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DARTMOUTH    PATHS
1987
                 from the

             green

            JUNE 2020

            IN THIS
            SPECIAL
            EDITION
            Results from the
            Pandemic Survey

            Impact on Sports,
            Educators, and
            The Arts

            Staying Home

            Cover art by
            Meg Houston
            Maker titled
            “Soon it’s going
            to rain”, 2020
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Special edition 2020     This is a special edition of the 1987 Class Newsletter dedicated to the COVID-19
                         Pandemic. We wanted to take a snapshot of the lives of our classmates as we
                         continue to quarantine to reduce the spread of this virus. Around the world,
                         whole nations have stayed home for over eight weeks, with trips only for es-
                         sential goods and services.

                         We asked the class “What has this pandemic looked like to you?” Many of you
                         answered the call and sent in photos, thoughts, and articles on how you have
                         continued working, caring for your family, and trying to stay sane. Thank
                                                                                                                                                                                              Photo: Tom Remp, Dartmouth Library
                         you for sharing your stories. We have selected a few to share with you in this
                         newsletter so that one day, we can look back on this sureal time, and remem-
                         ber the spring of 2020, when the Coronavirus invaded.                                                            A Letter from the President
                         What we heard is that family time was a surprise bonus. And that every single
                         one of us has experienced loss. Some have seen great loss, even death, and the
                         unimaginable pain of being apart from those you love. We send our condo-
                         lences hoping it provides a small bit of comfort. Others have found they have      Dear Classmates,
                         enjoyed this quieter time, with less time constraints, no commuting, and more
                         cooking. May it be a chance to rest and recharge for the challenges to come.       We are going through the most significant upheav-         Once a week, I venture out of the house to get gro-
                                                                                                            al of our collective lives. After the WHO declared        ceries. This trip is absolutely exhausting as I don a
                         And most importantly, those of you in healthcare, public safety, government,       COVID-19 a pandemic, my law firm instituted work-         cap, mask, and disposable gloves. I wait in line to get
                         and education have worked more hours than there are in a day serving others,       from-home rules beginning March 17. New Jersey            into the grocery store for 30 minutes, as we queue up
                         with great sacrifice to your own family and your own health. Thank you.            issued stay-at-home orders. At this point, it has         six feet apart outside. When I get home, I wipe down
                                                                                                            been over nine weeks of unrelenting news, continu-        all of my purchases before putting them away, and I
                         We hope you enjoy seeing the pandemic through the eyes of your classmates.         ous loss, and worry.                                      soak my fruits and vegetables in a baking soda bath.
                         Wishing you strength for today and bright hope for tomorrow.                                                                                 I spray Lysol on the bottom of my shoes and my coat
                                                                                                            For me, my husband and I can work from home               when I get home. I regularly wake up in the middle
                                                                                                            fairly easily and don’t have little kids to worry about   of the night thinking—did I accidentally bring the
                                                                                                            homeschooling. Honestly, I do not miss my 2.5-hour        coronavirus into the house? Did I touch my face
                                                                                                            roundtrip commute in NJ traffic and appreciate the        with my gloved hand which touched something that
                                                                                                            savings on gas and tolls. Our college-aged kids are       was contaminated with the virus? Did I walk into an
                                                                                                            both home, which has been fantastic (generally).          invisible cloud of respiratory particles containing the
                                                                                                            For us, this time has been marked by major disap-         virus? Did the virus hop a ride to my house by adher-
                                                                                                            pointments. Villanova conducted Avery’s graduation        ing to my clothes? I am generally able to silence the
                                                                                                            remotely. When we raced to pack her things and get        noise, but my sleep is broken at times, and fortu-
                                                                                                            her back home after school closed, she didn’t have        nately, I do wake up to another virus-free day for my
                                                                                                            time to say in-person goodbyes to her friends or          family.
                                                                                                            professors. She worried about her friends who live in
                                                                                                            Hawaii or abroad who could not fly home (and who          At the end of the day, all of these disappointments
                                                                                                            are still stuck on campus today). Gabi is a ’22. She      will pass. We are healthy and blessed to have the
                                                                                                            and her classmates were looking forward to Soph-          opportunity to spend time together as a family. Our
                                                                                                            omore Summer, which, as you know, is one of the           extended family communicates more often as we en-
                                                                                                            many things that makes Dartmouth special. The Col-        joy group chats, and my parents join us for FaceTime
                                                                                                            lege is conducting classes remotely, and the experi-      calls. At this point, it seems as if my family will be
                                                                                                            ence will not be the same. Gabi’s FSP to South Africa     together at home through the summer.
                                                                                                            for Fall semester seems to be in jeopardy as well.
                                                                                                                                                                      Let’s hope the Fall brings some better news.

