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MONDAY, FEBRUARY 8, 2021   WWW.UTRGVRIDER.COM   VOL. 6, ISSUE 19   /UTRGVRIDER   @UTRGV_THERIDER

     THE STUDENT VOICE OF THE UNIVERSITY OF TEXAS RIO GRANDE VALLEY

  Happy Valentine’s
        Day!
Happy Valentine's Day!Day! - THE STUDENT VOICE OF THE UNIVERSITY OF TEXAS RIO GRANDE VALLEY
2 ON CAMPUS                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            VALENTINE’S DAY 3
                                                                                                                                              February 8, 2021           February 8. 2021

                                                                                                                                                                        Spread love, not the virus
                                                                                                                                                THE RIDER                  THE RIDER

                                   ANNOUNCEMENTS
                                                         Today                  a brief discussion on library              on VLink.
                                                         Terry Crews Lecture    resources and screen the short film,       Homecoming Virtual Party
                                                         Terry        Crews,    “The Negro Leagues,” from 11:30            Join     Student       Activities     and
   The Rider is the official,                            actor, artist and      a.m. to 12:15 p.m. via Zoom. RSVP is       University Recreation as they host a            Alejandra Yañez                                                                                                                                because of the pandemic, so
                                                        activist, will be the   available on VLink.                        second round of music and virtual                                                                                                                                                              it’ll be interesting I think,”
award-winning student news-                           next guest speaker        Effective Meetings Training                tailgating for the UTRGV Women’s
                                                                                                                                                                                   the Rider
paper of the University of Texas                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Mazariegos said. “So, how I
                                                    for the Distinguished       Leadership & Mentoring will host           Basketball Team from 4 to 6 p.m. via           A UTRGV clinical ther-                                                                                                                          would like to see it be differ-
Rio Grande Valley. A PDF copy       Speaker Series. Student Activities          a training on how to effectively plan      Zoom. RSVP is available on VLink.            apist suggests taking a                                                                                                                           ent is, really, that people tune
of the newspaper can be accessed    will host the event from 7:30 to 9 p.m.     and run meetings from noon to 1            Upcoming                                     “COVID-friendly” approach to                                                                                                                      into self-love.”
                                    via Zoom. RSVP is available on VLink.       p.m. Wednesday and from 4 to 5 p.m.        Charreada Virtual 5K                         Valentine’s Day celebrations                                                                                                                         She said Valentine’s Day
online at utrgvrider.com. Views     Tuesday                                     Friday via Zoom. RSVP is available on      Student Activities and University            this year.                                                                                                                                        is the perfect opportunity
presented are those of the writ-    Voter Registration                          VLink.                                     Recreation will host a virtual 5K              “I love Valentine’s Day,” said                                                                                                                  to channel self-love and be
ers and do not reflect those of     Join the Civic Engagement Alliance          Virtual Involvement Fair                   on Feb. 20. The virtual race can be run      Maria Alejandra Mazariegos,                                                                                                                       your own date, regardless of
the newspaper or university.        to learn how to register to vote and        Leadership & Mentoring will host           or walked from any location, outdoors        a UTRGV clinical therapist. “I                                                                                                                    whether you are in a relation-
                                    the importance of voting from 11            a virtual involvement fair in which        or on the treadmill. The deadline to         always have. Ever since being                                                                                                                     ship or not.
                                    a.m. to noon via Zoom. Attendees have       students can learn about political,        register is Feb. 15, and participants will   a small child, I thought it was                                                                                                                      “I really think Valentine’s
      EDITOR-IN-CHIEF               a chance to win one of three VBucks         sport clubs and special-interest           be sent an event T-shirt and medal.          such a neat concept--just like,                                                                                                                   Day, when you’re filled with
       Jacqueline Peraza            prizes. RSVP is available on VLink.         organizations from 5 to 7 p.m. via Zoom.   RSVP is available on VLink.                  a day where people openly cel-                                                                                                                    self-love and you’re filled
                                    Showbiz Quiz Gameshow                       RSVP is available on VLink.                ‘Star Wars’ Conversations                    ebrate love.”
       ONLINE EDITOR                The Campus Activities Board will            Thursday                                   The Science Fiction & Fantasy                                                                                                                                                                  with gratitude, you’re able to
                                                                                                                                                                          Mazariegos said the expec-                                                                                                                      find love in every single way,”
       Estefania Hernandez          host a virtual trivia competition           Virtual Involvement Fair                   Interest Group will meet on Feb. 17          tations for Valentine’s Day can
