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Table of contents Women’s confidence is American confidence���������������24 relational and a collective Australian confidence��������������25 matter����������������������������������������������� 6 British confidence���������������������26 Methodology������������������������������� 10 Chinese confidence������������������27 Confidence is the awareness that exists between the self French confidence��������������������28 and your actions������������������������ 14 German confidence������������������29 Linking numbers to feelings�22 Hong Kong confidence���������� 30 Japanese confidence����������������31 Korean confidence��������������������32 Mexican confidence������������������33 Russian confidence������������������ 34 What drives and compromises confidence globally������������������36 IT Cosmetics commissioned Eranos led this survey. Since To all the people who have this survey. Since launch 2005, our strategic consulting contributed to this mission in 2008, IT Cosmetics has firm has been committed in one way or another, to been committed to helping to reconciling companies all the women who have women around the world and societies. We bridge opened their homes to us look beautiful and feel self- humanities and businesses and shared their stories, to confident. Through this study to help global corporations all the academic experts and a corresponding brand fulfill their mission of who shared their work and campaign, IT Cosmetics actors of civilization. research with us, to all the is asserting itself as a great witnesses who shared cultural actor and agent of their experiences with us, we positive societal change. would like to say: thank you. Authors: Morgane Beyrend, Julia Colussi-Corte, Camille Jacquey, Salomé Kennedy. Mission Manager: Emma Monsaingeon. Under the direction of: Michaël V. Dandrieux, Ph.D. & Anthony Mahé, Ph.D. Illustrations: Florence Bieth, Marion Thomas-Mauro. Photos: Eranos. See the full-length White Paper for full credits.
Why does women’s confidence matter? Because the more confident a woman is, the easier it is for her to act. Confidence empowers women to talk, write, raise their hands, raise their fists, get into politics or start a business. A lack of confidence can just as easily prevent women from thriving on a personal level as it can inhibit them from contributing to their communities in a meaningful way. And that’s a problem for everyone, because when women thrive, societies prosper. This briefing paper is the short version of a much richer White Paper. We would like to provide extensive data to world actors of civil society, as well as public and private sectors in order to reach businesses, organizations, academics, committed feminists and all curious readers who want to increase women’s confidence. We wish to help them skip the trial and error process, and immediately address what drives confidence, what compromises it and where it’s most needed.
“It’s only when people are self confident of their own identity that they can be accepting of others. But people have become so entrenched in their tribal thinking. In America, it’s America first. How do we break away from this tribalism? How do we change people’s mindset from tribalism to universalism? Because only then we will have a peaceful world.” Ani Zonneveld, Los Angeles, USA
Global insights Confidence is Your confidence relational, you comes from 14 can’t increase it different sources on your own Confidence is not binary, the world is not made of people who are confident Contrary to popular belief, confidence and people who aren’t. Confidence is not a personal matter or an individual stems from 14 different sources, with possession. It’s something that you each a different role to play in helping receive, give and grow with others. There you navigate the everyday world. is strength in joining forces: increasing confidence is something collective. Ì "14 sources of confidence!" p.16 Ì "Women’s confidence is relational and a collective matter" p.6 Global women’s The roads to confidence is confidence are rather low pretty much the Few women around the world actually same everywhere feel extremely confident. The confidence Women around the world build their that we often wish for, is really nothing confidence in very similar ways. In spite more than an ideal. There is rarely of culture, life experience and personality any truth to the fact that others are some confidence sources are more exceedingly more confident than we are. sought out than others. This is because Ì "Linking numbers to feelings" p.22 confidence always serves the same purpose: facilitating social-assimilation. Ì "What drives and compromises confidence globally" p.36
Women’s confidence is relational and a collective matter If this 3year long study teaches us one thing, it’s that contrary to popular belief, women’s confidence is not a personal matter. The study’s results led us to formulate a sociological position: confidence is relational and a collective issue. This is why we decided that the study’s goal was to better understand confidence in order to act on it. T here is an undeniable difference between female and male experiences with confidence1. Since 2010, International Women’s rights Day is celebrated annually throughout the world. What do Ongoing political, economic, these social phenomena tell us social and technological changes about women’s confidence? in our contemporary societies have reshaped the roles played Women often face obstacles when by women, as well as the trying to achieve their personal and Why confidence? conditions of their existences. professional goals. While society is more inclined to let women Women often face Many events in the last decade rise to higher ranks in theory, have shed light on women’s many conscious and unconscious obstacles when trying to experiences confidence. In 2019, practices in the workplace and achieve their goals, Germany declared Women’s in daily life continue to favor Day a national holiday in order their discrimination. Wage gaps, which invite them to to let women protest violence maternity leave, access to education, question the validity and champion equality. In 2018, infantilization, unequal chore the French movement “Nous distribution and sexual objectification of their requests and toutes” organized a protest are only some of the obstacles that feasibility of their against conjugal violence and prohibit women from breaking the murders of women. In 2018, the glass ceiling. The common barriers dreams. Women’s March celebrated its that women face often invite them first anniversary in more than to question the validity of their 30 countries (including Australia, requests and feasibility of their France, Great Britain, Mexico, United dreams. These self-assessments States of America). Since launching are not without consequence on in 2016, The Wing (a female-focused women’s sense of confidence, as and co-working space collective) their everyday experiences influence has continued to grow dramatically. their perception of themselves. 1Please note that our subject is self-confidence, even when we use women’s confidence, we talk about self-confidence, and never about confidence in other persons, things, neither trust. 6 • WOCO
“Others’ opinions are very important to Korean people. How others think about them, how others look at them. But these days one’s own value, one’s own personality are being considered as important too. I think society has been changing.” 김현 (Kim Hyun), Seoul, Korea A relational and collective matter • 7
