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 RIO GRANDE CATHOLIC
Vol. 30, No. 3                                        Celebrating 30 Years serving the Diocese of El Paso                                                           March 2021

Diocese of El Paso Lifts Restrictions to Allow Funeral Masses
By Fernie Ceniceros
Editor, Rio Grande Catholic

   In response to improving num-
bers of those infected with the
novel coronavirus in the El Paso
community, and an improvement
in the number of those hospi-
talized, the Diocese of El Paso
has implemented a lifting of the
restrictions for the celebration of
funeral masses and vigils with
safety protocols to include limits
to the number of participants
permitted.
   In collaboration with funeral
home directors, a set of pro-
tocols were developed to help
insure the safety of all who
participate while mourning the
death of a loved one during the
Vigil, Mass and Burial.
   The protocols include a limit
of 75 persons for the funeral
mass and of 25 persons for the
burial. Social distancing, a mask
mandate and capacity limitations
are already in place at funeral
homes for all funeral vigils. So-
cial distancing, mask mandates
and other protocols will be in
place at the church and cemetery.
   Bishop Mark Seitz expressed
his relief at being able to lift the
restrictions to the funeral mass.
   “It’s been a long and difficult
journey, and we’re so pleased
finally to be able to say to fam-
ilies who have lost loved ones
we will all join you in offering
the mass for your loved one and
will be able to be with you at
the vigil at the funeral home as
well,” Bishop Seitz said.
   Bishop Seitz lamented the fact
that funerals have not been avail-     The Diocese of El Paso has implemented a lifting of the restrictions for the celebration of funeral masses and vigils with safety protocols to
able during this time of pandem-       include limits to the number of participants permitted. Photo by Fernue Ceniceros.
ic over the last 10 months.
   “Our heart breaks for those
who have lost loved ones during

                                        La Diócesis Levanta Restricciones Para Permitir Misas De Funeral
the course of these last 10
months or so, that we have not
been able to celebrate funeral
masses,” he said.
   “What we have been saying           Por Fernie Ceniceros                los que participan en el duelo       tos de poder decir finalmente a      endo todo el tiempo es que nos
all along is that we would like        Editor, Rio Grande Catholic         por la muerte de un ser querido      las familias que han perdido a       gustaría reunirnos con ellos y
to gather with them and to offer                                           durante la Vigilia, la Misa y el     sus seres queridos que todos se      ofrecer una misa en memoria
a memorial mass for the loved             En respuesta a la mejora del     Entierro.                            unirán a ustedes para ofrecer        del ser querido”, añadió. “Así
one,when things improved,” he          número de infectados por el            Los protocolos incluyen un        la misa por su ser querido y         que ahora podría ser un buen
added. “So now might be a good         nuevo coronavirus en la comu-       límite de 75 personas para la        podrán estar con ustedes en la       momento para acercarse a las
time to be approaching parish-         nidad de El Paso, y a la mejora     misa funeral y de 25 personas        vigilia en la funeraria también”,    parroquias y tratar de pro-
es and trying to get something         del número de hospitalizados,       para el entierro. El distancia-      dijo el obispo Seitz.                gramar algo en el camino, para
scheduled down the road, so that       la Diócesis de El Paso ha           miento social, el mandato de            El obispo Seitz lamentó que       que se pueda ofrecer una misa
a mass can be offered with you         implementado un levantamien-        máscara y la limitación de aforo     no se hayan podido celebrar          con ustedes por su ser querido,
for your loved one even though         to de las restricciones para la     ya están en vigor en las funerar-    funerales durante este tiempo        aunque haya pasado algún tiem-
it might be sometime since their       celebración de misas y vigilias     ias para todas las vigilias fúne-    de pandemia en los últimos 10        po desde su entierro”, finalizó.
burial,” he ended.                     fúnebres con protocolos de          bres. El distanciamiento social,     meses.                                  La Diócesis de El Paso, junto
   The Diocese of El Paso along        seguridad para incluir límites      el mandato de máscara y otros           “Nuestro corazón se rompe         con las funerarias de El Paso,
with El Paso Funeral Homes are         al número de participantes          protocolos estarán en vigor en       por aquellos que han perdido a       están animando a las personas
encouraging those in high risk         permitidos.                         la iglesia y el cementerio.          sus seres queridos en el trans-      de alto riesgo y a los ancianos a
populations and the elderly to            En colaboración con los             El obispo Mark Seitz expresó      curso de estos últimos 10 meses      que vean la misa desde casa, ya
watch from home as live streams        directores de las funerarias,       su alivio al poder levantar las      más o menos, que no hemos            que la parroquia o la funerar-
will be made available by either       se desarrolló un conjunto de        restricciones a la misa fúnebre.     podido celebrar sus misas fúne-      ia ofrecerán transmisiones en
the parish or the funeral home.        protocolos para ayudar a ga-           “Ha sido un viaje largo y         bres”, dijo.                         directo.
                                       rantizar la seguridad de todos      difícil, y estamos muy conten-          “Lo que hemos estado dici-
RIO GRANDE CATHOLIC Diocese of El Paso Lifts Restrictions to Allow Funeral Masses
2 - The Rio Grande Catholic                                                      Editor’s Column                                                                       March 2021

  Editor’s Note / Nota del Editor
             Hello Faithful reader. In 2021, we      contributor. This month I am pleased          Hola, fiel lector. En 2021,            usted como editor y colaborador de
           are celebrating our 30th anniversary      to welcome back Elizabeth O’Hara,          estamos celebrando nuestro 30º            este periódico. Este mes me com-
           and as we move into our 30th faith-       Editor of the Rio Grande from 2014-        aniversario y al entrar en nues-          place dar la bienvenida a Elizabeth
           ful year, I have invited your former      2016. Thank you Elizabeth for your         tro 30º año fiel, he invitado a sus       O’Hara, editora de Rio Grande de
           editors and contributors to the Rio       faithful service to the people of our      antiguos editores y colaboradores         2014 a 2016. Gracias Elizabeth por
           Grande Catholic, to join us to give       diocese.                                   del Rio Grande Catholic, para que         su fiel servicio a la gente de nuestra
           an insight into their time serving           -Fernie Ceniceros, Editor               se unan a nosotros para dar una           diócesis.
           you as this newspaper’s editor and                                                   visión de su tiempo sirviendo a             -Fernie Ceniceros Editor

