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                                                          Question Is…
     Effective Communication               Motivation- What makes you tick???
    Skills and Officer Safety for
            Code Officers               
                                        
                                            Rate the 4 items
                                            1 being the strongest response
                                           4 being the weakest response
      Instructor: Kelvin Beene               – Status
                                             – Money
                                             – Power
                                             – Effect change

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         Remember when…                              Remember when…

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               Remember when…                                     Remember when…

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                                                              Major Points of Possessing a
                 Winning Attitude
                                                                   Winning Attitude
       Your attitude is a direct reflection of how        Passion
        you are perceived.                                 Strategy
                                                           Clarity of Values
       Let’s delve a little deeper into employees         Energy
        attitudes…                                         Focus
                                                           Bonding Power
                                                           Mastery of Communication

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             Winning Attitude Quote                                           Passion
        “It is our attitude at the beginning of a            All truly successful people have a driving
         difficult task which, more than anything              force within them that sets them apart
         else, will affect it’s successful outcome”            from others. It’s a desire and energy that
                                                               gives them the fuel to reach their true
        ~ William James                                       potential. The passion within this
                                                               individual to achieve has been so deeply
                                                               implanted, that their mental power is
                                                               driven by this force and will not let them
                                                               do anything but achieve.

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                         Passion                                              Strategy
        Name a famous person that have been                  A strategy is your game plan of life and at
         successful in any realm of life…                      work. It is the road map you will use to
                                                               accomplish your goals, ambitions and
        How do you think they obtained their                  desires. The key to having a strategy is to
         success?                                              design a proper strategy to achieve your
                                                               success without the detours of life and to
                                                               find the shortest distance between two
                                                               points.

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                         Strategy                                 Winning Attitude Quote
        What is your strategy?                              “Positive thinking won’t let you do
                                                              anything but it will let you do everything
        School?                                              better than negative thinking will”

        Training?                                           ~ Zig Ziglar

        Other Opportunities?

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                     Clarity of Values                                 Clarity of Values
        We must first determine which things in             What value do you possess that helps you
         life are most valuable. Determining your             stay positive and or motivated?
         feelings about pride, excellence,
         ownership and tolerance is important.
         Without a clear system of values for
         ourselves, it is impossible to believe in
         something with a passion that has no
         value to us…

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                         Energy                                                  Energy
        Without the physical vitality to take action,           What kind of fuel are you putting in your
         nothing would ever come of your system                   body?
         to this point. Great success cannot be
         separated from physical, spiritual and                Are you living a healthy lifestyle?
         mental attributes. Our spiritual and
                                                               Exercise?
         intellectual energy evolves from our
         environment and it is therefore important             Partake in something relaxing?
         to maximize the energy that we can
         obtain.

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             Winning Attitude Quote                                               Focus
        “Ability is what you’re capable of                      The more you focus on the positive things,
         doing…Motivation determines what you                     the easier it is to develop a winning
         do…Attitude determines how well you do                   attitude, and the more opportunities you
         it”                                                      will see that will allow you to succeed. If
                                                                  you think of negative things you will
                                                                  become aware of negative things in your
        ~ Lou Holtz                                              life. Replace your negative thoughts with
                                                                  positive thoughts and you will be on the
                                                                  road to having a winning attitude.

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                         Focus                                            Bonding Power
        How often have you found yourself                     We all have known people that have
         dwelling on the negative things in life and            exhibited the ability to get along with
         at work?                                               anyone and everyone. The ability to
                                                                connect in a positive manner with others
        Has it consumed you?                                   shows that you desire to be a positive
                                                                person.

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                   Bonding Power                                          Bonding Power
        To effectively communicate, we must                 What things can you do in the office that
         realize that we are ALL different in the             will help you bond with each other?
         way we perceive the world and use this              Name some activities…
         understanding as a guide to
         communication with others.

        Have you taken the time to understand
         the person perceived to be a problem in
         the work place?