“When I started having short hair, someone said, ‘You should have long hair’, then I asked myself, ‘Should I have longer hair? For what? I should be myself. I trust myself.’ I am confident enough to say ‘No, I love my hair.’” Maiko, Tokyo, Japan
Our position: life, the laws and rules of the the variety of confidence- society we live in, its collective contributing-experiences confidence narratives and myths. available to women. is an issue to Understanding confidence We were able to illustrate these be improved as a collective phenomenon impacts through the confidence collectively also implies the way we act in index we developed, as well order to increase confidence. as through the testimony Confidence is not only Empowerment grows of the 11,176 women we individual, it is a collective through collective actions. solicited. The WOCO scores phenomenon and it is helped us understand the built collectively. workings of their personal In a time when we are mostly Our goal is to confidence, as well as that and primarily defined by our understand, of their gender, within their individuality, confidence country of residence. measure, and appears, in the first place, as As a consequence, confidence an individual quality. It is a increase women’s will vary depending on personality trait, experienced confidence on a women’s ability to balance differently by each and every global scale. collective standards, personal one of us. We thought we values and aspirations. could “have” it, “own” it, The Women’s Confidence “grow” it by ourselves. index (WOCO) measures what ...In order to act matters: it tells us not only on confidence. On the contrary, the Women’s how confident women are, Confidence study makes it but also what compromises Through our index, we wanted clear that confidence is mostly their confidence and what to shed light on levers of a collective phenomenon. drives it. Its goal is to identify action to increase women’s Confidence is entangled levers of action to increase confidence on both a macro in our interactions with women’s confidence. and micro level. Indeed, we others. The way we speak, are able to identify entry act, interact and build our Understanding & points to act on women’s living relationships all ultimately Measuring confidence… environments by concentrating shape our confidence. It on the experiences that inhibits must be shared, inspired Because confidence is a their confidence. We hope to and cultivated with others. multifaceted phenomenon, inspire a network of actions we felt the need to break down that support the development Confidence-building the complexity of women’s of women’s confidence. is a process linked to confidence into different socialization, as well as the sources of confidence. influence of an environment Each source is like a bit of (relationships, material experience, a feeling you’d Understanding confidence environment, culture, lifestyle) have in everyday life. Mostly, on a person’s existence. sources of confidence would We thought we could Consequently, confidence come combined; you’d draw should be understood as a from two or three at the same have confidence, own it, phenomenon that is both time. The different sources grow it by ourselves, social and individual. of experiences don’t have the same impact on every woman’s when in fact it must be We draw our confidence from confidence. Some of them shared, inspired and many different sources: our drive women’s confidence, personal history, our daily some of them compromise grown with others. it. By identifying those sources, we intend to render A relational and collective matter • 9
Methodology We have attempted to grasp the multifaceted phenomenon of confidence by examining the fields of philosophy, sociology, psychology, psychoanalysis and practical psychology. We identified 14 different sources of confidence, led qualitative interviews, and launched a quantitative survey in 11 countries. B ased on a preliminary study, we identified not one but 14 sources at play in the building of The WOCO index makes it possible to circumscribe women’s confidence to sources, places and confidence. After testing these age groups on a global scale. While sources, we needed to adapt them for some components of confidence local variations, and measure how are international, others may be each one would drive or compromise dependent on their country of origin, the building of confidence. culture and individual experiences. A confidence Cultural differences: Index: drivers and incorporating compromisers women’s realities around the world Our database consists of qualitative To measure the role of each source of and quantitative data. We conducted confidence, Eranos decided to live interviews with 176 women and build a confidence index. This gathered the results of 11,000 online Classifying confidence confidence index is designed surveys completed by American, to inform three variables: French, German, Mexican, British, If some components Chinese, Hong Kong regional1, the source of confidence, the of self-confidence are intensity level of confidence Japanese, Korean, Russian and experience, and the region Australian women. We defined international, others one score per country, to draw a where those experiences can depend on their occurred. At the end of the comparison between women’s day, this index enables us to confidence experiences in countries country of origin, with vastly different cultures. answer 3 key questions: how their culture and their self-confident are the women With no less than 11,176 data living in the same country? points around the globe, this is the individual experiences. What drives and compromises widest-ranging report of its kind. their confidence? Where would an action be most impactful? With these inquiries, our mission is to better identify and understand the drivers of confidence everywhere. 1Our study’s specific approach to confidence led us to differentiate the Hong Kong special administrative region from China in the analysis of both our field investigations and our quantitative surveys. 10 • WOCO
We investigated confidence Debiasing confidence in 11 countries and retrieved In order to get the sentiments from… fullest picture of a complex cultural 55-69 years old 24% phenomena, we 45-54 years old 21% mixed qualitative and 35-44 years old 20% quantitative data, and 25-34 years old 22% asked local experts 18-24 years old 13% 11,176 to help us navigate that complexity. WOMEN TOTAL 11,000 ONLINE-SURVEY 176 IN-PERSON RESPONDENTS RESPONDENTS We mobilized teams in 11 Our team sent out an online survey countries and interviewed 176 to 1000 women in each country to women on the meaning of self- measure individual and national confidence. To assure viewpoint levels of self-confidence. The diversity we chose to interview respondents were of various cities, women from both larger and ages (18-69) and social-economic smaller cities in each country. backgrounds. 152 24 EXPERTS INTERVIEWEES In addition to our female panel we Panelists (of various age, retrieved expert testimony from origins, backgrounds, and women we considered to be wellversed professions) shared their on the subject of self-confidence. understanding of their own Within our expert group we made a 4 sense of self-confidence. These distinction between Academic experts women helped us calibrate our and great witnesses. TYPES surveys to regional specifics and decipher our quantitative data Ì "Expert Sources" p.122 in the White Paper OF DATA accordingly. POINTS Ì "Methods paper" p.158 in the White Paper 12 ACADEMIC 12 GREAT EXPERTS WITNESSES Academic experts are women Great witnesses are women who directly or indirectly whose professional or personal study/publish women’s self- achievements can be attributed to confidence. They were able the expression of a great deal of to provide us with reference confidence in the face of adversity material and scientific and institutionalized misogyny. perspective. These women provided us with data on the mechanics of confidence in high stress/intense situations. Methodology • 11