EDITOR’S COLUMN - ELIZABETH O’HARA

                                 Give Up Facebook For Lent?
I
     really wanted to give up                                                how many years of writing and         year.” It may have been the big-      It was truly an honor.
     Facebook for Lent, but I                                                journalism experience you might       gest understatement Bishop Seitz         Late that afternoon, the
     think I’m addicted to the                                               have.                                 ever spoke.                           pope’s motorcade went back to
“memories” tab. I literally wake                                                It was one day in December            Being the editor of the RGC        the Juarez airport and he flew
up, roll over, fire up my phone                                              2015 that the bishop came to see      was just one aspect of the job.       safely away. We could collec-
and go to Memories first. There                                              me in the office. “I have some-       There was me and one other            tively breathe a sigh of relief that
are photos of my children from                                               thing to tell you,” he said. Bishop   person who worked in our office.      all the events had gone off as
a few years ago (when did                                                    Seitz told me that he’d gotten        Soon, we would receive so             planned. I was on the dirt mound
they get so tall?!) and things                                               official word from the Juarez         many calls from media around          as a low-flying helicopter swept
our family did before my Dad                                                 diocese – Pope Francis was            the world that we required an         the area, kicking up dirt as the
died. And then there’s just cool        Elizabeth O’Hara                     coming to Mexico and more im-         extra phone line. The voicemail       horseback Border Patrol agents
events that happened because                                                 portantly, he would be in Juarez.     filled up within a day and a half.    rode past us, making sure that the
of work. A few weeks ago, my          had asked me then if I considered      We would have about 9 weeks           According to Facebook, I was          crowds were headed back to their
memories were of Popepalooza          myself “religious,” I would’ve         to prepare for a cross-border,        averaging 30 emails an hour at        cars. I no longer felt distanced
as we called it in the Rio Grande     waivered. My relationship with         never-before-done-event. When         the height of the excitement. And     from my faith. I don’t know if
Catholic office. It was one of the    the church felt distanced and          you work for the bishop, you          on the day Pope Francis arrived       it was the papal visit or the job
highlights of my time working at      maybe even a little cold. But I        may want to say, “ARE YOU             at our beautiful border, I was        itself, working at the diocese,
the diocese.                          was someone who still said my          CRAZY?” but that’s frowned            staged at the in-between area         that brought me back to where
   At the time I was the editor of    prayers, still was drawn to the        upon. I think I said something        along the international fence line.   I wanted to be. It was a few
the diocesan newspaper, I was         rosary, in my own way observ-          like, “Philadelphia had a year        Our bishop was in Juarez and I        months later that I left my job as
simultaneously the media rela-        ing things of importance to The        and a half to get ready.” (Pope       was on the dirt mound with the        the editor, but I’ve always had a
tions contact. I was coming off       Church. Working at the Diocese         Francis had been in Philly for        migrants and disenfranchised          soft spot for Bishop Seitz and so
a long TV career here in El Paso      and in fact, having Bishop Mark        the World Meeting of families,        on that warm February day. My         many others who worked there.
and with three young children,        Seitz as my immediate super-           another great adventure members       job was to take in the scenes –       I wish I had taken more photos
including one we had recently         visor didn’t leave much space          of the El Paso delegation made        the words, the expressions, the       and written more funny stories
adopted from China, I needed          for waivering. You can’t fake          for my Facebook thread.) “We’re       sniffling of those so moved by        about them – they would’ve
something that was equally ful-       interest when you’re the editor of     going to announce on el Dia de        Pope Francis’ blessing they were      made great Facebook memories.
filling but 24/7. I also felt drawn   the Rio Grande Catholic, there’s       la virgen,” he said. “And then it     crying – I was there to record it
to be back at The Church. If you      no way to pull that off no matter      will be a very busy start to the      all for the Rio Grande Catholic.

             Dejar a Facebook Para La Cuaresma?
R
        ealmente quería dejar                                                                                                                            internacional. Nuestro obispo
        Facebook por la Cuares-                                                                                                                          estaba en Juárez y yo estaba en
        ma, pero creo que soy                                                                                                                            el montículo de tierra con los
adicta a la pestaña “recuerdos”.                                                                                                                         migrantes y los privados de dere-
Literalmente me despierto, me                                                                                                                            chos en ese cálido día de febrero.
doy la vuelta, enciendo el teléfo-                                                                                                                       Mi trabajo consistía en captar
no y voy primero a Recuerdos.                                                                                                                            las escenas -las palabras, las ex-
Hay fotos de mis hijos de hace                                                                                                                           presiones, los mocos de aquellos
unos años (¿cuándo han crecido                                                                                                                           que estaban tan conmovidos por
tanto?) y cosas que hacía nuestra                                                                                                                        la bendición del Papa Francisco
familia antes de que muriera                                                                                                                             que estaban llorando- estaba allí
mi padre. Y luego hay eventos                                                                                                                            para grabarlo todo para el Rio
geniales que sucedieron por el                                                                                                                           Grande Catholic. Fue un ver-
trabajo. Hace unas semanas, mis                                                                                                                          dadero honor.
recuerdos fueron del Popepaloo-                                                                                                                             A última hora de la tarde, la
za, como lo llamábamos en la                                                                                                                             caravana del Papa regresó al
oficina de Rio Grande Catho-                                                                                                                             aeropuerto de Juárez y voló sin
lic. Fue uno de los momentos                                                                                                                             problemas. Pudimos respirar
culminantes de mi trabajo en la                                                                                                                          colectivamente de alivio al ver
diócesis.                                                                                                                                                que todos los eventos se habían
   En esa época yo era el editor                                                                                                                         desarrollado según lo previsto.
del periódico diocesano, y al                                                                                                                            Yo estaba en el montículo de
mismo tiempo era el contacto de                                                                                                                          tierra mientras un helicóptero
relaciones con los medios de co-                                                                                                                         que volaba bajo barría la zona,
municación. Salía de una larga        sia. Trabajar en la diócesis y, de     Tendríamos unas 9 semanas             mayor subestimación que haya          levantando tierra mientras los
carrera en la televisión aquí en El   hecho, tener al obispo Mark Seitz      para prepararnos para un evento       dicho el obispo Seitz.                agentes de la Patrulla Fronteriza
Paso y con tres hijos pequeños,       como mi supervisor inmediato no        transfronterizo nunca antes             Ser el editor de la RGC era         a caballo pasaban por delante
entre ellos uno que habíamos          dejaba mucho espacio para vaci-        realizado. Cuando trabajas para       sólo un aspecto del trabajo.          de nosotros, asegurándose de
adoptado recientemente de Chi-        lar. No se puede fingir el interés     el obispo, es posible que quieras     Estábamos yo y otra persona           que las multitudes volvían a sus
na, necesitaba algo que fuera ig-     cuando se es el editor del Rio         decir “¿estás loco?”, pero eso        que trabajaba en nuestra oficina.     coches. Ya no me sentía alejado
ual de satisfactorio pero que ex-     Grande Catholic, no hay manera         está mal visto. Creo que dije         Pronto recibimos tantas llamadas      de mi fe. No sé si fue la visita
igiera 24 horas al día. También       de lograrlo sin importar cuántos       algo así como: “Filadelfia tuvo       de los medios de comunicación         papal o el propio trabajo en la
me sentía atraído por volver a la     años de experiencia en escritura       un año y medio para prepararse”.      de todo el mundo que necesitába-      diócesis lo que me devolvió a
Iglesia. Si me hubieran pregun-       y periodismo se tengan.                (El Papa Francisco había estado       mos una línea telefónica adicio-      donde quería estar. Unos meses
tado entonces si me consideraba          Fue un día de diciembre de          en Filadelfia para el Encuentro       nal. El buzón de voz se llenaba       más tarde dejé mi trabajo como
“religiosa”, habría dudado. Mi        2015 cuando el obispo vino a           Mundial de las familias, otra         en un día y medio. Según              editor, pero siempre he sentido
relación con la iglesia se sentía     verme a la oficina. “Tengo algo        gran aventura que hicieron los        Facebook, tenía una media de          debilidad por el obispo Seitz y
distanciada y quizás incluso un       que decirte”, me dijo. El obispo       miembros de la delegación de El       30 correos electrónicos por hora      por tantos otros que trabajaban
poco fría. Pero era una persona       Seitz me dijo que había recibido       Paso para mi hilo de Facebook).       en el momento más álgido. Y el        allí. Me gustaría haber tomado
que seguía rezando, que seguía        la noticia oficial de la diócesis de   “Vamos a anunciar en el Día           día que el Papa Francisco llegó       más fotos y haber escrito más
sintiéndose atraída por el rosario    Juárez: el Papa Francisco ven-         de la virgen”, dijo. “Y entonces      a nuestra hermosa frontera, yo        historias divertidas sobre ellos;
y que, a mi manera, observaba         dría a México y, lo que es más         será un comienzo de año muy           estaba en la zona intermedia a        habrían sido grandes recuerdos
las cosas importantes de la Igle-     importante, estaría en Juárez.         movido”. Puede que haya sido la       lo largo de la línea de la valla      en Facebook.
RIO GRANDE CATHOLIC Diocese of El Paso Lifts Restrictions to Allow Funeral Masses
The Rio Grande Catholic                                                           Bishop’s Column                                                                  March 2021 - 3
INSEITZ INTO THE FAITH

