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• We are an organisation for Christian Women linked in our belief in marriage and family life • Our activities are spiritual, intellectual and social • We meet in local branches, regions and nationally • We become friends with shared interests and common values, supporting and encouraging one another • We are ecumenical, and span all ages • Every member matters Alternative Fellowship Prayer Lord we ask you to watch over our Fellowship and to direct its purposes, Women To be at the centre of all its activities in Fellowship and to fulfil its prayers. welcome you Make it outward looking, compassionate and caring, and enable its members to be united in its aims. www.womeninfellowship.org.uk May the Holy Spirit’s power guide and sustain us and His energy renew and inspire us. For Christ’s sake. Amen
CONTENTS PAGE 32 Stour Valley I Central Chairman’s Letter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2 Executive Committee . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 New Members of Executive . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5 Editor’s Message . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6 National Events and Diary. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7 Donations/Insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10 Treasurer’s Report . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11 Financial Statement . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12 PAGE 24 Fellowship Retreat . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14 National Prayer Hour . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15 Cheltenham I St Christopher’s Report . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17 Dame Cicely Saunders . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19 Branch reports . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20-36 From the Grapevine Archive . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37 Branch Chairmen . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 38 Branch Secretaries . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 40 Scattered Branch List . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 42 Scattered Branch Report . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 43 In Memoriam . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 44 Prayer Sheet. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 45 Out of Lockdown Poem . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 47 PAGE 23 Literature . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 48 Bristol III 1 G R A P E V I N E – Summer 2021
CENTRAL CHAIRMAN’S LETTER Dear Members, organisation? I This has been a year of ups and downs for everyone. sincerely hope Challenge, excitement, emotional times, but above so. The leaflets all, it has meant we have had time to think. which come with this copy I have thought long and hard about what Women in of Grapevine Fellowship means to me and I have come to the give you a way conclusion it makes me feel comfortable and safe. I to think out of know I can ring any of the members in my own the box, branch and I will get the same response. They are all challenge friends, we share a lot... news, gossip, chats about yourself. Who grandchildren and of course those things that happen can you invite in families: tragedies, celebrations and unexpected to join your changes of circumstances. own branch, This week, as I write, starts with ‘International or more importantly, another branch in the country? Women’s Day’ and ends with ‘Mothering Sunday’. Someone who has moved house, a new retiree, a The former states ‘A challenged world is an alert relative or friend. Give or send the leaflet to someone, world and from challenge comes change.’ or put it on your church noticeboard. Are we challenged as an organisation? Some of us If you wish, you can use the white box on the leaflet don’t want to change what we have, but is that fair to to add your local branch name and contact details. our founders who started WF all those years ago? Use it as an opportunity to seek out potential Some may say they didn’t mean us to last over 100 members. (More leaflets are available from the years. Why not? Our predecessors over the decades Literature Secretary should you require them.) have worked hard to sustain and fulfil our brief of This is the time to come up with plans for the future. Spiritual, Intellectual and Social interaction. We are a Over the past year we have realised what the heart of caring Fellowship providing loving and supportive the Fellowship is. Please don’t let me or the friendship which each one of us has enjoyed, Committee down. It is time we all made a particularly this last year. commitment to change. It is extraordinary how Mothering Sunday has been celebrated by the church previous Chairmen over the years have pleaded that since the Middle Ages. Those young people who left branches try to recruit. I realise it’s not easy, but the home to work in service were allowed to go back to buck stops now. We lose two or three groups a year their churches and families on the mid-Sunday in and consequently our numbers are dropping. Lent. The word ‘mothering’ refers to the mother The past year has also been a way for me to church, and this certainly ties in with our own idea of understand the workings of the Executive Committee. Fellowship and taking care of our members within the We wouldn’t have our Grapevine magazine, our Christian family. National Events and our Hospice link without the I have spoken to many branches over the past year dedicated work of my colleagues. Our Scattered and it has been obvious that all have benefitted by Branch members are linked and the finance of the belonging to Women in Fellowship. From the Zoom organisation is carefully controlled. It has been a meetings, the phone calls, the emailing and the challenging time for them too, coping with changes friendship that members have experienced, we have in working and moving diary dates. A huge thank you all enjoyed the care in a challenging time. to all on the Executive Committee and to those in the background who support us. So can challenge become change? Can we really use the last year to reassess what we are as an With love, Emily WOMEN IN FELLOWSHIP 2
EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE Central Chairman More information is only available to members of (2020) Central Treasurer WOMEN IN FELLOWSHIP (2020) Central Secretary (2021) Editor (2019) St Christopher’s Charity Representative (2021) Scattered Branch Secretary (2020) 3 G R A P E V I N E – Summer 2021
EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE Vice Chairman (2021) National Events Secretary (2019) Minutes and Literature Secretary (2019) Our Website Manager can be contacted via: website@womeninfellowship.org.uk Please note that any amendments to the membership list for receipt of Grapevine should be sent by email to: membership@womeninfellowship.org.uk Women in Fellowship Statement Our Fellowship is with Christ and one with another Women in Fellowship is an interdenominational Christian women’s fellowship. It was founded in 1916 within the Church of England and holds no collective views on political or controversial matters. The aim is for Christian women to meet together to uphold and share the Christian ideals of fellowship, marriage and family life. The Fellowship is intended to be a source of spiritual strength and refreshment. There shall be a balance between spiritual, social and intellectual activities. The Fellowship is not a registered charity nor is it a fund-raising organisation. The Fellowship supports one specific charity, currently national and international education and research at St Christopher’s Hospice in Sydenham, London. WOMEN IN FELLOWSHIP 4
EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE New Members of Executive Patricia Eveson (Solihull) Central Secretary (2021) I joined Wives’ Fellowship in 1972 and was introduced by my mother-in-law so I have been a member for nearly 50 years. I have held the roles of Secretary and more recently Chairman of Solihull Branch. WF has been a very important part of my life. I am married and have two sons and three grandchildren. I am chair of our local District Residents’ Association and regional fundraiser for The Motor Neurone Disease Association, as I sadly lost my sister to this disease. I am a trained Medical Secretary and still work part-time. I also volunteer at a local foodbank. I am interested in foreign languages and speak French and am studying to speak Spanish. I have passed my RYA Yachtmaster Coastal Skipper theory and practical, as we have our own sailing boat. My hobbies are sailing, playing Bridge and going to the ballet, theatre and concerts. Frances Farrer-Brown (West Sussex) St Christopher’s Charity Representative (2021) I was born and brought up on the family farm in Oxfordshire. In 1970, I moved to London where I met a gorgeous medical student called David – we married in 1975. After several moves, 42 years ago we ended up in Littlehampton, Sussex, where David was a GP in a nearby village. Ann Bush, the senior partner’s wife promptly signed me up for Wives’ Fellowship. Since then, I have done every job on the committee; even treasurer! Many years ago I was on Wives Executive as the Scattered Members’ Secretary. More recently I wrote the script and helped to organise our Regional Centenary celebrations. Since moving to Sussex I have run a successful Bed and Breakfast business plus a holiday cottage. I’ve been a Blue Badge Tourist Guide for over 20 years, qualified for the South East of England plus Salisbury, Windsor and the East End of London for the Olympics. I’m a trainer and examiner for the Guild of Registered Tourist Guides. Another sideline is giving talks to various groups on a variety of different topics. In our church community I’ve been churchwarden and been heavily involved with fundraising. Our two children and four grandchildren are a constant joy (almost)! David and I enjoy reading, gardening, the theatre, his MG club and walking. Our greatest walking achievement was walking the South West Coast Path with Ann and Peter Bush. It took five years but was well worth it. 1000 Kilometres! 5 G R A P E V I N E – Summer 2021
FELLOWSHIP MATTERS Editor’s Message I have just looked back at the Editor’s Message ‘Despite all this our Fellowship has continued and has in the last Grapevine and note that I wrote that I been strengthened.’ hoped to see many of you at the Autumn ‘We have learnt much about each other during this Conference that year. Who knew we would still isolation period and look forward to meeting together be under restrictions over a year later? again in the near future.’ We have all had our own experiences of lockdown, ‘Awful as this pandemic has been, our Fellowship for some the chance to slow down was strangely maintains its core values with prayer, support and welcomed. For others who lost loved ones, friendship.’ livelihoods and liberty it was very different. Periods of So after more than a year of Zoom meetings and teas, anxiety and intense loneliness have been experienced virtual church services, the joy of last summer’s by too many for too long. garden get-togethers, and more walks than a normal However, I have been heartened by reading your person would ever take, we can finally begin to look branch reports as it is obvious that members have forward to face to face meetings. I hope you all enjoy done everything they can to sustain our Fellowship, a super summer with family and friends. and your positivity is truly wonderful: Thank you to everyone who has contributed to this ‘Even though we haven’t been able to meet each edition. other as much as we would have liked we still have much to be thankful for.’ ‘The war time spirit was in evidence with a cheerful Carolyn Mills attitude throughout.’ Editor Branch Reports for Winter Grapevine 2021 Wimbledon, Winchester II, Winchester III, Copy date 30th September 2021 Woldingham, Worcester and Woodbridge. I would like to invite the following branches to send Please include the numbers of members at the top of in their annual report for the next edition of your report and note their category: Members, Grapevine: Honorary or Associate. Photographs should be sent as separate attachments in order that we have the Abergavenny, Bristol II, Bury St Edmunds, Cambridge, Chelmsford, Cheltenham II, Coventry, best possible resolution. Copy should be sent to: East Anglia Scats, Eastbourne, East Cheshire, Epsom, editor@womeninfellowship.org.uk Guildford, Harrogate, Herts, Leamington Spa & by 30th September 2021. Thank you. Warwick II, London, Middle Thames, North Cheshire, Please note that any amendments to the North London, Northampton, Rugby I & II, Salisbury membership list for receipt of Grapevine should Plain, Sanderstead, Sherborne, Shrewsbury, South be sent by email to: Trent, Trent, Twickenham, Walton on Thames, membership@womeninfellowship.org.uk WOMEN IN FELLOWSHIP 6
NATIONAL EVENTS/DIARY National Events 2021/2022 Here are the latest updates and dates for your To read the latest news story, click on ‘News’. (The diary. All are subject to alteration. big blue box, third on the top row of boxes.) Due to the ever changing situation, please 3. Or to go to ‘What’s On’. (A big blue box at the check the website for the latest base of the Members’ blue boxes.) information. Click on Events: You need to log in first to be able to read • Look for Find events: View as items for Members’ e.g. News, and more • Change the drop down menu from Month to List about events! • Scroll down to see all Events. www.womeninfellowship.org.uk 4. Choose the event you are interested in, click on it to read about it then follow any links for further 1. On the home page/ first page, scroll down to information. Are you a Women in Fellowship Member? How to book Then log in to the Members’ section by using the Please support your Fellowship: look out for booking following: details on the Women in Fellowship website, and Username: invitations coming to your Branch Secretaries. Password: All on a first come first served basis! 2. Once you are logged in, you can read everything Any queries contact: that is in the Members’ section. nationalevents@womeninfellowship.org.uk Founders’ Meeting – Epsom 18 May 2021 Kindly hosted by Epsom WF at St George’s Church, Ashtead, Surrey, KT21 2DA Epsom WF are hosting Founders’ Meeting speak on ‘Climate change, plastics and other 2021 which is a celebration of our Founders’ human impacts on the planet.’ Day. Epsom WF is very much looking forward to The Meeting will start with a church service at St welcoming you either virtually, or in person (there George’s Church, Ashtead. This event had to be are very limited numbers). postponed last year and the 2021 version will be We are extremely grateful to Epsom WF for different from what had originally been planned offering this opportunity to join together across by Epsom WF. The theme is ’Concern for our our Fellowship, especially in these difficult times Planet,’ and following the service, there will be a with certain restrictions still in place. talk by Dr Colin Summerhayes, who is a well- You can find more information, how to book, known Climate Scientist. Dr Summerhayes will and any updates on the WF website. 7 G R A P E V I N E – Summer 2021
