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THE Issue. 166 | March 2020 ENCOURAGER The magazine of Elevate Christian Disability Trust Festival One A fantastic raised platform for wheelchair folk to view from See page 15
CHRISTIAN FELLOWSHIP FOR DISABLED In the middle of diffi A devotional from Raymond Mok We say that God is love and He loves us. It seems easier to say when things are going well, but it can be harder when times are tough. In some of the darkest times in my life, the devil tempted me to doubt God’s love. I felt as if I was not loved but cursed. Have you ever felt that way? Luke 3:21-4:13 has an answer to that. It shows goodness, dignity and worth in every human being by Jesus’ baptism and being tested in the wilderness. creating them in His own image. Every human being is Knowing His own identity, Jesus overcame the devil’s fearfully and wonderfully made by God (Psalm 139:13- temptations. He knew who He is to God the Father. 14). Every human being is loved by God. Jesus has an intimate relationship with the Father. On the other hand, we all have sinned, and the Jesus knew that He is His Father’s Beloved Son. image we bear has been tainted. However, Jesus The devil tried to undermine Jesus’ identity by saying has redeemed us through His blood. God chose us to Him, “If you are the Son of God…” But Jesus was before the foundation of the world, adopted us as secure in His identity as the divine Son of God. He His beloved children through Jesus Christ, and blessed knew He had no need to prove himself. He resisted us in Christ. By His grace, God did all these for us. the temptations, as He completely relied on His Father (Ephesians 1:3-14) and obeyed His Father’s word. How do we bear God’s image, and be God’s children? Jesus was victorious against the devil because He was How do we hold firmly to our identity in God? What certain that He is God’s Beloved Son. Jesus withstood can we do in a world that is losing sight of the fact phenomenal amount of praise and adoration and that every human being bears God’s image? rejection and abuse throughout his ministry, because We need a God-centred identity. We need to let God He knew that nothing can change the fact that He is tell us who we are through the Holy Spirit, His word God’s Beloved Son. As human, Jesus needed to hold and fellowship. We need to spend time with God to firmly to His identity in God. So do we. We need to hear Him say “You are my beloved child.” Let us also remember that we are God’s beloved children. share the love by affirming the inherent dignity and How do we see ourselves? But more importantly, how worth of all human beings. does God see us? Who are we to God? “If you know you’re God’s beloved, you can deal with When God had made human beings in His own image, an enormous amount of success and an enormous He declared all He had made to be very good and amount of failure.” – Henri Nouwen He blessed them (Genesis 1:27-28). God imparted 2020 CAMPS Please take note and put in your diaries Auckland CFFD 3-5 April Carey Park, Henderson, Akd Christchurch CFFD Day Camp 4 April Reformed Church, Cornwall St, Chch Emmanuel Family Camp 24-27 April Totara Springs, Matamata Joy Ministries National Camp 15-17 May Totara Springs, Matamata Elevate National Camp 23-25 Oct Totara Springs, Matamata 2
iculty lies opportunity Disability Awareness Sunday - June 21st This Disability Awareness Sunday we are focusing on being made in God’s image. All of us bear His image. Each of us has value and worth because we are made in His likeness. Resources and advertising material will be available on our website in May. WE HAVE A NEED The Trust meets four times a year and we need a minutes secretary. The meetings are in Auckland on a Saturday 9:30–3:30. If you are able to take minutes, transcribe and send them out on email, do contact the Centre 09 636 4763 Elevate Ditty Composed by Jean Griffiths and others CONGRATULATIONS to Pauline Stansfield on being awarded a QSM in the New Year’s Honours EL E VATE YES! That’s the place for us We’re together with God on high PRAY FOR Billy Graham’s son Franklyn EL E VATE who will be leading a crusade in Christchurch, Wellington and Auckland in February 2021. We We have hilarity need a revival! Food, fun, fellowship Drawn here like a magnet EL E VATE We are accepted here Despite our differences If you come here We’ll embrace you EL E VATE Camps are highlights too They’re special to us all Your faith will grow And you will glow EL E VATE (last verse) We could go on and on Cartoon by But we have to end this song Cathy Wilcox of the And we want you to remember Sydney Morning Herald. EL E VATE 3
Choice not chance know they have a purpose and they have something to offer, no matter their abilities or inabilities. I shared this with the group. During the worship and church session, Pastor Suz shared her personal story. She shared moments of joy and moments of sadness, anger, rage etc. when dealing with the prolonged illness of her husband, managing her kids, her faith journey and then dealing with the eventual passing of her husband and the grief that followed. I thought she was very brave to share her story, and I appreciated how real and honest it was, not just saying “all was well”, but actually talking about the hard stuff that came. In her story, she shared that she knew God could heal her husband at any moment, but she had come to say she wouldn’t have grown through the grief and pain as much as MY PURPOSE she did if she hadn’t gone through it. I always think on this Bible verse when hard times come in my life: IN LIFE IS TO ‘Be truly glad. There is wonderful JOY ahead, even though you must endure many trials for a little while. ENCOURAGE These trials will show that your faith is genuine. It is being tested as fire tests and purifies gold—though