                       You Cannot Feast Without the Fast
“F
            or everything there       a time for fasting. Remember            taken what we have had for
            is a season, and a        the passage, “Then [the Phar-           granted without a spirit of joy
            time for every matter     isees and their scribes] said to        and thanksgiving. We searched
under heaven.” (Eccl. 3:1) So         him, ‘John’s disciples, like the        for some kind of experience
begins the beautiful and wise         disciples of the Pharisees, fre-        that would delight and thrill us
poetry from the Old Testament         quently fast and pray, but your         and since it was not to be found
book of Ecclesiastes. Our lives       disciples eat and drink.’ Jesus         in the ordinary joys of life, nor
are marked by patterns and            said to them, ‘You cannot make          in the promise of God’s future
cycles. There are times for birth     wedding guests fast while the           kingdom, we looked for it in
and for dying, for winter and         bridegroom is with them, can            illicit pleasures such as sex and
for spring, times of joy and of       you?’ The days will come when           drugs, in other risky or immoral
sorrow. In his book, In Tune          the bridegroom will be taken            behaviors and in sheer wasteful                       Bishop Mark J. Seitz
with the World: A Theory of           away from them, and then they           extravagance. Perhaps in this
Festivity, Joseph Pieper suggests     will fast in those days.” (Lk.          sense, the unwelcome Pandemic         participation in Christ’s cross      find the simple blessings of God
that these cycles are absolutely      5:33-35)                                that continues to afflict us may      as it is manifested in our life.     in life bring you new pleasure.
necessary for our lives. Spring          Pieper’s observation is that         be a situation God can use to         Decide on some practices that        You will rejoice in your freedom
would not be spring without           one of the major problems we            help us come to a more balanced       bring to the forefront your love     to live without the burden of so
the winter that precedes it. Our      have in our society today is the        perspective on this passing           and service of God. Reflect on       many excesses that appeared
‘good times’ would not be truly       loss of fundamental patterns that       world of ours.                        your sins and confess them. Set      to be necessities. The Paschal
good if they did not have ‘hard       help us discover the meaning               For this reason also, the Sea-     aside some of the luxuries that      Mystery of Jesus’ Passion,
times’ to provide the contrast. If    of life. We, and particularly our       son of Lent has great importance      have you in their spell, so that     Death and Resurrection, which
we were continually eating we         children, have tended to have           for us. Although the Season is        you can have more time and           we will soon have the privilege
would never appreciate a long         memories only of plenty. We             well underway it is still not too     treasure at your disposal for the    to celebrate, will be revealed for
awaited meal.                         have always had practically             late for you and your family to       sake of the poor. Fast.              you as the pattern that gives all
  Jesus told his listeners that       whatever we wanted and so we            let it be fruitful. The penances         Then you will have space to       life its meaning and leads to a
just as there was a time for          have not had a sense of longing         we choose to undertake repre-         rediscover the One who alone         life that will never end.
celebrating, so there would be        for what God offers. We have            sent a voluntary acceptance and       can fill your longings. You will                        Bp. Mark

                No Se Puede Festejar Sin Estar En Ayunas
“P
             ara todo hay una         comiendo, nunca apreciaríamos           nos ayudan a descubrir el sentido     sigue afligiendo puede ser una       de más tiempo y tesoros en favor
             época, y un tiempo       una comida tan esperada.                de la vida. Nosotros, y espe-         situación que Dios puede utilizar    de los pobres. Ayuna.
             para cada cosa bajo el      Jesús dijo a sus oyentes que así     cialmente nuestros hijos, hemos       para ayudarnos a tener una per-         Entonces tendrás espacio para
cielo”. (Ecl. 3:1) Así comienza       como había un tiempo para cel-          tendido a tener recuerdos sólo de     spectiva más equilibrada de este     redescubrir a Aquel que es el
la hermosa y sabia poesía del         ebrar, también habría un tiempo         la abundancia. Siempre hemos          mundo nuestro que pasa.              único que puede colmar tus anhe-
libro del Eclesiastés del Antiguo     para ayunar. Recuerda el pasaje:        tenido prácticamente todo lo que         También por esta razón, el        los. Descubrirás que las sencillas
Testamento. Nuestras vidas están      “Entonces [los fariseos y sus es-       queríamos y por eso no hemos          tiempo de Cuaresma tiene una         bendiciones de Dios en la vida
marcadas por patrones y ciclos.       cribas] le dijeron: ‘Los discípulos     tenido el sentido de anhelar lo       gran importancia para nosotros.      te aportan un nuevo placer. Te
Hay tiempos para nacer y para         de Juan, como los de los fariseos,      que Dios ofrece. Hemos dado por       Aunque el tiempo de Cuaresma         alegrarás de tu libertad para vivir
morir, para el invierno y para la     ayunan y oran con frecuencia,           sentado lo que hemos tenido sin       ya está en marcha, todavía no es     sin la carga de tantos excesos que
primavera, tiempos de alegría y       pero tus discípulos comen y             un espíritu de alegría y agradec-     demasiado tarde para que tú y tu     parecían ser necesidades. El Mis-
de tristeza. En su libro In Tune      beben’. Jesús les dijo: “No podéis      imiento. Hemos buscado algún          familia lo hagáis fructífero. Las    terio Pascual de la Pasión, Muerte
with the World: A Theory of Fes-      hacer que los invitados a las bo-       tipo de experiencia que nos           penitencias que elegimos empren-     y Resurrección de Jesús, que
tivity, Joseph Pieper sugiere que     das ayunen mientras el novio está       deleitara y emocionara y, como        der representan una aceptación       pronto tendremos el privilegio de
estos ciclos son absolutamente        con ellos, ¿verdad? Vendrán días        no se encontraba en las alegrías      y participación voluntaria en la     celebrar, se revelará para ti como
necesarios para nuestras vidas.       en que el novio les será quitado, y     ordinarias de la vida, ni en la       cruz de Cristo que se manifiesta     la pauta que da sentido a toda la
La primavera no sería primavera       entonces ayunarán en esos días”.        promesa del futuro reino de Dios,     en nuestra vida. Decide algunas      vida y conduce a una vida que no
sin el invierno que la precede.       (Lc. 5:33-35)                           la hemos buscado en placeres          prácticas que pongan en primer       tendrá fin.
Nuestros “buenos tiempos” no             La observación de Pieper es          ilícitos como el sexo y las drogas,   plano tu amor y servicio a Dios.
serían realmente buenos si no         que uno de los principales prob-        en otros comportamientos arries-      Reflexiona sobre tus pecados           Bp. Mark
tuvieran “tiempos difíciles” que      lemas que tenemos en nuestra            gados o inmorales y en el puro        y confiésalos. Deja a un lado
nos proporcionen el contraste.        sociedad actual es la pérdida de        derroche. Tal vez en este sentido,    algunos de los lujos que te tienen
Si estuviéramos continuamente         los patrones fundamentales que          la inoportuna pandemia que nos        hechizado, para poder disponer

