∙ Pesach - 2nd Day
matzah meal, matzah farfel, cake meal, Passover noodles, candies,
cakes and cookies, beverages (including fruit juices), canned and
Any utensils (pots, pans and the like) that came into contact with Chametz First Day of the Omer You have to do the cleaning, burning and nullification
cannot be used unless they are properly Koshered. Please see below for Synagogue office will be closed yourselves. We can assist you in the sale of chametz. If
processed foods, milk, butter, cheese, margarine, jams, jellies,
how to Kasher your utensils.
vinegar, wines, liquors, liqueurs, gelatin, relishes, salad and cooking Shacharit 9:30 am you are unable to personally arrange to sell your chametz,
oil, shortening and dried and canned fruits. Yom Tov ends 8:26 pm please send this form to the synagogue office no later than
Ashkenazic Jews are also forbidden to eat foods in the category of
Ma’ariv 8:35 pm Thursday, March 25 at 9:00 a.m.
“Kitniyot”. These include rice, maize, millet, legumes, corn, beans, peas and
Kosher for Passover labels must have a reliable heksher or rabbinical
peanuts. Sephardic Jews are not prohibited from “Kitniyot” and may eat
signature. This also applies to products produced in Israel. Laundry
these foods during Passover. Tuesday, March 30 ∙ Chol Hamoed - 3rd Day
for Passover
detergents and aluminum foil certified kosher require no special I, (on behalf of my entire
Pesach heksher. Shacharit 8:00 am
Forbidden foods also include, vinegar, any alcohol or beverage that Mincha 6:00 pm family), transfer authority to sell all chametz, mixtures and
contains or came into contact with chametz, rice, cereals, coffee containing objects containing chametz to Rabbi Aaron Flanzraich of
cereals, biscuits, cakes etc. Beth Sholom Synagogue in Toronto, Ontario. As my agent, he
Wednesday, March 31 ∙ Chol Hamoed - 4th Day
KASHERING UTENSILS Shacharit 8:00 am should arrange for this sale prior to March 26th. I have placed
Mincha 6:00 pm my chametz and mixtures and objects containing chametz
Generally, for Passover, most households have a separate thoroughly and leaving unused for 24 hours. Lastly POTS & PANS: Any of your everyday metal pots and in specially designated storage areas within my home,
set of all kitchen utensils set aside exclusively for Passover. rinse the silverware with boiling water and you’re pans used for cooking only (not baking), can be Kashered
However, contrary to popular belief, you can use your ready to go. by thoroughly scrubbing them and leaving them unused
Thursday, April 1 ∙ Chol Hamoed - 5th Day which is at: (Please list addresses of all home or other premises owned or rented by you.)
Shacharit 8:00 am
everyday utensils and dishes as long as they are made in boiling water for 24 hours.
Kosher for Passover. Check it out below and see how you GLASSWARE: If you’d like to use your glassware Your everyday baking utensils such as stoneware,
Mincha 6:00 pm
can Kasher your kitchen for Passover! during Passover, you can Kasher it by washing it ceramics, enamelware, bone china, porcelain and
thoroughly, leaving unused for 24 hours, and then
SILVERWARE & FLATWARE: If you would like to soaking in water for 72 hours, keep changing the
plastic cannot be Kashered for Passover. Friday, April 2 ∙ Chol Hamoed - 6th Day (Good Friday)
Shacharit 8:00 am
use your silverware on Passover, it must be made water each 24 hour.
Mincha 6:45 pm
entirely of metal and must be Kashered by scrubbing Signature:
Candle lighting 7:28 pm
CLEANING THE KITCHEN Saturday, April 3 ∙ Pesach - 7th Day
Date:
Shacharit 9:30 am
STOVE: As this is the heart of the kitchen, the stove temperature for one hour. The broiler can only be water on the entire surface. Your counters should be No Mincha services
must be taken apart and thoroughly scrubbed. Bibs koshered with a torch. Covering your oven racks is thoroughly cleaned and covered. Candlelighting after 8:32 pm
under each burner should be thoroughly cleaned as recommended. The link to fill and submit this form can be found at
well. Once done, leave each burner on its highest REFRIGERATOR: Remove all shelves, drawers, https://www.bethsholom.net/form/sale-of-chametz-
heat for about 15-20 minutes. Gas stoves should be MICROWAVE: This one’s pretty easy. Clean your and food not allowed on Passover, and clean very Sunday, April 4 ∙ Pesach - 8th Day passover-5781/2021.html
left on high for about one hour. microwave thoroughly (underneath the revolving thoroughly. Same goes for the freezer (and that fridge Shacharit 9:30 am
glass plate too…). Once done, place a glass bowl of in the basement)! Don’t forget to clean behind the Yizkor approximately 10:30 am
OVEN: Self-cleaning ovens may go through their water inside the microwave. Turn the microwave on to fridge and dust those coils. Yom Tov ends 8:33 pm
programmed cleaning cycle as it is sufficiently hot full power and leave on until water vapors cover the Ma’ariv 8:45 pm
enough to Kasher the metal parts, including your inside services. FOOD PROCESSORS: You may use your food
oven racks. If your oven does not have a self-cleaning processor as long as it is thoroughly cleaned (including
option, you may Kasher your oven by first cleaning all
parts very thoroughly and either bringing a flame of
SINK: Unfortunately, non-metal sinks cannot be
koshered. You may use new plastic tubs for dairy and
the motor) and the plastic bowl unit is replaced.