                                                                                                                                                                      Tracey Salmon Smith
                                                                                                                                                                      President, The Great Class of 1987

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The thing about loss...
                     pandemic survey results                                                                                          Weddings. Funerals. Graduations. Sports seasons.          years we spent together in Hanover created stron-
                                                                                                                                      Performances. The losses are hard to fathom. It           ger bonds than any pandemic. It is a good place to
                                                                                                                                      seems everyone has a personal loss from COVID-19.         reconnect, and share those stories that truly matter.
                                                                                                                                      Our own grief is truncated by the larger spectre of       Reach out to dorm mates, team mates, acquaintenc-
      On the Class of 1987 Facebook page, we
      invited you to complete a brief survey on                                                                                       tragedy. How can I grieve my loss when others have        es. We can help you find them again.
      the Pandemic. Thanks to the 47 people who                                                                                       even larger sorrows?
      responded, we have a view of how our class                                                                                                                                                And when you are reconnecting, consider what we
      is faring during this time. This is not an ade-                                                                                 While “comparison” is not the answer, “commu-             are learning from this new normal. What can we ap-
      quate sample to be statistically relevant, but                                                                                  nity” may be helpful. Connecting to others, sharing       ply to the future? What are the good things that have
      in the meantime, this is what we found out:                                                                                     stories, and fully listening can bring back the hu-       come from the Pandemic? How can we help those for
                                                                                                                                      manity that has been locked away these past few           whom this loss is significant?
                                                                                                                                      months.
                                                                                                                                                                                                If you have a child in the class of 2020, from any
                                                                                                                                      In this newsletter, we have had more contributors         school, we salute you. Let’s try to connect those
                                                                                                                                      than ever before. Thank you to everyone who has           young graduates with jobs, places to live, and men-
                                                                    one remember the zip code from the theme
                                                                    song? 02134—Send it to Zoom!                                      shared their stories. It is through these stories that    toring advice. By infusing the Dartmouth Network
                                                                                                                                      stronger connections are made. We hope that, if           with opportunities, energy and hope, there are many
                                                                    The results indicate we are staying busy—                         you read an article that resonates with you, you will     more stories waiting to be told.
                                                                    working more (30%), baking/cooking more                           reach out to the author, or share your story as well.
                                                                    (60%) and spending time with family (61%).                        It doesn’t have to be through the Class of ’87. But the   We can’t wait to hear about them.
                                                                    To the 40% organizing their home, please
      76% of us are quarantining with two to four                   feel free to drop by my house when this is
      people. We should have asked if you liked the                 over and I can provide some new projects.
      people you are with, so I can only hope that
      it’s working for everyone.                                    With sadness, there have been many import-                             What is One Good Thing that has come from the Pandemic?
                                                                    ant life events that have been missed:
      Interestingly, 54% say they don’t have fam-                   - weddings (21%)
      ily living with them (presumably parents,                     - funerals (28%)
      children, etc.) so I have to wonder if we have                - graduations (34%)
      any couples counselors in the class that need                 - sports seasons (55%)
      new clients. 41% do have children with them                   - art/theater performances (57%)                                             Having                    I have                My mother and                 I learned
      and two people have persons not related                                                                                                adult children              much more                I are closer                  how to
      to them in the household. Personally, I am                    Even with these staggering results, you                                   return home                 patience                 with daily                 bake bread
      looking forward to the pandemic-themed                        all left an impressive list of silver linings                                                                                  Facetimes
      novels that will arrive on shelves in the                     to the situation that is so hopeful. And the
      coming years. These stats tell me there are                   comments all pointed to the slower pace as
      stories to be written.                                        improving relationships with family.
                                                                                                                                                            A chance to                   Less                     Time to
      We are on Zoom a lot, but for the one person                  We hope to do more surveys and welcome
      who claimed that they had over 30 Zoom                        ideas how to get more classmates to partic-                                          reexamine what                 Pollution                reflect and
      calls in a week, my condolences. I thought                    ipate. Email me at betsyrutherford@msn.                                                is important                                           connect
      my 18 number was way too high—anyone                          com with your thoughts on ideas and themes
      else sick of staring at themselves on camera?                 for future surveys!
      Of note, I did read a wonderful piece from
      the New Yorker mentioning the irony of the                    However you are finding your way through
      Zoom name for those of us who grew up with                    this, I wish you health and well-being.                                   Not wearing                                           Being back                  Life has
      the TV show of the same name. Does any-
                                                                                                                                               makeup or                 Perspective               in touch with             slowed down
                                                                                                                                               doing my                                             old friends
                                                                     Betsy Rutherford                                                             hair
                                                                     Newsletter Co-Editor

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quarantine 2020                                                                                                                                                                                                 connect

                  Tom Palisi: This is our 25-year-old daughter Alexa teaching my mother-in-law (who is 80              Meg Crone Ramsden: In this photo my husband Chris and son Mack are watching a bear at dusk (tiny
                  years young) how to use Zoom, so she can participate in a broad array of calls with friends and      brown lump in the field on the other side of the pond) in New Hampshire. This was taken a few weeks ago
                  relatives.                                                                                           when the bears were emerging from their winter dens. These unexpected weeks together have provided
                                                                                                                       many opportunities to observe the wildlife through our telescope. As tragic and strange as this spring has
                  Julie Hubble: Daughter Margaret ’21 has visited with my mom only through the window since            been, having Mack at home from his apartment in Boston has been a gift in its own way.
                  she’s been home.
                                                                                                                                                                                                          Gregg Rippey:
                                                                                                                                                                                                          I’ve heard people
                                                                                                                                                                                                          asked to describe their
                                                                                                                                                                                                          experience with all
                                                                                                                                                                                                          of the stay-at-home
                                                                                                                                                                                                          in six words. For this
                                                                                                                                                                                                          picture, I’d say:

                                                                                                                                                                                                          kitchen pong
                                                                                                                                                                                                          empty cups
                                                                                                                                                                                                          so far...

