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                                                       March 2020

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march 2020                                                                   Shabbat Services
                                FRIDAY, MARCH 6, 2020                                                       FRIDAY, MARCH 20, 2020
 In This Issue                  11 Adar
                                5:30 p.m.   Pre-Neg
                                                                                                            25 Adar
                                                                                                            6:00 p.m.   Pre-Neg
                                6:30 p.m.   Teacher Appreciation                                            6:30 p.m.   Shabbat Tropical Service
                                		Shabbat Services                                                          7:30 p.m.   Shabbat Tropical Dinner
 Shabbat Services 2
                                SATURDAY, MARCH 7, 2020                                                     SATURDAY, MARCH 21, 2020
 Purim Shpiel 3
                                9:00 a.m.  Torah Study                                                      9:00 a.m.  Torah Study
 From Strength to Strength 4    10:30 a.m. Morning Minyan                                                   10:30 a.m. Morning Minyan
                                10:30 a.m. Bar Mitzvah of Jack Goldhaber
 Lunch ’N Learn 4               5:30 p.m.  B’not Mitzvah of Katelin                                         Parashat Vayakheil
                                		         and Amanda Morgan                                                Exodus 35:1 – 38:20
 Clergy Corner 5
                                                                                                            Haftarah: I Kings 7:40 – 50
 President’s Message 6          Parashat Tetzaveh
                                Exodus 27:20 – 30:10                                                        FRIDAY, MARCH 27, 2020
 Men’s Seder 7                  Haftarah: Ezekiel 43:10 – 27                                                3 Nisan
                                                                                                            6:00 p.m.   Pre-Neg
 Membership 8/9
                                SUNDAY, MARCH 8, 2020                                                       6:30 p.m.   Shabbat Services
 Youth Engagement Religious     12:00 noon Purim Carnival
                                                                                                            SATURDAY, MARCH 28, 2020
  School 10/11                  MONDAY, MARCH 9, 2020 Erev Purim                                            9:00 a.m.  Torah Study
                                13 Adar                                                                     10:30 a.m. Morning Minyan
 Day School 12/13
                                6:30 p.m.  Purim Shpiel and Megillah Reading
 Programming 14-16                                                                                          Parashat Pekudei
                                FRIDAY, MARCH 13, 2020                                                      Exodus 38:21 – 40:38
 I Love Rita Photos 17          18 Adar                                                                     Haftarah: I Kings 7:51 – 8:21
 B’nai Mitzvah 18
                                6:00 p.m.   Pre-Neg
                                6:30 p.m.   Shabbat Services
 Dunk 4 Diabetes 19
                                SATURDAY, MARCH 14, 2020
 Tikkun Olam 20                 9:00 a.m.  Torah Study
 High Holy Day Youth Choir 21
                                10:30 a.m. Morning Minyan
                                10:30 a.m. Bar Mitzvah of Harrison Lamnin
 Brotherhood 21
                                Parashat Ki Tisa
 Frozen Shabbat Photos 22       Exodus 30:11 – 34:35
 Our Jewish Heritage 23
                                Haftarah: I Kings 18:1 – 39

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 Auction 26/27

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                         From Strength to Strength
                         Rabbi Jeremy Barras
                         jbarras@tbam.org

  The Tenth Plague, Pharaoh, International Holocaust Remembrance Day and Kobe Bryant
At the end of January there was a confluence of events with         line of first born sons in his family. It was only when his son
a common theme that resonated with me. As Jews around               was taken before him did he realize that he was not in fact a
the world were reading the Torah portion of Bo, in which we         god, and that the G-d of Israel had outmatched him.
learn of the last three plagues in Egypt, we paused to mourn
on International Holocaust Remembrance Day, which this year         Pharaoh was forced to grieve for the loss of his son along with
marked the 75th anniversary of the liberation of Auschwitz-         the other Egyptian families. Their values were corrupt, and
Birkenau. The day before that anniversary, the world lost Kobe      Pharaoh was passing on illusions of grandeur to his son. On the
Bryant, his daughter, and seven others in a horrific helicopter     other hand, what struck people so deeply about Kobe Bryant,
crash that brought shock and sadness to people across the globe.    was that he died alongside his daughter, Gianna. Kobe had
I had never met Kobe Bryant, nor have most of the people in the     committed his post-NBA life to raising his daughters, teaching
world. But the shock and sadness of his loss affected so many in    them and offering them real opportunities to do good in this
deep and profound ways. I also thought a lot about his tragic       world. We mourn our brothers and sisters who perished in
death. In the same vein, while I obviously never met anyone         the Holocaust every day not because we knew them (although
who perished in the Holocaust, I think about them every single      some of us had family members who were lost), but because
day.                                                                they were people who represented each one of us. They shared
                                                                    our values, they passed on our traditions, they were a link in
In programs marking Holocaust Remembrance Day, and in               the chain that connects us to our ancestors and to our covenant
my own thoughts about Kobe Bryant, I continued to reflect on        with the Almighty. We don’t mourn with those who pervert
that week’s Torah portion and in particular, the tenth plague.      justice, seek only fame and view the world through a distorted
The murder of the first born son of every Egyptian household        lens of hatred and narcissism. But we will always remember
provides a glimpse into the sorrow and tragedy the Egyptian         those who see their role in this world as holy vessels who soak
people felt as such a massive loss of life ravaged their country.   up our sacred tradition and pass it on to those who come after
But why was this necessary? And why were ten separate               them. They will always remain in our hearts and souls, and we
plagues necessary? There are a variety of different factors that    yearn to be the next link that preserves our tradition not for our
the rabbis consider, but one view suggests that each plague was     own glory, but for the benefit of those who inherit it from us.
meant to attack one of Egypt’s deities. One by one Pharaoh saw
that his perceived gods were not real, but it was only when he      L’shalom,
saw that all of his gods were false could he admit that the G-d
of Israel was the one and only true deity. Pharaoh saw his gods
fall one by one, but he considered himself a god as well, and as    Rabbi Jeremy Barras
long as he lived, his hold over other nations could exist. Though
Pharaoh knew he would one day die (which is pretty unusual
for a god), he believed that his being would live on through the

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Clergy Corner
                                   Cantor Rachelle Nelson
                                                  rnelson@tbam.org

