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Issue 17 • Winter 2020 Choices: choosing life Inspiring stories from the life of your Methodist Church
“I call heaven and earth to witness against you today that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Choose life so that you and your Issue 17 • Winter 2020 descendants may live.” Deuteronomy 30:19 Published by the Methodist Church in Britain © Trustees for Methodist Church Purposes hoose life.” So says Ewan (TMCP) 2020. Registered charity no. 1132208. McGregor’s character Renton No part of this publication may be during his famous monologue reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means, David Perry in Danny Boyle’s 1996 film Trainspotting. electronic, mechanical, photocopying or Editor Tellingly, he goes on to proclaim: “I chose otherwise, without the prior permission of not to choose life.” The film brilliantly and the publisher except for those articles and photos supplied separately for local church unsparingly unpacks what that choice use. All rights reserved. means for him and those around him, who live in a cruel, cursed and deathly What is the Connexion? shadow world of heroin addiction. It is Methodists belong to local churches and also value also an indictment of the prevailing socio- Six Hopes that the Joint being part of a larger political realities of the time, which left so Public Issues Team will community. In calling the prioritise for the justice many families and communities mired in work of the Churches Methodist Church in Britain ‘the Connexion’, Methodism hopelessness and despair. (see page 24) reflects its historical and Choices have consequences. The climate spiritual roots. emergency clearly sets before us in its In the 18th century a starkest form the choice between life and ‘connexion’ simply meant Photo credits death that God presents to the people in those connected to a person Deuteronomy 30:19. We are also living with Front Cover © JPIT; Page 3 © Alex Baker or a group – for instance, Photography; Pages 4-5 © Mark Kensett; a politician’s network of the consequences of the Brexit referendum Page 6 © Mark Kensett; Pages 8-9 © Matt supporters. So when people and the general election. What does it mean Gonzalez-Noda and Tim E Photography; Pages spoke of “Mr Wesley’s 10-11 © Matt Gonzalez-Noda, Jude Levermore; Connexion” they meant to choose life when one person’s blessing Pages 12-13 © Mark Kensett; Pages 14-15 © followers of the movement is another’s curse? Mark Kensett; Pages 16-17 © Matt Gonzalez-Noda; led by John Wesley. Pages 18-19 © Mark Kensett and Getty Images; Changing our choices so that we are a Wesley believed that Pages 20-22 © David Perry and Ian Lamond; blessing to the planet and to each other, Page 23 © Alex Baker Photography and belonging and mutual responsibility were rather than a curse, is the most pressing Getty Images; Pages 24-25 © Robin Prime; Pages 26-27 © Getty Images fundamental Christian priority we face. So it is timely to remind qualities. The language ourselves that the Church exists to be an Unless otherwise stated, Scripture quotations of connexion allowed are from the New Revised Standard Version Bible: him to express this exemplar of what choosing life looks like. Anglicised Edition, copyright © 1989, 1995 National interdependence, developing It was raised to embody and make real the Council of the Churches of Christ in the United its spiritual and practical States of America. Used by permission. All rights life-giving blessing of God in Jesus for the reserved. significance in the organisation and ethos of his whole world. movement. Both language That is why our front cover proclaims our and practice are important modern identity as a godly people of radical Methodist Church House, for Methodists today. 25 Marylebone Road, life-affirming choices, expressed in six key London NW1 5JR Go to www.methodist. hopes for the future. That is why this issue Tel: 020 7486 5502 org.uk/theconnexion of the connexion explores what changing our Email: enquiries@methodistchurch.org.uk to order more copies choices as Methodists might entail. Stories Web: www.methodist.org.uk of the connexion, or to of choosing life and blessings, which range Facebook “f ” Logo CMYK / .eps Facebook “f ” Logo CMYK / .eps download articles Find us on Facebook for use in your own from the global through to the smallest rural Follow us on Twitter church magazine. chapel and to every one of us considering Watch us on YouTube or Vimeo Images are available at www.flickr.com/ our way of life, give us hope and spurs See our pictures on Instagram and methodistmedia Flickr us to action where we are. Each helps us appreciate both the cost and necessity of Information contained in this magazine What do you think was correct at the time of going to press. about this issue? choosing life and of the truth that the One Views expressed in the articles may not be Email theconnexioneditor@ who puts the life-choice before us is the the official position of the Methodist Church methodistchurch.org.uk in Britain. Write the connexion, One whose Spirit enables us to take it and Methodist Church House, make it work. 25 Marylebone Road, Whatever the choices around us, we London NW1 5JR Call 020 7486 5502 choose life. Contact us via Love and peace, Facebook or Twitter David 2 the connexion • Winter 2020 www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr
Highlights Choosing to be a Choosing to start a 4 Choosing to open up to God 6 beacon of hope for young people 10 movement of awakening and revival 14 A radical rural choice 16 Inspiring choices 20 Choosing a Methodist way of living Next Youth Inderjit Bhogal to receive WMC Peace Award President ast President of the Methodist Conference the Revd Dr ollowing Inderjit Bhogal is to receive the World Methodist Council elections at Peace Award. The annual award goes to those “who have 3Generate, made significant contributions to peace, reconciliation and justice.” the Methodist Children Inderjit is a tireless supporter of refugees and works to foster and Youth Assembly, interfaith relations and multicultural communities, peace and it was announced reconciliation. The award’s citation describes Inderjit as a “central that the Youth President Designate figure” in interfaith relations in Britain and Ireland. will be Phoebe Parkin, aged 17, from One of Inderjit’s peace-related initiatives was City of Sanctuary, Telford Circuit in the Wolverhampton and a grassroots movement to build cultures of welcome, hospitality and Shrewsbury District. Phoebe will become safety for asylum seekers, refugees and other vulnerable people. the Youth President for 2020/2021 at a Inderjit is also president of the Methodist Peace Fellowship. service to be held in September 2020. On hearing of the award, Inderjit Phoebe campaigned on the theme of commented: ‘God’s World – Our Home’ and promises “I am surprised but deeply honoured. My to highlight environmental issues during whole life has been inspired by people her year in office. She says “I have always around the world who have held up witness been passionate about the environment to peace-making; challenging war, violence and I believe that as Christians, we are and killing. I am more persuaded than ever called to take care of God’s creation. The that non-violent resolution of conflict is the environment is a very real concern for way forward in all human relationships. young people, as it will shape the world we The award will be presented on 27 March inherit in so many ways.” 2020 in London. www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr the connexion • Winter 2020 3
