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KiDS!
  A Special Section of
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     March 13, 2020
A Special Section of The Rivertowns Enterprise March 13, 2020
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                                                            Kids! Cover Contest Winners
                                                                                                                                        Finnegan Leddy
                                                                                                                                           COVER WINNER

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                                                                                                             llen Leddy has been sending photos of her grandkids to The Enterprise for years. And she
                                                                                                             finally has a winner! Fourteen-month-old Finnegan took the top prize this year. “I’m so
                                                                                                             excited you called about our little guy,” she said.
                                                                                                                Ellen lived in Dobbs Ferry for 43 years, and works at Community Nursery School
                                                                                                     there, and though she recently moved to Tarrytown, she still reads the local newspaper with great

   Inside Kids!                                                                                      joy. (Especially today’s section.) Finnegan lives not far away in Yonkers, where his father, Adam,
                                                                                                     who was raised in Dobbs, is a police officer.
                                                                                                        Being as the next youngest grandchild of five total is 11 years old, just as the winning photo
 Chores are more than meets the eye......4A                                                          shows Finnegan is definitely in the driver’s seat of this family.
                                                                                                        “We hadn’t had a baby in the family for a long time,” Ellen said. “We’re just adoring this little
 Tips for raising an independent child.....6A
                                                                                                     guy. All his cousins just love him.”
 Go take a hike… and bring the kids!......8A                                                            Finnegan’s grandparents watch him on Mondays and take him to music class. They bought
                                                                                                     him a drum, which he loves.
 The importance of day camps..............10A
                                                                                                        “He’s the sweetest baby,” she said. “He’s a happy little guy.”
 Babies: It’s sleepy time.........................12A                                                   Finnegan just started walking, so when the photo was taken at a park in Bronxville he needed
                                                                                                     to be guided around. After walking it’s likely Dad will have him on skis and his cousins will
 Recommended reading:                                                                                introduce ice skating.
 Good books for kids!............................14A                                                    “He’s not able to do that yet, but I’m sure that will be something in the future,” Ellen said.
 Finding the right read for you and                                                                     For now it will be playgrounds and cuddles. “He’s a gentle little boy,” Ellen said. “If he’s here
 your children........................................19A                                            and he’s tired he’ll just rest on your shoulder and go to sleep. He’s just a sweet little boy.”
 The mommy mafia: Deconstructing the
 burden of adult cliques........................20A
 Helping your child adjust to preschool....23A
 Tips for road trips with kids..................26A
                                                                                             Willa Lee
                                                                                         DIVISION ONE WINNER
 Kids News & Notes..............................26A

                                                            W
 COVER CONTEST KIDS............... 27A-29A
                                                                         hen Lea Carmichael Richardson got the call that Willa was a win-
                                                                         ner, Willa was visiting her in Irvington all the way from Ohio. The
                                                                         14-month-old gives her such joy!
                                                                            “We try to get out there and she comes here for holidays,” Lea said.
                                                            “We get out there quite a bit. I just love being a grandmother. It’s just the most
                                                            wonderful thing and family is truly important to me. My mother taught me that.”
                                                               Willa is developing a great personality. She’s funny and likes to engage with oth-
                                                            ers. “She pretends to talk — it’s blather — but she likes to chat, chat, chat,” Lea
                                                            said. “She loves playing games. She’s the only grandchild, so she’s adored by all her
                                                            aunts and uncles.”
                                                               “Good Night, Gorilla” and “Where’s Spot?” are her favorite books.
                                                               “She loves to read,” Lea said. “That’s her thing. She adores reading.”
                                                               She added, “She loves to drum. For her, everything is a drum, including drums.”
                                                               The future is bright for this shining star. “I can’t wait to see where she’s headed,”
                                                            Lea said. “I love where she is now, but it’s really so exciting to see a kid grow. She’s
        2020 Rivertowns Enterprise                          going to be a very interesting kid. At her daycare she loves doing art and I’m an art-
     PRESCHOOL GUIDE                                        ist, so I’m thinking of sharing that with her as she gets older.”

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                                                                                                                                                Lucie Zappia

         KiDS!
                                                                                                                                               DIVISION TWO WINNER

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                                                                                                                            “That’s her smile,” Marjorie said, referring to Lucie. “She’s got a wonder-
                                                                                                                 ful smile and she’s innocent and open and affectionate.” Of Jackie, she said, “He’s
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                                                                                                                    Marjorie sees Lucie at least once a week for playdates. “I just love it,” she said. “I
                                                                                                                 live for it… We walk on the aqueduct with her. She and her brother love to go to
                                                                                                                 the playground in Hastings... They love sleeping over.”
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Chores are more than meets the eye
         BY JENNIFER GROSS
                                                 CHORE CHART: If you haven’t implemented a chore system yet, have no fear, as it’s never too late to start. Even teenagers who have