Purim has been considered the festival of masks; after all, don’t most of   appearance seems to match his inner appearance is King Ahasuerus.
the characters in the Purim story wear a mask? And why do you think         He doesn’t seem to hide his naivety, his lack of good judgement, or
that we, the Jewish people, are able to relate to this raucous holiday      his inability to rule. He wears his royal robe with great confidence and
with so much enthusiasm? I know that the liquor flows generously            does little to follow-up on any issues that come his way. And yet, this
and without guilt, but why else do we feel such an attachment to its        same awkward and unstable leader has the capacity to demand that
essence? The answer lies in the masks, the ones worn in the plat, and       his wife Vashti, dance naked in public. When she refuses, he has her
ones we wear in and out of our lives.                                       sent away which implies that she is killed. If Ahasuerus is wearing a
                                                                            mask, it is surely one of confusion as to his sense of morals and values.
Queen Esther certainly has much to hide. She is brought to the King         Instead , he presents himself as a man without a true moral compass of
as a contestant in a beauty pageant, she wins the contest and marries       right and wrong.
the King and she hides her Jewish faith from both the King and his
ministers. In fact, she wears this mask throughout the Purim story until    As the Book of Esther has no mention of God, perhaps even the
the very end when the lives of the Jewish people are threatened. At this    Almighty is hiding its face behind a mask. If the Jewish people were to
point, she lifts her veil of secrecy and allows her true self to be seen.   be annihilated and at the very last moment, a miracle arrived to save
Mordechai wears a mask, partially revealed and partially hidden. Day        them, would it be incomprehensible to think that perhaps God removed
after day he sits at the gates of the King’s palace, keeping secret his     the mask of secrecy and revealed blessings upon the Jewish people?
relationship with Esther, and the plot that they must remain silent         We will wear our masks at the Purim festival and we will laugh and
from the King and his assistant, Haman. Even after Mordechai saves          celebrate in costume. I pray that each of us will know when to take the
the King from a plot to assassinate him, the King still has no idea who     mask off and that we will truly appreciate and love what is behind it.
Mordechai is nor does he seem to care.
                                                                            Chag Sameah.
We then are introduced to Haman, principle minister of the king
Ahasuerus. Haman is a painfully disturbed and angry man. He is              Cantor Nelson
power-hungry beyond what anyone can feed his ego, and the slightest
lack of catering to his needs can cause death to those that do not obey.
Haman wears one mask when he addresses the king and another
mask when he is speaking to the king’s servants and villagers. Haman
demands that all bow down to him and when Mordechai refuses, you
can only imagine what this does to Haman’s frail ego. The fury, the
hatred and outrage, pour forth from every part of him, and he becomes
obsessed with killing Mordechai and all the Jews.

Of all the protagonists in the Book of Esther, the only one whose outer

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                                                                         In sum, Weiss advises that we fight the hatred of anti-Semitism by
                                                                         deepening our love for Judaism.
                        M e s s a g e
                                  from the                               But it can’t be simply celebrating Jewishness for the sake of it. Sure,

                        president                                        humans might be tribal by nature. But there is nothing compelling about
                                                                         tribalism for its own sake. There ought to be a higher purpose for the
                                                                         tribe’s existence. It ought to have a guiding force or principle, something
                        Stuart Ratzan                                    that on an aspirational level is righteous and true.
                        sratzan@tbam.org
                                                                         At Temple Beth Am, our mission is to spin the grogger throughout
                                                                         the year. The noise we hope to make is the beautiful sound of music
The Purim Holiday and the Fight                                          as we sing together on Shabbat or on any of our holidays. These are
Against Anti-Semitism                                                    harmonious sounds that bring peace to us as individuals and at the same
                                                                         time bring us together as a community. We engage in festive learning,
Dear Beth Am Community,                                                  developing ourselves mentally and spiritually. We celebrate athletics,
                                                                         and we celebrate life cycles. And sometimes we simply celebrate
This is March, and in the Jewish calendar March usually means the        ourselves with parties, galas, art auctions, and luncheons. Often we
holiday of Purim. I have fond memories of the Purim holiday as a         honor and celebrate someone special in our community. The Beth Am
child. Carnivals. Noise makers. Costumes. And of course a story          life is often described as “Joyful Judaism.”
of intrigue, suspense, and danger, with a victorious ending for the
Jews.                                                                    Discovering Judaism’s Purpose
I can’t resist. I am reminded of a humorous line my wife shared          Being Jewish does indeed have a higher, aspirational purpose. And
with me recently about the essence of all Jewish holidays:               we seek it spiritually, morally, and intellectually by studying Torah,
                                                                         attending services, and attending the engaging programing offered here.
“They tried to destroy us...They failed...Let’s eat!”
                                                                         When you look around Beth Am, you see that all the elements of what
Purim, as you know, involves the hateful but powerful Persian            Bari Weiss refers to are in play. So, if you want to fight anti semitism,
leader, Haman, who declares his intent to kill the Jews. This after      start with celebrating your Jewish self right here at Temple Beth Am.
the Jew Mordecai refuses to bow down to Haman. In the end,               Bring your energy and curiosity to the community. You won’t regret it.
of course, Queen Esther boldly reveals her Jewish identity and           And along the way you will spin your own grogger, making yourself and
Haman’s plans to the King. The Jews of Persia are saved and Haman        your community heard.
is put to death.
                                                                         And what will others hear?
Why we spin the grogger
                                                                         They will hear the sound of a proud community of people, celebrating
Each year, at Purim, whenever Haman’s name is read from the Book         their culture, their history, and their future. They will also hear the
of Esther, we are instructed to sound our groggers and hoot and          sound of a people seeking and receiving the magical, moral guidance of
holler. Sometimes the custom is explained as a way to blot out the       the Torah. Perhaps they will also hear the sound of Jews discovering the
name of the evil enemy of our people. But on further reflection I        sparks of spiritual wonder that emerge from the words and pages of the
think the custom is as likely a pronouncement that whenever we           text, and also from the story of our people over thousands of years.
are faced with the tyrants who would seek to destroy our people,
we shall scream out our Jewishness even louder. We shall never           In sum, Beth Am’s mission is the current mission of the Jewish people. It
shrink or shy away. Instead we shall more fully express ourselves,       is the best way to fight anti-semitism. Not with counter-demonstrations
full of pride despite those who would destroy us. We are not simply      and anger. But with love and courage. As Dr. Marin Luther King taught
screaming out in protest; the holiday of Purim is celebratory, and       us: “Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate
the noise we make is collective and joyful. Our aim is not simply        cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.”
to demonstrate against the name of Haman; our aim is to infuse our
lives with positive energy, that knowing the Hamans of the world         With the commitment to our freedom, not for freedom’s sake, but for
are out there, we will be emboldened to affirmatively celebrate our      the higher moral purpose of using that freedom to be our best version of
Jewishness with even more energy and fervor.                             our individual selves, we will stand up and be heard. We will be heard
                                                                         as we live out the principles of justice and morality embedded in our
How to Fight Anti Semitism at Temple Beth Am                             Torah. We will be heard as we treasure the sanctity of human life and
                                                                         bring dignity and respect to all our dealings with other people. We will
In response to the current events making anti-Semitism headline          be heard as we treasure the blessings of celebration, humor, and love that
news, and in a modern era where anti-Semitism is an inescapable          our tradition encourages.
problem for our community, Bari Weiss wrote a recent book titled
How to Fight Anti-Semitism. As Bari Weiss explains in that book,         Want to fight anti-semitism? Let’s do so by asserting our freedom to be
our best strategy in the fight is to live fuller and more informed       Jewish. But not simply for the sake of it. Let’s really dig deep. Together,
Jewish lives, to more fully invest in our Jewish selves, to discover     let’s learn the purpose for our people’s existence. Let’s learn how to
and then live out our Jewishness.                                        fulfill the story of our people, and how to make it mean something great,
                                                                         for ourselves and for the world around us.
Weiss explains, “Cultivating and strengthening your Jewish identity
may not seem like an obvious way to combat anti-semitism, but it is      Happy Purim everyone! Let’s eat. :)
actually one of our most powerful weapons.” Weiss goes on to say,
“The proper — and ultimately the only — response to this moment is
to practice a Judaism of affirmation, not a Judaism of defensiveness.”   Stuart
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                                                            Q Honey-do lists
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                                                 in a surge protector during a hurricane
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                  Membership
               Rita Diaz
               Membership Director
               rdiaz@tbam.org

        CHAVURAH CONNECTION INVITES YOU...
               WALLCAST® CONCERT
                 Soundscape Park
                            SATURDAY, MARCH 21
                                 8:00 P.M.
                               SCHEHERAZADE
NWS Conducting alumnus Joshua Gersen returns to bring
one of the most alluring masterworks to the New World
Center. Arabian Nights’ famed storyteller Scheherazade spins
fables to survive.