The Revd Peter Hancock, Mission Consultant for the Chester and Stoke-on-Trent District, says the choice is yours – to open up to God or to close down 4 the connexion • Winter 2020 www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr
It has struck me on a few occasions that Not to choose a ‘closing-down’ choice would have led to can mean neither of the above seeing the light of day: like a talent buried in the ground. we miss the moment Choices which close down There can be a number of reasons why we may make closing-down choices. ✔ ✘ CHOICES ●● We listen to narratives of decline and Question defeat, which persuade us that our How will you guard mission will always be thwarted. against ‘missing esus’ parable of the talents in ●● We are risk averse. We choose to the moment’? Matthew 25 could be called the conserve what we have, which prevents parable of the two choices. A us from investing in the hope of growth. master gave talents to three of his servants. Faced with what to do next, the first two The choice not to choose can mean we made ‘opening-up’ choices, putting their miss the moment. In my time as a district talents to work and making more. The third chair I often reflected that a church in servant made a ‘closing-down’ choice, dire straits is frequently the result of big burying his talent in the ground. decisions that were shelved or postponed An opening-up choice can lead us to embark 20 to 30 years ago. upon an unknown road and to discover more Maintaining the present state of affairs about life, God and ourselves in the process. can become a tyranny. We treat the Church A closing-down choice will leave us never in its present form as an unchangeable knowing what might have been. monolith and forget that God is always speaking new things into existence. What New choices was a movement can soon become a Maintaining Twenty-five years ago, a superintendent of monument and then a mausoleum. By the present mine guided the circuit through a decision- contrast, the Spirit is always calling us on to state of affairs making process. It led to me being set new adventures. free to plant a new congregation and focus can become a my energies on mission throughout the Taking risks tyranny circuit. This in turn opened up a fresh Adventures, born of opening-up choices experience of God not just for the team I are, of course, risky. When reading Jesus’ was working with, but also for people in our parable of the talents it is easy to assume churches, for people outside the Church that there was no question that the men who came to faith, and for young people in who were given the five and the two talents our congregation who eventually became would succeed in producing more. This Christian leaders themselves. is not so – in the transactions they were In recent times, the Chester and Stoke- making they could have lost all that the on-Trent District has chosen to adopt a master had entrusted to them. The master church planting and re-seeding policy, which commended them, however, because they it is part of my remit to oversee. As a result, understood that his business was not about we are currently establishing the Castle preserving what you have at all costs, but Connect Church in Newcastle-under-Lyme. putting it to work in order to make more. It came about as the result of another “Making more disciples of Jesus Christ”: brave, opening-up choice, made at Easter that is our Master’s business. To be 2018 by members of the then Newcastle engaged in it opens up a whole new dynamic Methodist Church. Encouraged by the of life in the Holy Spirit. God did not give leaders of the North Staffordshire Circuit to the Spirit for things we can do in our own which they belonged, they decided to cease strength but for those steps of faith which meeting. This made it possible to establish take us beyond ourselves. There is a risk a new congregation in the same premises and there is a cost. However, there is also with members from the neighbouring Stoke- an exhilaration and a sense of rightness on-Trent Mission Circuit. After 18 months’ in following our calling – and there is the preparation, we launched the Castle promise held out in the words “enter into Connect Church last November. the joy of your master” (Matthew 25:21). www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr the connexion • Winter 2020 5
Project manager Mandy Taylor tells how a dream led Lyn Edwards to follow God’s call to set up ‘Shackles Off’ ur story started when a Welsh people sitting inside around tables, and ✔ ✘ lady, Lyn Edwards, came to stay her friend Heather serving behind the CHOICES with her friend, Heather, two miles counter. Question outside the village of Seascale, in Cumbria. That weekend when she visited Seascale Here Lyn had a series of dreams that would for the first time, Lyn recognised the place What dreams and change her life forever. In the first, she saw from her dreams. She realised that God visions is God a young man, who was a member of her wanted her to move to Seascale to start gifting into youth group back in Pembroke, playing his the cafe she had dreamed about. Lyn was your context? guitar and singing a song called Shackles. a faithful servant and with her husband Bri Her second dream had teenagers with sold her house and moved to Seascale in their heads bowed, dragging their chains 2005. When I first heard Lyn’s testimony through the streets of Seascale. Lyn heard I cried because I knew that she was the the voice of God saying, “Who will tell them answer to my prayers. of a God that loves them and a Saviour that cares?” Reaching out to young people Finally, she dreamed of a cafe with the Lyn was quite impatient and got frustrated Shackles Off sign above. It had young when things didn’t happen straight away, We want young people to be the best version of themselves 6 the connexion • Winter 2020 www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr