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                                                 never gotten into a chore regimen before can start having those responsibilities now. Start out slowly with just a few chores here and
            ssigning chores to children is       there and increase as needed. Use a chore chart so everyone knows what’s expected of them on a daily basis. While it’s always a nice
            something every parent thinks        idea to work together with your children to come up with a list of chores together, here is a chart to help get you started:
            about fairly often. The benefits
            of chores are clear and twofold:
chores provide kids with a feeling of re-
sponsibility and independence, while also
lending a helping hand to parents and
caregivers. Getting started is often easier
said than done.
   Figuring out what kind of chores to
                                                       Ages               Bedroom/Playroom                      Kitchen                       Laundry                   General
give each child, and making sure they
actually do them, is time-consuming and                                                                 Hand empty bowls and utensils       Help carry (drag)       Help stamp letters
can be overwhelming, but it is well worth
it. Getting kids used to having chores at
an early age makes the chores much easier
                                                    1-3                      Put toys away (with
                                                                             help)
                                                                                                        to parent/caregiver after meals
                                                                                                        Sweep kitchen floor
                                                                                                        Wipe up spills
                                                                                                                                            hamper to
                                                                                                                                            laundry room
                                                                                                                                                                    for mailing
                                                                                                                                                                    Hang coats and bags
                                                                                                                                                                    on low hooks

to implement and ensures they become
habits by the time the kids are older.                                     Put dirty clothes in         Unload silverware from dish-        Dump dirty                 Brush pets’ fur
   According to research from the Uni-
versity of Minnesota, children who start
chores as young as 3 or 4 are likely to
                                                    4-6                    hamper
                                                                           Clean up toys
                                                                           Get dressed
                                                                                                        washer and hand to parent to
                                                                                                        put away
                                                                                                        Clean up spills
                                                                                                        Clear food off plates into
                                                                                                                                            clothes into
                                                                                                                                            washer
                                                                                                                                            Measure out
                                                                                                                                            laundry detergent
                                                                                                                                                                       Dry dogs after a
                                                                                                                                                                       walk in the rain
                                                                                                                                                                       Help rake leaves
become adults who are self-sufficient,                                     Brush teeth                                                                                 Collect sticks
                                                                                                        garbage (consider separate          Dump warm
achieve academic and early career suc-                                                                                                                                 from yard
                                                                           Dust surfaces                bin for composting                  clothes from
cess, and have good relationships with                                                                  Set table with unbreakable
                                                                                                                                            dryer into laundry         Help with gar-
                                                                                                                                            basket                     dening
family and friends. So although it can be                                                               dishes and cups
tempting to clear the table or crack the                                                                                                    Match socks                Wash cars with
                                                                                                        Fold napkins
                                                                                                                                                                       garden hose on a
eggs yourself, let go of the need for speed                                                             Help cook (crack eggs, add                                     hot day
— and a perfectly clean kitchen — and                                                                   ingredients to bowl, mix, etc.)
                                                                                                                                                                       Decorate chore
let the little ones do some of the heavy                                                                Sweep floors after meals                                       chart!
lifting.                                                                                                Use handheld vacuum
             Start them young
   Kids are never too young to start help-                                  Put clothes in              Take out ingredients for cook-     Separate lights             Feed pets
ing around the house. As soon as they can
walk, kids can help put their toys away af-
ter a playdate. Involving them with clean-
                                                  7-12                      hamper
                                                                            Hang up wet towels
                                                                            on towel hooks or
                                                                            rack
                                                                                                        ing (scavenger hunt style) and
                                                                                                        put away
                                                                                                        Set and clear table
                                                                                                        Help with cooking
                                                                                                                                           from darks
                                                                                                                                           Fold clothes
                                                                                                                                           Help put folded
                                                                                                                                           clothes into closet
                                                                                                                                                                       Help clean snow
                                                                                                                                                                       off cars
                                                                                                                                                                       Get mail from
                                                                                                                                                                       mailbox
ing when they are really young is a great                                   Empty bedroom                                                  and drawers
way to get them to want to help and a                                                                   Sweep/vacuum crumbs                                            Hang up coats
                                                                            trash cans
                                                                                                                                                                       and backpacks
nice way to spend time together. As they                                                                Clean table after meals
grow, the chores will evolve and you can
get kids excited by having them graduate                                    Make beds                  Set and clear table                 Bring clothes/            Walk and bathe