You can experience the New World Symphony
performances larger than life in free outdoor Wallcast
concerts. Miami Beach’s SoundScape features the latest in
visual and audio technology on a 7,000-square-foot projection
wall. Wallcast events are free to the public and do not require
a ticket.

There will be a pre-concert chat in the SunTrust Pavilion for each of the WALLCAST concerts, pre-
sented by Citi, this season. These will take place one hour before each WALLCAST concert and will
be available to all ticketholders and WALLCAST® concert attendees.

Space is limited, so attendance will be on a first-come, first-served basis.
Miami Beach Exostage is at SoundScape, 500 17 St., Miami Beach.

Come early, bring your lawn chairs, picnic dinner, beverages and snacks!

Please RSVP to Darlene in the Membership Department

305.667.6667 ext. 115 dcruz@tbam.org
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BREAKFAST AND TOUR
                                                         FOR PROSPECTIVE
                                                            MEMBERS
                                                        Sunday, March 1, 11:00 a.m.
                                                                        Sanctuary Lobby

   Please invite your unaffiliated friends or family members to join us for breakfast in our
  Sanctuary Lobby and tour our beautiful campus. They will have the opportunity to learn
about our many membership incentives, from our complimentary young adult memberships
to our “Get To Know Us” campaign and for those families that would love to rejoin our com-
munity, we offer our “Get To Know Us All Over Again.” If you know someone interested in
           learning more about Temple Beth Am, please tell them about the event.

                       Better year, bring them and have breakfast with us!

              RSVP a must to Rita Diaz 350.667.6667 ext. 107 or rdiaz@tbam.org

                   Caring for a family member with a chronic illness?
                       Join us and participate in a support group

			• Meet others in a similar situation
			 • Exchange information and helpful resources
			 • Learn stress reduction techniques and other coping strategies Connect
			 • Find emotional outlets and receive support from peers
			 • Form new friendships and discover a sense of community

                  This group will be facilitated by Maxine Hart Weinstein, Ph.D. psychologist.
        Dr. Weinstein, a TBAM congregant, is a Miami psychologist who has led many caregiver groups.
                            She is on the staff of Baptist and South Miami Hospitals.
              Stay tuned for details. There is no charge to attend. The group is open to everyone!
                            If you are interested in learning more about this group,
                               please contact Rita Diaz by phone at 786.364.9434.

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                             Tamara Donnenfeld
                             Director of Lifelong Learning
                             tdonnenfeld@tbam.org

                                       BAFTY 34

     RELIGIOUS SCHOOL
                             GUATEMALA

WASHINGTON, D.C.                                             ISRAEL

                            GUATEMALA

     KENNEDY SPACE CENTER                                    MIAMI
Erica Golden
           Youth Engagement Director
           egolden@tbam.org

                                                        CALENDAR
                                        Wednesday, March 4        Wednesday, March 18
                                       BAFTY 34 3:15-3:45 p.m.      Rosh Chodesh
                                               in the                5:30-7:00 p.m.
                                        Adult Reading Room
                                                                   Monday, March 23
                                          Saturday, March 7      No Monday Night Chai
                                            BAFTY goes to
                                           Universal Studios     Friday, April 3-Saturday,
                                        & Islands of Adventure            April 4
                                                                   5th Grade Retreat at
                                          Sunday, March 15              ZooMiami
                                            Jog for Jenny!

                                        Wednesday, March 18
                                        BAFTY 5 3:15-3:45 p.m.
                                                in the
                                         Adult Reading Room

                                           Join BAFTY on Sunday, March 15 at
                                         7:30 a.m. for our annual Jog For Jenny
                                       Family Fun Run and help change the lives
                                       of so many kids at Camp Jenny! Sign up to
                                               run or sponsor the event at
SEE JOG FOR JENNY AD ON PAGE 30.               www.tbam.org/jogforjenny

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                            day school
                            Dr. Deborah Starr
                            Head of School
                            dstarr@tbam.org

                Without change there is no innovation, creativity, or incentive for improvement.
                                                            - William Pollard