offering youth club and fitness sessions, I’ll find 100 informal education workshops, support for people to pay a those struggling with problems such as mental health and addictions, community £1 a week action programmes and intergenerational work. God is at the very centre of our project, which is a fresh expression of church. We show God’s love and care to all those we come in contact with by offering them support. Our aim is to help young people, foster their personal, social and spiritual development and empower them to make a positive and full contribution to the local community and to society. Quite simply, we want young people to be the best version of themselves. The Sunday X-treme group is the highlight of my week. It caters for young people and adults looking for a less traditional form of worship. We sing, pray, study the Bible, share breakfast together and support one another. The missing element was Holy and I had to point out many times that Communion, which we could only receive God’s timing is different to ours. However, two or three times a year due to the in 2008 the project started to move. Lyn, constraints on our rural circuit and staff. myself and Heather (later joined by Janet Our minister Wendy said she was going Hardy) loaded Heather’s car with crisps and to nominate me to have ‘authorisation to cans donated by people from local churches preside’ over communion. One member and drove it around the village every Friday said that this decision made her feel like night, engaging with young people on the we were now a “proper church”. My hope streets. for X-treme is that we will grow in number They were understandably suspicious at and strength and spread the gospel first, but we built up their trust to discover throughout our community. what they wanted for Seascale: a building, a place to go that wasn’t school or home, Find out more a place they could call theirs. We found the A fuller version of Lyn’s story may be building that Lyn had seen in her dreams found in John Sentamu’s Faith Stories and she persuaded the man who owned it to (Darton, Longman & Todd, 2013). It is rent it to us. When he asked how she would an inspiring account of faith, calling and pay the rent, thinking on her feet, Lyn said courage, which you can find on our website “I’ll find 100 people to pay a £1 a week.” www.shacklesoff.org.uk This became our ‘1 in 100’ scheme and there are still people who pay into it today. In January 2009 our ‘drop in centre’ was ready and we started to have regular Friday youth sessions. The project today Ten years later, we have four part-time and two casual staff, ten volunteers, and a very supportive management team, with trustees from the Methodist Church and the community. We are funded through grants and support from the local community and individuals. We currently interact with 174 children and young people on a regular basis, www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr the connexion • Winter 2020 7
100 dreamers Mark Williamson, pastor of Westminster Central Hall Sanctuary Project and director of One Rock International is passionate to release hundreds of new missional leaders through ‘100 Dreams’ o here’s a story for you… a youth neighbour to those in need around them, or worker, an entrepreneur, a climate making more followers of Jesus Christ. change activist and a fashionista walk into a church. No, it’s not the start of Missionary entrepeneurs a joke, but for this group it’s the start of a For many years I worked with the Revd Dr year of training and coaching to help them Rob Frost, former Connexional Evangelist. each change the world. I remember him saying: “What the Church in the 21st century needs is missionary What is 100 Dreams? entrepreneurs – people who will try new Last month they all joined the new 100 initiatives that will further the kingdom and communicate the gospel in fresh ways.” Dreams initiative supported by the This is exactly what these young lay leaders Methodist Church. The aim is to release will do. 100 lay young adults to each start a new We’ve put together a package of training missional project over the next five years. and coaching in missional leadership that 100 Dreams is being piloted in London, and helps our ‘dreamers’ develop a personal then hopefully expanded to other cities and rhythm of spirituality, a clear vision and districts around the Connexion. strategic leadership plan, and then become 100 Dreams will catalyse new youth equipped with leadership skills – all to help events, church plants, missional them start up the missional dream that God communities, social enterprises, charities, has placed on their heart. ethical businesses, political campaigns; So far, this training and coaching has basically any of the God-given dreams on helped birth online discipleship ministries, the hearts of some of our gifted young safe houses for trafficked women, charities leaders. Each one will start a project working with vulnerable teenagers, that furthers the kingdom through their residential mission training centres, new challenging of injustice, being a good missional communities, and much more. 8 the connexion • Winter 2020 www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr
Projects that further the kingdom And now we’re able to resource young We’re excited to see what new projects Methodists to think more like entrepreneurs will be birthed through these leaders. And ✔ ✘ and start new kingdom ventures, helping us let’s not forget the words of John Wesley: CHOICES explore what it means to be church in 21st- “Give me one hundred preachers who fear Question century urban contexts. nothing but sin and desire nothing but God, How is your and I care not a straw whether they be Initial participants district going to clergymen or laymen; such alone will shake The value of the package is £5,000 per respond to this the gates of hell and set up the kingdom exciting invitation? person. With subsidies from the Connexional of heaven on earth.”1 Substitute preachers Grants Committee and the London District for missionary entrepreneurs, make Advance Fund we’re able to offer this to lay the language inclusive; and it’s a great Methodist leaders for a much-reduced price summary of what we’re trying to achieve. of just £200 per person, making it affordable to young people and churches right across We will not be afraid of failure, which is the Connexion. The initial 100 Dreams often the biggest thing holding young people participants are currently one month into back from pursuing their ideas. Instead, their one-year course, and are already excited we will trust these young people to dream about the possibilities it will open up: big dreams for how God is calling them to follow Jesus and change their part of the “I love it. It’s practical, engaging and world. propels my passion for solving problems that are kingdom oriented. It has renewed The future my faith in God in a different way that The next 100 Dreams course begins in makes me feel more confident for the October 2020. We’re on the look out for race ahead.” Mofoluke Ayoola more London-based lay leaders who have missional dreams, and for people around “A blessed experience which enabled the Connexion who would like to see this learning new points and meeting new project brought to their city or district. If people. It will be a blessing for God’s 1. In a letter from John that’s you – we’d love you to get in touch. Wesley to Alexander kingdom that all participants of the Visit www.100dreams.co.uk and email Mather, 6 August 1777. workshop will be involved in ministry Source: John Telford (ed.), me at mark@onerockinternational.com afterwards – and could work together.” The Letters of John Wesley Together, let’s release hundreds of new (London: 1931), volume vi, Jarson Jaganathan missional projects across the Connexion! p. 272. www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr the connexion • Winter 2020 9