Women’s confidence in a few © Vemaps.com numbers Overviewing confidence An overview of experiences 67% of British women think that they would not find a better 64% of German women, or more than 2 out of 3 German women, job if they were to lose the one believe that the people they that influence they already have. Contrary meet are not kind to them to common belief that finding and will not tell them the women’s confidence a job is easier in a liberal truth. Meanwhile, 43% of them around the world. culture, it reflects the fact say that they cannot count that 1 out of 5 British women on their intuition to figure live below the poverty line. out people’s intentions. Ì "British confidence" p.26 Ì "German confidence" p.29 © Vemaps.com © Vemaps.com © Vemaps.com 62% of Mexican women consider themselves to be resilient, as 56% of French women still do not believe that their actual job 66% of American women, or 2 out of 3 American women, do not they don’t get discouraged even is their vocation. In a society feel like they have a lucky star when they experience injustice. where intellectual abilities and watching over them when they As many Mexican women diplomas are highly valued, have an important decision take part in female networks finding the right job is so to make. This number is very and support groups, they important that it can create high considering that 56% may find the strength to fight a deceptive counter-effect. of American women consider back by gathering together. When they find an actual job, religious practice to be women do not feel like it is important in their daily lives. Ì "Mexican confidence" p.33 the right one either because Ì "American confidence" p.24 it is not as fulfilling as it could be or because it doesn’t reflect their hard work. Ì "French confidence" p.28 12 • WOCO
© Vemaps.com © Vemaps.com © Vemaps.com 28% of Australian women, or almost 1 out of 3 Australian women, 62% of Hong Kong women, or nearly 2 out of 3 women, say that they 35% of Chinese women, or more than 1 out of 3 Chinese women, affirm that in a professional would hesitate to break the believe they are viewed as context they have special rules even if they deemed them strange in their everyday lives. skills as women, which give unwarranted. Respecting the This underlines how the cultural them an advantage over men. rules is still a strong cultural and community standards are This echoes the idea that standard and contesting them so strong that they make it hard womanhood gives them an edge openly is not welcomed. for you to be yourself, even over their male counterparts. when you conform to them. Ì "Hong Kong confidence" p.30 Ì "Australian confidence" p.25 Ì "Chinese confidence" p.27 © Vemaps.com © Vemaps.com 40% 71% 34% © Vemaps.com of Korean women tend to of Russian women, or almost of Japanese women, or more think that when people try to 3 out of 4 Russian women, than 1 out of 3 Japanese discourage them, it makes them believe that in a professional women, think that all bad want to succeed even more. This context they know how to things happen for a reason, number is very high compared behave suitably in order to and we have to accept that, to other countries because be well perceived by their even if it is hard. Indeed, validation and support is often colleagues and superiors. contrary to Europe, Australia highly valued in Korean cultures. In Russia, knowing the rules and the USA, the ability to is a way to master them accept fate is valued in Japan. Ì "Korean confidence" p.32 and give you confidence. Ì "Japanese confidence" p.31 Ì "Russian confidence" p.34 Methodology • 13
Confidence is the awareness that exists between the self and your actions What does self-confidence mean? It’s the merger of two components: that of the self and that of confidence. Self-confidence = confidence + self. W e questioned these notions using four main sources: philosophy, Self “Self ” is a blurry concept Self-confidence is an “expectation of expectations”: when you have it, it feels like sociology, anthropology, and behind which we can find many you know what the world psychology. Through the different ways to qualify our expects from you—and synthesis of these disciplines, personal experiences. The self your next move becomes we isolated the theoretical is at the same time personal and obvious! This entails that frameworks of self-confidence. social. The self is inconceivable one’s conception of self is without society, and society not endangered by one’s is inconceivable without the social experiences. Confidence self. This means two things: first, that the self cannot be Self-confident people have the The term “confidence” defined without others (we ability to take a step back, as is derived from the latin see ourselves through others’ there lies a relative continuity “confidere” (con- “with” + eyes); second, that our self is between what society requires fīdō “trust”), which literally shaped by our environment of them and their ability to meet means “with faith’, “to trust” (symbols, language, political those demands. Through their or “to confide”. At the heart of and social norms etc.). What way of being, they can reduce confidence, there is a strong does it mean to be me? If we the uncertainty of the world dynamic, a relationship or display a series of masks to they live in allowing themselves exchange symbolized by others, there is no “true self ” to act rather than react3. the act of trusting another behind the roles we perform2. person or a thing. In a nutshell, Self-confidence is the awareness that exists Thus, confidence designates, between the self and your first and foremost, a form Self-confidence actions. The more confident of social interaction or an Self-confidence is confidence you are, the easier it is to act. exchange rite. The immaterial applied to self, meaning that it object that is “trust” can be expresses one’s ability to trust placed in a group of individuals, in oneself and act accordingly Ì "Self-Confidence" p.29 in a company or an institution within the bounds of society. the White Paper (“i trust them”), but it can also be given to oneself, a god, a person, a product or a technical device1. Simmel, Olivetti Dictionary 2 Sources: G. Simmel, J.L. Borges, D. Hume, P. Ricoeur, J-P. Sartre, C. Leguil, J. 3 Sources: F. Fanget, E. Erikson, G. 1 Sources: A. Giddens, N. Luhman, G. Lacan, E. Goffman Durand, S. de Beauvoir, J. Butler 14 • WOCO
“Every single time I initiated something new, that made me feel stronger and it made me know more who I am. So like in a way building, a mix out of building and finding out who I am.” Debbie, Munich, Germany
14 sources of confidence! Confidence can not be defined by one thing, it stems from 14 different sources. The way we draw on them depends on our personalities, the hour of the day, the stage our lives are in... These 14 sources of confidence range in kind, from the most exterior to the most interior.