                                    about movies, music and television from     Leadership & Mentoring will host           to discuss “Star Wars” and “The                                                                                                                                                                Mazariegos said. “You don’t
    SOCIAL MEDIA EDITOR                                                                                                                                                 be stressful for some people
                                    5:30 to 6:30 p.m. via Zoom. Attendees       a virtual involvement fair in which        Mandalorian” from 3:30 to 4:40                                                                                                                                                                 need a valentine or a valen-
          Danielle Perez                                                                                                                                                due to the holiday being com-                                                                                                                     tine’s date to show that or
       COPY EDITORS                 have a chance to win up to $200 in          students can learn about organizations     p.m. via Zoom. The Zoom meeting ID           mercialized.
                                    cash prizes. RSVP is available on           registered at UTRGV from noon to 2         number is 847 7933 3100.                                                                                                                                                                       prove that to yourself.”
       Arisbeth Rodriguez                                                                                                                                                 “I do think it’s gotten really                                                                                                                     For those who do plan
                                    VLink.                                      p.m. via Zoom. RSVP is available on        ‘The Witch Among Us’                         commercial and sometimes
          Avery Arizola             ‘Ma Rainey’s Black Bottom’                  VLink.                                     The UTRGV Latino Theatre                                                                                                                                                                       to spend the special day
         CARTOONIST                                                                                                                                                     there’s a lot of pressure, espe-                                                                                                                  with their significant other,
                                    The Cultural Council will celebrate         Friday                                     Initiative will participate in the
       Elizabeth Mendoza                                                                                                                                                cially for people who may not                                                                                                                     Mazariegos encourages cou-
                                    Black History Month with a                  The People Series: John Lewis              online “Festival de la Bete Noire.”
     SPORTS REPORTERS                                                                                                                                                   know how to express them-                                                                                                                         ples to take a “COVID-friend-
                                    screening of “Ma Rainey’s Black             Learn about civil rights activist and      The group will perform “The Witch
                                                                                                                                                                        selves,” she said. “It can feel                                                                                                                   ly” approach and use that
        Karina Rodriguez            Bottom,” starring Viola Davis and           American politician John Lewis             Among Us” by Francisco Garza
                                    Chadwick Boseman, from 7 to 9 p.m.          during this week’s installment of The      Rincones and directed by Carolina            kind of awkward.”                                                                                                                                 time to get to know each other
     SPANISH REPORTER                                                                                                                                                     Asked how this Valentine’s
                                                                                People Series, hosted by the Center                                                                                                                                                                                                       better at home.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            “
        Paulina Longoria            via Zoom. RSVP is available on VLink.                                                  Perez Jaber. The festival will run from
                                    Wednesday                                   for Diversity & Inclusion and              Feb. 17 to 21. Tickets are $5 and can be     Day will differ from the rest due                                                                    Roxanna Miranda/The Rider Graphic               “I definitely think that safe-
         REPORTERS                                                                                                                                                      to the pandemic, Mazariegos
                                    Black History Month Film                    DREAM Resource Center from 3 to            purchased here.                                                                                                                                                                                ty is important, and if you are
            Sol Garcia                                                                                                                                                  replied that she hopes people                                                                                                                     in a relationship and both
                                    The University Library will host            4:30 p.m. via Zoom. RSVP is available      --Compiled by Omar E. Zapata
         Omar E. Zapata                                                                                                                                                 don’t crowd at restaurants like                                                                                                                   partners have been safe, and
          Brigitte Ortiz                                                                                                                                                they usually do.
                                                                                                                                                                          “It’ll definitely be different in    [Maria Alejandra Mazariegos] suggests                                                                      you guys are already hanging

