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UC Merced English Honors Theses Title Asexual Erasure Undone: A Short Literary History of Asexuality in 19th- to 20th-Century Literary Classics Permalink https://escholarship.org/uc/item/5xp1v0kr Author Luce, Savie Publication Date 2021-06-14 Peer reviewed eScholarship.org Powered by the California Digital Library University of California
Asexual Erasure Undone: A Short Literary History of Asexuality in 19th- to 20th-Century Literary Classics by Savie Luce Preface: The Political Discourses Behind Asexuality The world often mistakes silence for contentment, thus overlooking the contention that exists among us. Silence becomes a vessel disguised as peacefulness, carrying with it all the unspoken injustices that occur on a daily basis; it’s the leak in a large boat that no one thinks to look for until the ship has already begun to sink. I, too, grew up in a quiet place. It was a town where I was expected to unobtrusively accept the political discourses around me, either because I was too young to have a say in them or because—as I was so often told—it wasn’t my place. In places like these where little is said about bothersome details, conversations about things like the LGBT+ community weren’t discussed until they became an inconvenience to daily life (or to others that opposed it in the town’s community). This is to say that, growing up, what we didn’t talk about we didn’t see. What we didn’t see needn’t be discussed, and so the vicious cycle continued. I was eleven when I first heard the word ‘gay’, and it was used as an insult between two boys at my elementary school. I had no idea what it meant or why it was an insult, but I was of the understanding that it was a bad thing to be. I, for this reason, was scared to be associated with it. When children are exposed to language like this—coupled with a small community that has
Luce 2 delineated vocal discourse with something unpleasant—how are they to know any better? Moreover, who was the first person to introduce the word ‘gay’ to their son, congratulating its use as an insult without bothering to negotiate its core foundations? This is the importance of language in our daily lives; if no argument is made, there can be no rebuttal to defend such discourses. I was sixteen when I first heard the term ‘asexual’. It was being used in an argument by a high school teacher, who was attempting to discredit asexuality via her own social experiences. She said: “Everyone I’ve ever met who identified as asexual has, at one point or another, either had sex or changed their mind later. In fact, there’s only one scenario that I can think of where a man was so adamant to prove his own asexuality that he surgically removed his own penis. He had it delivered to an adversary on a silver tray, like a dish.” Because of this, my first impressions of asexuality suggested that I would have to mutilate myself in order for my identity to be validated in the eyes of heteronormative society. I did not have the language or the reasoning to know otherwise. While I deeply resonated with asexuality on many levels, it wasn’t presented positively in any of the spoken discourses or studies present in my social or academic life. Like the term ‘gay’, it became an invalidated insult meant to imply prudishness or physical deficit. It was a word given a reprise by someone else controlling the political discourses of my vocabulary, taking the term and redefining it to suit hypersexualized standards. I disagreed with what she had said but because of my lack of evidence, though I offered no opposition to what had been discussed. In a quiet town wherein rebuttal was the loudest noise of all, my silence implied a sort of resignation to those heteronormative ideals.
Luce 3 At the time, I was under the impression that I did not have enough evidence or language to refute these statements. And yet, examples of asexuality continued to present themselves everywhere, especially in books and films wherein I was told there were none. I read many novels and great epics wherein sensuality was assumed or implied when nonsexuality was all that was present, as romance became a sort of misguided indication of sexual behavior. Living within a hypersexual world disregarded these examples and my own asexuality, assuring me that perhaps one day I would be “mature enough” to understand while overlooking explicit examples of nonsexual behavior. Yet, in media and in social discourses people still continued to make claims about the “newness” of asexuality, accrediting this to recent technological advancements that allowed for a modern understanding of the word to blossom in an online platform (Tucker, (A)sexual 2011). Just as romance had (allegedly) alluded to sexual activity in the literature I had read, the newness of asexual discussion began to produce many misconceptions about nonsexual behavior. Many confused it for chastity or celibacy, while others called it an excuse for prudishness. No matter how these ideas were confronted or refuted, it continued to be this ‘new’ idea that bounced between hypersexualized stereotypes while ignoring obvious examples that existed in literature prior to these technological advancements. To someone like me, who was both asexually queer and closeted, this erasure appeared almost deliberate. It was as if the heteronormative and hypersexualized society surrounding me had shut its eyes to the life I lived every day, trying to find new ways to undermine my identity by proposing regulations in the form of inquiries as a means to constrain asexual conduct. Those questions, designed to implement a sense of self-doubt, haunted me with every confrontation:
Luce 4 Would I still be asexual if I had sex? Would I still be asexual for considering trying sex? Can I be asexual and want love at the same time? Why would I, an asexual, pursue a relationship with someone who is not asexual? Moreover, if my feelings towards sexuality should change, was my asexuality valid at all? Did I have a place in the LGBT+ community without sex, or even at pride parades? As sex columnist Dan Savage notes in Angela Tucker’s documentary (A)sexual: “It’s funny to think about, you know. You’ve got the gays marching for the right to be cocksucking homosexuals and then you have the asexuals marching for the right to not do anything, which is hilarious. Like you didn’t need to march for that right, you just needed to stay home and not do anything.” (Tucker 2011) Here, Savage asks the most damning question of all: why march for something that you already have a right to? Yet, the question overlooks the privilege of aligning with the hypersexualized nature of normative society, ignoring the consequences that many face when they fall outside of normative traditions. I was almost twenty before I was able to put into words the nature of my own asexual identity: panromantic graysexual. In doing so, I was forced to face each and every one of these questions, to offer some defense and hope it would be enough. It has become a substantial part of my everyday life, as it continues to affect the way I digest and interpret literature, form romantic relationships, and posit a clear understanding of my own identity. The most frustrating part of all of this was that I saw examples of nonsexuality in almost every reading I’d been assigned in my secondary school experiences, and for all of my silent tolerances I wanted nothing more than to illustrate how the evidence people seemed to be looking for—true examples of asexual behavior prior to the modern era—were all right there.