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4 - The Rio Grande Catholic                                                  Diocesan News                                                                                   March 2021

 Cathedral High School AP Passes Away Due To Covid-19
By Fernie Ceniceros
Editor, Rio Grande Catholic

   Cathedral High School
announced the passing of Mr.
Gerardo “Gerald” Gamez, 55,
Assistant Principal of Cathedral
High School on February 6. Mr.
Gamez passed from complica-
tions due to the novel Corona-
virus.
   A 27-year veteran of Public
Schools in the El Paso Com-
munity and current assistant
principal of Cathedral, Gamez
was diagnosed with COVID-19
while on bereavement leave in
early January. It is believed that
Mr. Gamez contracted the virus
while on leave from Cathedral
High School.
   “We are in absolute shock at
the loss to our Cathedral High
School community,” Mr. Adolfo
Sanchez, Principal of Cathedral
High School said. “Mr. Gamez         Cathedral High School announced the passing of Mr. Gerardo “Gerald” Gamez, 55, Assistant Principal of Cathedral High School on February
was beloved member, not only of      6. Mr. Gamez passed from complications due to the novel Coronavirus. Photo provided by Cathedral High School
our Cathedral community, but of
the greater educational commu-
nity in El Paso,” he added.
   Principal Sanchez expressed         “He is what the definition of     very devout Catholic and had             retired from the Ysleta Indepen-          a counselor in San Elizario ISD,
his admiration of Mr. Gamez’s        what a nice guy is,” Sanchez        immense faith in the Catholic            dent School District where he             El Paso ISD and at Hanks High
love for his students and his        said. “He loved being an active     Church.”                                 served as an Assistant Principal          School in Ysleta ISD.
overall demeanor which made          participant in the success of our     Prior to Mr. Gamez’s two               at Del Valle and Eastwood High              Gamez is survived by his wife,
him a beloved member of the          student’s educational experi-       years as Cathedral High School’s         School. Previous to his role as           three children and one grand-
Cathedral Community.                 ence,” he added. “He was a          Assistant Principal, Mr. Gamez           Assistant Principal he served as          child.

 Fallece El AP De La Escuela Secundaria Catedral A Causa Del Covid-19
Por Fernie Ceniceros                 dad de El Paso y actual subdi-      chez, director de Cathedral High            “Él es la definición de lo que         del Distrito Escolar Indepen-
Editor, Rio Grande Catholic          rector de Cathedral, Gamez fue      School. “El Sr. Gámez era un             es un buen tipo”, dijo Sánchez.           diente de Ysleta donde sirvió
                                     diagnosticado con COVID-19          miembro muy querido, no sólo             “Le encantaba ser un partici-             como Asistente del Director
  Cathedral High School              mientras estaba de licencia por     de nuestra comunidad de la Cat-          pante activo en el éxito de la            en la Preparatoria Del Valle y
anunció el fallecimiento del Sr.     duelo a principios de enero. Se     edral, sino de la gran comunidad         experiencia educativa de nues-            Eastwood. Antes de su papel
Gerardo “Gerald” Gamez, de 55        cree que el Sr. Gámez contra-       educativa de El Paso”, añadió.           tros estudiantes”, añadió. “Era           como Asistente del Director,
años, subdirector de Cathedral       jo el virus mientras estaba de        El director Sánchez expresó            un católico muy devoto y tenía            sirvió como consejero en San
High School el 6 de febrero. El      licencia en la escuela secundaria   su admiración por el amor del            una inmensa fe en la Iglesia              Elizario ISD, El Paso ISD y en
Sr. Gámez falleció por com-          Cathedral.                          Sr. Gámez por sus estudiantes            Católica”.                                la Escuela Secundaria Hanks en
plicaciones debidas al nuevo            “Estamos en absoluta conmo-      y su comportamiento general                 Antes de los dos años del              Ysleta ISD.
Coronavirus.                         ción por la pérdida para nuestra    que lo convirtió en un miembro           Sr. Gámez como Asistente del                 A Gámez le sobreviven su
  Veterano de 27 años en las         comunidad de Cathedral High         querido de la comunidad de la            Director de la Preparatoria               esposa, tres hijos y un nieto.
escuelas públicas de la comuni-      School”, dijo el Sr. Adolfo Sán-    Catedral.                                Catedral, el Sr. Gámez se retiró

                                                                                                       Diocese offers assistance for victims of sexual abuse
                                                                            Bishop Mark J. Seitz invites anyone who has been a victim of sexual abuse by a priest, deacon, religious, or any
                                                                            minister of the church, to contact the Victim’s Assitance Coordinator, Mrs. Susan Martinez LCSW, at (915)
                                                                            872-8465 or the Office of the Chancery, (915) 872-8407. The Church desires the healing of anyone that has been
                                                                            harmed.
                                                                                                 La diócesis ofrece asistencia a las víctimas de abusos sexuales
                                                                            El Obispo Mark J. Seitz invita a cualquier persona que haya sido víctima de abuso sexual por parte de un
                                                                            sacerdote, diácono, religioso o cualquier ministro de la iglesia, a contactar a la Coordinadora de Asistencia a las
                                                                            Víctimas, la Sra. Susan Martínez LCSW, al (915) 872-8465 o a la Oficina de la Cancillería, (915) 872-8407. La

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, FATHER!                                                     Iglesia desea la curación de cualquiera que haya sido dañado.