                                                 Have an announcement?
        Alejandra Yañez                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   out with each other anyways,
                                                                                                                                                                        that, for sure,” she said. “We’re
                                                                                                                                                                                                              cooking a meal with your partner, picking
      PHOTOGRAPHERS                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       then I think it’s important to
                                                                                                                                                                        not gonna see the big commer-                                                                                                                     continue to be safe and not
       Jacqueline Wallace                                                                                                                                               ciallike lines out of restaurants                                                                                                                 feel pressured by stereotypes
       Roxanna Miranda
                                                                                                                                                                                                               up food curbside or watching a movie at
                                                                                                                                                                        that kind of stuff.”                                                                                                                              and society that you have to

                                                         Email us at TheRider@utrgv.edu.
     ADVERTISING SALES                                                                                                                                                    The clinical therapist said                                                                                                                     pretend like we’re not in a
      REPRESENTATIVE                                                                                                                                                    due to the pandemic, there are                                                                                                                    pandemic and you have to do
         Monica Llanas                                                                                                                                                  more single people this year
                                                                                                                                                                        than people in a relationship.
                                                                                                                                                                          “The dating scene from
                                                                                                                                                                                                                               home.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                “                                                         the whole production of, like,
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          ‘Let me take you out,’ that
      FACULTY ADVISER
                                                                                                                                                                        2020 has been a little bit hard                                                                                                                                  See DATES, Page 6
        Michell Godinez