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to bigger responsibilities each year. Tod-                                                             Fill glasses with water             hamper to                 pets
                                                                            Put dirty clothes in
                                                                                                                                           laundry room
dlers can get themselves dressed in the                                     hamper                     Make some family meals or                                     Help shovel snow
morning and brush their teeth, for exam-                                                               bake desserts                       Help with                 Water plants
                                                                            Keep room clean
                                                                                                                                           laundry
ple, and teenagers can make their beds,                                     and organized              Make lunches before school                                    Hang up coats and
                                                                                                       (or the night before)               Put folded clothes        backpacks
set the table for dinner and walk the dogs.                                                                                                away
                                                                                                       Fill water bottles before                                     Get sports equip-
              Let them help                                                                            school and sports                                             ment out for sports
  The best way to motivate young kids                                                                  Clean dishes; load and unload                                 Pack backpacks for
to do chores is to let them help you with                                                              the dishwasher                                                school
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you cook the family meal might make the         children fold. Consider getting a folding
kitchen messier and delay getting dinner        board to help make folding an easy, en-
on the table, it will provide your kids with    joyable activity.
a feeling of accomplishment that will              Even if you have live-in help, you can
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toward independence.                            cleaning up toys after a playdate, tidying
          Determining the chores                up rooms or helping with the laundry.
   For young kids, simple tasks, like              As kids get older, they can wash dishes,
sweeping the floor after dinner, dust-          load and empty the dishwasher and bring
ing windowsills and surfaces around the         the laundry to the laundry room. Have
house, and emptying garbage cans in each        them start making their own lunches for
room is a good place to start. Make chores      school and make their own beds, which
a fun activity, so your kids won’t think of     will take a large burden off of your shoul-
them as work. For example, when cook-           ders. Chores can and should evolve as
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Adaptive behavior or intentional design?

Tips for raising an independent child
       BY DEBORAH ANDERS

I
       t is every parent’s dilemma from
       the day their children are born un-
       til the day their kids have kids of
       their own. As children grow, how
       much independence should they be
given? When should parents hang back,
and when should they clear the way and
step in?
   “Children are always having to balance
their need to explore and learn about the
world, with their need to connect with
caregivers for comfort and safety,” said
Dr. Claire Vallotton, associate professor
of human development and family stud-
ies at Michigan State University, who re-
minds us that expectations of early child-
hood development are influenced by the
customs and norms of the communities
where we live.
   She added, “In our American culture,
we often cheer on children’s efforts to ex-
plore and pursue goals, because we value
this independence. But parents often
expect children to be emotionally inde-
pendent before they are ready. We expect
tiny babies to sleep through the night on
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CONTINUED FROM THE PREVIOUS PAGE                                                                                                                                                             takes, even failure, are a natural part of