CHOOSING to start a movement of awakening and revival “Do not be conformed to this Sandra Lopez, Partnership Coordinator world, but be transformed by for Latin America and the Caribbean, says the renewing of your minds, overseas support can help UK churches so that you may discern what create more followers of Jesus Christ is the will of God.” (Romans 12:2) ow often do we resist change, The kingdom of God also requires even good change? We so often partnership. We need to live as brothers get comfortable with the status and sisters in Christ who support one quo. We even get used to situations that another through difficult times and help are worrying and need change. But God each other with our weaknesses. Despite clearly instructs us to change our mind-set encouraging signs of how our mission is and therefore our way of doing things. As supporting communities, the Methodist the popular saying goes: “we cannot keep Church membership in Britain continues doing the same thing and expect different to decline. We find it hard to make results!” The kingdom of God requires new disciples of Christ and we can find change – a new mind-set and new actions. evangelism tricky and uncomfortable. We need to regain our passion for evangelism 10 the connexion • Winter 2020 www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr
Helping hand from Latin America and the Caribbean As a Church that is part of a worldwide family of over 80 million Methodists, we have a unique opportunity to learn from Partner Churches overseas that are growing and making new disciples of Christ. This is becoming a reality in the UK thanks to the Council of Latin American Evangelical Methodist Churches of Latin America and the Caribbean (CIEMAL), which represents our Methodist Partner Churches in that region. It is preparing to send CIEMAL mission partner evangelists to work with local Methodist communities in the UK under a pilot scheme. The mission partners, who may be lay or ordained, have a track record in evangelism, including says about the programme. “Having visited church planting, church revitalisation and church growth. Alongside local church the Methodist Church in Cuba, I’d seen first ✔ ✘ hand the work of God there and been hugely CHOICES ministers, lay leaders and church members encouraged by their commitment, faith and Question they will develop evangelistic work in the passion. I believe we have much to learn community. They will do this sensitively, What does this about evangelism from our sisters and aware of cultural differences and how we opportunity inspire brothers in Latin America. do evangelism here. However, their work you to ask for? “I am absolutely convinced that we [the will also be distinctly different from what Methodist Church in Britain] need to regain we may be used to, and may challenge our passion for evangelism and encourage our mind-set and our usual pattern for people to become disciples. This generous evangelism. offer of help from CIEMAL has the potential CIEMAL’s General Secretary, the Revd to be fruitful in ways that we can only Luciano Pereira said: “CIEMAL believes that dream of at this stage. We are praying, and the mission belongs to God and that we invite others to pray with us, that we will are only collaborators with God in mission. see God do immeasurably more than we Our vision is to develop three key aspects: ask or imagine. We are delighted that the mobilise, train and connect. So now we CIEMAL mission partner will be coming to are preparing to send the first mission the Chester-le-Street Circuit. They will live partner to the UK in 2020. We are looking on an estate that does not have any church forward to the future and evangelism and presence at the moment and the circuit discipleship opportunities as we obey the will be working with them to share the good commandment that Jesus, our teacher, gave news and serve the community.” us “make disciples of all nations” (Matthew For more information on this pilot 28:19). Our hope is that Latin American and programme please contact Global Caribbean mission partners will help sow Relationships: seeds, and a new hope will emerge for the gr.admin@methodistchurch.org.uk continuation of mission in the UK through the Methodist Church. Our goal is to partner with and serve the Methodist Church in Britain by following the principles of the Methodist movement, helping to perhaps start a movement of awakening and revival in the United Kingdom.” CIEMAL mission partners come to the UK In September 2020 the Newcastle District will be the first to receive a CIEMAL mission partner. The Revd Elaine Lindridge (left), the District’s mission and evangelism enabler, www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr the connexion • Winter 2020 11
SIMPLE choices for the long term Combining the Romero Prayer with Our Calling helps the Chair of the Darlington District, the Revd Richard Andrew, form a hopeful vision for the future This is what we are about. We plant the seeds that one day will grow. We water seeds already planted, knowing that they hold future promise. (From the Romero Prayer, often attributed to Oscar Romero but originally composed by Bishop Ken Untener of Saginaw, USA, 1979) he first time I chaired the simplicity and elegance are signs of its ✔ ✘ Darlington District Synod, I offered profundity. CHOICES a reflection on what has become Question known as the Romero Prayer. A copy of Choices for the future the prayer was tacked to my door for Making choices about the future in light What new, hopeful many years, a daily reminder of how we of the reaffirmation of Our Calling, the actions will your circuit choose to might enter into God’s mission and, by Darlington District is developing a 10-year invest in next? implication, what might get in the way. focus entitled, ‘Every Church Growing’. It is a prayer which I return to regularly In 10 years we want to see every church because I find it refreshingly liberating. growing holistically in its worship, in It encourages the long- over the short- its learning, caring and discipleship, in term view; a vision of the kingdom over evangelism, in acts of service, community immediate ecclesiastical concerns. It is engagement and justice. We have chosen a realistic about what we are able to achieve long-term horizon for a number of reasons: as human beings in a lifetime; and is wonderfully permissive in encouraging ●● We recognise that currently many A prayer us to make use of what is before us, of our churches feel anxious about encouraging sowing and watering the seeds that hold the future as we respond to decades promise because they are offered to God, of decline. the long-term not worrying about what we do not have. ●● We know that in order to grow we will view It is simple but, as is often the case, its need to plant and prune carefully and 12 the connexion • Winter 2020 www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr