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             Winning Attitude Quote                             Mastery of Communication
        “A pessimist is one who makes difficulties          Take charge and run your OWN MIND!
         of his opportunities and an optimist is one         Don’t allow your mind to run your life, but
         who makes opportunities of his                       rather take charge of your own mental
         difficulties”                                        abilities and cause them to work for the
                                                              good of your team, office family etc…
        ~ Harry Truman                                      Don’t let others negative attitudes and
                                                              behaviors in the workplace change your
                                                              positive perspective.

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           Mastery of Communication                                    Winning Attitude
        What can we do in the workplace that can            Attitude is everything!
         improve inter-office communications?                Ultimately it is on the individual to decide
                                                              if the glass is half full or half empty.
        How can we better communicate with our               Decide which person you will be. Your
         internal customers?                                  winning attitude can and will be
                                                              contagious whether you are at home or in
                                                              the workplace.
                                                             BE THE DIFFERENCE MAKER…

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                                                      Verbal Judo Expert
                                              George    Thompson Ph.D is the
                                                 founder of this system of
         What is Verbal Judo?                    techniques that can improve
                                                 communication skills and enhance
                “The Gentle Art of               work performance and personal
                   Persuasion”                   relationships with proper
                                                 application.

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     Verbal Judo will Allow You To…                Who Needs Verbal Judo ?
      ListenBetter and Always Be             Married
       Heard.                                 In Leadership
                                              Customer Service
      Learn What Never To Say.
                                              Bashful/Shy
      Engage People Through Empathy.         Boisterous
      Stop Verbal Attacks in Their           Poor Communication Skills
       Tracks.                                Enforcement Personnel

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                                                 Verbal Judo and Officer Safety

          EVERYBODY!!!!!!

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      Why is there a need for officer
                                                       Let’s Have The Talk..
                  safety?
     Officers get threatened…                  Should Code
                                                 Enforcement be
     Officers get assaulted…                    armed with:
                                                Guns
     Officers get KILLED!!!                    Tasers
                                                Pepper spray
                                                Expandable
                                                 batons/asps

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     Code Officer Killed
     Greg "Ziggy" Zyszkiewicz, a code
                                                                                                           Code Officer Killed
     enforcement officer employed by
     the City of Milwaukee, was killed
     while performing his duty on March
     22, 2017. He was scheduled to do
     a housing Inspection at the time
     and was sitting in his vehicle when
     he was shot by an unknown
     individual.

     He was parked in his vehicle when
     he was shot. He was updating his
     case file he was shot. I had just
     completed a training for their
     department on officer safety. He
     was parked on a busy street. It was
     early in the day. When asked what
     else could he have done to prevent
     this from happening…

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                                                WEST VALLEY CITY — A routine check on a West
     Code Officer Killed
                                                                                                           Code Officer Killed
                                                 Valley house turned deadly for a city code
                                                 enforcement officer Thursday when police say the
     Suspect
                                                 homeowner shot and killed her.
     Kevin Wayne Billings shot and killed                                                                               Charles “Chip” Case
     a code enforcement officer for             In addition to shooting Jill Robinson, 52, police
     West Valley City, Utah, after she           believe the man who lived in the home set fire to                      The Augusta Chronicle reported the
     came to his house. He’s accused of          her city truck and a neighboring home. The couple                       suspect, 65-year-old Smitty Oliver
     setting Jill Robinson’s truck on fire       who live next door said through a spokeswoman                           Melton, was arrested in Aiken County.
     and destroying his neighbor’s house         that they think their 64-year-old neighbor sought                      Charles “Chip” Case was killed after
     in a blaze. Salt Lake County Jail
                                                 to kill them. Kevin Wayne Billings, 64, was booked                      being shot at least once on 13th
                                                 into jail for investigation of aggravated murder,                       Avenue, Richmond County Coroner
                                                 aggravated arson and arson, according to West                           Mark Bowen said, according to the
                                                 Valley police. Investigators provided no details                        Aiken Standard. He was pronounced
                                                 about a motive.                                                         dead at 10:25 a.m.
                                                Robinson arrived at 4102 W. Wendy Ave. (2925                           Neighbor Tameka Walton said she
                                                 South) about 10:20 a.m. Thursday as part of a                           heard four gunshots. She said and
                                                 follow-up investigation.                                                multiple other people ran and found
                                                "She was just out here doing her job today," West                       Case lying in the road. He was still
                                                 Valley City Councilman Steve Buhler said of                             alive, she said.
                                                 Robinson, who worked for the city for 10 ½ years.                      Police arrived and officers began
                                                "This is something we would not anticipate and                          administering CPR but Walton said it
                                                 expect to have happen in our city," Buhler added.                       looked like Case died before an
                                                                                                                         ambulance arrived.