they want or to share a favorite toy, or                             “We are all interdependent, especially                                                                                  the learning process, providing another
                                                                                                                                                                                             path toward independence.
preschoolers to manage conflict with
peers.”                                                              young children. Real independence is                                                                                       “Making an error is a powerful learning
                                                                                                                                                                                             opportunity. Children learn a lot from
   Parenting approaches that are most
supportive of children’s development, ac-
                                                                   about pursuit of one’s own ideas and goals,                                                                               their mistakes,” Berens said. “If a child
                                                                                                                                                                                             is engaging in a behavior and the conse-
cording to Vallotton, are those that let
children explore their own interests and
                                                                             but it doesn’t mean doing it alone.”                                                                            quence isn’t dangerous or life threatening,
                                                                                                                                                                                             you should let your child learn from the
goals, take some risks and let children fail                                      — Dr. Claire Vallotton, Michigan State University                                                          natural consequences of that behavior.
while helping them learn from failure, all                                                                                                                                                      “However, failure only works if an al-
while making sure children are ultimately                                                                                                                                                    ternative, adaptive behavior is also being
safe, both emotionally and physically.                                                                                                                                                       practiced and reinforced. If your child
   “When parents decide the goals for                                                                                                                                                        doesn’t have the adaptive skills to do
                                                          line is that with independence, as in any                      learn adaptive skills and interfering with
their children, they stifle independence,                                                                                                                                                    something else instead, then they should
                                                          milestone of development, environment                          natural consequences for your child’s be-
initiative and creativity; and when par-                                                                                                                                                     be provided an opportunity to learn the
ents don’t let children take risks or fail,               and context shape parental expectations.”                      havior.
                                                             However, according to Dr. Kimberly                                                                                              skills required to be successful.”
they stifle the ability to learn and a child’s                                                                                Adaptive skills for independence                                  A parent herself, Vallotton offered tips
confidence in their own abilities,” Vallot-               Berens, an educator, behavioral scientist
                                                                                                                            Parents tend to respond to their chil-                           she tries right at home:
ton said.                                                 and founder of Fit Learning in Manhat-
                                                                                                                         dren more often when maladaptive be-                                   “With my 4-year-old, I acknowledge
   Independence draws from standard                       tan and Greenwich, parents needn’t wait
                                                                                                                         haviors like crying and whining occur. As                           her feelings about mistakes, but without
developmental milestones that include                     for their child “to accidentally learn skills
                                                                                                                         a result, according to Berens, adaptive be-                         making a big deal of it: ‘Oops, that didn’t
speech-language development, cognition,                   from the natural environment.”
                                                                                                                         haviors are often ignored or overlooked.                            work. It looks like you feel disappointed.’
adaptive functioning, motor skills and                       “If a child doesn’t appear to be learning
                                                                                                                            “They should actually flip that ratio,”                          Then I ask for her ideas about what the
social-emotional development. And al-                     certain adaptive skills, it isn’t necessarily
                                                                                                                         she said, by reinforcing all the adaptive                           problem is, and what a solution might
though those benchmarks are connected                     cause for concern,” she said. “Your child                                                                                          be: ‘Hmm, why do you think it fell over/
                                                                                                                         things your child does with positive at-
and go hand in hand, independence falls                   likely just requires the learning environ-                                                                                         didn’t fit/etc. I wonder what we could do
                                                                                                                         tention like enthusiastic praise and hugs
primarily under the domain of adaptive                    ment to be adjusted so that they have                                                                                              to make it work.’ I try to let her work out
                                                                                                                         or access to a favorite toy. “This way, you
functioning, especially in relation to self-              more opportunities to practice these skills                                                                                        the ideas as much as possible, but still
                                                                                                                         are selecting and strengthening adaptive
help skills such as dressing, washing and                 and have that practice reinforced. Parents                                                                                         provide some ideas and physical help if
eating indepetyndently.                                                                                                  skills, which makes it less likely that mal-
                                                          can intentionally design their child’s envi-                                                                                       she seems to want that.”
   “The age at which each child attains a                                                                                adaptive behavior becomes a problem.
                                                          ronment to ensure that adaptive skills are                                                                                            Vallotton also makes an important
different skill varies from child to child,                                                                                 “Sometimes, though, it’s beneficial to
                                                          learned and mastered.”                                                                                                             distinction between “independence” and
family to family and skill to skill,” said                                                                               sit back, let your child explore, and have
                                                             Though the concept of “intentional                                                                                              “interdependence.”
Dr. Nilofer Naqvi, assistant professor of                                                                                their behavior be shaped by its natural
                                                          design” may seem like an introduction to                                                                                              “We are all interdependent, especially
psychology at Iona College in New Ro-                                                                                    consequences.”
                                                          the “helicopter” or “snowplow” parenting                                                                                           young children,” she said. “Real indepen-
chelle. “For example, many 2-year-old                     style, Berens concedes there is a balance                               Learning from mistakes                                     dence is about pursuit of one’s own ideas
children can feed themselves, but still                   that must be achieved between designing                          Contrary to the adage “Nothing suc-                               and goals, but it doesn’t mean doing it
need help getting dressed. The bottom                     your child’s environment to ensure they                        ceeds like success,” experts agree that mis-                        alone.”

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Go take a hike… and bring the kids!
                  BY JENNIFER GROSS                                                                                                       Thanks to the wide array of products on the market for

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                                                                                                                                      parents of babies and toddlers, there is no need to leave the
                                                                                                                                      baby at home when you go out for a hike. Opt to put your
              ith the weather taking an early turn for the bet-                                                                       little one in a baby carrier rather than a stroller, which can be
              ter — maybe a little too early for February/                                                                            hard to navigate on bumpy terrain. For infants, front slings
              March, but that’s a topic for another time —                                                                            work well, while backpack-style carriers are best for children
              it seems like everyone wants to be outdoors,                                                                            6 months and up who are 16-40 pounds. Just be careful you
adults and children alike. If you have little ones, you are                                                                           won’t be running, biking, climbing or hiking on any loose
probably looking for fun outdoorsy things to do as a family.                                                                          rock while using the carrier.
Hiking is always a great option.                                                                                                          REI at Ridge Hill, Yonkers, has a good selection of carriers
   Despite the obvious benefits for the whole family —                                                                                that are perfect for hiking and they will even adjust the carrier
fresh air, exercise, a break from screens and general togeth-                                                                         in-store to fit you and your baby properly.
erness — and the fact that there are so many great places to                                                                              For toddlers who are eager to walk with older siblings
hike in Westchester County, going on a family hike can be                                                                             and parents, consider providing them with their own gear,
daunting, especially with kids who want or need to be car-                                                                            which will get them excited for the outing. A small backpack
ried. While it’s good to encourage even the youngest tod-                                                                             in which to stash their favorite snacks, a water bottle and a
dlers to walk, it’s important to be prepared when you need                                                                            change of clothes in case it’s wet or muddy on the trail is a
to stop, rest, eat and carry.                                                                                                         great option. Plan ahead to make sure the trail isn’t too long
   Here are some tips for taking successful, fun family hikes:                                                                        so you don’t get stuck carrying a tired and cranky toddler —
                         Be prepared                                                                                                  and the gear — all the way back to the car. And if you want to
   The No. 1 rule for hiking with kids, or really any outing                                                                          bring a stroller, consider a jogging style.
with kids, is to be prepared. Preparing for both the expect-                                                                                                      Big kids
ed and unexpected will make it a pleasant experience for                                                                                 Try to set some safety ground rules before venturing out
all involved. When hiking with children, with potentially                                                                             with your big kids. Explain that they can’t run away from the
no snack bars or bathrooms in sight, preparedness is espe-                                                                            group during a hike of any kind and that you should always
cially important. Always make sure your kids are well fed,                                                                            be able to see where they are, but have a plan in place in the
well hydrated and dressed appropriately (think layers!), so                                Consider time of day                       unlikely event that they do get lost.
bring plenty of snacks and water. Colorful water bottles with          It’s advisable to hike during a time of day when the weather      Consider buying them a safety whistle that they can blow
spray or fan attachments are great for those really hot days        is nicest and the kids are the most well rested. Morning is       in bursts of three if they are lost and tell them to stay in one
and will keep those kids wanting to drink. Sunscreen, hats,         typically a good time to hit the trail before the sun gets too    place until you find them. To get them excited for the trip, let
a first aid kit and bug spray are also must-haves. Sneakers are     hot and energy levels start to drop.                              them help with the planning and packing.
fine for kids to wear, but make sure they are breathable with                                                                            Come up with some fun games to play as you walk and
adequate toe protection and that they are broken in so your                                 Age matters
                                                                                                                                      explore, so they don’t get bored, such as scavenger hunts (Pin-
child doesn’t get blisters from all of the walking and climbing.       Whether you have a baby, toddler, a teenager or all of the
   In addition, make sure you and the other adults are physi-       above, hiking can be fun for everyone, but different ages have                                        CONTINUED ON THE NEXT PAGE
cally capable of the journey you are about to embark on!            different needs.

