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THE                               Issue. 166 | March 2020

ENCOURAGER
      The magazine of Elevate Christian Disability Trust

          Festival One
      A fantastic raised platform for
       wheelchair folk to view from
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CHRISTIAN
                   FELLOWSHIP
                   FOR DISABLED
                                                                In the middle of diffi

    A devotional from
     Raymond Mok
    We say that God is love and He loves us. It seems easier to
    say when things are going well, but it can be harder when
    times are tough. In some of the darkest times in my life, the
    devil tempted me to doubt God’s love. I felt as if I was not
    loved but cursed. Have you ever felt that way?
    Luke 3:21-4:13 has an answer to that. It shows           goodness, dignity and worth in every human being by
    Jesus’ baptism and being tested in the wilderness.       creating them in His own image. Every human being is
    Knowing His own identity, Jesus overcame the devil’s     fearfully and wonderfully made by God (Psalm 139:13-
    temptations. He knew who He is to God the Father.        14). Every human being is loved by God.
    Jesus has an intimate relationship with the Father.
                                                             On the other hand, we all have sinned, and the
    Jesus knew that He is His Father’s Beloved Son.
                                                             image we bear has been tainted. However, Jesus
    The devil tried to undermine Jesus’ identity by saying   has redeemed us through His blood. God chose us
    to Him, “If you are the Son of God…” But Jesus was       before the foundation of the world, adopted us as
    secure in His identity as the divine Son of God. He      His beloved children through Jesus Christ, and blessed
    knew He had no need to prove himself. He resisted        us in Christ. By His grace, God did all these for us.
    the temptations, as He completely relied on His Father   (Ephesians 1:3-14)
    and obeyed His Father’s word.
                                                             How do we bear God’s image, and be God’s children?
    Jesus was victorious against the devil because He was    How do we hold firmly to our identity in God? What
    certain that He is God’s Beloved Son. Jesus withstood    can we do in a world that is losing sight of the fact
    phenomenal amount of praise and adoration and            that every human being bears God’s image?
    rejection and abuse throughout his ministry, because
                                                             We need a God-centred identity. We need to let God
    He knew that nothing can change the fact that He is
                                                             tell us who we are through the Holy Spirit, His word
    God’s Beloved Son. As human, Jesus needed to hold
                                                             and fellowship. We need to spend time with God to
    firmly to His identity in God. So do we. We need to
                                                             hear Him say “You are my beloved child.” Let us also
    remember that we are God’s beloved children.
                                                             share the love by affirming the inherent dignity and
    How do we see ourselves? But more importantly, how       worth of all human beings.
    does God see us? Who are we to God?
                                                             “If you know you’re God’s beloved, you can deal with
    When God had made human beings in His own image,         an enormous amount of success and an enormous
    He declared all He had made to be very good and          amount of failure.” – Henri Nouwen
    He blessed them (Genesis 1:27-28). God imparted
       2020
CAMPS

                     Please take note and put in your diaries
                     Auckland CFFD                   3-5 April		           Carey Park, Henderson, Akd
                     Christchurch CFFD Day Camp      4 April		             Reformed Church, Cornwall St, Chch
                     Emmanuel Family Camp            24-27 April		         Totara Springs, Matamata
                     Joy Ministries National Camp    15-17 May		           Totara Springs, Matamata
                      Elevate National Camp          23-25 Oct		           Totara Springs, Matamata

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iculty lies opportunity

                               Disability Awareness Sunday - June 21st
                               This Disability Awareness Sunday we are focusing on being
                               made in God’s image. All of us bear His image. Each of us has
                               value and worth because we are made in His likeness.

                               Resources and advertising material will be available on our
                               website in May.

                                                   WE HAVE A NEED
                                                   The Trust meets four times a year and we need a
                                                   minutes secretary. The meetings are in Auckland
                                                   on a Saturday 9:30–3:30. If you are able to take
                                                   minutes, transcribe and send them out on email,
                                                   do contact the Centre 09 636 4763

   Elevate Ditty
   Composed by Jean Griffiths and others
                                                   CONGRATULATIONS to
                                                   Pauline Stansfield on being awarded a QSM
                                                   in the New Year’s Honours
   EL E VATE
   YES! That’s the place for us
   We’re together with God on high                 PRAY FOR            Billy Graham’s son Franklyn
   EL E VATE                                       who will be leading a crusade in Christchurch,
                                                   Wellington and Auckland in February 2021. We
   We have hilarity                                need a revival!
   Food, fun, fellowship
   Drawn here like a magnet
   EL E VATE
   We are accepted here
   Despite our differences
   If you come here
   We’ll embrace you
   EL E VATE
   Camps are highlights too
   They’re special to us all
   Your faith will grow
   And you will glow
   EL E VATE
   (last verse)
   We could go on and on
                                                                                        Cartoon by
   But we have to end this song                                                         Cathy Wilcox of the
   And we want you to remember                                                          Sydney Morning
                                                                                        Herald.
   EL E VATE
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Choice not chance

                                                                know they have a purpose and they have something
                                                                to offer, no matter their abilities or inabilities. I shared
                                                                this with the group.