Luce 5 They called it by different names, sometimes even mistaking it for friendship or homosexuality, but they continued to promote asexual narratives while undermining my own asexual identity. It’s been present without the language available to describe it, and it exists even when rebuttals are not being made in its defence. This analysis is the beginning of a conversation designed to illustrate the asexual individual when heteronormative ideals suggest otherwise. It starts here, no longer silent or passive about the stereotypes that asexuality faces in the literary world.
Luce 6 Introduction: Beginning an Asexual Analysis The historical necessity for a reevaluation of asexuality in its modern definition is mandated through examples of the asexual in between the 19th and 20th-centuries, wherein the term was first coined. As the word, and the asexual spectrum, was repurposed to describe the nuances of the nonsexual behavior, it has been historically overlooked due to erotonormative customs that suppose allosexuality prior to asexual intimacy. Here, the term erotonormative is used to define heteronormative customs surrounding sexuality, placing emphasis on the stereotyped assumption of sexuality prior to any nonsexual behavior. Likewise, the term allosexual is used to describe any persons or characters who regularly experience sexual attraction. Many assume that the word (as well as its modern definition) is the result of technological advancements that have made global communication more easily accessible and effective. However, this is merely one of a plethora of other erotonormative assumptions about the asexual spectrum that will be undone through an asexual analysis of the literary classics of the 19th and 20th-centuries. By focusing on the home or setting of the characters in question, asexuality will present itself through discourses that ignore allosexual stereotypes, privileging the objective evaluation of queerplatonic discourses through the opposition of erotonormative archetypes. These analyses will also take into consideration the differences between romantic intention and sexual attraction, highlighting the differences as a means of illustrating the broadness of the asexual spectrum. Asexual representation is not a method of proscribed behaviors assumed to be sanitized of sex or companionship, but a reflection of the nuance and gray that is present in the spectrum. By highlighting these complexities within works such as Ernest Hemingway’s The Sun Also Rises, Alan Dale’s A Marriage Below Zero, Mary Eleanor Wilkins Freeman’s “Two Friends”, and Kate
Luce 7 Chopin’s The Awakening, the asexual erasure between these 19th and 20th-century classics can be undone from each narrative. Without definition, asexuality was without recognition as a bonafide sexual orientation prior to the 21st-century. When coupled with the lack of technological advancement, which was responsible for most of the conversation surrounding asexuality at the start of the 21st-century, many of the processes necessary in recognizing asexuality within individuals before the modern era were greatly hindered. This, when combined with a rise in technological advancement — which helped with the reassignment of the term—has left many under the impression that asexuality is a new-age idea of sexuality. Due to its lack of recognition and improper reassignment of terminology, many assumed that either it must not have existed before the rise in technological advancements or that it is only present in young adults (Decker 68). In a time without proper language to associate many of the subsets and characteristics associated with asexuality, there simply wasn’t language available to define the sexual orientation preceding these instances. This is not to say that examples of asexuality did not exist until the 21st-century as the word began to gain traction, but that the language available to prescribe an accurate understanding of this behavior was often confused asexuality with another, less accurate term instead. While the nationality of the novels and short stories may not affect how the asexual analysis of the texts is conducted, the renowned nature of the classics permits a general assumption that—as the texts are well-known in academic study—many have either heard of or read the texts. Without the proper language to describe or expose asexual relationships in these works, they have been historically subjected to erasure and misinterpretation as they were reexamined via social norms that privilege erotonormativity, or the hypersexual discourses of
Luce 8 heteronormative society. As Elizabeth Hanna Hanson notes in her essay “Toward an Asexual Narrative Structure”, sexual attraction has evolved to become a “universal and uniform” presupposition in society that she refers to as erotonormativity (345). Erotonormativity first assumes allosexuality, the definition used to describe people who experience sexual attraction, and therefore privileges this above asexual supposition (see Hille). Moreover, it assumes that other examples of allosexuality (such as homosexuality or lesbianism) are more likely than asexual outcomes. Asexual relationships are commonly mistaken or mislabeled today as simply queer, heteronormative (when the participants are of opposite sexes), or celibate when the reality of their content is devoid of any sexual interest or desire. Without personal understanding or insight into the relationship, it can be easy to misinterpret things like this. In absence of proper identifiers, it becomes even harder to assess the true nature of the relationship, if there is one. Such can be said for the literary texts analyzed in the following segment of this project. As will be demonstrated in this project, the omission of erotonormative stereotypes and added prominence on the physical location of housing illustrates nonsexual behavior. Until proven allosexual, allosexuality will not take precedence over asexual assumption. By proving that these renowned texts can contain examples of asexual relationships prior to the modern redefinition of the term, it is possible to undo the historical erasure that the absence of such language has caused. This change in perspective, an asexual analysis of these texts using the modern understanding of the term, allows for new relationships and information to be derived from work that has been studied for centuries, exposing the possibility that asexuality exists as freely and naturally in literature as it does in day-to-day life.