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                                                    Family-friendly
CONTINUED FROM THE PREVIOUS PAGE                                                                      ent walkways and water views. The kids can          shade. As an added bonus, there is a public
                                                                                                      even climb to the top of a stone quarry dur-        restroom. Walking around this manageable-
terest has good ideas for this), singing songs
                                                    local trail guide
                                                                                                      ing this hike.                                      sized park, you will see views of the New
or identifying different types of plants and                                                                                                              York City skyline, the Tappan Zee Bridge
flowers along the trail. Discuss your observa-                                                        Saxon Woods North Loop via White Trail,
                                                                                                      White Plains                                        and the river.
tions, too.                                            There are so many great places in the area
   Offer frequent snack breaks which you            that are also very kid-friendly. Alltrails.com       This is a 2.9-mile loop trail near White         Croton Gorge Park, Cortlandt
can take sitting on a rock or tree. Make sure       has a database of over 50,000 trails across       Plains that features a nice forest setting. It         Just 25 minutes north of White Plains,
                                                    the country that will allow you to do a           is primarily used for hiking, running, bird         this 2.1-mile park gets rave reviews for its
to have everyone clean up their garbage and
                                                    search of trails nearby, while westchestergov.    watching and snowshoeing in winter. Dogs            beautiful scenery and ease of use. The walk
explain why it’s important to be kind to the
                                                    com also has a list of great parks, but here      are allowed on leashes.                             won’t be too long or too hard for the kids
environment.
                                                    are a few fan favorites close to home:            Ward Pound Ridge Reservation, Pound Ridge           and you will all have views of the New Cro-
        The benefits of hiking together
                                                    Bronx River Pathway                                  The 4,315-acre park makes Ward Pound             ton Reservoir from a nice bridge that bor-
   Whatever road you choose to travel (see                                                            Ridge Reservation the Westchester County’s          ders the waterfall. There’s also a playground
                                                       This is a heavily trafficked out-and-back
sidebar for local hot spots), taking kids on                                                          largest park. With its varied terrain and           if your kids need a break from walking.
                                                    paved trail that spans 9.2 miles with a wa-
hikes helps them develop a lifelong apprecia-                                                         landscapes and miles of wooded trails, the
                                                    terfall. This is a good one to choose if you                                                          Croton Aqueduct Trail, Irvington
tion of nature. Research shows that hiking                                                            park provides a variety of activities in all sea-
                                                    have a stroller. Dogs are permitted on leash.                                                           With its open fields and creeks, this hike
builds stronger muscles and bones, improves                                                           sons. There are areas for picnicking, lean-to
sense of balance, helps heart health and de-        Hart’s Brook Park Reserve, Hartsdale              camping, fishing and cross-country skiing.          includes a visit to Lyndhurst Castle.
creases the risk of certain respiratory prob-          This is a 2-mile moderately trafficked
                                                                                                      Rockefeller State Park, Pleasantville               Teatown Lake, Ossining
lems. Being in nature also improves overall         loop trail near Hartsdale that is used mainly
                                                                                                         This 1,000-plus acre state park has a beau-        This is an easy, fun and scenic hike for
mental health — it reduces stress, anxiety          for hiking, walking, nature trips and bird
                                                                                                      tiful flower garden and a 1-mile loop around        kids as the loop goes around Teatown Lake
and leads to a lower risk of depression, ac-        watching. Wildlife can often be spotted
                                                                                                      a lake, where turtles and frogs are known to        and ends on a floating bridge.
cording to a study conducted by Stanford            here.
University.                                                                                           gather. There are options for easy walking,         Read Wildlife Sanctuary, Rye
                                                    Mamaroneck Reservoir via Yellow Trail             such as the Swan Lake Loop, which offers a
   For kids, just five minutes of walking in        Loop, Mamaroneck                                                                                         This sanctuary is set on 179 acres with 3
                                                                                                      wide carriage road suitable for strollers. This
nature improves mood, self-esteem and re-              This is a 2.8-mile lightly trafficked loop                                                         miles of trails that take you through forests,
                                                                                                      road is most often used for hiking, walking,
laxation. Hiking will help foster your chil-        trail in Saxon Woods Park. It features a river                                                        fields and along the shore. You will see wild-
                                                                                                      running and nature trips. You might even
dren’s love for the great outdoors, which is        and is good for all skill levels. Dogs are al-                                                        life and birds along the way. No pets are al-
                                                                                                      see horses in this park. There are trails that
important for their development. They will          lowed on this trail.                              lead you into the forest for bird watching          lowed.
grow up caring for the environment and en-
                                                    Cranberry Lake Preserve, West Harrison
                                                                                                      and there are various gardens and even an           Anthony’s Nose, Peekskill
joying this special family time. Even though                                                          art gallery. Dogs are allowed on leash here.
the kids might get tired and hungry and                 This is another loop trail, 1.8 miles, that                                                          This is a six-hour, 3-mile loop which is also
siblings might fight during the outing, with        is used mainly for hiking, walking and na-        Scenic Hudson Park at Irvington                     part of the Appalachian Trail. It’s a little more
a little advanced prep, you should be ready         ture trips best between April and October.           This is one of the most scenic and user-         challenging with all of the uphill, downhill
to handle it all with ease. Consider taking a       It’s perfect for kids, providing them with a      friendly walks in Westchester, located on the       terrain — you can climb 1,500 feet if you do
hike as an annual spring and fall event that        sense of adventure as they navigate their way     Hudson River. There are flat, paved walking         the whole trail — so it might be better for
your kids will grow up looking forward to           through different hiking paths. The loop          paths that are good for strollers and there are     adventurous high school-aged kids.
for years to come.                                  provides an easy two-hour walk with differ-       also benches and a lot of trees that provide                                    — Jennifer Gross