your faith is far more precious than mere gold. AND SPEAK When I spoke in one of the workshops, I shared some of my purpose, and how God has been moving in my LIFE TO PEOPLE life. I shared how my purpose is to encourage and to SPEAK LIFE to people. I shared how everyone is a part of the Body of Christ, and no matter our ability Kim Clark writes: or inability, we are all called. I talked about how God Iheaded down to Totara Springs in Matamata called Moses to lead his people, and that Moses was for the 2019 Elevate National Camp. It was my very ill-qualified, but nevertheless God empowered first time at this particular camp, and it will be a camp him to fulfil his purpose. When God gave me His I won’t forget. When we arrived we had an evening calling for my life, I didn’t want to do it straight away. session of music worship, and we were introduced He called me to speak and I said, “Nah, I’ll do my own to the main speakers; the main speakers being long- thing.” This past year He’s been saying, “speak”, and time-camp-attendee Pastor Geoff and the awesome He’s given me small opportunities to speak, and when Pastor Suz. Being honest, when I went down to camp I I finally said “yes” with those small opportunities He’s didn’t expect much spiritually. I was thinking “OK, just kept giving me more. This is really exciting for me another camp, that will be what it will be”. Of course, because it’s like all those fears and thoughts of not it’s often when we don’t expect it, that God shows being good enough or not being the right person to up… and He did! speak have gone. If I’m doing what God wants me to do, why should I fear? . For me, all the messages The theme of camp was “Ignite”. One of the spoken at camp were so relevant. It was like God discussion questions that was asked was “What do was reminding me how far I’d come. I’ve gone from we think igniting is or what do we like to see being feeling inadequate and worthless and feeling like I ignited?” For me, I love seeing people ignited in their had nothing to offer at the beginning of the year, to God-given calling. I love people living out that calling, now feeling that with having God on my side I can do and encouraging them in that. I love it when people anything. 4
determines destiny A Sunday of Service Each year at Mount Wellington Community We had a good number of people come along and Church we do a ‘Sunday of Service’ where we help with tasks ranging in size and scale from weeding go out into our local community and serve a to tree-cutting. Everyone was able to be involved, school or another community organisation by including children from the church. The school was doing practical work like gardening, cleaning, thrilled with the difference we made in a morning’s or removing rubbish from the property. We work. do this as a church community, in place of We see this kind of ministry as a great way to share one of our morning services. God’s love with our community, and to worship God In November 2019 we headed out to Mount Richmond by using our strengths and abilities for the good of Special School in Otahuhu to help tidy up their others. grounds. This school is a little further away than we Has your church ever thought of that? would normally travel, but we wanted to thank them for kindly giving us use of one of their wheelchair hoist vans to allow Annette Hocking to join us for our church camp earlier in the year, last year. Everyone got involved, Mike Potter got out of his chair so he even the kids. could join in with the gardening. 5
Never get so busy making a livi It seemed doubtful he would ever now realise the passion he had to start a camp for those in wheelchairs, but within a few years he had started running a camp of his own. In the subsequent 34 years that initial wheelchair camp has grown amazingly, so much so that today over 1000 physically challenged kids and adults from the USA and Africa attend the annual camp. But not only that– he now has camps for groups such as: “Honouring our heroes” camps for those who have served in the military Retreat camps for horse enthusiasts NOTHING Family camps to bring together all disabilities COULD STOP Overnight adventure camps Wheelchair sports camps THIS MAN Autism family camps REALISING Grandparents and grandchildren camps Married couples retreats HIS PASSION Di and Jacqui met Bob at Joni’s International Congress I n 1986 Bob Bardwell suffered a devastating accident when he was struck in the back by a large bucket while working on a large caterpillar in 1990 and stayed at his ranch. He also came to New Zealand two years later and “The Encourager” then published an article with the heading which machine. His back was broken, and he fell to the so sums up his life attitude, “Pain is inevitable, but ground unconscious, paralysed from the waist down. misery is optional”. The Lord’s goodness GOD’S in the Philippines PERFECT PLAN Can You... Thanks be to God for His great things, but Tess love and goodness to us and we can see BELIEVE Jesus Christ died for you on for continually providing for all God’s hand. the cross and rose again? (1Cor.15:3&4) Mary our needs. One of God’s timeless The Lord saved Rose her life. Today, 3 ADMIT you are a sinner? (Rom.3:23) promises is in Hebrews 13:5: ”…God weeks later, she is has said, “Never will I leave you; AGREE to turn from sin to God? never will I forsake you.” We all as able to go home. (Acts 20:21) Christians, can relate to this verse. Thank God for making a way for We really thank God for the Mary Rose (little person). She was ACKNOWLEDGE God’s free gift answered prayer for our teacher struggling to access her classroom of Salvation? (Eph.2:8&9) Tess here in Hebron. Tess is deaf and on the 2nd floor at school. She has If you can, then say this simple prayer teaches in our deaf school. now found a place where she can aloud: “Lord Jesus, I receive You attend on the ground floor Praise On Feb 3rd, she suffered a stroke. as my Lord and personal Saviour. God for that! Amen” We may not always understand all 6
