QUARTERLY MEETING JULY 22-23, 2021 HFMA SUNFLOWER "BLINDSPOT ZONE WORKSHOP" PRESENTED BY: KEVIN MCCARTHY, CSP
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Quarterly Meeting July 22-23, 2021 HFMA Sunflower “BlindSpot Zone Workshop” Presented by: Kevin McCarthy, CSP © 2014 Kevin McCarthy. All rights reserved. Duplication prohibited. 1 503-427-8531 | www.KevinMcCarthy.com | Info@KevinMcCarthy.com
Most teams have relationship challenges. We provide tools and training programs to help team members embrace one another’s uniquenesses so they can enjoy optimal performance. Most leaders struggle to maximize performance and capacity within their teams so we help leaders discover the blind spots in Leadership, Culture, Operations, Training and Service to improve overall performance and the bottom line. DISCOVER YOUR BLIND SPOTS! FREE BLIND SPOT ASSESSMENT www.KevinMcCarthy.com/BSA Receive a free Kindle copy of BlindSpots - Why Good People Make Bad Choices at www.KevinMcCarthy.com/book. Connect with Kevin at: Website: www.KevinMcCarthy.com LinkedIn: www.LinkedIn.com/in/KevinMcCarthyCSP Twitter: www.Twitter.com/KevinMcCarthy01 Book: www.KevinMcCarthy.com/book Keynote Speaking Leadership & Team Training High Performance Coaching © 2014 Kevin McCarthy. All rights reserved. Duplication prohibited. 2 503-427-8531 | www.KevinMcCarthy.com | Info@KevinMcCarthy.com
Virtues Continuum “ I believe ability can get you to the top, but it takes character to keep you there… Coach John Wooden Definition of Character: Moral or ethical quality. Reputation. Your reputation can be improved over time as you deliberately develop greater character. Definition of Virtue: Behavior showing high moral standards. “ Virtue is a wealth, and all the other good things that a man can have come from virtue. Socrates © 2014 Kevin McCarthy. All rights reserved. Duplication prohibited. 3 503-427-8531 | www.KevinMcCarthy.com | Info@KevinMcCarthy.com
Character counts Indifference 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Compassionate Covetousness 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Contentment Fearfulness 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Courage Double-mindedness 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Decisiveness Faintheartedness 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Determination Slothfulness 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Diligence Undisciplined 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Disipline Giving-up 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Endurance Condemning 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Forgiveness Stinginess 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Generousity Ungrateful 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Gratefulness Dishonesty 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Honesty Pride 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Humility Unfaithfulness 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Loyalty Anger 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Meekness Impatience 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Patience Negativity 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Positivity Tardiness 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Punctuality Disrespect 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Respect Irresponsible 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Responsibility Self-indulgence 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Self-control Unreliable 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Trustworthy Deceptive 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Truthfulness Impurity 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Virtue Foolishness 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Wisdom Try the Character Counts 360 Challenge. Download a copy of this form from www.KevinMcCarthy.com/toolbox and invite several people you trust who know you well to provide you feedback by completing the form and returning it to you. © 2014 Kevin McCarthy. All rights reserved. Duplication prohibited. 4 503-427-8531 | www.KevinMcCarthy.com | Info@KevinMcCarthy.com