Luce 9 Words without definition often lack presence in literary and historical recognition, and the same can be said for asexuality. By reestablishing a definition for it—as without definition, the historical erasure of the subject is to be expected—asexual recognition becomes easier to recognize in literature. Definitions are beneficial in this way, as they align with various explanations for specific types of behavior (especially those that often defy social expectations). This sort of concept is discussed in depth by philosophers such as Michel Foucault, who critiques the process of definition as one that constricts any literary concept it attempts to explain (62). However, the creation of a word also implies the constraint of its mobility in our social lives. As was noted in his book, The History of Sexuality, the creation of a word—especially when that word has connotations towards sexuality—is parallel to the confession of its significance (Foucault 59). It is a confession that creates an awareness of the term in question that resonates in significance as much as if a person were to come out1. In this way, while confession announces a set of social regulations by which a person might identify themselves, their confession creates and utilizes the language necessary to carry on modes of analysis in a literary mode. As Foucault wrote: “One confesses in public and in private, to one’s parents, one’s educators, one’s doctor, to those one loves; one admits to oneself, in pleasure and in pain, things it would be impossible to tell anyone else, the things people write books about” (59). To write books—to start a literary conversation—one needs the language to do so. And to have language, one needs to define it. The definition of asexuality came about in the 18th-century, defining the term as an organism that reproduces without the need of another organism2. Though created to explain and 1 The phrase “come out” refers to the process by which a non-heteronormative person might announce or confess their sexual or gender orientation. 2 (www.etymonline.com)
Luce 10 further scientific data, the meaning of the word has shifted from a purely scientific standpoint to a socialized one, which mandates its redefinition in a modern context. From the late 20th-century onwards, the modern use of the word describes a sexual orientation, not the processes of reproduction in an organism (Mollet 78). However, this is a rudimentary start for defining the term as a whole, as Ela Przybylo notes in her book Asexual Erotics that nonsexuality serves as a better way to define the term, as “it helps make sense of the ways that various articulations and iterations of low sexual desire and sexual absence, although they have always existed, (as they) have not always been nameable as ‘asexuality’ or coalesced under an identity of asexuality that has subjective meaning for those who use it” (29). Shifting from a focus on what is lacking in sexuality suggests that there is a defect in asexual behavior, as it privileges and normalizes allosexual behavior while negating (Przybylo 4). By this, one can defer away from a generic and overly simplified definition—which focuses on what is lacking in a person—by reflecting on what is avoided or preferred within any one person. The use of the term ‘nonsexual’ detracts from the overly sexualized norms of heteronormative society, exposing how hypersexualization has become a socialized expectation while also avoiding any accusation of ‘lacking’ or ‘debilitation’ in an individual. Normativity in any form creates a predisposition in social understanding, which implies a lack of general curiosity in the matter. The supposition of heteronormativity proposes an understanding that without confrontation to the normative order, there will be a lack of educational or academic representation on the subject (Hanson 344). As she states in her essay: This neglect is symptomatic of a wider cultural propensity toward asexual erasure. We are disposed to deal with absences of any kind by installing content in them in order to
Luce 11 recuperate them as presences—a process which can make asexuality difficult to articulate, and conversely, the only means by which it can be articulated. (344) Affirming both what Ela Przybylo and Hanson suggest when they exploit the lack of asexual representation in academic literature and education: any vacancy of conversation only impedes social ability to advocate for the subject in question. By creating a sense of normativity around this lack of dialogue—through the suggestion that there is no other dialogue to be had— academia has formed a stunt in asexual understanding prior to the solidification of the term’s definition. As a sexual orientation, much of asexual visibility is accredited to recent technological advancements made at the end of the 20th-century, as the birth of the internet enabled social media platforms to expand communicative efforts between more people across the globe (Decker 68). Be that as it may, much of the misinformation about asexuality begins with the misdirection of information based on assumption. From the creation of the term ‘asexual’ in the 18th-century, as it was used to define asexual reproduction, asexuality has transcended its original definition and grown to encompass a whole new genre of literature that wasn’t properly redefined until the early 21st-century3. Those brief centuries were the predecessors of an entire branch of literature for the LGBTQ+ community that has been otherwise camouflaged in erasure. This is not to say that asexual relationships did not exist or were not present in the literary prior to the 19th- century, but that the repurposed language to make such discussion possible had been otherwise absent before that timeline4. 3 (www.etymonline.com) 4 (www.etymonline.com)
Luce 12 Given sources such as the Asexuality Visibility and Education Network (AVEN), an online platform designed to house conversations about asexuality, the technological movement following the end of the 20th-century has sparked more opportunities for others to discuss asexual preferences more clearly. As an article called “Asexual Resonances: Tracing a Queerly Asexual Archive”, written by Ela Przybylo and Danielle Cooper, states: Asexuality’s existing archives can be usefully understood as circulating within two predominant bodies of thinking. The first, the scientific literature on asexuality, consolidates a truth archive. This expanding body of work, while politically significant for increasing asexual visibility, legibility, and legitimacy, also operates as the ‘truth’ of asexuality, as the proven fact. Crucially, the truth archive informs and is informed by asexuality’s vernacular archive, that body of examples that is more fluid and changing, but that still capitulates, too often, to certain exclusionary mechanisms and parameters of exception. (300) The validation, advancement, and history of sexuality is contingent upon articles that scientifically separate the biological processes from the socialized understanding of the word, illustrating that asexuality qualifies as a sexuality rather than a disability. This is what the authors refer to as the “truth archive” (300). By proxy, the vernacular archive contains texts and articles which embody the content of asexual conversation or fiction but that exist in the form of literature, online content, or blogs. AVEN is one such vernacular archive for asexual literature, furthering the contemporary definition of the term through an online platform (Przybylo and Cooper 300). This terminology is necessary and vital in differentiating potential archives for asexual resources, illustrating how both archives are contingent on the modern century, though it creates a predicament for asexual literature prior to the 21st-century. In order to source out
