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The United Church 01962 849559 Jewry Street Winchester SO23 8RZ New website: ucw.org.uk Minister Revd Tim Searle Fellowship, Worship and Education Co-ordinator Pat Fry 01962 880748 Asst Co-ordinator Juli Wills 01962 863057 Pastoral Co-ordinator Helen McTiffin 01962 868073 Bereavement Sandy Foster 01489 890334 Flowers Distribution Lesley Worrall 01962 882269 Cradle Roll Ann Coleman 07739 793488 Students Sam Barnes 02380 685531 Finance Co-ordinator Christine Cook 01962 884510 Payments and Expenses Ralph Jessop 01962 843114 Donations and Gift Aid David Worrall 01962 882269 Administration Co-ordinator Bob Lord 01962 855910 Asst Co-ordinator Dorothy Lusmore 01962 885824 Office Administrator Naomi Honey 01962 849559 office@ucw.org.uk Mission Co-ordinators Jo Crocker 01962 622654 Jo Pellatt 01962 849334 Youth Worker Sam Barnes 07742 077114 sambarnesyouthworker@gmail.com Live at Home Anna Miles 01962 890995 Magazine Editor Barbara Dunton 01962 882012 yours@unitedchurchwinchester.org.uk 2
Minister’s Letter Walking the Way By the time you read this, Easter will have been and gone. We will have experienced the solemnity of Maundy Thursday, the grief and guilt of Good Friday and the renewed hope of Easter Day itself. That Holy Week takes us through such a wide gamut of emotions serves to remind us of how much our own lives, our own highs and lows, are reflected in the last moments of Jesus’ earthly life. With that in mind I offer some words from a sermon I preached on Palm Sunday. They invite you to pretend, if only for a moment, that you don’t know the end of the story. They invite you to imagine yourself inside that story, seeing your own life reflected through the eyes of Jesus as he journeyed ever closer to the cross. Today begins Holy Week. Today, we again set our feet on the road to the Last Supper, to the garden to pray, to the cross, and to the tomb. And while you may already know the ending, pretend for a moment that you don’t. The disciples didn’t. When Jesus died on Friday, that was supposed to be the end. If death is not real, then Easter is no miracle. So, plant your feet in the dust of Jerusalem this day. Feel the palm branch in your hand and remember the teacher who rode through the subversive protest on a colt. This Holy Week story is life. This story is our lives. Joy. Love. Fear. Grief. Betrayal. Pain. Even the ordinary: eating, drinking, washing. This place, beloved, is where we learn both joy and grief, celebration and pain: in church during Holy Week. Here, we see our ordinary lives echoed in the life and love of Jesus Christ, the Eternal. We see our imperfect lives reflected in the perfect and saving love of Christ. 3
This story is our story. Beloved, we are invited to gather on Jerusalem’s streets and shout Hosanna once again. May our lives reflect the protest that we have held here today: that despite what the world may tell us, our highest loyalty is to Christ alone, the one who died and lives again, the one who binds us to people of all races, nationalities, and affiliations. Christ, the one who joins us together with people we love and with people we’d rather not associate with. And so, with our hands and our feet, with our sight and our senses, with our singing and our prayers, let us walk through Holy Week again. Amen Sincerely, Tim News of the United Church Family We send our sympathy to Sarah Holmes whose mother, Mary, died suddenly on 14th March. Mary’s funeral was conducted by Tim, our minister, in church on 11th April. We continue to remember Sarah in our prayers. We were also sorry to hear of the death of Hazel Lawson on 13th April. Hazel moved from Chester last summer to be near Steve and Jane and lived the last eight months of her life at Abbotts Barton Care Home. She had been quite frail for some time but came to The United Church whenever she was well enough. We remember Steve and Jane, Kate and David and Sarah in our prayers. 4