Sources of Mythical confidence are the most exterior kind. Greater and remote ideas inspire us. womanhood Spirituality Sources of Normative Utopias Transgression confidence come from society. Understanding our cultural environment Support-system makes it easier to act in it. Resemblance appearance resilience Sources of Interior intuition intellect confidence are embeded within us. They are familiar and make us feel comfortable. improving vocation routine certainties Sources of Established confidence are at the core of what we do. They allow us to trust that there's a floor under our feet. There is a space between our will to act and the actual action. We navigate this space everyday, even in small things like riding a bike or jumping a step. So we draw from 14 different sources of confidence to shorten that space, and make it easier to act.
The 4 sources of Mythical confidence The mythical register of confidence refers to all the myths, representations and collective narratives that people use to guide their actions. A person draws self confidence from mythical sources when they are inspired or when they find legitimacy in heroes (fictional or real), ideals and/or faith. Utopias Transgression Form of confidence drawn Form of confidence from a capacity to have a drawn from a form of positive outlook on life or transgression, a hijacking idealize it, even in dire straits of established standards “I draw confidence “I draw confidence from the fact that if Womanhood from the fact that I lost my job, I am Form of confidence drawn I do what I want from a subconscious convinced that I will reference to an archetype even if it contradicts Spirituality find a better one.” or a collective image standards and Form of confidence drawn creates chaos.” “I draw confidence from the certainty of being protected or guided by a from my ability metaphysical presence (God, to challenge destiny, a lucky star…) expectations others “I draw confidence can impose on my from my natal chart femininity .” when I pass exams.” 18 • WOCO
The 3 sources of Normative Resemblance confidence Form of confidence drawn from subconscious integration of standards, values and society’s coercitive power over individual actions The normative register refers to all norms or rules (whether implicit or explicit) that an “I draw confidence individual acknowledges and feels protected by. from the knowledge that my behavior A person draws confidence from normative will not be seen sources when they find comfort in the as crazy when I walk fact that they are doing things the “right” Support-system around town.” way (respecting the status quo). Form of confidence drawn from others’ validation, approval and encouragement “I draw confidence from the fact that my manager values and endorses my actions when I take initiative at work.” Appearance Form of confidence drawn from embracing standardized tangible signs of differentiation, such as clothing or makeup choices. “I draw confidence from my knowledge of the proper dress- codes for each situation, it helps me to feel and appear like I belong.” 14 sources of confidence • 19
The 5 sources of Interior confidence The interior register refers to all the aspects of one's past, baggage, beliefs, and convictions that legitimize their identity and give them purpose in a social environment. A person draws confidence from the interior register when their actions or aspirations find meaning within their personal journeys. Vocation Form of confidence drawn from feeling certainty in one’s path or ability. Being where one needs to be “I draw confidence from my ability to rise to the occasion when I’m told to reconsider or rewrite an idea at my job.” Resilience Intellect Form of confidence drawn Form of confidence from certainty in one’s drawn from a capacity of intellectual background: Improving resilience, and acceptance of one’s destiny culture, knowledge, expertise, diplomas Form of confidence drawn from the tension between “I draw confidence “I draw confidence guilt or shame, and a from my belief from the fact that necessity to take action in destiny, even I know my subject “I draw confidence when something material. This from the permanent bad happens to makes me feel fight between my me, because I legitimate when I desire to get on stage, know it doesn’t Intuition speak in public.” and my fear of being depend on me.” Form of confidence drawn from a experiential certainty paralyzed by stress.” and one’s intuitive ability “I draw confidence from my instinct to be able to make important decisions.” 20 • WOCO
The 2 sources of Established confidence The established register refers to all stable elements of one’s life, those they Certainties believe will not and cannot change. Form of confidence drawn from a subconscious A person draws confidence from the integration of the existence of my material established register when they’re reassured environment and operational by the routine they are following. motor functions Routine “I draw confidence from my ability to Form of confidence drawn from habits, adapt my route when integrated common there’s a table in the sense and everyday life middle of the room.” “I draw confidence from the fact that nothing has ever happened to me, because that makes me feel secure.” 14 sources of confidence • 21
Linking numbers to feelings T he scores showcased on the map represent the average confidence scores of the 11,000 women (1,000/ country) who answered our online survey in each region. Based on the distribution of global averages, we can say that a confidence score between 0 and 3.9 is considered extremely low, a confidence score between 4 and 5.9 is considered low, a confidence score between 6 and 7.9 is considered moderate and a confidence score between 8 and 10 is considered high. The average scores attributed to Korean, Hongkongese, 6.7 Chinese, Russian, Japanese, American, Mexican, French, British, German and Australian women on the map indicate USA that globally, women’s sense of confidence is rather moderate. Extremely low and low Moderate confidence level 7.7 MX confidence level global global average: average: 66,14% 31,44% 24.4% 22.0% 7.7 20.1% 6.7 6.8 6.6 6.8 6.7 13.1% 11.3% High confidence level global average: 3,43% 4.7% 3.4% 1.2% 0.3% 0.4% [0-1] [1-2] [2-3] [3-4] [4-5] [5-6] [6-6,9] [7-8] [8-8,9] [9-10] West East North South USA MX 22 • WOCO
