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Contents
 Introduction                                    1

 Chair                                           2

 Director                                        3
                                                                                     Providing counselling and
                                                                                     psychotherapy for people
 Our People                                      4                                     facing the d
                                                                                                  ­ ifficulties of
                                                                                                  ­everyday life
 Counselling at the PF                           5

 Finance                                         6

 Funders                                         7

 Client Feedback                                 8                           www.pfcounselling.org.uk

About the PF
The PF Counselling Service is a voluntary counselling agency which offers both short and long term therapy to
adults, irrespective of where they live or their ability to pay. It was established in 1986 and is now the largest
independent charity of its type providing voluntary counselling services in Edinburgh. We help people from all
walks of life to overcome difficulties, to experience personal growth, and to make the changes necessary to
lead a more fulfilling life.

The PF provides a safe, supportive and non-judgemental therapeutic environment in which people can work
with a counsellor/psychotherapist to address issues or concerns, past or present, which may be causing them
difficulties. These may include issues with relationships, family, health, employment, self-esteem, or other
major life challenges such as depression, anxiety, abuse, loss, or grief.

Every client matters to us, and we aim to offer everyone the support they need to tackle their own specific
struggles or difficulties, if we possibly can. Our counsellors are committed and passionate professionals
trained in a variety of counselling traditions, who volunteer their time every week to help our clients.

It is also part of the work of the PF to support the development of counsellors and the counselling profession.
Every year we offer placements to students studying for a professional counselling qualification, so that they
can gain experience and develop their skills in a safe, supportive and carefully supervised environment.

PF Counselling Service is the everyday name of the Pastoral Foundation Ltd., The PF is a Scottish charity registered with
the Scottish charity regulator OSCR - Scottish Charity No. SC008875. It is a company limited by guarantee (SC122762)
and a COSCA Recognised Organisation.

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Chair
In this Annual Review of the PF Counselling Service we present a brief introduction to our services, our
finances and, crucially, our people.

Because of the fantastic commitment of our volunteers, PF Counselling Service has been able to provide
even more counselling sessions than ever before. Our 134 volunteer counsellors have been able to provide
more than 14,700 sessions to support 794 clients during the last year. That all these people are willing to
donate their time, professional skills and their enthusiasm to support so many individuals during their time of
distress, is truly astounding.

There is even more voluntary help, as our counsellors and clients are supported by 39 other volunteers - such
as receptionists, book-keeper and trustees - all giving up their time to support our clients. None of this would
work without the efforts of our small dedicated team of paid staff, and without our Clinical Supervisors.

On 2 June 2019, in the Queen’s Birthday Honours, this dedication was recognised, with the Queen’s Award
for Voluntary Service - the highest award given to local volunteer groups across the UK for outstanding work
in their communities. This prestigious award is a tribute to all the volunteers, staff and supporters who pull
together to make PF counselling such a valued resource for so many people who need help.

Of course, to make all this work we rely on donations, so we are very grateful for the many donations from
clients, sponsors and from NHS Lothian.

In March the Covid19 restrictions meant we had to assist and guide people through the changes needed to
keep counselling services going. I am very impressed at how readily everyone, including our clients, adapted
to working online.

On behalf of all the Trustees I would like to thank everyone for their continued support.

Dick Manson
Chair

                                                                                    The PF Board of Trustees
                                                                                    (left-to-right)
                                                                                    Dick Manson, Matthew Haggis,
                                                                                    Alison Hampton
                                                                                    Jan Buncle, Naomi Walker, Dan
                                                                                    Kelpie
                                                                                    Judith Fewell, Chris Brown

                              The PF Operations Team
                                             (left-to-right)
         Alison Hampton, Aileen Murray, Klaudia Franusiak
           Emma Norman, Carol Larkins, (Matthew Haggis)