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10 reasons why day camps are important
       BY CARYN SYMONS AND
        REBECCA ROSENGREN

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     f you are considering summer camp
     for your child, you may be wondering
     if it is the right fit for your child’s per-
     sonality. Perhaps your child has never
spent much time away from you besides
going to school, or maybe your child has
special interests, and you are worried they
will feel out of place at camp.
   Although each child is a unique individ-
ual, we believe summer camp is beneficial
for all kids. No matter what your child’s
interests are, camp helps children develop
important social, emotional and cognitive
skills. Best of all, children create memories
at camp that last a lifetime.
   To help you decide if summer camp is
right for your child, we’ll explain the ben-
efits you can expect your child to gain as a
result of summer camp, and why summer
day camp matters.
   Although each camp offers a special va-          then going to bed. Although still struc-     way to make new friends.                       When a child feels safe and secure, they

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                                                    tured, summer camp is more relaxed than                                                  feel free to explore their interests, to play
riety of activities, all camps offer the op-                                                            Promotes growth in a safe
portunity to make friends, learn new skills         the school routine and provides time and            environment                          and to laugh. Camp gives kids a chance to
and grow as a person. Why is summer                 freedom for spontaneous play.                       Although kids will enjoy the free-   express themselves and learn who they are.

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camp important, and what are the benefits              Free play is important to a child’s de-   dom to play and choose activities that
of summer camp for your kids? Here is our           velopment because they learn to develop      interest them, camp also provides a safe,         Develops lifelong skills

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list of 10 benefits of summer camp:                 creative thinking skills and explore their   comforting and structured environment.            During camp, children participate
      Time for play                                 imagination through play. Playtime cre-      Campers follow a schedule and routine,            in a variety of group activities. For
      During the school year, children              ates a safe place for children to express    which provides a sense of security. This    example, while participating in a sport, a
      are used to the routine of making it          their thoughts and emotions, creating        structure also teaches responsibility and   child learns how to work on a team, com-
to school on time, doing homework and               stronger and happier kids and it’s a fun     self-control.                                                      CONTINUED ON PAGE 22A