https://online.fliphtml5.com/ylfur/dtmd/ ing that you forget to make a life https://online.fliphtml5.com/ylfur/dtmd NOW NOTICE First Annual Chris Norton Foundation camp participants THE RIPPLE EFECT See how the disability ministries continue to develop I n 2014 Chris Norton came to one of these camps. Chris had suffered a spinal cord wanted to just do it. After one call to Bob Bardwell, his enthusiasm for the idea convinced him to make this new camp a reality. He wanted it to mimic what injury in 2010 while playing Bob had been doing so successfully for years but with football and was given a 3% an emphasis on the whole family and to make it free chance of ever regaining for families through his foundation. movement below his neck, but he has since continued He was able to find 25 wheelchair users and their to defy the odds. He was blown away by all the “I families who were so excited to come to camp, and can do” there. He participated in many fun games 75 participated in the first annual camp. He included and activities, learned from others about how they all sorts of activities such as the tractor pull, softball, live active lives despite their disabilities, and he tried laser tag, archery, horseback riding and zip-lining. things he had thought he would never be able to do, It was amazing to see the joy from not only the like zip-lining and kayaking. He was so fired up that it individuals in a chair, but from parents and siblings enabled him to take on life with a new vigour. too. Friendship and bonds were formed at camp that have continued well after it ended. People Seeing what it did for him and for everyone else found it difficult to say goodbye to each other at the at camp, he knew that more people needed to end of camp, but everyone is excited there will be experience this new freedom. It planted a seed in his another one this year! It was evident that everyone’s heart to sponsor his own week of camp, and for the perspective shifted, focusing less on their disabilities, next several years the idea would not escape him. but instead seeing their capabilities. Finally, he got to thinking and talking about it, and 7
Love comforts like That is what is happening to Asgedech, a loving and selfless grandmother in Ethiopia, who cannot afford to protect her own eyesight. Before Trachoma, Asgedech’s life was already very hard. Her husband died long ago. She only has a tiny income from selling vegetables, no adult children to help her… and now a truly dangerous infection has entered her home. Trachoma is the leading cause of infectious blindness and some of the highest Trachoma rates in the world are in Ethiopia. Asgedech and her five grandchildren, aged six to twelve, all have Trachoma. It is highly infectious. Entire villages have it, especially where families live closely together. With no power, no running water and no hygiene facilities in Asgedech’s home, her precious grandchildren are not able to keep their faces clean. The children just have to look at their beloved A GRANDMOTHER, Grandi to see what could happen to their own eyes. With every blink, their sharp lashes will GOING BLIND, scrape across their defenceless eyes. Please do not let Trachoma destroy these CARING FOR HER children’s eyes. By sending your donation to help reach remote families with the antibiotics and GRANDCHILDREN eye ointment that will save their sight, the value of your gift will be multiplied x8, thanks to Pfizer IN ETHIOPIA who has agreed to provide its own Zithromax antibiotics and Tetracycline eye ointment, free of charge. Asgedech is being blinded in the most Your gifts are vital in helping to make sure those painful way, while trying to raise five pills and ointment can reach the people who grandchildren...who are all suffering need them, even the most remote villagers like from the same condition, Trachoma. Asgedech and her grandchildren. Your generosity will help save children from years of agony. As many grandparents in New Zealand know, Have you ever scratched your eye? An eyelash raising grandchildren on your own is very hard, can do that. It is hard and sharp. Every time but what a testimony of love it is. Asgedech blinks, her eyelashes cut tiny tracks Now imagine trying to raise your grandchildren across her delicate cornea. It hurts … how when you have Trachoma. Every time you blink it hurts! Each of these cuts forms a tiny scar. it hurts… really badly… like a knife on your Invisible on their own, they grow to form a misty eyeball… as you are slowly and painfully blinded curtain, blocking the light into Asgedech’s eyes. by your own ingrown eyelashes! 8
e sunshine after rain Asgedech’s grandchildren’s eyes are not yet affected, but they must keep receiving their annual antibiotics. Without your generosity, field workers have no funding to get to the towns and villages where Trachoma infections are rife. “My vision has decreased a lot during the past months,” she told our field worker Gizachew, sounding quite desperate. “I can´t see as before. Especially at night. I fear blindness. I wouldn’t be able to take care of my grandchildren anymore!” she cries, in fear of losing her sight completely and her beloved grandchildren. Trachoma is so frightening and so painful for Asgedech, she has started having her eyelashes pulled out, using a grotesque pair of tweezers called a werento. It is agony to do this, and it only solves things for a few weeks, because her lashes grow back and start slashing at her eyes again. No wonder Asgedech is so worried. “The children have already started to get the same disease I have. They could experience the same