NATIONAL EVENTS/DIARY Autumn Conference The Hayes Conference Centre, Swanwick, Alfreton, Derbyshire 6-7 October 2021 Women in Fellowship are looking forward to Bletchley Park and about the Enigma machine; welcoming you to Autumn Conference 2021, Lesley Smith, Curator of Tutbury Castle, who is which was postponed from 2020. well known for her highly entertaining and This year we are trialling a new way of running this informative costumed portrayals of a variety of conference, as it will all be at one venue. historical characters – this time as Peggy Knight, a The 2 day conference will include accommodation, 1940’s WWII Special Operations Executive: an a service, speakers and all meals from afternoon extraordinary woman whose story of immense tea on day 1 to afternoon tea on day 2. courage and dignity in the face of the most The Hayes Christian Conference Centre is set in dangerous situations is both breath-taking and beautiful Derbyshire countryside and is a peaceful remarkable. rural retreat set in 100 acres. Professor Rosalie David OBE who is Emeritus The conference is being organised by the Women Professor of Egyptology at The University of in Fellowship Executive Committee along with the Manchester. The focus of her career has been the Northern group of branches, to which we are establishment of a new university specialization- extremely grateful indeed. (Northumbria, biomedical research within the field of Egyptology. Lancaster, Sheffield, East Cheshire and North She will be revealing some mysteries of Egyptian Cheshire.). Mummies as revealed through Modern Science. The theme is “Mysteries revealed”. More about the speakers and the conference can Our speakers include: be found on the website. Look out for updates on Dr Mark Baldwin, also known as Dr Enigma: an this event and when the booking will be open. All international and professional speaker, who will be events are dependent on Covid secure revealing some of the mysteries on the work of restrictions/regulations. Women in Fellowship Diary 2021 20th May Founders’ Meeting Epsom and online 6-7th October Autumn Conference The Hayes Conference Centre, Swanwick 2022 23-25th March Fellowship Retreat Launde Abbey 27th April AGM Benn Hall, Rugby 25th May Founders’ Meeting Shrewsbury WF 14-21st September Oberammergau Pilgrimage Austria WOMEN IN FELLOWSHIP 8
NATIONAL EVENTS/DIARY UPDATE: Oberammergau Passion Play In connection with the play organisers, McCabe, the trip to see the Passion Play has been rescheduled to September 14 – 21st 2022 Thirty-one from the forty-five booked on our original trip have signed up again. I am in the process of filling further places from those on my waiting list. I reckon I have about 8-10 places still available at time of writing. The cost of the trip is £1,730 per person sharing double or twin room. You can fly from either Manchester or Heathrow. Please note: there are no single rooms left at the Inntalerhof Hotel in Mosern where we stay for the rest of the time. Everyone has to share a room the night after the play when we stay in the village. All details are in the brochure posted on the WF website. www.bavaria-oberammergau-passion-play www.mccabe-travel.co.uk AGM – 27th April 2022 at Benn Hall, Rugby Note for your diary 9 G R A P E V I N E – Summer 2021
DONATIONS/INSURANCE Donations Requests The following statement from WF Executive seeks As the Fellowship supports St Christopher’s Hospice to clarify the position regarding donation requests we are very aware that the application of the above from speakers. rule can create difficulties when inviting speakers Donation Requests from other charities to give a presentation at a Fellowship meeting. Extract from the Fellowship Statement Collections at such events would be at odds with this The Fellowship is not a registered charity nor is it a rule that designates the Fellowship as non- fund-raising organisation. fundraising under its Constitution. The Fellowship supports one specific charity, currently The speaker should be made fully aware beforehand national and international education and research at St of the above extract from the Constitution so that no Christopher’s Hospice in Sydenham, London. confusion arises. It is open to the branch to offer a Our Constitution states: speakers fee. 9.1. Women in Fellowship is not a registered charity, Whilst the speaker can be available should an nor is it a fund-raising organisation. individual member of the audience wish to discuss 9.2. Women in Fellowship supports one specific the work and funding of the charity at the conclusion charity: St. Christopher’s Hospice in Sydenham, of the talk, and literature can be provided, there London. should be no direct request for funding. Women in Fellowship Insurance Policy The renewal of this policy was due in March When hiring a hall you should check that this is the 2021. As this policy is only for public liability in a case. case of negligence by a member of WF, in the • Meetings in member’s homes would usually be current situation, it was deemed a non-essential covered by household insurance. WF liability was expense. This decision will be reviewed in confined to third parties i.e. a member of the public, September. or a public building. WF was not liable for injury to If you are intending to meet before September the its own members or members’ homes as neither is in following will apply: the public domain. • All responsible public places, which can be hired, will have their own public liability insurance and will also be insured against fire etc. WOMEN IN FELLOWSHIP 10
TREASURER’S REPORT General Fund set-aside for any designated purpose. The 2020 surplus on General Fund was £4,628 The Executive Committee continues to consider this (2019 deficit £8,532). carefully and have agreed that there will be no charge to branches for the 2022 quota. The change on the previous year has arisen due to: Designated Fund (BOC Fund) £28,000 • The cancellation of the national AGM and therefore no travel costs for delegates. The Executive Committee recommend that this fund is used to pay the quota charge for 2022; this will • Due to the pandemic, the Executive Committee include any extra copies of Grapevine. The use of the has not met in person since March 2020 and so fund in this manner would be of benefit to every travel costs and event expenses have been greatly member of the Fellowship. reduced. This would leave approximately £8,000 in the fund to With the pandemic extending well into 2021 there be decided on at a future date. will also be a surplus for this year. It was expected, in normal circumstances, that due to falling Branch Accounts membership numbers and higher costs, there would The Executive Committee has decided that it is no have been a deficit over the next few years. longer necessary for branches to have their accounts We therefore expect that the accumulated General independently examined. Some branches may prefer to continue to do this and we will amend the Branch Fund, which is currently £70,920, to have increased Treasurer Guidelines to reflect this. by the end of 2021. This is a substantial amount of money for an Rosarii Sabido organisation to be holding and which has not been Central Treasurer, April 2021 Remember that when you leave this earth, you can take with you nothing that you have received – only what you have given: a full heart, enriched by honest service, love, sacrifice and courage St Francis of Assisi 11 G R A P E V I N E – Summer 2021
