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QUARTERLY MEETING JULY 22-23, 2021 HFMA SUNFLOWER "BLINDSPOT ZONE WORKSHOP" PRESENTED BY: KEVIN MCCARTHY, CSP
Quarterly Meeting July 22-23, 2021
         HFMA Sunflower

   “BlindSpot Zone Workshop”

                    Presented by:

             Kevin McCarthy, CSP

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Most teams have relationship challenges. We provide tools
and training programs to help team members embrace one
         another’s uniquenesses so they can enjoy
                   optimal performance.

  Most leaders struggle to maximize performance and capacity
within their teams so we help leaders discover the blind spots in
Leadership, Culture, Operations, Training and Service to improve
            overall performance and the bottom line.

                  DISCOVER YOUR BLIND SPOTS!
          FREE BLIND SPOT ASSESSMENT
                     www.KevinMcCarthy.com/BSA

  Receive a free Kindle copy of BlindSpots - Why Good People
                      Make Bad Choices at
                 www.KevinMcCarthy.com/book.

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                     Leadership & Team Training
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Virtues Continuum

“ I believe ability can get you to the top, but it takes character to keep you there…        Coach John Wooden

                         Definition of Character: Moral or ethical quality. Reputation.

Your reputation can be improved over time as you deliberately develop greater character.

                         Definition of Virtue: Behavior showing high moral standards.

“   Virtue is a wealth, and all the other good things that a man can have
    come from virtue.
                                                                                                      Socrates

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Character counts

       Indifference          1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10   Compassionate
      Covetousness           1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10    Contentment
       Fearfulness           1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10      Courage
   Double-mindedness         1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10    Decisiveness
    Faintheartedness         1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10   Determination
       Slothfulness          1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10      Diligence
      Undisciplined          1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10      Disipline
         Giving-up           1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10     Endurance
      Condemning             1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10    Forgiveness
         Stinginess          1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10    Generousity
        Ungrateful           1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10    Gratefulness
        Dishonesty           1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10      Honesty
            Pride            1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10      Humility
     Unfaithfulness          1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10       Loyalty
           Anger             1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10      Meekness
        Impatience           1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10      Patience
         Negativity          1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10      Positivity
         Tardiness           1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10     Punctuality
        Disrespect           1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10       Respect
      Irresponsible          1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10   Responsibility
     Self-indulgence         1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10    Self-control
        Unreliable           1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10    Trustworthy
         Deceptive           1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10    Truthfulness
         Impurity            1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10       Virtue
       Foolishness           1      2      3      4      5      6      7      8      9       10      Wisdom

Try the Character Counts 360 Challenge. Download a copy of this form from www.KevinMcCarthy.com/toolbox
and invite several people you trust who know you well to provide you feedback by completing the form and
returning it to you.

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Assessing Values
Defining your Values-Based Decision Filter

                            Definition of Values:
      A person’s principles or standards of behavior; one’s judgement
                         of what is important in life.

This exercise will help you define the top three values through which you will
filter all of your major life decisions.

 ASSESSMENT

                                        TOP    VALUES:
       1.    __________________________________     6.   __________________________________

       2.    __________________________________     7.   __________________________________

       3.    __________________________________     8.   __________________________________

       4.    __________________________________     9.   __________________________________

       5.    __________________________________ 1   0.   __________________________________

                                        TOP    VALUES:
        1.   __________________________________     4.   __________________________________

        2.   __________________________________     5.   __________________________________

        3.   __________________________________     6.   __________________________________

                             MY TOP       VALUES IN LIFE ARE:
                              1.   __________________________________

                              2.   __________________________________

                              3.   __________________________________

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Memory Jogger
Use this list of possible values to come up with ideas of your own values

Abundance              Connection               Exploration              Intensity             Preparedness
Acceptance             Consciousness            Expressiveness           Intimacy              Presence
Accomplishment         Consistency              Fairness                 Intuitiveness         Preservation
Accountability         Contentment              Faith                    Inventiveness         Privacy
Accuracy               Continuity               Fame                     Investing             Proactivity
Achievement            Continuous               Family                   Influence              Progress
Acknowledgement        Contribution             Fidelity                 Joy                   Prosperity
Adaptability           Control                  Flexibility              Justice               Punctuality
Adventure              Conviction               Flow                     Kindness              Quality
Affection              Convincing               Focus                    Knowledge             Quiet
Aggressiveness         Confidence                Forgiveness              Leadership            Rationality
Agility                Cooperation              Fortitude                Learning              Recognition
Alertness              Courage                  Freedom                  Liberty               Relationships
Ambition               Courtesy                 Friendship               Logic                 Reliability
Anticipation           Creativity               Frugality                Longevity             Religion
Appreciation           Curiosity                Fun                      Love                  Resourcefulness
Assertiveness          Daring                   Generosity               Loyalty               Respect
Attentiveness          Decisiveness             Giving                   Making a difference   Responsibility
Audacity               Delight                  Going the extra mile     Mastery
                                                                                               Righteousness
Awareness              Dependability            Goodness                 Maturity
                                                                                               Risk-taking
Balance                Desire                   Grace                    Meaning
                                                                                               Romance
Beauty                 Determination            Gratitude                Merit
                                                                                               Safety
Belonging              Devotion                 Growth                   Mindfulness
                                                                                               Security
Blissfulness           Dignity                  Guidance                 Modesty
                                                                                               Self-esteem
Boldness               Diligence                Happiness                Money
                                                                                               Selflessness
Bravery                Discipline               Hard work                Motivation
                                                                                               Seriousness
Brilliance             Discovery                Harmony                  Nonviolence
                                                                                               Service
Calm                   Discretion               Health                   Openness
                                                                                               Simplicity
Carefulness            Diversity Drive          Helpfulness              Opportunity
Caring                 Duty                     Heroism                  Optimism              Sincerity
Certainty              Eagerness                Holiness                 Order                 Skill
Challenge              Education                Honesty                  Organization          Speed
Change                 Effectiveness            Honor                    Orientation           Spirit
Charity                Efficiency               Hopefulness              Originality           Stability
Cheerfulness           Elation                  Hospitality              Outcome               Strength
Clarity                Elegance                 Humility                 Outstanding service   Style
Cleanliness            Empathy                  Humor                    Passion               Systemization
Collaboration          Encouragement            Imagination              Peace                 Teamwork
Comfort                Endurance                Improvement              Perceptiveness        Timeliness
Commitment             Energy                   Independence             Perseverance          Tolerance
Communication          Enjoyment                Ingenuity                Persistence           Tradition
Community              Enthusiasm               Inner peace              Pleasure              Tranquility
Compassion             Equality                 Innovation               Poise                 Trust
Competence             Excellence               Insightfulness           Positive attitude     Truth
Competition            Excitement               Inspiration              Power                 Unity
Concentration          Experience               Integrity                Practicality          Well-being
Condor                 Expertise                Intelligence             Precision