that will involve courage and perhaps We want to pain as we begin to change. see every ●● We are acutely aware that many of our members feel tired, discouraged and church overloaded. growing ●● We recognise that developing a culture of growth takes a long time as we develop the habits and make the choices by which we will live and encourage a mindset focused on the needs of the kingdom. Hopeful choices focusing on Our Calling Central to the development of our district strategy is the conviction that we are an ‘Easter people’, and therefore a people of hope. Whilst the future might look daunting, we affirm the conviction of the American theologian and activist, Jim Wallis that, “Hope is believing in spite of the evidence and then making the evidence change.” That is the way in which we choose to live. We believe that change in our context requires a consistent, long-term approach committed to the nurture of a Christ- centred, Spirit-filled, outward-looking, hopeful and confident culture open to risk for the sake of the gospel. The guiding principle is to retain a focus on Our Calling as a template for considering vision, short- and long-term mission objectives and the change of structures to make them simpler, adaptable, more flexible, and targeted upon the mission and ministry needs of local churches and circuits. Investment means growth I am a firm believer in the idea that what we invest in grows. Where we invest our time and energy is usually a good indication of our priorities. Our Calling, it seems to me, provides us with a useful opportunity to identify what is core and what is peripheral to our vision and to make wise choices about where in the future we will invest the time, talents and energy God has given us. What we do in response to the gospel is, of course, as the Romero Prayer reminds us, never complete, yet it is a beginning, a step along the way, an opportunity for God’s grace. I find that wonderfully liberating. What I offer is never complete, which is a different way of saying it’s not all down to me. But because that is the case, I don’t have to carry the burden of the future. I What we do in can choose to live simply by hope and to response to the invest in those hopeful actions through gospel is an which God builds the future. As the Romero Prayer reminds us in its conclusion: “We are opportunity for prophets of a future not our own.” God’s grace www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr the connexion • Winter 2020 13
The Revd Shalome MacNeill Cooper tells how seven small congregations in the Shropshire and Marches Circuit have made difficult choices to follow God 14 the connexion • Winter 2020 www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr
hoices can be big or small. Some rather than fear, because Scripture tells Our choices may have little effect and others us, “Do not be afraid”. Decisions based on have been result in real change in the world. fear tend to reflect our own thoughts and John Wesley was faced with a difficult choice wishes, rather than God’s desiring. made together in his early ministry: whether to stay in the and we have American colonies or return to Great Britain. Clustering together He stated there was “no other way of grown closer As creatures of habit, it is easy to do the knowing God’s will but by consulting [one’s] same things and wonder why outcomes own reason and [one’s] friends, and by do not change. We knew we needed to be observing the order of God’s providence.”1 innovative whilst maintaining local priorities; Like Wesley, we also face difficulties. So to move past seeing success merely as how do communities of faith make choices? numbers and more as God-in-relationships. And how do we know if the choices we And while it is usual to say “The make are our own or belong to the Holy Church of God has a mission”, it is better Spirit? Responsible choices usually stem theologically to affirm that “The God of from asking difficult questions. Occasionally mission has a Church.” So we chose to see the answers may be uncomfortable truths, The Constitutional Practice and Discipline which bear their own solutions, if only we of the Methodist Church as a connexional have the ability to perceive them. permission-giving pathway for mission. We decided to cluster together and organise More buildings than congregations travel to different chapels for worship In the area where I minister in beautiful services. We also have a ‘cluster’ service Shropshire, we have eight chapels but every three months in our building that does only seven congregations. One of our not have a congregation. Coming together in ✔ ✘ chapels does not have a congregation but this way has fostered better relationships, CHOICES it is a wonderful building. We decided the helped the chapel coffers, and made Question time had come to address some difficult worship more vibrant with congregations questions about our chapels. Like other In your context, of twenty worshippers rather than four. We faith communities in the country, our what uncomfortable also decided to make relationships a priority membership is in decline. We have been truths is God and shift our focus from fundraising to a inviting you to waiting in hope for the seeds that were spirit of tithing resources of money, talent address with hope planted yesterday to bear fruit today, but and time. We agreed that sharing resources and courage? over a two-year period we also asked should not be seen as ‘richer’ churches ourselves what would indicate a chapel saving ‘poorer’ ones from closure, but as a was no longer sustainable, and what would group endeavour. It has allowed our network God want us to do if so? Would the signal of chapels – each unique to its own context to change be a lack of finances, declining – to offer expressions of faith across the membership or the loss of a key player in locality we serve. God’s story in our communities? This may seem a very rosy outcome but it Answering these questions was difficult but was not an easy one: the choices have been in the spirit of Acts 2:44, “All who believed difficult. There were passionate objections were together and had all things in common”, and reluctant agreements, sleepless nights on 15 July 2019 we voted to merge all and all-consuming prayer; we have struggled seven congregations into one society; and to make hope-based decisions and quell on 1 September 2019 we amalgamated to fears. But, our choices were made together become Rea Valley Methodist Churches. It has one church council, one bank account, and we have grown closer. It is still early one membership list/community roll and days and we will continue to explore and eight worship locations. question, wrestle and discern, answer Whilst this was a big decision, it was and make choices, in Wesley’s words based on previous smaller, discerning “observing the order of God’s providence”, choices. We believe that Jesus’ vulnerability one choice at a time. was his great strength, and so we too 1. F rom a recollection written in a letter of 1 May 1736 by should embrace our own vulnerability. Our Benjamin Ingham from Georgia, North America. Ingham eight chapels chose to be vulnerable to is recounting a conversation in London with John and Charles Wesley and a Mr Salmon, who explained to each other – and this is an ongoing choice him how they came to decide to leave England for the we make at every worship service, church American colonies. Ingham made reference to being called of God, and this was their reply. council or gathering. Source: Heitzenrater, Richard P., Wesley and the People Our decisions were also based on hope Called Methodists, 2nd edition, p. 65. www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr the connexion • Winter 2020 15