pain I have. It would be terrible if they lost their sight.” The children too are worried now. Her first granddaughter, Kidist, says “If Grandi goes blind, nobody would take care of us. I don’t know what to do. We love her so much and we want to stay with her.” Asgedech can no longer see well enough to work in the garden or take their produce to the This article was taken from the CBM (Christian market. All they have to eat is what has already Blind Mission) newsletter, and they are the ones been harvested. Trachoma has brought pain, to send a donation to rather than to Elevate if blindness and is now making their deep poverty you feel to help meet this great need. even worse. Send to: This little family is desperate, but you can do so cbm New Zealand much to help. Asgedech’s sight loss cannot be PO Box 303477, reversed, but you can stop it getting any worse… North Harbour, and you can protect the eyesight and the future Auckland 0751 of young ones like her grandchildren. 9
I never lose, I eith Connect-ability It is with great joy and excitement that Another strong theme came from Meredith and was Pete and Carla Townsend write this report supported by many others, “Connect-ability gives us people with disabilities, the opportunity to get up on about their awesome and amazing stage and express ourselves in front of the Church, to Connect-ability group. be involved in Church, e.g., our Disability Awareness Service.” What is Connect-ability? There is a real desire within the group to serve in the Connect-ability is a connect group for people with wider church family. Many of our group are involved disabilities – people from [Tauranga] Central Baptist in taking the offering each week. RJ is learning how and from outside the Church. We meet on the fourth to run the sound system during our Connect-ability Sunday of each month in the church hall. We begin service, and RJ and Frances are actively involved in our with a shared lunch, and often we will have an main service with running the data. activity, sometimes making something, or otherwise we just sit and connect with one another. Pastor Brian has been quoted as saying, “Pete thinks he is in charge, but it is actually Katie!” This leads After lunch, we head into the church and have our me to my last point, brilliantly quoted by Meredith, own church service. We begin with some praise and “Connect-ability gives us the confidence to share our worship and an eye opening prayer. We then lead testimonies – the ability to be confident.” into a message, reading from scripture and group discussion. We pray for one another, have more praise and worship, and finish with a discussion of future Highlights: plans. 1. Being involved in the main Church service on Disability Awareness Sunday in June. Alyssa and My initial goals for Connect-ability were to facilitate Meredith opening the service in prayer, and John connection within the group, and to teach everyone (with Brian’s support) reading the Benediction more about God, but what I have come to realise is at the end of the service. The whole group were that Connect-ability is less about the group learning so excited to be involved, and after the service I about God and more about the group showing us saw the group engaged in many conversations as God’s love! I don’t run Connect-ability; I just show up people came and spoke to them – it was amazing! and watch what happens! 2. Recently we had a number of our group At our last get together I asked the group what participate in a sports competition between 16 Connect-ability is all about – what they would like churches from around Tauranga. Our team played their wider church family to know. Everyone was Netball, we played four games and we were in agreement – FOOD is very important! Alyssa placed no worse than second in each of these commented that she “loves to eat her chocolate games! RJ was our shooter and boy did he do us eclairs.” Katie said, “our purpose is to worship God proud, getting a lot of goals. The team did so well and Jesus and enjoy being with people”. This was playing against some very competitive teams, but supported by Shirley who said, Connect-ability makes as always God’s love was the winner on the day. her “happy and everyone is so friendly”. Evelyn Our team won the Sportsmanship Award, and 16 said that “Connect-ability is like a family”. She loves other churches now know that we don’t just have making friends in the group. This was also supported old people at Central Baptist. by Charlie who is happy because he is getting to know people. 10
her win or learn “ Hopefully churches can be encouraged to “ follow their example If reading this report has ignited something inside you and you feel like you are missing out, you are welcome to join us – we have just two criteria: 1. Bring good food! 2. Be willing to connect We have a lot of fun, and we would love to share what we are doing with more people in the community over the next twelve months. We now have a very good foundation for a community ministry, so please pray for Connect-ability, and specifically that we have more opportunities to connect with others outside Central Baptist! Hush – God is at work! For reading and meditation – Psalm 139:1-24 “If I go up to the heavens, You are there; if I make my bed in the depths, You are there.” (v8) ...the Spirit of the living God is everywhere. This was woman. ‘When our baby was born we experienced brought home to me once while on a flight. Two a deep sadness to begin with, and both struggled, women in the row immediately behind me were becoming somewhat depressed. After a while though, talking, and I couldn’t help overhearing what they things changed, and the love that we received from were talking about. As the conversation continued it our baby to us was also the means of bringing us to became more and more interesting. Christ.’ One asked the other if she had any children. At this I began to understand God in a new way as I listened point a photograph was produced, and the mother in to that conversation. It’s always exciting when He replied, ‘Here are my children; this one here has surprises us in our reading and study of the Scriptures. life-limiting disabilities.’ ‘That’s amazing.’ remarked Sometimes, however, we can only bow with a the other woman. ‘One of my children has severe thankful, worshipful heart when we see Him reaching disabilities too.’ As you can imagine, at this point out to us in unexpected ways, in times of desperate these women discovered an instant connection. Then need. I heard one of the women say to the other: ‘I was very Father, sensitise me to the fact that Your Spirit is self-centred and lived only thinking of myself and my present to bring glory to Your name in and through enjoyment, until my child arrived. But she brought everything. I do not always know why things happen, such love into the life of my husband and me that but I do know that You work through all things for through it we glimpsed the love of God. We both good, and I am thankful. Amen. became Christians because of her.’ ‘A similar thing Taken from ‘Every Day with Jesus’, Nov 2019 (Torch UK) happened to my husband and me,’ said the other 11
DISABILITY AWARENESS Anyone can find the dirt in some SUNDAY Proverb resentment of my disability. Even so, after a year of College, in 1977 I was invited by CWM to take up a job on the staff of a Christian training centre and kindergarten in Kerala, South India. With guilt and shame weighing heavily on my conscience, I went with a heavy feeling of loneliness and insecurity. When He found me There I was in India, as a 25 year old. I was challenged to the core by daily life in the village I lived in, surrounded by such a different culture and a different language - Malayalam. I was appointed by the Church of South India to be the Thirty six years as a Supervisor of the Christian Child Care programme for the state of Kerala, teaching English, craft, and the Principles of Pre-School Programmes, in the Creche Nurses’ Training nun and loving Jesus Centre (with translation to begin with). No other foreigners were involved in this work in that language area. I worked closely with my Indian colleague, a highly educated young Sister Diadema Morrison from the lady my own age, who was the Principal of the Creche Evangelical Sisterhood of Mary writes: Nurses Training Centre. What a thrilling experience for a young New Zealander! Everything went well for a while. I My Life - before God thrived in the challenge, loved the Indian people, the hot I had a very good Christian family upbringing – mother, climate, the spicy food, the overcrowded buses and the father, and one younger brother. My father was a sight of coconut palms, paddy fields and elephants. I loved Presbyterian minister. Church and Sunday School were wearing a sari and learning the language, difficult as it normal life, as far as I was concerned. Having a physical was. I loved the little local village church, accessible only by disability from birth, dislocation of hip and knee, and polio walking up a hill on a stony pathway bordered by mango muscle wastage, I was hospitalized a lot in early childhood. trees, banana palms, and luxuriant tropical undergrowth. Inevitably, I suffered emotional damage; separation anxiety, Again, my physical disability was pushed into the and a deep-rooted fear of the powerful control others had background and I was determined to be normal, no matter over my life. the cost of pain, discomfort and very unsuitable footwear. However, those countless orthopaedic operations in But spiritually I was poverty-stricken. It wasn’t long before childhood resulted in satisfactory mobility – with discomfort I came to the end of my own resources. I felt defeated. So, - but gave me the determination to live as normal a life as for the first time in my life I seriously searched for God. I possible. I grew up trying to please people, because I had recognized my shallow faith; years of indifference, not much not experienced the normal growth of healthy boundaries depth of understanding, the impression of God as kindly, in my life. As a young person I believed in God, but felt no sympathetic, loving - but oh, so distant, and very much personal relationship to Him, apart from a warm “fuzzy” removed from my thoughts and emotions in everyday life. feeling now and then in Sunday School, church, and youth As my search became increasingly serious, I read my Bible group. as never before, and a number of helpful Christian books I could find in the nearest Christian book shop. My Indian I trained as a Kindergarten teacher. Quite amazing to colleague felt sorry for me. She encouraged me not to be accepted and actually manage to do such a physically give up until I found Jesus personally. One day she handed strenuous job! Later, in 1974, I went to England on a me one of M. Basilea Schlink’s books about personal love working holiday with two friends and worked as a Nanny, for Jesus. Soon I was reading in earnest and finding really and then in a Nursery School. That was again hard physical helpful chapters! I loved what I was reading. A personal, work, but lots of fun! I pushed through pain, for the joy loving, and amazingly relational God and Saviour was and success of holding down normal jobs. During that time coming into focus for me. I wanted to respond to His love I attended church as it was a routine in my life. One Sunday and forgiveness with all my heart - just as the author of I heard a missionary speak about the need for Christian these books so obviously had! Her genuine joy and love for Kindergarten teachers on the mission field. I liked the sound Jesus shone through every page! That was the beginning of of her job description, so I applied to the “Council for World my journey towards knowing Jesus personally. Mission” (CWM) in London and was accepted. Again, very amazing that my physical disability was not seen to be a My calling to the Convent hindrance! At the invitation of CWM, I went to Selly Oak Colleges in Birmingham, to do a missionary training course. I went home to New Zealand in 1981 after four years Sadly, I chose to mix with the wrong crowd there, and in India and soon got a Kindergarten teaching job in wasted the months in expressing my pent-up rebellion and Invercargill. Again, there was no question mark over 12