                                                                                                                                                                         From first dates to last
 STUDENT MEDIA DIRECTOR
      Azenett Cornejo              POLICE REPORTS
 STUDENT MEDIA PROGRAM
                                   The following are among the incidents reported to University Police between Jan. 26 and 31.
        ADVISER
       Jesus Sanchez                                 Jan. 26                    temporary license plate. An                Jan. 31
                                                     8:28 a.m.: An              investigation revealed the license         1 a.m.: An officer responded to
ADMINISTRATIVE ASSISTANTS                            officer and the            plate was not registered to the            the Casa Bella Apartments on the
        Ana Sanchez                                  Edinburg       Fire        vehicle and was confiscated. The           Brownsville campus in regard                              Sol Garcia                   During that time, Selber went on a first
                                                                                                                                                                                                                  date with another graduate student to
       Maggie Castillo                               Department were            non-affiliated driver was issued a         to minors consuming alcoholic                                The Rider
                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Half Price Books, a bookstore that was
                                                     dispatched       to        citation for the violation.                beverages. Four students were                  With Valentine’s Day around the cor-    right next to her home.
                                                     the     Community          2:40 p.m.: A non-affiliated                issued citations for the violation of        ner, it’s sweet to reminisce over memo-      “It was literally 15 steps away from my
                                                     Engagement      for        woman reported that she had                consumption of alcohol by minor,             rable dates.                              back door, and so, that was his sugges-
           CONTACT:                                  Student     Success        left her cell phone in the UTRGV           and the report will be referred                Before Kimberly Selber was a com-       tion, ‘Hey, let’s go to Half Price Books,’”
      EDINBURG CAMPUS               Building on the Edinburg campus             Health Pediatrics Specialties Clinic       to UTRGV Student Rights and                  munication associate professor and        she said.
      1201 West University Dr.      in regard to a report of smoke              women’s restroom on the Edinburg           Responsibilities for review.                 graduate program coordinator at              At the bookstore, each gained an in-
             ELABS 170              coming from the building. A                 campus on Jan. 28. She was able            --Compiled by Sol Garcia                     UTRGV, she was a graduate student         sight on the other’s book tastes. They
       Phone: (956) 665-2541        tar machine being used by                   to locate her cell phone through a                                                      at the University of Texas at Austin.             talked about books, but soon,
         Fax: (956) 665-7122        construction workers repairing the          different phone application,                                                                                                              they were talking about much
    BROWNSVILLE CAMPUS              building’s roof caused the smoke.           which showed it was at a                                                                                                                  more.
       1 West University Blvd.      Jan. 27                                     different location. Further                                                                                                                  “Not only did we talk about the
         Student Union 2.16         7:37 p.m.: A student lost her               investigation revealed the                                                                                                                books, but then we continued
       Phone: (956) 882-5143        personal identification cards at the        address observed on the                                                                                                                   talking until late into the night
         Fax: (956) 882-5176        University Center on Jan. 25. She           application came back to a                                                                                                                just about everything and any-
     Email: TheRider@utrgv.edu      needed to document the incident.            staff member’s residence.                                                                                                                 thing,” she said.
          © 2020 The Rider                                                                                                                                                                                                   After browsing bookshelves,
                                    7:39 p.m.: An officer responded             The staff member was
                                    to the library after the U.S. Border        interviewed and allegedly                                                                                                                 the couple went to a coffee shop

MORE THAN A                         Patrol informed the UTRGV Police            admitted to taking the                                                                                                                    to continue talking.
                                    Department that five individuals            phone to her residence. The                                                                                                                  “We didn’t want the conversa-
                                                                                                                                                                                                                          tion to end, so we knew there’d
 NEWSPAPER                          had crossed the U.S. border
                                    fence near River Levee Road in
                                                                                phone was returned to the
                                                                                owner. The case is under                                                                                                                  be another date,” she said.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                             Indeed, they had another date
                                    Brownsville, and were in the brush          investigation.                                                                                                                            and many more since. Selber and
 Delivering news to UTRGV no        area. The individuals were taken            Jan. 30                                                                                                                                   her now-husband, Greg Selber,
   matter the circumstances.        into custody by the Border Patrol           11:01 a.m.: A staff member                                                                                                                a communication professor at
                                    without incident. Four of the               reported two unauthorized                                                                                                                 UTRGV, continue to have dates,
                                    individuals were from Honduras,             purchases on her credit card                                                                                                              especially at bookstores.
                                    and one was from Mexico.                    in two different states. The                                                                                                                 “Going to the bookstore has                                            Jacqueline Wallace/The Rider Photo Illustration
                                    Jan. 28                                     case is under investigation.                                                                                                              been a staple date for us for over
                                    12:52 p.m.: A student found                 5:26       p.m.:       Officers                                                                                                                                                 UTRGV Communication Associate Professor Kimberly Selber and her husband, Communication
                                                                                                                                                                                                                          20 years now,” she said, laugh-
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Professor Greg Selber, are shown at left. At right is marketing junior Alondra Sanchez Proa.
                                    the left rear passenger window of           responded to a fire alarm                                                                                                                 ing. “Our date night oftentimes
                                    his vehicle shattered while it was          at Troxel Hall on the                                                                                                                     ends up at a bookstore.”              said. “I got really shy, and I couldn’t         perience that memory and others with
                                    parked unattended in the Facilities         Edinburg campus. A smoke                                                                                                                     A special date that stands out     even eat.”                                      her then-boyfriend. While the two
                                    lot on the Edinburg campus.                 detector on the second floor                                                                                                              to Alondra Sanchez Proa, a mar-          After Sanchez Proa and her date had a        are no longer together, they remain
                                    Facilities staff reported they had          had been triggered by a                                                                                                                   keting junior, began at Philly 77,    milkshake with cheesecake on top, they          friends who can rely on each other.
                                    not trimmed grass in the area. The          student heating food in the                                                                                                               a restaurant in downtown McAl-        left to stargaze. That was when Sanchez            “We know that we could count on
                                                                                                                                                                                                                          len. Sanchez Proa and her date        Proa’s date surprised her with flowers          one another if we’re struggling with a
                                    cause of the damage is unknown.             microwave. The Edinburg                                                                                                                                                         and a necklace that inside said, “¿Qui-         problem in our life,” she said.
                                    Jan. 29                                     Fire Department responded                                                                                                                 were in the outside area with
                                                                                                                                                                                                                          their food, but they were too ner-    eres ser mi novia?”                                 However, not all memorable dates
                                    8:17 a.m.: An officer conducted             to the location and deemed                                                                                                                                                         “I said yes,” she said. “It was just a       end pleasantly. Sometimes, they can
                                    a traffic stop off campus on a              the building safe for reentry.                                                                                                            vous to finish their meals.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                             “I was nervous because I had       very special memory to me.”                     get messy.
                                    vehicle for displaying an expired                                                                                                                                                                                              Sanchez Proa is happy she got to ex-            During Kevin Christman’s under-
                                                                                                                                                                                                                          butterflies in my stomach,” she
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      See STORIES, Page 6
Happy Valentine's Day!Day! - THE STUDENT VOICE OF THE UNIVERSITY OF TEXAS RIO GRANDE VALLEY
4 OPINION                                                                                                                                                                                                    NOTICIAS EN ESPAÑOL 5
                                                                                               February 8, 2021            8 de febrero de 2021
                                                                                                 THE RIDER                     THE RIDER