                                                                During the worship and church session, Pastor Suz
                                                                shared her personal story. She shared moments of
                                                                joy and moments of sadness, anger, rage etc. when
                                                                dealing with the prolonged illness of her husband,
                                                                managing her kids, her faith journey and then dealing
                                                                with the eventual passing of her husband and the
                                                                grief that followed. I thought she was very brave to
                                                                share her story, and I appreciated how real and honest
                                                                it was, not just saying “all was well”, but actually
                                                                talking about the hard stuff that came. In her story,
                                                                she shared that she knew God could heal her husband
                                                                at any moment, but she had come to say she wouldn’t
                                                                have grown through the grief and pain as much as
    MY PURPOSE                                                  she did if she hadn’t gone through it. I always think
                                                                on this Bible verse when hard times come in my life:

    IN LIFE IS TO                                               ‘Be truly glad. There is wonderful JOY ahead, even
                                                                though you must endure many trials for a little while.

    ENCOURAGE
                                                                These trials will show that your faith is genuine. It is
                                                                being tested as fire tests and purifies gold—though
                                                                your faith is far more precious than mere gold.

    AND SPEAK                                                   When I spoke in one of the workshops, I shared some
                                                                of my purpose, and how God has been moving in my

    LIFE TO PEOPLE                                              life. I shared how my purpose is to encourage and
                                                                to SPEAK LIFE to people. I shared how everyone is a
                                                                part of the Body of Christ, and no matter our ability
    Kim Clark writes:                                           or inability, we are all called. I talked about how God

    Iheaded down to Totara Springs in Matamata                  called Moses to lead his people, and that Moses was
     for the 2019 Elevate National Camp. It was my              very ill-qualified, but nevertheless God empowered
    first time at this particular camp, and it will be a camp   him to fulfil his purpose. When God gave me His
    I won’t forget. When we arrived we had an evening           calling for my life, I didn’t want to do it straight away.
    session of music worship, and we were introduced            He called me to speak and I said, “Nah, I’ll do my own
    to the main speakers; the main speakers being long-         thing.” This past year He’s been saying, “speak”, and
    time-camp-attendee Pastor Geoff and the awesome             He’s given me small opportunities to speak, and when
    Pastor Suz. Being honest, when I went down to camp I        I finally said “yes” with those small opportunities He’s
    didn’t expect much spiritually. I was thinking “OK, just    kept giving me more. This is really exciting for me
    another camp, that will be what it will be”. Of course,     because it’s like all those fears and thoughts of not
    it’s often when we don’t expect it, that God shows          being good enough or not being the right person to
    up… and He did!                                             speak have gone. If I’m doing what God wants me
                                                                to do, why should I fear? . For me, all the messages
    The theme of camp was “Ignite”. One of the                  spoken at camp were so relevant. It was like God
    discussion questions that was asked was “What do            was reminding me how far I’d come. I’ve gone from
    we think igniting is or what do we like to see being        feeling inadequate and worthless and feeling like I
    ignited?” For me, I love seeing people ignited in their     had nothing to offer at the beginning of the year, to
    God-given calling. I love people living out that calling,   now feeling that with having God on my side I can do
    and encouraging them in that. I love it when people         anything.

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determines destiny

               A Sunday of
                                   Service
  Each year at Mount Wellington Community                  We had a good number of people come along and
  Church we do a ‘Sunday of Service’ where we              help with tasks ranging in size and scale from weeding
  go out into our local community and serve a              to tree-cutting. Everyone was able to be involved,
  school or another community organisation by              including children from the church. The school was
  doing practical work like gardening, cleaning,           thrilled with the difference we made in a morning’s
  or removing rubbish from the property. We                work.
  do this as a church community, in place of
                                                           We see this kind of ministry as a great way to share
  one of our morning services.
                                                           God’s love with our community, and to worship God
  In November 2019 we headed out to Mount Richmond         by using our strengths and abilities for the good of
  Special School in Otahuhu to help tidy up their          others.
  grounds. This school is a little further away than we
                                                           Has your church ever thought of that?
  would normally travel, but we wanted to thank them
  for kindly giving us use of one of their wheelchair
  hoist vans to allow Annette Hocking to join us for our
  church camp earlier in the year, last year.

                                                                        Everyone got involved,
           Mike Potter got out of his chair so he                           even the kids.
             could join in with the gardening.