one. Be the one to find the gold. bs 11 v 7 my physical disability; I had just had four years working solidly in India, after all! My colleague invited me to attend her church on my first Sunday, so I did. To my surprise, the congregation were talking about two special Guest Speakers that were there recently, from the Evangelical Sisterhood of Mary in Australia, the Christian community of Sisters, founded by M. Basilea Schlink, with branches worldwide. I didn’t meet the Sisters, but something “sparked” strongly and deeply in my heart. That spark was fanned into flame in the months that followed. I sensed God speaking to me about a new direction for my life. His will, not my will! His challenge – would I take the risk, and trust and follow? The following year, I came to Australia to a retreat weekend held by the Sisters and sensed the Lord calling me to spend a longer time as a volunteer at their headquarters in Germany. until lunch time in our designated ministry areas. Mine is There, in 1983, I was one of about fifteen young women administration, outreach and music. Sometimes there are from many different nations, helping voluntarily in the speaking engagements in local areas, or groups of visitors community’s daily life wherever we were needed - the coming here for a day visit. I may be appointed to go and garden, housework, kitchen, laundry – wherever. Physically speak to a group along with another Sister. I may be asked it was challenging, but again, I so longed to fully take part to help take care of a visiting group, as part of a team. in this life where I experienced such joy, humour, dedication, In my office, I attend to correspondence and assist our trust in God, unity, selflessness and love for Jesus. I knew Sister-in-Charge with general administration of our life with all my heart that I wanted this life. together. Other Sisters work in the kitchen and housework, garden and maintenance, accounts, laundry and sewing God’s calling was confirmed over the next years – and this room. We are used to multi-tasking, especially if Sisters are is now my 36th year! It has been an amazing journey away. There are many humorous situations when things into relational love for Jesus, such as I could never have go wrong, resulting in the most peculiar outcomes! Living imagined! It has been a deeply challenging pathway of transparently, with accountability, forgiveness, repentance, following Jesus uncompromisingly, trusting God even in the reconciliation and then going forward together in unity is times when I don’t understand Him, and learning from the a necessity – along with lots of love, and lots of laughter! Holy Spirit how to “take up my cross” in daily life. Taking We have a short prayer and worship time together at up my cross included learning how to embrace my physical 3p.m. each day – Sisters, guests, volunteers. I prepare the disability and not ignore it or resent it, but to find real chapel or notify everyone if we will be outside in our Prayer blessing in it. What a valuable lesson! (Are you wondering if Garden. This part of the day is a special treasure in our life there can really be blessing in a disability? See “The Hidden together, and helps us to keep focussed on the Lord, even Treasure in Suffering” - M. Basilea Schlink) on the busiest days. Our evening meal is a time for sharing important news, and thank points, and ends with a short So what is life in the Convent like? time of praying together. Our guests and volunteers eat Physically, it was soon clear that my Sisterhood life would separately in the evenings, so that our Sister-family-life can be best spent in Australia, where our buildings do not have remain intact. Some evenings we have a programme either stairs. It was a heavy “cross” at first, not to be in the large, just as Sisters, or with our guests and volunteers, and friends happy Sisterhood family of more than a hundred Sisters in from the wider area. By our lives, we want to honour God our “Mother House” in Germany. Here, we are ten Sisters and give Him the glory in each new day. from America, Norway, Sweden, Finland, Netherlands, In these Sisterhood years I have had three major orthopaedic Australia and New Zealand. Our life together is just as full operations to fuse joints in both feet (bilateral lambridnudi of joy, humour, dedication, trust in God, unity, selflessness arthrodesis - I learned that off by heart!), and a TKR (total and love for Jesus, as I ever experienced in my beginnings knee replacement); all three were necessary because of the as a volunteer! God’s ways are certainly the best! Being excessive physical activity in my youth. God is so merciful and an intentional Christian Community, every day begins forgiving, and the operations were successful. I am pain- with personal prayer time and breakfast alone. We meet free the majority of the time, and I have finally learned the together most mornings at 8.30. Worship, prayer times, importance of leading a healthy, balanced life spiritually Bible study, sharing together – these times together are and physically. I am so grateful for every step of this long varied and set a good foundation for the day. We work pathway which began for me back then, more than 40 years ago, in South India! To Him be the glory! 13