This year the Omer (העומר )ספירת, will begin on Monday, March 29, 2021.
a propane torch into contact with all metal surfaces meat respectively. If you do have a metal sink, you can Sefirat Ha’Omer ( )ספירת העומרor, the counting of the Omer, counts seven weeks (49 days) commencing on
or you may turn your oven on to the highest possible kasher it by cleaning it thoroughly and pouring boiling the second night of Passover, Sunday, March 28, (16th of Nisan) and culminating on Shavuot, the evening of
PLEASE NOTE… Sunday, May 16, (5th of Sivan). This marks the countdown that joins Passover with Shavuot. The blessing for
If your child requires specific non-pesach foods (such as formula) and there are no other kosher for passover substitutes, your child may eat the items with kitniyot
the countdown can be found in your Haggadah.
(such as soy bean derivatives, see above for more information about kitniyot). Pet foods are not permitted. Please consult Rabbi Flanzraich and your doctor regarding
medications. Those with kitniyot are permissible. When Kosher for Passover substitutes are availble, they should be used.
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LAG BA’OMER
Lag Ba’Omer
This year Lag Ba’Omer will take place on Friday April 30.
Lag Ba’Omer is a festive day on the Jewish calendar celebrating the anniversary of the passing of
the great sage and mystic Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai, author of the Zohar. It also commemorates
another event - in the weeks between Passover and Shavuot, a plague raged amongst the
disciples of the great sage Rabbi Akiva. On Lag Ba’Omer the dying ceased.
YIZKOR BOOK ORDER FORM
Each year we publish a Yizkor Book on Shavuot which contains the Yizkor service and the names of our deceased loved
ones. This book is used four times a year (Shavuot, Yom Kippur, Shemini Atzeret and Pesach). Each year we open the
book to our community and encourage them to include the names of their remembered loved ones.
NAMES ARE NOT AUTOMATICALLY RENEWED
FROM YEAR TO YEAR.
F + B Kosher Passover Menu ALL NAMES MUST BE RECEIVED BY FRIDAY, APRIL 16, 2021 AT 12:00 PM.
For more information and to submit your form, please visit our website
https://www.bethsholom.net/form/yizkor-book-order-form1.html
For the seder, and for the week during Passover ISRAEL’S MEMORIAL DAY
Order online at https://fbkosher.com/passover
Delivery or Pickup available on Friday, March 26, 2021.
Deadline to order is midnight on Saturday, March 20, 2021.
YOM HAZIKARON
This year Yom HaZikaron will be commemorated on Wednesday, April 14, 2021.
Menu coming soon! Yom HaZikaron is Israel’s Official Memorial Day for her fallen soldiers and victims of terrorism. Falling either in late April or early May
every year, Yom HaZikaron is an especially solemn time and marked by ceremonies and moments of silence across the country.
18 19Happy 73 Birthday Israel! rd BETH SHOLOM COMMUNITY
Yom Ha’atzmaut ()יום העצמאות, otherwise known as Israeli Independence MY RENDEZVOUS WITH FATE
Day, is Israel’s birthday! David Ben-Gurion, the first Prime Minister of Israel, !עצמאות שמח
publicly read the Declaration of Independence of Israel on May 14, 1948.
Yom Ha’atzm יום ה LISA KAUFMAN
That date is translated to 5 Iyar 5708. Therefore, we celebrate Yom DID YOU KNO aut Sameach continued... would normally make a person think....why I was proud, ecstatic, overwhelmed,
Ha’atzmaut” W : Is ra el’s birthday
Ha’atzmaut on the 5th of Iyar (unless it’s Shabbat) every year! It’s transl is called “Yo should I trust this man? Why is he doing shocked, thrilled, felt extremely privileged,
ated to Indep m
endence Day
.
all of this? What does he want? But I never thankful and very, very honored.