FINANCIAL STATEMENT for the year ended 31 December 2020 Income and expenditure 2020 2019 General Fund £ £ £ £ Income Quotas 19,808 21,291 Advertising 87 Sale of literature (net) 108 882 Decrease in value of stock held - (247) Magazine sales for honorary members 511 476 Autumn Conference 2020 (1,019) - Founders’ Meeting 2019 (net) - 189 Founders’ Meeting 2020 (net) 650 - Retreat 2019 (net) - 165 Retreat 2020 (net) (1,186) - St. Christopher's Bursary Day (net) - 71 Bank interest 436 787 19,308 23,701 Less: Expenditure AGM expenses (net) (60) 43 AGM travel expenses delegates - 3,891 Event expenses – Executive Committee 1,175 2,039 Travel expenses - Executive Committee 917 6,852 Sundry expenses - Executive Committee 171 660 2,263 9,551 Postage and stationery 579 677 Website and hosting fees 864 3,734 Magazine costs 8,428 7,322 Independent examiner's fee 1,080 1,020 Insurance 936 712 Sundry expenses 116 50 Donation to St Christopher’s 474 5,233 14,680 32,233 Surplus/(deficit) on General Fund 4,628 (8,532) Total surplus/(deficit) 4,628 (8,532) WOMEN IN FELLOWSHIP 12
FINANCIAL STATEMENT for the year ended 31 December 2020 Balance Sheet 2020 2019 Note £ £ £ £ Current assets Stock 3 1,257 871 Debtors and prepayments 4 4,039 10,688 Cash at bank and in hand 5 96,989 106,199 102,285 117,758 Current liabilities Accruals 6 1,080 1,020 Creditors 6 1,667 21,828 2,747 22,848 Net current assets 99,538 94,910 Net assets 99,538 94,910 Funds General fund 7 70,920 66,292 Branch officers' conference fund 7 28,618 28,618 Total Funds 99,538 94,910 13 G R A P E V I N E – Summer 2021
FELLOWSHIP RETREAT Fellowship Retreat at Home – Tuesday 16th March 2021 This year, the Fellowship Retreat took place via complement with a nominated person from each Zoom. group giving a synopsis of the discussion. There were The Rev Pamela Soult, a member of Cambridge three breakout groups during the day and one of the WF, led the Retreat with 41 members taking part. questions in the final session was ’Why do you think Pamela said she had done a course on how to that Mary of Magdala has excited so much interest operate Zoom and she certainly appeared cool and attention from secular people in our culture?’ and calm and very well able to cope with this now Another question was ‘Mary recognised Jesus when well-known computer meeting room! he spoke her name - do you ever have the sense that The Theme was ‘Women in the bible and their God knows your name and is aware of your influence on others.’ Jesus drew a large number of concerns?’ women to his gatherings and those particularly Lively discussion took place in each of the breakout singled out, such as Mary Magdalene, the sisters sessions; we could have gone on a lot longer had Mary and Martha of Bethany etc, were discussed in there been time. The day was split into three three break-out groups during the day. Other women sessions, interspersed with a coffee break and chat in who appear in the gospels were mentioned, for the morning, an hour’s lunch break when we had time instance the woman in the crowd who touched Jesus to go for a quick walk round the block or have lunch knowing that he would heal her. Some of the women in the garden (it was a lovely sunny day in north about whom we talked appear to have had money and Worcestershire!), and a general chat before starting status, running their own businesses and trading. The session three in the afternoon. Rev Pamela referred to a book by Trevor Dennis, ‘The The final part of the day was an Act of Worship led by Gospel beyond the Gospels’ indicating how much the Rev Pamela. Having attended Zoom services run influence some women played during Jesus’s time, by my local church for the past 12 months, I found it travelling around and preaching. Joanna, wife of very moving to attend this WF Retreat service, being Chusa, who appeared to have her own money, was amongst good friends/fellow members and sharing mentioned. Much is made today and, indeed, over our thoughts together. Memories of past WF Retreats many years, of Mary Magdalene possibly being a were strongly in mind, and I look forward very much prostitute, but is this really the case? There is no hint to being able to see everyone again in the flesh. in the bible of her being such a woman, and it was suggested that she may have been rather a lost soul Very many thanks to Ann Constable for making this who was looking for genuine love and understanding, Retreat possible, and a big thank-you to Rev Pamela which she found in Jesus. Mary, Martha and Lazarus Soult for leading it so thoughtfully. were also discussed at length. Their household is an Mita Johnson interesting one in which it appears that Mary is the head of the household, but where did her money and status come from? How was she able to hold banquets and be a host to all and sundry while her sister, Martha, complained that she herself was left to do all the preparations and wash the dishes. We were asked to think who we thought we might be of the two of them, a Martha or a Mary? During the breakout groups, a series of questions were posed, after which we came back to our full WOMEN IN FELLOWSHIP 14
NATIONAL PRAYER HOUR National Prayer Hour – February 3rd 2021 Hundreds of WF members joined together in the first WF National Prayer Hour, with over 40 branches taking part in one way or another. It is possibly the largest ‘Fellowship gathering’ since the 2016 Centenary event. This was a historic moment in which our Fellowship came together to pray in these challenging times. The significant difference to previous large events was that this time everyone was in their own home. Together on Zoom was just one part of this Members at prayer very special and uplifting hour, which helped us feel more connected across our are some quotes from members which sum up the Fellowship. Prayers were submitted by branches, with event: many written by members. Readers from branches • ‘It drew us together and helped us to feel took part with a total of 84 people on screen and connected in prayer and fellowship.’ some individual branches held their own Prayer Hour • ‘A wonderful idea...and such lovely, inspiring texts via Zoom using the prayer sheet. Other branches held and music, just what we all need. And how lovely to remote meetings, when they prayed together at the be able to keep re-reading such carefully chosen allotted time. For many members they chose to pray words and verses. I am sure the whole membership individually at that hour. Members were invited to must have appreciated it as much as I did.’ light a candle at the end of the hour. • ‘It was so refreshing and powerful to be alongside The video of the hour can be viewed on our website. all our WF members with a common purpose at a (The ‘Watch the WF National Prayer Hour video’ news common time. What a wonderful collection of story can be found using the search box at top right of heartfelt prayers, it was a truly uplifting experience.’ screen.) We are delighted that many prayers have • ‘It was heart-warming to see so many taking part been shared and continue to be used. Madeleine across the country in an hour of prayer for our Tattersall (London WF) who first thought of using our nation. The prayers were an excellent mix of praise WF combined praying power in these difficult times and prayer and, in the difficult days we find ourselves commented that ‘It worked beyond my expectations!’ in, it was good to join together as a Fellowship to The Prayer Hour was led by Jill Bell from hand our concerns and petitions to Almighty God.’ Haywards Heath WF with Zoom technical assistance • ‘What a wonderful occasion, immensely moving – from Chris Bell. We are very grateful to them both our Fellowship at its best. And lovely to see the faces indeed and to Jackie Heaton who collated all the of some dear friends on Zoom.’ prayers, as I could not have done this by myself. The music was provided by Belle Voci who kindly gave • ‘What an uplifting morning of prayer! It was permission for their version of ’The Lord Bless you wonderful and powerful to see and hear so many of and Keep you’ to be included. us women all praying together on Zoom and to think of those praying in their branches as well. Some very I was delighted that the event was so well received beautiful and moving prayers. Please pass on my and it proved to be an amazing hour. I do not need to heartfelt thanks; it was a privilege to be a part of this write anymore in my report as the words of members event as it is to be a member of the Fellowship.’ say it all for me. Thank you for the feedback and here 15 G R A P E V I N E – Summer 2021
NATIONAL PRAYER HOUR • ‘What a morning! Amazing. Very uplifting indeed! Fab, fab, fab.’ • ‘It was lovely and I found it very moving. And it was so nice to see faces again!’ • ’That was a wonderful occasion. The shared Faith. The Trust. The Love. We are truly blessed.’ • ‘It was a truly refreshing event away from home schooling and daily chores. The power of prayer was most certainly stronger with us altogether.’ • ‘It has been a special time of fellowship with you all as I thought of each branch and their needs as we prayed.’ Emily Hutchings at Prayer Hour • ‘The time together was refreshing and one of peace peace descended. Thank you for providing us all with and being uplifted. A time to stop and appreciate all this wonderful opportunity to join together on our we have around us and pray for others at this time.’ spiritual journey and to offer hope, encouragement • ‘I just want to say how moving the Prayer Hour and reaffirmation of some of the most important was. The choice of readings was excellent and I tenets of Women in Fellowship for all to share. I found it quite moving.’ suspect that there will be many who took their • ‘Just to say thank you very much for this morning’s invisible places at the altar and felt the virtual loving meeting. From a snowy North Yorkshire, I loved comfort of the thoughts of members far and wide. As hearing and seeing members from afar who I would is so often the case the answers to prayer are seldom never see at a meeting. The whole session was tangible but no less valuable for that.’ beautifully arranged and I appreciate how much The final quotes are ‘Can we do it again one day!?’ thought had gone into it. It was quite moving to think that WF was started in similar circumstances. Thank ‘Maybe a couple of extra national events? Because of you.’ the introduction of Zoom, this would allow those members who don't or can't travel to stay overnight to • ‘I just thought I should write to let you know that as experience the wider Fellowship.’ someone who did not choose to join the actual Zoom gathering last Wednesday, I found the structure of the This sentiment has been shared by many and at the event and the wonderful prayers were a real tonic. As time of writing planning for future ‘on line’ events is I sat quietly at my kitchen table with the prayer sheet taking place. in front of me, the feeling of a great togetherness with Ann Constable the whole Fellowship seemed palpable and a great National Events Secretary Wear your badge with pride! Badges available from the Literature Secretary for only £2.00 WOMEN IN FELLOWSHIP 16
ST CHRISTOPHER’S HOSPICE St Christopher’s Hospice Report Normally, I would be providing a report on the Research annual WF visit to St Christopher’s but, due to The bulk of donations, £35K to £40K, is spent on Covid-19, it had to be cancelled. We hope that the research. Each year St Christopher’s put forward 2021 visit will be able to take place in the autumn. costed proposals for research which is generally Instead, this report, concentrates on the use of carried out in partnership with others. Dissemination the donations from branches to St Christopher’s. of the findings of the research across the UK is taken In addition to this report, there is an article in very seriously. The need for the research to be Grapevine written by Jenny Fogarty who leads the St relevant across the UK is an essential criterion when Christopher’s CARE team. That article gives an considering whether to fund a research project overview of how St Christopher’s has succeeded in proposed by St Christopher’s. carrying out its work in spite of the pandemic. £13K of the 2017/18 funding was allocated to It is perhaps important to make clear that WF is not support the ECHO project which aimed to build skills involved with all St Christopher’s activities. Our across primary care and hospice staff around end of funding only supports training and research which life care and system wide improvement. The ECHO relates directly to the whole UK and/or overseas. It is network has been of great value during the past year not contributing to the care of patients at St (See Jane Fogarty’s article). Christopher’s or capital projects. The other project to which £22k of the 2017/18 Donations usually amount to around £40K to £50K donations were allocated was designed to improve each year. However, the donations for 2020 the end of life for people living in social housing with amounted to £53,200, which is an excellent outcome care needs. It is being run in conjunction with at this difficult time. The WF donations are split Octavia Housing which provides accommodation for between Bursary Students and Research Projects. people with dementia and complex health needs. Part Bursary Students of this project has been completed but it was paused The funding for Bursary students amounts to £10K to due to Covid-19. There is some final evaluation to be £15K each year. In a normal year, between 3 and 5 undertaken and a conference with a publication is students from poorer countries are fully funded for a planned to complete this project. This will be done one-week Multi-Professional course followed by one as soon as all the Covid restrictions are lifted. week working with St Christopher’s staff from their The 2018/19 funding is supporting two research own discipline. The Multi-Professional Week projects as well as bursaries. £15,000 was allocated concentrates on the principles and practice in to a project which is developing an app which palliative care. It is attended by a wide range of provides a virtual tour of St Christopher’s. This students from many countries but WF only funds a project will complete by April 2021. The remaining small number who would otherwise not be able to funding was allocated to the initial work on a major attend. In 2020, no students attended in person but care project. Over the next three years, WF donations online teaching and learning was provided. It is will be providing support for this project which will hoped that these students will visit St Christopher’s be investigating the needs of carers, developing a when it is safe to do so. A report on the outcomes has learning and education programme for carers and been promised. rolling it out across the UK. 17 G R A P E V I N E – Summer 2021
