Effective Communication Skills and Officer Safety for Code Officers
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4/2/2021 Question Is… Effective Communication Motivation- What makes you tick??? Skills and Officer Safety for Code Officers Rate the 4 items 1 being the strongest response 4 being the weakest response Instructor: Kelvin Beene – Status – Money – Power – Effect change 1 2 Remember when… Remember when… 3 4 1
4/2/2021 Remember when… Remember when… 5 6 Major Points of Possessing a Winning Attitude Winning Attitude Your attitude is a direct reflection of how Passion you are perceived. Strategy Clarity of Values Let’s delve a little deeper into employees Energy attitudes… Focus Bonding Power Mastery of Communication 7 8 2
4/2/2021 Winning Attitude Quote Passion “It is our attitude at the beginning of a All truly successful people have a driving difficult task which, more than anything force within them that sets them apart else, will affect it’s successful outcome” from others. It’s a desire and energy that gives them the fuel to reach their true ~ William James potential. The passion within this individual to achieve has been so deeply implanted, that their mental power is driven by this force and will not let them do anything but achieve. 9 10 Passion Strategy Name a famous person that have been A strategy is your game plan of life and at successful in any realm of life… work. It is the road map you will use to accomplish your goals, ambitions and How do you think they obtained their desires. The key to having a strategy is to success? design a proper strategy to achieve your success without the detours of life and to find the shortest distance between two points. 11 12 3
4/2/2021 Strategy Winning Attitude Quote What is your strategy? “Positive thinking won’t let you do anything but it will let you do everything School? better than negative thinking will” Training? ~ Zig Ziglar Other Opportunities? 13 14 Clarity of Values Clarity of Values We must first determine which things in What value do you possess that helps you life are most valuable. Determining your stay positive and or motivated? feelings about pride, excellence, ownership and tolerance is important. Without a clear system of values for ourselves, it is impossible to believe in something with a passion that has no value to us… 15 16 4
4/2/2021 Energy Energy Without the physical vitality to take action, What kind of fuel are you putting in your nothing would ever come of your system body? to this point. Great success cannot be separated from physical, spiritual and Are you living a healthy lifestyle? mental attributes. Our spiritual and Exercise? intellectual energy evolves from our environment and it is therefore important Partake in something relaxing? to maximize the energy that we can obtain. 17 18 Winning Attitude Quote Focus “Ability is what you’re capable of The more you focus on the positive things, doing…Motivation determines what you the easier it is to develop a winning do…Attitude determines how well you do attitude, and the more opportunities you it” will see that will allow you to succeed. If you think of negative things you will become aware of negative things in your ~ Lou Holtz life. Replace your negative thoughts with positive thoughts and you will be on the road to having a winning attitude. 19 20 5
4/2/2021 Focus Bonding Power How often have you found yourself We all have known people that have dwelling on the negative things in life and exhibited the ability to get along with at work? anyone and everyone. The ability to connect in a positive manner with others Has it consumed you? shows that you desire to be a positive person. 21 22 Bonding Power Bonding Power To effectively communicate, we must What things can you do in the office that realize that we are ALL different in the will help you bond with each other? way we perceive the world and use this Name some activities… understanding as a guide to communication with others. Have you taken the time to understand the person perceived to be a problem in the work place? 23 24 6
4/2/2021 Winning Attitude Quote Mastery of Communication “A pessimist is one who makes difficulties Take charge and run your OWN MIND! of his opportunities and an optimist is one Don’t allow your mind to run your life, but who makes opportunities of his rather take charge of your own mental difficulties” abilities and cause them to work for the good of your team, office family etc… ~ Harry Truman Don’t let others negative attitudes and behaviors in the workplace change your positive perspective. 25 26 Mastery of Communication Winning Attitude What can we do in the workplace that can Attitude is everything! improve inter-office communications? Ultimately it is on the individual to decide if the glass is half full or half empty. How can we better communicate with our Decide which person you will be. Your internal customers? winning attitude can and will be contagious whether you are at home or in the workplace. BE THE DIFFERENCE MAKER… 27 28 7
4/2/2021 Verbal Judo Expert George Thompson Ph.D is the founder of this system of What is Verbal Judo? techniques that can improve communication skills and enhance “The Gentle Art of work performance and personal Persuasion” relationships with proper application. 29 30 Verbal Judo will Allow You To… Who Needs Verbal Judo ? ListenBetter and Always Be Married Heard. In Leadership Customer Service Learn What Never To Say. Bashful/Shy Engage People Through Empathy. Boisterous Stop Verbal Attacks in Their Poor Communication Skills Tracks. Enforcement Personnel 31 32 8