Not to be deterred , Edward set out to had that feeling with Edward. We shared
CHECK OUT SOME MORE try to find the Pels family. His search let
him to Joods Monument – a website with
pictures and stories. Our time together was
like old friends catching up. He had the day
As I stepped back from the house, 77 years
from when it was destroyed, this is what
COOL FACTS ABOUT information and details about Dutch
Jews and their families murdered in the
planned, wanting David and I to see some
special places around the city.
the sign said:
ISRAEL: Holocaust. Edward TEL. 55058 M.PELS. TEL. 55058
found a “Marcus Pels” As the day got underway,
• An Israeli company has developed the on that site. Edward Edward showed us a few Depot for ice salt
world’s first jellyfish repellent. learned that Marcus’ of the facades he had
wife and two children done and some lettering Wholesale for all ice necessities
• Israel is one of only nine countries in the had survived, but he had found, in addition
world that can launch its own satellites into their names were not to his ongoing research to There it was: a piece of my family’s history
space. listed due to privacy uncover and restore these back where it belonged.
restrictions. Now that lost pieces of Jewish and
• Israel has more books translated than any Edward knew there Dutch history. As we walked I have spent years of my life searching
other country in the world. were survivors, he through Amsterdam, we for something, for someone to connect
hoped one of them turned the corner, to what with. I wondered how it was possible, that
• Israeli bank notes have braille markings on might still be alive. Coincidentally, years I knew at that moment, was my mother’s out of so many of my family members,
them. before, my mother had posted on this very street. Never could I have imagined what that none survived. Then, this happened.
site. Edward, found her name and tried to was about to happen....I looked ahead and It wasn’t what I had been looking for. It
• Israel is the only country to revive an unspoken reach her through email, but that email saw a crowd of people around her home. I was not a person, or a photograph. But it
language, Hebrew, as its national tongue. never reached her. learned they were the restorers; members was something, and for that I am grateful.
of Edward’s organization. There were also I know now they were murdered, but not
Edward Schenk is not a man who gives photographers, and reporters. erased. I finally found the details I had been
up! His colleague made an unlikely searching for.
connection: he remembered reading On that day, August 26, 2019, they were all
BETH SHOLOM COMMUNITY “163256: A MEMOIR OF RESISTANCE” waiting for me, as I took part in restoring Lisa Kaufman •
authored by a Dutch survivor named the original advertising on 108 Nieuwe
MY RENDEZVOUS WITH FATE Michael Englishman, and that the name
Marcus Pels was mentioned in the memoir.
When the author, Michael, married, it was
Kerkstraat. The crowd was waiting for ME
to put back on the wall what was taken
from our family by the Nazis. Working with
Post Script: This story, our story, has now
been featured in three newspapers in
Holland. As a result of these publications,
he and his wife who adopted my mother the restorers, I had a hand in undoing we have found new family members. Sadly,
LISA KAUFMAN and my uncle! Wasting no history. I just CANNOT describe due to COVID, our trip to Holland for my
time, Edward bought the the feeling that came over family to see the restoration, and to meet
book, located the publisher, me. In restoring the original our “new” family has been postponed. But
I am reminded of the difference between the worked to erase all evidence of Jewish A phone number was also visible, and who then put him in contact advertising for my grandparents’ we will get there. And it will be another
things that exist, and the things that we see. businesses. They did this by scraping, and what looked to be a name: M. Pels. After with my mother Katy! The very business, we honoured a man wonderful addition to our story.
They are, as I would come to learn, not always painting over signage and lettering of considerable investigation, Edward found same Keetie, the daughter of I never knew. Now, he has the
the same. family-owned businesses. Many decades that a “Marcus Pels” used to be the director the owner of the business! memorial he rightly deserves.
after the war, a local man by the name of of this business. Not only was this Marcus’
In 2015, on a family trip to Amsterdam, we Edward Schenk, who restores pre-war facade
business address, but Marcus’ home June 25, 2019 was our 30th As I painted my grandfather’s
went to visit the location where my mother advertising on buildings, noticed some odd
had grown up. We went to see what her life lettering on the front of an old building. address as well! He lived there with his wedding anniversary. I will name back on his home, the
was like before she came to Canada, and to He was biking past 108 Nieuwe Kerkstraat, wife, Hendrika; their daughter, Keetie; and never forget that day because tears poured down my face
show our children this important part of their and with a keen eye, discovered a subtle son, Philip. first – it is our anniversary, and my hands were shaking.