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Lockdown Experiences
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                                                                                                                               t the
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                                                                                                               on  e of  my   firs  t thoughts
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                                                                                                                              clients at the
        ethical practice of counselling,                                                         was “What about my
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       you can imagine that this has                                                             PF?” I had only jus
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       to suddenly be working online?
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                                                                                                   the telephone, as we                     tra ini ng  for  rem  ote
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                                      the needs of                                                 working, which was rea
                                       I tried to offer                                                                                                   It felt
      a steadying hand. I had to learn                                                                                        first, meeting online.
                                         a lot myself, of                                          It was very strange at                                g them
      course, and I am deeply grateful                                                                                       nts’ homes, and havin
      their leadership.
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      To be honest I can’t wait to get                                                                                           we were surprised
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      sessions again, but we all manage                                                                                   is a  clo seness about a face on
                                         d to keep going,                                           ‘real’ it felt. There                                  helps
     to adapt and even to thrive. The                                                                                           the ear, that actually
     counsellors and clients who sho
                                        re were so many                                             a screen, or a voice in              tim es.
                                                                                                                              ion so  me
     and commitment in their work,
                                        wed resilience                                               the sense of connect
                                       that in the end I
     feel it has been a wonderfully enc
                                         ouraging time
     for the profession.

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Our People
Counsellors
Adria Stubbs                 Fiona Armstrong       Leanne Gassert              Rebecca Connelly
Adrian Tupper                Fiona Brien           Leif Lawson                 Rebecca Shannon
Agne Bieliunaite             Freda Douglas         Lenore Simson               Renata Adwent-Johnston
Ali Hogan                    Gemma Matthews        Lilian Kelly                Sally Champion
Ali Moir                     Gill Mathews          Liz Bondi                   Sam Karpa
Alison Munro                 Gill Reid             Lizzie Booden               Sarah Finegan
Alison Thow                  Gordon Laird          Liz Kaya                    Sarah Fraser
Amy Telford                  Heather Bamford       Lorena Georgiadou           Sarah Goldsworthy
Anna Skinner                 Helen Mitchell        Lori Krause                 Sarah MacRae
Anne Henderson               Helena Trebar         Lorraine Woolford           Sarena Wolfaard
Anne-Marie Bourquin          Hilary Moors          Louise Sharp                Sharon Kelly
April Parkins                Hilary Spenceley      Lynne Rollo                 Sharon Mc Aree Thomas
Aran Graham                  Ingrid Woodhead       Maija Sarkkama              Shirley Thompson
Audrey McFarlane             Jan Barfoot           Marie-Thérèse Talensby      Sofia Nunes
Barry Ross                   Jane Green            Mark Hamlin                 Sujarda Herring
Cathy Ayles                  Jane Laidlaw          Mary Hennessy               Susan Beattie
Catie Egan                   Jeanette Campbell     Mary Leckie                 Susan Lanham
Cecilia Tymkewycz-Fife       Jenna Fraser          Mary Leonard                Susan Smith
Charlie Cornelius            Jenny Gray            Mary Lye                    Suzanne Cross
Chris Brown                  Jenny Murray          Matthew Haggis              Suzanne O’Riordan
Chrys Hibbert                Joanna Bleau          Maureen Verrall             Suzanne Price
Christina Robertson          Joanna Kemp           Merav Israel                Tim Bush
Christine Galey              John Dickson          Meriel Strang Steel         Ursula McKee
Craig Miller                 Jude Thomson          Mia Zielinska               Valerie Smith
Debbie Marshall              Julia Hutter          Michelle Briggs             Veronica Sanudo
Deborah McGill               Karen Serra           Nicola Collins              Vicki Cowan
Dee Gillespie                Karen Stilman         Nicola Mackaness            Vicky Gillingham
Duncan MacLaren              Kat Mackay            Pam Black                   Wendy Nightingale
Elena Masoero                Kate Lockhart         Paulina Nowak
Elizabeth Colwell            Kelly Hershaw         Rachel Blake
                                                                               Left during 19/20 year
Elspeth Quinn                Lama Bouchema         Rachel Hyland
Emma Norman                  Laura Mackintosh      Rachel Maisey