CHRISTIAN FELLOWSHIP As water reflects the face, s FOR DISABLED Proverb THE DEBT THAT I OWE TO MY PARENTS T housands have watched clips of Sarah Kovac driving, playing the piano, applying makeup and even cracking eggs. Simple, everyday tasks, right? Not without the use of arms or hands. Sarah was born with I see that, because in my experience it was really arthrogryposis multiplex congenita, a genetic disorder helpful for my parents to back off and let me find my in which leg or arm joints are essentially stuck in place own way. and muscles don’t develop. For Sarah, those locked joints - and the muscles within those joints - run from When you’re a parent of a child with special needs, the base of her neck to her fingertips. you have the internet and doctors and therapists who all have different opinions — and all these things are Beginning at an early age, Sarah learned to rely needed — but it’s hard to step back and say, “God, I on her legs and feet to handle the duties of four trust that You’re going to show me what to do. I trust functioning limbs. Today, those duties include raising a that [my children] will find their fullest potential in 6-year-old and a 2-year-old. Sarah shares the lessons You.” she’s learned in her 2013 book, In Capable Arms: Living a Life Embraced by Grace. Words often have an impact on a child’s self-esteem. Can you remember examples of words or descriptions Parents of a child with disabilities might wonder how your parents used that stuck with you over the years? they, too, can raise their child to have confidence and courage. Sarah here speaks of the debt she owes to I came home from school one day after somebody told her parents: When I was in kindergarten, I broke my me I was handicapped. This was during the 1980s, and arm four times. My arms don’t bend, they just break. that was the word used back then. I’d heard the word My parents had the strength to watch me go through before, but I don’t think I’d ever been labelled that that over and over and still say, “You can learn to ride way. So I said something about it to my dad, and he a bike. We’ll take off your training wheels.” I would said, “You’re not handicapped. You have a handicap, come across things that I couldn’t do or didn’t want and there’s a difference.” to because it was too scary for me, but they let me I learned that I am Sarah first and foremost , and I discover those things instead of determining them also happen to have a disability. I don’t have to let for me. myself be defined by these things. There’s no escaping Many parents have a hard time with this, it, but it doesn’t mean it’s who I am. understandably, because they feel their child won’t I also remember my mother telling me that a good develop to his or her full potential. So they intervene. artist can work their mistakes into the bigger picture. They say to the child, “Maybe you should do it this I’m not saying that God makes mistakes God is way, or do this with your mouth, or use your other the artist and can work anything for good. It’s a hand,” and that sort of thing. I cringe a little bit when comforting thought. 14
o one’s life reflects the heart. b 27 v 18 FUN AT FESTIVAL ONE! Michael Stoneham was a great buddy at Festival One. He kindly followed me everywhere I decided to go. The By Manu Teofila weekend sped past, boogying to great music, buying cold I had sooo much fun at Festival drinks at the market and hanging out with friends were One with friends and music. I had the main things we did. It was super-hot every day, but that friends to dance and sing with, as didn’t stop me from rolling from one place to another, I well as to chill and have some good heard music that I liked the sound of. I spotted some friends yarns. Went to bands that I didn’t and spent time with them. plan to see or hadn’t known about, In the ride back home, I told Michael that I felt refreshed which got me dancing. Thanks and satisfied. Spending quality time with Michael and to Kylee Black who had been everyone else filled my love tank. The preachers and instrumental in setting up the Soul Lounge, this provided a speakers filled my mind with encouragement. I love singing space with things to make Festival One accessible for people praises to Jesus outdoors, and doing it with others really with impairments. For example, they had 3 hospital beds satisfied my soul. Without a doubt, going to Festival One available so folk could rest! was a great blessing from God! Attention - all those who have Did you know that we can email you when the latest changed their email addresses PLEASE tell us your new ones Encourager magazine is up on our website? To sign up, scan this QR code, phone us or update your contact details on our website. Address Ministries under Elevate Magazine Editor and Ministries Director Emmanuel Ministry Hugh and Di Willis Contact Centre 09 636 4763 87 Deep Creek Rd, Waiake, Auckland City 0630, Torch New Zealand Auckland - Leyna Coleman leyna@actrix.co.nz 09 832 0130 Joy Ministries Branches and Contacts Communication Liason for Joy Ministries Branches: Jan Bridgeman - Email: bridgeman@xtra.co.nz Phone: 027 641 2653 CFFD National Auckland Central, West & East – Communication Liason for CFFD Branches: Jan Bridgeman bridgeman@xtra.co.nz 027 641 2653 Jean Griffiths - Email: jngriffo7@gmail.com Phone: 09 555 1947 Hamilton - Jeni Hawker jenihawker@gmail.com 020 401 47198 Northland - Jacqui Gardner jacquigardner@outlook.co.nz 09 438 4952 Whakatane - Wanda Hughes bwtroop@gmail.com 07 312 3330 Auckland - Viv Riddell cffdauckland@elevatecdt.org.nz 0212940320 Hawkes Bay - Coromandel-Hauraki* - Brad & Karen Spurgeon spurgeonnz@gmail.com 06 876 