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Never get so busy making a livi

                                                                   It seemed doubtful he would ever now realise
                                                                   the passion he had to start a camp for those in
                                                                   wheelchairs, but within a few years he had started
                                                                   running a camp of his own.
                                                                   In the subsequent 34 years that initial wheelchair camp
                                                                   has grown amazingly, so much so that today over 1000
                                                                   physically challenged kids and adults from the USA and
                                                                   Africa attend the annual camp. But not only that– he
                                                                   now has camps for groups such as:

                                                                    “Honouring our heroes” camps for those who have
                                                                    served in the military
                                                                    Retreat camps for horse enthusiasts
     NOTHING                                                        Family camps to bring together all disabilities

     COULD STOP                                                     Overnight adventure camps
                                                                    Wheelchair sports camps
     THIS MAN                                                       Autism family camps

     REALISING                                                      Grandparents and grandchildren camps
                                                                    Married couples retreats
     HIS PASSION                                                   Di and Jacqui met Bob at Joni’s International Congress

    I  n 1986 Bob Bardwell suffered a devastating
       accident when he was struck in the back by a
     large bucket while working on a large caterpillar
                                                                   in 1990 and stayed at his ranch. He also came to
                                                                   New Zealand two years later and “The Encourager”
                                                                   then published an article with the heading which
     machine. His back was broken, and he fell to the              so sums up his life attitude, “Pain is inevitable, but
     ground unconscious, paralysed from the waist down.            misery is optional”.

    The Lord’s goodness                                                                GOD’S
      in the Philippines                                                               PERFECT PLAN
                                                                                       Can You...
    Thanks be to God for His great          things, but     Tess
    love and goodness to us and             we can see                                 BELIEVE Jesus Christ died for you on
    for continually providing for all       God’s hand.                                the cross and rose again? (1Cor.15:3&4)
                                                                             Mary
    our needs. One of God’s timeless        The Lord saved                   Rose
                                            her life. Today, 3                         ADMIT you are a sinner? (Rom.3:23)
    promises is in Hebrews 13:5: ”…God
                                            weeks later, she is
    has said, “Never will I leave you;                                                 AGREE to turn from sin to God?
    never will I forsake you.” We all as    able to go home.
                                                                                       (Acts 20:21)
    Christians, can relate to this verse.   Thank God for making a way for
    We really thank God for the             Mary Rose (little person). She was         ACKNOWLEDGE God’s free gift
    answered prayer for our teacher         struggling to access her classroom         of Salvation? (Eph.2:8&9)
    Tess here in Hebron. Tess is deaf and   on the 2nd floor at school. She has
                                                                                       If you can, then say this simple prayer
    teaches in our deaf school.             now found a place where she can
                                                                                       aloud: “Lord Jesus, I receive You
                                            attend on the ground floor Praise
    On Feb 3rd, she suffered a stroke.                                                 as my Lord and personal Saviour.
                                            God for that!                              Amen”
    We may not always understand all

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                             I  n 2014 Chris Norton came
                                to one of these camps. Chris
                               had suffered a spinal cord
                                                                  wanted to just do it. After one call to Bob Bardwell,
                                                                  his enthusiasm for the idea convinced him to make
                                                                  this new camp a reality. He wanted it to mimic what
                               injury in 2010 while playing       Bob had been doing so successfully for years but with
                               football and was given a 3%        an emphasis on the whole family and to make it free
                               chance of ever regaining           for families through his foundation.
                               movement below his neck,
                               but he has since continued         He was able to find 25 wheelchair users and their
     to defy the odds. He was blown away by all the “I            families who were so excited to come to camp, and
     can do” there. He participated in many fun games             75 participated in the first annual camp. He included
     and activities, learned from others about how they           all sorts of activities such as the tractor pull, softball,
     live active lives despite their disabilities, and he tried   laser tag, archery, horseback riding and zip-lining.
     things he had thought he would never be able to do,          It was amazing to see the joy from not only the
     like zip-lining and kayaking. He was so fired up that it     individuals in a chair, but from parents and siblings
     enabled him to take on life with a new vigour.               too. Friendship and bonds were formed at camp
                                                                  that have continued well after it ended. People
     Seeing what it did for him and for everyone else             found it difficult to say goodbye to each other at the
     at camp, he knew that more people needed to                  end of camp, but everyone is excited there will be
     experience this new freedom. It planted a seed in his        another one this year! It was evident that everyone’s
     heart to sponsor his own week of camp, and for the           perspective shifted, focusing less on their disabilities,
     next several years the idea would not escape him.            but instead seeing their capabilities.
     Finally, he got to thinking and talking about it, and

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Love comforts like

                                                       That is what is happening to Asgedech, a loving
                                                       and selfless grandmother in Ethiopia, who
                                                       cannot afford to protect her own eyesight.
                                                        Before Trachoma, Asgedech’s life was already
                                                         very hard. Her husband died long ago. She only
                                                         has a tiny income from selling vegetables, no
                                                         adult children to help her… and now a truly
                                                        dangerous infection has entered her home.
                                                        Trachoma is the leading cause of infectious
                                                       blindness and some of the highest Trachoma
                                                       rates in the world are in Ethiopia.
                                                       Asgedech and her five grandchildren, aged six to
                                                       twelve, all have Trachoma. It is highly infectious.
                                                       Entire villages have it, especially where families
                                                       live closely together. With no power, no running
                                                       water and no hygiene facilities in Asgedech’s
                                                       home, her precious grandchildren are not able to
                                                       keep their faces clean.
                                                       The children just have to look at their beloved
    A GRANDMOTHER,                                     Grandi to see what could happen to their own
                                                       eyes. With every blink, their sharp lashes will