Congratulations to Lesley and David Worrall who celebrated their Golden Wedding anniversary on 29th March! Congratulations also to Rosie and Howard Mellor on the arrival of their first grandchild. He is the son of Beth and her husband Cory and was born on 7th April. We think of those children and young people in our congregation who are anticipating exams in the next couple of months. We hope that they feel supported and are able to do their best. I would like to take this opportunity to thank Graham Rolfe for all his hard work in the role of Pastoral Co-ordinator over the last five-plus years. He has been brilliant and we are so glad that he doesn’t intend to disappear! The Pastoral Team is indeed a team and we work together to support the United Church “family”. If you have a pastoral concern you wish to share then please do talk to your pastoral visitor or Tim, me or another member of the team. Helen McTiffin Pastoral Co-ordinator A message from Dorothy Lock Thank you for the cards, flowers and good wishes when I celebrated my 90th birthday earlier in the year. It is always nice to be remembered. A message from Dick Parker “I recently had a surprise visitor, it was Jessica bringing with her some flowers from those used for the Church the previous day. As someone whose wife, when her eyesight permitted, used to take a turn in arranging 5
flowers (in our previous church she was flower secretary for many years) and a recipient, may I reinforce the article by Lesley Worrall, in the March edition . To sit in my chair and be able to see and smell such a reminder means a great deal to me, as I am sure it does to other recipients, to say nothing of the pleasure of being able to talk to the bearer of such gifts. So a long winded effort to say thank you to you all. My prayers are with you.” News from the Circuit After the Church Meeting I was asked to put a Circuit update in Yours. Special Events: • Easter Offering Service will be at Weeke on Sunday 12th May at 6.30. Unfortunately this clashes with the Winchester Christian Aid Service, to be held at United. In future years this clash will be avoided. • Circuit Service at Hillier Gardens will be on 23rd June, time to be confirmed. Survey During the Summer all churches will be invited to complete a wide ranging questionnaire, so that a new “Mission, Ministry and Property Plan” can be drawn up, which will determine future staffing arrangements. Church Council will be exploring how best to give you the opportunity to consider this prayerfully and express your views. Staffing Rev. Andrew Bird will be on sabbatical during the summer, so the local preachers will have extra duties. 6
Circuit Stewards New stewards are needed – at present Winchester is under represented – so if you feel you could serve in this way please talk to me about what’s involved. Pat Fry Visit to Hong Kong Following on from Alison Wood's and David and Lesley Worrall's account of churches in the West Indies, we thought we would write about our visit to the Methodist International Church (MIC) in Hong Kong in February. What a delight it was to be invited to the 11 o'clock service where Howard Mellor was preaching in place of MIC's minister who was on holiday. We were greeted warmly in the open foyer of the 22-storey building and took the lift to the first floor where the service in English was to take place. The worship space was bright and uplifting, with a large cross built into the outside wall the focus of the room. All those who were new to the church were asked to stand up. This meant that those nearby came up to welcome us after the service. Two screens with clear text and moving images facilitated the worship and there was a short video with a church member talking through upcoming events. As well as a choir and small band there were two young people leading the singing. The music was lively and the singing was inspired. Howard preached 7
with his usual humour, warmth and feeling on Time linking the theme to the lives of the people of Hong Kong he knows so well. The notices were similar to ours but included how much money had been given in the last month and what the budgeted amount for the month was. The sums were very large and showed a lot of generous giving. At the end of the service we were given a bag, like the ones we gave out during the Open Days, with information about the church and events and goodies including chocolate! Lots of people talked to us and we had a drink back down in the foyer. One of the church council said how careful the architect had been to listen to what people wanted in each part of the building and the care taken over the plans. The stairs have a separate ramp for children to hold onto. He talked about the church’s hopes for continued growth. You all know what a good cook Howard is. Despite having three services to prepare he had made some delicious soup for a meeting he was running after the service and for his guests! Richard and Lesley Ritchie were visiting too. Rosie took us for a tour of the building which has four different worship spaces, for different languages, all with beautifully made wooden furniture, flower arrangements for the Chinese New Year and windows looking out onto the skyscrapers of Hong Kong. The architect has done a wonderful job of creating a building with flowing lines and interesting shapes. Thousands of Philippino women are employed by families in Hong Kong. Their day off is Sunday and they have to leave their dwelling places. A few years back, seeing that these women spent their time sitting on pavements and in parks, the MIC saw it 8