1106 Shona Taylor shonawillie@xtra.co.nz 07 868 8782 Taupo - Jenny Brown jennymbrown4@gmail.com 07 378 4068 Waikato - Heather Major heatherjmajor@gmail.com 07 855 0681 Masterton - Brenda Morgan bpbeacgan996@gmail.com 06 377 3125 Bay of Plenty - Deborah Dorofaeff* debra.dorofaeff@gmail.com 021 054 7630 Blenheim - David Clode clode11@slingshot.co.nz 03 578 0598 Hawkes Bay - Joan Parker ej.parker@xtra.co.nz 06 877 8026 Other ministries around the country Taranaki - Richard West flourishwest@gmail.com 06 753 9466 Manawatu - Lyn Spencer lynette.spencer@inspire.net.nz 06 357 0045 Able to Worship - Warkworth Methodist Church Jenny Trotter k.jtrotter@gmail.com 09 422 7358 Wellington - John Hawkins cffd-wgtn@actrix.co.nz 04 569 9096 Christchurch - Dave Palmer davepalmer@xtra.co.nz 027 216 5743 Kumbayah - St David’s Presbyterian Church - Palmerston North Ann Bennett 06 355 2818 Dunedin - Patsy Appleby-Morrison patsylys@gmail.com 03 482 2505 Bible Friends - Wanganui Louise Rostron rostrons@xtra.co.nz 06 344 5955 Philippines CFFD Janet Meehan pcffd.nz@elevatecdt.org.nz 027 2644 172 THRIVE - Greerton Bible Church, Tauranga Ruth Beale pcffd.nzsponsorship@elevatecdt.org.nz 027 492 7178 Ron Raikes thrive@gbc.org.nz 021 032 9660 If you would like to help with our costs you could send a donation to: ELEVATE P.O Box 13-322, Onehunga, Auckland 1643 or direct deposit ANZ 01-0142-0029706-00 Name:............................................................................................................. I wish to give for the magazine: $................................................ Address:........................................................................................................ I wish to give for general running costs: $..................................... ......................................................................................................................... 15
kindness isat Elevate very Nation very much al Camp. appreciated. I really Thank God for all of those unforgettable moments with you. Much love, Leslie dela Ganar Leslie de la Ganar was Dear Friends, methrilled to see and with her learning experience It was indeed a wonderful time for spending time to all of you though and time meeting up with members of I miss ed to see other som e reas ons. Hav ing a very PCFFD friends for precious time with you was real ly awe et g CFFD tha some. Ibranches e Jo y Msing wasco inistries sommittee who have supported So muc nic h e to for me bein bles to me theeros Philippines Ministry and helped to happy! Tha nk you so na l Ca mp . I had to od a very goFD at. Elevater Na tio, gen love ity and e Drop in Centre. and PCF as well You onor to speak in th ere. ated . I real ly Thank p with our friends th kindness is very very muc h app reci rgettable mom pay entsfor withthe you.visit. She writes God for all of those unfoAdded to my joy that for the first time to have a home Much love, Lesl ie dela Gan ar made birthday cake from Auntie Di. What a labor of love! With CFFD folk in Ashurst at Ruth and Paul Beale’s home What a beautiful gift from God—once in a life time to celebrate my birthday with these wonderful people—Autie Di, Uncle Hugh, Matt, Rebecca and Bob. CFFD Asshurst with Leslie in the house of Ruth and Paul! Before we started the Fellowship we had a lovely diner. Ruth and I cooked Filipino dishes such as chicken adobo, pancit and Filipino spaghetti style. Others brought different yummy foods. ul! use of Ruth and Pa Ruth Added to my joy that for the e in the howith CFFD AsA sh special urst wilunch th Leslifellowship ha dJohn, a lov Anne, ely diner. we d the Fellowship chicken adobo, panc we starte BeforeHugh, dd it an to first my joytime thatto forhave a homemade the first time to have a hom Hawke’s Bay CFFD e with the Rosemary, hePeter s suchand as Sandra Adde . day cake from Auntie Di. What a labor o very goodSo bonice ndingto timmeet Joy Ministries co oked Filipino dis ent yu mm y made foo ds birth and I differ birthday cake! le. Others brought committee attoElevate I’m so glad National meet in person Camp these lovely couple Filipino spaghetti sty Hugh and Auntie with these wonderful people—A CFFD. Alastair and Patsy from Dunedin Lunch Fellowship with these from GodJohn,—on amazing ce in people a life time to celebrate my birthday at Uncle gift What a beautifulDi’s house—Uncle Auntie Anne, Uncle Hugh, Auntie Rosemary, Rebe Uncle ,Peter cca and Bob. Di, Uncle Hugh, Matt and Auntie Sandra Sponsorship needed for Leslie de la Ganar in the Philippines of $60 a month. Contact Ruth Beale, with you Wellington CFFD. details on page 15 So nice meeting up with the Wellington CFFD group n these lovely couple zing people at Uncle Hugh a I’m so glad to meet in perso FD.. Lunch Fellowship with these ama , Uncle Hugh, Auntie Ro WellDune youfrom dinCF ington CFFD John, Auntie Anne y to air ppAlast withPatsy beand Di’s hous e—U ncle I was so ha Uncle Peter and Auntie Sandra WHAT IS ELEVATE CHRISTIAN DISABILITY TRUST ALL ABOUT? We are an interdenominational parachurch organisation. “We We run meetings and camps throughout NZ. We have four groups: welcome your • CFFD (Christian Fellowship for Disabled) mainly for folk with physical disabilities. • Joy Ministries mainly for those with intellectual disabilities. enquiry” • Emmanuel for families with children with disabilities. • Torch for those who are blind or visually impaired. We have a Centre in Auckland which is our main office, and where we also run a Drop In Centre three days a week. We welcome people with disabilities, volunteers and family members. NATIONAL SUPPORT OFFICE 173 Mt Smart Road, Onehunga, Auckland • PO Box 13-322, Onehunga, Auckland, 1643 Ph: +64 9 636 4763 • Email: info@elevatecdt.org.nz • Website: www.elevatecdt.org.nz
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