Deciding to have a goal in life
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Deciding to have a goal in life In fact, in matters of happiness, everything is always a question of decision. How do you find a purpose in your life? It starts with deciding! This is about deciding to become who we want to be, to live the life we want to live and to embody the values that inspire us the most. Finding Your Purpose in life is being free to be who we are. In other words, it means taking back this freedom and responsibility from our parents, our teachers, society and our friends. This fear is completely normal. But, believe me, it won't stop you from doing what it takes to find a purpose in your life. Decide to have the right to live this life that makes you dream and to be the person you want to be. Get rid of your beliefs, your fears and the weight of the eyes of others. Understand the importance of having a goal in life To have a goal in life is to have the feeling of advancing in a direction that we have chosen. A direction which will give both a meaning to our life, but also to all the small daily actions. Indeed, playing sports to play sports does not have as much impact as doing sports, because in our ideal of life we want a healthy body. Or even going to family reunions to go to family reunions does not have as much impact as if we go there, because in our ideal of life we have warm relationships with our family. Give yourself the right to dream! How do you find a purpose in your life? By giving yourself the right to dream about these ideals. List at least 50, ideally 100. So, you will go around everything that is important to you. Take an interest in all areas of your life: professional, personal, family ... This list is the famous bucket-list. Give yourself permission to dream. Don't put any limits on yourself. Imagine that you have all the skills, all the means available, who do you want to be and what do you want to embody? Have an intermediate goal Finding a goal in life is quite easy. Indeed, we just have to let ourselves be inspired by models and to embody their values. But of course, it is an ideal. In other words, we will not embody it immediately, immediately. These short and medium term goals, I call them my core goals. These are things that make our hearts beat and give meaning to our lives. How To Find Your Life's Purpose? By having smaller goals that lead us to reach our ideal, and above all to taste it day after day. Define your heart goal Now that you've chosen something from your bucket-list, let's turn it into a heart goal. Because, yes this thing, this dream makes your heart beat, but it is not yet a goal. This is why a heart objective must be clear, precise and have a date! A clear objective means that in one sentence, everyone must understand what you want to do, without needing explanations from you. A goal is specific, in other words, you must know concretely what you have to do to reach it.
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