as their mission to provide a place where the women could be welcomed and feel safe. We saw how the building was being used on several floors as a place of socialising and learning as well as worship by many of them. They have their own representatives on Church Council and organise lessons in cooking, craft and music. Many of the women spend the whole day at the MIC. They made us feel welcome as we popped in with Rosie to see them. Rosie is acting as Junior Church leader and organises activities during the week as well as on Sundays. She proudly showed us a whole purpose-built floor devoted to children’s work, where the architect had come up with everything they had asked for. Howard and Rosie were heavily involved in the design of the new MIC and they must be congratulated on a building built for people to worship together, to support each other and with the space to reach out and welcome newcomers. Bob and Anne Lord. Called to Preach? One morning in 1992, I was sitting on my bed reading; I was studying for a degree in pastoral theology and this was one of the set books. The chapter I was reading happened to be on the subject of preaching and as I closed the book at the end of it, the thought came unexpectedly into my head, “Why shouldn’t I preach?” My immediate response was, “Because I haven’t 9
been called.” I was fully aware that one doesn’t just decide that preaching would be a good idea; one has to be called. I tried to put the thought out of my mind, but over the next few weeks, it persisted in intruding. Eventually I decided to see the circuit superintendent. When he heard my account, he agreed that it wasn’t a call to preach; he told me to go away and pray about it and come back in three months if I still thought I might have a call – perhaps God was calling me to a different ministry? Three months later, to his surprise, I was back in his office, explaining that I still didn’t know whether I had a call, but wanted the opportunity to test it. The procedure in South Africa (for Methodists) was for the would-be preacher to attend the Local Preachers’ Meeting and give an account of their conversion and their call to preach. I spoke honestly about my dubious call, but added that if I was given the opportunity to try preaching, I felt sure that I would know whether it was genuine or not. I had to leave the room while they voted and when I returned, was told that they had agreed to give me a note to preach – the first step in the training process. As I prepared for my first sermon, the theme of which was “God is everywhere, but we are not always aware of it”, ideas flowed. Of course I was nervous, but as I stood in the pulpit and started to speak, I felt an overwhelming sense of rightness, of being in the place God wanted me to be. I have never since doubted my call. I hope my preaching has had an effect on some people’s lives; what is certain is that it has had an effect on mine. It has helped me to grow in my relationship with God and to grow in love towards other people. As I have tried to follow the words of the hymn “......I will weep when you are weeping, when you laugh, I’ll laugh with you” I have grown in my sense of connection with all people and my desire for unity within the huge diversity of our world. Valerie Wright 10
Space to Grow In our frantic world it can be hard to find space to grow as Christians. Too often, church itself becomes a place focused on what we do rather than on how to be. God calls us to grow in our discipleship of Christ, but in order to do so we must, at times, set aside the demands of the day to be in God’s presence. ‘Space to Grow’ is a three-session course designed to explore just that: how we can find space in our busy lives to grow spiritually. Each session will begin at 6.30pm with food and then lead into the topic for that evening. Led by our Minister, Tim, these sessions will include a mixture of input and discussion and will finish no later than 8pm. Whilst the sessions will be grounded in the Christian tradition, all are welcome, whatever your faith or background. The only requirement is a desire to grow spiritually. So come and join us on a journey; perhaps together we might all find space to grow. 9th May Session 1: A biblical perspective: did Mary choose the better part? 23rd May Session 2: Praying and prayerfulness: is there a difference? 6th June Session 3: Wellbeing in the 21st century: towards flourishing in a frantic world. Sign the notice in the hall, or e-mail or phone the church office office@ucw.org.uk/01962 849559. 11