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                Inspection Protocols                                Inspection Protocols cont…
        Make sure you identify yourself and the reason          If you must come back to the residence after an
         for your presence.                                       angry confrontation, take another officer with
        Evaluate the demeanor of the resident.                   you or the police.
        Ask yourself…”Do I feel safe?”                          Talk to other officers to determine if they have

        Make sure permission is granted before you               had any past dealings with the citizen.
         enter onto the property.                                Gather all pertinent information on the first

        Say ‘Please and thank you’ when talking to the           inspection…ID, photos, vin number, green card
         resident.                                                etc…
                                                                 Approach in a non-threatening manner.
        Leave the residence when told to.

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                       Safety First                                            Team Tactics
                                   Would you approach                                     Bring a buddy.
                                    their front porch if                                   Someone take the
                                    you had to address a                                    lead.
                                    complaint?                                             Give thorough details
                                   Yes…                                                    of expectations.
                                   No…                                                    Issue a deadline for
                                   Maybe…                                                  abatement.
                                   What is your
                                    reasoning?

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         Be wary of your surroundings                                   Positive Attitudes
                                                            People with positive attitudes look for the good in every
                                                             situation
      One of my officers was carjacked by                  Positive attitudes creates positive experiences and
       knifepoint as she sat parked on a city                circumstances
       street updating her cases in the computer.           Offers an optimistic viewpoint and makes it easier to
                                                             cope with negative thinking
      Details…                                             Positive attitude will bring constructive changes and lead
                                                             to a more successful
                                                            A person with a positive attitude expects the best to
                                                             happen
                                                            Positive people usually are not our problem…but we can
                                                             turn them negative with little or no effort (more about
                                                             this later)

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     Different kinds of
         attitudes
                                                                           Attitude types
      People act differently when
      confronted with different
                                                            Optimism                        Respectful
      situations. The skill is for                          Pessimism                       Authoritative
      citizens not to feel
      confronted when code                                  Confident                       Sincere
      officers approach them with
      an issue.                                             Interested                      Persistent
      For example, a person may
      act cheerfully watching                               Jealous                         Honest
      movies but may not react
      cheerfully when going to the                          Courteous                       Sympathetic
      mall. Understand that just
      because someone doesn’t
                                                            Cooperative                     Decisive
      find pleasure in going to the                         Considerate                     Hostile
      mall doesn’t mean they are
      not cheerful.                                         Inferior                        Determined

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          Aggressive
           Behavior
                                                 Aggressive behavior
     Dealing with aggression            Aggressive behavior can be detrimental to the person
     can be difficult and
     stressful.                          who has these tendencies and to others, code officers,
     What is stressful about             who come into contact with them.
     dealing with aggressive            It is not important for you to be able to determine why
     behavioral people?                  these citizens are aggressive people…it is more
     Aggression is defined as            important to discern that they are actually aggressive
     any behavior that is
                                         and potentially dangerous to you life, health and safety.
     intended to harm another
     person who does not                Only in if you are dealing with an aggressive behavioral
     want to be harmed.                  loved one should you make an effort to control their
                                         aggressive behavior.