4/2/2021 Verbal Judo and Officer Safety EVERYBODY!!!!!! 33 34 Why is there a need for officer Let’s Have The Talk.. safety? Officers get threatened… Should Code Enforcement be Officers get assaulted… armed with: Guns Officers get KILLED!!! Tasers Pepper spray Expandable batons/asps 35 36 9
4/2/2021 Code Officer Killed Greg "Ziggy" Zyszkiewicz, a code Code Officer Killed enforcement officer employed by the City of Milwaukee, was killed while performing his duty on March 22, 2017. He was scheduled to do a housing Inspection at the time and was sitting in his vehicle when he was shot by an unknown individual. He was parked in his vehicle when he was shot. He was updating his case file he was shot. I had just completed a training for their department on officer safety. He was parked on a busy street. It was early in the day. When asked what else could he have done to prevent this from happening… 37 38 WEST VALLEY CITY — A routine check on a West Code Officer Killed Code Officer Killed Valley house turned deadly for a city code enforcement officer Thursday when police say the Suspect homeowner shot and killed her. Kevin Wayne Billings shot and killed Charles “Chip” Case a code enforcement officer for In addition to shooting Jill Robinson, 52, police West Valley City, Utah, after she believe the man who lived in the home set fire to The Augusta Chronicle reported the came to his house. He’s accused of her city truck and a neighboring home. The couple suspect, 65-year-old Smitty Oliver setting Jill Robinson’s truck on fire who live next door said through a spokeswoman Melton, was arrested in Aiken County. and destroying his neighbor’s house that they think their 64-year-old neighbor sought Charles “Chip” Case was killed after in a blaze. Salt Lake County Jail to kill them. Kevin Wayne Billings, 64, was booked being shot at least once on 13th into jail for investigation of aggravated murder, Avenue, Richmond County Coroner aggravated arson and arson, according to West Mark Bowen said, according to the Valley police. Investigators provided no details Aiken Standard. He was pronounced about a motive. dead at 10:25 a.m. Robinson arrived at 4102 W. Wendy Ave. (2925 Neighbor Tameka Walton said she South) about 10:20 a.m. Thursday as part of a heard four gunshots. She said and follow-up investigation. multiple other people ran and found "She was just out here doing her job today," West Case lying in the road. He was still Valley City Councilman Steve Buhler said of alive, she said. Robinson, who worked for the city for 10 ½ years. Police arrived and officers began "This is something we would not anticipate and administering CPR but Walton said it expect to have happen in our city," Buhler added. looked like Case died before an ambulance arrived. 39 40 10
4/2/2021 Inspection Protocols Inspection Protocols cont… Make sure you identify yourself and the reason If you must come back to the residence after an for your presence. angry confrontation, take another officer with Evaluate the demeanor of the resident. you or the police. Ask yourself…”Do I feel safe?” Talk to other officers to determine if they have Make sure permission is granted before you had any past dealings with the citizen. enter onto the property. Gather all pertinent information on the first Say ‘Please and thank you’ when talking to the inspection…ID, photos, vin number, green card resident. etc… Approach in a non-threatening manner. Leave the residence when told to. 41 42 Safety First Team Tactics Would you approach Bring a buddy. their front porch if Someone take the you had to address a lead. complaint? Give thorough details Yes… of expectations. No… Issue a deadline for Maybe… abatement. What is your reasoning? 43 44 11
4/2/2021 Be wary of your surroundings Positive Attitudes People with positive attitudes look for the good in every situation One of my officers was carjacked by Positive attitudes creates positive experiences and knifepoint as she sat parked on a city circumstances street updating her cases in the computer. Offers an optimistic viewpoint and makes it easier to cope with negative thinking Details… Positive attitude will bring constructive changes and lead to a more successful A person with a positive attitude expects the best to happen Positive people usually are not our problem…but we can turn them negative with little or no effort (more about this later) 45 46 Different kinds of attitudes Attitude types People act differently when confronted with different Optimism Respectful situations. The skill is for Pessimism Authoritative citizens not to feel confronted when code Confident Sincere officers approach them with an issue. Interested Persistent For example, a person may act cheerfully watching Jealous Honest movies but may not react cheerfully when going to the Courteous Sympathetic mall. Understand that just because someone doesn’t Cooperative Decisive find pleasure in going to the Considerate Hostile mall doesn’t mean they are not cheerful. Inferior Determined 47 48 12