Court Chaplains Continuing the series on chaplaincy roles, this month we talk to William Cole and Ann Jones who volunteer as Court Chaplains at Winchester Crown Court, a role within the city centre chaplaincy What made you become a court chaplain? William: I served on a jury in August 2017 and was affected quite deeply by the whole experience. I saw there was a team of chaplains, a group of ladies, and I thought there should be a man on this team as well. I sensed this was something I could do, with the experience of having been on a jury. Ann: Having spoken to jury members in the past about how stressful it is in court and listening to William talk about his experiences, I thought this would be a good opportunity to go and support people, so that’s why I did it. What does the role involve? Ann: Just being there for people, the jury, barristers, the defendant, witnesses, office staff, anyone within the court who might need some support; someone to sit and listen to them talk about anything that worries them. We’re there to listen when people feel overburdened, frightened and worried. William: There are three groups of people we help; the people who work in the court facing pressure day and day out, those affected by the case and juries. We listen to people and can also refer them to other organisations like victim support. We have links with other chaplaincies such as at Winchester Prison. It’s very important to stay unbiased; whatever people have or have not done, they’re human beings. What difference do you think it makes to people? William: We want to reassure people in a severe and intimidating environment. Recognising that coming into court is difficult, we are with people in their waiting, which is often long, sometimes 12
marked by fear and trepidation, sometimes by hope which can be misplaced. We are there to help with basic things, 'where's the toilet?' a frequent question as well as encouraging people and allaying anxieties. Ann: It's a very austere building, it is old and it can be overwhelming. I remember a little while ago talking to a couple of parents who were sat in a very distressed state waiting for sentencing of their son. It took them some time to be able to express themselves, however they just wanted to offload about how lost and helpless they felt. We didn't have to say very much, we just had to listen and afterwards they said “thank you we’re really glad that you're here”. Can you give any other examples of people you’ve helped? William: We’ve helped the jurors talk about how they're feeling and how it's affected them with their job or with child care. Obviously we don't talk about the case itself. A Muslim lady, whose husband was on trial, wanted to talk. When I offered to pray for her she said 'But I am not a Christian'. I reassured her that God is greater than us and hears what we pray in faith, then prayed quietly for the lady and the case. Frequently, being a chaplain involves listening to families as they come to terms with what is happening to their spouses, partners, children or siblings. Ann: There was one young man who had been through quite a lot in his life. He was unsure about talking at first and then said what a lot of nonsense he had made with his life and he felt going to prison was the only way he could get his life straight. His family had never heard him speak like that. It was really frightening for him and I think speaking made him realise that he had to make something of his life. There was also one jury member who was very distressed because the case involved young children and he had young children at home. He was having nightmares and not coping and he said talking to us helped. On the same jury there was a lady who was a Christian and asked us to pray for her which doesn't happen very often. 13