    GOING BLIND,                                       scrape across their defenceless eyes.
                                                       Please do not let Trachoma destroy these

    CARING FOR HER                                     children’s eyes. By sending your donation to help
                                                       reach remote families with the antibiotics and

    GRANDCHILDREN                                      eye ointment that will save their sight, the value
                                                       of your gift will be multiplied x8, thanks to Pfizer

    IN ETHIOPIA
                                                       who has agreed to provide its own Zithromax
                                                       antibiotics and Tetracycline eye ointment, free of
                                                       charge.
    Asgedech is being blinded in the most              Your gifts are vital in helping to make sure those
    painful way, while trying to raise five            pills and ointment can reach the people who
    grandchildren...who are all suffering              need them, even the most remote villagers like
    from the same condition, Trachoma.                 Asgedech and her grandchildren. Your generosity
                                                       will help save children from years of agony.
    As many grandparents in New Zealand know,
                                                       Have you ever scratched your eye? An eyelash
    raising grandchildren on your own is very hard,
                                                       can do that. It is hard and sharp. Every time
    but what a testimony of love it is.
                                                       Asgedech blinks, her eyelashes cut tiny tracks
    Now imagine trying to raise your grandchildren     across her delicate cornea. It hurts … how
    when you have Trachoma. Every time you blink       it hurts! Each of these cuts forms a tiny scar.
    it hurts… really badly… like a knife on your       Invisible on their own, they grow to form a misty
    eyeball… as you are slowly and painfully blinded   curtain, blocking the light into Asgedech’s eyes.
    by your own ingrown eyelashes!

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e sunshine after rain

   Asgedech’s grandchildren’s eyes are not yet
   affected, but they must keep receiving
   their annual antibiotics. Without your
   generosity, field workers have no
   funding to get to the towns and villages
   where Trachoma infections are rife.
   “My vision has decreased a lot during
   the past months,” she told our field
   worker Gizachew, sounding quite
   desperate.
   “I can´t see as before. Especially at night.
   I fear blindness. I wouldn’t be able to take
   care of my grandchildren anymore!” she
   cries, in fear of losing her sight completely
   and her beloved grandchildren.
   Trachoma is so frightening and so painful for
   Asgedech, she has started having her eyelashes
   pulled out, using a grotesque pair of tweezers
   called a werento. It is agony to do this, and it
   only solves things for a few weeks, because her
   lashes grow back and start slashing at her eyes
   again.
   No wonder Asgedech is so worried. “The children
   have already started to get the same disease
   I have. They could experience the same pain I
   have. It would be terrible if they lost their sight.”
   The children too are worried now. Her first
   granddaughter, Kidist, says “If Grandi goes blind,
   nobody would take care of us. I don’t know what
   to do. We love her so much and we want to stay
   with her.”
   Asgedech can no longer see well enough to
   work in the garden or take their produce to the
                                                           This article was taken from the CBM (Christian
   market. All they have to eat is what has already        Blind Mission) newsletter, and they are the ones
   been harvested. Trachoma has brought pain,              to send a donation to rather than to Elevate if
   blindness and is now making their deep poverty          you feel to help meet this great need.
   even worse.
                                                           Send to:
   This little family is desperate, but you can do so      cbm New Zealand
   much to help. Asgedech’s sight loss cannot be           PO Box 303477,
   reversed, but you can stop it getting any worse…        North Harbour,
   and you can protect the eyesight and the future         Auckland 0751
   of young ones like her grandchildren.