INSPIRING choices The Revd Claire Simpson describes the choices for herself and the With brave East Solent and Downs Circuit as they respond to God and the choices change community is inevitable n the main street of the town where Choice suggests more than one possibility I live, I have a choice of 10 coffee or opportunity. That is surely a good thing? shops for my elevenses. On the one Well, yes… and no. hand, that’s great. On the other, it creates I currently have pastoral oversight of four indecision. And often, one choice leads churches as well as circuit responsibilities to another. Cappuccino or latte? Cake or and a weekly session as a spiritual care pastry? Card or cash? Like opening a set of volunteer at my local hospice. In all these Russian dolls, no sooner have I made one places I am confronted by choice, which decision, than another presents itself. is both exciting and inspiring, but also In my life as a Methodist presbyter I am daunting and challenging. presented with choices every day. In my previous life as a teacher I rarely had to Choosing wisely make a choice about how I spent my time. A strategy gifted to me by a lay person A timetable would see my working week applies a ‘must, should, could’ approach mapped out for me. However, ministry is to my working life. So, in terms of how to different and after 12 years I have become prioritise tasks in any working week I can accustomed to the level of autonomy and ask: what must be done, what should be choice I have in fulfilling my role. done and what could be done (if time and The word choice has a positive ring to it. energy allows). This approach doesn’t work 16 the connexion • Winter 2020 www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr
God’s Spirit moves us to encounter fresh possibilities for everything – because life isn’t neat – but them to work together and focus on the it can enable priorities to surface. needs of their communities. We may also In Robert Frost’s poem The Road not be able to appoint a missioner to create “a Taken a walker comes to a fork in the road new place for new people” in the Ports- and has to decide which path to follow. He mouth area, and we have a new worshipping has to choose from two apparently equal community already forming in ecumenical options. One is chosen over the other and partnership at Beacon Church in Bordon. whilst the narrative of the poem is inconclu- These are exciting times, but with brave sive it ends with the lines: choices change is inevitable. It can be “I took the one less travelled by, unsettling as we encounter the new, for with And that has made all the difference.” change comes an acknowledgement of loss. This poem resonates with my ministry. As we let go, we need to trust God and one Fundamentally, I’m seeking to be open to another as we seek to walk a different path God revealing where I need to be to make hopefully to make all the difference to our “all the difference”, using the gifts and congregations and communities. graces that God has given me. God’s Spirit moves us to encounter fresh So I choose to prioritise my time to possibilities and is encouraging us to break be with people who are at a particularly new ground. As we step out in faith and difficult point in their lives. These include inhabit the choices we have made, we pray people who are sick and dying or sad and for God’s blessing on all that is to come. bereaved. I also prioritise spending time with those who are refugees and asylum seekers; those encountering change; people responding to God’s call; the unchurched and those on the fringes of faith. A fork in the road As a circuit we are at “a fork in the road” and facing brave choices. In 2013, we reshaped for mission bringing together three smaller circuits to create a new one. This has created opportunities and released resources. Now we are trying faithfully to walk a road “less travelled” as we respond ✔ ✘ to God and the needs of our churches and CHOICES their communities. Question We are looking to use a different mix of What brave choices people to deliver ministry across the circuit. are you yearning In 2020 we hope to appoint a lay pastor for to make in your three churches that are geographically close church and circuit? to one another in the south, and encourage www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr the connexion • Winter 2020 17
In the face of life’s challenges the Church offers a counter-story of loving hope, says Nottingham and Derby District well-being officer Becca Byass am really important. lovingly in my ear: “You are of us. You are of I am employed as the first well- us. You are of us.” being officer in a Methodist district, I chose, with that belief, to live and paid for by an Our Calling grant. My job is to immediately made an appointment to see promote, support and resource well-being the doctor. in the district, particularly for ministers and I am valuable and important, I am loved. lay employees. I’m doing this by shaping But I am not unique in that, nor was my district policy, building relationships, struggle. sourcing materials for training and retreats and looking at how we change culture that Mental health might be an obstacle to the well-being of our Thanks to recent media campaigns, mental people. health awareness is rising and the stigma But, that is not why I am important. that previously accompanied it is dwindling. I came to a full realisation of my worth, I hope you haven’t written me off because head and heart, standing in the garden I’ve told you that I, like one in four people on a damp, autumn afternoon. Out of bed who will experience mental health problems only because I was smoking a cigarette; this year, had depression. questioning if my existence mattered and, if Mental health issues are only one of the not, then why carry on? obstacles to well-being. Increased stress Looking at a dried up, uninteresting, and expectations, the faster pace of life, not-even-worth-an-Instagram-filter, dead fewer hours of daylight, sedentary jobs, the leaf, I saw its worth as part of the cycle of pressure inherent within the language of creation, a part of the whole plan. It had ‘progress’ and ‘growth’, alongside climate I chose, with worth because of how it belonged. Into the change, population growth, political unrest, that belief, murky, airless darkness of my depression, the rising cost of living… Such obstacles to live the melodic, tri-fold voice of God whispered contribute to people feeling hopeless, 18 the connexion • Winter 2020 www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr
creative, innovative and less likely to be off God longs for work with stress. If people are flourishing in creation to business, their productivity increases and therefore profits rise. flourish, both planet and Faith in God brings fullness people However, the hope-filled story that the Church bares is so much greater – it’s not simply preventing harm or being more productive. Being alive is more than not feeling depressed. Living a full life is about good connections and problem-solving, about feeling useful and optimistic, finding a sense of worth, having moments of joy, feeling loved and valued, giving generously, having energy to spare and thinking clearly. The Church, with its traditions and disciplines has something to offer a world that spent £3.6 trillion on ‘wellness’ last year. At the very least, we need to identify the ways our disciplines are equally as helpful as mindfulness or yoga. Our faith in a loving, restorative God means we have something better to say and something better to show, that feeds the human need for hope and wholeness. As a district we are seeking to identify apathetic or anxious, which perpetuates and overcome obstacles to well-being. and contributes to mental, physical and We are committed to creating inclusive emotional health issues. communities that gather around and elevate the most vulnerable. We will be monitoring Hope, worth and well-being well-being and turning our research into The Church, in all of this, tells a counter- positive action and good practice. Through story of loving hope. A hope born in the this, we will challenge stigma and bullying belief that God longs for creation to flourish, and model healthy relationships in our ✔ ✘ both planet and people. It is hope in Jesus worship, service, learning and caring. CHOICES who came that we might have life and In short, we are seeking to embody and Question have it to the full: who modelled healthy reveal the future hope of God’s kingdom What has relationships and a balance of work and that, in our imperfection, we only see a Becca’s honesty rest and prayer; who challenged the wrongs glimpse of. and faith touched that inhibited others’ flourishing. This same Because you are important. We are and inspired in you? hope hisses, hackles raised, in the face of important. They are important. injustice, poverty and discrimination. It was hope that whispered my worth in the bottom of the pit and gave me enough spirit to fight through the murk and find help. With safeguarding, the Methodist Church has spent time and effort investing in systems which protect our most vulnerable people. We train, create and implement policy so that everyone is included and safeguarded from harm. We are not the only ones focusing on this or on well-being. Since the banking crisis, corporations have invested heavily in employee well-being and engagement. Research has shown that where people have good well-being, they are more www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr the connexion • Winter 2020 19
Past President he ‘Methodist Way of Life’ is not a A METHODIST WAY OF LIFE of the Conference, detailed list of beliefs, but rather The calling of the Methodist Church the Revd Dr how we seek to live our lives is to respond to the gospel of God’s Roger L Walton in response to God’s love in Jesus. The love in Christ challenges the commitments left are a work in progress, Church to adopt With God’s help, we commit to this way but aim to set out, in simple terms, what new commitments of life: being a Methodist is all about that echo John Worship In 2018, this description of the Methodist Wesley being Way of Life was presented to the Methodist inspired by the love ●● We will pray daily. Conference. From 2020, resources will of God ●● We will worship with others regularly. become available across the Connexion ●● We will look and listen for God in for people to explore our Methodist way of Scripture and the world. living out Christian commitment. Learning and Caring The Methodist Way of Life grows ●● We will care for ourselves and those Last year, the Yorkshire West District piloted around us. its use, although this was largely accidental! ●● We will practise hospitality and We printed 500 cards bearing this text for generosity. Synod, so that people could see what the ●● We will learn more about our faith. Conference had discussed. Together we Service recited it aloud, and considered what it might be like if we adopted this way of life. ●● We will help and serve people in our On the Monday after Synod, we had some communities and beyond. left over, so sent an email asking if anyone ●● We will honour creation and tend the would like them – first come, first served. environment. By the end of Monday, the District Office ●● We will challenge injustice. had requests for 5,000 copies, with another Evangelism 1,500 requested shortly after. In the end, ●● We will speak of the love of God in 7,500 were printed and distributed. It had Jesus. clearly struck a chord. ●● We will live in such a way that others might be drawn to Jesus. Using the commitments ●● We will share our faith with others, No instructions were given as to how the sensitively. cards should be used. So we learned a great deal from feedback. Some ministers gave May each life be a blessing within and them out with membership tickets. Some beyond God’s Church, for the formed small groups to study and reflect transformation of the world. on how this was working (or not working) in 20 the connexion • Winter 2020 www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr
their lives. Some distributed them at their ●● Second, it is a rule or yardstick by Covenant Service, for putting into daily which to check on one’s growth. With practice what people had just committed to the Methodist Way of Life, comes in that act of dedication. A few introduced simple, but probing questions to them into membership preparation, while help us reflect on our Christian lives, others used them for preaching or devotions which we printed on the reverse of the at church meetings. One person even wrote commitments card. So in relation to a set of daily prayers to accompany the Methodist Way of Life. Most importantly, many individuals placed them in their Bible and looked at the commitments every time they opened its pages. Why was the take-up so great? Let me offer some suggestions for why so many people adopted this Methodist Way of Life. The Methodist ●● First, it is a reminder. People see in Way of Life it what they aspire to be and do as sets Our Christians. This is how they want to try to live. It is no surprise in one way, Calling in as it relates to Our Calling. The 2000 personal terms Conference endorsed Our Calling as expressing what the Methodist Church is to do in the 21st century. The Methodist Way of Life sets Our Calling in personal terms. It outlines what I am committed to do as a part of this Church. Its handy postcard-size, which can slip into a Bible or bag, offers a convenient regular reminder of this way of living. It can also be a useful means of sharing with others about being Methodist. One person told me that when asked, “What are Methodists about?” she showed her Methodist Way of Life card. www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr the connexion • Winter 2020 21