Measuring confidence Since 6/10 is considered a low score, globally, women's sense of confidence is rather moderate. 6.6 6.1 GB 6.5 RU DE 4.9JP 6.1 7.1 FR CN 5.7KR 5.9 HK 7.1 6.5 6.6 6.1 6.1 6.2 6.3 5.7 5.9 5.9 4.9 6.3 AU FR GB DE EU JP KR HK CN ASIA AU RU Local Results • 23
© Vemaps.com American confidence While confidence in the USA is often considered to be a personal and individual matter, women find that receiving support and recognition from others helps to make them feel more confident. 7.4 ROUTINE UTOPIAS RESILIENCE 6.1 5.9 6.7 US 7.3 SUPPORT-SYSTEM 7.1 INTUITION What compromises What drives American American confidence confidence UTOPIAS • Dealing with dystopian ROUTINE • Believing in the power beliefs. The majority of American of local regency. Because they women find themselves disengaged focus on their own separate realities, and afflicted by a fear of “acts of individuals struggle to find common God” that make them doubtful about what ground in a greater good. Indeed, legitimacy lies ahead. Nonetheless, the security that given to the independence of the different states stems from a sense of community encourages mirrors individuals’ belief in the validity of projection and optimism in women. Latinas their local community’s experience. Moreover, and African Americans perhaps best attachment to surroundings and habits conveys a exemplify this statistic, as they achieve top profoundly American confidence in ranking scores in utopian confidence. known situations and experiences. RESILIENCE • Experiencing SUPPORT-SYSTEM • Seeking discouragement & failure validation from others. refusal. In a society where victory Seeking external validation, even is worshiped, and exceeding though it may be contrary to one’s own limitations is viewed individualistic values, leads some American as equally important, all forms of regret or women to voluntarily modify their social discouragement become irrelevant. Everyone circle to obtain the approval they seek. is responsible for their own failures and must find ways to avoid them at any cost. The INTUITION • Thriving from an cult of meritocracy and equal opportunity instinct-survivalist culture. that has nourished the “American Dream” Across the USA, an imbalance of isn’t compatible with the idea of destiny. access to information and technology has raised a society that has survived by relying primarily on their instinct. Those privileged enough to exist within safer environments have developed more trusting behaviours. Today, the heirs of this intuitive mindset have formed their own distinctive opinions, ultimately making for a more divided society. 24 • WOCO
© Vemaps.com Australian confidence Australian women believe that whatever issue you’re dealing with, you can benefit from the help of others. The mateship ideal, a legacy inherited from the first settlers, is a major value of Australian women’s confidence. 7.2 ROUTINE RESILIENCE UTOPIAS 5.5 5.6 6.3 AU 6.7 INTUITION 6.7 SUPPORT-SYSTEM What compromises What drives Australian confidence Australian confidence RESILIENCE • Never sit back. ROUTINE • Life experiences as a Australian women’s ability to accept strength. Routine is a strong source their fate is hindered by their strong of confidence for Australian women, sense of unfairness, coupled with mostly because they feel that they the inability to accept failure. They prefer to are able to demonstrate good judgement in their react to bad things, rather than accept fate. everyday life. This ability can be based on life experiences; the older you become, the more UTOPIAS • Being an unfailing self- self-confident in your judgement you are. made woman. In a society where everyone is responsible for their own INTUITION • Cautiousness inherited achievements, Australian women from pioneer spirit. Australian feel that they must avoid failure at any cost, even intuition can be interpreted if it means not trying. The myth of the self-made as “cautious”; if they feel that man leaves little compassion for those who fail. something is going to turn wrong, it will often deter them from going on. It can also be interpreted as a “pioneer intuition”, or a reaction to the hostility of their country and its isolation. SUPPORT-SYSTEM • The mateship ideal. The ideal value of “mateship” - a notion coming from the first settlers - is based on the belief that any situation should be able to be sorted out thanks to the help of others. In a society where individualistic values are prevalent, mateship strengthens confidence. Local Results • 25
© Vemaps.com British confidence Influenced by a liberal and cosmopolitan culture, British women believe that diversity is a source of strength; however, their economic instability makes it difficult to envision the future. 7.0 ROUTINE RESILIENCE UTOPIAS 5.4 5.3 6.1 GB 6.7 SUPPORT-SYSTEM 6.5 INTUITION What compromises British What drives confidence British confidence UTOPIAS • When tomorrow ROUTINE • Finding strength in rhymes with uncertainty. everyday life. When you grow up in When one British woman out cosmopolitan societies, intercultural of five lives under the poverty relations are part of your day-to-day line, envisioning a bright future might prove life. Common sense, practical intelligence and difficult. Indeed, the possibility of poverty respect are needed to forge social bonds between in post-industrial economies contributes people of other backgrounds, to women’s uncertainties and makes them cultures, ideas and life choices. doubtful about their ability to face challenges. SUPPORT-SYSTEM • Getting support RESILIENCE • Keep control over from micro-communities. In your future. Resilient confidence a liberal country where working relies on the ability to accept future communities are characterized uncertainties. This is precisely what by changes and instability, getting support Great Britain decided not to do. By being the first or validation from your closest relatives and country to exit the EU, Great Britain is playing its being part of a micro-community is a strong last hand to take back control over its destiny. way to enhance your confidence. Family is an important structure that may help to provide validation for your choices and paths. British women have high expectations tied to receiving support from their relatives. INTUITION • Improving your self- made mind. In traditional protestant cultures, salvation mostly depends on the individual, which favours the myth of the self-made, self-examined mind. For the responsive and proactive woman, intuition may be a good ally. This chain of consequences and its pragmatic orientations brings to light why British women count on their intuition to build confidence. 26 • WOCO