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What makes people tick?
                 We can reduce our presuppositions about people and enjoy better communications and
                          relationships when we remember Dr. Tony Alessandra’s Platinum Rule.

Competitor                                                                                            Motivator
 Keyword:                                                     Keyword:

 Driving need:                                                Driving need:

 Known by:                                                    Known by:

 Focus:                                                       Focus:

Analyzer                                                                                       Peacemaker

 Keyword:                                                     Keyword:

 Driving need:                                                Driving need:

 Known by:                                                    Known by:

 Focus:                                                       Focus:

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Potential Blind Spots

Competitor                                                                                        Motivator
 Some Strengths:                                             Some Strengths:

 Blind Spot:                                                 Blind Spot:

 Watch for:                                                         Watch for:
 • Bulldozing • Tasks over Relationships • Greed                    • Talks over others • Impulsive
 • Workaholism • Power-hungry • Win at any cost                     • Inattentive to Details • Unrealistic
 • Impatient • Arrogant • Opinionated-obstinate                     • Wishful thinking • Lack of follow through
 • Insensitive • Abrasive • Too risky                               • Glosses over tension • Exaggerates
 • Too outspoken • Too Forceful                                     • Personal attacks toward others

Analyzer                                                                                      Peacemaker

 Some Strengths:                                             Some Strengths:

 Blind Spot:                                                 Blind Spot:

 Watch for:                                                   Watch for:
 • Analysis Paralysis • Overly critical • Arrogance           • Tendency to avoid change • Tendency to
 • Defensiveness • Passive-aggressive tactics                 avoid risk • Withdraws under pressure
 • Cynical • Isolation (doesn’t play well...)                 • Gets overwhelmed by deadlines • Internalizes
 • Unbending                                                  frustrations • Gives in to please others • Easily
                                                              swayed to help • Taken advantage of • Avoids
                                                              tension • Indecisive • Sacrifices self
                                                              • False loyalties • Ignores problems

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Working Together

Competitor                                                                                       Motivator
 •   Make efficient use of __________________.              •   Be _________ to collaboration.

 •   Focus on the topic at hand and avoid                   •   Recognize the ___________ of their energy
     ________________________.                                  and enthusiasm.

 •   Expect ________________.                               •   Find ways to _____________ them so they feel
                                                                appreciated.

Analyzer                                                                                     Peacemaker

 •   Talk to them about                                     •   Show warmth and concern for their
     _____________________, fact-based as-                      ______________________.
     pects of ideas/projects.
                                                            •   Offer your point of view, but take an
 •   Avoid ______________________ them for                      ______________________________ approach.
     an immediate decision.
                                                            •   Work _________________________ with them.
 •   Expect _____________________.

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Leading Others

Competitor                                                                                      Motivator
 •   Outline ___________________ of authority                •   Allow them to ____________________ group
                                                                 projects.
 •   Provide ____________________ overviews.
                                                             •   Let them try new _________________________.
 •   Be ________________ about expectations.
                                                             •   Keep them on ___________________________.
 •   Give _________________, then autonomy.
                                                             •   Don’t mistake ________________________ for
                                                                 understanding.

Analyzer                                                                                      Peacemaker

 •   Check in only when ___________________.                 •   Give clear ______________________________.

 •   Have them ____________________ you on                   •   Request their ___________________________.
     status and decisions.
                                                             •   Gradually give more _____________________.
 •   Use ________________________ to ensure
     forward progress.                                       •   Let them know you are available for
                                                                 _____________________.
 •   Be _____________________ with feedback.

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Understanding Conflict

Competitor                                                                                   Motivator
 Natural Response:                                         Natural Response:

 Expressed as:                                             Expressed as:

 Changed Focus:                                            Changed Focus:

Analyzer                                                                                   Peacemaker

 Natural Response:                                         Natural Response:

 Expressed as:                                             Expressed as:

 Changed Focus:                                            Changed Focus:

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Five C’s of Conflict

Is there a blind spot in your approach to resolving conflict?

                        High

                                  Compete                                             Colaborate
                                  (win/lose)                                           (win/win)

         Importance
         of achieving
         own goals.
                                                     Compromise
                                                      (win/lose
                                                      win/lose)

                                  Cop Out                                               Cave In
                                 (lose/lose)                                          (lose/win)

                                                                                                   High
                               Importance of maintaining / improving relationship
                               with the other party to the conflict.

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