  The Temple Beth Am Day School’s Annual Auction is upon              With the addition of Israeli Dance to our Physical Education
  us and after ten years here I still feel its excitement. Not only   program, we now have an annual whole-school (yes, Early
  is it a fundraising evening to support our Scholarship Fund         Childhood, too!) Israeli Dance Festival to celebrate Yom
  and new school initiatives, but it is an evening of real social     Yerushalayim. Physical Education itself was further enriched.
  gathering and fun. Every year, I am totally surprised by the        We now have Yoga in Early Childhood; and Mindfulness,
  creativity, imagination, and artistic skill demonstrated by each    Nutrition, and Martial Arts in Elementary School. Do you
  and every one of the students’ art projects. It is almost like a    remember when the children did not have scheduled, daily
  mini Art Basel. The children enjoy making the art pieces and        recess? Oxygen to the brain–very necessary.
  the “bidding wars” over acquiring them is fierce. Sometimes,
  I feel like I am Sotheby’s. None of this could happen without       For both our students and our teachers, academics and in-
  our talented Art Teacher, Amy Kutell.                               tellectual learning have moved forward on so many levels.
                                                                      To begin with, we have Curriculum Maps that are open
  Every year the Annual Auction has a theme, and I am hum-            for inspection, updated twice a year, and clearly posted on
  bled by this year’s theme being: Rock Starr, in honor of yours      our school website. In our Elementary School, we added a
  truly. It is a play on both my last name and my love of rock        STEM Lab and supporting science subject matter. In Early
  music (but, not limited to–I also appreciate country, pop, al-      Childhood, Nursery and Pre-Kindergarten students go to the
  ternative, classical, movie soundtracks and scores, and some        Science Exploratory Room and experience ECHOS (Early
  rap). I thank the Co-Chairs, Sara Berkowitz and Natalie             Childhood Hands-On Science), a program developed at the
  Firestone, for their vision and drive for this important eve-       Miami Science Museum and our teacher has received the
  ning and I look forward to all they have in store! I have been      professional development necessary to implement the pro-
  told that this year there will be a number of unique surprises      gram. We have intentionally added the 4 Cs of 21st Century
  (in addition to the open bar, delicious food, and scattered en-     Learning: Creativity, Collaboration, Communication, and
  tertainment).                                                       Critical Thinking. Our Early Childhood Center uses Creative
                                                                      Curriculum as its basis of instruction, with a Reggio-inspired
  All of this has triggered some reflective thoughts on my time       classroom environment. Our Social Studies curriculum was
  here at Temple Beth Am Day School. I have always felt we            greatly re-vamped. In kindergarten through second grade,
  were a great match. The school needed my particular tool            we added World Cultures. Kindergarten studies Mexico, our
  box at the time of hire, and I was encouraged to use it to my       neighbor to the south. First grade experiences the world of
  utmost ability in order to positively impact the school. I think    Japan–including a Field Trip to Morikami Gardens! Second
  I have accomplished that (with the help of my strong adminis-       grade studies selected nations on the African Continent. They
  trative teams, made up of: Susy Novak, Cari Altman, Mara            view African Art on a Field Trip to Fort Lauderdale Art Mu-
  Berger, Jen Carey, Dr. Lenore Kipper, Wendy Perlman,                seum. Third through fifth grade social studies became less
  Ellen Blumenthal, Liora Vogel, and Denise Kirsner).                 linear and survey driven, and became more in-depth, includ-
                                                                      ing a Civil War simulation.
  Many of these new initiatives had to do with Elementary
  School “gatherings,” and these gatherings were for the              The model for our weekly Faculty Meetings changed. No lon-
  purpose of giving meaning to invaluable “moments” and im-           ger “policies and procedures” meetings (all faculty members
  portant holidays, milestones, and events. These included: our       are capable memo readers), the template now is one of colle-
  Opening and Closing Assemblies with special emphasis on             giality building and sharing; reflective practice in individual
  welcoming our kindergarten students and recognizing our             journals; and professional development. These meetings have
  graduating class; 9-11 Commemoration; Veterans Day (with            improved and supported the educational practices of our
  our accompanying Wall of Honor); and Yom haZikaron (with            teachers and thereby enhanced our student learning. Some
  a memorial component to executed journalist Steven Joel             of the professional development has included: the Steps and
  Sotloff).                                                           Traits of the Writing Process; Interpreting and using NWEA
                                                                      MAP testing results; Grit; Google Classroom; Technology to
                                                                      Support the Learning; Making the Learning Visible; Creative
Curriculum; Rigor; and the Kagan Protocols.                       Temple Beth Am Day School’s PATIO, along with the Ad-
                                                                  missions Office, creates many events and social gatherings to
Values and being a mensch is central to our learning. We          foster propinquity at the school. There have been grade-level
wanted a comprehensive approach to this endeavor. Rabbi           social gatherings; the Back to School Picnic; New Parents
Greengrass was charged to create a three-year, cycled, Mid-       Picnic; New Parents Orientation; Parent Coffees and Speakers;
dot curriculum for our students. Some of these values include:    our hugely successful Bingo Night; Game Night; Parent/Child
clothing the naked, feeding the hungry, pursuing justice, pro-    Dances; Pancake Breakfasts; Pajama Movie Night, and so
tecting the environment, and to “watch one’s words (lashon        much more. We are a very vibrant place, and we are in a very
hora). Complementing the Middot curriculum is our Open            healthy place.
Circle program. A successful, nationally recognized kinder-
garten through fifth grade, research-based, social competency     All of these initiatives, academic, social, emotional, physical,
program developed at Wellesley College. We are the only           and spiritual supported our first-time ever, five years ago,
school in Florida teaching this program. To foster leadership,    application for accreditation from the Florida Council of In-
kindness, and responsibility, we have our Kindergarten            dependent Schools (FCIS). We achieved that accreditation,
Buddies and Pre-K Pals initiatives. Ask your children about it;   from this strongest and most highly acclaimed of Florida
they love their partners. Did I mention we now have a school      independent schools’ accrediting agencies, and were recently
song and mascot? Let us not forget, our Student Council led       re-accredited this year.
Tzedakah projects–whereby our students raise money for
hurricane relief, cancer, heart, and diabetes research, animal    Now, the school is primed for its next great trajectory. With
shelters, St. Jude and Nicklaus Children’s Hospitals, Wounded     the strength of the Beyond the Curve campaign and the hire
Warriors, and so much more. Yes, we do a lot to foster com-       of an incredible new Head of School, Nora Anderson–Tem-
munity–and to be part of this bigger enterprise and the world.    ple Beth Am Day School is perched for incredible growth and
Tikkun Olam is seriously practiced here.                          academic accomplishment. May every success and blessing
                                                                  come this way.
Our Extended Day Program has many rich offerings for
students who choose this option. Extended Day has included:
Robotics, Coding, Physics, Fashion Design, Spanish, TV
Production, and STEM.                                             Dr. Deborah Starr

                                                JOIN US IN HONORING

                                   Temple Beth Am Day School Head of School
                                        on her forthcoming retirement

                          FRIDAY, MAY 8, 2020
                                  PRE-NEG: 6:00 PM | SERVICE: 6:30 PM

                                       Dinner immediately following service.
                                                 $36 per person
                                         RSVP at tbam.org/starrshabbat

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                  programming
                  Andrea LeVine
                  Program Director
                  alevine@tbam.org

 Racial Justice Reading Group
 with Rabbi Jaime Aklepi
 Featuring special guest facilitators Dr. Miriam Lipsky, Dr. Jan Sokol-Katz,
 and Marni Lennon of the University of Miami

 7:00-9:00 p.m., Meeting Room 2
 April 7, April 28, May 12, and June 2
 Are you interested in discussing issues of privilege, bias, and racism?

 Join in the conversation at our 5-session program in which we will wrestle
 with these issues as they relate to public education, the criminal justice system,
 and our experience as Jews in America. We welcome expert guest facilitators to
 guide us through these important conversations as we examine how we can create
 positive change.

 Free of charge, but please RSVP to Mindy Robbin at mrobbin@tbam.org.

 Teacher Appreciation Shabbat
                                                          You are cordially invited to a special Shabbat
                                                          honoring our Temple Beth Am Day School and
                                                          Religious School educators! Join us for a special
                                                          extended preneg and service to celebrate the
                                                          incredible work our teachers do each and every day.

                                                          This year we honor:   5 Years:  Adi Afek
                                                                                		Melissa Greenstein
                                                                                		Droma Gringarten
                                                                                		Keith Krotenberg
                                                                                		        Shula Leshetz
                                                                                		Irit Roth
                                                                                		Gillian Strauss
                                                                                10 Years: Liat Berkey
                                                                                		Deborah Starr
                                                                                15 Years: Denise Kirsner
 Friday, March 6 | 5:30 p.m. preneg, | 6:30 p.m. Service                        30 Years:
                                                                                35 Years:
                                                                                          Shirley Sotloff
                                                                                          Barbara Berman
                                                                                40 Years: Natalie Breslin
 www.tbam.org/teachershabbat                                                    45 Years: Dr. Lenore Kipper
SHABBAT TROPICAL
                                            Spanish Night!
                                                                                           Friday, March 20
                                                                                               6:00 p.m.
                                                                                                Preneg
                                                                                               6:30 p.m.
                                                                                                Service
                                                                                      The Latin Connection of Temple
                                                                                    Beth Am invites you to celebrate the
                                                                                    treasures of Spain as we learn about
                                                                                       its Jewish heritage. Join us for a
                                                                                      special Shabbat service, featuring
                                                                                    musical arrangements from Cantor
                                                                                       Rachelle Nelson, followed by a
                                                                                           delicious Spanish dinner!

SPANISH NIGHT
Join us for dinner and our annual celebration of Latin Jewish heritage

FRIDAY, MARCH 20 TH
Immediately following our special Shabbat Tropical service, we invite you to enjoy the
treasures of Spain with a delicious dinner and a special flamenco performance! Take this
opportunity at the end of your week to restore, replenish, reflect and rejoice with us.

Adults $36 | Youth under 18 are free!
Register today at www.tbam.org/shabbattropical

Questions? Contact Andrea LeVine at alevine@tbam.org.