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I never lose, I eith

               Connect-ability
     It is with great joy and excitement that                  Another strong theme came from Meredith and was
     Pete and Carla Townsend write this report                 supported by many others, “Connect-ability gives us
                                                               people with disabilities, the opportunity to get up on
     about their awesome and amazing
                                                               stage and express ourselves in front of the Church, to
     Connect-ability group.                                    be involved in Church, e.g., our Disability Awareness
                                                               Service.”
     What is Connect-ability?                                  There is a real desire within the group to serve in the
     Connect-ability is a connect group for people with        wider church family. Many of our group are involved
     disabilities – people from [Tauranga] Central Baptist     in taking the offering each week. RJ is learning how
     and from outside the Church. We meet on the fourth        to run the sound system during our Connect-ability
     Sunday of each month in the church hall. We begin         service, and RJ and Frances are actively involved in our
     with a shared lunch, and often we will have an            main service with running the data.
     activity, sometimes making something, or otherwise
     we just sit and connect with one another.                 Pastor Brian has been quoted as saying, “Pete thinks
                                                               he is in charge, but it is actually Katie!” This leads
     After lunch, we head into the church and have our         me to my last point, brilliantly quoted by Meredith,
     own church service. We begin with some praise and         “Connect-ability gives us the confidence to share our
     worship and an eye opening prayer. We then lead           testimonies – the ability to be confident.”
     into a message, reading from scripture and group
     discussion. We pray for one another, have more praise
     and worship, and finish with a discussion of future
                                                               Highlights:
     plans.                                                    1. Being involved in the main Church service on
                                                                  Disability Awareness Sunday in June. Alyssa and
     My initial goals for Connect-ability were to facilitate      Meredith opening the service in prayer, and John
     connection within the group, and to teach everyone           (with Brian’s support) reading the Benediction
     more about God, but what I have come to realise is           at the end of the service. The whole group were
     that Connect-ability is less about the group learning        so excited to be involved, and after the service I
     about God and more about the group showing us                saw the group engaged in many conversations as
     God’s love! I don’t run Connect-ability; I just show up      people came and spoke to them – it was amazing!
     and watch what happens!
                                                               2. Recently we had a number of our group
     At our last get together I asked the group what              participate in a sports competition between 16
     Connect-ability is all about – what they would like          churches from around Tauranga. Our team played
     their wider church family to know. Everyone was              Netball, we played four games and we were
     in agreement – FOOD is very important! Alyssa                placed no worse than second in each of these
     commented that she “loves to eat her chocolate               games! RJ was our shooter and boy did he do us
     eclairs.” Katie said, “our purpose is to worship God         proud, getting a lot of goals. The team did so well
     and Jesus and enjoy being with people”. This was             playing against some very competitive teams, but
     supported by Shirley who said, Connect-ability makes         as always God’s love was the winner on the day.
     her “happy and everyone is so friendly”. Evelyn              Our team won the Sportsmanship Award, and 16
     said that “Connect-ability is like a family”. She loves      other churches now know that we don’t just have
     making friends in the group. This was also supported         old people at Central Baptist.
     by Charlie who is happy because he is getting to know
     people.

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her win or learn

                                                              “     Hopefully churches
                                                                  can be encouraged to

                                                                                                        “
                                                                   follow their example

   If reading this report has ignited something inside
   you and you feel like you are missing out, you are
   welcome to join us – we have just two criteria:
   1. Bring good food!
   2. Be willing to connect
   We have a lot of fun, and we would love to share
   what we are doing with more people in the
   community over the next twelve months. We now
   have a very good foundation for a community
   ministry, so please pray for Connect-ability, and
   specifically that we have more opportunities to
   connect with others outside Central Baptist!

               Hush – God is at work!
   For reading and meditation – Psalm 139:1-24
   “If I go up to the heavens, You are there; if I make my bed in the depths, You are there.” (v8)

   ...the Spirit of the living God is everywhere. This was   woman. ‘When our baby was born we experienced
   brought home to me once while on a flight. Two            a deep sadness to begin with, and both struggled,
   women in the row immediately behind me were               becoming somewhat depressed. After a while though,
   talking, and I couldn’t help overhearing what they        things changed, and the love that we received from
   were talking about. As the conversation continued it      our baby to us was also the means of bringing us to
   became more and more interesting.                         Christ.’
   One asked the other if she had any children. At this      I began to understand God in a new way as I listened
   point a photograph was produced, and the mother           in to that conversation. It’s always exciting when He
   replied, ‘Here are my children; this one here has         surprises us in our reading and study of the Scriptures.
   life-limiting disabilities.’ ‘That’s amazing.’ remarked   Sometimes, however, we can only bow with a
   the other woman. ‘One of my children has severe           thankful, worshipful heart when we see Him reaching
   disabilities too.’ As you can imagine, at this point      out to us in unexpected ways, in times of desperate
   these women discovered an instant connection. Then        need.
   I heard one of the women say to the other: ‘I was very    Father, sensitise me to the fact that Your Spirit is
   self-centred and lived only thinking of myself and my     present to bring glory to Your name in and through
   enjoyment, until my child arrived. But she brought        everything. I do not always know why things happen,
   such love into the life of my husband and me that         but I do know that You work through all things for
   through it we glimpsed the love of God. We both           good, and I am thankful. Amen.
   became Christians because of her.’ ‘A similar thing
                                                             Taken from ‘Every Day with Jesus’, Nov 2019 (Torch UK)
   happened to my husband and me,’ said the other

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DISABILITY
                     AWARENESS
                                          Anyone can find the dirt in some
                       SUNDAY                                                                                               Proverb

                                                                      resentment of my disability. Even so, after a year of College,
                                                                      in 1977 I was invited by CWM to take up a job on the staff
                                                                      of a Christian training centre and kindergarten in Kerala,
                                                                      South India. With guilt and shame weighing heavily on my
                                                                      conscience, I went with a heavy feeling of loneliness and
                                                                      insecurity.