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     Ellen M. Whalen, M.D. FAAP                                                                                             Always welcoming new families
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     Amanda Jacobs, M.D. FAAP                                                                            Affiliated with Columbia NY Presbyterian Hospital
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Babies and preschoolers

It’s sleepy time
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         ewborns don’t yet have a sense of day           some parents choose to room-share. Room-
         and night. They sleep around the                sharing is when you place your baby’s crib,
         clock, and because their tiny stom-             portable crib, play yard or bassinet in your
         achs don’t hold enough breast milk              own bedroom instead of in a separate nurs-
or formula to keep them satisfied for long,              ery. This keeps baby nearby and helps with        ondhand smoke increases the risk of SIDS.            Swaddling (wrapping the baby in a light blan-
they wake often to eat — no matter what                  feeding, comforting and monitoring at night.                                                           ket) can also help to soothe a crying baby. For
                                                                                                              · Put your baby to sleep with a pacifier. But
time of day or night it is.                              The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP)                                                               the first months of your baby’s life, spoiling is
                                                                                                           if your baby rejects the pacifier, don’t force it.
                                                         recommends room-sharing without bed-
      How long will my newborn sleep?                                                                      If the pacifier falls out during sleep, you don’t    definitely not a problem. (In fact, newborns
                                                         sharing.                                          have to replace it. If you’re breastfeeding, wait    who are held or carried during the day tend
   Newborns should get 14–17 hours of sleep
                                                            While room-sharing is safe, putting your       until breastfeeding is firmly established.           to have less colic and fussiness.)
over a 24-hour period, says the National
                                                         infant to sleep in bed with you is not. Bed-
Sleep Foundation. Some newborns may sleep                                                                                                                              When should I call the doctor?
                                                         sharing increases the risk of SIDS (sudden in-              Helping your newborn sleep
up to 18–19 hours a day.                                                                                                                                           While most parents can expect their new-
                                                         fant death syndrome) and other sleep-related          Newborns follow their own schedule. Over
   Newborns wake every couple of hours to                                                                                                                       born to sleep or catnap a lot during the day,
                                                         deaths.                                           the next couple of weeks to months, you and
eat. Breastfed babies feed often, about every                                                                                                                   the range of what is normal is quite wide. If
                                                            Follow these recommendations for a safe        your baby will begin to settle into a routine.
two or three hours. Bottle-fed babies tend                                                                                                                      you have questions about your baby’s sleep,
                                                         sleep environment for your little one:                It may take a few weeks for your baby’s
to feed less often, about every three or four                                                                                                                   talk with your doctor.
                                                            · Always place your baby on his or her back    brain to know the difference between night
hours.
   Newborns who sleep for longer stretches
                                                         to sleep, not on the stomach or side. The rate    and day. Unfortunately, there are no tricks                   Sleep and your preschooler
                                                         of SIDS has gone way down since the AAP           to speed this up, but it helps to keep things           Preschoolers need about 11-12 hours of
should be awakened to feed. Wake your
                                                         introduced this recommendation in 1992.           quiet and calm during middle-of-the-night            sleep each day, which can include a nap.
baby every three to four hours to eat until
                                                            · Use a firm sleep surface. Cover the mat-     feedings and diaper changes. Try to keep             There’s wiggle room about exact sleep times
he or she shows good weight gain, which
                                                         tress with a sheet that fits snugly. Make sure    the lights low and resist the urge to play           — the most important thing is to help kids
usually happens within the first couple of
                                                         your crib, bassinet or play yard meets current    with or talk to your baby. This will send            develop good, consistent habits for getting to
weeks. After that, it’s OK to let your baby
                                                         safety standards.                                 the message that nighttime is for sleeping.          sleep.
sleep for longer periods of time at night.
                                                            · Do not put anything else in the crib or      If possible, let your baby fall asleep in the
   The first months of a baby’s life can be                                                                                                                              Benefits of a bedtime routine
                                                         bassinet. Keep plush toys, pillows, blankets,     crib at night so your little one learns that            A bedtime routine is a great way to help
the hardest for parents, who might get up
                                                         unfitted sheets, quilts, comforters, sheepskins   it’s the place for sleep.                            your preschooler get enough sleep. Here are
many times at night to tend to the baby.
                                                         and bumper pads out of your baby’s sleep              Don’t try to keep your baby up during the        a few things to keep in mind when creating
Each baby has a different sleep pattern.
                                                         area.                                             day in the hopes that he or she will sleep bet-      one:
Some start to sleep through the night (for
                                                            · Avoid overheating. Dress your infant for     ter at night. Overly tired infants often have           · Include a winding-down period during
five or six hours at a time) by 2 or 3 months
                                                         the room temperature, and don’t overbundle.       more trouble sleeping at night than those            the half hour before bedtime.
of age, but some don’t.
                                                         Watch for signs of overheating, such as sweat-    who’ve had enough sleep during the day.                 · Stick to a bedtime, alerting your child
       How should babies sleep?                          ing or feeling hot to the touch.                      If your newborn is fussy it’s OK to rock,
  During the first weeks of a baby’s life,                  · Keep your baby away from smokers. Sec-       cuddle and sing as your baby settles down.                              CONTINUED ON THE NEXT PAGE