Luce 13 examples of asexual relationships in 19th to 20th-century literature, older literary texts must be sourced out as though they are a part of the vernacular archive, whose fluidity is supported and benefitted by the truth archive mentioned in Przybylo and Cooper’s article (300). Structuring an Asexual Narrative In each of the following chapters of this project, the various facets of asexuality will begin with a detailed description and illustration of nonsexual behavior as it combats allosexual expectation in a literary context. Woven into the subsections of each chapter will be the literary analyses of Ernest Hemingway’s The Sun Also Rises, Alan Dale’s A Marriage Below Zero, Mary Eleanor Wilkins Freeman’s short story “Two Friends”, and Kate Chopin’s The Awakening, supporting the chapters with illustrations of the asexual behavior provided by each independent literary classic. As the methodology of asexual analysis relies heavily on the removal of erotonormative assumptions from these literary classics, Chapter 1: Undressing Erotonormative Stereotypes will begin this analysis through the exemplification of the social norms that camouflage nonsexual behavior within these works of literature. Ernest Hemingway’s The Sun Also Rises will occupy the first subsection, illustrating the complex relationship between allosexual norms, masculinity, and disability while also highlighting the constant scenery shift within the novel. Chapter 2: The Asexual Spectrum will follow by expanding the archive of terminology available for asexual behavior, furthering this project’s ability to identify nonsexual relationships in the literature present through the development of varying projections of asexuality that often interact with sex. In doing so, this chapter confronts the sanitized ideas of the asexual spectrum while also validating a nonsexual relationship with the act of sex. Thus, the following subsection
Luce 14 of Alan Dale’s A Marriage Below Zero will provide concrete examples of the terminology provided. Nevertheless, rather than moving on to a different topic of conversation, Chapter 2: The Asexual Spectrum will continue into a different subsection following this analysis of Alan Dale’s text, discussing the various synonyms available for asexuality that are often misdiagnosed as homosexuality or friendship as a result of erotonormative assumptions. These synonyms will then be instantiated in the final subsection of this chapter devoted to Mary Eleanor Wilkins Freeman’s short story “Two Friends”. The final chapter of this project, Chapter 3: The Demi Rhetoric, will bring into discussion the relationship between romance and asexuality as it arises in literature. This chapter complicates the relationship between attraction and the asexual spectrum through the proposal that though not all romantic interests allude to sexual ones, those which exemplify a consistent relationship with sex might not either. Kate Chopin’s The Awakening is instrumental to the illustration of this relationship, as it will project the development of an asexual identity through her complex emotional and romantic relationships with others. As a result, asexuality does not typify itself through isolating behavior, but by defying social norms that privilege the individual.
Luce 15 Chapter 1: Undressing Erotonormative Stereotypes Before the reassignment of the definition of the term ‘asexual’ from its scientific roots to its references as a sexual orientation, this concept was without proper definition and context for an unprecedented period of time. This shift in language—from biological science to sexual preference—exposes the provision of definition and the reassignment of that definition is as effective as relocating the absence of one. As Michel Foucault notes within his book, The History of Sexuality: It is often said that we have been incapable of imagining any new pleasures. We have at least invented a different kind of pleasure, the pleasure of knowing truth, of discovering and exposing it, the fascination of seeing and telling it, of captivating and capturing others by it, of confiding in it in secret, of luring it out in the open—specific pleasure of the true discourse of pleasure. (71) This quote makes note of the lack of vocabulary surrounding the asexual vernacular archive prior to the 21st-century adaptation of the word into a vehicle designed to describe nonsexuality, thereby suggesting that the application of modern definitions to older subjects and literary works will be able to uncover examples or situations of asexuality that were misinterpreted as cases of prudishness, asocialness, or celibacy within the characters in focus. Such things are often modern stereotypes that misinform others of asexuality. Rumors or notions like those mentioned are designed to discredit the person identifying as asexual. Moreover, the claim of asexuality is one that is constantly confronted as it develops or evolves within a person or character. Certain social expectations are assumed and continuously challenged after asexuality has made itself known, which scrutinizes all other relationships—sexual or asexual—between the individual and others.
Luce 16 For example, should a person use asexuality as a reason to avoid sexual interactions, one might assume that the statement is a false claim designed to disguise prudishness. This assumption is often incited by a general erasure of asexual behavior by mistaking it for chastity and the demonization of celibate behavior. This project takes care to distinguish the terms ‘asexual’ and ‘celibate’ carefully, as the latter of the two suggests that nonsexual behavior arises out of choice rather than orientation. Ela Przybylo takes care to recognize the distinctions between the two, as she makes reference to the feminist history behind asexuality (44). Celibacy, unlike asexuality, is a constant choice made by an individual to maintain nonsexual activity, typically for the benefit of the practitioner (Przybylo 39). Oftentimes, celibate individuals actually express both desire and sexual attraction towards others while engaging in celibacy, as will be noted in Ela Przybylo’s book that this is often “a ‘misinterpretation of asexuality as the honorable achievement or performance of sexual restraint’” (104). In actuality, celibacy is the withholding of sex or sensual urges out of personal choice or, as is seen in the history of asexuality as it appears in political discourses, as a result of social or political boycotting (Przybylo 44). This was referred to as political asexuality in the early 1960s (Przybylo 39). As a gendered movement throughout the 1960s and 1970’s, this movement encouraged women to boycott sexuality as a response to the systemic misogyny that confined—and in some ways, continues to confine—women. While it is admirable that the term ‘asexual’ here is serving a different literary definition than its predecessor, it is important to note that this understanding of asexuality is not the definition that will be utilized or analyzed in literature between 19th and 20th-century literature. This is because political asexuality is being used here as a synonym for celibacy; to say that the two are the same is to claim that asexual orientation is a conscious choice, making it less of a sexual orientation and more of a lifestyle.