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                                                  Sunday Salon
                                                       Join us at 10:00 a.m.
                                                 in the Adult Reading Room

        March 1
        Bill Farran
        The Yizkor Book Chronicles
        Last year, The Jewish Genealogical Society of Greater Miami introduced us to a most
        remarkable artist/author, Bill Farran. Bill’s memorable presentation of his book, Lost
        Treasures: The Wooden Synagogues of Eastern Europe, a collection of his magnificent artistic
        linocuts, was absolutely astounding. And now, thanks to our continued partnership with
        JGSGM, Bill returns with even greater detail about those shuls and their villages, bringing
        stories, tidbits, facts, legends, and more gathered from Yizkor books and how they tell the
        stories of our people. Come hear some interesting and happy moments of our ancestors in
        Europe.

        March 8
        Dr. Marsha Cohen
        Updates on 2020 Vision? News Stories We’re Watching Now

        Dr. Marsha B. Cohen has been remarkably prescient in assessing and anticipating
        situations that hadn’t been receiving much media attention. And now we ask “What’s
        in the news? Is it good for the Jews?” Marsha Cohen will share her insights about news
        stories of interest to American Jews–why we ought to be concerned about them and give
        them our attention.
    Adult Reading Room Library events are coordinated by Etta Gold, Congregational Librarian.
                        Contact Etta at egold@tbam.org or 786.264.6543

                                                    SAVE THE DATE
                                                 Second Night
                                             Community Passover Seder
                                                Thursday, April 9
                                                   5:45 p.m.
Thank You!
Thank you to Michelle and
Scott Sarason and the
I Love Rita committee for
chairing this special tribute
to our beloved membership
director, Rita Diaz.

Special thanks to Philip
Bregman at ESG for the
fabulous decor, Karen Cohen
at Always Flowers for the
stunning floral design,
Claudia Storper for the
incredible photographs and
Chef David Schwadron for
our delicious brunch.

It was such a beautiful day filled
with love and community in
celebration of Rita.

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          Mazel Tov B'nai Mitzvah
 Jack Goldhaber
 March 7, 2020
 Jack, an 8th grader, is a conscientious Honor student and particularly gifted in Algebra. Jack is a baseball
 player, a pitcher, and works hard to hone his craft. He adores his pups, Rocky and Ginger, snowboarding,
 Maine (his home away from home) and is very close with his grandparents and cousins and of course his
 sister Lila (9). We have been very blessed with a sweet, sensitive, funny and bright son/grandson/nephew
 and can’t wait to celebrate his special day.

 Amanda Morgan
 March 7, 2020
 Amanda is a TBAM graduate and made us proud by being the first female president of student govern-
 ment. She is in the 7th grade at Palmetto Middle School, in the National Junior Honors Society, speech and
 debate club, and Model U.N. She loves hanging out with her friends, making videos, and is energetic, confi-
 dent and adventurous. She is a great big sister to Katelin with whom she’s sharing her special day. Her
 parents, Spencer and Maria are very proud of her and look forward to celebrating her Bat Mitzvah.

 Katelin Morgan
 March 7, 2020
 Katelin is a TBAM graduate and is in 6th grade at Riviera Preparatory. She is an excellent student, gifted
 dancer and is on the cheerleading squad. She loves being a “Bulldog,” spending time with her friends,
 shopping, and going to the beach. Katelin has a passion for fashion and design and loves cuddling with
 her cat Peanut. She is grateful to be able to share her special day with her big sister Amanda. Her parents,
 Spencer and Maria are very proud of her and we look forward to celebrating her Bat Mitzvah.

 Harrison Lamnin
 March 14, 2020
 Harrison is a 7th grade honor roll student at Ransom Everglades Middle School, and a graduate of Temple
 Beth Am Day School. He enjoys playing football for Ransom, video games and spending time with friends.
 He is super smart, witty and compassionate. His parents Adam and Dawn, and his younger sister,
 Lauren are so proud of him and his accomplishments, and are looking forward to celebrating his special
 day.

                                         Do you know Josh Friedmann,
                                  Daniel Simmendinger and Mara Rosenbaum?
                     Josh, Daniel and Mara are three students from our sister synagogue in Hamburg, Germany called Liber-
                     ale Judische Gemeinde Hamburg, the Liberal Jewish Community of Hamburg. Hamburg is where Reform
                     Judaism began. Today, this community which was founded in 2004 is reestablishing a Reform Jewish
                     presence that was torn from its roots during the Shoah. On Shavuot this year, Josh, Daniel and Mara will
                     celebrate their B’nai Mitzvah. They are looking to enrich their joyous day by sharing it with B’nai Mitz-
                     vah students from Temple Beth Am. We are looking for 6th or 7th graders to “twin” their Bar Mitzvah
                     or Bat Mitzvah with one of the students from Hamburg. Get to know each other through skype, email,
                     Whatsapp. Share what it’s like to be Jewish in Miami and hear what it’s like to be Jewish today in Germa-
                     ny. Get to know someone from a different culture who is also having a Bar Mitzvah or a Bat Mitzvah–see
                     what is different, or the same. Maybe make a friend for life. Contact me to find out how to participate in
                     this Mitzvah Project for your Bar Mitzvah or Bat Mitzvah.

                     Contact Rabbi Aklepi at 305.667.6667 or via email at jaklepi@tbam.org
Sund
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                                                                                                                      April y,
                                                                                                                           26,
                                                                                                                       2020

    5th Annual 3-on-3 Basketball Tournament
 In partnership with the American Diabetes Association,
join us in the fight against diabetes, One Dunk at a Time!
            Games for Girls & Boys in 3rd–12th Grades
             at the U-Miami Basketball Practice Facility
                                Questions? Contact Jeff Marcus at jmarcus@mnrlawfirm.com
                                        Community Service Hours Available

     — — — — — — — — — — — — — PRESENTING SPONSORS — — — — — — — — — — — — —

               COURT SPONSORS                                                                 SLAM DUNK SPONSORS

                                   Fain Family                                                                                 The Marcus
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All proceeds go to our partner, the American Diabetes Association, to fund research and outreach programs. The ADA’s impact in the fight to stop diabetes
   can be felt on every corner in every community. From backyards to schoolyards, from research laboratories to health care providers’ offices and from
 diagnosis to beyond, we are fighting to make sure that individuals, children and families across the country have the resources and care that they need.

 Complete Details-Registration at tbam.org/dunks
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                     TIKKUN OLAM
                                                                         Thank you for participating in another
                                                                        successful Mitzvah Day! You helped make
                                                                               the world a better place!
        Mitzvot at the Purim                                            BAFTY’s Jog for Jenny
        Carnival on March 8!
While we enjoy the rides, games, treats, and            A 5K Walk/Run benefitting Camp Jenny, a weekend camp
fun at the Purim Carnival, Temple Beth Am               experience at URJ’s Camp Coleman for underprivileged
will also be engaging in Tikkun Olam, includ-           inner-city youth
ing sending letters to our pioneer members.                                 Sunday, March 15
                                                                             7:30 - 9:30 a.m.

                                                        Join our passionate teens for a morning of fitness and fun
                                                        as they raise money for their NFTY philanthropy, Camp
                                                        Jenny.