                                                                      When He found me
                                                                      There I was in India, as a 25 year old. I was challenged to the
                                                                      core by daily life in the village I lived in, surrounded by such
                                                                      a different culture and a different language - Malayalam.
                                                                      I was appointed by the Church of South India to be the

     Thirty six years as a
                                                                      Supervisor of the Christian Child Care programme for the
                                                                      state of Kerala, teaching English, craft, and the Principles
                                                                      of Pre-School Programmes, in the Creche Nurses’ Training

     nun and loving Jesus                                             Centre (with translation to begin with). No other foreigners
                                                                      were involved in this work in that language area. I worked
                                                                      closely with my Indian colleague, a highly educated young
     Sister Diadema Morrison from the                                 lady my own age, who was the Principal of the Creche
     Evangelical Sisterhood of Mary writes:                           Nurses Training Centre. What a thrilling experience for a
                                                                      young New Zealander! Everything went well for a while. I
     My Life - before God                                             thrived in the challenge, loved the Indian people, the hot
     I had a very good Christian family upbringing – mother,          climate, the spicy food, the overcrowded buses and the
     father, and one younger brother. My father was a                 sight of coconut palms, paddy fields and elephants. I loved
     Presbyterian minister. Church and Sunday School were             wearing a sari and learning the language, difficult as it
     normal life, as far as I was concerned. Having a physical        was. I loved the little local village church, accessible only by
     disability from birth, dislocation of hip and knee, and polio    walking up a hill on a stony pathway bordered by mango
     muscle wastage, I was hospitalized a lot in early childhood.     trees, banana palms, and luxuriant tropical undergrowth.
     Inevitably, I suffered emotional damage; separation anxiety,     Again, my physical disability was pushed into the
     and a deep-rooted fear of the powerful control others had        background and I was determined to be normal, no matter
     over my life.                                                    the cost of pain, discomfort and very unsuitable footwear.

     However, those countless orthopaedic operations in               But spiritually I was poverty-stricken. It wasn’t long before
     childhood resulted in satisfactory mobility – with discomfort    I came to the end of my own resources. I felt defeated. So,
     - but gave me the determination to live as normal a life as      for the first time in my life I seriously searched for God. I
     possible. I grew up trying to please people, because I had       recognized my shallow faith; years of indifference, not much
     not experienced the normal growth of healthy boundaries          depth of understanding, the impression of God as kindly,
     in my life. As a young person I believed in God, but felt no     sympathetic, loving - but oh, so distant, and very much
     personal relationship to Him, apart from a warm “fuzzy”          removed from my thoughts and emotions in everyday life.
     feeling now and then in Sunday School, church, and youth         As my search became increasingly serious, I read my Bible
     group.                                                           as never before, and a number of helpful Christian books
                                                                      I could find in the nearest Christian book shop. My Indian
     I trained as a Kindergarten teacher. Quite amazing to            colleague felt sorry for me. She encouraged me not to
     be accepted and actually manage to do such a physically          give up until I found Jesus personally. One day she handed
     strenuous job! Later, in 1974, I went to England on a            me one of M. Basilea Schlink’s books about personal love
     working holiday with two friends and worked as a Nanny,          for Jesus. Soon I was reading in earnest and finding really
     and then in a Nursery School. That was again hard physical       helpful chapters! I loved what I was reading. A personal,
     work, but lots of fun! I pushed through pain, for the joy        loving, and amazingly relational God and Saviour was
     and success of holding down normal jobs. During that time        coming into focus for me. I wanted to respond to His love
     I attended church as it was a routine in my life. One Sunday     and forgiveness with all my heart - just as the author of
     I heard a missionary speak about the need for Christian          these books so obviously had! Her genuine joy and love for
     Kindergarten teachers on the mission field. I liked the sound    Jesus shone through every page! That was the beginning of
     of her job description, so I applied to the “Council for World   my journey towards knowing Jesus personally.
     Mission” (CWM) in London and was accepted. Again, very
     amazing that my physical disability was not seen to be a
                                                                      My calling to the Convent
     hindrance! At the invitation of CWM, I went to Selly Oak
     Colleges in Birmingham, to do a missionary training course.      I went home to New Zealand in 1981 after four years
     Sadly, I chose to mix with the wrong crowd there, and            in India and soon got a Kindergarten teaching job in
     wasted the months in expressing my pent-up rebellion and         Invercargill. Again, there was no question mark over