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        Aggressive
                                         Causes of aggressive behavior
         Behavior                       Aggressive behavior can be triggered by almost any
                                         stimulus. Usually underlying issues are the root cause
                                         that contribute to aggressive behavior.
     The famed Mayo
                                        Substances can increase the probability of increased
     Clinic list that                    aggression. Drugs and alcohol will affect a person’s
     aggressive                          aggression.
     behavior as one                    How many of you have that friend…you know the one
     of the top ten                      who drinks and increasing becomes more angry with
     symptoms that                       every sip…
     should NEVER                       Genetic disposition also plays a role in aggressive
     be ignored                          behavior…
                                        How?

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           How code officers incite
                                                                   Passive aggression
           aggression from citizens
      Demeanor:                                          Passive Aggression:
                                                          The indirect expression of hostility, such
      Over-bearing attitude
                                                           as procrastination, sarcasm, stubbornness,
      Officer over-aggression
                                                           sullenness, or deliberate or repeated
      Arrogance                                           failure to accomplish requested task for
      Dirty Harry                                         which one is often explicitly responsible.
      John Wayne                                         Have you ever had that citizen that
      Roscoe P. Coltrane                                  exercised a passive aggressive stance with
                                                           you?
                                                          Share your experience…

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               Passive aggression                                  Passive aggression
                                                          A passive aggressive person might appear to
      Passive aggressive behavior is a pattern            agree with an code officers request but rather
       of indirectly expressing negative feelings          than comply with the request, however, he or
       instead of openly addressing them.                  she might express anger or resentment by
                                                           failing to follow through or missing abatement
      There is a disconnect between what a
                                                           deadlines.
       passive aggressive person says and what
                                                          Don’t drink the juice!
       he or she does.
                                                          If they don’t comply with your request, don’t get
      Have you had a citizen that used passive            lulled into their twisted psychological games.
       aggressive tactics on you instead of                Take the next step in you enforcement action…
       dealing directly with a problem they may
       have with you?

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           Signs of passive aggression                                       Passive Aggressive exercise
        Resentment and opposition to the demands of code
         officers                                                          Scenario based exercise purposed for the
        Procrastination and intentional mistakes in response to            identification of passive aggressive citizens
         your demands
                                                                            and the various methods that they
        Cynical, sullen or hostile attitude
        Frequent complaints about feeling harassed, cheated or
                                                                            respond.
         simply being singled out
        Be able to identify if you are dealing with a passive
         aggressive citizen and hold firm to your policies,
         procedures and ordinances…let them work for you

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                                                                             What irks your
         What irks our                                                         citizens?
          citizens?
                                                                        You can obtain a better
                                                                        understanding of what
     Being told what they can
                                                                        irks your citizens if you
     do on their property
                                                                        empathize with them.
     Displaced freedoms
                                                                        Empathy simply means to
     What are some other                                                put yourself in someone
     points of contention that                                          else's shoes.
     irks our citizens?
                                                                        Empathy will assist you
     How does knowing these                                             on how you communicate
     points help you when de-                                           with your citizens better
     escalating situations with                                         based on your own ability
     your citizens?                                                     to feel what they are
                                                                        feeling.

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                                                                     Learning Diversity in Code
           De-escalate
            through                                                 Enforcement and Inspections
         communication
                                                                 Understanding different cultures will assist
     The first and most                                           code enforcement in communicating with
     important                                                    difficult people.
     component for de-
     escalating a                                                For this reason, we will deal with the issue
     confrontation with a                                         of diversity in this training.
     citizen is using good
     communication
     skills…verbal and
     non-verbal.