                                                        You can support this mitzvah by registering for Jog for
                                                        Jenny and/or sponsoring an underprivileged child.
   Tikkun Olam Purim Blood Drive
          Sunday, March 8                               For more information see page 30.
            11:00 a.m. – 4:00 p.m.
Give blood, save a life!                                                 VOLUNTEERS NEEDED!
We know you’ve got it in you!                                      (no basketball experience required)
For more information contact                                                Dunks for Diabetes
Susan Rosenthal at educatorsusan@aol.com                      5th Annual 3-on-3 Basketball Tournament
                                                                              Sunday, April 26
We are thrilled to welcome youth from                  In partnership with the American Diabetes Association,
community organizations and their caregivers,          join us in the fight against diabetes, One Dunk at a Time!
for an all-expenses-paid day of carnival fun! It       For more information see page 19.
is truly heartwarming to see those smiles, and         Questions? Ready to help?
to know that we provide a special opportunity          Contact Niki Marcus nicolemarcus1@bellsouth.net
for them to be joyful and care-free for a while.

                  Join TBAM at Miami Beach Gay Pride • Sunday, April 5
           Temple Beth Am will be participating in the Miami Beach Gay Pride Festival and Parade.
               Please join us to celebrate the unique spirit and culture of the LGBTQ community!
        Participate in an interfaith worship service at 11:00 a.m. then ride on a float in the Pride Parade!
         Contact Rabbi Greengrass at rgreengrass@tbam.org for more information about this awesome
                                      experience for the whole community!

                           If you’re interested in joining the Tikkun Olam Committee, please email
                                        Shelley Jacoby at Shelley@allinonedirectms.com
S P E C I A L
                      E N T                                 A TIME TO REMEMBER
      N O U  N  C E M
  A N                                                                The Temple Beth Am
                                                         High Holy Day Youth Choir
                                                                     will perform at the
                                                                  Holocaust Memorial
                                                               observance of Yom Hashoah

                                                                      April 19 • 6:30 p.m.
                                                                         1933-45 Meridian Avenue
                                                                          Miami Beach, FL. 33139

                                                         PLEASE PLAN TO ATTEND!
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                                Brotherhood of Temple Beth Am presents...
                                            Dr. Marc Agronin, author of
                                                The End of Old Age
                               Thursday, March 5th, 7:00 pm
                        Marc E. Agronin, M.D., Senior Vice President for
                     Behavioral Health and CMO of the MIND Institute at
  Miami Jewish Health, will speak on a hopeful and practical model of aging
    — a guide to understanding how we can all make the journey better.
  As a leading geriatric psychiatrist, Dr. Agronin sees both the sickest and the healthiest of
   seniors, what works to make their lives better and more purposeful, and what doesn’t.
  Authors may talk about aging from their particular vantage points, but Dr. Agronin is on
    the front lines as he works with elderly individuals and loved ones on a daily basis.
    The latest scientific research and Dr. Agronin’s experience are brilliantly distilled in
  The End of Old Age, a call and a plan to no longer see aging as an implacable enemy
     and start seeing it as a force for enhancing well-being, meaning and longevity.

                                                                                                 This event is free and
                                                                                                   open to everyone
                                                                                                 RSVP to Janice Baisman,
                                                                                                   jbaisman@tbam.org

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TEMPLE BETH AM’S FROZEN II SHABBAT
A spectacular evening for our young families, from a music and prayer filled Shabbat service led by Ana (aka Rabbi
Rachel Greengrass) and Cantorial Soloist Jackie Berney. Everyone enjoyed the delicious dinner catered by Fare
To Remember. Our special character guests, Elsa and Olaf entertained the children with singing, photo opps, arts
and crafts, and so much more! To top off this magical evening, our very own Head Custodian, Carlos Restrepo
turned Temple Beth Am into a winter wonderland!
By Dr. Lenore C. Kipper, RJE, Judaic Studies Director, Emerita

     Hebrew is the Eternal Language of Judaism and the Jewish People. It transcends time and place.
The development of the Jewish calendar begins with the Torah. We             “And the month of Adar was turned from sorrow to gladness, from
are given specific dates for celebrating the holidays. For example, it       mourning to joy.” (Esther 9:22) The 13th and 14th of Adar…These
is written to celebrate the first day of the seventh month as a day for      days are are recalled and observed in every generation, ,,,these days of
sounding the shofar, and the tenth day of the seventh month as a fast        Purim will never cease among the Jews, and the memory of them shall
day. It is also written to celebrate Passover on the fifteenth day of the    not perish among their descendants. (Esther 9:28-29)
first month. This brings us to the question, why does there seem to be
a question about when the new calendar year begins? It is only since         Purim, pay-reish-mem, name of the holiday
the first century that the Hebrew calendar established the names of the      What does the name of the holiday mean? In the story Haman casts
months. This was done by the Babylonian Jewish leaders. Therefore,           lots to choose the day he was going to destroy the Jews. The word for
the first month of the Jewish calendar is called Nisan and the last          lots is pur. From this we get the name of the holiday.
month is called Adar. Since it was based on a lunar system, they had to      Every Purim we celebrate, retell the story, remember the message, and
add a second month of Adar to coincide with the cycle of the sun. (You       have fun! Purim is for the family, adults and children, to be celebrated
can learn more about this from many sources.)                                with the community with the reading of Megillat Esther.

Adar, alef-dalet-reish, last month of Jewish calendar.                       Mishloach Manot, mem-shin-lamed-chet, mem-nun-tav,
The month of Adar always celebrates the holiday of Purim. It                 sending of food gifts
remembers the story told in the Book of Esther, which is included in         One of the customs of Purim is the sending of food baskets, especially
the third section of the Jewish Bible, the Writings, K’tuvim. Why was        to those who are ill, or not able to join the community celebrations.
it included in the Bible ? There are some scholars that believe this story   The other customs include Purim plays, dressing up in costumes,
is an historical novel written to deliver an important serious message       having a festive dinner, and arranging for carnival games related to the
for Jews who live in the Diaspora. History or fiction, it is a story about   Purim characters and events.
courage, sacrifice, loyalty,and taking a risk to save the Jewish People.
                                                                             If you have not participated in a Purim celebration since you were a
Megillat Esther, mem-gimel-lamed-tav, alef-samech-tav-                       child, or when your children were young, try it again. It is time to
reish, scroll of Esther.                                                     remember!
The main characters of the story are Esther, Mordecai, Haman and the
King of Persia, Achashverosh. It is a story of Jews living as a minority     Chag Purim Sameach!
in a country that becomes intolerant toward the Jewish people. After
Esther is chosen as the new queen, Mordecai, Esther’s cousin (some
say uncle) tells Esther not to let the king know she is Jewish. Why?         Lenore
Mordecai refuses to bow down to Haman, the King’s appointed leader.
This makes Haman very angry, and he began a planned a plot that
sought to annihilate the Jewish People. Haman becomes the symbol of
all anti-Semites in history. He convinced the king:

“There is a certain people scattered abroad and dispersed among the
peoples… their laws are different …they do not obey the king’s laws,
and the king should not tolerate them.” (Esther3:8).