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one. Be the one to find the gold.
bs 11 v 7

    my physical disability; I had just had four
    years working solidly in India, after all! My
    colleague invited me to attend her church on
    my first Sunday, so I did. To my surprise, the
    congregation were talking about two special
    Guest Speakers that were there recently,
    from the Evangelical Sisterhood of Mary in
    Australia, the Christian community of Sisters,
    founded by M. Basilea Schlink, with branches
    worldwide. I didn’t meet the Sisters, but
    something “sparked” strongly and deeply in
    my heart. That spark was fanned into flame
    in the months that followed. I sensed God
    speaking to me about a new direction for
    my life. His will, not my will! His challenge –
    would I take the risk, and trust and follow?
    The following year, I came to Australia to
    a retreat weekend held by the Sisters and
    sensed the Lord calling me to spend a longer
    time as a volunteer at their headquarters in Germany.              until lunch time in our designated ministry areas. Mine is
    There, in 1983, I was one of about fifteen young women             administration, outreach and music. Sometimes there are
    from many different nations, helping voluntarily in the            speaking engagements in local areas, or groups of visitors
    community’s daily life wherever we were needed - the               coming here for a day visit. I may be appointed to go and
    garden, housework, kitchen, laundry – wherever. Physically         speak to a group along with another Sister. I may be asked
    it was challenging, but again, I so longed to fully take part      to help take care of a visiting group, as part of a team.
    in this life where I experienced such joy, humour, dedication,     In my office, I attend to correspondence and assist our
    trust in God, unity, selflessness and love for Jesus. I knew       Sister-in-Charge with general administration of our life
    with all my heart that I wanted this life.                         together. Other Sisters work in the kitchen and housework,
                                                                       garden and maintenance, accounts, laundry and sewing
    God’s calling was confirmed over the next years – and this         room. We are used to multi-tasking, especially if Sisters are
    is now my 36th year! It has been an amazing journey                away. There are many humorous situations when things
    into relational love for Jesus, such as I could never have         go wrong, resulting in the most peculiar outcomes! Living
    imagined! It has been a deeply challenging pathway of              transparently, with accountability, forgiveness, repentance,
    following Jesus uncompromisingly, trusting God even in the         reconciliation and then going forward together in unity is
    times when I don’t understand Him, and learning from the           a necessity – along with lots of love, and lots of laughter!
    Holy Spirit how to “take up my cross” in daily life. Taking        We have a short prayer and worship time together at
    up my cross included learning how to embrace my physical           3p.m. each day – Sisters, guests, volunteers. I prepare the
    disability and not ignore it or resent it, but to find real        chapel or notify everyone if we will be outside in our Prayer
    blessing in it. What a valuable lesson! (Are you wondering if      Garden. This part of the day is a special treasure in our life
    there can really be blessing in a disability? See “The Hidden      together, and helps us to keep focussed on the Lord, even
    Treasure in Suffering” - M. Basilea Schlink)                       on the busiest days. Our evening meal is a time for sharing
                                                                       important news, and thank points, and ends with a short
    So what is life in the Convent like?                               time of praying together. Our guests and volunteers eat
    Physically, it was soon clear that my Sisterhood life would        separately in the evenings, so that our Sister-family-life can
    be best spent in Australia, where our buildings do not have        remain intact. Some evenings we have a programme either
    stairs. It was a heavy “cross” at first, not to be in the large,   just as Sisters, or with our guests and volunteers, and friends
    happy Sisterhood family of more than a hundred Sisters in          from the wider area. By our lives, we want to honour God
    our “Mother House” in Germany. Here, we are ten Sisters            and give Him the glory in each new day.
    from America, Norway, Sweden, Finland, Netherlands,                In these Sisterhood years I have had three major orthopaedic
    Australia and New Zealand. Our life together is just as full       operations to fuse joints in both feet (bilateral lambridnudi
    of joy, humour, dedication, trust in God, unity, selflessness      arthrodesis - I learned that off by heart!), and a TKR (total
    and love for Jesus, as I ever experienced in my beginnings         knee replacement); all three were necessary because of the
    as a volunteer! God’s ways are certainly the best! Being           excessive physical activity in my youth. God is so merciful and
    an intentional Christian Community, every day begins               forgiving, and the operations were successful. I am pain-
    with personal prayer time and breakfast alone. We meet             free the majority of the time, and I have finally learned the
    together most mornings at 8.30. Worship, prayer times,             importance of leading a healthy, balanced life spiritually
    Bible study, sharing together – these times together are           and physically. I am so grateful for every step of this long
    varied and set a good foundation for the day. We work              pathway which began for me back then, more than 40 years
                                                                       ago, in South India! To Him be the glory!
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CHRISTIAN
                     FELLOWSHIP
                                                    As water reflects the face, s
                     FOR DISABLED                                                                               Proverb