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RIO GRANDE CATHOLIC Diocese of El Paso Lifts Restrictions to Allow Funeral Masses
The Rio Grande Catholic                                                        Diocesan News                                                                  March 2021 - 5

 Casa Guadalupe Retreat House Gets Creative To Raise Money
By Sofia Larkin                                                                                                                                     the one who taught you to pray.
Major Gifts Officer                                                                                                                                    Future plans include facilities
                                                                                                                                                    for youth and other types of
   Mark your calendar! This is                                                                                                                      retreats. Casa Guadalupe will
a unique opportunity to bid on                                                                                                                      need the support of many part-
mini masterpieces created by                                                                                                                        ners and volunteers, construction
Bishop Mark (with a little help                                                                                                                     experts and materials, electri-
from his friend, Hal Marcus) and                                                                                                                    cians, plumbers, engineers, paint-
beloved priests in the Diocese of                                                                                                                   ers, artists architects, interior
El Paso during a special online                                                                                                                     designers, landscapers and more.
auction from Friday, March 12 at                                                                                                                       Casa Guadalupe retreat house
12 noon through Sunday, March                                                                                                                       offers retreats, workshops, and
14 at 8pm.                                                                                                                                          conferences to help guide people
   Casa Guadalupe Retreat House                                                                                                                     in their spiritual journey. The
was two weeks away from                                                                                                                             purchase of the retreat house,
launching the development of                                                                                                                        formerly known as Holy Trinity,
a plaza and prayer space when                                                                                                                       is an historic moment for the di-
the pandemic hit. Retreat House                                                                                                                     ocese, which will now be able to
Director Dr. Verónica Rayas                                                                                                                         offer a variety of exciting retreats
thought about what she could                                                                                                                        and programs for the various par-
do to inspire fundraising while                                                                                                                     ishes and groups in the Diocese
giving our pastors a creative                                                                                                                       of El Paso. New possibilities
outlet during quarantine. She                                                                                                                       for the retreat house, including
purchased beautiful Mexican                                                                                                                         spiritual programs, upgrading
statuettes and prayed she could                                                                                                                     of facilities, and future new
find a few priests to paint them.    Bishop Mark Seitz (with a little help from his friend, Hal Marcus) and beloved priests in the Diocese of El    facilities, are being created. Casa
She was overwhelmed with the         Paso, painted Mexican Statuetes for the Casa Guadalupana Auction. Photo Couresy Bishop Seitz.                  Guadalupe retreat house opened
positive response. Bishop Mark                                                                                                                      May 2018. Casa Guadalupe
and a number of pastors went to                                                                                                                     Retreat House welcomes gifts of
work on their mini masterpieces,                                                                                                                    monetary donations, supplies and
including lovingly naming and        Bidding instructions will be         is over to confirm a delivery       to put a name on a Talavera tile      volunteer time.
signing each one, and now you        provided prior to the event. The     schedule. Casa Guadalupe has        which will be part of the prayer         To donate or for more infor-
get the chance to take one (or       bidding will start at $75 each       a goal of raising $24,000 to        garden area. In addition, you can     mation, please contact Verónica
more!) home with you.                and go up in increments of $20.      develop the Casa Guadalupe          dedicate a planter, the bell tower    Rayas at 915.342.7859 or visit
   Visit casaguadaluperetreat-       You have through Sunday, March       Plaza and Prayer Garden. There      or the prayer wall in honor or        casaguadaluperetreathouse.com.
house.com and start bidding on       14 at 8pm to bid. Winners will       are also naming opportunities.      memory of a loved one, the per-
Friday, March 12 at 12 noon.         be contacted when the auction        With a $100 donation, you get       son who taught you the faith, and

  Casa Guadalupe Se Pone Creativa Para Recaudar Fondos
By Sofia Larkin                                                                                               mediodía. Las instrucciones para      electricistas, fontaneros, inge-
Major Gifts Officer                                                                                           pujar se proporcionarán antes del     nieros, pintores, artistas arqui-
                                                                                                              evento. La puja comenzará en 75       tectos, diseñadores de interiores,
   ¡Marque su calendario! Esta es                                                                             dólares cada una y subirá en in-      paisajistas y más.
una oportunidad única para pujar                                                                              crementos de 20 dólares. Tienes          La casa de retiros Casa Gua-
por mini obras maestras creadas                                                                               hasta el domingo 14 de marzo a        dalupe ofrece retiros, talleres y
por el Obispo Mark (con un poco                                                                               las 20:00 horas para pujar. Los       conferencias para ayudar a guiar
de ayuda de su amigo, Hal Mar-                                                                                ganadores serán contactados           a la gente en su viaje espiritual.
cus) y queridos sacerdotes de la                                                                              cuando la subasta termine para        La compra de la casa de retiros,
Diócesis de El Paso durante una                                                                               confirmar el horario de entre-        antes conocida como Holy
subasta especial en línea desde el                                                                            ga. La Casa Guadalupe tiene la        Trinity, es un momento histórico
viernes 12 de marzo a las 12 del                                                                              meta de recaudar $24,000 para         para la diócesis, que ahora podrá
mediodía hasta el domingo 14 de                                                                               desarrollar la Plaza y el Jardín de   ofrecer una variedad de emocio-
marzo a las 8pm.                                                                                              Oración de la Casa Guadalupe.         nantes retiros y programas para
   La Casa de Retiros Casa                                                                                    También hay oportunidades para        las diversas parroquias y grupos
Guadalupe estaba a dos sema-                                                                                  ponerle nombre. Con un donati-        de la Diócesis de El Paso. Se es-
nas de lanzar el desarrollo de                                                                                vo de 100 dólares, puedes poner       tán creando nuevas posibilidades
una plaza y espacio de oración                                                                                un nombre en un azulejo de Ta-        para la casa de retiros, incluyen-
cuando la pandemia golpeó. La                                                                                 lavera que formará parte del área     do programas espirituales, mejo-
directora de la Casa de Retiros,                                                                              del jardín de oración. Además,        ra de las instalaciones y futuras
la Dra. Verónica Rayas, pensó en                                                                              puedes dedicar una jardinera, el      nuevas instalaciones. La casa
lo que podía hacer para inspirar                                                                              campanario o el muro de oración       de retiros Casa Guadalupe abrió
la recaudación de fondos y al        El Padre José Morales y otros sacerdotes de la Diócesis de El Paso,      en honor o en memoria de un           sus puertas en mayo de 2018. La
mismo tiempo dar a nuestros          pintaron estatuillas mexicanas para la subasta de la Casa Guadalupana.   ser querido, de la persona que te     casa de retiros Casa Guadalupe
pastores una salida creativa         Photo Coretsia de El Padre Morales                                       enseñó la fe y de la que te enseñó    agradece los donativos monetari-
durante la cuarentena. Compró                                                                                 a rezar.                              os, los suministros y el tiempo de
hermosas estatuillas mexicanas                                                                                   Los planes futuros incluyen        los voluntarios.
y rezó para encontrar algunos                                                                                 instalaciones para jóvenes y otros       Para donar o para más infor-
sacerdotes que las pintaran. Se      sus mini obras maestras, incluy-     más) a casa.                        tipos de retiros. Casa Guadalupe      mación, por favor contacte a
sintió abrumada por la respuesta     endo el nombre y la firma de           Visita casaguadaluperetreat-      necesitará el apoyo de muchos         Verónica Rayas al 915.342.7859
positiva. El obispo Mark y varios    cada una de ellas, y ahora tienes    house.com y empieza a pujar el      socios y voluntarios, expertos        o visite casaguadaluperetreat-
párrocos se pusieron a trabajar en   la oportunidad de llevarte una (o    viernes 12 de marzo a las 12 del    en construcción y materiales,         house.com.
RIO GRANDE CATHOLIC Diocese of El Paso Lifts Restrictions to Allow Funeral Masses
6 - The Rio Grande Catholic                                 Diocesan Migrant and Refuge Services                                                                March 2021