There are going to be changes in the offices at Winchester court as well as alterations to the building itself so we listen to worries and concerns regarding their future. You must hear some really difficult cases in court, how do you cope with that? Ann: Personally I don't dwell on it. With my background in nursing, I am used to seeing and dealing with difficult situations. It doesn't mean I’m insensitive, but you can't help people if you take it to heart and let it affect you. I also pray and I talk to other friends and colleagues. At times certain cases can leave an impression, that’s life as a human being, just keep it in context and start another day then you cope. William: I often write things down. I pray and talk to other people. We support one another on the team. Sometimes when you're in court, you think “what am I here for, there's no one interested in talking” but people have told us they’re glad we’re there even if they don't want to talk. We can also sit and pray for the situation, pray for the jury, the judge, and all those affected. What does it mean to you to be able to do the role? William: It's a great privilege serving suffering people and listening to people in the name of Christ. Ann: You can bring some calm to someone in a difficult situation and they know that there's someone there for them. I think that's really important. It gives you a sense of fulfilment, that you're doing something for people in the name of Christ. Having a faith helps; if I didn't have a faith my reactions might be quite different. I just give everything to him and he often gives me the answers. Sometimes people are put off by the word chaplaincy, however when they’re feeling worry and stress they can come to us, even if they don’t want us to pray with them. I said to one lady would you like me to pray she said “no” and I said would you like us to go away and pray for you and she said “yes”. 14
What would you like to see for the future of the role? Ann: We’re the third court in the country to do this, so it's all very new. As I have said, sometimes the word chaplain puts people off. One person thought I was a vicar and I had to explain what chaplaincy means. I’d like to grow people's understanding of who and what we are, and grow a bigger team so that we can cover most days of the week, especially when long lasting difficult cases are being heard. William: We are all on a learning curve. It would be good to have a strong and reliable team. We try to contact the person who is on the next day and tell them who to look out for in court, so you can give continuity of support. You can also say to people “if you'd like to speak to somebody tomorrow my colleague will be here”. Ann: People get to recognise you and they come and give you an update on what's happened but some people are very private. I remember one mother who was very stressed about her son being sentenced. She didn’t come and speak to us until the last day and then she burst into tears because she thought she wasn’t going to see her son again. It was so stressful for her and she wanted to go and see him in the cells. The security people were first class and I’m glad we were able to help too. This role is very fulfilling. It’s one of the best things I've ever done. This Article re-produced, with permission, from The Worthys Parish Magazine, (Ed.) Picking up the pieces after “Broken” At the Abbot Barton house group final session, having talked about what makes us really angry, we considered what we could actually do to channel our anger at the injustices in our society into constructive action. 15
The one practical idea that emerged was to look at supporting a credit union. This was something Archbishop Welby has advocated. More than twenty years ago Christians in Winchester set up a credit union, but it proved too small to be viable, so merged with others. Together they now form the Wessex Community Bank. You can save with them, through on-line banking, knowing your money is as safe as in a High Street bank, and in the meantime is being used to enable people who cannot get loans elsewhere to access credit at a fair rate, and profits are being channelled back into community projects. So if you are fortunate enough to have paid off your mortgage and now have a little to save each month, why not consider this. The Abbots Barton House Group The Wednesday Fellowship Join us for fun and fellowship over a good cup of tea. May 2019 1 May William Stewart Hope for the Hopeless 8 May Nick Langham A Touch of Classical Greece 15 May TO BE ADVISED 22 May Margaret Braddock John Vine the Artist 29 May TO BE ADVISED In March we enjoyed the following events: Putting together Coloured Bags Yvonne North A fun time was had by all, as we cut out of paper templates three sizes of cardboard bags. Each piece of cardboard was patterned on both sides, with one side having a large pattern, the corresponding side having a smaller one. We then folded and glued together the various sides, finishing off with hole punching in the top of the bags and threading through coloured ribbon, to tie in a bow. Very useful for wrapping an awkward shaped gift. 16