ST CHRISTOPHER’S HOSPICE Read about how St Christopher’s developed its teaching and learning programmes during the pandemic An update on education for Women in Fellowship This year has provided health and social care professionals globally, with unprecedented challenges. The response of clinicians around the world to the Covid-19 pandemic has been extraordinary. When in March it became clear we would no longer be able to provide face to face learning, we quickly pivoted to virtual learning, appreciating the huge demand and need for support. Since March, we’ve delivered 20 webinars and learning sessions for audiences both here in south east London as well as The Education Leadership Team' internationally, all in line with our mission to promote that other homes are experiencing the same thing.” end of life care of the highest standard. Hundreds of Marie Rose Ntigura, Head of Palliative Care at GPs, nurses and healthcare assistants have all been Mazabuka General Hospital in Zambia, says: “St able to benefit from the practical, accessible and Christopher’s Multiprofessional Academy course was tailored webinars and bitesize learning packages. The a great opportunity which not only improved my pandemic placed professionals in a position where conception of palliative care but also provided me they were dealing with death and dying on a scale with new skills, knowledge and confidence through they had never experienced before. Our online educational meetings with a variety of passionate offering, including sessions on advance care palliative care providers with various expertise from planning, identifying and managing terminal all over the world.” agitation, and wellbeing, resilience and self- care, provided them with skills, knowledge, confidence and To coincide with the opening of the new education strength to deliver the very best care they could in centre, known as St Christopher’s CARE (the Centre these most challenging of circumstances. for Awareness and Response into End-of-life), we’ll launch the app funded by Women in Fellowship that As we look to develop and build further on our will provide access to the past, present and future of portfolio of virtual learning content, we’ve now St Christopher’s. Users can learn about our history introduced a subscription model for GPs and nurses, and that of the modern hospice movement as well as giving them access to the existing library as well as take a tour of the hospice’s most notable features. future sessions. We’ll also be starting the three-year project for Our monthly ECHO sessions for care homes have Carers, funded by Women in Fellowship, designed to been particularly appreciated. Throughout the support and best equip those caring for people pandemic 530 people from 103 care homes have approaching the end of life. accessed 25 sessions and benefited from the unique The end goal of this project is to develop and mix of expert clinical knowledge, hands-on, practical establish a Carers’ Learning and Education problem-solving and the reassurance that they’re not Programme that can be delivered and shared locally facing the pandemic alone. Gemma Weldon, and nationally, both face to face and virtually. Manager of Park Avenue Care Home in Bromley, said: “The ECHO sessions have been amazing, especially And finally, as we look to the future and the next during Covid when they’ve been a fantastic support generation of healthcare professionals, in July 2020, for the home. It’s so easy to feel alone and not realise 31 school leavers and young people, keen to WOMEN IN FELLOWSHIP 18
ST CHRISTOPHER’S HOSPICE discover more about job opportunities in health and We’d like to take this opportunity to thank the social care in the community, completed our Focus Women in Fellowship for your ongoing support – on End of Life Care programme (previously known as both financial and your belief in us. We really the Summer School), and will receive a City & Guilds couldn’t do it without you. accredited certificate. Jenny Fogarty St Christopher’s CARE Lead Dame Cicely Saunders St Christopher’s Hospice, founded by The next big step came when she was told Cicely Saunders, has been supported that she could not influence people with by Wives’ Fellowship, Senior Wives’ her developing ideas unless she and now Women in Fellowship since qualified as a doctor. So, in spite of her 1975. Although many WF members lack of a scientific background, she know a great deal about Cicely was eventually accepted as a student Saunders and indeed some met her at St Thomas’s. In her clinical years, during her life, others have only a she came into contact with cancer vague understanding about her life, patients and developed insights into work and her Christian faith. This their needs, building on her experience note is intended to fill in some of the as a nurse, an almoner, a doctor and a gaps. Christian. She developed an interest in Cicely Saunders was born in 1918 into an writing and research with her first publication upper middle class family of considerable means. in 1957. She later worked at St Joseph’s, a Catholic She attended Roedean and went on to Oxford, but left Home which was to influence her religious outlook. to train as a nurse at St Thomas’s at the beginning of She expanded her research work as well as caring for the war. The physical work she undertook led to a patients. She introduced methods which would be seriously bad back problem and eventually she had to adopted for St Christopher’s. She remained there accept that she would not be able to pursue her until 1965 by which time she had developed wide career as a nurse. She returned to Oxford and and influential connections which enabled her to find completed her degree. It was here that her Christian funding and support for the establishment of St faith developed through her membership of the Christopher’s in 1967. Socratic Club of which CS Lewis was the president. There were problems both financial and After Oxford she decided to train as an Almoner. organisational in the early years of the hospice but During that time, she had a group of friends who drew her rather unconventional approach seemed to work. her into the Evangelical wing of the church. She was She ran the hospice at the same time as carrying out a firm follower of this tradition for the next 15 years. considerable research. She eventually met and Her work as an almoner led her to close contact with married a Polish artist who became a central part of those who were dying and particularly to a Polish her life. man to whom she became much attached while The nature of palliative care has developed greatly caring for him (beyond her duties as an almoner) since then. St Christopher’s has thrived, providing during his final months. This seems to have greatly both in-patient and out-patient hospice care and affected her approach to the care of the dying. She extending out into the community. It is recognised as became a volunteer with the Salvation Army, regularly a centre of excellence in multi-disciplinary care and visiting patients at St Luke’s home (a terminal care for its wide range of education, training and research, home) for the next 7 years. Here she learnt about not only in South East London but also across the UK pain control. and overseas. 19 G R A P E V I N E – Summer 2021