                                                                     Michele Cloutier: This is a picture of us cele-
                                                                     brating Emma’s 17th birthday in quarantine!
                                                                     As she said, “thank goodness my 16th was
                                                                     last year.” Hope all other ’87s are doing well!
                                                                     Shoutout to all the ’87 swimmers... what
                                                                     are you all doing during quarantine?! Miss
                                                                     everyone!

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The Impact on
impact on educators         Educators
                            by Laura Kennedy

                            I was checking Zooms one evening when        Zoom class, thinking she’d be excited,
                            I saw the second grader’s video. “I am       but her daughter ran from the room
                            really scared,” he said, peering into the    screaming. And it’s hard to be
                            camera. “I am having nightmares. Is          called pathetic by a parent who pre-
                            anyone else having nightmares?” As a         viously told me how much her kids
                            private school administrator for K-4th       loved me. It’s hard to stay balanced. I
                            graders, my days are usually filled with     try to get up and exercise and step away,
                            more laughter than tears. I can’t say        but there is always another teacher I
                            that’s been the case since we got sent       need to check in on, always another kid.
                            home to teach.
                                                                         Last Friday, we delivered congratulatory
                            As March turned to April, I started to       lawn signs to our eight-grade gradu-
                            hear how stressed teachers were, par-        ates. This was my first class nine years
                            ticularly teachers with kids. One of my      ago when I joined this wonderful school.       Holly Taylor:
                            first-grade teachers is a single mom         I cried a lot seeing our graduates, and        Here’s a picture of me having a Zoom
                            with four kids under twelve; several         seeing them so excited to see our cara-        meeting with myself to see what my
                            teachers have two young kids under ten;      van of teachers, honking and screaming.        students would see in class. From the
                            and three have spouses who are teach-                                                       teacher perspective, distance teaching
                                                                                                                        is not for sissies.
                            ers. One has young kids whose school         You know probably where this is going:
                            expected the kids to be on Zoom calls        Please be kind to teachers, particularly       It involves having to re-think student
                            almost all day, while she’s supposed to      those with kids at home. They love your        engagement in class, coming up with
                            be teaching Zoom classes, sending her        kids and are trying their best, and they       creative ways to get the students to be
                            own kids into fits of tears. One teacher’s   feel guilty when they can’t be the best        involved. Then after all the work and a
                            grown child is a nurse who contract-         for anyone. “When I have a day where I         class session has ended, the feeling that
                                                                                                                        you spent an hour or more, talking in a
                            ed Covid. Still another is using her two     feel like I’ve been the best virtual teach-
                                                                                                                        vacuum.
                            adorable kids in her math lessons and        er I can be, I’ve let my own kids down,”
                            could be a YouTube star.                     one teacher told me. “I literally don’t
                                                                         know what the heck they’ve been doing
                            Parents, too, are stressed, but it comes     all day. When I pay attention to my own
                            out in different ways. Some parents          kids, I’m letting my class and school
                            have sent me harsh emails complain-          down.”
                            ing that we’re not doing enough, while
                            others say “stop the madness, this is        Teachers are rock stars—I see it every
                            too much.” One parent said she told          day.
                            her fourth grader about our new Coding

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The impact on educators                                                                                                                                          stocking up

Delivering Cheer to 2020 Graduates
by Mary Carter

This week, a giant cougar and I, as Head of School,
visited all the members of the Derryfield School Class
of 2020 at their homes around Manchester, New
Hampshire. I should explain that the cougar is our
school’s mascot, and our school’s communication
director wore the somewhat stinky cougar costume.
She and I started our journey unsure how we’d be
received, because we were a spectacle—our noisy
maroon-and-white bus stopped at each house to
unload the petite head of school (me) and a large furry
creature. But we quickly saw how happy the kids were
to see us, and how emotional their parents were, that
we were celebrating their kids with yard signs, stuffed
baby cougars, and some warm conversation. We had
funny moments and healing moments, as when we
realized that a single parent and student hadn’t seen
anyone else in weeks, and really needed a long chat.
                                                                                                 Angie Erdrich: The April 22nd fruit hutch, so replete and bountiful, is down to Med-
These interchanges—asking students how they’re                                                   jool dates, 2 tomatoes, 4 apples, canned fruits and macadamia nuts we are unable to
doing in shelter at home, how their senior projects are                                          crack (by May 4.) Trying to make it 7 more days before shopping!
going—felt like the most normal thing in the world,
but also better than normal, because I had the chance
to thank and commend each graduate for their con-
tribution to the school community. It was an honor to
be part of an important life milestone for good young
people in uncertain times.

     Karen Boyle:
     I find what I miss terribly is the day
     to day interaction with my students,
     helping them to understanding and
     seeing their faces when the light goes
     on. The support and encouragement
     just doesn’t sound the same when
     it is via email and I feel like I’m not
     really reaching so many of them. This
     is not the kind of teaching I signed up
     for - but it is the reality for now.