                  ICE Deports Survivor Of Walmart Shooting
By Sandra Ramirez                                                                                                                                believed had been resolved. Rosa
Communications Director, DMRS                                                                                                                    also had an existing deporta-
                                                                                                                                                 tion order from 2019. Rosa was
   August 3, 2019 is a day that                                                                                                                  arrested and taken to the El Paso
changed the lives of many El                                                                                                                     County Detention Center.
Pasoans and fronterizos in our                                                                                                                      Only two days later, Rosa was
community. It was the day a                                                                                                                      released from jail, and imme-
person from outside of our com-                                                                                                                  diately taken into custody by
munity drove hundreds of miles                                                                                                                   Immigration and Customs En-
with the specific intention of                                                                                                                   forcement (ICE). Rosa explained
killing our friends and neighbors.                                                                                                               that she was a survivor of the
Today, we still mourn 23 people                                                                                                                  Walmart shooting and was coop-
who died as a result of his hatred.                                                                                                              erating as a witness. ICE agents
We also thank God for those who                                                                                                                  decided to deport her anyway.
survived, and pray that He is                                                                                                                       “Rosa is a survivor of one
with them as they live with the                                                                                                                  of the most horrific events to
trauma of what they witnessed                                                                                                                    ever take place in El Paso. The
that day. One of those witnesses                                                                                                                 decision to deport her amounts to
and survivors is a woman named                                                                                                                   a re-victimization of this young
Rosa.                                                                                                                                            lady, who only came forward to
   Rosa was born in Ciudad                                                                                                                       help build the case against the
Juarez and moved to El Paso                                                                                                                      shooter in the racist attack,” said
when she was 14 years old. She                                                                                                                   Hey.
made friends in El Paso, graduat-                                                                                                                   Rosa remains in Juarez.
ed from high school, and worked                                                                                                                  Diocesan Migrant and Refugee
in El Paso. It was her dream to                                                                                                                  Services is advocating for Rosa’s
go to college, but accepted that                                                                                                                 return to El Paso. Despite her ex-
it was not a possibility for her                                                                                                                 perience, Rosa remains prepared
because she was undocumented.                                                                                                                    to testify against the person who
   On August 3, a trip to the          lives with every day. Following   Hey accompanied Rosa to speak       in the process of collecting the    attacked our community.
Walmart grocery store changed          the shooting, Rosa watched news   with the El Paso Police Depart-     additional documents needed for        “I want to help even though
Rosa’s life forever.                   coverage and heard that police    ment, the FBI and Homeland          the application, but the process    everything happened. I want to
   “My sister was driving up to        were looking for witnesses to     Security Investigators about what   was delayed when many govern-       help with what I saw. I want to
the Walmart and when we saw            come forward.                     she witnessed.                      ment offices closed to the public   help my community because it is
what was happening she went               “When you are illegal, you       As a survivor of the Walmart      due to the coronavirus pandemic.    my community, too,” she said.
into shock. Her children were          don’t want to talk. You do not    shooting, Rosa is eligible for a      On the evening of January 27,        You can find more information
shouting, ‘Mom, let’s go! Mom,         want to be seen, but something    U visa. The application re-         2021 Rosa was driving home          about how to help Rosa at www.
let’s go!’ My sister finally reacted   was telling me, you need to go    quires a certification to prove     from work when she was pulled       dmrs-ep.org.
and we left. We didn’t stay be-        and tell what you saw,” said      the applicant has been helpful      over for a broken brake light.         If you or someone you know
cause we were scared to stay and       Rosa.                             with an investigation. The El       The officer advised Rosa she        needs help with their immigra-
be killed,” recalled Rosa.                Rosa is represented by Anna    Paso County District Attorney’s     had unpaid traffic citations from   tion case, please contact our
   Rosa and her family were able       Hey, Supervisor of the Crime      Office provided the certification   2015. Rosa explained that she       office to schedule a consultation.
to get away uninjured. However,        Victims Unit at Diocesan Mi-      in September 2020, more than a      had agreed to a payment plan to     You could be eligible for free le-
the trauma is still something she      grant and Refugee Services. Ms.   year after the shooting. Rosa was   those citations in the past, she    gal services. Call 915-532-3975.
RIO GRANDE CATHOLIC Diocese of El Paso Lifts Restrictions to Allow Funeral Masses
The Rio Grande Catholic                                                      Foundation News                                                                    March 2021 - 7