Luce 17 Given this and the hypersexual nature of the modern era, it is not uncommon for asexual individuals to be accused or confused for celibate individuals invoking a period of chastity when the political discourse of the term suggests as much. To avoid stereotyped assumptions over the duration of this project, political asexuality will be recognized as a form of political celibacy that differs from the modern understanding of asexuality as a valid sexual orientation. Given the lack of language available to describe asexuality at the time, this assumption is not an uncommon one. In much of the literature that will be analyzed in this project, the majority of the homoromantic relationships present were first accused of homosexuality as a means of explaining the intimate nature of these partnerships (or the lack thereof). In this way, many asexual characters can be easily misidentified as lesbian or gay, when the nonsexual nature of their relationship might suggest otherwise. Without language to properly distinguish terms such as ‘lesbian’ from ‘homoromantic’, asexual erasure in literature often appears as unconscious mislabeling rather than malicious censorship. While the nature of asexuality can be both varied and complex, the method by which asexuality will be uncovered in literary fashion will confront the already present erotonormative and heteronormative stereotypes present within each assumption. By stripping away unjust normative assumptions that are designed to critique the nonsexual nature of asexuality, while placing emphasis on the local which contains or harbors such relationships, the romantic and emotional intimacies of an asexual or queerplatonic relationship will be given visibility even without the proper language to define the nature of such relationships. In doing so, it will be uncovered that asexuality does not appear complacent within narratives that are not overtly romantic, but furthers the plot and social relationships present within those narratives.
Luce 18 While scholars such as Elizabeth Hanna Hanson argue that asexuality would create a disjointed presence within the literary narrative, stating that the “stagnant” nature of asexuality will disrupt personal and social growth within a fictional setting, authors like Ela Przybylo combat such assumptions by illustrating how asexuality promotes growth and expansion rather than confinement (103). Hanson states in her essay "Toward an Asexual Narrative Structure": "Asexuality, as the nonexperience of sexual attraction, has no object, no aim, no tendency toward movement in any direction, which is precisely what makes the asexual possibility so disruptive in narrative" (350). The author states blatantly that she prefers to correlate asexuality structurally with stasis as it disrupts the general pace or movement of the surrounding narrative (349). However, her understanding of asexuality as devoid of motion or intention reduces asexuality past its most basic component: humanity. Asexuality, just like any other sexual orientation, cannot exist separate from the human condition. While it is true that, by itself, asexuality is incapable of having aim or motive, people and fictional characters almost certainly do. The use of the word ‘stasis’ conforms to a stereotype perpetuated by erotonormative society, invoking the idea that heteronormative society moves forward with allosexuality. Due to the fact that asexuality is often mistaken for the lack of sexuality, this idea creates the impression that these individuals are at a social standstill in comparison to their peers. The hypocrisy in these stereotypes remains in how sexuality is presented to the youth. Ela Przybylo confronts this matter within a chapter of her book Asexual Erotics called “Growing into Asexuality”, wherein she mentions that: Ironically, even while childhood is desexualized, and sexual education tends to erase sexuality out of curricula, there is a hidden curriculum, which takes for granted that children will transform into sexual adults. Expectations that adults will grow into being
Luce 19 sexual—that is, grow into being interested in sex and propelled by sexual desire—are grounded in the ideas about the naturalness of sexuality… In other words, the ‘straightening effects’ that take place in childhood and youth are entangled in a developmental narrative that sees sexuality as its end goal, even while sanitizing sexual expression along the way. (93) In stating this, the text highlights the sanitization of sexuality from academic and social curriculums as it leaves both people and characters alike no choice but to grow into their own sexual identities, as the stagnant nature of sexuality presents itself in education as hyposexual while adopting hypersexual expectations (Przybylo 96). In this way, asexuality—just like homosexuality and heterosexuality—becomes a thing to grow into as well, as the term does not allude to a lack of sexuality but the nonsexual nature of their attractions to others. Because the definition of asexuality within this project does not define asexuality through what it is lacking, there is nothing to lose or to stagnate the presence of asexuality in any social or literary contexts. To conduct an asexual analysis of certain characters, defining asexuality through their relationships in a literary narrative, it will not be necessary to observe or exploit how such characters disjoint the narrative but rather how their presence or opposition in the text better defines them by pushing forward their independence and identification of self. In this way, the stereotyped stasis of asexual behavior will not be used to detect examples of asexuality, but rather a rejection of the erotonormativity that subdues introspective growth or change (which can be seen as acceptance) within some characters of a literary narrative. To be plain, given that asexuality is expressed by how a nonsexual person grows into and adapts to their sexuality, this change will affect and transform the literary narratives of each and every character included in
Luce 20 this project’s analysis. To do so, the erotonormative stereotypes must be stripped from the analysis, which will be focused on the setting which contains the character’s narrative. In first supposing that allosexuality is a fallacy without further textual evidence, this analysis will illustrate how deeply erotonormativity relies on these stereotyped assumptions. To remove erotonormative assumptions from a literary narrative—as they first perceive a relationship or pairing to be inherently sexual—the opposite must be done with each character and relationship in the novels and short stories discussed. Therefore, until some sort of sexual attraction is explicitly stated or exemplified within each text, the assumption posited will be that there is none. As these observations will be based around the home or setting that each character resides in, the space which houses their close or intimate relationships will be scrutinized for the explicit sexual conduct that erotonormativity assumes. The image of a home signifies the independence of an individual; in an asexual narrative, the people included in this setting, whether it be mobile or not, should be kept under careful consideration in an analysis, as the home literally and symbolically draws space between social norms, civic obligations, and their own values. The space through which an asexual person grows and changes is transformative in a literary narrative. A great deal of asexual terminology revolves around where the people or characters reside, using the image of shared space to represent commitment in the place of erotonormative standards. When the space housing these erotornormative stereotypes combats social transition, the relationship between oneself and any underlying preferences becomes clearer to distinguish. One such stereotype that often combats medical and social discourses in this way is the suggestion that asexuality is a mental or physical disability or something caused by disability. Such