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          Learning Diversity in Code                                 Learning Diversity in Code
         Enforcement and Inspections                                Enforcement and Inspections
      Communities and agencies across America have              Community involvement and education of
       struggled for many years with the issues of race,          citizens will garner support for our efforts.
       ethnicity, culture and gender.
                                                                 Our agencies must reflect the communities
      In the past 30 years, these struggles have
       become more complex and challenging as large
                                                                  we serve.
       numbers of non-English speaking immigrants,               Every day, we encounter individuals from
       documented and undocumented, have come to                  different cultural backgrounds, religions
       America seeking religious, economical and                  and sexual orientations.
       political freedoms.

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                    Stereotypes                            Stereotype- African American Men
      Definition:                                         What are some of the
                                                            stereotypes that
      Stereotype is a thought that can be
                                                            society may have
       adopted about specific types of individuals          regarding African
       or certain ways of doing things. These               Americans?
       thoughts or beliefs may or may not                  List them…
       accurately reflect reality.                         Truth or Fiction?

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          Stereotype- Hispanic Men                               Stereotype- Asian Men
      What are some of the                                What are some of the
       stereotypes that                                     stereotypes that
       society may have                                     society may have
       regarding Hispanic                                   regarding Asian men?
       men?                                                List them…
      List them…                                          Fact or fiction?
      Fact or fiction?

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          Stereotype- Caucasian Men                                   Stereotype
      What are some of the                 What happens if we subject ourselves to
       stereotypes that                      the various stereotypes that people
       society may have                      subscribe to?
       regarding Caucasian
       men?                                 What happened in Remember the Titans?
      List them…                           Open discussion…
      Fact or fiction?                     How does it alter how we complete our
                                             duties?

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                                           Name a 60’s
                                           Television Show To
     Name a 60’s                           Receive Recognition
     Television Show To                    for Diversity
     Receive Recognition
                                           Captain Kirk
     for Diversity
                                           Lieutenant Uhura
                                           Ensign Chekov-
     What was the show?                    Engineer Scotty
                                           Dr. McCoy
                                           Spock

                                           In essence, Star Trek
                                           wasn’t a show about
                                           diversity. Truth is, the show
                                           centered around a
                                           Caucasian guy sitting in the
                                           big chair calling the shots.
                                           Not that he doesn’t deserve
                                           to be…just an observation.

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     Primary Dimensions of Diversity                                      Diversity
      Age                                                 While each dimension adds a layer of
      Ethnicity                                            complexity, it is the dynamic interaction
      Gender
                                                            among altogether the dimensions that
                                                            helps us read into the person or persons
      Mental/physical abilities and
                                                            that we are obligated to interact with.
       characteristics
      Race
      Sexual orientation

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                      Diversity                         “Super-Cop”
      With the ever growing diverse population,        Ol’ Otis
       the word ”minority” may no longer have           exemplifies
       meaning to this and future generations.          the need for
      How has the population, as it relates to
                                                        verbal judo
       race, has changed?
      What impact does this make to the
       diversity of our land?

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                                                 What is the “Super-Cop” Gene
     What is the “Super-Cop” Gene?
                                                             cont…
      Itis the gene in someone’s DNA            It
                                                   is the gene in someone’s DNA
      that causes them to behave in a            that gives them the false sense of
      manner that creates the emotion            power through the position they
      of inferiority in others.                  hold.

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      What is the “Super-Cop” Gene               What is the “Super-Cop” Gene
                  cont…                                      cont…
      Itis the gene in someone’s DNA            It
                                                   is the gene in someone’s DNA
      that cause them to bully someone           that cause them to approach in
      into gaining compliance instead of         an over-assertive, over-
      using persuasive techniques.               aggressive manner with the intent
                                                 to intimidate.

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      What is the “Super-Cop” Gene
                  cont…
      Itis the gene in someone’s DNA
      that exudes body language that is
                                                    “Super-Cop” Gene
      threatening in manner and                         Exercise
      offensive.