Receptionists                                      Board
Ali Hogan                   Katrina Cameron        Dick Manson              Chair
Anne Kershaw                Laura Mackintosh       Dan Kelpie               Treasurer
Christine Galey             Linda Crease           Matthew Haggis           Company Secretary
Cindy Stobie                Mark Hanson            Alison Hampton           Executive Director
Ciorstaidh MacGlone         Megan Done             Chris Brown              PF Counsellor
Dianne Beattie              Mirian Haas            Jan Buncle               PR/Comms Professional
Erin Rennie                 Nellie Ostberg         Judith Fewell            Academic & Psychotherapist
Felicity Bach               Nicola Mackaness       Naomi Walker             HR Manager
Gulfem Tanrikula            Phoebe Talbot
Hannah Clayton              Sandra Cunniffe
Helen Mitchell              Sandy Blair            Volunteer Book-keeper
Helena Trebar               Sharon Goodson         Sheila Gould
Julija Silina               Suzanne Price
Katarina Duernberger        Trena Macaulay
Kate Donaghy                Vanissia Lingg         Supervisors
                                                   Adrian Martinez             Kate McGarry
                                                   Angie Fee                   Kirsteen Greenholm
Staff                                              Carolyn Dougill             Liz Bondi
Alison Hampton           Director                  Chris Walker                Liz Perry
Aileen Murray            Business Manager          Christina McDonald          Lorna Patterson
Klaudia Franusiak        Administrator             Elizabeth Colwell           Marc Richelieu
Carol Larkins            Part-time Administrator   Jean Budge                  Sandra Knight
Emma Norman              Part-time Administrator   John MacFadyen              Sheila Turner
(Matthew Haggis)         (Associate Director)      Judith Fewell               Vicky McCombe

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Counselling at the PF
Why do people come to the PF                        The Year in Numbers
for counselling?
                                         Counselling sessions offered by our
                                                       volunteer counsellors      14,432
                               19.5%
      Anxiety/Stres
                n
                    s
                               14.5%
                                          Total number of sessions attended
                                                                  by clients      11,868
      Depressio                14.1%
      Relationships
       Self Esteem
                                9.9%        Hours of paid clinical supervision
                                                    provided for counsellors       1,290
                        Loss    9.2%
       Bereavement/             8.8%
       Childhood issu
                       es
                        e        8.5%
                                             Number of clients supported to
                                                       address their issues         794
        Trauma/Abus              3.0%
                       ic
        Work/Academ
        Living/Wel fa re  		     2.9%    Thousands of pounds estimated for
                                               the value of our volunteering        415
                                                Thousands of pounds in total
                                                 donated this year by clients       144
How do clients find out about               Number of counsellors currently
                                                  volunteering every week           105
the PF?
                                               Clients recommended by GPs,
                                                      about 18% of all clients      100
      Friend                    23.3%
      GP recommendation         18.2%     Percentage of clients who waited 8
                                           weeks or less for an initial session      75
      University counselling    14.4%
                                11.1%
      Internet search
      Been before               8.0%
                                          Hours of CPD training provided for
                                                                 counsellors         59
      Other agency              6.6%
       Family                    3.6%            Typical cost (£) of a private
                                            counselling session in Edinburgh         50
       Other NHS Service         2.9%
                                 1.6%
       Training                                Percentage of clients living in
                                          disadvantaged areas of Edinburgh           36
                                         Receptionist volunteers providing a
                                                             warm welcome            30
What types of counselling does
the PF offer?
                                          Total number of sessions attended
                                                      per client, on average         22
                                                 Thousands of pounds of tax
                                                       reclaimed via Gift Aid        22
     Person Centred, Psychodynamic,
     Pyschosynthesis, Transpersonal,
     Process Work, Dialogue,
                                         Experienced supervisors support­­­­ing
                                                        our high standards           18
     Transactional Analysis (TA),
     Gestalt, Pluralistic, Counselling
                                            Average donation our clients can
                                              afford to make per session (£)         15
     Psychology, Core Process
     (Karuna), Integrative,
     Contemporary Psychotherapy
                                             Hard-working staff keeping it all
                                                          running smoothly            5
                                          Our minimum donation in order to
                                                  receive our full service (£)        0

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Finance
It has been another good year of financially sound operations at the PF. This year did
not see the surplus which we have enjoyed previously, with a small drop in income
and some one-off expenses leading to an overall loss for the first time in many years.

The income from client donations remained remarkably strong, but donations from
other sources, such as community fundraising and generously supportive individuals, were lower than they
have been in the past.

PF continued to benefit from recognition by NHS Lothian for the contribution we make to mental health
services in the region. This was the third and final year of the Service Level Agreement, which continued at
£30,000 per annum, and which remains very significant to the continuation of our service.

On 31 March 2020 our total net assets stood at a substantial £610,415. However, it is important to remember
that £296,450 of this represents fixed assets, mainly the building in which we work, and £114,134 are
restricted reserve funds that are required by the donors to be used in specific ways, notably for the PF Young
Adults service. Over £410,000 is therefore in funds which are not readily available. Designated Funds have
been created over the years to cover the future needs of the charity, including a strategic Long Term Fund of
£120,000. These further limit our use of reserves to fund operations, leaving a balance of just £27,464 in the
General Fund which can be used to sustain our charitable activities in the year ahead.