                                                                                                                                                      De la                                                                    a la
                                                                                                                                                     primera                                                                  última
                                                                                                                                                                                                                               cita
                                                                                                                                 Sol Garcia                                                                                                                                   primera cita, resultó siendo
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              tan incómoda cuando llegó y

            Lost and found
                                                                                                                                   The Rider
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              descubrió que su cita estaba
                                                                                                                            Con el Día de San Valentín
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              borracho.
                                                                                                                         a la vuelta de la esquina, es
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 “Está completamente bor-
                                                                                                                         bonito recordar citas inolvid-
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              racho, y yo estaba como, ‘Oh,
                                                                                                                         ables.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              no, yo estoy sobrio y él está
                                                                                                                            Antes de que Kimberly Sel-
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              borracho. … Supongo que
                                                                                                                         ber fuera una profesora de
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              ahora tendré que cuidar de
                                                                                                                         comunicación y coordinadora
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              él’”, dijo Christman, ahora un
                                 Estefania      and immediately started my          apply to South Texas College’s       del programa de posgrado de
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              estudiante de posgrado de so-
                                Hernandez       fitness journey. Waking up at 5     Physical Therapy Assistant           UTRGV, era una estudiante
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              ciología de UTRGV.
                                 the rider      a.m. each morning was a huge        Program to learn more about          de posgrado de UT Austin.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 Después de platicar, se
                                   Growing      struggle for me but the feeling I   the human anatomy when it            Durante ese tiempo, Selber
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              fueron al departamento de
                                up, we were     got after a workout made it feel    comes to regaining strength or       tuvo su primera cita con otro
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Christman. Su cita se sentó en
                                all supposed    like I could conquer anything       movement after an injury.            estudiante de posgrado en la
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              la cama de Christman, donde
                                to      have    throughout the day. Seeing my          There are so many things          librería Half Price Books, la
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              quedó inconsciente. Cuando
                                an idea of      slow but progressive results        in my life that I want to            cual estaba justo al lado de su
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              se despertó, vomitó inmedia-
                                our dream       showed me that hard work,           accomplish and such limited          casa.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              tamente en su ropa, la alfom-
                                c a r e e r ,   dedication and determination        time, but we will take it day           “Estaba      literalmente    a
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              bra y la cama de Christman.
            whether it be becoming              is everything you need to reach     by day. I will start my own          quince pasos de mi puerta
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 Christman lo ayudó a lim-
            an astronaut, a doctor or a         your goal. In the beginning,        fitness program one day. I           trasera, así que, eso fue lo que
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              piarse, pero su cita volvió a
            firefighter, but all I thought      I thought of the gym as my          will open up my own gym one          él sugirió, ‘Oye, vamos a Half
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              quedar inconsciente en la re-
            about was being happy with          hobby, but I have finally come      day, and I will start my own         Price Books’”, ella dijo.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              gadera.
            myself.                             to see that it is much more than    fitness apparel one day. Time           En la librería, la pareja ob-
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 “Pasaron      probablemente
               I never really thought about     that to me.                         is ticking, and all I know is that   tuvo mayor comprensión de
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              como dos o tres horas cuando
            my dream job. I just went with         In    the      beginning    of   I will not rest until I have done    cada uno aprendiendo sobre
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              se despertó, y yo como, ‘Ami-
            whatever felt right to me. I        December, I decided to start        what I wish to do.                   sus gustos en libros. Hablaron
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              go, acabas de vomitar por to-
            made myself learn many skills       my own website to share my             Now, what is my dream             sobre libros, pero tan pronto
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              dos lados’”, Christman dijo. “Y
            throughout my life to see what      tips, meals and workouts with       career? My dream career is           estaban hablando de muchas
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              él dijo, ‘Lo siento mucho’”.
            sparked a light in me and it        others. I knew how difficult it                                          cosas más.
                                                                                    to help others reach their                                                                                                                                                                   Terminaron la noche acur-
            never quite lit until this past     was for me to start my fitness                                              “No solo platicamos de li-
                                                                                    confidence, their happiness.                                                                                                                                                              rucados, pero después del día
            year.                               journey, so my goal was to                                               bros, sino que hablamos hasta
                                                                                    Fitness helped me through                                                                                                                                                                 siguiente, nunca volvieron a
               In January 2020, I made it       help other women reach their                                             altas horas de la noche sobre
                                                                                    many difficult times and now I                                                                                                                                                            verse.
            a goal of mine to change my         goal in their fitness journey.                                           todo y en realidad de cualqui-                                                                                                                          “[Si] tengo que cuidar de él
            lifestyle and join the gym. At      After college, I am going to        want to share that with others       er cosa”, ella dijo.                                                                                                                                 en la primera cita … no, gra-
            first. I was clueless as to how     start the National Academy          who feel the same way as I did          Después de explorar libre-                                                                                                                        cias”, Christman dijo.
                                                of Sports Medicine program          before. I may have felt lost and     ros, la pareja fue a una cafe-                                                     Jacqueline Wallace/Ilustración fotográfica de The Rider
            and where to start, so I grabbed                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     Después de esa experiencia,
            some books to read about            to become a certified personal      hopeless before, but I have          tería para seguir platicando.       De izquierda, Kimberly Selber y su esposo Greg Selber, unos profesores de comunicación de UTRGV. A la derecha,   Christman aprendió a dejar
            fitness, checked social media       trainer. I eventually want to       now found my peace in life.             “No queríamos que la con-        Alondra Sánchez Proa, una estudiante de tercer año de mercadotecnia.                                             de usar las aplicación de ci-
                                                                                                                         versación terminara, así que                                                                                                                         tas. Sin embargo, los que sí