                                                                                                           Alan Haig sent in this photo of empty shelves at a Florida Publix
                                                                                                           grocery store in early March. Even at the beginning of May, it was
                                                                                                           still difficult to find Clorox Wipes or toilet paper.

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From the Heart of New York City, by Emil Chynn

From Tom Palisi: After
taking photos of Dart-                                                                                                                     “I’m sorry, I forgot to tell you that the last time I was in   bankrupt, and if they don’t let us perform elective
mouth, my kids, Alexa                                                                                                                      your office, I was positive for coronavirus.”                  surgery in June, it will go under. On the positive side,
and Thomas, and their                                                                                                                                                                                     one of the reasons I’m still single is because I’ve
full collegiate experi-                                                                                                                    What goes through your mind when you hear such a               unfortunately allowed my profession and career to
ences, I have resorted                                                                                                                     thing? Unfortunately, as a physician/surgeon, you’re           consume too much of my life. The silver lining might
to capturing the dog                                                                                                                       expected to remain always professional, and cannot             be I’ll have more time for my personal life this fall.
and odd things around                                                                                                                      say, “WTF!” Fortunately, this patient was the last
the house.                                                                                                                                 patient on a Friday afternoon, or                                              So, it looks like my medical career will
                                                                                                                                           I would be ethically obligated to                                              be book-ended by two tragic events. I
                                                                                                                                           “contact trace” and call every pa-                                             opened my practice right before 9/11,
                                                                                                                                           tient who came into our office after                                           and was the first and only physi-
                                                                                                                                           this numbskull, freaking out dozens                                            cian at Ground Zero that day. Now it
                                                                                                                                           of people. Instead, all I had to do                                            looks like COVID will end my medical
                                                                                                                                           was inform my staff, and freak all                                             career.
                                                                                                                                           of them out.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                           In parting, I’d like to say that my
                                                                                                                                           My world started to go south when                                               (traumatic) experience at WTC
                                                                                                                                           Governor Cuomo announced on a                                                   Ground Zero did help me in certain
                                                                                                                                           Tuesday afternoon that elective                                                 ways. Yes, I did wind up with some
                                                                                                                                           surgery would be banned the next                                                mild asthma that I never had before.
                                                                                                                                           day. We had to cancel everything,                                               But on the positive side, I knew I
                                                                                                                                           putting the eyes of a dozen people                                              could perform professionally, survive
                                                                                                                                           “on hold” along with the rest of their lives.                  and persevere, even in the face of enormous adver-
                                                                                                                                                                                                          sity, which gave me a certain confidence throughout
                                                                                                                                           The majority of doctor’s offices are really just small         life. Hopefully, once we all get through these trying
                                                                                                                                           businesses. No surgery means no income, so I had to            times, we will all have been forced to reassess what
                                                                                      From Julian Okwu: The reality of                     call my staff in, hand them their last paychecks, and          is truly important in life, stop chasing money, or
                                                                                      quarantining sharpens the dichotomy                  furlough everyone. Including myself. So, I started to          fame, or fortune, and focus on spending more time
                                                                                      of our global COVID-19 experiences.                  collect unemployment for the first time in my life.            with those we love, being more kind and generous to
                                                                                      For me, the luxury of a daily swim in                                                                               them as well as strangers, and doing our part to help
                                                                                      our pool to maintain a modicum of my                 When I applied for PPP, they ran out of money. Once            the greater community. I know that’s my goal.
                                                                                      sanity, symbolizes that idea. Are we                 they refunded PPP, I received money, but it is hard
                                                                                      sinking in our response to the virus                 to bring staff back who risked getting infected. Now           Wishing all of you a healthy present and happy fu-
                                                                                      and our responsibilities to one another              the business I spent 20 years growing is slowly going          ture.
                                                                                      or moving towards new ways to reset
                                                                                      our lives and our communities for a
                                                                                      post-pandemic existence?

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staying home                                                                                                       From Chrissie Drescher:
                                                                                                                   The green smoothie pic (below) is be-
                                                                                                                   cause I told Carrie to run the Nutribullet
                                                                                                                   in the bedroom because our house is
                                                                                                                   very open. Even with headphones, we
                                                                                                                   try to be a little quiet if Mike is in court
                                                                                                                   via the phone—so Carrie was slightly
                                                                                                                   sullen at her mother’s request to blend
                                                                                                                   in the bedroom. Despite all working/
                                                                                                                   studying under the same roof, it is a
                                                                                                                   silver lining to be together. The world is
                                                                                                                   full of such sadness and stress, and we
                                                                                                                   are lucky to live where we do with plenty
                                                                                                                   of space. We are getting a lot of outdoor
                                                                                                                   work done now that spring is in VT.

Coach Chris Schutz Brownell is hitting a squash ball through the Dartmouth Corn Hole. Try that one at
home! The second photo is a little diversion and almost a daily game between her two squash playing kids:
Jess ’23 on the right, MVP as a freshman, wondering whether the College will have a season and Timmy,
graduating from Harvard virtually on May 28, was supposed to go straight into the Squash Pro Tour...