BRANCH REPORTS BATH – 25 Members,2 Honorary Members and 2 Associate Member ‘It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it quizzes, sharing encouragements and recently Zoom was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness. lectures. Now while celebrating vaccinations we look It was the epoch of belief; it was the epoch of forward to reality meetings. incredulity’. (Dickens) This last year has been difficult to sum up as we have had to adapt our meetings and fellowship to incorporate the changes forced upon us. However in true WF style we rose to the challenge. In May we had our first meeting by Zoom, congratulations to all who mastered the technology. We shared experiences of neighbourhood VE Day celebrations with Robina baking gingerbread for her neighbours, Shirley sharing a two minute silence on her community green and Jill with her husband dancing on their terrace to 40’s music. For Ascension we shared a virtual service so proving that worship can take place on social media. We Poetry recipes continued with various Zoom meetings, a book quiz guessing the source of the chosen reading. Then sharing favourite recipes. This proved to be our triumph as we combined the recipes with a poetry challenge to create a book. Most members contributed with recipes and original poetry. So with pictures of our summer garden lunch parties and group tea party, we printed a book! So everyone now has a copy of our achievements. (We used our subscriptions to pay for the printing). Thus proving in times of adversity we pull together. We continue our fellowship with amusing Zoom Summer lunch party BIRMINGHAM – 65 Members, 8 Honorary Members and 1 Associate Member I am going to begin by stating the obvious; we have then turned our thoughts to organising our Pancake had a quiet year! The good news is that although we Party, which was enjoyed by many of our members, sadly lost an honorary member (Anne Kenrick) during and we even allowed some husbands to attend. 2020, the membership is still largely healthy, As it turned out the next event was to be our last from buoyant and moving in the right direction. the official programme; but I am happy to report that We began the year with a well attended coffee we did go out on a high note. Our Lenten talk was morning; always a popular, relaxing event after the given by a local priest, associated with Edgbaston rigours of Christmas. The AGM followed and all Old Church, the Reverend Saskia Barnden, and it was attending appreciated a short film on the newly a wonderful talk. It incorporated all her journeys canonised Cardinal John Henry Newman, which was through life to date, and was presented with humour narrated by the husband of one of our members. We and additional poetry; we were spoilt. Then of course WOMEN IN FELLOWSHIP 20
BRANCH REPORTS came ‘Lockdown 1’ as we now know it. During that more events would have to go. Slowly, one by lockdown we kept in touch with each other as best we one, we abandoned our programme; we held out could by email and phone, the committee even held a hope for our annual Carol concert, but sadly that had committee meeting via Google! As soon as we could, to go too. So even though we haven’t been able to we arranged a Garden Coffee Morning for a small meet each other as much as we would have liked we group of members and this was so successful we still have much to be thankful for. Best of all we have arranged more, and many thanks to everyone who lent a pre-arranged programme ready and waiting to be their gardens. rolled out. During the summer people were able to meet up to play golf or bridge, and we switched our internet committee meeting to a garden meeting on a lovely sunny morning in August. We looked at the programme and started to think about when we could pick it up again and what extra measures might we need in place. As it turned out, as the American novelist Michael Chabon said, ‘Man makes plans ... and God laughs.’ By the time we hit September and our Garden Coffee morning had to be cancelled due to the entirely foul weather, the committee realised Pancake party BLACKHEATH I – 37 Members The past year has changed us all in a number of Our first morning meeting was well attended and different ways. Many of our members have strictly there was much exchange of Christmas and New Year followed the government’s guidance on self-isolation Activities. At our next meeting, we invited an and have remained indoors. The absence of visitors inspirational and incredible speaker, a man of devout and little or no change in scenery has caused severe faith. He spoke of the severe liver problems and loneliness. We have tried to remedy this by telephone transplant he had had and how they had influenced and internet contact with every member. Each week, a his spirituality and approach to life. different member circulates a prayer, adding any The Reminiscence Centre in the village reaches out to personal news of local information, to all members. schools, homes for the elderly, hosts the local library In addition, each committee member has a group of and sells refreshments. One of our members members to be contacted on a regular basis. arranged a visit and talk on the Centre’s current work Members also forward interesting pieces of music, and future projects. poetry, jokes, local information etc, to all. Two Our last meeting before lockdown was a joint Lenten members, who are not on the internet, are contacted Church Service with Blackheath II. We were uplifted by phone or post. by a rousing homily and enormously enjoyed the We are fortunate that members have kept well during following luncheon. these difficult days, with the exception of two ladies Alas the proposed dinner in aid of St Christopher’s who had a short stay in hospital. Hospice had to be cancelled as had the remaining We look back nostalgically to January 2020. A drinks year’s programme. party for partners and friends was hugely enjoyed at We have learnt much about each other during this Stone House. Good wishes for the coming year were isolation period and look forward to meeting together exchanged. again in the near future. 21 G R A P E V I N E – Summer 2021