Dan Kelpie, Treasurer

Income & Expenditure
for the year ended 31 March 2020
		                                          General       Designated     Restricted      Total Funds   Total Funds
		                                           Funds             Funds         Funds              2020          2019

Income                                           £                £             £                £             £
   Donations                                21,003                -        16,494           37,497        41,141
   Charitable Activities                   201,505                -             -          201,505       205,568
   Investments                               3,276                -             -            3,276         3,014
		                                         225,784                 -       16,494          242,278       249,723

Expenditure
   Charitable Activities                   208,252            2,098        39,399          249,749       231,557

Net Income (Expenditure)                    17,532          (2,098)       (22,905)          (7,471)       18,166

Balance Sheet
as at 31 March 2020                                                           2020             2019
		                                                                               £                £
Fixed Assets
    Tangible Fixed Assets                                                 296,450          288,667

Current Assets
   Debtors                                                                  4,694            5,017
   Bank & Cash                                                            315,862          335,134
		                                                                        617,006          628,818
Creditors
   Amount falling due within one year                                       6,591           10,932

Net Assets                                                                610,415          617,886

Fund Balances
   General                                                                 27,464           19,813
   Designated                                                             468,817          461,034
   Restricted                                                             114,134          137,039
		                                                                        610,415          617,886

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Supporters
We would like to thank everyone who has offered help and support to the PF throughout 2019 and 2020. This
help comes in many forms - cash donations, service support, in-kind goods and pro-bono services.

Our warmest thanks go to all those who have supported the PF this year.

NHS Lothian
NHS Lothian has supported us with a Service Level Agreement which provides around
15% of our income. This recognises the contribution we make to mental health
services in the Lothians.

ORGANISATIONAL DONATIONS
Sukkat Shalom, The Black Medicine Coffee Company, and Edinburgh
Proofreading Services all raised funds on our behalf. The Bank of
Scotland Foundation made donations to match the time of two of their
employees who volunteer with us. We also received support from the
Government’s coronavirus-response Wellbeing Fund.

INDIVIDUALS
We thank all the PF clients for kindly making donations each week
when they receive counselling. These donations give us a strong
foundation of independent funding, ensuring a sustainable future.

We are also extremely grateful to all those who generously made
donations in the course of the year. Those who give to us on a regular
basis, or who donated £100 or more include: Anne Kershaw, Connor
Stuart, Frederique Verhulst, Gillian Roebuck, Gordon Ellis, J Arkieson,
Julien Bodart, Julie Brodie, Kathleen Gilhooly, Liz Bondi, Mohanjit Singh,
Nirved Wilson, Peter Haggis & Anne Greenwood, Susan Smith, Tom Mayo,
Yasmeen Akhtar.

ANONYMOUS
Every year we receive many donations of cash and in-kind support from people and organisations who wish
to remain anonymous. This includes donations of books to the PF library and an ongoing Book Sale for
counsellors, which contributes further funds to the service. This year £12,590 was donated anonymously. We
are, of course, deeply grateful for all this support.

Can You Help?
We depend on direct support from the people, organisations and communities of Edinburgh, in order to
provide a service to individuals regardless of their ability to pay.

There are many easy ways that you, your friends, or        You can find more information, and make a donation,
your employer might help us. These include:                on our website:

¾¾ Easyfundraising.org.uk - free donations every
   time you shop online at all your usual places                 www.pfcounselling.org.uk
¾¾ Amazon Smile - more free donations when you                   (Go to the menu heading ‘Helping the PF’.)
   buy books, music and household items
¾¾ You can make a one-off or regular donation
¾¾ You can leave us a legacy in your Will

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Client Feedback
       At the PF we seek feedback from all our clients after their counselling has finished. These are a selection of the comments we have received this year.
       They are the actual words of the client, used with their permission.