Welcome Home to the Sacred Heart of Jesus Statue
By Sofia Larkin                                                                                                                                       for a larger church. When Bishop
Major Gifts Coordinator                                                                                                                               Anthony Schuler, S.J. became
                                                                                                                                                      the first bishop of El Paso in
   There was an outpouring of                                                                                                                         November 1915, he announced
grief when the St. Patrick Ca-                                                                                                                        his intentions to make St. Patrick
thedral Sacred Heart statue was                                                                                                                       the Cathedral. On November 12,
vandalized last fall. Shock and                                                                                                                       1916, Bishop Schuler blessed
sadness brought together donors                                                                                                                       the cornerstone and the site of
from all over the country who felt                                                                                                                    the altar was marked by a large
compelled to pray and to give.                                                                                                                        wooden cross. On November
   The vandalism of the 8-foot                                                                                                                        19, 1917, the finished St. Patrick
statue of the Sacred Heart of                                                                                                                         Church was officially designated
Jesus at the historic St. Patrick                                                                                                                     by Bishop Schuler as the Cathe-
Cathedral on September 15,                                                                                                                            dral for the Diocese of El Paso.
2020 left many concerned that                                                                                                                            The Catholic Foundation is
the statue could not be repaired.                                                                                                                     helping to oversee the distribu-
So many members of the faithful                                                                                                                       tion of donations intended to
had looked to the Sacred Heart,                                                                                                                       support the Cathedral Sacred
his arms open wide in welcome,                                                                                                                        Heart Statue Fund and the parish,
for almost 90 years during some                                                                                                                       and extends its sincere appre-
of the most joyful and chal-         8ft Statue of the Sacred Heart of Jesus vandalized in October has been restored and awaiting arrival at St.      ciation to all who contributed
lenging times in their lives, and    Patrick Cathedral. Photo Courtesy of Daparto Rigali Studios, Chicago, Illinois                                   in any amount and prayed for
the thought of its destruction                                                                                                                        the statue’s restoration and safe
and possible replacement was                                                                                                                          return, especially the St. Patrick
difficult to accept. The statue                                                                                                                       Cathedral community and lead-
has been at the Cathedral almost     back to the Cathedral was more       saying they first had to reinforce    restoration of the statue, shipping   ership. Once again, the Diocese
as far back as the dedication        complicated than it was getting it   the body to the base and then the     costs, repair of the damaged altar,   of El Paso came together in faith
ceremony which took place on         to Chicago when the statue was       head to the base. At that point,      and contribute to an upgraded         to overcome pain and obstacles
Thanksgiving Day, November           broken and in pieces.                they sculpted a new hand, arm,        security system at St. Patrick        from a place of compassion and
29, 1917.                               Elizabeth (Lisa) Rigali, the      and face. The statue masters          Cathedral.                            forgiveness.
   The Sacred Heart was shipped      director of art and design at        pieced together all of the cracked      Located on the Northeast               Happy St. Patrick’s Day!
to Daprato Rigali Studios in         Daprato Rigali Studios who           pieces of plaster and once the        corner of Mesa and Arizona, the          For more information, to
Chicago for repair on October 8,     spearheads many of their painting    statue was intact, they cleaned       Cathedral is a work of art and        discuss the giving that best suits
2020. It was the Daprato Broth-      projects and is one of the four      the entire thing and sealed it with   an historic landmark. Plans to        you and your family, and to
ers, today Daprato Rigali Studios,   4th generation owners of Daprato     surface painting. The statue was      build the church of St. Patrick       notify the Catholic Foundation
founded in 1860, who made the        Rigali Studios, shared that it was   painted in traditional colors and     originated with the Irish Cath-       of your plans, please contact
original statue. The same com-       a great pleasure and honor to        sealed with a finish coat.            olic community in El Paso in          Major Gifts Officer Sofía Larkin
pany lovingly restored the statue    restore the statue of the Sacred        Many donors contributed a          1908 when parishioners at Holy        at slarkin@elpasodiocese.org or
and prepared it for its journey      Heart of Jesus. She detailed the     total of $38,549 to the Cathedral     Family Church, formerly St.           915.433.2003.
home. Shipping the Sacred Heart      painstaking restoration process      Heart Statue Fund to support          Mary Chapel, began to fundraise

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Major Gifts Coordinator

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to memorialize and to honor or       online donation form itself: “In     it in person or in your sympathy      parish, school or ministry fund of    discuss the giving that best suits
recognize special occasions like     memory of...” or “In honor of...”    or congratulatory note: “We’ve        the donor’s choice.                   you and your family, and to
weddings, baptisms, First Holy       Include your address, as well,       remembered Maria with a con-             The Foundation will send an        notify the Catholic Foundation
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   When you make a donation          ment.                                   Tax-deductible contributions       being honored or memorialized.        at slarkin@elpasodiocese.org or
include a note saying whom it          If you want to be sure that        can be made to the Catholic           It’s a wonderful and meaningful       915.433.2003.
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RIO GRANDE CATHOLIC Diocese of El Paso Lifts Restrictions to Allow Funeral Masses
8 - The Rio Grande Catholic                                                                                                                                      March 2021
SIDEWALK JESUS

                Will Things Ever Go Back To Normal?
                                    muffle our words. I don’t even        help us realize the inner strength      “What did we learn?” Sonia        words, do we go back to eating
                                    know if I heard the teacher’s         we possess which enables us to       asked.                               the cookies and just forget about
                                    lesson right and we’re having a       resist bigger temptations. Lent is      “Jobs, bills, homes, these are    this year-long period of sacri-
                                    quiz tomorrow. I can’t hang out       about eliminating obstacles that     facts of life,” Mom began, “but      fice? Or do we learn from our
                                    with my friends. We can’t go          keep us from living the life God     sometimes things happen that         experiences?”
                                    anywhere to have fun. It’s been       wants for us as well as doing        affect them. People lose their          “Exactly!” beamed her moth-
                                    over a year, Mom! When will           more to get back on the path         jobs and can’t pay their bills and   er. “For some, the hardship has
                                    things get back to normal?”           that will bring us closer to Him.    might even lose their homes.         been severe, and they will still
Janet M. Crowe                         “Oh, is that Normal with a         But when Lent is over, you’ll        Do we just sit back and watch        need help after restrictions ease
                                    capital N or just normal nor-         go back to eating cookies again.     and cluck our tongues over their     and things open up again. For
                                    mal?” Mom teased, trying to           Will you be any closer to God?”      misfortune? Church is more than      those of us whose difficulties
                                    lighten the mood.                        “Mom,” groaned Sonia, “I’m        a building; it’s a group of people   have been less hard to bear, will
   Sonia slammed the front door        “You’re so funny, Mom,”            tired, just make your point          worshipping together and sup-        we make the effort to help those
behind her and stomped down         Sonia groaned sarcastically.          already.”                            porting one another spiritually.     who are still in need? Or will
the hall. Throwing her backpack        Seeing her daughter longingly         “What I’m saying is that Lent     We’ve missed that togetherness       we claim that things are back
on the kitchen floor, she ripped    eyeing the cookie the jar, Mom        is a failure if we just end our      and mutual support, but have we      to normal and shake our heads
off her facemask and tossed it      handed a plate of carrot and cel-     sacrifices and stop our extra        learned that we need to take that    when people need help? We can
on the washing machine before       ery sticks along with a bowl of       activities and go back to the way    spiritual support outside of the     curse the darkness or we can be
plopping down in the chair with     peanut butter to her teenager.        we were before.”                     walls of the church building and     a light in the dark. It’s up to us
a disgusted grunt.                     “Thanks, Mom,” sighed Sonia,          “Okay,” moaned Sonia, “but        spread our love and our faith to     to decide how we want to face
   Her mother had listened to the   dipping celery into the peanut        how does that relate to this         others where they are in need?”      tomorrow.”
slamming door and stomping          butter.                               tiresome pandemic? When will            “I’m still not sure I under-         “Rather than going Back, with
feet and watched the slumping          “Honey, why did you give up        things go back to Normal, with a     stand,” Sonia said.                  a capital B, to Normal,” Sonia
form of her daughter who had        cookies for Lent?” Mom asked.         capital N?”                             “Isolation has been the norm      smiled, “we need to be moving
collapsed in the kitchen chair.     “I mean, giving up cookies isn’t         “You’re right, this past year     for the past year,” Mom ex-          Forward with not just a capital
It would have been impossible       going to bring you any closer to      has been difficult,” Mom agreed,     plained. “We definitely want to      F but with capital expressions
to interpret her teenager’s mood    God.”                                 “but things are never going to       return to a time when we can get     of ongoing Help and Love for
for anything but weariness and         “Oh, Mom,” answered Sonia,         go back to the way they were,        together with others. However,       those who will continue to need
disgust. However, she smiled        “that’s not all I’m doing. You        and we shouldn’t want or expect      have we learned from this expe-      assistance.”
and asked, “Hi, honey, did you      know I like to do a small sacri-      them to go back to what we           rience how difficult isolation can      “Forward, not back,” Mom
have a good day?”                   fice along with reading the Bible     once considered to be normal.        be for people? When things open      agreed, “which will put us on the
   “Good day!” exclaimed her        or doing extra good works to          Hopefully, we have learned           back up again, there will still      path that God has chosen for us
daughter. “Mom, are you totally     help others. You go to adoration      something from this past year.       be people who have no support        to walk and will lead us closer
clueless? I am so sick of this …    each week along with a daily ro-      Things happened that opened          system, or who are afraid to ask     to Him.”
this … this tiresome pandemic.      sary. Why do you do that? I ask       our eyes, things that made us        for help. Will we go back to our        “Let’s get walking, Mom,” So-
I can’t talk to my friends except   even though I know the answer         cry, things that made us reassess    merry ways or have we learned        nia said, grabbing a couple more
from six feet away. Do you          because I know you aren’t really      our priorities. There is no more     from our own isolation that we       carrots. “I’m sure there are ways
know how difficult it is to talk    just changing the subject. You’re     Normal with a capital N any-         should be reaching out to others     we can help right now. Normal
about boys when you have to         sneaky that way.”                     more. We have to make a new          to help them?”                       is overrated, let’s move Forward
shout to make yourself heard,          Mom laughed and said,              normal, just a regular normal,          With a thoughtful wrinkle         and be a Light instead.”
especially with these stupid        “You’re right. We’ve often            out of the things we experienced     in her brow, Sonia looked at
masks? No one understands           talked about how small sacrifices     and the things we learned.”          her mother and said, “In other
what we’re saying because they