                                                      Jeff Lazarus: The only thing missing is a beer.
                                                      Remedied just after this was taken.
                                                                                                                      John Gannon
                                                                                                                      captured the Blue
                                                                                                                      Angels flying over
                                                                                                                      Dallas honoring our
                                                                                                                      heroic healthcare
                                                                                                                      workers.

                                                                From Sally Adams: A cartoon by Brooke Bourgeois.

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the impact on athletes
When the NBA canceled the rest of the season, we all took notice. The suspension of sports then became wide-
spread and affected so many of us directly. From athletes, to sports fans, to soccer moms, to the Olympics. We
miss everything about sports. So many of you have stories like these to tell. Please share them with us.

                                                                                    From Deb Marchiony: Our son, Max
                                                                                    Marchiony ’22, was planning to row for
                                                                                    Dartmouth and then be off for his soph-
                                                                                    omore summer to compete in rowing
                                                                                    at U23 Worlds. But all rowing has been
                                                                                    cancelled for the season. This photo is
                                                                                    from last July, when he finished 6th in
                                                                                    the world in U23 lightweight pairs.                       The Loss of a Senior Athlete’s Final Season
                                                                                                                                              by Doug and Kathy Keith
                                                                                    One of the saddest things for me is that
                                                                                    I had put all the regattas for the season
                                                                                    in my calender and didn’t delete them
                                                                                                                                               Like so many of us, the experience of the         strive for excellence—to work hard and
                                                                                    once the season was suspended. So now
                                                                                                                                               abrupt suspension of normalcy has been            to reach for their dreams, and Julia has
                                                                                    each Saturday, I see where he would have
                                                                                                                                               surreal. After dedicating the better part of      achieved every bit of that—but she had
                                                                                    rowed.
                                                                                                                                               their young lives to striving for academic        so much more to give! Middlebury is the
                                                                                                                                               excellence with an unwavering commit-             reigning DIII National Champs and the
                                                                                                                                               ment to a collegiate sport, the spring of         #1 ranked team in 2020 with the longest
From Anne Kubik: There are stages of dealing with                     leaders. Each day we skin up, and ski. Each day, I see                   2020 brought that all to a very sudden, jar- winning streak. Julia and her team had
the Coronavirus, denial, anger, depression, accep-                    the mountain through his eyes, he chatters on about                      ring and unceremonious end for so many            such determination and will to defend their
tance. As a physician, it has been excruciating to                    his course load at Dartmouth, the journalism class                       senior athletes. Our family fully embraced        national title!
watch the leaders of our country squander oppor-                      he loves, his podcast that he created for Ski Racing                     Middlebury lacrosse—we loved the atmo-
tunities to manage this public health crisis, which                   Magazine and I have hope. For that is what must                          sphere, the weekend rituals,                                      All that said, as we reflect
has cost our young people and each one has a story                    come after the stages of grief.                                          the games, the parents, the                                       now, 10 weeks later, we are
of something lost,                                                                                                                             coaches and most of all,             The excitement of            still sad and feel a definite
unsalvageable and                                                                                        Jimmy was on an                       watching our daughter put              the games and              sense of loss. But we are also
I am left incredibly                                                                                     upswing and about                     her all into every moment                                         very thankful and grateful.
                                                                                                                                                                                 the thrill of the victories
angry. As a parent, I                                                                                    to peak when the                      and always leaving it all on                                      We were able to be part of
am awed at the re-                                                                                       last races of the                     the field.
                                                                                                                                                                                    are a gift to us that        her amazing journey. We
silience of my kids.                                                                                     year were can-                                                           we will always cherish.        were introduced to so many
                                                                                                         celled, which he                      We were also so very bless-                                       amazing young women—her
My oldest, Jimmy                                                                                         needed to qualify                     ed that both her high school                                      teammates—and gained so
Krupka ’21, is an                                                                                        for a spot on the US                  and college teams em-                                             many new friendships with
alpine ski racer. The                                                                                    National team. On                     braced the Keith Family as well—from our          such fantastic parents. The excitement of
virus hit as he was                                                                                      May 6, Jimmy was                      exuberant cheering from the sidelines to          the games and the thrill of the victories are
peaking and vying                                                                                        named to the US                       encouraging Jimmy (Julia’s twin brother)          a gift to us that we will always cherish.
for a named spot                                                                                         national team. The                    dancing on the sidelines (often stealing the
on the US team. I                                                                                        future is unknown,                    glory!)—oh the fun!                               While it would have been nice to be able to
have now found                                                                                           and it is unclear if                                                                    acknowledge and celebrate her last game,
myself stealthily                                                                                        there will be World                   When Julia’s final season ended so abrupt- we do know she always left it all on the
skinning up in the                                                                                       Cup season, if our                    ly, we were sad, stunned and angry. As            field after every game. So maybe it ended
early morning in the                                                                                     nation will allow ski                 we saw what was happening around the              the way it was supposed to—because the
dark with my son                                                                                         racers to gather and                  world, the anger softened, but the sadness        journey is not yet done.
and my dog. Those mornings, I learned of the joy                      train. What I do know is that the future has hope, as I                  remained. We were experiencing grief. We
that ski racing had given my son, of the courage to                   watch Jimmy and all our youth handle all of this with                    all want our children to set high goals and
find a way to keep training, of the resilience to not                 courage and passion for life.
give up in the face of the virus and ineptitude of our