                                                                                 I felt very comfort
                        my counsellor was                                                               able to talk about
   My experience with                       lm,                                                                              things openly
                       They provided a ca
                                                                                without being judg
   extremely positive.
                                                                                                      ed. I benefited from
                        environment wh    ich                                   having a clear focu                            my counsellor
   welcoming and safe                                                                                  s and summarising
                       r to discuss difficult                                   after our talks. In                          the main ideas
   made it much easie                                                                                 many occasions, it
                                                                               to talk about past                           w as challenging
   things.                                                                                            events and the cons
                                              e                                                                              equences
                        h greater perspectiv
                                                                               of these in the pres
    I have gained a muc                                                                                ent. However, this
                        of myself and my                                       understand my reac                            made me
    and understanding                                                                                  tions on a daily basi
                         more confident now                                                                                   s. I felt at
    problems, and I am
                                                                              peace when being
                        y things I can do to
                                                                                                    there, and sometim
     that there are man                                                       felt understood an                           es enlightened. I
                        in the future.                                                               d listened to.
     approach problems
                                                                              These sessions have
                                                                                                      helped me understa
                                                                             what my priorities                              nd better
                                                                                                     are without feelin
                                                                             myself or the way                            g guilty about
  Working with my co                                                                                I do things. I have a
                       unsellor was extrem                                   understanding of w                             better
  helpful and improv                         ely                                                    hat I like, who I am
                     ed my well being an                                     make me feel good                            , what things
 mental health a lot,                    d                                                        , and my own self or
                       It was easy for me                                   They’ve also helped                            identity.
 open up to her and                         to                                                      me to pay more at
                     feel cared for, valid                                  inner self under di                           te ntion to my
 and like someone w                        ated                                                  fficult circumstan
                     as there to listen to                                  can analyse the re                         ces so that I
                                            me.                                                  levant information
                                                                           getting to know m                             as feedback on
 I feel like it’s easier                                                                        yself. This observat
                          to face daily strugg                             feel more confiden                           ion allows me to
 take care of mysel                             les,                                            t making decisions
                       f, and I learned bett                               so much doubt abou                          w  ithout having
ways for how to de                           er                                                  t my choices. I am
                        al with my emotions                               what I want from                             clearer about
know I am not “hea                            .I                                                the people who I ca
                       led” but I feel a lot                              family, friends or a                          re for, such as
excited about life ag                        m ore                                               partner. I also lear
                         ain and my self wor                              for being more pres                           ned techniques
way more importan                             th is                                              ent on a daily basi
                       t to me now.                                                                                    s.

                                                                                                                            y counsellor
                                                                                                      ve   experience. M
                                                                            It was a ve ry  p o si ti                        d helped me
I was very fortunate to be paired with a                                                         d    u  n d erstanding an
                                                                            was excelle  n t an                            y mind. I had
councillor who was exactly what I needed                                                         gs    an   d clarify in m
                                                                             think abo u t th in                          he put me at
                                                                                         co  u n se   lli n g before but
straight away. PF provided a space that                                      never had
                                                                                              way.
was safe and secure and I felt able to                                        ease straight
                                                                                                                               d why I feel
                                                                                               an   d   m   ys elf and how an
share my experiences and get the help I                                       I now under   st
                                                                                             much better.
needed.                                                                        the way I do

I have been given the support and
                                                                                I feel for the first time in my life that
strength I need to continue the work                                            somebody has taken an interest and
started in my sessions on my own. I can                                         listened and then helped me decide what
honestly say that counselling at PF has                                         to do next. I feel my counsellor didn’t just
been life-changing for me.                                                     listen but really cared about me as an
                                                                               individual, I wish that I had found her
                                                                               sooner.