                                                                                                                                                              Sin embargo, no todas las citas inolvid-
                                                                                                                         supimos que tendríamos otra                                                                                                                          las usan a veces deberían “ir

                                              Submit a
                                                                                                                         cita”, ella dijo.                                                                                                                                    despacio” y comunicar en un
                                                                                                                            Efectivamente,        tuvieron                                                                                                                    principio lo que en verdad
                                                                                                                         otra cita y muchas más des-

                                                                                                                                                               ables terminan gratamente. A veces,
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              quieren antes de quedarse de

                                         Letter to the Editor
                                                                                                                         de ese entonces. Selber y su                                                                                                                         ver con alguien, él dijo.
                                                                                                                         ahora esposo, Greg Selber, un                                                                                                                           “Deberían ser honestos con
                                                                                                                         profesor de comunicación de

                                                                                                                                                               pueden terminar siendo un desastre.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              lo que quieren al principio,
                                                                                                                         UTRGV, continúan teniendo                                                                                                                            para que la otra persona no
                                                                                                                         citas, especialmente en libre-                                                                                                                       piense de otra manera y no
                                                                                                                         rías.                                                                                                                                                terminen lastimándose los
                                                                                                                            “Ir a una librería ha sido una                                                                                                                    dos o que no obtengan lo que
                                                                                                                         cita esencial para nosotros ya      para terminar de cenar.                 “Dije que sí”, ella dijo. “Es un   tas inolvidables terminan grat-       quieran”, Christman dijo.
                                The Rider encourages letters but does not                                                por más de 20 años”, ella dijo         “Estaba nerviosa porque           recuerdo que fue muy especial         amente. A veces, pueden termi-           Para las personas que están
               guarantee publication. We reserve the right to edit letters for grammar and                               riendo. “Nuestras citas de          sentía mariposas en el estóma-       para mi”.                             nar siendo un desastre.               solteras, disfrútenlo, él dijo.
                content. Letters for The Rider may be sent to therider@utrgv.edu. All let-                               noche casi siempre terminan         go”, ella dijo. “Me puse muy            Sánchez Proa está feliz de           Durante los años de estudi-            “Aún existen dichas--cuan-
                                                                                                                         en una librería”.                   tímida, y ni siquiera pude com-      que pudo experimentar ese             ante de pregrado de Kevin             do estás soltero”, el estudiante
               ters must be typed and no longer than 400 words. Letters must include the                                    Una cita especial para Alon-     er”.                                 recuerdo y otros con su en ese        Christman en la Universidad           de posgrado dijo. “Simple-
               name, classification and phone number of letter’s author or the letter can-                               dra Sánchez Proa, una estudi-          Después de que Sánchez            entonces novio. Aunque ya no          de Texas A&M, empezó a usar           mente puedes estar enamora-
                    not be published. Opinions expressed in The Rider are those of the                                   ante de tercer año de mercad-       Proa y su cita tomaron una           están juntos, siguen siendo           una aplicación de citas en la         do contigo mismo, y no hay
                                                                                                                         otecnia, empezó en Philly 77,       malteada con pay de queso, se        amigos de fiar.                       que hablaba con un hombre             nada malo en hacer cosas que
                 writers and do not necessarily reflect the views of The Rider or UTRGV                                  un restaurante en el centro         fueron para ver las estrellas.          “Sabemos que podemos con-          que estaba en un bar cerca del        disfrutes por tu cuenta. No
                                             administrators.                                                             de McAllen. Sánchez Proa y          Ahí fue cuando la cita de Sán-       fiar el uno en el otro si batal-      apartamento de Christman.             siempre se necesita de algui-
                                                                                                                         su cita estaban en la parte de      chez Proa la sorprendió con          lamos con algún problema de           Decidieron conocerse en el bar,       en”.
                                                                                                                         afuera con su comida, pero          flores y un collar que decía,        nuestras vidas”, ella dijo.           pero para lo que Christman               --Traducido por Paulina
                                                                                                                         estaban muy nerviosos como          “¿Quieres ser mi novia?”                Sin embargo, no todas las ci-      pensaba que sería una linda           Longoria
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                                                                                                                                                                                          From me to you
                                                                                                                                                                                           February 8, 2021
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 Athletes of the Week:
 Valentine’s Special                                                                                                                                                                      DIY VALENTINE’S DAY PROJECTS TO GIFT
    Freshman nutritional sciences major                                                                                                      Q: What is your favorite aspect of                     Brigitte Ortiz
Valeria Gracia is a player for the UTRGV                                                                                                  baseball?                                                     The Rider
Women’s Tennis Team. Gracia is a Rio                                                                                                         A: “My favorite part about baseball,            Valentine’s Day is a day to celebrate
Grande Valley native and attended McAllen                                                                                                 personally, is just being able to compete. It   love, friendship and affection. To
High School before her admittance to                                                                                                      gives me, I guess, kind of like, competing      show appreciation to our loved ones,
UTRGV.                                                                                                                                    is my favorite thing to do, no matter what      we buy them gifts or sometimes make
    Q: What is your favorite aspect of tennis?                                                                                            it is. So baseball gives me a way to go out     them ourselves.
    A: “When you start playing, it’s just for                                                                                             and compete every day. If I wasn’t playing         The Rider interviewed two UTRGV
yourself but then, in the end, it’s just as                                                                                               baseball, I’d probably be doing something       students with small businesses about
much a team [sport] and everyone works                                                                                                    else where I was.”                              ideas for do-it-yourself gifts.
together.”                                                                                                                                   Q: How and when did you start playing           Carolina Rios, an interdisciplinary
    Q: When and how did you start playing                                                                                                 baseball?                                       studies senior, runs a home-based
tennis?                                                                                                                                      A: “I started playing, I don’t know, I       business in Mission that sells treats
    A: “I started playing when I was 13 years                                                                                             was probably 5 or so. I watched my cousin       and sweets online called Triple R
old, which is pretty old for this game. … But                                                                                             [play and he] was really into baseball. I       Sweets. She bakes cakes, cupcakes,
I started playing because I was super into                                                                                                went to all his games from a very young         cheesecake, mostachón (meringue
it. Since my parents love to watch it, I just                                                                                             age and just kind of fell in love with it.”     cake), chocoflan, brownies and em-
started watching it with them. Then, I just                                                                                                  Q: Who’s inspired you to continue            panadas.
wanted to play.”                                                                                                                          playing baseball?                                  Rios’ desserts can also be ordered in
    Q: If you could sum up your experience                                                                                                   A: “Oh, lots of people. Teammates,           miniature sizes.
playing tennis in one word, what would it                                                                                                 personally. Feeling the love from the              “Those are like the sweet stuff, I also
be and why?                                                                                                                               teammates is definitely probably the            have for, like, the savory or spicy,”
    A: “I would say ‘eventful’ because every                                                                                              biggest driver to continue playing baseball     Rios said. “I have those candies that
day when you go into, whether it is practice                                                                                              and be around guys like them.”                  are enchilados and I have the apples
or a match or whatever, you just don’t               UTRGV Tennis player Valeria Gracia         UTRGV Baseball pitcher Chase Bridges         Q: What is your favorite way to spend