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1987 PATHS green - Dartmouth Class of 1987
through a different lens                                                                 From Craig Bamsey:
                                                                                         This is a Polaroid of my
                                                                                         son and his high school
                                                                                         senior friends meeting
                                                                                         for a safe “Trunk Meet”
                                                                                         hangout at their school
                                                                                         parking lot, a scene
From Leslie Collins Trautwein: As many of you
                                                                                         repeating across Ameri-
know, Vic and I moved with our four small kids to
                                                                                         ca right now, a moment
a small mountain town in the Dominican Repub-
                                                                                         that couldn’t have come
lic in 2002 to help lead the efforts of Kids Alive
                                                                                         from any other time.
International (NGO) to serve at-risk, impoverished
                                                                                         Somehow this captured
children. Eighteen years later we are still here,
                                                                                         for me so much of their
without our kids now, and our projects have grown
                                                                                         sadness and hope and
to include seven schools, three residential cam-
                                                                                         spirit. We are leaving a
puses and 70 students in a university scholarship
                                                                                         world worse off in their
program. All the work involves moving children
                                                                                         far more capable hearts
from difficult beginnings to becoming well edu-
                                                                                         and hands. I am impa-
cated, responsible members of society who can
                                                                                         tient for them to take
help themselves, their families and their commu-
nities.                                                                                  over our mess.

We love the work and are currently serving over
2,000 children and youth in our ten projects. Our
COVID-19 experience has been and continues to be
a bit crazy. On March 19, the President closed our
borders, issued a lock-down with a strict 5 PM to 6
                                                                                         Tim Parker is quarantining in his house with
am curfew, and closed all but essential businesses.
                                                                                         his giant dog Kush. Outside of work, Tim is
We locked our residential kids into their campuses
                                                                                         keeping busy with numerous organizations,
with their caregivers (without day staff) to keep
                                                                                         include Dartmouth’s Alumni Council. His heart,
them safe. With schools closed since March 13, we
                                                                                         however, is captured by New Salem Bap-
have done our best to get food and schoolwork to
                                                                                         tist Church, in Linden, Ohio. Serving as their
1,800 students who generally live in some type of
                                                                                         Treasurer, the church’s food pantry has been
shanty with no running water and one or two beds
                                                                                         working around the clock to meet demand and
for all (think about handwashing and distancing!)
                                                                                         predict increased strain on their resources.
Thanks to generous donors, (including some of
                                                                                         Serving over 200 people per week, the Bread
you), last week our staff distributed food pack-
                                                                                         of Life Food Pantry provides boxes of food and
ages to more than 1,200 families as most of the
                                                                                         other necessary household items to the line of
children’s households (80-90%) are without
                                                                                         cars in the church’s parking lot. Nearly 60%
work, savings, or other income. Some benefits of
                                                                                         of employed Linden residents work low-wage
COVID-19 for us are that we attended our first ever
                                                                                         service industry jobs, and 58% of neighborhood
Dartmouth mini-reunion (because it was virtual!),
                                                                                         residents are housing cost-burdened. Addition-
and we watched The Princess Bride for the first
                                                                                         ally, 38%+ of all households in Linden include
time in years (after the class vote!). And we have
                                                                                         children, who are typically fed at school. The
gone camping six Saturday nights in a row (in our
                                                                                         loss of income for many residents has exacer-
yard—or on our roof).                                                                    bated tenuous housing situations and height-
                                                                                         ened families’ food insecurity. Tim and his
                                                                                         church have remained faithful as they continue
                                                                                         to be a critical resource their community can
                                                                                         depend on.

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Empty Streets, Warm Houses

                                                                                                                                                   The Gannon House is filled to the brim with
                                                                                                                                                   extended family and accomplished chefs!
                                                                                                                                                   John’s video talents have been capturing the
                                                                                                                                                   activity in the kitchen. Covering all topics from
                                                                                                                                                   grinding coffee to cleaning the oven to rais-
                                                                                                                                                   ing worms, John shares all the secrets to their
                                                                                                                                                   success. Daughter Lela ’15, has gone through 50
                                                                                                                                                   pounds of flour, baking desserts, and bagels and
                                                                                                                                                   beautiful loaves of bread.

                                                                                                                                  Holly Taylor is finding ways to connect with
                                                                                                                                  without using technology. As walking out-
                                                                                                                                  doors has been the one thing we CAN do,
                                                                                                                                  Holly and her neighbors have creatively used
                                                                                                                                  the following ideas to revitalize the neigh-
                                                                                                                                  borhood walk. Consider sharing these ideas
                                                                                                                                  where you live!