© Vemaps.com Chinese confidence Chinese women feel torn between traditional cultural values and their desire to thrive independently and be themselves. RESILIENCE RESEMBLANCE 6.2 6.1 7.1 CN 7.3 IMPROVING What compromises What drives Chinese confidence Chinese confidence RESEMBLANCE • Existing in IMPROVING • Best by comparison. a community. Although From childhood to adulthood, individualism has grown stronger comparisons are highly valued and over generations, social relations play a crucial part in confidence continue to be ruled by communal standards. building. Women struggle to be themselves, Parents' influence over their children’s choices when they have to be better than others and in life is criticized, but remains very powerful. can’t be too different from others. When To accept oneself means to accept one’s family. they succeed, they feel self-confident, but Women are torn between two roles to play: the it also makes them feel highly pressured. good wife-mother, discreet, beautiful and strong, and the successful, independent working woman. RESILIENCE • Facing destiny in the biggest country in the world. The will to choose one’s path often faces social barriers and creates a feeling of inescapable destiny. At the same time, the Chinese society is undergoing so many changes that it creates feelings of unpredictability. Both feelings shape women’s confidence. In the biggest country in the world, resilience can be a question of survival. Local Results • 27
© Vemaps.com French confidence Influenced by strong feminist figures, French women are perceived as free-minded, self-assured and at ease when speaking publicly. But it turns out that they feel doubtful about their life path. 6.8 SUPPORT-SYSTEM VOCATION 5.3 UTOPIAS 3.3 6.1 FR 6.6 CERTAINTIES 6.6 INTUITION What compromises What drives French confidence French confidence UTOPIAS • Today is better than SUPPORT-SYSTEM • Demanding tomorrow. Utopias rely on grand recognition. Family, friends and myths, such as progress: tomorrow will peers can play an immense part always be better than today. This myth in confidence building. In France, is balanced by an urge to live in the moment, the need for approval and recognition from as it is becoming more and more difficult to be others is particularly high in work situations. able to look to the future in a country where the However, it is a need for gratitude rather economic situation is not bright and a world than a need for validation. Nonetheless, where natural resources are not limitless. the more qualified you are, the less you will feel the need for others’ approval. VOCATION • Get lost to find yourself. Feeling that you have a vocation CERTAINTIES • Finding stability in implies that your intimate voice bodily experiences. As France is stronger than the surrounding was the pioneer country in child noises. But for French women, who are exposed psychology studies in the 60’s, to daily contradictory injunctions and role motor and intellectual skills became a crucial models, all coming from multiple sources, part of children’s education and development. finding your own path can be difficult. Consciousness is both psychological and linked to bodily experiences. It is the core of individual identity. This is why it is an important source of French women’s confidence. INTUITION • Experiencing spontaneity. Intuition doesn’t need to be proven right. It is proof by itself. But this ability to understand oneself is grounded in past experiences. The French women who value their experiences, are quick to follow their spontaneous instincts before making a decision. 28 • WOCO
German confidence In Germany, women oscillate between strong-willed behaviour and doubt of both the short and long-term future. 7.2 SUPPORT-SYSTEM RESILIENCE UTOPIAS 5.7 5.5 6.5 DE 7.0 ROUTINE 6.8 INTUITION What compromises What drives German confidence German confidence UTOPIAS • What about tomorrow. SUPPORT-SYSTEM • Becoming the German women are characterized One. German women seek by their social agility, i.e. their validation for their efforts at ability to change easily, which irreproachability - though they may may be seen as a strength. But adaptability seek more internal validation than external. can make it more difficult to envision the This would explain their desire to depend less future clearly and give you peace of mind. on people in order to feel self-confident. RESILIENCE • Feeling in control ROUTINE • Being strong every to escape destiny. The lack of day. German women often resilient confidence is a consequence demonstrate a mindset of of the will to control their lives, strong confidence, especially at and a capacity to deal with failure. Rationality work. Their disciplined actions give them a and desire to be in control are still important, disciplined mindset. This protestant way of even though German women tend to lose thinking allows German women to trust in their confidence in grand myths driven by rationality. common sense and practical intelligence. INTUITION • Intuition as a philosophical inheritance. German women’s intuition is tempered by their intellect, where they find arguments to justify their life choices. We need to remember that “Intuitionism”, a way of thinking based on subjectivity, is a theory developed by German philosophers. Local Results • 29