13 March A.G.M. Fellowship Songs of Praise We started with having a look back over the past year. We have shared and listened to a number of speakers and enjoyed their very diverse subjects. We have rambled through a royal forest, watched a film on Malawi, shared stories on the wearing of hats, learnt about the Jewish customs for Harvest, and heard about an Auctioneer's life. We have also heard about Missionary life in Japan, listened to Richard Costard's Songs of the South, Tim's journey to Africa and seen pictures of the Victoria Falls, as well as enjoying Yvonne's craft sessions with us. We give thanks to all our wonderful Speakers. The feedback from the monthly article in Yours, is that it continues to be enjoyed by our Church Fellowship. Our Charitable Giving this year will be, 'The Winchester Hospice, Friends of Winchester Cathedral and Reverse Rett. This meeting was followed by our Fellowship's choice of Songs of Praise, from Praise my soul the King of Heaven, Give me joy in my heart, keep me praising, Praise to the Lord, the Almighty, the King of Creation and many more. 20 March Daffodils and Pressure Cookers, TLC for the Mind. Pat Fry One of the readings Pat used, Matthew11: v28-30, was paraphrased this way: Come to me all you who are tired with hard work. I will put new life in you. Let me give you a hand and show you how to live. I'll go your pace and see you through. I'll give you the secret of a quiet mind. Pulling with me is easy, with my help the load is light. That is to say, life will not necessarily be easy, but Jesus yoke is easy in the sense that he walked this way before us and is with us through everything, even when we cannot sense his presence. Pat shared with us something of what she learnt at the mental health first aid course. Two of these things were, to be more sensitive to each other, and gentler with ourselves. There is a big 17
increase in the incidence of severe depression and anxiety. And that is where early recognition, that there is a problem can make a big difference. This is where the pressure cooker comes in. We can cook a good stew in 20 minutes or so, that would normally take a couple of hours in the oven. The right amount of pressure makes all the difference. But we do need a safety valve, so like the pressure cooker we need to let off steam in a safe and controlled way, where no-one can be hurt. Published by Action for Happiness are Ten Keys to Happier Living, entitled GREAT DREAM'. 1) G: Giving, Do things for others, 2) R: Relating, connect with people, 3) E: Exercising, Take care of your body, 4) A: Awareness, Live Life Mindfully, 5) T: Trying out, Keep Learning new things, 6) D: Direction, Have goals to look forward to, 7) R: Resilence, Find ways to bounce back, 8) E: Emotions, Look for what's good, 9) A: Acceptance, Be comfortable with who you are, 10) M: Meaning, Be part of something bigger. We listened to part of John Rutter's, 'For the beauty of the earth. Our final Hymn 513 Take this moment time and space, as a reflection. A meaningful afternoon. 27 March Hebridean Adventure Barbara Hillier At the invitation of her friend, Barbara journeyed to the Hebrides for a week's holiday in her friend's cottage. We were treated to a stunning pictorial, power point presentation of their car journey through Scotland to the Islands of the Hebrides. During their stay Barbara took many photos of the birds, of which there are an extraordinary diversity, that populate the islands. Including the magnificent Golden Eagle, Cormorants, Puffins, Curlews, Oyster Catchers, Great Shua, Redshank and many more. In all, over one hundred birds were photographed. Pamela Gilbert 18
SPACE IN THE CITY May 2019 Reflecting on The Lord’s Prayer with Brian Pickett Angela Tilby Peter Lippiett Elizabeth Stuart Wednesday lunchtimes 12.30 to 1pm 1, 8, 15 & 22 May 2019 at St Lawrence in the Square Winchester 19
1 May The Rev’d Brian Pickett Kingdom Come – ‘Our Father’ – a Jewish prayer? Brian Pickett, a retired priest in Romsey, served first as a Methodist, then Anglican, in parish work and hospital chaplaincy. He is a retreat leader, spiritual director and Oblate of the Sisters of Bethany in Portsmouth, where he leads study days on spirituality. After reading German and Classics, he researched in Hebrew, and has written on the German women mystics (‘The Heart of Love’ 1991) and the Psalms (‘Songs for the Journey’ 2002). Syriac spirituality continues to be an inspiration, encouraged by a sabbatical in Kerala and Syria with Liz, his wife and fellow priest. 