                                                                                                                                  - Sidewalk Chalk Art
                                                                                                                                  - Neighborhood Snow Sculptures
                                                                                                 Amy Strasser Kistulinec:         - Make a Family Crest or Flag for your yard
                                                                                                 One of my daughters              - Make cardboard masks for whoever is in
                                                                                                 thought this would be fun        your home to put in the front window.
                                                                                                 -you know, bored at home         - Kindness Rocks: Decorate rocks to place
                                                                                                 during the pandemic. The         around the neighborhood
                                                                                                 pink is temporary lasts a        - Front Steps Project: take a photo of who
                                                                                                 few days!                        you are quarantining with.

                                                           Photos: Tom Remp, Dartmouth Library

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The loss of live theater                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      share
Thoughts from Heather McCutchen Kannam, Durham, CT                                                                                        From Munich, Germany, by Paul Churchill

Working in children’s theatre was a defining activity                my breathlessness watching James Monroe Iglehart                     We feel fortunate to live in a country               the time was used to build up intensive
for me as a kid and now I direct a nonprofit com-                    dance from the front row. So yes, I am sad about the                 that has handled the crisis well so far.             care capacity.
munity theatre of my own. We raced through one of                    canceled shows and unused tickets that I can’t bear                  It’s been about 100 days since the first
our most successful productions (The Lion King Jr,                   to toss. But what makes me ache is the young artists                 cases were detected (just outside Mu-                The initial economic measures were
with 120 elementary schoolers) in February and even                  I work with who message me daily pleading for sum-                   nich, in fact), but the rates are decreas-           targeted at smaller businesses, which
squeezed out a cast party before the world changed                   mer theatre camp, for the fellowship of the drama                    ing so the country is starting to open               helped keep supply chains open and
and everything stopped.                                              community, for the magic of the connection with a                    up again.                                            unemployment relatively low (it’s still
                                                                     live audience.                                                                                                            expected to rise to 6%). The lockdown
I have not yet lost anyone close to me in the pan-                                                                                        Probably because Italy is not far away,              was thankfully not as strict as in Italy
demic, and I do count my blessings daily, but I am                   My son attends a performing arts high school as a                    local politicians and health care ex-                or Spain, so I was able to go for daily
mourning the evaporation of live theatre.                            musical theatre student—now virtually. Will the-                     perts reacted quickly and decisively to              walks or bike rides—at least with fam-
                                                                     atre exist as a possible college major or career in his              prevent a similar situation here. Test-              ily members. We’re now keeping our
Creative artists have risen to the challenge admira-                 future? I’m watching through the window as he takes                  ing was ramped up quickly, scientists                fingers crossed that easing restrictions
bly, and there are incredible theatrical performances                his Zoom tap class out on our deck. And I wonder                     were given the floor (Merkel is herself a            won’t create a massive second wave,
to enjoy online, from archives of Broadway classics                  how different the world will be without performanc-                  scientist, which perhaps helped), there              because most importantly, beer gar-
to Zoom new play festivals. But none of it is live                   es, audiences, and the excitement of seeing some-                    was quick, non-partisan support for                  dens are set to open in a week and no
theatre. As an avid “Broadway Lottery” enterer, I can                thing created live.                                                  the initial economic packages, commu-                one wants to jeopardize that!
tell you that nothing pre-recorded can compare to                                                                                         nication was factual and frequent, and

   Forgiveness by Kavari Patel

   There’s something new about the world
   the day after it rains.                                   To see past editions of the Class Newsletter,
   It’s as if an artist                                      go to 1987.dartmouth.org/Newsletters.
   erased the whole palette,
   then redrew homes, the trees, the sky
   with bolder outlines, and brightened
   them with new paint
   more vibrant than the old colors.

   What if we were all artists
   washing away old images of ourselves
   with tears of forgiveness?
   What if you could see
   past outer appearances
   and your heart was
   your only canvas?
   Would you imbue it
   with the shades of your love,
   or tear it to pieces
   to equal
   your number of self judgments?
                                                                         Photo: Tom Remp, Dartmouth Library
   There’s something new about the world
   the day after it rains.                                   FOLLOW US ON SOCIAL MEDIA
   An artist erases the whole palette
   for the chance to begin again.

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the new normal

                                                                                                              Dartmouth ’87s Greatest Movie of All Time

                                                                                                                   Over 70 Classmates participated in
                                                                                                                   the March Madness Replacement
                                                                                                                   Tournament to name the Class of
                                                                                                                   1987 Greatest Movie of All Time.                                                       16
                                                                                                                                                                                                          16 Team Single Elimination
                                                                                                                                                                                                             Team Single Elimination
                                                                                                                                                                The Princess Bride                                                                                                                          Animal House
                                                                                                                   And the winner was:                                                    The Princess Bride (68%)                                                          Animal House (63%)

                                                                                                                   THE PRINCESS BRIDE!                           The Godfather II                                                                                                                        Monty Python's Holy Grail

                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Princess Bride                    Animal House

                                                                                                                   Buttercup put the screws to Don              The Sound of Music                                                                                                                       When Harry Met Sally

                                                                                                                   Corleone in the finals from a field of                                 Raiders of the Lost Ark (50%)                                                    When Harry Met Sally (63%)

                                                                                                                   87 movies. The top 16 were entered           Raiders of the Lost Ark                                                                                                                       Pulp Fiction

                                                                                                                   into a Bracket, and the voting com-                                                                            Princess Bride      Godfather