Luce 21 statements reduce asexual behavior to a treatable disorder which can be remedied. In positing this idea, erotonormativity becomes a clinical problem to be corrected by society, privileging the erotization of normative behavior while also proposing a hazardous deficit in nonsexuality. However, as will be discussed in the following section analyzing the asexual nature of Ernest Hemingway’s The Sun Also Rises, a very real example of physical disability is used to proactively develop an asexual narrative that supports the idea that sexuality is fluid and independent of physical condition, whilst also negotiating the hazards of nonsexuality. From Impotence to Asexuality in Hemingway’s The Sun Also Rises Ernest Hemingway’s The Sun Also Rises (1926) demonstrates the fluidity of sexuality, as Jake Barnes exemplifies the process through which one subverts erotonormative expectations by being physically unable to conform to them, as a physical injury from his service in war prevents him from consummating any relationship. Through the discourses offered by Ela Przybylo in her book, Asexual Erotics and her essay “Masculine Doubt and Sexual Wonder: Asexually-Identified Men Talk About Their (A)sexualities”, the consequences of asexual fluidity in conjunction with intersectional disability prompts a heteronormative critique of this transition as it begins to oppose those erotonormative ideals. This leads to the fetishization of the asexual entity seen within Jake, as is discussed within Karli Cernakowski’s essay, “Spectacular Asexuals: Media Visibility and Cultural Fetish”. In addition to this, the emphasis placed on constant movement and travel within the novel’s narrative thus dissociates the character from being able to ground his identity or home in one space while placing attention on key figures that keep acquaintances with him despite this constant state of motion. His transition from impotence to asexuality arises in the heteroromantic relationship that deteriorates between himself and his love interest, Lady
Luce 22 Brett Ashley, as she begins pursuing other relationships to compensate for the lack of sexual attraction posed by Jake. As the character of Jake Barnes struggles to come to terms with a wound he received while serving in the war—one which incapacitates his ability to have or initiate sex—his relationship with one Lady Brett changes dramatically due to the lack of sexual content between them. As Lady Brett’s adamant promiscuity demands the heteronormative reciprocation of sexual interest in her suitors, of which Jake was previously one, his inability to adhere to those erotonormative regimens rejects these constructs in an indisputable fashion. As she rejects his advances following the accident, Jake continues to pine for Lady Brett despite his condition; his advances appear entirely romantic, with some emphasis placed on intimate closeness such as kissing and cuddling (Hemingway 26). While his physical disability prevents him from being able to reconcile his relationship with her (which can only be done physically and via sex), his asexuality merely becomes a more dominant and noticeable presence in their relationship following the accident which made him sexually inept. Such can be seen in this section of the text, wherein Jake states to Lady Brett: “‘...What happened to me is supposed to be funny. I never think about it’” (Hemingway 26). Though his condition suggests that his asexuality is thoroughly clinical, the narrative of the novel treats Jake Barnes’s impotence as a defining characteristic of his construct; it is something he must grow into and accept, demonstrating the fluidity of sexuality in a medicinal way. As Julie Decker notes in her book The Invisible Orientation: Sometimes disabilities and health conditions can affect or be related to the lack of libido, lack of interest in sex, or lack of passion for or ability to engage in sex, but if this is the case for a person who self-describes as asexual, there is really no practical reason to say
Luce 23 that person’s experience of asexuality is less legitimate. Everyone is affected by their physical existence, and asexual is what we call someone who isn’t experiencing sexual attraction to others, regardless of why. (Decker 80) Here, the same logic can be applied to the case of Jake Barnes, with the exception of his self- proclaimed asexuality. Given that the modern understanding of the term ‘asexual’ hadn’t been solidified during the 20th-century period that The Sun Also Rises was published, such a statement would have been impossible. Moreover, there is no need to illustrate the absence of Jake’s sexual attraction towards Lady Brett, as the lack of reciprocation towards her sexual advances (due to this hindrance) maintain his romantic attraction towards her, despite their sexual incompatibility, wherein Jake does not lament his inability to have sex with her, but her rejection of their romantic compatibility in response to his asexual condition. As the subject of Jake’s injury—or lack of sexual ability—is discussed very little, the plot of The Sun Also Rises accentuates the romantic and platonic relationships taking place between Jake and other characters. Though Lady Brett’s physical attraction to men perpetuates her interest in Jake, his interest in her is maintained through their constant emotional and romantic semantics. For this reason, there is a narrative push towards romantic intention with an unrequited commitment due to the lack of sexual compatibility between Jake and his romantic interest. The differences between romantic and sexual attraction within Jake Barnes emerge out of necessity, as sexuality is no longer a heteronormative choice available to him. Ergo, the heteroromantic attraction Jake exhibits towards Lady Brett is highlighted through the injury that renders him nonsexual (medicinally influencing his asexual nature). Subsequently, the fluidity of his sexuality illustrates itself, creating a correlated relationship between the war-wound and his