                                                                                          “
                                                                                                                                                                                          that are covered with tamarindo and
know what to expect. So, you just have to                                                                                                 Valentine’s Day?                                they have chamoy and gummies.”
prepare for everything.”                                                                                                                     A: “I mean, my wife [and I], we’re              She said she posts on her Instagram
    Q: What is your favorite way to spend
Valentine’s Day?                                  My wife [and I], we’re very simple people.                                              very simple people. So we spend it very
                                                                                                                                          simply. Usually, it’s dinner, then a movie
                                                                                                                                                                                          and Facebook what she made and if
                                                                                                                                                                                          she hasn’t made it customers can send
    A: “My favorite way to spend Valentine’s
Day is with my friends because no matter         So we spend it very simply. Usually, it’s                                                or something like that. Before her, it was
                                                                                                                                          always filled with baseball.”
                                                                                                                                                                                          her a picture and she can try to recre-
                                                                                                                                                                                          ate it or do something similar.
what year or what happens, they’re always
going to be there for each other. So, that       dinner, then a movie or something like                                                      Q: Do you prefer flowers or stuffed
                                                                                                                                          animals?
                                                                                                                                                                                             For easy-to-bake treats, she sug-
                                                                                                                                                                                          gests cupcakes or brownies.
is just a really nice way to enjoy time with
them.”                                                               that.                                                                   A: “I think I like stuffed animals better.
                                                                                                                                          Stuffed animals are more fun and they
                                                                                                                                                                                             “Just because the brownie, you can
                                                                                                                                                                                          make it, like, in a rectangular contain-
    Q: If you are given extra credit to pass
out Valentine’s Day cards to your class,
                                                                                          “
                                                                                  -Chase Bridges
                                                                               UTRGV Baseball pitcher
                                                                                                                                          stay around a little longer than flowers.”
                                                                                                                                             Q: If you’re given extra credit to pass
                                                                                                                                                                                          er, like a cake, and then if you have,
                                                                                                                                                                                          like, a heart-shaped cookie cutter you                                                                                                   PHOTO COURTESY MONTSERRAT ORTIZ
what cartoon would be on them and why?                                                                                                    out Valentine’s Day cards to your class,        can cut it and that would look cute,”        Interdisciplinary studies senior Montserrat Ortiz, who owns Busy Bee: Crafts by Montse on Facebook and Instagram, recommends a memory
    A: “The first thing that pops in my head                                                                                              which cartoon character would be on your        Rios said.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       explosion box as a Valentine’s gift.
is Bugs Bunny because it’s super funny                                                                                                    cards and why?                                     For a simple cupcake recipe, she          then the sugar at the end and add it             She said to make a rose, start piping        “So first, you have to go on your com-
and super fun to just pass around on             to bake cupcakes, and we’re going to bake   UTRGV was in 2020. He ranked sixth              A: “I’d say Scooby-Doo. I don’t know.        suggests buying the prepared box mix         one cup at a time. And, if you want to,       in the middle and go outward in a circle.    puter and find 12 pictures that you re-
Valentine’s Day.”                                cakes … and decorate them together and      in the Western Athletic Conference in        I just like Scooby-Doo so much that I feel      and following the recipe on the back of      you can add milk, like one or two table-         “That would look nice on a cupcake        ally like and put them on a Word doc-
    Q: Do you have any plans for this            just eat together.”                         appearances. Bridges previously attended     like that would be who would go on my           the package.                                 spoons, but I personally don’t use it just    and if you mess up, that’s OK,” Rios         ument, size them to 4-by-4 [inches, or
Valentine’s Day? If so, what are they?             Senior multidisciplinary studies major    the University of Science and Arts of        Valentine’s Day cards.”                            “You can substitute the water for         because it gets too soft. But, if you like    said. “You can just add sprinkles, or you    10.1 cm x 10.1 cm] so that they can fit
    A: “Yes, I am going to spend it with my      Chase Bridges is a pitcher for the UTRGV    Oklahoma in 2017-2018 and Northern           --Compiled by Karina Rodriguez                  milk and if you don’t want to use the        it more creamy, you can. You can add          can put your favorite chocolate on top.”     inside the squares,” Ortiz said. “After
friends this year, again. We’re just going       Baseball Team. Bridges’ first season with   Oklahoma College-Tonkawa in 2019.                                                            oil, you can also substitute it with         milk or you can even do heavy whipping           Montserrat Ortiz, an interdisciplinary    that, you print them, you cut them out
                                                                                                                                                                                          [melted] butter,” Rios said. “So, it         cream.”                                       studies senior, owns Busy Bee: Crafts        and you can start pasting them the way
                                                                                                                                                                                          would be the flour, the eggs, the butter        She said chocolate-covered strawber-       by Montse on Facebook and Instagram.         you like around the squares in the box.”
                                                                                                                                                                                          or the oil and the milk.”                    ries, macaroons or pretzels can be add-       Ortiz makes shirts, cups, keychains,            Students can put stickers around the
DATES                                                                                                                                                                                        She makes the frosting by combin-         ed as toppings.                               dog tags and more. She suggested a DIY       box, write a message on top of the box
                                                                                             for a long time, she suggests a technique    portant to you.                                 ing butter, powdered sugar and vanil-           When baking cupcakes, she suggests         project called a memory explosion box.       or place a gift inside.
Continued from Page 3                                                                                                                       “Same thing applies,” Mazariegos
                                                                                             known as “love mapping,” to help stay                                                        la.                                          placing a few grains of rice under the           “What happens is you put pictures in-        “What I did was that I added a lit-
                                                                                                                                          said. “Ask yourself, what do you need:
                                                   “If you can love
                                                                                             in tune with your partner.                                                                      “For the buttercream, you can use         cupcake liners so the oil or butter won’t     side of the box and when you open it,        tle bit of, like, foil paper, like the ones
kind of thing, and instead get creative                                                        “The idea is that, as you get to know      Maybe it’s sleep, maybe it’s therapy,
                                                                                                                                                                                          two sticks of butter, softened and           stain the cupcake liner.                      all of the pictures come out and you can     you put in gift bags,” she said. “And
                                                                                                                                          maybe it’s exercise.”
                                                     yourself and
and find a COVID-friendly approach,”                                                         someone, you stop asking as many                                                             unsalted,” Rios said. “I use unsalted,          “You can also buy the [decorating] tip     put a little gift inside,” Ortiz said.
                                                                                                                                            The clinical therapist suggests treat-                                                                                                                                                then, put a few candies, so something
she said.                                                                                    questions as you did when you first                                                          and then you can use 1½ teaspoons of         and the disposable bag, or you can get           For the materials, the small white
                                                                                                                                          ing yourself by getting your favorite                                                                                                                                                   simple. And then, I put heart stickers