MAKING SENSE OF BIOETHICS

                                               The “Quality of Life” Error
                                    computer programmer named             was simple:                          and perhaps “quality of help”        benefit or is unduly burden-
                                    John Peyton (1945-2009). He              “I have a marvelous quality       judgments against ourselves.         some. It should not be because
                                    lived in Kent, Washington, and        of life! Right now I am totally         As such, our focus should be      we conclude that someone’s life
                                    had an unusually aggressive           dependent. I can do nothing for      on the benefits and burdens of       itself lacks value and needs to
                                    form of amyotrophic lateral           myself. I’m effectively para-        a proposed medical interven-         end.
                                    sclerosis, or ALS, commonly           lyzed. But I have a family. I        tion rather than on trying to           Individuals struggling with
                                    known as Lou Gehrig’s disease.        have friends. I have my church       impose our own conclusion that       grave ailments, even though
                                    The disease made him totally          community. I have loving             certain individuals no longer        they may be very compromised
 Fr. Tad Pacholczyk                 dependent on Patricia, his wife       support all around me. I don’t       have enough value or meaning         and unable to act as their own
                                    of 40 years. She dressed him,         understand how anyone could          in their lives to merit receiving    decision makers, remain per-
                                    fed him, and regularly shifted        deny that I have a very high         a particular treatment. Their        sons of great moral worth. They
   During “serious illness          his body position in the living       quality of life, and it gets me to   humanity is violated if they         contribute to the common good
conversations,” some doctors        room recliner where he spent          understand and be compassion-        are treated according to their       simply by being, rather than by
will ply their patients with        his declining months.                 ate toward those without the         functionality or quality of life,    doing or choosing. Moreover,
this question: “What is your           As Peyton’s once-strong            support that I have. Rather than     rather than according to their       they continually call each of us
minimally acceptable quality of     voice gradually began to fade         giving them the temptation to        personal dignity.                    to a higher and more beautiful
life?”                              away, he continued to use it          kill themselves, we should be           Of course everyone has a          standard of full acceptance,
   Behind the question can be       publicly to oppose and lobby          trying to figure out how to help     certain natural fear or hesita-      loving support and authentic
the implication that if patients    against Initiative 1000, the          them to have the quality of life     tion when it comes to living         care, even and especially in the
are experiencing a low quality      assisted suicide initiative in        I enjoy.”                            in a disabled or compromised         midst of very challenging medi-
of life, their medical treatments   Washington.                              Peyton’s answer cuts to the       state. We may also be afraid         cal circumstances. They raise
can be discontinued because            When he was interviewed by         heart of the matter: if anyone       of “being a burden to others.”       the bar for us and we should
their life has become “no lon-      Laura Ingraham of Fox News,           who is sick or dying is facing       When we acknowledge that the         respond by elevating their qual-
ger worth living.”                  he said, “I’m one of those            a low quality of life, we should     gift of life has “absolute value,”   ity of life.
   This can even become a           people who is somewhat of a           take steps to raise and improve      that doesn’t mean we must do            Rev. Tadeusz Pacholczyk,
shorthand to justify actions like   target of the initiative and I        it. His story also reminds us        absolutely everything scientif-      Ph.D. earned his doctorate in
physician-assisted suicide or       don’t know how we as a society        how the one-sided category           ically available to maintain it,     neuroscience from Yale and did
euthanasia. Making quality of       could really consider making          of “quality of life” can easily      but it does mean that we should      post-doctoral work at Harvard.
life assessments about our-         doctors into killers.”                tempt us in the wrong direction      exercise good stewardship            He is a priest of the diocese of
selves or others can lead us to        Laura countered: “John, I          when it comes to basic moral         over it, making use of ordinary      Fall River, MA, and serves as
devalue the gift of human life      think a lot of people who are         duties owed to our loved ones        means of treatment and receiv-       the Director of Education at
by insisting it must have a cer-    for this type of assisted suicide     in compromised states like a         ing supportive care, even in the     The National Catholic Bioeth-
tain amount of “quality” before     would say, ‘Look, what about          coma, ALS, stroke, Alzheimers,       face of imminent decline.            ics Center in Philadelphia. See
it can be deemed “meaningful”       the quality of life?’ ‘Look, you      or dementia.                            It also means the decision        www.ncbcenter.org and www.
or “worthwhile.”                    know, people suffering like you          Instead of making quality of      to refuse or stop a particular       fathertad.com.
   The clearest rebuttal of         — what kind of quality of life        life judgments about people, we      medical treatment should be
the “Quality of Life” error         do you really have?’ What do          should be making “quality of         based on the judgment that the
I’ve come across was from           you say to those people?”             treatment” judgments for those       treatment itself is extraordinary,
a 64-year-old retired Boeing           His reply was as brilliant as it   who are ailing and vulnerable,       that is to say, it offers minimal
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