4/2/2021 Aggressive Behavior Aggressive behavior Dealing with aggression Aggressive behavior can be detrimental to the person can be difficult and stressful. who has these tendencies and to others, code officers, What is stressful about who come into contact with them. dealing with aggressive It is not important for you to be able to determine why behavioral people? these citizens are aggressive people…it is more Aggression is defined as important to discern that they are actually aggressive any behavior that is and potentially dangerous to you life, health and safety. intended to harm another person who does not Only in if you are dealing with an aggressive behavioral want to be harmed. loved one should you make an effort to control their aggressive behavior. 49 50 Aggressive Causes of aggressive behavior Behavior Aggressive behavior can be triggered by almost any stimulus. Usually underlying issues are the root cause that contribute to aggressive behavior. The famed Mayo Substances can increase the probability of increased Clinic list that aggression. Drugs and alcohol will affect a person’s aggressive aggression. behavior as one How many of you have that friend…you know the one of the top ten who drinks and increasing becomes more angry with symptoms that every sip… should NEVER Genetic disposition also plays a role in aggressive be ignored behavior… How? 51 52 13
4/2/2021 How code officers incite Passive aggression aggression from citizens Demeanor: Passive Aggression: The indirect expression of hostility, such Over-bearing attitude as procrastination, sarcasm, stubbornness, Officer over-aggression sullenness, or deliberate or repeated Arrogance failure to accomplish requested task for Dirty Harry which one is often explicitly responsible. John Wayne Have you ever had that citizen that Roscoe P. Coltrane exercised a passive aggressive stance with you? Share your experience… 53 54 Passive aggression Passive aggression A passive aggressive person might appear to Passive aggressive behavior is a pattern agree with an code officers request but rather of indirectly expressing negative feelings than comply with the request, however, he or instead of openly addressing them. she might express anger or resentment by failing to follow through or missing abatement There is a disconnect between what a deadlines. passive aggressive person says and what Don’t drink the juice! he or she does. If they don’t comply with your request, don’t get Have you had a citizen that used passive lulled into their twisted psychological games. aggressive tactics on you instead of Take the next step in you enforcement action… dealing directly with a problem they may have with you? 55 56 14
4/2/2021 Signs of passive aggression Passive Aggressive exercise Resentment and opposition to the demands of code officers Scenario based exercise purposed for the Procrastination and intentional mistakes in response to identification of passive aggressive citizens your demands and the various methods that they Cynical, sullen or hostile attitude Frequent complaints about feeling harassed, cheated or respond. simply being singled out Be able to identify if you are dealing with a passive aggressive citizen and hold firm to your policies, procedures and ordinances…let them work for you 57 58 What irks your What irks our citizens? citizens? You can obtain a better understanding of what Being told what they can irks your citizens if you do on their property empathize with them. Displaced freedoms Empathy simply means to What are some other put yourself in someone points of contention that else's shoes. irks our citizens? Empathy will assist you How does knowing these on how you communicate points help you when de- with your citizens better escalating situations with based on your own ability your citizens? to feel what they are feeling. 59 60 15
4/2/2021 Learning Diversity in Code De-escalate through Enforcement and Inspections communication Understanding different cultures will assist The first and most code enforcement in communicating with important difficult people. component for de- escalating a For this reason, we will deal with the issue confrontation with a of diversity in this training. citizen is using good communication skills…verbal and non-verbal. 61 62 Learning Diversity in Code Learning Diversity in Code Enforcement and Inspections Enforcement and Inspections Communities and agencies across America have Community involvement and education of struggled for many years with the issues of race, citizens will garner support for our efforts. ethnicity, culture and gender. Our agencies must reflect the communities In the past 30 years, these struggles have become more complex and challenging as large we serve. numbers of non-English speaking immigrants, Every day, we encounter individuals from documented and undocumented, have come to different cultural backgrounds, religions America seeking religious, economical and and sexual orientations. political freedoms. 63 64 16
4/2/2021 Stereotypes Stereotype- African American Men Definition: What are some of the stereotypes that Stereotype is a thought that can be society may have adopted about specific types of individuals regarding African or certain ways of doing things. These Americans? thoughts or beliefs may or may not List them… accurately reflect reality. Truth or Fiction? 65 66 Stereotype- Hispanic Men Stereotype- Asian Men What are some of the What are some of the stereotypes that stereotypes that society may have society may have regarding Hispanic regarding Asian men? men? List them… List them… Fact or fiction? Fact or fiction? 67 68 17
4/2/2021 Stereotype- Caucasian Men Stereotype What are some of the What happens if we subject ourselves to stereotypes that the various stereotypes that people society may have subscribe to? regarding Caucasian men? What happened in Remember the Titans? List them… Open discussion… Fact or fiction? How does it alter how we complete our duties? 69 70 Name a 60’s Television Show To Name a 60’s Receive Recognition Television Show To for Diversity Receive Recognition Captain Kirk for Diversity Lieutenant Uhura Ensign Chekov- What was the show? Engineer Scotty Dr. McCoy Spock In essence, Star Trek wasn’t a show about diversity. Truth is, the show centered around a Caucasian guy sitting in the big chair calling the shots. Not that he doesn’t deserve to be…just an observation. 71 72 18