Haman receives the king’s approval and decree to rid the
kingdom(empire) of the Jews. Mordecai tells Esther she must go to the
                                                                                               Hebrew Alephbet Chart
king and tell him she is Jewish and reveal Haman’s plot to destroy all
the Jews. No one is allowed to go before the King unless summoned by
him. Esther takes the risk, saying, “If I perish, I perish.” Once a royal
decree is issued it cannot be annulled. But the King issues a second
decree that the Jews were permitted to defend themselves. The story
ends with the death of Haman and his sons and the victory of the Jews.
The full text of megillat Esther is not vey long. I recommend you read
it to get all the details of the story. It would make a great movie or
Broadway play! You will find it in any Jewish Bible (JPS). It is a story
written for adults. The message is a warning to Jewish communities
who live as a minority in the Diaspora. Hatred of the foreigner and the
stranger is still prevalent throughout the world, and especially the rise
of anti-Semitism in the U.S. and anti-Israel resolutions at the U.N. still
exists. In spite of everything, the Jewish People has survived to tell
and retell this story.

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DEAR SISTERS,
February was an exciting month for Sisterhood. The nominating committee met and presented a
slate of officers and board members for the board’s approval. At the February 19th board meeting,
the board unanimously approved the nominating committee’s recommendations. The slate of
officers and board members will be printed in the April Commentator. It is so exciting to see the
quality of leadership that will continue to steer the course of Sisterhood’s programs. I especially
want to thank Adrian Dubow for her guidance during this process.
Sincerely,

Judy Cowan, Sisterhood President

We have much more to look forward to...

March
 4
COOKING FOR PASSOVER
Chaired by Amy Mittelberg, this program features Chef Sarah Davidoff. We will be making and
eating a Passover appetizer, kugel and dessert. There will be recipes and goodies to take home.
$20 Sisterhood members; $25 non-members.
You must register for this event www.tbam.org/passovercooking
7:00 pm
Catering Kitchen

 5                                                   12
SISTERHOOD BOOK CLUB                                 SISTERHOOD BOARD MEETING
The Library Book                                     Open to all Sisterhood Members!
by Susan Orlean                                      10:00 am – Noon
7:00 – 9:00 pm                                       Adult Reading Room
Adult Reading Room
RUBELL MUSEUM TOUR

                             — MARCH 31, 2020 —
  Join Sisterhood for an exceptional journey through contemporary art of the past 50 years as we tour the
Rubell Museum, which is housed in six former industrial buildings. Here we’ll find a museum-wide installation
of works that chronicle key artists, moments and movements in vital arts centers over the past five decades
     from all over the globe. The inaugural exhibition encompasses more than 300 works by 100 artists,
       providing one of the most far-ranging museum exhibitions of contemporary art ever presented.
  We will meet at 9:45 am under the canopy on the east side of JC Penny’s Dadeland. From there we will
 carpool to the Rubell Museum located at 1100 NW 23 Street (there is gated parking behind the museum).
 A docent will lead us through the museum. For those who would like to join us after the tour, we will have
   lunch (at your own expense) in their indoor/outdoor restaurant overlooking a lovely garden courtyard.
                              $40 Sisterhood Members | $50 Non-Members
                              Please RSVP at www.tbam.org/rubellmuseum

Save the                       April
Date...                         1   WOMEN’S TORAH STUDY, 7:00 pm

                                6   PEOPLE OF THE BOOK CLUB, 10:00 am
                                    Farewell to Salonica: City at the Crossroads by Leon Sciaky

                               14 SISTERHOOD BOARD MEETING, 10:00 am

                               23 SISTERHOOD GAME NIGHT, 7:00 pm
                                  Join your friends for an evening of fun and laughter playing some of your
                                  favorite classic games. Let us know if you want to play Mahjong, Canasta,
                                  Scattergories, Bananagrams, or Dominos. Or if you have no preference,
                                  you can just look forward to laughter, friendship, snacks and drinks!
                                    $10 Sisterhood members; $15 non members
                                    RSVP at www.tbam/sisterhoodgames

                        Check out our website at www.tbam.org/sisterhood
                        For more information on all programs, please e-mail us at sisterhood@tbam.org.
                        Please include your phone number so we can call you back.
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                                                                               TEMPLE BETH AM DAY SCHOOL
                                                     AUCTION + GALA HONORING DR. STARR
                                                THURSDAY, MARCH 12, 2020
                                                                 SOCIAL HALL, LEWIS FAMILY RELIGIOUS LIFE COMPLEX
                                 COCKTAILS, FOOD + FUN                                                          LIVE AND SILENT AUCTION
                                           ADVANCED ADMISSION: $50 PER PERSON | DOOR ADMISSION: $75 PER PERSON
                                                                        ADULT ONLY EVENT - CHILDCARE AVAILABLE BY REQUEST