history. My family stood in front of the house. advertisement on the wall between the and second – it was the day We Face Timed with my mother
We looked at the frontage. We took pictures. basement and the ground floor. He stopped, my mother, Katy, received an and father, and our children. To
We studied its shape and form, and yet we and with further investigation he could email that would take us on an incredible this day, I don’t know how to describe the
saw none of what once existed there. While faintly read: journey. Two months after receiving the feeling that I was able to bring back to life
we did see the house, the most valuable email from Edward, my husband David and the sign on my grandfather’s business. I
details we could not see. “GROSSIER IN ALLE IJS BENOODIGDHEDEN” I were on a business trip to Holland. We thanked everyone from the bottom of my
met Edward, who while a stranger to us, heart, who was involved in making that
During the Second World War and the Nazi (Wholesale for all ice necessities)
occupation of the Netherlands, the Nazis ...continued nonetheless, felt like family. Human nature moment a reality. I had rewritten history.
20 21BETH SHOLOM CHESED PROGRAMS חסדKHesed/
• CHE·SED
noun
BETH SHOLOM COMMUNITY
OUT OF THE COLD
loving kindness the
attribute of grace,
benevolence, or
compassion
RAFI AARON
As you know due to COVID-19 we are unable and go up to a plexiglass window where a deadly opioid overdose crisis ripping
to operate our Out of the Cold Shelter they are asked a series of questions and through our city, province and country.
In every bulletin, we also include
from Beth Sholom Synagogue. This could to provide contact information. Then they From January to September of 2020 there
not have come at a worse time as there have their temperatures checked. Guests were 353 overdose deaths in Toronto. This
are historic numbers are ushered into a seating is a 65% increase in deaths over the same
of people sleeping on area where they can warm period from 2019. All of the staff work in
Toronto’s streets. In order
to continue serving those
we have assisted for so
up, have a hot chocolate,
use the washrooms, or
charge their phones.
harm reduction which means they have
experience in owering the number of
overdoses.
family news like:
many years, we needed to Then they are invited
find a temporary home o into the dining area. On Sunday January 10th
help those experiencing
homelessness. We were
fortunate to form a
Last year we would
have had 10 people
eating at an 8 ft
we began bringing meals
to encampments. We have
a number of volunteer
• Mazel tovs for births, bar & bat mitzvahs,
partnership with Rev.
James Keenan of Saint Luke’s United
table. This year two
people sit at opposite ends of a 12
drivers who pick up the
dinners from Saint Luke’s engagements, and marriages;
Church who has allowed us to work out of ft table. before our program
his church in the downtown east.
Meals are served in individual
begins, and deliver them.
Two drivers go to each
• Milestone anniversaries & birthdays;
We opened the Out of the Cold Meal
Program at Saint Luke’s United Church on
containers. There is minimal contact
with the guests which is very hard on
encampment. One driver
returns to Saint Luke’s with the meals that • Bereavements;
Sunday, December 13, 2020. The Program the volunteers, as we are used to this were not needed. We are currently serving
operates on Sunday and Wednesday nights
from 5:00 to 9:00 p.m. and its last evening
interaction. All volunteers wear PPE
including: masks, shields, gowns and
six encampments.
• Names of our new members;
• Membership milestones; and
will be on Wednesday, April 28, 2021. The gloves. The tables, chairs and washrooms Many things have changed for our Out of
Wednesday night meal is are disinfected after each the Cold, but our desire to help those we
provided by Holy Blossom use. have served for some 22 years remains
Out of the Cold, and they
have been wonderful to The City of Toronto no
steadfast. I want to thank the entire Beth
Sholom family for its continued support of • Names of our donors.
work with. longer provides us with the program.
staff. We are blessed that
Most of you would not we have found wonderful Rafi Aaron •
recognize our new Out of
the Cold. To begin with,
social distancing, health
front-line organizations
who have partnered with
us and who provide staff
Due to privacy reasons, we do not include
protocols and limits on the
number of individuals in the building at any
for the program. These
include: Street Health, Ontario Aboriginal the above details in our online bulletin.
You can view these details in our printed
one time have changed how we operate. AIDS HIV Strategy, and Sanctuary. We have
Guests enter the church one at a time also hired one individual. There is currently
LEST WE FORGET
version of the bulletin.
This year Yom Hashoah (השואה
YOM HASHOAH )יום, will be commemorated on Thursday, April 8, 2021.
Yom Hashoah ()יום השואה, also known as Holocaust Rememberance Day, was Light your memorial candle on
established by the Government of Israel to be observed yearly on the 27th of Wednesday evening, April 7
Nisan to commemorate the Holocaust and its victims. at sundown, 7:50 pm.
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