8 May The Rev’d Canon Angela Tilby The Riddle of the Lord’s Prayer’. Angela Tilby is Canon Emeritus of Christ Church Cathedral, Oxford, and Honorary Chaplain of Portsmouth Cathedral. She is a theological educator, writer and broadcaster, whose contributions to ‘Thought for the Day’ on BBC Radio 4 and her various published writings have been much valued over many years. 15 May The Rev’d Canon Dr Peter Lippiett Praying the Prayer Peter Lippiett is retired and lives in Twyford, married to Maggie, occupied in grandparenting, gardening, travelling, campervanning, cooking and spiritual direction. He has worked as a general practitioner, parish priest, and retreat house warden, and before retirement was Spirituality Adviser to Portsmouth Diocese. 20
22 May Professor Elizabeth Stuart Lead us not into Temptation Professor Elizabeth Stuart joined the University of Winchester in 1998 as a Professor of Christian Theology and Director of the Centre for the Study of Theology and Religion. She became Director of Research and Knowledge Transfer in 2005 before being appointed Pro-Vice-Chancellor (Academic) in August 2008, and then First Deputy Vice-Chancellor in January 2013. No entrance fee is charged but your donations are most welcome Sandwiches and hot drinks will be available after the talks, in the church. Series Prayer from Matthew 6. 9-13 in various translations - Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name. Your kingdom come. Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And do not bring us to the time of trial, but rescue us from the evil one. Amen. NRSV Anglicised. Our Father in heaven, Reveal who you are. Set the world right; Do what’s best— as above, so below. Keep us alive with three square meals. Keep us forgiven with you and forgiving others. Keep us safe from ourselves and the Devil. You’re in charge! You can do anything you want! You’re ablaze in beauty! Yes. Yes. Yes. The Message 21
Our Father in heaven, may your name be held holy, your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. And forgive us our debts, as we have forgiven those who are in debt to us. And do not put us to the test, but save us from the Evil One. New Jerusalem Our Father in heaven, let Your name remain holy. Bring about Your kingdom. Manifest Your will here on earth, as it is manifest in heaven. Give us each day that day’s bread — no more, no less—And forgive us our debts as we forgive those who owe us something. Lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. But let Your kingdom be, and let it be powerful and glorious forever. Amen The Voice. The many and rich variety of talks given for Space in the City over the last couple of decades are available to listen to online via the website: See the Archive at www.spaceinthecity.org.uk JUNE 2019 Yours Magazine Publication date for the June 2019 magazine (the next one) is Sunday 26th May. The deadline for articles and notices is Monday 13th May. All contributions gratefully received. The Yours Team is: Barbara Dunton and Sophie Armstrong Email: yours@unitedchurchwinchester.org.uk 22
Christian Aid Week 12-18 May 2019 – it’s getting closer! Last month we thought about Tenneh in Sierra Leone – the most dangerous place in the world to become a mum – and the joy of the successful birth of her son Ansumana after the tragic loss of her firstborn due to the lack of adequate care and facilities. Much of the difference between her two pregnancies came from the provision of a health centre – albeit tiny and inadequately provisioned - and a trained nurse, Nurse Judith. Since then we had the great privilege of hearing a first-hand account of life in Sierra Leone by Joanna Tom-Kargbo, a Christian Aid worker there, kindly hosted by St Paul’s Church. Joanna knew Nurse Judith well, and had met Tenneh and her baby. We also saw the almost-final version of this year’s Christian Aid Week film, with Nurse Judith in a starring role! As always we will start the Week with a service of celebration at the United Church on Sunday 12 May at 6.30. Our speaker will be Claire Aston, Head of Strategic Communications at Christian Aid. It is always a great start to the week, whether you are collecting from door to door or supporting the work with prayer and donations. Claire has past links with Winchester which will be revealed on the night! And of course there will be a chance to see the film. And before the Week formally starts, on the morning of Saturday 11 May, there is to be a Big Bike to Brekkie at the Cathedral. If you are a Biker you can get sponsors to cover your cycle to the Cathedral (not a huge distance for most of you I guess!), and breakfast will be provided in the Refectory from 9.30 to 10.45. If you don’t want to get sponsored you are still welcome to cycle down: breakfast is £5 plus a further donation of your choice. In 23