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                                               Negative “Super-Cop” behaviors
                                                           cont…
                                                Finger pointing…
            Negative “Super-Cop”
                                                In someone’s personal space…
                 behaviors.                     Rolling of the eyes…

              T.O.P. Index…”Tick off            Sigh…
                      people”                   Loud tone of voice…

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         How can we remove the                                  Verbal Judo Versus
           “Super Cop” gene?                                      Verbal Karate
                     Verbal Judo

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     Verbal “Judo” Verbal “Karate”                                  Verbal Karate is…
        Judo is a sport of self defense without the         Theunprofessional use of
         use of weapons.
                                                             language, because you’re using
                                                             words to express your feelings…
        Karate is a self defense system
         characterized by sharp, quick blows
         delivered by hands and feet.

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       Things you should never say to
                 anyone…
      “Come   Here!”
                                              “People don’t care what you
      “Because those are the rules.”
                                               know until they know that
      “It’s none of your business.”
                                                       you care.”
      “Calm down.”
      “You never…” or “You always…”

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                                                    What is “Empathy?”
                                              Identification  with and
      The Most Powerful Word In                understanding of another’s
       The English Language…                   situation, feelings, and motives.
                                              Em- Latin roots means “to see
                “Empathy”                      through“ and Pathy- Greek roots
                                               meaning “the eye of the other.”

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                                               What is “Sympathy?”
     “Empathy” is the most
      crucial skill in Verbal             A relationship between people
                                           or things in which whatever
               Judo                        affects one…affects the other.

          Not Sympathy!

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               “Empathy”                            “Sympathy”

     Iunderstand that you don’t          Iam sorry you don’t have the
      have the money to repair the         money to repair your vehicle…
      vehicle in your driveway but
      you are required to move it
      out of public view…

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      “Empathy” is the quality of
      standing in another’s shoes
       and understanding where                       How To Diagnose a
         they are coming from.                       Verbal Encounter…
            Empathy ‘absorbs’                                  P.A.C.E.
                tension…

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                 P.A.C.E.                       Four Steps To A Healthy Dispute
      P- Problem (situation you are in)         Paraphrase- sincerely re-phrase their
                                                  statement.
      A- Audience (to whom you are
                                                 Paraphrase Again- it shows you
       speaking)                                  understand their issue.
      C- Constraints (obstacles to              Refocus others attention- using a sincere
       effective communication)                   tone, “let me ask you something?...”
                                                 Say What You Want To Say-…state your
      E- Ethical presence (your                  case.
       professional face)

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         How To Interrupt…Gently                        Use An Empathetic Sentence
     Sword of insertion:                           “Let me be sure I understand you”
      When people are in a tirade, upset, or        “Let me be sure we are on the same
      basically just angry, let them vent then       wavelength”
      strategically wedge in “Wait a second”,       “Let me be sure I heard that”
      “Listen”, or “Whoa”. Be careful not to        Now acknowledge that you understand.
      sound angry when you say it!

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                                                       Two Principals For Dealing With
                                                               Difficult People
                                                      Let the person say what they want as long
      “When you react you’re                           as they do what you say.
        being controlled”
                                                      And…

         “When you respond                            Always go for the Win-Win solution. You
         you’re dealing with                           can give the citizen the last word because
                                                       you have the last action.
                 it”
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                Verbal Abuse                             Soul Searching Exercise
   Realize that you will always have receive
    abuse for the rest of your life!
   So you might as well learn how to skillfully
    interact with those citizens and…
   Maintain the position of advantage.

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          Five-Step Hard Style
   Asking stage. (who, what etc…)
   Set the context. (telling why)
   Present options. (in their best interest)                 EXERCISE
   Confirmation. (Compliance or non-
    compliance                                             Dispute Resolution
   Take action

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                                If I was successful…you have
                                       learned how to…
                             Remain  under emotional control
       When someone is        during disagreements.
      screaming at you…      Ensure that you are understood.
                             Employ empathy to stay engaged
          Whisper…..          with people.
                             Use words instead of actions to
                              achieve goals.

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          The End

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