                                                   someone else,
  The clinical therapist suggests cook-                                                      started dating them,” Mazariegos said.                                                       vanilla extract. And then you can do         a silicone bag,” Rios said. “They’re not      memory explosion box is available at
                                                                                                                                          food, watching a movie or doing some-                                                                                                                                                   around it and I wrote on top, ‘Hi, open
ing a meal with your partner, picking                                                        “You kind of stop that curiosity and stop                                                    around four cups of powdered sugar.          that expensive. Those are, like, in Hob-      Michaels for $3.50. Also needed are a
                                                                                                                                          thing you enjoy.                                                                                                                                                                        for a surprise.’”
up food curbside or watching a movie                                                         asking those questions because you as-
                                                      why not do
                                                                                                                                            “If you can love yourself and some-              “First, you have to beat the butter       by Lobby, Michaels and [decorating]           printer, sticker or regular printer pa-         She said the total cost for the proj-
at home.                                                                                     sume that you already know everything                                                        and make sure that it gets, like, fluffy     tips are like a $1 to $2. … The most basic    per, glue for the pictures and stickers or
                                                                                                                                          one else, why not do both,” Mazariegos                                                                                                                                                  ect, if you have a printer, is under $10
  “But really, I think it’d be cool to                                                       that you need to know about your part-                                                       and then you … can do the vanilla and        one is the [Wilton decorating tip] 1M.”       markers.
                                                                                                                                          said.                                                                                                                                                                                   and it would take 30 to 45 minutes to
                                                        both?”
use this opportunity to cook together,”                                                      ner. However, that’s not true. So, love        Asked what constitutes as safe and                                                                                                                                                    complete.
Mazariegos said. “Find a cool recipe,                                                        mapping is really being a tourist in your    unsafe this year in terms of celebrat-
get your ingredients, make it a whole-                                                       partner’s world and asking questions to      ing, she replied, “It’s important to see
day activity where you can cook your                 -Maria Alejandra Mazariegos             update that database you have of them.”
meal, cook a dessert and get to know
each other as you are cooking.”
                                                       UTRGV clinical therapist                Asked what she suggests for people
                                                                                             celebrating alone, she replied love map-
                                                                                                                                          what the [Centers for Disease Control
                                                                                                                                          and Prevention] says and continue to
                                                                                                                                          be healthy because, hey, guess what?
                                                                                                                                                                                          The Doodler                                                By Elizabeth Mendoza
  For couples who have been together                                                         ping with yourself and asking yourself       There will still be Valentine’s Day next
                                                                                             questions to prioritize what is most im-     year.”

STORIES                                          out. When he                                                           just threw up        After that experience, Christman
Continued from Page 3                            woke up, he                                                            everywhere,’”     learned to stop using dating apps.
                                                 immediately                                                            Christman         However, those who do use them
graduate years at Texas A&M Univer-              threw up on his                                                        said.     “He’s   should sometimes “take it slow” and
sity, he joined a dating app in which            clothes, the car-                                                      like, ‘I am so    communicate first what they want be-
he talked with a man who was at a bar            pet and Christ-                                                        sorry.’”          fore meeting up with someone, he said.
near Christman’s apartment. They                 man’s bed.                                                                They end-         “You should communicate what you
decided to meet at the bar, but what                Christman                                                           ed the night      want right away, so the other person
Christman thought was going to be a              helped       him                                                       cuddling, but     doesn’t think otherwise and you both
nice first date, turned awkward when             clean himself                                                          after the next    don’t get hurt or both don’t get what
he arrived and discovered his date was           up, but his                                                            day, they nev-    you want,” Christman said.
drunk.                                           date      passed                                                       er saw each          For the people who are single, enjoy
   “He’s completely drunk, and I’m like,         out again in the                                                       other again.      it, he advises.
‘Oh, no, I’m sober and he is drunk. … I          shower.                                                                   “[If] I have      “Being single--there’s still some joys
guess I’m going to have to take care of             “It was prob-                                                       to take care      in it,” the graduate student said. “You
him now,’” said Christman, a sociology           ably two to                                                            of him on         can just be in love with yourself, and
graduate student at UTRGV.                       three      hours                                                       the first date    there’s nothing wrong to do things that
   After they chatted, they went to              when he woke                                                           … nah, I’m        you enjoy by yourself. You don’t always
Christman’s apartment. Christman’s               up, and I’m                                                            good,” Christ-    need someone.”
date sat on the bed, where he passed             like, ‘Bro, you                                                        man said.
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