4/2/2021 Primary Dimensions of Diversity Diversity Age While each dimension adds a layer of Ethnicity complexity, it is the dynamic interaction Gender among altogether the dimensions that helps us read into the person or persons Mental/physical abilities and that we are obligated to interact with. characteristics Race Sexual orientation 73 74 Diversity “Super-Cop” With the ever growing diverse population, Ol’ Otis the word ”minority” may no longer have exemplifies meaning to this and future generations. the need for How has the population, as it relates to verbal judo race, has changed? What impact does this make to the diversity of our land? 75 76 19
4/2/2021 What is the “Super-Cop” Gene What is the “Super-Cop” Gene? cont… Itis the gene in someone’s DNA It is the gene in someone’s DNA that causes them to behave in a that gives them the false sense of manner that creates the emotion power through the position they of inferiority in others. hold. 77 78 What is the “Super-Cop” Gene What is the “Super-Cop” Gene cont… cont… Itis the gene in someone’s DNA It is the gene in someone’s DNA that cause them to bully someone that cause them to approach in into gaining compliance instead of an over-assertive, over- using persuasive techniques. aggressive manner with the intent to intimidate. 79 80 20
4/2/2021 What is the “Super-Cop” Gene cont… Itis the gene in someone’s DNA that exudes body language that is “Super-Cop” Gene threatening in manner and Exercise offensive. 81 82 Negative “Super-Cop” behaviors cont… Finger pointing… Negative “Super-Cop” In someone’s personal space… behaviors. Rolling of the eyes… T.O.P. Index…”Tick off Sigh… people” Loud tone of voice… 83 84 21
4/2/2021 How can we remove the Verbal Judo Versus “Super Cop” gene? Verbal Karate Verbal Judo 85 86 Verbal “Judo” Verbal “Karate” Verbal Karate is… Judo is a sport of self defense without the Theunprofessional use of use of weapons. language, because you’re using words to express your feelings… Karate is a self defense system characterized by sharp, quick blows delivered by hands and feet. 87 88 22
4/2/2021 Things you should never say to anyone… “Come Here!” “People don’t care what you “Because those are the rules.” know until they know that “It’s none of your business.” you care.” “Calm down.” “You never…” or “You always…” 89 90 What is “Empathy?” Identification with and The Most Powerful Word In understanding of another’s The English Language… situation, feelings, and motives. Em- Latin roots means “to see “Empathy” through“ and Pathy- Greek roots meaning “the eye of the other.” 91 92 23
4/2/2021 What is “Sympathy?” “Empathy” is the most crucial skill in Verbal A relationship between people or things in which whatever Judo affects one…affects the other. Not Sympathy! 93 94 “Empathy” “Sympathy” Iunderstand that you don’t Iam sorry you don’t have the have the money to repair the money to repair your vehicle… vehicle in your driveway but you are required to move it out of public view… 95 96 24
4/2/2021 “Empathy” is the quality of standing in another’s shoes and understanding where How To Diagnose a they are coming from. Verbal Encounter… Empathy ‘absorbs’ P.A.C.E. tension… 97 98 P.A.C.E. Four Steps To A Healthy Dispute P- Problem (situation you are in) Paraphrase- sincerely re-phrase their statement. A- Audience (to whom you are Paraphrase Again- it shows you speaking) understand their issue. C- Constraints (obstacles to Refocus others attention- using a sincere effective communication) tone, “let me ask you something?...” Say What You Want To Say-…state your E- Ethical presence (your case. professional face) 99 100 25
4/2/2021 How To Interrupt…Gently Use An Empathetic Sentence Sword of insertion: “Let me be sure I understand you” When people are in a tirade, upset, or “Let me be sure we are on the same basically just angry, let them vent then wavelength” strategically wedge in “Wait a second”, “Let me be sure I heard that” “Listen”, or “Whoa”. Be careful not to Now acknowledge that you understand. sound angry when you say it! 101 102 Two Principals For Dealing With Difficult People Let the person say what they want as long “When you react you’re as they do what you say. being controlled” And… “When you respond Always go for the Win-Win solution. You you’re dealing with can give the citizen the last word because you have the last action. it” 103 104 26
4/2/2021 Verbal Abuse Soul Searching Exercise Realize that you will always have receive abuse for the rest of your life! So you might as well learn how to skillfully interact with those citizens and… Maintain the position of advantage. 105 106 Five-Step Hard Style Asking stage. (who, what etc…) Set the context. (telling why) Present options. (in their best interest) EXERCISE Confirmation. (Compliance or non- compliance Dispute Resolution Take action 107 108 27
4/2/2021 If I was successful…you have learned how to… Remain under emotional control When someone is during disagreements. screaming at you… Ensure that you are understood. Employ empathy to stay engaged Whisper….. with people. Use words instead of actions to achieve goals. 109 110 The End 111 28
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