© Vemaps.com Hong Kong confidence Women in Hong Kong experience confidence building as an internal fight. This fight represents the difficult path between respecting the rules of society and forging one’s destiny. 6.5 SUPPORT-SYSTEM CERTAINTIES 5.4 TRANSGRESSION 5.0 5.9 HK 6.2 ROUTINE 6.1 IMPROVING What compromises Hong What drives Hong Kong confidence Kong confidence TRANSGRESSION • Passive- SUPPORT-SYSTEM • Seeking Expertise. aggressiveness. Hong Kong Still concerned with others’ approval, citizens have no problem voicing Hong Kong women minimize their their political views and ideals, scrutiny by leaving only parts of though this transgressive trait does not extend to their lives up for debate. It is not uncommon for every aspect of their lives. In fact, while women them to seek professional advice or tutoring tips. of Hong Kong sometimes go against the grain, It is much less likely that they will discuss their it’s only rarely voiced out loud. personal friendships, marriages or finances. CERTAINTIES • Burns Out. In Hong IMPROVING • Aiming higher and Kong, physical self-awareness is never settling. In Hong Kong, highly impaired by fatigue and competition is an important stress. While this isn’t uncommon in large cities, component of success, whether the commonly prescribed remedies are ignored this means getting into the right school, because of a strong female avoidance of doctors the right college, finding the right job, or due to consultation waits and high medical rates. overcoming financial trouble. The relentless competition between citizens pushes women to constantly strive for loftier goals in order to maintain their place in society. ROUTINE • Being over-prepared. As a major part of housework weighs on women’s shoulders, handling demanding jobs, housework and raising children can prove difficult. Many women hire maids to manage their domestic responsibilities which allows them to focus guilt-free on their other work. 30 • WOCO
Japanese confidence © Vemaps.com Japanese women’s ability to keep face can make them appear cold or distant. However, this is done in an effort to establish homogeneity, as showing confidence is not valued in Japan. 5.4 IMPROVING UTOPIAS 4.4 4.9 JP 5.2 RESILIENCE 5.3 ROUTINE What compromises What drives Japanese Japanese confidence confidence UTOPIAS • Traditions vs Personal IMPROVING • Keeping face. ambition. Japanese women tend Although they are significantly to abide by traditions and social more independent today than in standards and disapprove of previous years, keeping face is still complaining. While this does enable them to an integral part of womanhood. These seemingly find acceptance in dire situations, it can also constraining standards are more protective prevent them from imagining and striving for and empowering than one would think. While greater possibilities. This ultimately inhibits others perceive you to be complacent, you the confidence and creativity they would obtain are free to be and think whatever you want. by dreaming or imagining a different world. RESILIENCE • Seeking advice from Shintoite and Buddhist culture. As Japanese culture encompasses many teachings of both Shintoite and Buddhist beliefs, many women have strong attachment to the idea of destiny as something you accept. Instead of having regrets, they often prefer to seek advice from a “spiritual” type guide or fortune teller—helping them understand where life might lead them. ROUTINE • Finding balance in organization. As many Japanese women hold part-time jobs in order to support their families, they lead very organized lives. Every little detail needs to be planned down to the minute, so that women can be consistent and present for their husband, children, bosses, friends and families. This system allows them to be sufficient, but also provides them with a sense of security. Local Results • 31
© Vemaps.com Korean confidence Amidst an ever-changing and competitive society, Korean women feel the need to be supported and surrounded by their loved ones who give them a sense of stability. 6.2 SUPPORT-SYSTEM CERTAINTIES RESILIENCE 5.0 5.2 5.7 KR 6.1 IMPROVING 6.0 ROUTINE What compromises What drives Korean confidence Korean confidence RESILIENCE • Being responsible SUPPORT-SYSTEM • Being backed today and tomorrow. In a up. Validation, approbation success-oriented society, failure is and encouragement from particularly difficult to admit. As an others is apparent in daily individual, you feel responsible for not achieving interactions, as Korean language is your goals in both your professional and personal extremely hierarchic. Appearances matter life. This difficulty is further compounded a lot. Women frequently emphasize how it as the current future feels more uncertain matters to them that their parents—mothers than during the years of economic growth. especially—be supportive of their choices. CERTAINTIES • Dealing with an IMPROVING • Losing face and adverse reality together. finding it again. The ability The “we” is more common in to fight back is highly valued in Korea than the “I”. “I” will be a society where losing face is employed only to differentiate oneself from the probably the biggest confidence compromiser. group. Because ever-changing reality can be The capacity to challenge social norms threatening, it is important to stick together. can be externalized, or on the contrary internalized for the sake of appearances. ROUTINE • Cultivating daily wisdom. In Korea, habits, common sense and everyday life provide a feeling of stability that strongly correlates with the support received from family and loved ones. You draw confidence from the people you know you can trust. “To believe” and “to trust” are generally translated as the same word in Korean. 32 • WOCO
© Vemaps.com Mexican confidence Raised in a country where feminicidios are numerous, Mexican women nonetheless feel very self-confident. They find strength in their education and the support of their loved ones. 8.5 INTELLECT RESILIENCE 6.6 7.7 MX 8.4 SUPPORT-SYSTEM 8.2 ROUTINE What compromises What drives Mexican confidence Mexican confidence RESILIENCE • Accepting one’s INTELLECT • Being educated and fate. While Mexican women’s skilled to face everyday life. resilient confidence is not that Being educated and skilled is very low, it ranks lower than many important to Mexican women others. It is particularly low for younger women who feel like it’s an advantage in their daily life and women without children or alone with a (especially older women, who place it above 9 child. It might be due to the social pressure on a ten point scale). They never doubt their experienced by young Mexican women, who skills and intellectual abilities. In a country are pressured to get married and start a family. where 57% of a generation never graduates high school, being educated makes a difference. SUPPORT-SYSTEM • Being valued and supported by others. It is important for Mexican women to be complimented and feel external validation. The more surrounded they are by their loved ones, the better they feel. This plays a huge part in confidence building. ROUTINE • Finding strength in your well-known environment. Demonstrating good judgement in their daily decisions is not only important for Mexican women, it is also a survival strategy. It helps them in scenarios when they feel threatened, like walking alone by night. Local Results • 33