Luce 24 current sexual identity as it results in an intersectional asexual entity. As Ela Przybylo notes in her book, Asexual Erotics: Broadening the archive around asexuality involves thinking about asexuality intersectionality, questioning why asexuality can only “count” if it is a born-this-way type of sexual orientation, allowing for (a)sexual fluidity over the lifespan, and focusing on queer and feminist representations of asexuality in particular (15). Keeping this in mind, the intersectional relationship that forms is a combination of Jake Barnes’s disability with his newfound asexual orientation, as it places more emphasis on his heteroromantic desire to be with the character of Lady Brett. However, she chooses not to commit to their relationship forthrightly—or the potential relationship—given his inability to reciprocate her sexual advances. While Jake’s attitude and general emotional compatibility with Lady Brett are unchanged, this change in his physical selection creates a tension between the two that is constantly pressured by Lady Brett through her heightened focus on sex. However, this is perplexed by the fact that Jake does not explicitly lament his inability to have sex with her, nor his sudden lack of sexual attraction, but rather that their relationship isn’t sufficiently satisfactory within the nonsexual limits it has been confined to; while he demonstrates a desire for closeness and intimacy, Jake never overtly declares a desire to have started—or to maintain—a sexual relationship with her (Hemingway 26). In response to Lady Brett’s desires, Jake even notes: “I never used to realize it, I guess5. I try and play it along and not make trouble for people. I probably never would have had any trouble if I hadn’t run into Brett… I suppose she only wanted what she couldn’t have. Well, people were that way… The Catholic Church had an 5 His war wound.
Luce 25 awfully good way of handling all that. Good advice, anyway. Not to think about it” (Hemingway 31). Lady Brett’s attraction to Jake in this way is fetishizing his asexual nature, creating a compulsory romantic friendship with him while acknowledging that his sexuality is no longer aligned with hers. Moreover, her monogamous views of romantic relationships limit her ability to compromise or negotiate with his newfound asexuality (Hemingway 31). This is touched on by Karli Cerankowski as well in her essay “Spectacular Asexuals: Media Visibility and Cultural Fetish”, wherein she states: “Fixation is fixed on the body in order to make that body into the same and the familiar. There is a demand to know the details of the sexual workings and experiences of that body precisely to place sex and sexual desire onto the body that resists it.” In representing Jake’s character like this, “the asexual body becomes a thing to be conquered” (Cerankowski 146). The dissonance instigated between both Jake and Lady Breton arises through a show of sexual incompatibility, and as a result, critiques Jake’s masculinity through a show of what part sexual attraction plays in his normative lifestyle. As is noted in Ela Przybylo’s essay, “Masculine Doubt and Sexual Wonder: Asexually-Identified Men Talk About Their (A)sexualites”: Manliness is thus ultimately bound up with not only having sex but also with ostentatiously performing an interest in sex when among other men… The participants thus draw a direct connection between sex, sexual performance, and what it means to be a man. (232-233) This section of the text highlights how the cultural discourses segregate the gendered constructs which inform erotonormative expectations. Though Jake was previously informed by those erotonormative standards, his newfound position as an asexual entity provokes the fetishization
Luce 26 of his sexual impotence through the criticism of his own manhood. Moreover, the implication that a structured sense of his masculinity is dependent on sexual performance creates a goal- oriented perspective of sex that is predominantly furthered by erotonormative standards (Przybylo 234). By linking the discourses of romantic and sexual tension between the two through the focus of how the two follow one another throughout the narrative of the novel, the distance that these characters fail to put between them only heightens the romantic, though nonsexual relationship they share (on account of Jake’s asexuality). Given the unlocalized nature of the narrative—as the plot takes place in a number of countries, hotels, and estates—the nonsexual nature of the plot is accentuated through the chase situated between Jake and Lady Brett. Though Book 1 of The Sun Also Rises takes place primarily in Paris, France, the second book within the novel is situated within Pamplona, Spain. While the two are not explicitly together during the entirety of this journey, they follow one another from place to place, oftentimes only journeying at the recommendation of the other (Hemingway 82). The two follow one another from vacation to vacation, primarily journeying to various cities and resorts in Spain. Ironically, though the two try—and fail—to maintain a non-romantic friendship, their social discourses force them to constantly be within the conjoined spaces that the two always seem to find themselves within. Moreover, despite the monogamous and non- compromising nature of Lady Brett’s romantic and sexual discourses, her involvement with several other characters does not detract from the physical as well as the emotional closeness she shares with Jake (Hemingway 31). The lack of commitment illustrated between the two furthers with each change in scenery, as the transnational scenery of the narrative does not deter the two from maintaining the romantic attachment the two have. By placing emphasis on the fact that
Luce 27 each of these suitors, Jake included, are bound together by civil and social discourses as opposed to literal housing (and by proxy, the financial constraints that accompany those housing developments), the narrative places focus on the intimate connection between Jake and Lady Brett through the suggestion that no matter the location, their romantic connection (as well as their nonsexual one) would bring the two together through the sheer force of their attraction to one another. This discourse is commented upon freely by Jake himself, who states that, “‘You can’t get away from yourself by moving from one place to another. There’s nothing to that’” (Hemingway 11). While in some respects this refers to his relationship with Lady Brett, this also draws attention to Jake’s newfound asexual identity and its unchanging—though nevertheless correlated—relationship with travel. Ernest Hemingway’s novel The Sun Also Rises posits a nonsexual discourse that subverts both erotonormative and heteronormative expectations by implementing an intersectional narrative within Jake Barnes that is both disabled and asexual. As both Ela Przybylo’s book Asexual Erotics and essay “Masculine Doubt and Sexual Wonder: Asexually-Identified Men Talk About Their (A)sexualities” note, the combination of these attributes draws attentions to the masculine ideals upheld by such norm—which comment on Jake’s masculinity—thusly leading to the fetishization of the asexual narrative discussed within Karli Cerankowski’s essay, “Spectacular Asexuals: Media Visibility and Cultural Fetish”. As the two characters find themselves bound to one another through their constant struggle with romantic compatibility (as it is countered by sexual incompatibility), the ever-changing scenery of the plot highlights the social discourses which bind the two together through their attraction. Though incompatible, the war between romantic intention and sexual ability persists within a nonsexual narrative that illustrates the most tenacious aspects of the asexual identity: fluidity does not imply
Luce 28 changeability, though this is a common misconception of erotonormative ideals.