Assessing Values Defining your Values-Based Decision Filter Definition of Values: A person’s principles or standards of behavior; one’s judgement of what is important in life. This exercise will help you define the top three values through which you will filter all of your major life decisions. ASSESSMENT TOP VALUES: 1. __________________________________ 6. __________________________________ 2. __________________________________ 7. __________________________________ 3. __________________________________ 8. __________________________________ 4. __________________________________ 9. __________________________________ 5. __________________________________ 1 0. __________________________________ TOP VALUES: 1. __________________________________ 4. __________________________________ 2. __________________________________ 5. __________________________________ 3. __________________________________ 6. __________________________________ MY TOP VALUES IN LIFE ARE: 1. __________________________________ 2. __________________________________ 3. __________________________________ © 2014 Kevin McCarthy. All rights reserved. Duplication prohibited. 5 503-427-8531 | www.KevinMcCarthy.com | Info@KevinMcCarthy.com
Memory Jogger Use this list of possible values to come up with ideas of your own values Abundance Connection Exploration Intensity Preparedness Acceptance Consciousness Expressiveness Intimacy Presence Accomplishment Consistency Fairness Intuitiveness Preservation Accountability Contentment Faith Inventiveness Privacy Accuracy Continuity Fame Investing Proactivity Achievement Continuous Family Influence Progress Acknowledgement Contribution Fidelity Joy Prosperity Adaptability Control Flexibility Justice Punctuality Adventure Conviction Flow Kindness Quality Affection Convincing Focus Knowledge Quiet Aggressiveness Confidence Forgiveness Leadership Rationality Agility Cooperation Fortitude Learning Recognition Alertness Courage Freedom Liberty Relationships Ambition Courtesy Friendship Logic Reliability Anticipation Creativity Frugality Longevity Religion Appreciation Curiosity Fun Love Resourcefulness Assertiveness Daring Generosity Loyalty Respect Attentiveness Decisiveness Giving Making a difference Responsibility Audacity Delight Going the extra mile Mastery Righteousness Awareness Dependability Goodness Maturity Risk-taking Balance Desire Grace Meaning Romance Beauty Determination Gratitude Merit Safety Belonging Devotion Growth Mindfulness Security Blissfulness Dignity Guidance Modesty Self-esteem Boldness Diligence Happiness Money Selflessness Bravery Discipline Hard work Motivation Seriousness Brilliance Discovery Harmony Nonviolence Service Calm Discretion Health Openness Simplicity Carefulness Diversity Drive Helpfulness Opportunity Caring Duty Heroism Optimism Sincerity Certainty Eagerness Holiness Order Skill Challenge Education Honesty Organization Speed Change Effectiveness Honor Orientation Spirit Charity Efficiency Hopefulness Originality Stability Cheerfulness Elation Hospitality Outcome Strength Clarity Elegance Humility Outstanding service Style Cleanliness Empathy Humor Passion Systemization Collaboration Encouragement Imagination Peace Teamwork Comfort Endurance Improvement Perceptiveness Timeliness Commitment Energy Independence Perseverance Tolerance Communication Enjoyment Ingenuity Persistence Tradition Community Enthusiasm Inner peace Pleasure Tranquility Compassion Equality Innovation Poise Trust Competence Excellence Insightfulness Positive attitude Truth Competition Excitement Inspiration Power Unity Concentration Experience Integrity Practicality Well-being Condor Expertise Intelligence Precision © 2014 Kevin McCarthy. All rights reserved. Duplication prohibited. 6 503-427-8531 | www.KevinMcCarthy.com | Info@KevinMcCarthy.com
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What makes people tick? We can reduce our presuppositions about people and enjoy better communications and relationships when we remember Dr. Tony Alessandra’s Platinum Rule. Competitor Motivator Keyword: Keyword: Driving need: Driving need: Known by: Known by: Focus: Focus: Analyzer Peacemaker Keyword: Keyword: Driving need: Driving need: Known by: Known by: Focus: Focus: © © 2014 2014 Kevin Kevin McCarthy. McCarthy. All All rights rights reserved. reserved. Duplication Duplication prohibited. prohibited. 88 503-427-8531 | www.KevinMcCarthy.com | Info@KevinMcCarthy.com 503-427-8531 | www.KevinMcCarthy.com | Info@KevinMcCarthy.com