Greater sense the section on Worship, the questions with the Way of Life printed on it. It include: What is the pattern of your helped them to clarify in a helpful way of intentionality prayer life? What has recently spoken what sometimes gets lost in years of about Christian to you in worship or Bible study? attending church.” Tim said that for living When has God been close to you? most, there was nothing new in the In the section on Service, questions Methodist Way of Life, but it gave folk include: What issues of justice are you a greater sense of intentionality about involved in? Are there any you need to their Christian living. take up? These first questions feed into ●● Finally, the Methodist Way of Life holds the Church’s 2019/2020 Year of a deep resonance and reconnection Testimony, while the second ones with our tradition. Methodism began as challenge us to live ethically. The a holiness movement, and the societies questions prompt personal reflection, John Wesley formed had rules to help but you could explore them with a people form and grow in their faith. prayer partner, a soul friend or in a The core was that Methodists would small group. Living out the Christian do no harm; that they would seek to do life is never going to be success all the good wherever they could, and that way. With some commitments, we will they would develop a pattern of prayer struggle; with some, we may fail. So and worship to draw near to God. being able to share honestly with others Within the societies, there were small helps us to find the support we need. groups – classes and bands – which In Burley, in Wharfedale and helped people work out what these Aireborough Circuit, a series of groups basic rules meant in their daily lives. were initiated by the Revd Tim Perkins. For these groups, Wesley wrote rules, ✔ ✘ The groups explored the means of as he did for those preachers who CHOICES grace and integrated the Methodist helped him in the work. He even wrote Question Way of Life into their meetings in two rules for the singing of hymns and major ways. First, in each session, one outlined a rule for handling personal Spend some time of the questions from the Way of Life finance in his sermon ‘The Use of with God was posed and people shared their Money’. When John Wesley was asked imagining just how experience honestly. Second, at the end about the people called Methodists, much would change for the better if of the session, the group said the Way he described how Methodists lived out you were to adopt of Life together. It sent folk out with a their faith in daily life, inspired and each of these strong sense of how they were to live. empowered by the love of God. The commitments. Jo, one of the group leaders, said, Methodist Way of Life resonates with “People really enjoyed having the card that first description. It is in our DNA. 22 the connexion • Winter 2020 www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr
Questioning our motives in choosing, the Revd Dr Jonathan Hustler, Secretary of the Conference, reminds us of God’s choice of Israel What matters enough to us to risk the future? cannot claim to be an Hebrew Bachar (according to my tutor all those scholar at all – my training included years ago) is a beautiful word because it only a short course in Hebrew and discloses not simply the choice but the I have never mastered the language. But love that dictates the choice. And God’s I can still remember clearly some of the people are invited to respond – to choose insights into the Torah that we were given in to serve God is to make a decision based those classes. One was the eulogy that our on hope and love however risky that tutor uttered around the word bachar which might seem. is used of God’s choice of Israel, a word The supermarket shelves might present that he said carried implications of love and me with a bewildering amount of choice delight. And of risk – God’s choice is God’s even for commonplace products. However, investment of the future. behind my loyalty card are algorithms that I write during the general election have probably told the store what I will campaign when millions of us will be choose before I have worked it out because presented with a choice: in which of these the pattern of my shopping reveals what candidates do I believe the future should drives my choices. For instance, how be invested? How I make that choice will important are price, trade justice, the be informed by my attitudes. The questions environment, quality, or familiarity to me? that I answer in the ballot box are not Our choices are a witness to what ✔ ✘ simply ‘which of these would make the best motivates us, just as God’s choice of CHOICES MP?’ but ‘What are the issues that really us is a witness to the character and the Question matter to me?’ ‘Which of my values do I longing of God. ‘What will you choose?’ What motivates see reflected in the candidates?’ ‘Whose can mean ‘What matters enough to us to you? interests do I have at heart?’ risk the future?’ www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr the connexion • Winter 2020 23
Rachel Lampard ur choices are certainly constrained drive the justice work of the Churches over by what is possible. We have the next few years. and Paul Morrison accepted, for example, that we The Six Hopes involve choices we can of the Joint Public are never going to make it as Blue Peter make about who we prioritise in our society Issues Team say our Presenters or long-distance runners. and who we push to the margins; what But are we too quick to accept that things following the biblical injunction to welcome choices can help are not possible? When we see something the stranger looks like in practice; and take care of the that is not right, do we say to ourselves how we can renew, not destroy God’s planet and create “this is the way of the world” and we can creation. In the coming years, JPIT will work do nothing about it? Things can look very to resource local churches theologically, a fairer society bleak, but with hope, we can respond to politically and practically as they make God’s call to challenge the injustices we these choices. see all around us. Choices for a better world Injustice is not inevitable One of the issues we have before us is If we see continued climate change as how to change our economy in the face of unavoidable, for example, there is no reason the climate crisis. It’s agreed that we need to reduce the number of flights we take, or to ask the government to change energy to change rapidly to eliminate greenhouse subsidies. We could read “you always have gas emissions and avert disaster. The big the poor with you” (Matthew 26:11) to mean question is how. we don’t need to challenge poverty. Since We currently judge the success of our nuclear weapons cannot be un-invented, do economy by how much we trade and we decide that we shouldn’t bother to press consume. Economic growth has been the governments to live up to their longstanding central aim of government for almost a commitment to get rid of them? century, but rising greenhouse gases and Accepting injustices as inevitable means other types of pollution have been the that we fail to challenge them. But our trust inexorable consequences. Ever-increasing in God provides us with hope for a more just consumption cannot be sustainable. world. Economic ideas such as endless growth The Joint Public Issues Team (JPIT, photos once looked as solid and immutable as the right) joins together the Methodist Church law of gravity. Today they look more like with the Baptist Union, the Church of choices that need revisiting. Imagination Scotland and the United Reformed Church and hope can offer us the opportunity to to work together for justice and peace. JPIT challenge injustices that seemed inevitable has identified ‘Six Hopes’ (below) which will just a decade ago. SIX HOPES FOR A MORE JUST WORLD A JUST ECONOMY THAT A SOCIETY WHERE THE POOREST A PLANET WHERE THE ENABLES THE FLOURISHING AND MOST MARGINALISED ARE ENVIRONMENT IS RENEWED OF ALL LIFE AT THE CENTRE 24 the connexion • Winter 2020 www.methodist.org.uk • Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | Instagram | Flickr
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