BRANCH REPORTS BLACKHEATH II – 19 Members This last year has certainly been challenging for all of us and has, of course, meant that we have had to approach our everyday lives in a totally different way. Our Lenten programme of events continued as planned until the second half of March. It began with the ever-lively AGM accompanied by a delicious lunch provided by 3 of our members. This was followed by a trip to the Mary Quant exhibition at the V&A museum which took us on a trip down memory lane to admire the style and fashions of the 1960s created by the Blackheath born fashion icon. The 11th February saw us meeting on a cold, blustery day for a guided walk of the south side of Blackheath, kindly led by Jonathan Causer. A consultant orthopaedic surgeon, Graeme Groom, Garden lunch talked to us about his Middle Eastern project, eloquently guiding us through the complex a little, bring and share lunches in three gardens took manoeuvres required in reaching and teaching young place, where we all kept our social distance! A fund- doctors in Gaza. raising meal in aid of St Christopher’s Hospice, again We were grateful to have been able to meet with for 6 outdoors, took place in the Martin’s garden. A Blackheath I at St Alphège’s in Greenwich for our veritable feast! joint Lenten service and to share lunch afterwards We were able to meet for our joint autumn service which they kindly provided. This was just before the held at St Mary's Cresswell Park. lockdown, which meant that the programme planned Jonathan Causer nobly guided us around Greenwich for the summer could not go ahead, with the Park for our second meeting, undaunted by the restrictions imposed. challenging weather conditions! On 27th October, Once the ‘normality’ had set in, Zoom calls were set and just before the 2nd lockdown, we enjoyed a up initially for an informal catch-up, and then guided visit to the fascinating Wernher Collection at followed by a talk by John Heath on D-Day landings the Ranger's House by Greenwich Park. in June 1944 based on the recollections of his father; And so our year came to an abrupt halt. Our usual John Martin as quizmaster on our local knowledge Christmas gathering with Blackheath I was not able to and then another on sharing good books that had take place, and we hope that meeting in person will been read in lockdown. When restrictions were lifted soon become the norm again. Rule of six Yummy puds WOMEN IN FELLOWSHIP 22
BRANCH REPORTS BRISTOL III – 39 Members and 1 Honorary Member 2020 started with an inspirational joint talk with charity is advising the script writers of the Archers on Bristol I and II about the Jessie May Children’s their modern day slavery storyline. A meeting entitled Hospice at Home Charity, offering children and ‘Bring a glove and tell a story about its history’ parents support and practical help. This was followed resulted in an intimate meeting. We were invited to a by a thought provoking joint Lent meeting given by virtual joint service with WF II. Our Christmas Canon Bruce Saunders entitled ‘The Threefulness of meeting also took place on Zoom with members God.’ Then as Covid restrictions took hold, our reading various seasonal poems and extracts and planned programme had to be adapted or postponed listening to recorded carols. and our future meetings took place virtually, A couple of times during the year we were able, when organised by our Chairman Caroline Wynne-Willson, the rules were relaxed, to meet outside for a socially who quickly and ably, got to grips with the delights of distanced coffee, but thank goodness for Zoom, Zoom! emails and the telephone, all have helped us to keep One of our members, Jane Gill, who is an author, aka in touch and support each other. Jane Schemilt, talked very interestingly about Our hope is that during 2021 we may once again be ‘Characterisation in Novels,’ where we learnt how able to meet up in person. authors weave around 8 stereotypical characters into a novel. We watched a video from magician Jamie Balfour-Paul, who let us into the secret of some of his magic tricks for Syrian child refugees. We took part in a workshop on Origami given by Smiley Origami. David Stephenson gave us his postponed Lent talk ‘Praying, believing and living in an age of climate and ecological emergency,’ outlining the proposition that lockdown has shown that we have a capacity to adapt and live at a slower pace. There was a talk by ‘Unseen’ which is a South West charity which supports victims of trafficking and modern slavery; they gave us some shocking statistics. We learnt the Zoom meeting CANTERBURY – 32 Members and 2 Honorary Members Well! We started the year with a wonderful programme planned - anticipating a year of fun, food and fellowship but, as we all know, that wasn’t to be! In February however, we did manage an informal meeting when members shared their wedding memories – their own or of family or friends – and much laughter and fun was had looking at photos of special family days in the past. We always find that our informal meetings are a way of tying ourselves together by sharing our life experiences. After that we had to cancel meeting after meeting and our contact during that time was through telephone Tea party 23 G R A P E V I N E – Summer 2021
BRANCH REPORTS calls and emails. With the slight relaxing of us able to meet together online and have some fun, restrictions in the summer months we enjoyed small chatter and fellowship. It was a real morale booster! tea parties of 6 – socially distanced - in various Our committees meeting were also held on Zoom – it committee members’ gardens on a glorious sunny was great to be able to keep in touch in this way. We afternoon. How lovely it was to see each other and plan more meetings on Zoom in the coming months catch up with our news. As the year went on we and hopefully as the year progresses we shall be able joined the wonderful world of Zoom meetings. We to resume our meetings and see each other face to managed to have a branch coffee morning with 22 of face. What a joy that will be!! CHELTENHAM I – 42 Members, 3 Honorary Members What a year! I don’t know if it is a year to remember despite our age profile. Fortune shined on us in the or a year to forget but definitely the year of the shape of the husband of our Programme Secretary Pandemic. It started much as usual with our normal who had a Zoom licence and very kindly set up our AGM with planning all set out for the year ahead. We full schedule of Zoom meetings. These meetings were entertained in February with talks on the work of were surprisingly well attended and it enabled even a Lady Almoner followed by ‘The Gardens of China elderly members to take part. The war time spirit was Ancient and Modern.’ Our sister group, Cheltenham in evidence with a cheerful attitude throughout. II, hosted an entertaining joint meeting with a talk on the subject of ‘Fortitude and Fancy.’ Then the bombshell of Covid-19 hit us and we were forced into lockdown. All meetings were cancelled and we embarked on a journey using technology. The cohesive spirit of the group came to the fore and the Committee, through their dedicated efforts, kept in touch by various means: telephone, email, letter and walks. When government restrictions allowed, we met in small groups, for socially distanced get-togethers outside. Our small walking groups flourished. We held our first Zoom Committee meeting on 4th of June, and we went from strength to strength using Zoom with almost every member engaged online Tea party Socially distanced Zooming WOMEN IN FELLOWSHIP 24
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