either case you need to register to help catering arrangements; visit bit.ly/cawinchester19 or phone 023 8070 6969. Sierra Leone has been affected by a series of disasters in recent years; the one we may remember most vividly the terrible Ebola outbreak in 2013-16; the country was helped by the International Monetary Fund, but at the expense of a crippling debt. At 11.00 that morning a mass loop of cycles will form in front of the Cathedral ringing their bells, calling on the IMF to Drop the Ebola Debt. On Wednesday 15 May, 10.00 to 1.00, Robin and Linda Hodgson from St Stephen’s Sparsholt will be hosting a Coffee and Cake morning with bring-and-buy sale at their house ‘Tara’, 69 Dean Lane, Sparsholt SO22 5RA. And there may well be other Big Brekkies or coffee mornings – or why not arrange one yourself? Details on caweek.org/resources. Last year we raised over £24,800 for Christian Aid in Winchester and District. That is so worthwhile! Please help as you can! Please note: We could still do with more volunteers to help collect outside Tesco’s at Winnall on Friday 17 May. Please let Rosemary know if you could help for an hour or two (869007 or rcdunhill@gmail.com). 24
You’re invited to the Big Brekkie! The United Church Jewry Street Winchester Saturday 19th May 8.30 - 11.00 am Want to change the world over breakfast? Then come and tuck in at our Big Brekkie! We’ll be serving a delicious morning meal, while raising money to fight poverty and injustice worldwide. 25
LAST, BUT NOT LEAST …….. Attendance at church may be in decline in some parts of the Christian community, but this is not the complete picture. Some younger people are turning to religion, discovering the meaning that they find lacking in much of secular society. The sense of belonging to a community gives religion its special quality. According to research carried out by the University of Wisconsin- Madison, being part of a community of like-minded individuals is more important to happiness than theological conviction. More than ever before, with so many people experiencing challenges with jobs, mental health and relationships, the solace and safety-net provided by faith groups is a priceless boon. Zaki Cooper, Council of Christians and Jews, London NW 26
Dates for May 2019 1 Fairtrade Stall in the Coffee Lounge 10am-2pm Space in the City: Reflecting on the 12.30pm Lord’s Prayer (1of4) at St Lawrence in the Square *Wednesday Fellowship in Room 1 2.30pm 2 Coffee Bar Playtime in Room 1 10am-1pm Messy Church in the Hall 3.30-5.15pm 3 Friday Worship in the Church 11-11.20am 6 Coffee Bar & Church office closed 7 Baby & Toddler Group in the Hall 2-3.30pm 8 Space in the City: Reflecting on the 12.30pm Lord’s Prayer (2of4) at St Lawrence *Wednesday Fellowship 2.30pm 9 Coffee Bar Playtime in Room 1 10am-1pm ‘SPACE TO GROW’ - A biblical 6.30pm perspective: did Mary choose the better part? in the Hall 10 Friday Worship in the Church 11-11.20am 11 Christian Aid Week ‘Big Brekkie’ 8.30-11am in the Hall 13 Church Council in Room 1 9.30-12noon 14 Baby & Toddler Group in the Hall 2-3.30pm 15 Fairtrade Stall in the Coffee Lounge 10am-2pm Space in the City: Reflecting on the 12.30pm Lord’s Prayer (3of4) at St Lawrence *Wednesday Fellowship in Room 1 2.30pm 16 Coffee Bar Playtime in Room 1 10am-1pm 17 Friday Worship in the Church 11-11.20am 21 Baby & Toddler Group in the Hall 2-3.30pm 22 Space in the City: Reflecting on the 12.30pm Lord’s Prayer (4of4) at St Lawrence *Wednesday Fellowship in Room 1 2.30pm Women’s Group at the Queen Inn 7.30pm 27
23 Coffee Bar Playtime in Room 1 10am-1pm ‘SPACE TO GROW’ – Praying & 6.30pm prayerfulness: is there a difference? 24 Friday Worship in the Church 11-11.20am 27 Craft Club in Room 1 10-12noon 28 No Baby & Toddler Group - half term 29 *Wednesday Fellowship in Room 1 2.30pm 30 Coffee Bar Playtime in Room 1 10am-1pm Men’s Group at the Queen Inn 7.30pm 31 Friday Worship in the Church 11-11.20am *Details elsewhere in Yours Prevailing circumstances may require change of programme Services for May 2019 5TH MAY 9.00 am Word & Worship Mrs Pat Fry 10.30 am Holy Communion Revd Tim Searle 12TH MAY 9.00 am Holy Communion Revd Tim Searle 10.30 am Morning Worship Revd Tim Searle 19TH MAY 9.00 am Local Arrangement 10.30 am Morning Worship Mrs Pat Fry 26TH MAY 9.00 am Holy Communion Revd Tim Searle 10.30 am Morning Worship Revd Tim Searle 28
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