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I became mor
                                                                                         e aware of mys
                                                ng time                   feelings, my th                   elf, my
       a s a  pl ea  su re . It took me a lolly needed                                    oughts, my be
                                                                                                           havour.
 It w                    ntent that I re
                                              a                           In this way I
                                                                                         am now able to
 to get to the coto recognise that some                                  better relation                    have a
  to address and not fixable but my counsellor                           with my son.
                                                                                          ship with mys
                                                                                                           elf and
  things are just where I was able to                                    clear ideas of
                                                                                        I feel stronger
                                                                                                        , I  have
  created a spacer myself at a pace I could d                                           what I want to
                                                                                                            do, I
   discover this fo owly!) I was really impresse                        am more open
                                                                                         to new things
   manage (very slble to help me expand my                              and I am mor                     /i deas
                                                                                        e resilient to di
   that she was a ut topics that I’ve been                              situations.                       fficult
    awareness abo ry long time. This different g
    stuck in for a ves incredibly helpful in allowin
    perspective wa ss stuck. She also helped me                         As a student, there was no way that I
     me to become le ok to not fix some things and
                                                                        could have afforded regular counselling
     realise that it’sriences will always just be
     that some expe tricky for me and took a lot                        without the PF counselling service . If
     hard. This was uch with how I was feeling,                         I hadn’t had my counsellor ’s help in
      of getting in tory ground.                                        coming to terms with my past trauma,
      which was sca                                                     I would almost certainly have dropped
                                                     unsellor
            im a ri ly fe el   le ss stuck. My co ings that             out of my PhD and be leading a very
       I pr                                        th
                                 able to discuss
       made it ok to beicult to even think about and                    different life right now. I’m in a
        were very diff ing to come to know that                         dramatically different frame of mind
        it was enlighten that maybe I don’t need to                     about what happened after two years of
        there are things       m om  en t, or perhaps ever. N
                                                                ot
                                                                        therapy, as well as a stronger and more
                            e
         resolve at th s actually become ok – th              is
                                                                        confident person . I’m very grateful to
         fixing things hae and I’ve been able to get
         is a first for m ith her help and without it                   have had access to this service , and to
          to this place w like I’m failing.                             such a great counsellor.
          making me feel
                                                                         It has helped in so ma
                                                                                                 ny ways. My own self
                                                                         confidence and self wo
  My counselor
                  provided a sp                                                                   rth has been the
                                 ace where                               biggest thing I have no
  I could under                                                                                  ticed (and others
                   stand myself                                         have too). I used to be
 get through is                  better and                                                      very self critical and
                  sues that had                                         hard on myself yet kin
                                  been                                                          d and compassionate
 bothering me                                                           to others. Through co
                  for the bigger
                                  part of my                                                   unselling I have been
 life. Now I feel                                                       able to see this for my
                   that I finally                                                               self and I have found
 behind me. I                     le ft my past                         a better balance.
                feel that I don
that past emot                   ’t ca  rry all
                 ional baggage                                           I struggled with anxie
anymore. I fe                       with me                                                      ty and feeling
               el lighter and                                            overwhelmed by my
of my life.                     in  charge                                                      emotions. Counsellin
                                                                        gave me a safe and im                           g
                                                                                                  partial place to
                                                                        share my thoughts an
                                                                                                 d feelings without
                                                                        judgement or bias. Ov
                                                                                                 er time my counsello
                                                                        and I were able to tal                           r
                                              iously                                           k about a lot of thing
       ag ed  to w  or k through some prev                             that I hadn’t fully dealt                      s
I m an                                           tand the                                         with. This helped
        ise d m en ta l ob stacles and unders                          me understand myse
unre al                                          suffering                                     lf and my life so much
                         al conflict I’ve been                         more and help me un
 roots of the intern                             encouraging                                   derstand things that
                           ly. My counsellor’s                         could have contribut
 from more thorough                                s more                                    ed to why I felt this
       oa ch  an d co m  pa ss ion made the issue                      way. I no longer feel
                                                                                             so overwhelmed and
  appr                                         .                      no longer try to hide                           I
                         easier to deal with                                                 my emotions, which
  approachable and                                                    extremely freeing. I ha                        is
                                                                                                ve noticed that I try
                                                                      to focus a lot more on
                                                                                                the positive things I
                                                                     have achieved rather
                                                                                              than the negatives. I
                                                                     feel proud to be the pe
                                                                                                rson I am today and
                                                                     I am not sure I would
     Very professional and helpful. I’m                                                      have been able to
                                                                     see that or feel that be
     feeling better on a day to day basis.                                                     fore my counselling
                                                                     experience.
8 Balcarres Street                                                            The clematis pictured on
Edinburgh                                                                     the covers of this year’s
EH10 5JB                                                                      Review grow in the PF’s
                                                                              small garden to the rear
                                                                              of our counselling rooms.
0131 447 0876                                                                 They bloomed in all their
                                                                              glory in June this year, with
info@pfcounselling.org.uk                                                     no-one in the building to
                                                                              enjoy them.
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                                                                              However, we took their
                                                                              heartwarming appearance
                                                                              as a hopeful sign that
                                                                              life continued to flourish
                                                                              despite the strictures of the
                                                                              coronavirus lockdown.
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