Luce 29 Chapter 2: The Asexual Spectrum The importance of defining asexuality in terms of its nonsexual nature is exemplified in what is present within a literary narrative, in that detracts from erotonormativity while also emphasizing the romantic or social interactions within a narrative, as Ela Przybylo notes within Asexual Erotics that “by using the language of ‘sexual attraction,’ asexuality is granted visibility alongside other sexual orientations that likewise pivot the criterion of ‘sexual attraction’” (4). However, the spectrum of sexuality is nuanced and not always devoid of sexual content. By this, the term ‘asexual’ becomes a spectrum which is full of “gray areas” (Decker 35). Best noted in the introductory sections of the book: For some people, sexual identity is very simple. It fits easily into well-defined boxes and is uncomplicated to describe. It’s not confusing to experience because it’s common and well represented in culture and media; it’s easy to know what to look for in a partner, the sorts of sexual experiences the relationship might lead to are predictable. But gray areas exist in all orientations. (35) Such gray is often found in asexuality, a variance which does not invalidate the term but rather expands upon the spectrum of asexual orientation. Terms which are often associated with or included under the spectrum of asexuality are gray-asexuality and demisexuality. Gray- asexuality, also referred to as graysexuality, is used to describe individuals who “primarily live with an asexual experience of the world, but can experience or have experienced sexual attraction and wish to acknowledge it in their label” (Decker 36). This is a more complex understanding of asexuality, as it implies a certain amount of inconsistency in terms of how a
Luce 30 person relates to the concept of sexual desire. Typically, this is defined by the specifics of a person’s relationship with attraction, varying from (but not limited to) the following examples: ■ They feel sexual attraction, but it is weak ■ They go through phases of feeling sexual attraction and phases of not feeling it ■ They feel attractions but are unsure of whether they are sexual attractions ■ They get caught up in another person’s sexual desire and enjoy it vicariously but don’t feel it intrinsically ■ They only find a tiny sliver of the population sexually attractive ■ They find people sexy but have no attraction to them6 ■ They find people sexy but have no physical reaction to them ■ They find people sexy but are unable or unwilling to pursue someone as a partner (Decker 37) It is crucial to note that in each of these examples wherein sexual attraction or desire is present, its inconsistency or scarceness is what proposes its asexual relationship to the individual. Of course, as is wont with any person, declaring—or as Foucault would state, confessing—a sexual orientation is an introspective action which can only be determined by the individual in question. Within the literature, this suggests that any and all literature which outlines a relationship relating to asexuality might not be featured in the traditional sense of the word. The division of sensuality and romanticism are clearly outlined, distinguishing yet another gray element of asexuality: how romanticism rejects the implication of sexual content. 6 This is also known as ‘aesthetic attraction’ (Decker 6).
Luce 31 This divergence between romanticism and overt sensuality creates a variety of other labels often found in the gray areas of asexuality. As Decker notes in her book, “some people misinterpret aesthetic appreciation, romantic attraction, or sexual arousal for sexual attraction”, highlighting another common misconception of sexuality: that romantic orientation coincides with sexual attraction (6). In this way, a person with heteroromantic interest—or who is romantically interested in those of the opposite sex—should not be presumed to also be heterosexual. It can be perfectly plausible for someone who is heteroromantic to be asexual, as it is common to combine the two orientation descriptors (Decker 36). These romantic descriptors are commonly used by an individual to distinguish the nature of their romantic pursuits—of any—when that individual also identifies with a label on the asexual spectrum. Other romantic terms commonly used in reference to this are: homoromantic, biromantic, polyromantic, panromantic, grayromantic, demiromantic, and aromantic. Homoromanticism is used to describe an individual who is romantically attracted to those of the same sex, while biromanticism is used to describe an individual attracted to at least two or more sexes. Polyromanticism describes a person attracted romantically to many sexes, while panromanticism refers to a person who can be romantically attracted to anyone, regardless of sex. As was discussed previously, the concept of ‘gray’ in any orientation implies a variance in how a person perceives or experiences some form of attraction. Likewise, a person who identifies with grayromanticism might only experience romantic attraction under very specific circumstances with a considerable amount of fluidity as to how or when this attraction might occur. Often, the term grayromanticism is further specified to include a preferred gender as well, such as the example of a gray-biromantic asexual individual. This can be used to describe someone who experiences grayromantic tendencies towards at least two sexes while on the asexual spectrum.
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