                                                                                        FAMILY SPONSORSHIPS
ICON                                Jolie & Michael Berkowitz            LEAD SINGER                          RISING STAR                       Jennifer Ferriss-Hill & Robert Hill     Amy & Rickey Mittelberg
Sara & Alex Berkowitz               Barbara & Alex Havenick              Andrew & Felicia Berkowitz           Evan & Amy Abramowitz             Chad & Randi Friedman                   Kate Myers & Jonathan Etra
Natalie & Justin Firestone          Angelina & Joshua Kaye               Pamela & Brian Chartock              Fernando & Viviana Akerman        Penny Gaines                            The Olivella Family
The Clergy of Temple Beth Am        Lauren & Ilan Kempler                The Cruz Family                      The Avila Family                  Stacey & Adam Geiger                    The Panahpour Family
MULTI-PLATINUM                      Juliana & Alex Krys                  Ashley, Alexa & Bradley Firestone    The Baer Family                   Ilana & Yariv Gilat                     The Pickens Familly
Erika Berger & Mitch Vento          Kate Lampen-Sachar &                 Katie & David Goldberg               Wendy & Jonathan Baumgard         Phil & Loren Gold                       Bryan & Jenna Pinchuk
Susana & Michael Novak              Dan Sachar                           Evan & Stephie Goldman               Mara Berger                       Susie & Joe Goldberg                    Jessica Rivo
ENCORE                              The Messianu Family                  Kim & Greg Haller                    Tim & Jennifer Bielawski          Claudia & Todd Gomberg                  Lindsay & Josh Rubens
Alexandra & Gregory Frankel         The Mirabito Family                  Rebecca & Michael Havenick           Rosalie Binder                    Mallory & Jonathan Greenberg            Randi & Greg Sandler
The Gluck Family                    Lily & Alex Moskovitz                Melissa & Noah Kalman                Elizabeth & Clinton Biondo        Ava Habif                               Lauren & Brett Schneider
The Karsenti Family                 Jessica & Adam Moskowitz             The Proman Family                    Natalie Breslin                   The Hermann-Grose Family                Kim & Jonathan Schwartz
Michelle & Gary Kramer              Marc & Allison Pacin                 JP & Ashley Rosenbaum                Miselie Charite                   Michele & Paul Kaplan                   Sarah & Allan Serviansky
Stephen & Cayla Rutchik             Mycki & Stuart Ratzan                Rachel & Alexander Schapiro          Michelle & Manuel Chica           Nicole & Ryan Kaplan                    Amy & Ethan Shapiro
Elion & Rebecca Vinocur             Michele & Derek Sanders              Danielle & Scott Squires             Michelle & Steve Cohen            Jason & Susie Katz                      Rabbi Judith & Brian Siegal
The Yarckin Family                  Drew & Lizzie Schaul                 Jennifer & Brad Sturges              Adam & Jennie Cohn                Rabbi Judith & Daniel Kempler           Lori Smith
                                    Andrew & Jacqueline Schimel          Johanna & Tomer Tzur                 Deena & Andrew Cromer             Alexandra & Ross Kestin                 Kerri & Joshua Stone
STANDING OVATION
Fran Berrin & Family                Lauren & Adam Schwartz               The Zimbler Family                   The Dubovy Steinbaum Family       Dr. Lenore Kipper                       Dara Webman &
Bianca & Maurice Gabay              Jen & Tadd Schwartz                  Nicole & Warren Zinn                 Jennifer & Aubrey Duffy           Lindsey & Ryan Lamchick                 Jonathan Trestyn
                                    Ella Siegal & Dylan Shapiro                                               Hagit & Gregory Fefferman         The Larkin Family                       Ophelia & Robert Valls
HEADLINER
Rachel & Ryan Bailine & Family      Howard & Deborah R. Starr                                                 Lisa & Marc Feigelson             Michael & Starr Mautner                 Greg & Lauren Weintraub
The Beekman Family                  Solomon & Jacqueline Wechsler                                             The Feinman-Short Family          Annie & Josh Migdal                     Jaime & Marvin Williams
                                    The Winkleman Family                                                                                                                                Sonia Zeledon
                                                                                 GRANDPARENT SPONSORSHIPS
Arnaldo & Cathay Abreu in honor of Ashley, Alexa & Bradley Firestone     Harvey Goldman & Rivka Blattner in honor of Brooke & Joely             Marilyn & Peter Roth in honor of Hunter & Aria Berkowitz
Elsa & Jerry Askowitz in honor of Nicolas Pidre                          Elise & Allan Goldner in honor of Mallory Goldner                      Eliana Sachar in honor of Sophia & Isabelle Sachar
Michele & Scott Baena in honor of Ava & Olivia Gabay                     Susan & Alan Habacht in honor of Jack Habacht                          Steven Saposnik in honor of Ariel Gilat
Sandra Baer in honor of Daniela Baer                                     Barbara Havenick & Len Morrison in honor of Griffin, Ashton,           Claire & Richard Savitt in honor of Grace Savitt
Babbi & Brad Bangel in honor of Benji Bangel                             Jordan, Gavin Havenick & Jacob Bielawski                               Inez Schapiro in honor of Sloane & Tyler Schapiro
Shelley & David Barras in honor of Ethan Barras                          Ann Kathryn Kagan in honor of Annabelle Kagan                          David & Alison Schimel in honor of Cameron Schimel
Tracey & Bruce Berkowitz in honor of Hunter & Aria Berkowitz             Debra & Leonard Kalman in honor of Harlow, Sydney & Zoe Kalman         The Serviansky Family in honor of Jake Serviansky
Josefina Bonet in honor of Conrad Habif                                  Sherie Kanziger & Robert Mayer in honor of Riley Greenberg             Diane & Morton Setchen in honor of Brooke Porter Setchen
Susanne Brody in honor of Lillian & Cece Kramer                          Jack & Shirley Kaplan in honor of Alyson Kaplan                        Lois Marks Shapiro in honor of Dylan & Heather Shapiro
Ellen & Jon Channing in honor of Scarlett Spiegel                        Marlene & Joel Kaplan in honor of Ryder Kaplan                         Ruth & Bob Simeone in honor of Sydney & Zoey Schwartz
Roberta & Warren Cohen in honor of Ryan & Coby Mark                      Michael & Susan Klaiman in honor of Cameron Schimel                    Andrea & Michael Slobodkin in honor of Ashton & Griffin Havenick
Risa & Matthew Connolly in honor of Cameron Rasken                       Sam & Lucy Krislav in honor of Leo & Victor Krislav                    Jayne & Clarke Smith in honor of Ashley, Alexa & Bradley Firestone
Ralph & Doris Connor in honor of Louisa Fein                             Rabbi Norman & Shoshi Lipson in honor of Lyla & Samuel Finck           Linda & John Sokolowicz in honor of Gracie Savitt
Helene & Barry Debowsky in honor of Elizabeth & Benjamin Debowsky        Aida & Neil Littauer in honor of Dalia & Ari Schwartz                  Paula Solomon in honor of Jordana Branciforte
Rita Diaz in honor of Valentina Iglesias                                 Susan & Ray Malca in honor of Ari & Ezra Malca                         Meryl & Brian Spector in honor of Ellie & Carly Spector, Ava &
Yvette & Robert Doherty in honor of Deanna Zimmerman                     Frank & Kathy Mendelblatt in honor of Michael Mendelblatt              Harper Friedman
Thomas Elmore in honor of Theo Yagen Elmore                              Papa Chuck Mendlestein in honor of Jake & Ava Mendlestein              Kevin & Judith Spiegel in honor of Scarlett Lennon Spiegel
Paul Feinsilver in honor of Alex Feinsilver                              Sheila Mendlestein in honor of Jake & Ava Mendlestein                  Shelly & Cliff Stamler in honor of Blake Canida & Jacob Serviansky
Henry & Nadine Feldman in honor of Orly Feldman                          Lori Mishkin & Andrew Kern in honor of Sam Mishkin                     Pam & Richard Strassberg in honor of Ari & Sarah Karsenti
John & Ellen Feltman in honor of Demi Schneider                          Craig & Deirdre Nash in honor of Gus Savett                            Linda Timmons in honor of Gabriel & Haley Timmons
Sherry & Glen Firestone in honor of Ashley, Alexa & Bradley Firestone    Dr. Samuel & Alicia Oberstein in honor of Sophia & Abraham Oberstein   Thomas & Lynn Valerius in honor of Judson Valerius
Cheryl & James Fishman in honor of Mason Riley Geiger &                  Alice Palombo in honor of Benjamin & Elizabeth Debowsky                Elizabeth & Rene Valverde in honor of Nicholas Valverde
Skyler Hudson Geiger                                                     Annette & Tom Palombo in honor of Ben & Lizzie Debowsky                Jackie & Earl Wald in honor of Alicia Garrett & Dylan Lomnitzer
Linda & David Frankel in honor of Vince & Ryder Frankel                  Ida & Steven Plotkin in honor of Riley Sobie                           Bonnie Webman in honor of Jonah Trestyn & Bex Salzar
Susan Fuhrman in honor of Elle, Mia & Poppy Fuhrman                      Mark & Robin Proman in honor of Sophie & Sadie Proman                  Andee & Danny Weiner in honor of Morgan Parodi,
Linda & Joel Gluck in honor of Reese, Brooks & Dane Gluck                Dr. Trevor & Jennifer Resnick in honor of Shane & Jake Glasser         Madison Parodi & Madilyn Reyes
David & Bonnie Gold in honor of Simon, Colin, Maddox & Harlow Gold       Arlene & Steven Reznick in honor of Aiden Greenfield                   Mercedes Weitzman in honor of Alvaro & Jonathan Gorrin
Lester & Eleanor Goldberg in honor of Madeline Goldberg                  Roberta & Norman Rittner in honor of Lilli Greidinger                  Lynn & Howard Zusman in honor of Cooper & Sawyer Haller

                                                                                                                                                                                      ANNUAL AUCTION CO-CHAIRS
                                                                                                 as of February 10, 2020                                  SARA BERKOWITZ and NATALIE FIRESTONE
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