© Vemaps.com Russian confidence Emancipated by work and economic prosperity, Russian women feel that they are experiencing political changes in their very core. Nonetheless, everyday life, and traditional family ties offer them a feeling of stability. CERTAINTIES RESILIENCE 5.7 5.8 6.6 RU 7.6 7.3 SUPPORT-SYSTEM ROUTINE What compromises What drives Russian confidence Russian confidence RESILIENCE • Pattern-driven SUPPORT-SYSTEM • Feeling strong behavior. Because past and blood-ties. In every family across present Russian institutions are the world there are ups and downs, rather procedural, citizens often moments of disagreements, tensions, know or are told, by a teacher, a superior or an and feelings of distance. In Russia, the bonds administrator, the proper steps to follow in most that link family members are especially strong situations. As these patterns make it hard to fail, as family was a significant pillar of the soviet this can be reassuring. Nonetheless, cultural ideology. Because these values transcended automatism leaves little room for Russian the era, Russian women draw confidence women to envision the many possibilities from the fact that they can count on the and outcomes of difficult situations. support of their families even in dire times. CERTAINTIES • Trusting stability. ROUTINE • Clinging to slavic lore. In an era of prosperity, recent Despite being some of the most historical events remain vivid in emancipated women in history, Russian people’s minds. Many Russian women remain very women clearly remember transitioning from traditional. Traditions provide a sense of stability very government-organized lives, to a new world and reassurance. Women draw their confidence in which their economy and political systems from habits, integrated common sense and underwent drastic transformations. In the midst everyday life. This is why Russian folklore and of these unstable circumstances, women’s faith history remain crucial in order to understand in the future of their country was shaken. the inhabitants’ cultural and social habits. 34 • WOCO
“Self confidence is a process. It’s not something that you’re born with, of course. But if you are born to a family where everybody tells you that you are smart and beautiful and all sorts of things, then I think that you can be confident from the very beginning.” Lilit, Moscow, Russia
What drives and compromises confidence globally On a global scale, the construction of women’s confidence is driven by 6 sources (Support-systems, Routine, Certainties, Intuition, Resemblance and Improving) that allow women to facilitate their social integration. Yet, it is compromised by 5 sources (Utopias, Womanhood, Resilience, Vocation and Transgression) which are less useful skills for social integration. What drives and compromises confidence globally is a thirst for social integration. Analyzing the mechanisms of women’s confidence has allowed us to better understand the system on which it is founded. Confidence sources are developed in different capacities, according to the functions they must serve. To use a metaphor, our self-confidence mimics the mechanisms of a train: it is powered by an engine (driving sources of confidence), burdened by a load (compromising sources of confidence) and stabilized by a wagon (intermediary sources of confidence). Overall, the key learning is that sources allowing women to integrate themselves better in society are stronger sources of confidence.
Compromisers: Useful sources: Drivers: the the load the wagon power engine Compromisers are sources Other useful sources of self- Drivers are sources that that pull women’s confidence confidence may be less valued increase women’s confidence scores down. When a person for their ability to build actual scores. When a person recognizes that a source is confidence. While they still recognizes that a source is key to their confidence, and have an impact, they do it key to their confidence, and declares that this source is dry, in a less consequential way. declares that this source is it becomes a compromiser. These less significant factors strong, it becomes a driver. When a source of confidence constitute what we refer to When a source of confidence becomes a compromiser, as “the wagon”. Yet, even becomes a driver, improving improving it can also drastically though Intellect, Appearance it can drastically improve improve confidence. The and Spirituality sources are confidence. Support-system, “load” gathers experiences considered less important, Routine, Certainties, Intuition, that hinder confidence levels, they are generally well- Resemblance and Improving which are consequently called graded. Since these types are sources are all driving forces of “compromisers”: Utopias, navigational and goal-oriented confidence. This is especially Womanhood, Resilience, tools, women tend to build alarming because those sources Vocation and Transgression. To self-confidence by asserting are restricted in essence. put it in a nutshell, they create themselves (showcasing or an opposing force that partially giving more importance to their counters the positive effects of social and academic success, the power engine and drivers. for instance). These experience types are more individual and generally contribute less to confidence levels than their collective-based counterparts. COMPROMISERS DRIVERS THE LOAD THE WAGON THE POWER ENGINE Utopias, Womanhood, Intellect, Apearance, Support-System, Routine, Resilience, Vocation Spirituality. The most Certainties, Intuition, and Transgression.They individual sources Resemblance and create a counterforce generally contribute Improving. The most that partially negates less to confidence levels collective (normative the effects of the power than their collective- and established) engine and its drivers. based counterparts. sources are driving forces of confidence. Global Mechanics • 37 Ì "Global Mechanics" p.82 of the White Paper
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