     THE DEBT
     THAT I OWE
     TO MY
     PARENTS
     T  housands have watched clips of Sarah
        Kovac driving, playing the piano,
     applying makeup and even cracking eggs.
     Simple, everyday tasks, right? Not without
     the use of arms or hands. Sarah was born with
                                                                 I see that, because in my experience it was really
     arthrogryposis multiplex congenita, a genetic disorder
                                                                 helpful for my parents to back off and let me find my
     in which leg or arm joints are essentially stuck in place
                                                                 own way.
     and muscles don’t develop. For Sarah, those locked
     joints - and the muscles within those joints - run from     When you’re a parent of a child with special needs,
     the base of her neck to her fingertips.                     you have the internet and doctors and therapists who
                                                                 all have different opinions — and all these things are
     Beginning at an early age, Sarah learned to rely
                                                                 needed — but it’s hard to step back and say, “God, I
     on her legs and feet to handle the duties of four
                                                                 trust that You’re going to show me what to do. I trust
     functioning limbs. Today, those duties include raising a
                                                                 that [my children] will find their fullest potential in
     6-year-old and a 2-year-old. Sarah shares the lessons
                                                                 You.”
     she’s learned in her 2013 book, In Capable Arms:
     Living a Life Embraced by Grace.                            Words often have an impact on a child’s self-esteem.
                                                                 Can you remember examples of words or descriptions
     Parents of a child with disabilities might wonder how
                                                                 your parents used that stuck with you over the years?
     they, too, can raise their child to have confidence and
     courage. Sarah here speaks of the debt she owes to          I came home from school one day after somebody told
     her parents: When I was in kindergarten, I broke my         me I was handicapped. This was during the 1980s, and
     arm four times. My arms don’t bend, they just break.        that was the word used back then. I’d heard the word
     My parents had the strength to watch me go through          before, but I don’t think I’d ever been labelled that
     that over and over and still say, “You can learn to ride    way. So I said something about it to my dad, and he
     a bike. We’ll take off your training wheels.” I would       said, “You’re not handicapped. You have a handicap,
     come across things that I couldn’t do or didn’t want        and there’s a difference.”
     to because it was too scary for me, but they let me         I learned that I am Sarah first and foremost , and I
     discover those things instead of determining them           also happen to have a disability. I don’t have to let
     for me.                                                     myself be defined by these things. There’s no escaping
     Many parents have a hard time with this,                    it, but it doesn’t mean it’s who I am.
     understandably, because they feel their child won’t         I also remember my mother telling me that a good
     develop to his or her full potential. So they intervene.    artist can work their mistakes into the bigger picture.
     They say to the child, “Maybe you should do it this         I’m not saying that God makes mistakes God is
     way, or do this with your mouth, or use your other          the artist and can work anything for good. It’s a
     hand,” and that sort of thing. I cringe a little bit when   comforting thought.

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o one’s life reflects the heart.
b 27 v 18
       FUN AT
       FESTIVAL ONE!                                                                                        Michael Stoneham was a great buddy at Festival One.
                                                                                                            He kindly followed me everywhere I decided to go. The
       By Manu Teofila
                                                                                                            weekend sped past, boogying to great music, buying cold
                                  I had sooo much fun at Festival                                           drinks at the market and hanging out with friends were
                                  One with friends and music. I had                                         the main things we did. It was super-hot every day, but that
                                  friends to dance and sing with, as                                        didn’t stop me from rolling from one place to another, I
                                  well as to chill and have some good                                       heard music that I liked the sound of. I spotted some friends
                                  yarns. Went to bands that I didn’t                                        and spent time with them.
                                  plan to see or hadn’t known about,                                        In the ride back home, I told Michael that I felt refreshed
                                  which got me dancing. Thanks                                              and satisfied. Spending quality time with Michael and
                                  to Kylee Black who had been                                               everyone else filled my love tank. The preachers and
         instrumental in setting up the Soul Lounge, this provided a                                        speakers filled my mind with encouragement. I love singing
         space with things to make Festival One accessible for people                                       praises to Jesus outdoors, and doing it with others really
         with impairments. For example, they had 3 hospital beds                                            satisfied my soul. Without a doubt, going to Festival One
         available so folk could rest!                                                                      was a great blessing from God!

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              Much love, Leslie dela Ganar

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              What a beautiful gift from God—once in a life time to celebrate my birthday with these wonderful people—Autie
              Di, Uncle Hugh, Matt, Rebecca and Bob.
         CFFD Asshurst with Leslie in the house of Ruth and Paul!
         Before we started the Fellowship we had a lovely diner. Ruth
         and I cooked Filipino dishes such as chicken adobo, pancit and
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         WHAT IS ELEVATE CHRISTIAN DISABILITY TRUST ALL ABOUT?
         We are an interdenominational parachurch organisation.                                                                                            “We
         We run meetings and camps throughout NZ.
         We have four groups:
                                                                                                                                                          welcome
                                                                                                                                                            your
             • CFFD (Christian Fellowship for Disabled) mainly for folk with physical disabilities.
             • Joy Ministries mainly for those with intellectual disabilities.                                                                            enquiry”
             • Emmanuel for families with children with disabilities.
             • Torch for those who are blind or visually impaired.
         We have a Centre in Auckland which is our main office, and where we also run a Drop In Centre
         three days a week. We welcome people with disabilities, volunteers and family members.

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