                                                                                                                   menced. Check out the final bracket              Casablanca                                                                                                                           It's A Wonderful Life

                                                                                                                   below for movie ideas.                                                    Casablanca (53%)                                                              It's A Wonderful Life (53%)

     The Chronic Shortage of Personal Protective Equipment (PPE): N95 masks, plastic shields, gog-                                                               The Wizard of Oz                                                                                                                        To Kill A Mockingbird

     gles, gloves, gowns--the country is constantly running out of PPE. People began sewing masks at               The request for the next survey was                                                                    Casablanca                         Godfather

     home, distillery companies pivoted to making hand-sanitizer, and New Balance switched to mak-                 Best 80’s Band of All Time. Start
                                                                                                                                                                  Blazing Saddles                                                                                                                           Rear Window

     ing medical masks. Even Dyson, the vacuum cleaner company, repurposed their plants to make                    thinking about your candidates!                                        Shawshank Redemption                             PRINCESS BRIDE                  The Godfather (62%)
                                                                                                                                                                                                 (63%)

     ventilators. (L to R: Dawn Kleinman, Alan Haig, and Beth Paap.)                                                                                            Shawshank Redemption
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Winner
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            The Godfather

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 PrintYourBrackets.com

From Steve Salem:
                                                                                                                                     the next generation
Here’s a pandemic thought. For anyone still wonder-     If you don’t want to wear pants, it’s your respon-    Zach Wilkins, (front right, in the “41” jersey,) son               to promote mental wellness support for healthcare
ing about masks, consider this: Imagine that every-     sibility to move away from other people so you        of Kevin and Ginny Wise Wilkins, is a high school                  providers. (https://www.remedyribbons.org/donate).
one is walking around naked. If someone walks past      don’t pee on them. They shouldn’t have to zig zag     junior at Lusher High School in New Orleans. (Ben-
you and pees on you, you’ll get pretty wet.             to avoid being peed on by you and all the others      jamin Wilkins ’24, is in the                                                                                                         Specifically, for each donation
                                                        not wearing pants. Same goes for masks. It’s really   grey shirt.) Zach felt frus-                                                                                                         received, ribbons are placed
•   If you wear pants but they are not, when they pee   quite simple!                                         trated as he watched the                                                                                                             around trees or community
    on you, your pants will block some                                                                        24/7 news reports about the                                                                                                          accessible areas that the donor
    of the pee, but you’ll still get wet.                          In a dense city like NYC, where so         pandemic’s rising morbid-                                                                                                            chooses. Having already raised
                                                                   many people normally walk or take          ity rates, and the toll it was                                                                                                       more than $8,000, they hope
•   If the other person is wearing pants                           subway, I would expect a notable up-       taking on healthcare work-                                                                                                           to reach $100,000 this sum-
    but you’re not, when they pee,                                 tick in cases, or at least a stopping of   ers. He thought that these                                                                                                           mer. But their goal is to not
    their pants will block most of it but                          any decline, as more and more people       courageous people needed to                                                                                                          only raise money for healthcare
    there’s still some chance some pee                             start to move around.                      be acknowledged, and their                                                                                                           providers’ mental wellness—
    will still wind up on you.                                                                                mental health needs ad-                                                                                                              they also want daily physical
                                                                   This weekend was sunny and in the          dressed. With help from fel-                                                                                                         reminders of thankfulness for
•   But if both of you wear pants,                                 upper 70s, and so many people walking      low students and his family,                                                                                                         the healthcare workers.
    hardly any pee at all will get on                              around without “pants” and not caring      Zachary created a nonprofit
    you.                                                           much how close they were getting to        organization, Remedy Rib-                                                                                                            As healthcare workers put their
                                                                   other people.                              bons.                                                                                                                                lives at risk to remedy society,
Now imagine that in this scenario, people are con-                                                                                                                                                                                                 their goal is to serve as a rem-
stantly peeing. Just like they are constantly breath-                                                         The initial program focuses                                                                                                          edy for them. Great job, Zach!
ing.                                                                                                          on raising money for a recov-                      Photo: Sarah Ravits | Gambit
                                                                                                              ery fund that will issue grants

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We’re Gonna Zoom. We’re Gonna Zoom, Zoom, Zoom...!

Face-to-Face Mini-Reunions for the 87th Night of the Year were replaced with Zoom Conferences. The first
one, in early April, had over 70 classmates on the call! This call, in May, was hosted by Brendan Connell,
who provided Movie Trivia questions. This screen shot was taken by John Street. Thanks to the Mini-Re-
union Committee for setting up these Zoom Conferences! Look for the next Re-Zoomion in June.

The Pandemic Newsletter June 2020
The Newsletter Team continues to grow with more contributors every year. This Pandemic Edition was a
team effort, starting with Betsy Rutherford and Julie Hubble as co-editors. Gregg Rippey provided design
support. Sarah McCraw Crow contributed and is our copy editor. John Gannon provided photographic sup-
port. Cover art is an original work by Meg Houston Maker, titled “Soon it’s going to rain” (2020). And a
whopping 36 classmates contributed photos or articles! We’d love to add your talents to the list! Please con-
tact us if you are interested in joining this team.

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