Potential Blind Spots Competitor Motivator Some Strengths: Some Strengths: Blind Spot: Blind Spot: Watch for: Watch for: • Bulldozing • Tasks over Relationships • Greed • Talks over others • Impulsive • Workaholism • Power-hungry • Win at any cost • Inattentive to Details • Unrealistic • Impatient • Arrogant • Opinionated-obstinate • Wishful thinking • Lack of follow through • Insensitive • Abrasive • Too risky • Glosses over tension • Exaggerates • Too outspoken • Too Forceful • Personal attacks toward others Analyzer Peacemaker Some Strengths: Some Strengths: Blind Spot: Blind Spot: Watch for: Watch for: • Analysis Paralysis • Overly critical • Arrogance • Tendency to avoid change • Tendency to • Defensiveness • Passive-aggressive tactics avoid risk • Withdraws under pressure • Cynical • Isolation (doesn’t play well...) • Gets overwhelmed by deadlines • Internalizes • Unbending frustrations • Gives in to please others • Easily swayed to help • Taken advantage of • Avoids tension • Indecisive • Sacrifices self • False loyalties • Ignores problems © Kevin © 2014 McCarthy. Kevin AllAll McCarthy. rights reserved. rights Duplication reserved. prohibited. Duplication prohibited. 99 503-427-8531 | www.KevinMcCarthy.com 503-427-8531 | www.KevinMcCarthy.com | Info@KevinMcCarthy.com
Working Together Competitor Motivator • Make efficient use of __________________. • Be _________ to collaboration. • Focus on the topic at hand and avoid • Recognize the ___________ of their energy ________________________. and enthusiasm. • Expect ________________. • Find ways to _____________ them so they feel appreciated. Analyzer Peacemaker • Talk to them about • Show warmth and concern for their _____________________, fact-based as- ______________________. pects of ideas/projects. • Offer your point of view, but take an • Avoid ______________________ them for ______________________________ approach. an immediate decision. • Work _________________________ with them. • Expect _____________________. © Kevin © 2014 McCarthy. Kevin AllAll McCarthy. rights reserved. rights Duplication reserved. prohibited. Duplication prohibited. 10 10 503-427-8531 | www.KevinMcCarthy.com 503-427-8531 | www.KevinMcCarthy.com | Info@KevinMcCarthy.com
Leading Others Competitor Motivator • Outline ___________________ of authority • Allow them to ____________________ group projects. • Provide ____________________ overviews. • Let them try new _________________________. • Be ________________ about expectations. • Keep them on ___________________________. • Give _________________, then autonomy. • Don’t mistake ________________________ for understanding. Analyzer Peacemaker • Check in only when ___________________. • Give clear ______________________________. • Have them ____________________ you on • Request their ___________________________. status and decisions. • Gradually give more _____________________. • Use ________________________ to ensure forward progress. • Let them know you are available for _____________________. • Be _____________________ with feedback. © Kevin © 2014 McCarthy. Kevin AllAll McCarthy. rights reserved. rights Duplication reserved. prohibited. Duplication prohibited. 11 11 503-427-8531 | www.KevinMcCarthy.com 503-427-8531 | www.KevinMcCarthy.com | Info@KevinMcCarthy.com
Understanding Conflict Competitor Motivator Natural Response: Natural Response: Expressed as: Expressed as: Changed Focus: Changed Focus: Analyzer Peacemaker Natural Response: Natural Response: Expressed as: Expressed as: Changed Focus: Changed Focus: © © 2014 2014 Kevin Kevin McCarthy. McCarthy. All All rights rights reserved. reserved. Duplication Duplication prohibited. prohibited. 12 12 503-427-8531 | www.KevinMcCarthy.com | Info@KevinMcCarthy.com 503-427-8531 | www.KevinMcCarthy.com | Info@KevinMcCarthy.com
Five C’s of Conflict Is there a blind spot in your approach to resolving conflict? High Compete Colaborate (win/lose) (win/win) Importance of achieving own goals. Compromise (win/lose win/lose) Cop Out Cave In (lose/lose) (lose/win) High Importance of maintaining / improving relationship with the other party to the conflict. © 2014 Kevin McCarthy. All rights reserved. Duplication prohibited. 13 503-427-8531 | www.KevinMcCarthy.com | Info@KevinMcCarthy.com
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Fold and tear on the line BlindSpot Zone Seminar BlindSpot Debrief (Please Print Clearly): HFMA Sunflower 2021 Name / Title / Org: Email: Phone: I’M INTERESTED IN... (Please check ALL that apply): Would you recommend this program to others? o Notify me about Virtual Learning Programs when available. o YES, Have Kevin back! o Sign me up for Kevin’s email updates so I can continue learning. o Please contact me to discuss _________________________ YOUR TESTIMONIAL AND FEEDBACK IS APPRECIATED: I would have liked to spend more time on: What I liked most about the program was: I would have liked to spend less time on: What I would like to say to Kevin is: o Check the box if we may quote you. Thank you for your participation. Please give your completed form to the speaker. © 2014 Kevin McCarthy. All rights reserved. Duplication prohibited. 15 503-427-8531 | www.KevinMcCarthy.com | Info@KevinMcCarthy.com
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