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CONTINUED FROM THE PREVIOUS PAGE                   has been going full tilt and will need a longer
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                                                   nap, and others when you hear your child
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both half an hour and 10 minutes before-           chattering away, playing through the entire               iste          021
hand.                                              naptime.                                               Reg 2020-2
   · Keep consistent playtimes and mealtimes.                                                              for
   · Avoid stimulants, such as caffeine, near                    Sleeping problems
bedtime.                                              Preschoolers may have nightmares or night
   · Make the bedroom quiet, cozy, and per-        terrors and there may be many nights when
fect for sleeping.                                 they have trouble falling asleep.
   · Use the bed only for sleeping — not for          Create a nighttime kit to keep near your
playing or watching TV.                            child’s bed for these times. The kit might in-

                                                                                                            Early
   · Limit food and drink before bedtime.          clude a flashlight, a favorite book or music to
   · Allow your child to choose which paja-        play. Explain the kit, then put it in a special
mas to wear, which stuffed animal to take to       place where your child can get to it in the
bed, etc.                                          middle of the night.

                                                                                                            Childhood
   · Consider playing soft, soothing music.           Favorite objects like stuffed animals and
   · Tuck your child into bed snugly for a feel-   blankets also can help kids feel safe. If your
ing of security.                                   child doesn’t have a favorite, go shopping
                                                   together to pick out a warm, soft blanket or
                A note on naps
                                                   stuffed animal.
   Most preschoolers do still need naps dur-
ing the day. They tend to be very active —
running around, playing, going to school and
exploring their surroundings — so it’s a good
                                                      Some parents get into the habit of lying
                                                   down next to their preschoolers until they fall
                                                   asleep. While this may do the trick tempo-
                                                                                                            Center
idea to give them a special opportunity to         rarily, it won’t help sleeping patterns in the           The journey starts here…
slow down. Even if your child can’t fall asleep,   long run. It’s important to give comfort and
try to set aside some quiet time during the        reassurance, but kids need to learn how to fall
day for relaxing. (And you’ll probably benefit     asleep independently. Establishing a routine
from a break too!)                                 where you have to be there for your child to
   The best way to encourage napping is to         go to sleep will make it hard for both of you
set up a routine for your child, just as you do    — and be unfair to your child — if you start             A play-centered
for bedtime. Your preschooler, not wanting         leaving beforehand.
to miss out on any of the action, may resist          If you’re worried about your preschooler’s            nursery program for 2s,
a nap, but it’s important to keep the routine      sleeping patterns, talk with your doctor. Al-            3s, and 4s, nurturing
firm and consistent. Explain that this is quiet    though there isn’t one sure way to raise a good
time and that you want your child to start         sleeper, most kids have the ability to sleep
                                                                                                            self-confidence,
out in bed, but that it’s OK to play in the        well and work through any sleeping prob-                 individual growth, and
bedroom quietly if he or she can’t sleep.          lems. The key is to establish healthy bedtime            social development.
   How long should naps last? For however          habits early on.
long you feel your preschooler needs to get           Reprinted with permission from KidsHealth.
some rest. Usually, about an hour is suffi-        For more articles like this, visit KidsHealth.org
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                “Reading is fundamental”             Books recommended by staff             A colorful touch-and-feel book that                  Books recommended by
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                than toys, a time when vid-                                                 “Dr. De Soto” by William Steig
                                                 Self-conscious about his too long, too                                                   “What is Given from the Heart” by
eo games were just coming into play. The                                                    Despite his concern about being eaten
                                              elastic, too patterned neck and tired of                                                  Patricia C. McKissack, newly illustrated by
world has changed but, no matter what,                                                    by his patient, a mouse-dentist knows he
                                              hiding and lamenting, this giraffe meets                                                  April Harrison
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books and reading remain fundamental in       a turtle who needs what he has, and they                                                    For a sweet mother/son snuggle-up
                                                                                          who is suffering from a toothache.
all our lives. There are so many books out    become friends.                                                                           read. “Misery loves company,” Mama says
there to choose from for kids that adults        “Be a Friend” by Salina Yoon               “Chicken Soup With Rice” by Maurice         to James Otis. It’s been a rough couple of
will also enjoy reading to and with young-       Miming, while an extraordinary talent,   Sendak                                        months for them, but Mama says as long as
sters. Enjoy these recommendations from       is a lonely way of communicating. When        A classic with a great rhyming refrain      they have their health and strength, they’re
local experts:                                this young mime meets Joy, his new class-   that toddlers enjoy repeating over and over
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